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TORN BETWEEN AN UNCARING HUBBY AND A CARING EX.

Greetings Mrs K, and fellow BVs.
 I hope this meets you well.i don't know where this fits but I need it to be posted please. 
I have a situation that needs to be put on the table for discussion. I am open to honest advise, cursing and all there is to offer, I am willing to take it as it comes, don't mind my long epistle and typo.


I am 29yrs old lady, married to a 48yrs old. I have a son that is two years old. I married my husband out of love, he is not rich but we are quite comfortable. Before I met him, I had a boyfriend(my first, during my 200 level) that I loved so much and he loves me too.he proposed and I accepted, but along the line, we had issues( he told me he is polygamous in nature and intends to marry two wives,because he cannot be sexually satisfied with just one woman).‎ 


There and then I told him No. I can't share my man wo, and that was what caused our break up.but we remained good friends. I then met my husband and got married. He got married too same year, Then we lost contact. After a year,we met at a reunion and exchanged contact, we communicate almost everyday, and then I started having problems with Hubby ( he doesn't involve me in decisions around the house, keeps malice with me, prioritise his siblings over me,no sex etc). So I started confiding in my Ex. 


He was so supportive, I took in ( I complained of lack of sex and he just had to do it there and then)same period and gave birth ( my husband was blaming me for being pregnant) 2 days to my EDD, I had no single clothing item for my son, I had to cry and beg on my knees.

It still didn't yield results, My ex sent me #50,000 to take care of myself 
(without knowing what happened between me and Hubby). It was the best day of my life, I went to labor and this guy was no where to be found, I had to call a friend to take me to the hospital. He came 2 hours after I delivered. From then on, I started feeling hatred towards him. 


I was just tolerating him as the father of my child. My main issue right now is that my Ex is willing to marry me if I leave my husband,but he already has a wife and two children. Do I risk my happiness and stay in my uncaring husbands house or leave and be with my caring ex. ? 



‎Please don't post my mail address I want to remain anonymous  thanks.


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  1. Emjay31 October 2015 at 15:00

    Chronicles box nor dey empty...

    Enigmatic Aboki get in here.

    *******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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    1. Emjay31 October 2015 at 15:15

      Madam u wanna jump from frying pan to fire? So u think the best way to get happiness is to leave your husband to ur ex who is married with 2kids,remember u said u can't share your man,and I guess I want ur ex's wife to share hers ko? Use ur tongue to count ur teeth and retrieve with immediate effect,bring ur husband's ish to God in prayer,or u file for a divorce and start afresh,but mind u,no marriage is a bed of roses dear,ask ur mum,my 50kobo.


      *******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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    2. DixonE31 October 2015 at 15:19

      both of them are useless

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    3. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:26

      Foolish Emjay, go and learn how to clean.

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    4. Ayosblog.com chairlady31 October 2015 at 15:26

      so you ran away because he said he's polygamous in nature??

      abeg which man isn't polygamous in nature?

      you see your life now?

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    5. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:35

      B4 I comment! Pls easy on d cussing of Emmjay! She isn't my friend and I don't know her! Y spill ur bitterness on pipu to make dem sad! Its very bad! Let's stop all dis cussing! A child of God would potray good tins nd reflect good words! Pls.

      @ poster: did u ever go to God for direcrtion b4 marrying him, u av got a wrong option dear, pls get down on ur knees! Ask for forgiveness from God! Move close to God nd watch God's wonders in ur life, it might be slow but pls be patient! Its well! Stay away from ur ex he is bad news! All d best dear. Stay blessed

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    6. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:45

      Emjay, useless woman empty brain.
      You can make any wise comment to save your wretched life.

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    7. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:51

      Emjay,beggy beggy yeye gwegws. I will still snub your pancake ass any day we meet again.Foolish woman

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    8. Emjay31 October 2015 at 16:01

      Come child,come let me kiss u frm my honeywell mouth,just a taste will make u sweet anno15:45,i luv u,yes I do.

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    9. Sheskopeperempe31 October 2015 at 16:20

      U pple should leave Emjay alone,wetin sef

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    10. Sheskopeperempe31 October 2015 at 16:21

      Anon 15:45 Emjay isn't a useless woman she's a young lady inugo

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    11. Tee31 October 2015 at 16:21

      All i see on this blog is just so much hatred for emjay..did she kill y'all mother? Jst so pathetic that y'all on this blog are full of hate n shit
      It shows she is way ahead of u.Emjay keep shinning honey
      P.S she isnt my friend and i dnt even know her

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    12. BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*31 October 2015 at 16:45

      Why not start afresh?you know!! no baggage,no drama,no 1st wife issh!!yes you!!if he is so uncaring and you really wanna start again,please do with someone else..you turned it down the 1st time because you can't deal,so why now?set yaself up and be the best you can be for ya kid,ensure you can stand alone then make a decision..God help you

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    13. The Judge31 October 2015 at 17:29

      Stella, quit approving the nasty comments sickos write concerning emjay! Enough of thee bullying!!!!!!

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    14. Breanna Blogs Life31 October 2015 at 18:23

      Why all this bitterness towards em Jay?! What has she ever done to you people?! Funny those who insult always do so anonymously... COWARDS!

