STAND ALONE NARRATIVE.
THE ENEMY WITHIN
Greetings to you Stella,
My heart is so broken and in a great state of confusion but i'll try and make this as brief as possible.
3 months ago my husband brought a lady home he claimed to be his cousin and when i said i didn't remember seeing her at our wedding he said she was living abroad then and his kid brother that stays with us said it was true. To my surprise yesterday evening my husband beat the living daylight out of this lady and even slashed her body with razor blade,i have never seen my husband that angry before,nobody could pacify him,at a point he even locked the door behind and continued with the brutal beating so that we would stop interfering.
When he was finally done he drove out of the house and i quickly ran upstairs to console the lady only for her to start screaming at me that i should leave her alone and that for my information she's not my husband's cousin but his new wife to be and that my mother in law (who has always been complaining that her son can never marry an edo girl but must marry their fellow igbo) was aware of the whole plan and that they were all working towards overthrowing me gradually.
That the reason he beat her up was because she caught him with another woman that very day and beat the woman and stripped her naked in public and also broke his windscreen. I still pinch myself from time to time to be sure am not dreaming,to think that i made this lady my best friend,she had access to my kitchen,bedroom,cars and even my newborn baby not knowing i was living with a big enemy.
She has since left and my hubby has been begging me. A part of me says i should leave cos such a man is dangerous but whenever i look at my newborn child i get really confused.
Pleases Stella and my fellow bvs i could really use some advice right now. Thanks.
My dear i have never heard of anything like this before,I am short of words and all i can end with is that you should thank God for your life.
CHRONICLES!!!
ReplyDeleteIWRC.
*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Chronicles of all Chronicles... at least this ur narrative veered off the regular mainstream and still in a way related to it.. wow.. i don't even know what to say or where to begin..
Deletewhy is ur husband's family against their son marrying edo woman? shuoh!! all these archaic minded primitive families with stereotyping syndromes.. to even think they were part of such disturbing and betraying plot.. just to oust u out of their son's home because u are not igbo like them is really stupid.. and ur husband is one of the most dangerous sly ass bastard out there.. infact just report to ur parents and see if they'll support ur moving out of that dead trap of a marriage u are in.. if they agree.. please move out.. i don't trust those people from A-B
and pls if u have edo sister that is yet to be married abeg introduce her to me.. i want to marry edo girl.. gaskiya
Dear poster, I think your husband is the enemy here. Someone who could bring in a complete stranger close to you and your child this way. Ha! It's so strange........ To put his family in harms way! But thank God for nullifying their plans. Thank God for scattering the marriage.
DeleteEerrmm, but wait, hubby still had a gf outside after putting 2 women under 1 roof in his house? Your hubby though!! Just thank God for your life mhen! Thank God their plan didn't end well!!
Dear poster, I think your husband is the enemy here. Someone who could bring in a complete stranger close to you and your child this way. Ha! It's so strange........ To put his family in harms way! But thank God for nullifying their plans. Thank God for scattering the marriage.
DeleteEerrmm, but wait, hubby still had a gf outside after putting 2 women under 1 roof in his house? Your hubby though!! Just thank God for your life mhen! Thank God their plan didn't end well!!
Oturubeke! Alice in wonderland!! Jehova is a God of war. Mighty man in battle!
DeleteChei!! I don't know what to say madam. But your husband is a beast. He not human. Mbanu!
Emjay, you can never make any reasonable comment in your beggy beggy life.
DeleteMadam I won't advice you to leave your marriage please just go somewhere with your baby for the mean time. You need to leave that environment so you can think properly.
DeleteSome people don't like to marry from other tribe and I'm very sure you saw all the signs that your MIL does not like you before you still went ahead to marry hubby. That's in the past now though.
Just be strong
Nah,dont leave yet,gather some money,i mean enough money,that will be enough to start afresh,then gbam,tell him or just varnish then call him and tell his sorry a** that you're leaving him for goooood.
DeleteConfusion in d cam of enemy
DeleteAnno16:25,ntorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
DeleteWhat did she beg yhu fuckard?
Scientists are still researching 4 d cure 4 ur madness,its not snub again,u will surely die of hate.
Poster thank God for your life and that of ur child,but don't knw wat tell u.weda to stay or leave.
Miss blackie, you're right. Na wa oh
DeleteShe is not the enemy your husband is the enemy. He is having unprotected sex with you sleeping beside you each night yet planning to throw you out, he even has another babe apart from the one he brought into your home. Abeg only a desperate Nigerian women will be there asking questions blaming mother in law and everyone else except husband who swore to protect you that betrayed you. Next time na you he go beat kill
ReplyDeleteU can say dt again...
