Friday Narratives don land!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
LEFT IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE
Please I need advice Stella I'm a pretty young girl who apart from being nice and God fearing,I also have a very attractive figure to die for now my story goes like this I just entered school abroad and as usual different guys are already coming around me especially the rich ones which I don't even know why but this particular Yoruba guy was really around me he's 26 while I'm 20 I really liked him he was always there for me showed me love he seems to care about me though I haven't agreed to date him he insisted on me giving him a chance.
...Then there's this my friend that came from Nigeria so I told her about him and all he's doing for me and she told me he was her ex and even told me what happened between them in the past she told me his ex girlfriend slapped her and humiliated her actually fought her and so on and that he's a flirt and all sorts and advised me to do away with him and in fact used her hand to delete him off my bbm, whatsapp ,snapchat etc he confronted me and I told him I didn't want him around anymore cause I don't want dramas well he told me he knows she already told me bad things about him and that judging a book by its cover won't take me anywhere in life well he got upset I felt guilty and worried I fact I even regretted treating him that way but he let me be.
Yesterday evening I was taking a stroll and he saw me and parked to talked to me then along he asked of her cause he knows we are neighbors I said she was in her room and I called her so she could say hi then they talked...now to my surprise she's telling me she wants to give him a chance get close to him and beg him to help her sort some financial issues out I'm like huh ?*mouth open* I don't know what to say to myself I don't want to have issues with my friend but I don't understand if she used me to settle with him fellow bvs please who has been in my situation what do I do cause I'm eating myself up slowly.
I dont have much to say but my dear stay away from that neighbour you call friend,snake in the green grass...WTF!
My dear face your studies ooooh.I know you are old enough to date but you dont need this drama right now.
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN THE FEELING OF REVENGE SETS IN
Hello Stella,how are you doing..there is something I would really like to discuss with fellow BV's cause I really need to get this off my mind
As a little girl,my mum would always drop me with her elder sister who has kids,grown up kids ..(my cousins).she comes back to her town to pick me up from her sisters place every Friday after work.
I was made to do all the hard work and even serve the ones that are of same age with me..that wasn't even a problem to me cos I was trained a hard worker..I was around 6/7 years old and I remember everything like it's yesterday...
My older cousin (girl)who was about 20 years then will wake me up every God given night and ask me to lick her pussy..i still remember her telling me to swallow everything...in the dark there,i will spit it all out and if am caught I get a hard knock on my head...I still feel the pain of it like it is happening now!!
We continued like that till my mum got a place in her place of work..i couldn't tell my mum all this cos I was always left in the care of this my cousin who made it a duty to remind me what will happen to me if anyone gets to hear about it ..today I feel like my life is not going the way I want it!! I didn't turn out a lesbian but I've tried touching girls but it's not my thing!!
My cousin is now married with 3 daughters and one part of me want to do same thing to one of her daughters.i still hate her a lot..i am doing well now and whenever she asks for assistance I just give her excuse even if I don't have anything to do with money...
How do I get this off my chest??will I feel better if I do same to her daughter??I can't even do it to her daughter cause they love me so much as their Aunty.. ..typing this alone hurts me so much....
Maybe a confrontation with her will help!!!....Silly cousin!...She is probably doing same to her Daughters now every night,OMG!
Call her out abeg and remember that after you confront her she might wait a while and look for a way to accuse you of touching her daughters so be watchful of her and if possible stay away
Jesus fix it!!!
ReplyDelete********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Stella that's a bit too far... How can you say she may be doing the same thing to her own daughter. I really don't know what to say.... What a disgrace for your cousin to do that... I really think you should confront her once and for all
DeletePoster one, cut off all ties with that girl, she's not your friend at all!
DeleteShe discouraged you from dating a guy and is now expressing interest in the same guy openly, even asking for your help! I wonder why you didn't confront her on her wanting to rekindle her friendship with the same person she asked you not to date.
Those kind of people have no conscience, they will hurt you and feel nothing so better keep away.
Leave the guy for her too, and face your studies.
You said you're good looking, and get a lot of male attention, so why you wan die on top that particular guy matter?
Poster 2, you need closure, you will not get closure by preying on children, so get that out of your mind.
Call a meeting, with your mum and the cousin in question and detail everything you remember about the sexual abuse you suffered in the hands of this cousin.
You are not looking for an apology from her here, you just need to know that it's out in the open and you will feel better afterwards.
If she denies it, simply tell her that if you're telling the truth about your ordeal, then the same thing or worse will befall her daughters and if you're lying then let the reverse be the case.
Pray for closure too.
Poster 2! Don't lick anybodys pussy ooo unless mine sha *big grin*
Delete*dat messed up silly girl*
Odi
DeleteYou would continue to be messed up and silly
Better change your confessions
Amarom ihe n'eme umuaka ugbua
Poster 1 :
DeleteRun away from that girl after duly confronting her
Let her know how dissapointed you are with her
Then be free with the guy , not necessarily in a relationship.
Just be nice
Poster 2 : forgive her
Forgive her please
You can also tell your mum especially after all the threats .
Let her know your mum knows about it
Tell only yoir mum
Then leave her kids out of it please
Parents parents .....be sensitive and very careful
Very very sensitive
No one is to be trusted
Be very close to your daughters and sons
Poster 1 :
DeleteWhile you are it , sharpen your English abeg
I had to go and re read it.
Odi ka ebe oke na ochicha na alu ogu.
Hian!
*walks away*
On another note, how can someone write a whole paragraph without any punctuations? No commas, no full stops. It's a pity!
DeletePoster 2. For the sake of God and the innocent children ur cuz bore, don't let history repeat itself whilst u seek vengeance. Cos you'lld be scaring another girl's future for life, just as it was done u, unfortunately. I'm sure that u wouldn't wish your present state of mind on the poor girl in future.