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    15. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 19:30

      Anonymous 15:51, God forgive u for what u have said. You must be a child with serious issues

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    16. SDK FM31 October 2015 at 19:48

      Poster if u leave ur home to ur ex, what is no guarantee that he will treat u perfect? Was ur hubby alwaz like this? Was he uncaring from the beginning? I guessed u had a part you played. A man cannot just change over night. Was he there for u at ur first child birth? U think its all rosy with ur ex's wife abi? Have a heart talk with ur hubby and give ur best to ur home. U will know what misery is if u remarry ur ex. If ur hubby is not a cheat then you have got a normal marriage issues.

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    17. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 20:54

      Anon thats always saying she snubbed mj.wat r u all abt..its obvious u r a moron..u v said this like 50 times. .are u retarded.wat does that even mean..yet u come here to abuse her mwile u shd be the laughing stock..will snub u again bla bla bla.were alaso

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    18. Anonymous1 November 2015 at 07:38

      That anonymous always attacking "emjay" is clearly amongst those Jesus called "children of the devil" even reading such comments exposes the evil spirit behind it...*real devil child as assassin, bokoharam etc.
      *still new on this blog myself but I pray God's protection over you "emjay".
      ***A BEGGAR is BETTER than a killer!!!

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    19. Anonymous1 November 2015 at 10:17

      Anon 7:38 alias Emjay, stop receiving yourself.

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  2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:03

    Welcome

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:59

      Esther, mumu. Who are you welcoming? Don't become another idle emjay.

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:26

      I am done giving advice to silly women.
      You married your husband out of desperation because you broke up with your ex and had to " show him" so you grabbed the next available man.

      Now you want to jump from frying pan to fire. Can't you work? Can't you take care of your own self and your son? You are jumping from man to man looking for who will take care of you and your dependants, Madam go and work and stop doing almajiri from man to man

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    3. nina31 October 2015 at 16:34

      Poster, you left him cos he was polygamous in nature.. and now you wanna go bak into that same polygamy?? Why u no kukuma stay from the beginning?? Does his wife know he is polygamous in nature?? Is she fine with it?? If she no go poison you then I think you should be with him o.. your case na person wey go eat food wey 1st put am for nose.. he must sha marry you.. do it the right way.. if ts undaG fins stay with ur husband

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    4. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:35

      Anno15:59,u re an idiot!

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    5. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 18:09

      Stupid anonymous get a life

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    6. Unknown1 November 2015 at 09:50

      Hear ye, hear ye: Madam please and please don't go back to your ex... You could get him to start up a business for you first, shag him small (if u want) and then run... As for your husband, you have to get a divorce.. You've made the mistake of marrying him, fix it by divorcing him. He's irresponsible. No wonder he was single and old...

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  3. Money makes you fuck lots of women without stress31 October 2015 at 15:03

    I can't marry an uncaring husband

    I can't tolerate a wife who does not know Christ. Bcos any woman who does not kow Christ will open pussy at the right incentives and conditions.

    No vex

    No be my fault

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:22

      This ur new pattern eh, no be am oh.... That anticipation to read ur raw advise has gone.

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:23

      This ur new pattern eh, no be am oh.... That anticipation to read ur raw advise has gone.

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    3. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:25

      @poster, you are a mess. My advice to you is to fast n pray for your marriage and fast on top your head too cos you really need it!!

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    4. RICHBEE31 October 2015 at 15:26

      Who hack your account ohhh

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    5. radiant D31 October 2015 at 15:39

      Haha

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    6. Nigerian first daughter31 October 2015 at 15:46

      Initially u can't share his d**k with any man but now you're ready to share right? If I dash u hot dirty slap... u want to leave ur horseband to be a second wife to ur ex? Dirty smelling h****....

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    7. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:53

      Mr money makes...........,How brazen can one be?
      U don't know Christ but U want a born again wife.
      Smh

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    8. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:38

      Money maker just learnt d word "brazen"

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    9. Pipi Lee31 October 2015 at 20:59

      Anonymous 16;38...lwkmd

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  4. Quiksilver31 October 2015 at 15:05

    Only you, 2uncaring people.
    It is from the village.

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    1. RICHBEE31 October 2015 at 15:28

      Her village people don't want her to be happy

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    2. radiant D31 October 2015 at 15:38

      Go back and read Quiksilver.

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    3. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:57

      Quicksilver, in Oshimole's voice.Go and .........
      Madam humbug, are you not in a worse situation now?

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    4. Quiksilver31 October 2015 at 15:59

      I only read the heading, hence my comment.

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    5. Quiksilver31 October 2015 at 16:01

      Oh, sorry. It thought I read 2 "uncaring" in the heading.

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    6. Quiksilver31 October 2015 at 16:04

      Poster, so what will happen to your Ex's wife and kids? You both are silly and confused.

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  5. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:06

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
    .
    Ok here is it, yu are fool, asshole and stupid.... *coughs* thats all... #NowPlaying>> indomie: masterkraft....
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:29

      How old are u again???

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:01

      Ed dreamless, how old are you again?