DeleteExactly my take on this,that lady was never an enemy! Besides you should thank God cause he has proved to be your defender indeed! Your husband na ekwesu
DeleteJust when you think you've heard it all! Oh My God! Madam, God loves you. God deliberately ruined their relationship to expose them.
DeleteYour husband though, haba!
People no longer have the fear of God though.
I agree with the above comment, your husband is the enemy because he willingly let this happen. He brought another woman into his home and still cheated on both of you. He needs serious prayers. I really think you need to get your parents involved.
They'd give you the proper guidance abeg.
This one pass me.
gbam!
DeleteMay God bless u, May u live long. May u never see lack or sorrow,everything you lay ur hands to do must prosper o. Thank God some pple still have sence in this world. I almost catch fire reading the idiot's conclusion.
DeleteBetter FLEE... You are a living corpse. you don't even need any one to tell you you what to do. If you die that baby will be taken care of. So find your life.
DeleteMadam don't be stupid please leave,God has already shown you the family you're married into but you want to be asking questions.
DeleteSomeone I heard of with this similar story is dead today with the supposed relative now living there till date.And she found out just like you.
GBAM!
DeleteGod Exposed their secret to you, you should be thankful and even more prayerful now that you know d kind of man you married. As for leaving now that you have a new baby don't know what to advise on that but won't ask u to leave just yet.
ReplyDeleteI believe everything thing worked for good for you. The same man that brought in a second wife, beat her up ND designed her with razor blade. We men make stupid choices sometimes but we know where our hearts belong. There is more to your story which we don't know.
DeleteGod sees your heart and that was why he made that happen. Be grateful to God,dont leave the house rather tha continue praying and thank God
DeleteGOD FOUGHT FOR YOU
Madam first and foremost. Don't leave your God, The living God is with you. Sing praises to God first for throwing pepper in their midst. Let me go and think again and come back with constructive advise.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahan@lemme go and think again...this story reach to send person brain on recess jare.
DeleteAdonbilivit this story...
ReplyDeleteIn this time and age?...
But if this story is true which I doubt,you should leave that marriage oh...cos dude never loved you and he will beat you one day the same way he beat that lady...
Oriegwu!...
Fake story!...
Am sure he beats her already
DeleteFakest story! Dese fins don't happen dese days, in dis age? Nahh
Delete*dat messsed up silly girl*
Gadamn!!!
ReplyDeleteU still dey ask question?
1st d scheming, den the lies now violence and u still dey ask queshion? Ok ...this ur husband family need award cos their wickedness no get mate.
God save us
The observer Lol @ ur husband faamily wickedness no get mate.if u mmeet my husband's family u will know this one's are learners.
DeleteI tire oh,she still dey ask mumu question.those your in-laws will plan your death with your husband
DeleteIs your husband Edo? Cod the depth of wickedness I see in mine an honorary award e take
DeleteMen can be so cruel...Only u can decide what to do at this point.No one can tell u to stay or leave.It's all in ur hands #SadThough
ReplyDeleteOMG!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLeave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jeez!!!!!!!!is this for real? That family don't like you at all,and your husband is mean!!sleeping with another woman under ur nose.just thank God she didn't poison you.only u know what to do at this moment.cos that man u call a husband doesn't have any iota of respect for u.
Deleteoh yessssssss, leave!!!
DeleteA man that can do that can kill without conscience!!
ReplyDeleteMadam whatever you do, be careful. Be wise. Pray!
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
ReplyDeleteNKAN NBE!!!!
STRANGE BUT TRUE
Why asking if you should stay. Come on , a man with such heart can kill. Dating outside your marriage is understandable, not bring her to your home .....even the family are aware of the marriage with the lady.
DeleteHunnie life is once! You escaped been thrown out witout nothing,now u av a chance to leave prepared and with everything/anything you want. U berra use wisdom!
ReplyDelete*jaw drop* the other woman has left, u can stay. Don't leave your home pls...it's a rude awakening, but u will get over it, thank God d other woman fought ur battle for u....just keep ur eyes n senses skinned, he might do it again,he might not.
ReplyDeleteNa wah. That was how my neighbor downstairs married his so called cousin that he brought from the village to help his wife when she was pregnant barely a year after his wife's demise and she has even given him a baby girls some months ago and is now maltreating the hell out of the one year old son the poor wife left behind.
DeleteAhhh cuz came, wife died, cuz became wife? I smell a skunk!!!