DeleteOnly u know how it hurts to be around a family member that molested u and took advantage of ur childhood. Please I beg of u again, seek vengeance with ur wicked cuz direct, and not tru another innocent child. Let's put a stop to the despicable chain of molesting kids.. don't let yourself be a part of it.
You stand blameless today. But wouldn't be blameless if u repeat the same thing on another child. She's an idiot and u should expose her. Above all... pray to God to wipe away the memories that linger from ur mind. Very annoying.
Princess Scheherazade I really don't agree with her coursing her cousins kids, the kids are innocent and why will they pay for their mother's sins. Pls confront their Mum and leave them out of it.
DeletePrincess Scheherazade I really don't agree with her coursing her cousins kids, the kids are innocent and why will they pay for their mother's sins. Pls confront their Mum and leave them out of it.
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteI hope poster 1 listens to people advice cos a lot of times despite all said we end up doin what we really want ...just pls remember your success bfr any man at all.
DeleteXoxo mystery why??? How did you get entangled with such shitty stories? Not that I'm your biggest fan but I'm shocked at that 'expose'. If you know someone knows your dark side, why fight dirty? You'll only end up soiled in the mud.
DeleteGreetings to you all.
Stella how are you?
In your opinion you made lots of sense, Hmmmm
DeleteGod dey
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I still don't get why you mentioned you have a lovely face but get this..... That friend of yours used you to get back to her ex. Even if you want to forget the guy and face your studies, make sure you cause katakata between and that evil burst first...
DeleteYvette ... The truth u said. . She s just a greedy person. . I dunno why girls aint just contented with what they have..
DeletePoster 2.. I say you try. . Licking pussy..
I think a confrontation will do.. then you cut her off.. forget that phrase which says blood is thicker than water. .
@Poster1 pls my dear it's a little too early to engage urself in a drama that is not academics related... or don't u agree with me? please stay off this dating thing for now and focus on ur studies, i don't think ur parents that spent their hand earned money to send u abroad for studies would be happy to hear u have swayed from the original goals... and by the way this is just a sign that.. if u mix dating and studies it may not work out well.. and do not also forget to stay away from ur sly bitch evil of a friend.. she doesn't possess the qualities of a friend at all let alone good friend. God bless!
Delete@Poster2 my dear God will bless you..God has brought u this far to ur present level and status through all that.. He won't let u down now... here are what u should do.. listen this my advice is not an option it is rather a recommendation or u can also call it prescription... ok.. see, sit ur mun down.. tell her everything.. i am happy u are an adult now, afterwards call that aut abi cousin of urs and let her have piece of ur mind.. tell.her to explain to u why she was doing all that to u? and then let the rest of the family know why it is highly unsafe to trust ur cousin with their kids... . infact that is the morals of ur chronicles.. never trust anyone else but urself.. just go ahead and hit her with her dirty past.. let the thought haunt her for the rest of her miserable life...
What is d point telling ur mum now @poster2 when u couldn't tell her years ago?imo it will only traumatise the woman!
DeleteThis ur cousin needs to be dealt with personally,...dont even know wat to say cos I am disgusted.but u too were a coward for too long!how can u be so scared of someone that u can't tell?well maybe cos I am fortunate not to be a timid person from childhood,so it helped me escape a lot of harassment of different forms!well sorry abt wat happened to u.let her be,nemesis will definitely catch up with her,dats why God gave her 3gals like u in preparation!
Poster1,u don't have a friend!that gal told u stuffs abt d guy,and also told him stuffs abt u dats why he was comfortable enuf to ask u of her!u are too young for all dese bf wahala.let them be and pls keep off that gal.
Na wah oo.. let me read comments biko
ReplyDeleteP1: It's a good thing you let the guy go because one way or another they would have ended up hooking up. I don't think you should lose sleep over it, you're young, and you've got time to meet someone else who hasn't hooked up with your neighbour or friend.
DeleteP2. I can't pretend that I understand what you've been through. I can only ask you to forgive her but confront her first. Tell her you remember what she did to you but you've forgiven her. Let her conscience deal with her. I won't be surprised if she becomes paranoid, and that in it self is punishment enough.
Poster 2. You really need to forgive her and let it go. Was in a similar situation with my cousin who stayed with us when I was young and that caused me to do same to my baby sister. I kneeled down and asked my sis to forgive me and she did. Our relationship is now better. Forgiven my cousin was even her chief bridesmaid. It kind of messed up stuff for me, went to boarding school and the same happened and I couldn't say no.
DeleteAnytime I get those bad thoughts I immediately think of something else.
My dear, it would make matter worse. Discuss with her if you must bit pray to God to give you the grace to forgive her and you will.
ReplyDelete*spreads dollar crested rug*
The Chronicles is here
Slim Shady is here to read comments
Lemme go bak n read d chronicles!
Brb
All you do is spread rug nd book space.
DeleteTry to be reasonable attimes.
Space booked with barb wires.
ReplyDeletestrutting in and occupying the space.
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ReplyDelete@ poster 2, do you guys want to turn to 'Pussy Licking Family'? If u do same to her daughters and when you have yours they will do same back to yours...confront her and 'Let It Go'
DeleteI hate chronicles. It gives me jiedi-jiedi (dysentery).
ReplyDeleteThank you Jesus...
Poster one because you act like a child and you are still a child they will use you to play tennis.
ReplyDeleteStay away from both of them and their misguided stupidity
Poster two, confront her and report her for Child abuse if you are brave enough it is because victims keep silent that is why abuse thrives
Simple
DeletePoster 1: friends don't date their friend's exes! You are the intruder. What did you expect her to tell you? You should be happy sef. Okafor law must enter if you go ahead to date him. She dated him before you met him. Once she told you so, you should have cut him off on your own sef. She is not a bad friend abeg. She's just a friend still not over her ex. Move on to your plenty toasters with your figure to die for at 20yrs old.