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    3. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:10

      So what you have just done is to throw meaningless tirades and cuss out like an orphaned child, anyway na people wey dey send matter I dey blame, everyone takes time to lash out sinister-derogatory-self esteem-killing words of discouragement!..Dude in Jupiter, you'll burn in Pluto!

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    4. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:12

      Dreamz ,u act immature.... u cannot b a small boy 4eva so pls grow up

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    5. POSH MIDWIFE31 October 2015 at 16:54

      Ez DreamZ! This uncalled for and use your words carefully.

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  6. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:07

    I comment my reserve

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:51

      Poster so you can't share your own man but you want to share another woman's man?

      Think about it. You'll never be happy or satisfied with either men. If you must leave your husband don't go back to your vomit. There are many guys out there who would be willing to accept you and your child. Please don't settle for less.

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 20:30

      It's a pity that an old man like ur husband is such as childish as a teenage boy. Leaving him for ur ex is not the best option. What I always recommend is when it's too much as u just described both of u just give each other some space till ur heads cool down. He may begin to miss u and vice versa. Staying in such tension filled home is what leads to fisticuffs - domestic violence. Give ur selves some space for now.




      Weekend Relationship Tool: Get him to express his feelings for you, “He’ll feel safe when he sees that you are in touch with your feelings and able to express them in a clear, non-judgmental way.”

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  7. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:09

    @poster: you are just a greedy woman!
    I taught you said you can't share your man? So u want to take back your word and break another woman's home! So u are now ready to share abi?
    You are just shameless!!!
    You married a broke ass fore father n now your ex want to buy u back.
    Kia! Can't deal menh!
    You are worth less..

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:20

      I like the way you reason ma am

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    2. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:25

      Don't mind the foolish woman. She started having problems with her husband when she reconnected with her ex. Useless woman

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    3. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:26

      @potable viv, u re so so rit, she said she cudnt share,bt now she wants anoda woman' s home to be shared.. madam na wa oo.

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    4. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:26

      Dont mind her. You cant share your man but you are sharing another woman's husband and even want to move in as the second wife. God will punish you and your entire generations hundred fold

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    5. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:30

      I rem u! U made a comment under my post of REVELATION! U were mocking me! U av to be careful of wat u say! U don't know who I am! U were cussing! U av got issues pending dat u need to solve pls don't let it me turned to punishment for u! Be careful nd be warned. Stay blessed!

      Tha Prophetess

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    6. RICHBEE31 October 2015 at 15:31

      Don't mind the moron

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    7. Ada Mazi31 October 2015 at 15:31

      U just said my mind. 1000 likes for ur comment

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    8. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:37

      Be careful dear, choose ur words wisely! If man can't reach u! God can! Pls be careful! Stay blessed

      Tha prophetess

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    9. radiant D31 October 2015 at 15:40

      Gbam. Now is ready to share another woman hobby.

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    10. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:47

      Portable hypocrite, You will do the same if you are in her shoes.

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  8. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:09

    Going back to ur ex is a No No, sit ur hubby down and u both shud try working things out. If afterwards no positive result pls take some break it ll sure help.

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  9. Joblesshousewife31 October 2015 at 15:10

    From fry pan to fire. Hmmmm

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:55

      Ladies if you must marry an uncle gwegwegwe please hook a very rich one so that you can use his money to console yourself. Learn from Madam Dabota and Caroline.

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    2. Belle S1 November 2015 at 07:41

      Jane Kraine true that!

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  10. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:10

    OYO is ya name jare...from fire 2 frying pan inugo

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  11. Odus31 October 2015 at 15:10


    Poster leave ur ex alone don't go causing problem for another woman. Put urself in ur ex wife's position. U broke up with ur ex bcos u wanted to be the only wife in the house right oh now u don't mind been d second wife. Abeg borrow urself brain woman. If u want to leave ur marriage do but not because u want to run straight into another. Find a single man or divorcee. Pls don't break a home.

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  12. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:11

    Hmm my dear why must you always depend on a man for your well being. I am not saying you should not leave your hubby you immediately want to jump straight into marriage with someone who is already married.

    Try to work things out with your hubby. Try to recreate the spark of your relationship. Work on yourself. If you have no income of your own focus on how to start making your own money. Life is not all about being in 1 relationship or another

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  13. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:11

    Try and sort things out with your husband. Was he like that before you got married?
    www.tosyne101.wordpress.com

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 18:34

      Madam poster, you just exhibited a good example of greed, low self esteem and lack of contentment.. You have come here to paint yourself as a saint without blemish..perhaps, your husband's sudden character is not out of place.. if you took the time u use in complaining to your ex to work on your marriage, I'm sure you won't be sending in ur chronicles... U didn't accept to marry your ex earlier on in life because u don't wanna be in a polygamous marriage but little disinterest from your dh, you are already considering being a second wife! Are you this naive? You are a human being and a woman at that...don't act like dogs who go back to their vomits... Work on ur marriage, marrying ur ex as 2nd wife don't guarantee anything..infact u should expect more wives and worse treatment from him! If ure indeed tired of ur current situation, get a job and live separately for a while bfor you consider divorce..
      Us Women are really really fickle minded.. see the way your ex wants to use 50k to ruin ur chances at something great!