DeleteGosh! Why are women so desperate and foolish? Now lemme ask u directly blackberry, y are u foolish and wicked? How can u ask this woman to remain with a man that van kill her? If she where ur blood sister that u truely love, wld u have advised her to stay? What's all this desperation to be married and stay married biko nu? Just imagine, "she'll get over it". Get over what exactly, that a man she entrusted her life to can bring a girl to his home disguised as his cousin, leave his family in her hands without know if she's a killer or witch, or will she get over the fact that even her brother in law was in the know, and lied for his brother, or the fact that her mother in law also plotted this evil with her children, BlackBerry, which one will she get over Pls? This woman has no one in that family, in fact those in laws of hers including her husband are her immediate enemies, the enemies she always prays to God to protect her from. Don't be senseless by advising her to stay. If ul stay in such a home becos of ur desperation to stay married, don't wish that on another woman. As for u bv, u better run, run, run and don't look back. Many women have died for lesser things than this sef. God loves u, and that's y he spared ur life. Pls leave that house so u can stay alive for ur child. A man who can go this far against his wife is deeply evil. Pls and Pls, leave while u still breath. My God, I have never heard this type of wickedness in my life b4. Jehova nkusu ni'le nkendi agha! Hian oh!
DeleteJehovah!!!!!...I don't even know what to advice here ooo
ReplyDeleteMumu
ReplyDeleteAm short of words as well!!!! @money maker biko bollow me ur dictionary.
ReplyDeleteHmm the plan was to overthrow and kick you out of the house from the begining....why not do so before he devices another means....my dear at this point you are better off on your own oh, am surprised you are still alive and intact. How can you trust such a family. The Lord is your strenght oh.. cripwalking away
ReplyDeleteStay. Ivanka trump says don't get angry get even. I hope he has money. Pretend as if everything is ok and start saving everything you can for your exit cost dear you will still leave. Willingly or unwillingly.
DeleteO sweet Jesus!
ReplyDeleteStrange things made stranger!
Please ma'am! The only thing I'll advice is to at least give your husband some space, and yourself space to think and clear your head, then you could decide on what best to do when you're no longer in a confused state.
I've learnt never to make decisions when angry, and never to make a promise when happy...
So give yourself time and space away from him to think, then you could decide on what best to do. God help you make the best decision.
But one more thing, you'd want to know that your husband is a very dangerous man, I mean very dangerous.
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If i were you i would have left without looking back. I think women should stop using their children as an excuse to stay in a marriage that is not gonna work. He betrayed ur trust. Such a person can plot ur death.
ReplyDeletecorrect advice!
DeleteGbam!
DeleteChronicles
ReplyDeleteNa wah
ReplyDeleteIs this story really true? If it is,u don't have to leave your home.Give God all the praise for exposing your enemy.
ReplyDeleteGive God all the praise, yes I support, than after that leave. The enemy he exposed is ur husband, and it's dangerous to live with an enemy. Ma'am how do wanna sleep at night with this typa devil huh?
DeleteNne, pls leave. Not because u want to just yet, but cos u want to teach him a lesson.Let him know that his plan has backfired on him.Oh! So he's a chronic womaniser? N is angry that his sidee chic was beaten up? And she, what was she expecting, u want to dethrone a woman from her home and u saw ur karma just before marriage n u r screaming wolf? Let her lick her wounds, but for u do not forgive just yet.This is just too much.If u hadn't heard u would have been out on the streets with ur newborn all the same.Please, please please leave now that the begging is still on doh reh mi
ReplyDeleteYou guys just keep asking her to leave, do u think its easy to leave??? My dear your husband loves you for him to take you to the alter just at some point the wicked tried to spoil it but God has intervened by exposing them
DeleteJust when I thought i have seen it all baa mmm! 9ja men come up with another despicable act.
ReplyDeleteGirls of today don't learn. The handwriting might have been there before marriage but chose to ignore it. I advice you leave such marriage, such family can plan ur funeral while u r still alive.
All of you be shouting Men forgetting the plan was orchestrated by the mother inlaw. Women are their own enemies. Pls leave men out of it
DeleteThe mother in law didn't plan it she was aware of the plan, the man planned it by himself read well
Delete@Anon 16:09 Nope we won't leave men out of it, her husband is very wicked. Yes, the plan was devised by her mother in law but her husband whom swore to stand by her till death went along with it instead of growing some balls and throwing her out b4 bringing his new wife in. That in by opinion is the height of deceit and wickedness.
DeleteMadam, igbo dey marry from other tribes.
ReplyDeleteWhat is ur sin?
There is no smoke without fire.
Why does he want to marry another wife?
Are you FAT?
Are you nag?
Are you querulous?
Check urself and make amends.instead of trying to blame ur MIL.Or trying to get undue sympathy.