DeleteWhat a world! Poster 2, u should confront her. She is stupid and God will punish her.
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ReplyDeleteHahaha! Where have you been? I've missed your bluntness. Lol.
DeleteOh brother!!
DeleteLMAO!!
Lmaooooo you're the bomb! Three BV's in the penultimate paragraph of your comment. Hehehehehehe
DeleteThat's why I like my fellow men... Everything is a joke.
DeleteLol @ the most sexiest mother , sorry jare ''handsomest'' mother..
Seems someone has bowed to pressure and taken correction... That's good
Scofferscrib. I changed the name because i want to and not because any one asked me to do so. No body is above mistake and besides i didnt study english language in school. What i studied was public health. Am not the type that get worked up over peoples opinion about me cos you know what sweet heart? It doesnt count. I do what makes me happy and i take corrections that comes with love and not full of harsh words. Ok bye am out.
Deletedon't faint yet
Delete...you made some errors up there, go check, correct them and then faint all you like.
*wink*
Wink wink
DeleteI don't know what you all are talking about oh. I didn't write anything
Delete*sips hot chocolate*
Scofferscrib Mo how are you
Delete@MMYFLOWWS, man up to your actions. You wrote something and deleted it. You no be man at all. @ DOMINA, am cool jare...
Delete@The sexiest if you know this money makes of a guy you won't even bother responding to him. He's an intelligent trouble maker. Lol. Don't mind him Nne.
Delete@1, point of correction, dat girl is not ur friend ok, since other rich guys are asking you out I will suggest u distance ursef from both of them, dat girl can set u up if u insist on dating dat guy, u are too young for all this drama abeg.
ReplyDelete@2, revenge is sweet but I will advice u forget abt it and stay away from her and her children, stop talking to her cos d more u do it will keep reminding u of wat she did to u.
Poster 1, dt ur frnd is up to something,
ReplyDeleteIf she advised you to stay away from him, and u did, why then Is she still I'm contact with him?
Biko confront her and hear she has to say,
Be wise dear.
Na wa ooo....plz don't take ur revenge on the innocent kid
ReplyDeletePoster one, face ur studies....calmly remove urself from that love triangle.
ReplyDeletePoster two call her out jor!
Nonsense cousin!
Remind her every damn thing in detail....
But don't do it to her daughters!
Just call her out n 'talk am as e dey pepper u for body so'.
Finish!
Will read comments jare!
ReplyDeleteNot a hot narrative. ....need something hot.
Pst1. Your neighbor obviously wanted ur bf from day 1. Wait u allowed her delete him on bbm nd oda social networks Hian. Dundie!!! . Pst 2. Trust me doing same to her daughter won't make you feel better. I think you should remind her u still remember. Then cut all ties wit her for sometime so she would really feel the guilt. Then Forgive her cos that's the only way you can get closure
ReplyDeleteStella's advices are on point
ReplyDeletePoster1 learn leave that boy abi
ReplyDeletePoster2 tell your family
POSTER 2, DONT REVENGE U MAY NT KNW WATS APPENIN TO DOSE GRLS ALRDY.BT CAL HER OUT AND EXPRESS UR PAINS, SOME PPLE CAN MISBHAVE TODAY FORGETIN ABT TOMOROW..
ReplyDeletePOSTER 1.DONT MYN DT UR FRND/NEGHBR WU THNKS SHES SMART.MOVE ON WIT UR STUDIES FOR NOW ITS BETTER SHE DID WAT SHE DID CUZ U WUDNT KNW IF DE GUY WUD VE LEFT U BEFORE NOW.HIM OR ANY GUD ONE WIL COME IN DUE TYM BT MEK SURE U STUDY HRD TO HAVE GUD GRADES.#MYOPINION#...TOMJERRYSWIT
Stop...*fumes*.....writing in Capital letters!!!!!!!@@@##$#@###
Deletewhat are you typing?
DeleteGod is alive!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 why will you even allow that your neighbor to delete the guy from your BBM? Are u a mumu? Girls never teach you lesson abi? I'm very sure she has told the guy a lot of bad things about you cos she's probably jealous. Toor I think u should sort things out with the guy to know what's up.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 confront her and ask her why she did that to u..tufiakwa I won't forgive her if it's me
Na to read comments be my own today..
ReplyDeleteabeg bv with dollar crusted mat..make i join u.
1. You are naive, from your age it shows that your so called friend has used your head..
ReplyDelete2. Forgive and forget..but pple wicked sha,hw can ur cousin make u lick her fafus chaiiiii...wetin person nor go hear
Hmmm.. The things I read here
ReplyDeleteNarrative Number one: Are you a learner? When it comes to relationship stuff, ur fellow females aren't welcome except male frnds, then
ReplyDeleteNarrative Number two : Plz make a family meeting between both parents and let ur pastor be there then make ur confession of the past btw you and her to them and let them know it doesn't go well with you each time u remember those incident and not always pleased with her so u feel like saying it out to cease it away frm ur mind. Then never u feel like touching females because u know why? Sure feelings are from the pit of hell. Stay well and always remain blessed
Why my mama no marry Dangote sef? Whr she been de when dangote de find wife, mtcheeew, I de vex for her, by now u knw whr I for de? She go marry for love, who love don help?
ReplyDeleteMaybe you for dey rehabilitation centre or maybe dead by now.
DeleteThank God foe your life.
Anon 5;15
DeleteE don almost reach ur domot.
We go see wu u sef go marry, may we ear wetin ur pikin go com tlk.
Lmaooo
DeleteLol @pinkshell
DeleteN1, mind ur biz o, friends like that are killers. N2, don't do o, devil is a liar, u won't even forgive urself if u do.
ReplyDeletePoster one that your friend is a bad friend. She does not want you to date him but she wants him to herself. Flee from her.