      Madam face your God, ur children and get a job so that 50k won't be your problem.. Goodluck

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  14. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:11

    I bu nooo panty eliza biko

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:12

      ..okwa ezigbote aki awusa!..lolz

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    2. Sweetie pie31 October 2015 at 17:15

      Hahahahaha.obughi so panti Eliza.
      Karma panti no na. iro.

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  15. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:11

    But you broke up with your ex because he told you he will marry more than one wife. Then why do you want to go back to him? Please stay in your marriage and work things out with your husband.

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:15

      U all judgmental women.How many u will agree with him marrying 2 wives initially? Zero.

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 23:12

      Eh money maker and your point is???*****

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  16. Nafperidot31 October 2015 at 15:11

    Sincerely u are a confused lady, no home is perfect. U either stay with ur hubby and learn to be a praying and gud wife or take a hike and save urself and family d shame u ll put them in to. All that glitters isn't GOLD. A word they say is enough for d wise.

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  17. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:11

    Close your legs... you deserve more than both men. Ladies should learn self worth. You don't deserve any of these mofos

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:17

      Anon 15:11,na ur type dey colabo 3 men in daily.

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  18. SMURF31 October 2015 at 15:11

    Stella correction to the post title, I think it Should be caring ex not uncaring ex.
    Poster, seems to me that u are going back on your word not to share your man!! U left him cos u didn't wanna share him with any woman, now u wanna go back to him after he got married!! Talk to your husband if he doesn't change find another man not the ex... he might change to you when he marries you cos he has to satisfy 2 women and his own kids. B4 ur kid comes into the picture sef.

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:19

      Smirnof,talk to fire.
      A yeye man is a yeye man.

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  19. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:12

    Same situation with my hubby
    Serious I want a new hubby
    A caring one
    Mtchew

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:20

      Anon15:12,na person force u to marry him?Abeg commot for road.

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 17:06

      We plenty oo, I taya sef. Mine is so uncaring, just comes home to eat and sleep,no gisting with ur wife, no playing wt ur kids, just normal passable talks like, were d dogs fed? Since when has d gen been on, etc, then off to d bedroom to start chatting wt d same bitches he spent his after work hours with. Yet when I snoop I see how affectionate he is with his girlfriends ,abeg it's hi time I got a lover on d side ojare, I also need to be pampered and spoiled like d single girls are being spoiled right now, anybody game? And please spare me d sanctimonious BS,i happen to have done all y'all will start suggesting under my comment so pulizz!!

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  20. FINNY aka SWEET TROUBLE 31 October 2015 at 15:12

    I av few questions for u Q1 are u ready to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't care bout oR your children? Q2 are u ready to be a second wife? Q3 what if he decides to marry anoda woman as a third wife will u stay? Is he willing to take care of ur kids? Will u give ur uncaring husband custody of ur children? Honey dis are question u need to look at ok. I can't tell u to leave him but I can tel U to make ur self happy u deserve the best.

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:21

      Steffy,u make sense quite unlike the normal u.

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    2. reemah31 October 2015 at 22:23

      Sensible comment. Poster, get in here and answer these questions. Herein lies the answer to your dilemma.

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  21. crazyHORNYwife31 October 2015 at 15:13

    Madam poster u 1st said u can't share ur man dts why u left ur ex! Now ur going back to him to share him okwaya???
    If u feel ur done wit ur husband why not stay on ur own! Why dyu want to break anoda woman's home???
    Receive sense and either walk of ur marriage and be a single HAPPY mom or stay with ur horseband, get useful with ur self by earning money,take care of child and pretend he doesn't exist.
    Ur ex is a NO NO

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:23

      @crazy,all you women are just afraid to share una horsebands.

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  22. Blackberry31 October 2015 at 15:13

    Lol..madam u r d problem, from ur narative u started having problems after u n ur ex exchanged contact, u are not being truthful here, I know cos ur ex is giving u attention that's y ur husband has become d 'bad guy' anyway...pack your things n go to your EX....rubbish! After everything I've read on this blog, no more supporting one sided chronicles! Out!

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  23. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:14

    Your husband might change o.if u must leave,dnt marry anoda woman's husband o.no use ur own spoil ur fellow woman o.u left d guy bcos he is polygamous in nature.nw u want to hlp him achieve same aim

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  24. Cindy31 October 2015 at 15:15

    this one pass me abeg. I'm here for the comments.

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  25. Sally jayd31 October 2015 at 15:15

    Please stay away from someones husband. If you want to leave your husband because of his behaviour towards you, do

    Don't get married to your ex.
    He is with another person and won't treat you well either. My opinion.

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  26. AQO31 October 2015 at 15:16

    Chronicles of Narnia + Ridick no reach the ones for here I tell ya.
    Ma, the grass is always greener at the other side of the fence because you've failed to tend to your own. You didn't want him to have a second wife added to you and now you want to be that second wife? Ain't it funny?
    Well, I can only pray that God gives you the wisdom to apply in your situation.






    Jesus is Lord.

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  27. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:17

    Madam, it's better to be the second wife of a loving, generous rich man than to be the only wife of a poor stingy man.