ReplyDeleteposter two confront her. The reason you are still feeling hurt is because you allowed her get away with it.
P1 them with their drama and move on. Plenty fish full for sea.
ReplyDeleteP2 pray about it, confront her, forgive her and let it go. Whatever you do please do not take it out on her kids.
*leave them
DeletePoster one ,you dey fight with punctuations? anyway,your "FRIEND" used you! how will you allow a person have so much control over you?even if you do not want the guy,it should be on your own terms not hers! you cannot even access my phones talk more of having the guts to delete stuff..na crase?!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, i dey vex abeg. let me calm down before i say anything because,the way i feel now,i can tell you to drown or brutally circumcize all her daughters...so abeg, i dey come.
Poster 1. My little advice is for you to be careful of that lady friend and as for dating, that is up to you but it will be better you just face your studies for now.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Dont do such to her daughter. Revenge is left for God. Just talk to your cousin. She might apologise to you and then. Pray and move on. Forgive her. Thats all i have to say.
Poster one,
ReplyDeleteSo you school abroad, yet you don't know how to put full stop and coma?
Make I continue for my Unilag de go...
LMAO!
DeleteHahahahahahahahahhahahaha...
DeleteThis blog and comedy oh!!!
Unilag student, Na comma abeg, but I wondered the same thing too.
Lol! Smh!
DeleteWhy evils na ????
DeleteBuhahahaha
Deletewow why do nigerian trained graduates have inferiority complex?
DeleteRevenge is best served cold. Too many issues everywhere
ReplyDeletePoster one, for the friend to use her hand and delete his contacts from your phone, you should have known that the babe will be the over jealous type. Imagine, deleting his contacts from your phone, hmm. Well, talk to the guy if u really do like him and know how sincere he is. But beware of ur 'friend,' unfriendly her if possible sef. Yeah, face your books too.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...@ Poster one... Pls pls and pls... Stay away from that so-called friend of yours o! I know the likes of them cos I had an experience with one when I was single...and if u love the guy, stick to him, cos friends like this will go behind u and play the 'saint' while giving u a bad name. Trust me, a lot of girls are good schemers and traitors... Don't be confused! And do not break up with that guy cause of what the girl told u.... Meanwhile, did u sit with the guy to ask him questions about those things ur 'friend' said about him? There may be more of lies in her story. All d best with FRIENDS!
ReplyDelete@ Poster two, I'm so sorry u went thru that. This is one of the things I pray about everyday, that God would not allow anything crop up that would make me leave my kids to live with someone else.... Most times, u can't even trust 'family'.
A friend of mine in d university, told me in confidence that her aunt who had been living with them, also did same with her. And she grew up feeling it was 'normal'... She continiued with her immediate younger sister every night in their room... Till they went to the univ (different universities). She discovered her sis became cold towards her, but didn't openly express her displeasure. My friend knew the possible cause of her sis' 'coldness'... When she confided in me, she said she was scared of talking abt it... I told her to call her sister and talk one on one, explain EVERYTHING, and sincerely apologise. They r good together now!...
Pls, whatever happens, don't do it with her daughters. If confronting her would make u feel some relief, then, at all cost, do it! It is well with u dear.
Poster 1# That your friend can kill you, please stay clear from her. Please face your studies for now, to pay tuition fee oversee no be beans oh nne, go make your people proud .
ReplyDeletePoster 2# Leave vengeance for God.
Confront her if want closure , if not just move on.
Poster 1... face your studies, and leave boys alone
ReplyDeletePoster 2... forgiveness is the only balm you need to soothe your wounds. If you can, meet up with your cousin and trash it out with her... that should help. Please, leave the kids alone...they deserve nothing but your love
Na wah... the things we hear & read everyday
ReplyDeleteHmmm
@ poster one;when i first read the headline of your narrative;i thought you were in A huge mess and needed advice..only to read all that and am like "how is this A narrative"....
ReplyDeleteDoes this need much advice??
Look at your age once again dear,dont you think you are very young for all this you wanna put yourself through??
My advice;dont tell your friends everything about you next time,at least with that they wont have much info to back-stab you with..keep your relationship life private!!
Bydway i dont think your friend used you;i probably think she helped you to focus on your study more...#ThankHerLater....
@poster two;all i can tell you is "The sins of the children isn't suppose to follow his father"...
If you have any problem with the said cousin;resolve/revenge with the person in question..dont put those innocent kids through this!!
And just ask yourself this,HOW DOES THIS MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON if you make those little girls suck/lick your own Vagina??
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**The sins of the father isn't suppose to follow his children**
Delete#smiles..pele oo cos na only for exam i dey proof read..**wink**
@MARTINS ABOY
@Martins Aboy chop knuckles knuckle..
DeleteUr advice to poster 1 was on point...
@ poster 1 take dis advice..
Face ur studies oooo & live boyfriend & drama fr ur life for now.
Maintain ur lane..
Narrative 1, stay away from ur neighbour. She's far from what a friend means n pls,learn to punctuate!
ReplyDeletePoster 2
ReplyDeleteSorry for your experience with your cousin, can see how damaged and hurt you feel but you've got to go beyond this stage, all you actually need is closure and i'll suggest you do just two things:
1. Call her up and seek for a one-on-one conversation in a quiet environment, preferably at a park or anywhere away from home. Talk to her....tell her you feel bad and ask why she had to treat you that way then listen to her response....if she gets to apologize, take it....some people did crazy stuff during their years of adolescence, some for sexual satisfaction while some for outright show of superiority but that transitional period is a time people go astray and if lucky, retrace their step afterwards....She obviously recalls all that happened but most likely wouldn't raise it up cos its quite shameful to discuss.
2...Forgive and move on: Read the bible when you feel that urge to retaliate or whenever those memories flash through your mind.....Pls, the message is love...Peace and love. Don't hurt her kids cos you are only repeating the cycle and please get that crazy thought off your mind before it sits in and develops to a sexual urge....that's Paedophilia and you know we all frown at that. Wish you the best as you go through this recovery pathway....Get closure, forgive her, love her kids and also her as well...she is family and a peaceful family ROCKS....All the best.
Li-yon Vls.
Poster 1
DeletePretty young girl with a figure to die for...interesting. Swthrt, don't take it personal but I just wna add this...life, attraction, relationships and the dynamics that come with them goes beyond the physical, so, perfect yourself by making good grades/developing your talents and having your physical attraction as a perk that comes with the full package, k.
Since he's got history, I'ld have adviced you to correlate what you heard with his actions....but i won't. I'll rather advice you to stay off the drama. Please focus on your studies for now, settle in properly and then select your friends based on your values and their character....always select your friends and not the reverse(especially in d diaspora where you have all sorts of pple with questionable lifestyles). That way you can mitigate any form of unnecessary drama....sure you knw u've got to keep the neighbour at arm's length. Success in your academics
Li-yon Vls.
Odiegwu. My cousin abused me sexually when I was younger. The day I had a chance to change her daughters diaper, I made sure I used toothbrush to puncture her tiny punany each time until I created a visible hole. I just felt better when I did it. Yeye dey smell. When he was abusing me he dint know. Idiat. I also made sure I told him and he was mad but couldn't do anything. I felt so fulfilled
DeleteJesu Christi! You'd hurt an innocent baby over her dad's wrong doings to you?
DeleteAnonymous 18:15 , u are a wicked person
Deletejesus!!!!
Deleteanon 18:15 YOU ARE EVIL! !!!!!!!!!!!
What! @ anonymous, why did you hurt that innocent child ? You did the exact same thing that was done to you. What does that make you? Are you any different from your cousin?
DeleteAnony 18:15, u are EVIL!
DeleteThis anon, you are vrry wicked. It's a pitu u have continued this wickedness. God will surely punish you.
DeleteYou have descended to the level of your cousin
DeleteHow are you enjoying the gutter?
Gosh. Wicked anon.
DeleteOh dear, poster 2. So sorry about your experience. Here's my thought: now you two are grown, confront her. Sometimes, a little shouting can settle your mind once and for all. Please don't do so to her children. Just ask her to imagine what it would be like someone doing that same thing to her kids how she would feel. Revenge is not the best. The kids are innocent of her devilish acts
ReplyDeleteHmmn! Lemme start with P2...someone sometime preached about karma right here, but another wise sharp guy countered that maybe karma doesn't have everybody's address. Now, in as much as u'd want karma to have ur cousin's address, i'm not an advocate of 'visiting one's sins on the children'! Nope. Those her kids her innocent. They're ur little nieces. Thank God that ur turned out well despite her early manipulation. So even if Karma decides to visit her...Make e no be like sey na u write her address give karma.
ReplyDeleteNow to u P1... like Stella Kork said, give ya friend beta distance. Beta still cut the bobo loose as well. Make everything wey bite for night be mosquito.
NB: why do y'all try so hard to make us believe u're finer than mami water sef??? "I have a body men will die for"...And all that crap? Wetin concern us? And who ready to die for woman body in 2015 sef? Hian! Pls...u chroniclelers shd spare us such shallow details biko!
Ghanaman signing out!!!
She's only 20
DeleteWere you expecting in depth mental descriptions?
She's young cut her some slack
My 21 year old sister will say some things that make me SMH at its childish shallowness
Sadly it's a reflection of the where we put our emphasis on in today's society
A lot of men will tell you *they need babe wey carry front and back*
No mention of whether she get brain or sense
Poster2 I'm so angry at you cousin right now, wat is our society turning into? I think u should confront her and ask her y she did dt den. I think u need closure. Poster1 if I were you I will get back together with the guy, she thinks she's smart she just used ur head and u fell for it.
ReplyDeleteNarr1...Why do you people keep letting "friends" make decisions for you or talk you out of something as personal as a relationship? Ain't no body gonna pull that shit on me. She's a sly and you don't need that kind of person around you.
ReplyDeleteNarr2...Yes. Confront that your aunt. There's nothing to be scared of again honey. Let her know you remember everything. Let her know her own daughters are gonna suffer the same fate of what she made you go through. Let her know she molested you and you deserve an apology from her.
Tell your family members sef.
Narrative one so this one follow for chronicles too abi? Mtchewwww
ReplyDeleteNarrative 2 that ur cousin is devilish,flee from her and pray for urself
POster 1, I still don't get why you mentioned how lovely your shape is but hear this..... That friend of yours used you to get back to her ex. Even if you want to forget the guy and face your studies, make sure you cause katakata between him and that evil bitch...
ReplyDeleteP1: your friend is not your friend my friend. Face & slap your English teacher.
ReplyDeleteP2: confront her, remind her pls do not do anything to her kids. Confrontation alone will make her rethink. Maybe you can confront her in front of her hubby or your mom/her mom
Poster 1...fake frnd alert......poster2. .. confront her and beat a hell out of her
ReplyDeleteposter 1. Cut them offffffff, all of them. Just moveeeeeeee the hell on and dont look back. Get another guy, one who is wayyyyy better, richer and finer than that SOB. You know that saying? "the best from of revenge is massive success" be good at school and home, dress well and make new friends. That slimy friend of your would die of jealousy...
ReplyDeleteposter 2. Do you see her often? if yes, get on her nerves (you need to see my face now, angry much)disrespect her, do all sorts to annoy the daylight out of her. Let people begin to ask questions, make her restless and perturbed. If she asks you anything, tell her to search her heart and conscience then storm out immediately... i want you to drain her emotionally, torture her the way she has done to you. She was the one who abused you, so leave her innocent daughters out of it. By the time you are done with her, you will feel light, trust me.