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  28. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:17

    Your ex must have already told his present wife that he is polygamous in nature, if he told her that before they got married that means she saw it coming and knew another woman would definitely come into the picture. Find out from your ex if he explained his polygamous nature to his wife before marriage, if he did, you can marry him.. ...
    Just for the records sha# you are a self centered woman and wicked to. when your ex proposed marriage to you with the condition of polygamy you refused because you didn't want another woman to share your husband, but now you want to share another woman's husband with her. Issorite#

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:10

      Very selfish woman, she wants to break another womans home

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  29. Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate31 October 2015 at 15:18

    Going back to your vomit isn't the answer can't you do without a man

    Rediscover yourself

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  30. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:19

    Na wa ooo.. but no be d same polygamous nature u still dey go face so. Hmmmm, I think u should give ur home a better try, tlk to ur husband before thinking oda wise. When u re emotionally down,u tend to fall for d next available person showing u attention bt trust me,it dosn't end well.. never make any decision wit ur emotions.. gudluck

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  31. The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog 31 October 2015 at 15:20

    You dont want to share your man with anybody thats why you left your ex and got married to a man you dont know anything about. Now u re no longer enjoying your marriage and now wants to go and constitute nuisance in a peaceful home of ur Ex. You should be thinking of how to teach ur man how to be loving and caring and turn ur self into a prayer warrior or u should be thinking on how to quit and remain single and not thinking of going to another womans home to cause her misery cos no woman will be willing to share her man with anybody

    My advise is work on ur marriage or quit and remain single cos you are nothing but a wicked, inconsiderate and selfish asshole. GERRARAHERE mehn

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    1. Eldaberry31 October 2015 at 16:14

      Don't mind the thief

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 20:53

      Her husband is actually a good man
      Read the post again and you will see she started having problems or noticing the husband's fault after reconnecting with her EX
      of course your ex would shower you with attention until she slides between your thighs..

      You aren't even ashamed to collect money from your ex. I don't think I'll be able to collect a dime from an ex when in trouble because I wouldn't want to be mocked or anything..

      You married someone who is 20yrs older than you and you picked a broke one. Now you have seen money you are finding faults..

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  32. Queen Bee31 October 2015 at 15:20

    Omg!ur story sounds like a mysterious folktale...well so,i think u are going to become d predestined 2nd wife at d end of d day.lmao!
    Funny,but that might be ur destiny!afterall u also have baggage atm:divorced,broke and naked.pls marry him ooo since he loves u....but erm what abt his wife?hope she's not d head breaking rivalrious' type#scratches hair#
    Btw wat was ur hubby doing dat he didn't marry till 48yrs when some pple are already grandfathers at dat age?such old men should be married for money nyway,not love#rme#where is Linda Eze I know she will say amen to dat.lol!i have seen that men like that usually have issues dats why dey couldn't marry at d a good time,u obviously ignored the red lights,now u are ending up like dis.u have a choice not to marry ur ex sha oo,but don't know why my spirit tells me dat is ur destiny!#eyelashes

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  33. Jemima31 October 2015 at 15:21

    Follow your heart and where your happiness lies. A man who is 19yrs your senior is suppose to pamper u. If your ex is ready marry him, but he has to establish you first,cos anything can happen so u have to use your head. Get something starting for yourself b4 u leave and marry again

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  34. Anointed31 October 2015 at 15:21

    This is what they say penny wise,pounds foolish,you have miss your real husband,which happen to be your first boyfriend,that is why you are a woman,u would HV married your first boyfriend,not minding what he told u before,while as at now,you are considering if to be the second wife now,something u saw before and broke up with him,well my advise for u is to stick to ur first husband and put him in prayers,u hv made the mistake already ,jst put everything to prayers.

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  35. RICHBEE31 October 2015 at 15:22

    You left your EX bcos he said he is polygamous in nature and you can not share ur hubby ,now you are married to ur hubby and he is not caring you now want to leave ur uncaring hubby then go back to your EX and share him with his wife

    Madam do you have sense?

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  36. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:22

    @portable just Advice her nau, if u dnt have anything Reasonable to say to her why d insult, nau people like una worst pass, see ur gele like trouble-maker.

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  37. Anointed31 October 2015 at 15:23

    Well just put everything In prayers,God might change him,u HV miss ur right husband

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  38. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:23

    Work on tour self worth.. You cant love another without live in you. You cant week for love when you don't love yourself

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  39. Anointed31 October 2015 at 15:23

    This is what they say penny wise,pounds foolish,you have miss your real husband,which happen to be your first boyfriend,that is why you are a woman,u would HV married your first boyfriend,not minding what he told u before,while as at now,you are considering if to be the second wife now,something u saw before and broke up with him,well my advise for u is to stick to ur first husband and put him in prayers,u hv made the mistake already ,jst put everything to prayers.