Be strong girl
lol i like this your advice to poster 2 oh but i wan poster 2 to add slap to the above and then forgive her
DeletePoster 1, u don't need all dz ish right now. That niqqa might be a player for giving up on you easily. And ur friend is still into him. So abeg, face ur studies.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 what u need is closure. Meet your coz, remind her everythg, scream, shout, and let it all out if u must She might feel remorseful and ask for forgiveness afterwards and she might not. But it shldnt bother u if she doesn't. Trust me it'll make U feel better. But don't u dare revenge on her kids. It ain't worth it. U should even be happy that u didn't turn out a lesbo. Coz 70% of females that were abused this way turned out lesbos
Hian, what is d world turning into sef. @
ReplyDeleteP2 I think u should just talk to her. Let her know that u still remember all those things she did to u way back and how u feel and pls find a place in ur heart to forgive her.
P1, free both of them cos they will only use and dump U. My opinion.
@ poster 2:jeez
ReplyDeletePoster 1, just face your studies and please learn how to use punctuation marks.
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2: DO NOT BRING INNOCENTS INTO THIS AT ALL. THE ONLY PERSON KEEPING YOU FROM BEING HAPPY, JOYFUL AND FULFILLED IN LIFE IS YOU! HAVEN'T YOU PRAYED THIS LINE TODAY;
ReplyDelete"FATHER FORGIVE US OUR SINS AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO SINNED AGAINST US . . ."
SO IF YOU DO NOT FORGIVE THIS SISTER OF YOURS, SHE IS NOT THE ONE SUFFERING; YOU ARE THE ONE SUFFERING, IMPRISONING YOURSELF FOR NOTHING. THIS LADY IS NOT YOUR ENEMY; YOUR ENEMY IS SATAN BUT EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER THIS LADY COUSIN OF YOURS YOUR ENEMY, LOOK AT THIS SCRIPTURE . . .
Rom 12: 19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,
“I will take revenge;
I will pay them back,”g
says the LORD.
20Instead,
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them.
If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap
burning coals of shame on their heads.”h
21Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.
POSTER 2: DO NOT BRING INNOCENTS INTO THIS AT ALL. THE ONLY PERSON KEEPING YOU FROM BEING HAPPY, JOYFUL AND FULFILLED IN LIFE IS YOU! HAVEN'T YOU PRAYED THIS LINE TODAY;
ReplyDelete"FATHER FORGIVE US OUR SINS AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO SINNED AGAINST US . . ."
SO IF YOU DO NOT FORGIVE THIS SISTER OF YOURS, SHE IS NOT THE ONE SUFFERING; YOU ARE THE ONE SUFFERING, IMPRISONING YOURSELF FOR NOTHING. THIS LADY IS NOT YOUR ENEMY; YOUR ENEMY IS SATAN BUT EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER THIS LADY COUSIN OF YOURS YOUR ENEMY, LOOK AT THIS SCRIPTURE . . .
Rom 12: 19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,
“I will take revenge;
I will pay them back,”g
says the LORD.
20Instead,
“If your enemies are hungry, feed them.
If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap
burning coals of shame on their heads.”h
21Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.
-Peace
Poster 1 ; Please concentrate on your studies! In 9ja,must universities have GIS 101,dont know about the country you are studying
ReplyDeleteYou need to learn how to write before thinking about relationships
You're quite young,please develop yourself and not your punani. It's a shame what mobile phones are doing to youths, can't write a simple essay unless it's done in short hand.
Poster 2; Please don't sexually abuse your cousin"s kids, Karma is a bitch! Allow it to take it due course besides if she's such an idiot, she might even be abusing her own kids.
Just call her out, a good confrontation would be good for such an evil cousin.
Poster2....revenge is indeed a very dark place, the worse part is that it doesn't give u the satisfaction u crave. You will most likely end up creating a vicious cycle that will keep reoccurring in generations to come. Think about it. Are u truly prepared to ruin the lives of those innocent hapless kids? Are u prepared to have someone hate u as much as u hate your cousin and know that u are the direct cause of that? It will never take away the pain of the past, only Jesus can do that! For u to get closure u can start by confronting her, blow the whole thing open, face the demon of your past! after the dust settles u will get the answers u seek, why she did that to you, only then will your healing process begin.
ReplyDeletePoster1......its unfortunate that its not everyone we like or are attracted to that might feel the same way. U are even lucky it happened like this before it got too deep. Lick your wounds and move on.
Poster1 run away from that bitch oooooo she's evil choiiiii
ReplyDeletePoster2 just pray to God so he will heal and help you forget the terrible things she did to you don't revenge Karma is a bitch served cold.
Poster 1 and 2 please watch youtube Fumi Sister to sister on forgiveness
ReplyDeletePoster 1 you learn your lesson and you were so trusting. This has happened to show you your character and those around you. You have a bright future ie y those money people are attracted to you. Successful people suceed with people skills in their head.
Poster 2 God bless you. Talking about it is the first step to forgiveness. BC you still hang around them it brings back those memories. Love yourself first and meditate on book of John.. Love from Jesus Christ to you. Peace
Hmmmmm! Things dey happen sha
ReplyDeletePOSTER 2, you don't need to confront ur cousin, it will just become messy. At 20 abusing a kid? I advice you stay away from this cousin and her kids. Na by force to keep in contact with every family member ? Bcos the way u are going on, you have gay tendencies and smthn will soon enter ur head too to molest her daughter. This is not 1980's oh, if you dare abuse someone's child now, all this human and child rights organization will come for you. Next thing Punch will carry ur story.
ReplyDeleteLeave this woman and her family. She harmed you yes, but just move on and blank her from ur life.
Poster 1, you are too young to be going thru dis, leave man drama alone. You will soon find ur own young man with no baggage. That guy you are seeing soon he will start to sleep with both you and ur friend together. You don't need that. Face ur book and look for a young guy with no baggage abeg. Its obvious he's a player abeg and cut that friend off. Do it gradually, let the calls and chatting be reducing small small, she's not a friend. I know a girl that purposely got pregnant for her friends boyfriend to trap him. Today d guy didn't even marry any of d ladies.
Poster 2: I an very happy you didn't turn out a lesbian as the excuse most of the give that they were abused.
ReplyDeleteDon't go near that woman. If she could do sth like that at 20 then she will destroy you now. She still asks for u our assistance cos she feels no remorse. Go and meet a pastor first and tell him everything and let him / her guide you spiritually. If you must meet your cousin for a confrontation make sure you record it and her admission to it cos if you let your emotions get hold of you that woman will destroy the remaining self worth you have. STAY AWAY FROM HER. ALL YOU NEED IS GOD. MY. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
I see things differently in regards to poster 1... Well.I suggest u move on... Let him go....there are other guys. The truth is. Ur friend had a thing for him...despite the fact they broke up..like u said...she still wants him back .be nice to it friend ..support the guy to go back to her.. Ladies should be friends to fellow ladies...m a guy though..my tot
ReplyDeletegosh emjay, shut the hell up already..i have struggled not to cuss you out but you are so darm irritating..u have never made any sensible contribution on this blog yet you are always in peoples faces...mschweeeeeeeew...
ReplyDeleteposter 1. your so called "friend" is a snake, be careful....she is jealous that's why she wanted you to cut the guy off...get a grip of yourself and be wise around her cos she is a manipulator and if u are not careful she will cause problems for you..dont tell her anything about your relationships or your life..look for another friend please...if you like the guy give him a chance, just dont be quick to jump into bed with him. that way u wont hurt too bad if anything happens...
poster 2: call your aunty and confront her with how you feel...if she shows no remorse then open up and tell your mother....your aunty might have changed, if she has then good for all but if she is still arrogant and refuses to accept she hurt you, tell your family so u seek closure....dont let anyone blame you and make you feel like it was your fault.....you were just a child.....pls dont revenge on her kids, dont repay evil with evil it will never truly make you heal.....lastly whether your aunt is remorseful or not, ask God for the grace to forgive, its not easy but its the best thing to do..
Mummy Gweggzzz... what's frustrating u??
DeletePoster 1, pls forget them n focus on ur studies mbok...... Poster 2, I have been shouting Jesus till now..... what can demonic human is that? Gush!!!! So irritating.... confront her well n pls pls don't revenge on those children okay..... hohohohoho
ReplyDeletePOSTER 1
ReplyDeleteSTAY AWAY FROM PREMARITAL SEX
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS START READING YOUR BIBLE DAILY ONE HAPTER A DAY. LOOK FOR A GOOD CHURCH TO ATTEND
POSTER 2
REMIND HER AND STAY AWAY FROM HER
Poster 1: unfriend and block such a friend. Learn from this and move on, face your studies and every other things including guys should come later.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I know how you are feeling. Please go and tell her that Mr. Karma is planning to visit her from you, that you wanted to inform her about it. (But please don't allow karma use u to visit her), pray about it and for sure God will give you rest of mind. Try not to put your mind in the girls tin, if not, you will be force to try it.
no comments today. will be reading others comments.
ReplyDeletehappy weekend everyone and stay out of trouble.
Sometimes in life you will find that family is overrated !
ReplyDeleteP1: you still have enough time to meet new n decent people.
ReplyDeleteSo tactically withdraw from this duo.
P2: forgive your cousin and move on.
You want to feel a relief??? Talk to her about it, trust me once she apologies you wil feel d relief you desire.
Gudluck.
Friday narratives. ...battery low mbok. Will read later
ReplyDelete@poster one...you actually sound naive. I think if u actually ready to date the guy...then u should be prepared for whatsoever drama that comes with it. Including your friend drama
Delete@poster two forgiveness is key but I think what you truly want from her is an heart felt apology. So I advise u sit her down and tell her how she hurt u years ago...that way you can move past the grudge. Or else you gonna keep holding it in.
Staysafe
Poster 2.. Confront her. She's probably sorry but thinks you cant remember. If you confront her and she's genuinely sorry, she'll apologize and you'll feel better... You feel this way cause you both have refused to talk about it thereby bottling up a lot of hate, bitterness and grudges. A confrontation will do you both a lot of good. Goodluck
ReplyDelete#1: Sweetie, I noticed you spared little modesty in self-description which isn't necessarily a bad thing. As a matter of fact, I found it commendable until I read the concluding part of your narrative and the admiration was tainted with the familiar recognition of self esteem issues. Please don't get me wrong, my darling. I'm in no way being derogatory but, usually when people overcompensate, it's an indication of the feeling of inadequacy. A feeling a lot of us have felt one time or the other while growing up, and it must be tackled aggressively before it degenerates to full blown inferiority complexities.
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You need not mention all your attributes if you have a healthy dose of self-confidence. True, good looks may catch a man's attention but you need more than a banging figure and good morals to make a man connect with you, not just on a sexual level but also on an emotional level. Once you have a guy who is connected to you emotionally, his heart belongs to you and no matter how many "wild oats" he may sow, he would always choose you then you will be the one to determine whether or not you choose him too.
Honey, you're practically a baby. You have your whole life ahead of you. You're there to study so hit the books and don't get too distracted to the point where you're forced to write in, seeking advice because of emotional torture. It shows that the situation is messing with your head. If you work on your self-confidence, you'll know what not to tolerate or settle for in any relationship.
These are the live issues;
1. You haven't agreed to date him yet the thought of losing him gets you in a frenzy. What do you think will happen if you start dating him and he sweeps you off your feet only to shatter your heart when he behaves like most regular guys?