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  40. Bimpeforever31 October 2015 at 15:23

    Your story get K leg, if you dint marry an older man cos of money, why then will u marry him and suffer, anyway if u want to leave your hubby, pls do but don't go to your ex and destroy his home, you can get a job and go and get your own place and start afresh

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  41. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:25

    Woman, when you are in a crossroad, don't cross! It is time to think, thank (God -for safe delivery etc.) and meditate. Please, if you decide to divorce your husband (for whatever reason) do not marry your ex, you never wanted to be second wife; why now? Stay strong madam and begin to distance yourself from your ex. How will you feel if another lady was taking the attention (even money) from your husband? Does this man's wife want another "wife"? What's her temperament? Will you go in there and want to "colonize" and set off a firestorm? Focus on managing your child and praying for God's leading out of this situation. and lady, above all, close your legs to this ex of yours. My heart skipped a beat when you mentioned "sex there and then"; hope it wasn't with your ex like I believe I erroneously thought.
    "In all things, the Lord works for the good of they that love him; they that are called according to his purpose"

    God's Grace.

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  42. Vivaciara31 October 2015 at 15:26

    Move on to a third man.
    Leave your husband and your ex.

    Ps: Take my advice at your own risk.

    Now where is the beer
    Mark ooooooooooooooo

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  43. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:26

    Madam,shame on you.

    Listen to yourself.

    You broke up with him, because you can't share your man,but now because you are at a disadvantage, you not only want to share, you want to be the second wife,the other woman.

    You want to break someone else's home.

    Shame on you.

    You are very selfish and wicked too.
    I'm sure when you get in that house, you'll do everything possible to force his wife out.
    That is how people like you behave.

    If you can't deal in your marriage, take a walk and raise your son.

    Don't try to ruin your fellow woman's happiness.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 17:47

      Madam white diamond,
      Stop calling her name.
      How many of u women running their mouth.will take it in good faith if their boyfriend tell them.that he intend to marry 2 wives?

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  44. modesire31 October 2015 at 15:26

    Fix it Lord Jesus

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  45. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:30

    Can't try uncaring hubby. Not my type

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  46. Love EATING pussy31 October 2015 at 15:31

    Where is everyone, oh i forgot people have gone to SnM to gossip. Going to join dem, stella no comments today

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  47. ejiwunmi31 October 2015 at 15:31

    The same ex u cld not marry then and share .... Now u can share because he gave u 50k.... I pity u.... Ole ole alapa ma se se......if you was very busy u wnt take ur time to type this post.... Keep busy

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 17:22

      Ejiwu,stop being judgemental. All U women would 've done the same thing she did initially. Which woman wan share his husband and his money with another woman?

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    2. Belle S1 November 2015 at 07:52

      True that money maker. You can be considerate sometimes. Babes if u must marry an ol man marry the rich generous ones. Nke a wu ogbenye wurukwa amusu

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  48. youngman31 October 2015 at 15:31

    Paragraph 4... He was so supportive, I took in. (I complained of lack of sex and he had to do it there and then same period and gave birth).............
    I don't really understand this part. Was it your bf that impregnated you on this occasion or you mean both he and your husband had sex with u the sa.e period? Anyway whereas many men are wicked, many more women don't say the truth as to what they did to their man who once called them darling to turn to devils. Yet I don't support men who treat their women wickedly when there are more humane ways of handling errant women. Well poster, every woman would have issues with their man no matter how sweet it is when you are living separately. So weigh your options, the pros and cons. By the way what does it say of you if you become a second wife in a polygamy after rejecting the position of first wife in a polygamy

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  49. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:32

    Things started changing in your home when you met your ex.Ask yourself some questions.

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  50. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:33

    This is one of the sluts from that anonymous post. So its not bad enough that you are sleeping with another woman's husband...you have geared up to break her home. I fear women!!. So you are ready to share the same man you said you cant share initially.

    What happened to praying talking to your husband. Dont worry..am sure ur ex's wife is doing fasting and prayers on your head. You wont know when it will hit you hard but it will. Imagine!!

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  51. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:33

    After reading the "anonymous confessions", I reflected on LADY IGO'S posts (I participated in that fasting in April and I copied most of her teachings and stories) and I have come to realize that there is more than what meets the eyes when ladies share their stories. Will they tell us which mediums they visited to "tie the man"? Will they tell us wetin them wash put for his food and whether what they are passing through is the back-firing"?

    Please Poster, go back to most of those LADY IGO'S posts; you can search them out on this blog. I was one of the folks that thought initially that lady igo was "fabricating". Well the "anonymous confessions" popped my eyes open!
    @Poster, let me share one story I copied from her, it might help you: be strong:
    Still on mediums:
    A lady (B -pregnant for?) who once had a quarrel with another lady (C) over "a man" told the latter; "you will see" . . . next, as C went to bed, this same lady came in the "dream" and poured "? a basket of ants; soldier ants" on her, she screamed and woke up . . . and the trauma began . . . she was itching allover, gradually she stripped and still itching . . . on and on; she stripped all (including under pants) and went ahead to run out on the streets . . . madness had started . . . all because of "the struggle over a man"; the man was "home and dry". The aggressor (B) quickly moved in and had her baby.

    Meanwhile C's family took her to every known witch doctor, spiritualist's temple, "god or men" for cure but nothing came out of it. Then one day, a group of C's schoolmates who were Christians, began to fast and pray for her for 12 days. According to "C",
    "A man I did not know came to me and said PEACE . . .LADY C . . .I LOVE YOU . . .I'd never seen such a radiant smile in my life before, his words permeated my very being, I saw the ants crawling away from my skin one after the other, I found out that I was in a garbage hip where I'd run to after I escaped from the treatment facility where I was taken to. Thankfully, I was still wearing the robe, I did not know the man except that he had a pierced hand . . ."
    Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. (John fourteen vs. twenty seven)

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 17:13

      Hiaaahh

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    2. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 20:42

      Lady Igo stop hyping yourself under anonymous. We don hear. Everytime Lady Igos post Lady Igos post. Gerrrarrahia mehn shiiii

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  52. Habis Cakes Abuja31 October 2015 at 15:35

    You've made your bed. Lay on it. Work on your marriage. Because you think you have other options that why you are acting this way. The grass may not be greener on the other side o. Stella, your headline is confusing

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  53. Rabstar31 October 2015 at 15:35

    Lol,my dear @poster u can never eat your cake and have it, long throat things

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  54. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:36

    B4 I comment! Pls easy on d cussing of Emmjay! She isn't my friend and I don't know her! Y spill ur bitterness on pipu to make dem sad! Its very bad! Let's stop all dis cussing! A child of God would potray good tins nd reflect good words! Pls.

    @ poster: did u ever go to God for direcrtion b4 marrying him, u av got a wrong option dear, pls get down on ur knees! Ask for forgiveness from God! Move close to God nd watch God's wonders in ur life, it might be slow but pls be patient! Its well! Stay away from ur ex he is bad news! All d best dear. Stay blessed

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    1. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 17:19

      Abegi, how many times will you post the same comment?

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  55. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:36

    Youre very terrible in decision making, without thinking things thru u jumped from ur ex to ur husbands house without knowing him, u think its same as boarding a bus from one bus stop to another? we are in the bizzness of mending and keep homes in happiness, not breaking one or causing trauma for another wife.... u left ur ex cus u wldnt want to share ur hubby abi? wat makes u think his present wife wld want to share....
    Abeg stay whr are jo, carry ur cross, with time it just might get lighter in weight.

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  56. OMALICHAC31 October 2015 at 15:37

    Face ur marriage simple.

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  57. Brown Sucre31 October 2015 at 15:38

    Am too angry with you to advice you.

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  58. better pikin31 October 2015 at 15:40

    Poster you already said you didn't want polygamy so why are you now considering it? Just stay in your marriage n pray n hope your husband changes.

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  59. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:43

    Are you sure you know the father of your child

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  60. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 15:44

    Oliver twist.

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  61. radiant D31 October 2015 at 15:48

    Dear poster don't be an intruder in another person home. You stated that you don't want anything polygamy. Now that you have turn second hand, you now see your ex as a bailout. You better delete such act. Can't you look for a decent job to earn your own money. Madam jobless full house wife.

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  62. Unknown31 October 2015 at 15:50

    Take it or leave it, u are a big hypocrite. ....
    face your marriage and don't destroy another person's home

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  63. Ice Queen31 October 2015 at 15:53

    Hhahahahahahahahaha
    You can't share your man then. But now you want to share another woman husband now,you should have married your ex den maybe he would have remain with you alone
    As you make your bed so you lie on it

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  64. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:10

    Cause of 50k ??

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  65. Ndidiamaka31 October 2015 at 16:18

    Pls go n marry ur ex,I dnt like ur husband abeg,he is not caring at all. Be a second wife,I hope it will be a peaceful home? U wld hv agreed so that u will be d first wife,I dnt like polygamy tho but I hate wat u are going thru in d hands of d 48yrs old man.

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    1. Unknown31 October 2015 at 17:18

      Mama wonder,well said. U are the only truthful woman here.
      Why stay with an uncaring man all ur life?

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  66. crouchingTigress31 October 2015 at 16:32

    O chim!

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  67. Miss Ess31 October 2015 at 16:53

    Your husband no be am at all, chai. Its either you work on your husband with fasting and prayers or leave the marriage jejely. But please don't go and meet somebody's husband, it would be unfair to the wife, her kids and yourself

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  68. Unknown31 October 2015 at 16:53

    @poster, ur confused.....going into another marriage isn't the solution. U can pray to God for help.
    **vianson**

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  69. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 16:55

    Maybe he is "uncaring" because he knows the child is not his? There are too many gaps in this Chronicle...What is a 29 year old doing with a 48 year old man? Was he single, divorced, widower or what? And then he stopped having sex with you and you started having sex with your ex. Then same period you got pregnant. Your husband now became "uncaring"? Refused to give you money to buy baby things, didn't come to the hospital etc... Is the child his? And you think he doesn't know? Your ex sent you 50k? For a child that is or isn't his? Little madam, you got a problem. The problem in this whole chronicle is YOU!! 20 e-slaps!!

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    1. FRUITHFUL31 October 2015 at 21:40

      Thanks darling, you have said it all. A man u told us u married for love, all of a sudden he stopped being caring, u got pregnant amidst the" uncaring moments" ur caring ex sent in 50k and ur " uncaring husband refused to show up for hours. Lies upon lies.

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  70. Uriel (Freshdew)31 October 2015 at 17:00

    Madam is for better or worse..
    * The grass is not greener on the other side but it is were it is watered. Work on your marriage by prayers, your attitude, and efforts.
    Good luck

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  71. FRUITHFUL31 October 2015 at 17:17

    From the beginning was your husband like that.. NO Bcos if he was, u wouldn't have left "ur caring ex " for him. You started having problems when you reconnected with ur ex..yeah..good.