2. Whether or not you like it, your girl has history with this dude so reconnecting with him is not unlikely, it's actually foreseeable. Are you sure you're ready for this distasteful "love triangle"? Is he really worth the impending drama? How long have you known him? Have you tried dating other guys? Personally, I encourage young ladies to date a couple of guys as long as you're not having sex with either of them. It makes you less attached and your thoughts become rational rather than emotional.
3. Why did you call your "friend", his ex, to say hello to him? So what if he knows she's your neighbour, Isn't she supposed to be the one who rained on your parade? Isn't it curious that he was pissed at her for revealing their past and ruining his chance to date you but he's comfortable enough to drive by, see you and still wait for you to go get his ex just to say hello? Now they are all chummy. So where did all the resentment they allegedly feel towards each other go, pray tell?
Sweetie, please read and analyse all the comments if you can and make the right decision. I deliberately didn't say much about your "friend" because, like we say in law,"res ipsa loquitur"- the thing speaks for itself. She has shown you who and what she really is, it's a very safe inference.
Concentrate on the primary reason you're in school, relationships are desirable but secondary in this case. Get your degree(s) and all other things will fall in place. Don't allow such a pedestrian liaison mess you up, personally I think it isn't worth the stress but it's really up to you. All the best, sweetie.
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Welcome back hunnie
DeleteToo long! Not interested.....you have lost your taste.
DeleteAnd she is backkkkkkk
DeleteAnd she is backkkkkkk
DeletePoster2- For u to even consider doing this to ur nieces means u are possessed and evil! Are u a lesbian? Can u still remember d horror u suffered while ur cousin/aunt was putting u through such evil deeds? Why would u want to do same to her innocent kids? Would u wish for them to do same in revenge to ur own kids? I sincerely believe u have already abused those children and only came here to soothe ur conscience. May God protect us from domestic evil.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, swithrt pls drop dt 'friend' like hot potatoes and move on. You're better off without them, you'll be ayt dear. Focus on your studies
ReplyDeletePoster 2, confront her at once and drop d idea of taking it out on the kids. God will surely help u, but please confront her
poster 1 stay far from that girl, face your studies first, you already know that you are a beauty to behold, then why being bothered about them. poster 2 let your family know what has happened btw you and your silly cousin and don't take revenge in her girls.
ReplyDelete#2: Oh my love! I can't even imagine all the demons you battled with growing up. I use the term "demons" figuratively and literally. Sexual abuse breaks the spirit and wounds the soul. It keeps the victim prisoner till it's confronted and dealt with, only then will the process of healing commence.
ReplyDeleteSweetie, you need a lot of counselling, psychological and spiritual. The reason you have sexual desires for ladies, albeit controllable for now, is because of the abuse you suffered but you must not allow it continue because it's coming from an unhealthy and dark place. I'm not endorsing lesbianism but the average Lesbian engages in the act out of sexual desires and proclivities but not out of hurt and revenge. If you don't address this issue early enough, you could end up physically abusing one of your lady friends because subconsciously, you will be reenacting the sexual abuse you suffered when you were helpless but now you aren't that scared little helpless girl. You are now a grown lady who will never want to feel so helpless ever again. This can make you too dominant and aggressive and you'll be transferring past aggression on whomever you're having sexual relationship with, even if it's with a man. Your sexual impulses are already tainted by the traumatic sexual abuse you endured growing up.
You have to have a talk with that cousin of yours. I'll prefer a written conversation 1st because she may be in denial or be embarrassed and mask it by walking out from a face to face confrontation. Not many people can read an intriguing letter and toss it aside midway because they find the contents offensive. The seduction of curiosity will force her to read every last word. It doesn't matter if she pretends not to have read the letter, the fact remains that she did and is now aware of your feelings. I'm hoping after she reads it, both of you can sit and have a heart to heart civilised conversation like grown women.
My darling, I know you have anger and resentment all bottled up and they pass for righteous indignation but they are toxic and can actually make you sick! You have to work on letting all the bitterness go because you need that release. It's difficult but possible, slow but progressive. No matter the outcome of your meeting with your sister, work towards letting go for your sake. Bottled up anger is like a cancerous growth, it spreads sporadically and kills healthy cells rapidly. Perish the thought of paying her in her own coin by molesting any of her daughters because that makes you the monster your cousin used to be. It also automatically robs you of the right to complain or feel aggrieved because you've just evened the score. The problem is, you will not feel better. You'll hate yourself and you would have successfully passed on the abuse to the next generation. Who knows? Maybe your cousin was molested too. Please, honey, be the one to end this madness in your family. Don't allow the devil capitalise on your anger and hatred and use you as a medium to continue this curse.
Please seek help like yesterday! Pray to God to direct you to the right place where professionals can help you. Ask God for help because only HE can heal a broken spirit. Please take care of yourself and I wish you a speedy recovery.
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I've actually missed your comments . Keep the coming!
DeleteI just love you. #nohomo
DeletePoster 2, find a way to forgive. 70*70
ReplyDeletePoster 1.
ReplyDeleteBiko face ur studies....do away wit d both,d ryt man wil come at d ryt time!!...u too young for dem dramas!
poster 2: Eyaah! i knw how u feel,leave judgement for God,just go on ur knees and pray to God 2 grant u d grace 2 forgive her n move on.it's well.
#1, Stay clear from both of them! They are trouble with a capital T!
ReplyDelete#2, Don't revenge on her daughters, it makes you to be like her, and they might speak out, and nobody will believe or empathize with you, rather, you will be called wicked and child molester! Simply send a prayer text every day to she and her husband; 'Whatever you sow, ye shall reap!' As you did to me, so shall be done unto your daughters!' Her husband, will surely ask you what happened? Then you will spill out in front of her husband and see the shame on her face and her begging as your closure! I hope she is not doing same to her daughters already?!