    Ma'am am sure you have weighed ur hubby's pocket, seen that he has more money than ur " uncaring hubby" according to you, and now secretly having an affair with ur ex, am sure ur hubby found out about you two,or might have seen or heard something before he decided to be avoiding you. You just confirmed all my thoughts when you throw the stupidest question ever; " should I leave my husband for my ex..Yeye dey smell. You re just been greedy and selfish. For ur " uncaring husband not to have come for you during delivery, then something is not right about the innocent child. Tell us the truth ma'am, have you had anything to do with ur ex while still in ur matrimonial home?

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  72. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 18:27

    Emjay, learn to ignore, they eventually get tired and go away.

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  73. Rib31 October 2015 at 18:28

    Poster your story is not complete. U said ur husband is 48yrs old and from ur narative, u ve a son for him. Now what will make a 48yrs old man not show love and support to his wife and only son? We don't know why but i am sure you do. He suddenly changed as how? Have you even tried to find out why he changed and do something about it as a wife? You ste contemplating leaving your marriage because someone is showing attention to you by the side. If there is no man by the side telling you sweet things will you ever consider leaving your marriage now that your hubby is acting up? I think you are already having affair with your ex and you have started comparing him and your hubby. You better retrace your steps and pray to God to bring happiness to your home again.

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  74. Unknown31 October 2015 at 18:42

    Y'all with dumb advices that only know how to cuss pple out, ur chronicles will be sent in sooner than you think IJN...Amen!
    Poster, ur husband is immature, with that age diff, he is supposed to pamper u with love and care...I'd just advice that u take your matter to God in prayer because ur husband myt just be d ryt person for you. There's a saying that 'He's good to me doesn't mean he's good for me'. Pray your way out! Pray for God to guide you. What you have said isn't enuf reason to leave your husband. Have you tried your best to make it work??? Pray and fast so u don't take decisions u'd regret later in life!

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  75. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 19:05

    Poster men are same o. Dnt go 4m fry pan to fire. He's nice cos he still want you, he may change once u enter his house

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  76. Rosie and kids31 October 2015 at 19:11

    Poster your hubby is impotent,hence his change in attitude towards you. He knows you cheated and he is not the father of your child.confess to him and if forgives and accept you back thank God, if not pick up the pieces of your life and start all over.

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  77. Moncoeur's behbeh31 October 2015 at 19:23

    Dont even think about leaving your husband. Marry your ex and he will bring a third. Try and fix your home, get a good job, channel all your energy to your son, if your husband sees you as an asset he will come crawling.

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  78. 00731 October 2015 at 19:41

    Another married whore. This bitch doesn't even know the father of her baby.

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  79. Chikito The Blog Sager with some fire 😜31 October 2015 at 20:14

    Since everyone has already said my ming, I will proceed to write moral lessons. Moral(s) of this story:
    1. DO NOT, i repeat DO NOT marry an older man who doesn't have money. You will be so frustrated that you will be pushed to do things you swore you will never do. If you want marry man wey senior you for 10 years and above, please make sure he is extra extra comfortable or super rich sef. So that by the time his head starts touching, he has set you up financially through business or paying for an expensive school and using connections to get you a bad ass job. Anything else, na scam!

    2. Never say never. See as poster said never before, when given a 'platter' of 1st wife. Now she is eagerly considering 2nd wife. It is well.

    3. Men should take care of their women nau! See as 50k dey make person wife get longer throat. @money maker if you like marry a God-fearing wife and don't take care of her. She will be lured by men, especially if she is beautiful. Eventually the devil can creep in, even though she might not accept that that's what is happening. When you spoil your wife with some things, you raise the bar for longerthroat men outside, and even make them afraid to come close. Let her know you are making that sacrifice and its almost beyond your means sef, but because it is her you will do it. How can a wife kneel to beg her husband for baby's things? Hian!!

    Poster - forget that thing you are thinking about. e no pure. Get your financial independence. Find something doing. You are young sha and i feel bad for you. But you shouldn't consider you ex. No no!

    4.

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    1. Unknown1 November 2015 at 05:16

      Madam Chikito,
      The money maker and Mr money makes you bla bla.are two different people. One of the two is highly disciplined.

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  80. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 20:59

    You slept with another man while married?? Is he the father of your child?? Maybe your husband knows he is impotent and the child isn't his hence the change in attitude.. Lol

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  81. Anonymous31 October 2015 at 21:16

    She started seeing what her husband did wronge from that day she
    meet her ex.boyfriend,maybe your husband have started thinking he is not
    the father of your child,
    i hate when a nigeria lady will say she love a man and married him for love but this
    and but that after

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  82. seniorita31 October 2015 at 21:33

    Dear poster, try n pray for ur home okay cos it's not always rosy... going back to ur ex is not an option

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  83. Temidear1 November 2015 at 01:41

    Sincerely I feel for you bt leaving your husband is not d solution, you have to work for your marriage... You want to do for his wife wot u couldn't take, the pasture always look greener on d oda side. Call on God,he is Able

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