Are u a nag?are u quarrelsome?
DeleteSo if a woman nags and quarrel,d husband will marry another wife? U re a compound fool.
just when i thought u have learnt and become wiser.. smh
DeleteI have never told you this before, but please act your age.it is all fun until someone gets hurt. This issue can cause her depression so be sensitive. If you have got nothing to say,for the sake of humanity,kind shut d fuck up! Can't deal!
DeleteThis ur grammer eh! "Are you nag"indeed.lmao. But wait..o is that all you can say? Does that justify what her husband n inlaws did to her?you sef!
DeleteBiko what do you have against fat women?
DeleteIf you leave what wld you gain? God fought a big battle for you and gave you the glory and spoils, fight for urself and ur child, I believe that what happened to haman in the book of Esther will prevail, as far as they've begin to fall b4 u, they will definitely fall and scatter..go and give testimony and share stuffs to beggers or orphanage home, don't leave your home
DeleteWhy do I have a feeling you do this on purpose, bloody attention seeker! Are you nag? I'm sure you have auto correct. Please stop seeking undue attention!
DeleteYou obviously are a misogynist.ewu ewu ewu.
DeleteEveryday...'are u fat'? Shut up pls.
Delete*do u nag, are u quarrelsome...
DeleteYour comment is so disgusting.
DeleteI have never insulted anyone on this our family blog, but If this is all you have to say in a matter like this, then i pity your future, that is if you have any.
DeleteMoney maker l always look forward to your grammars oo 'are u Nag' lolzzz
Delete'Are you nag??? Are you querulous??'. What is all this? Eh? What kind of English is this one?
DeleteIn moments like this "Eziokwu" I miss LADY IGO; she always has a good wise piece of advice to give and a good story to tell.
ReplyDelete@POSTER: You need to be steadfast in your spirit now. Thankfully, this lady has left but it is not yet uhuru. You should fast and pray; even a fruit fast. And pray fervently to reclaim your home. That is only if you love your husband. You mustn't open up so quickly to him. Being mute will make him wonder what you will do next. Whatever you are convinced while you pray (yes, the Lord will lead you on what to do), you should do it.
Mind you that you have every right to leave and even marry again; but that does not make the Lord not to "hate divorce". FAST AND PRAY LADY.
Did you forget Ronaldo "the special one", I'm looking forward to her advice. Ronaldo I love.
DeleteJust when u think you've heard it all?! Got no words :(
ReplyDeleteThis is the height of wickedness and i cant believe people can be this wicked! Narrator Pls leave that marriage or you will die in it and there will be nobody left to take care of your defenceless little Child! The family does not like you and nothing you do will ever please them. Your husband is the greatest Lucifer of all times. How can there ever be trust in that marriage again? Trust me, if you dont leave, the will poison you one day to get you out of the way. Pls tell everybody what he did and get out of that house. You will survive trust me. and at least you will be alive for your child
ReplyDeleteLord v mercy.men! My Edo sis.so sorry.take it easy.ask God for help. Think well cos u v a child already
ReplyDeleteMehnnnn if dis story is true, I will never complain about some nollywood storyline again......
ReplyDeleteYeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaah! Poster tank God for ur life and dat of ur baby, she could av killed u or the poor child. That family is dangerous, including ur husband, they will keep on trying untill they succeed. Forgive him now and pretend like nothing happened but be careful bcos of urlife and baby, start saving money in a private account unknown to him and buy properties in ur name without his knowledge, then u can now leave before they kill u.
ReplyDeleteThe God you serve is not asleep. He has sent confusion to the camp of your enemies. I don't find your story hard to believe because I know someone that has been in a similar situation.
ReplyDeleteI wonder how your husband can just bring a lady home and you won't investigate. It shows the level of communication and understanding you have with his family members.
At times dis is y its gud to hv at least a friend among ur in-laws. B4 such a tin can tk plc, he/she might hv tipped u. My dear poster I really dnt knw hw to advice sha bt I tink u shld stay quiet but b at alert
DeleteDnt even say anything, no quarrels or accusations just form deaf n dump so pple wont knw ur plans but patiently watch n pray
OMG
DeleteYou people should stop this"when I look at my child/children"is so annoying....although I don't advice u 2 leave yet.
Why do u husband want 2 marry another woman when u have a child 4 him?
Your husband and his whole family is evil n can kill,so 4 now, I advice you 2 tread carefully
Plan your self 4 now,dont just leave yet....take things easy n surprise the whole family with your exist
I think is better she never suspected them n God fought th battle for her, if she had been suspecting the lady,she would hav been the on to get the beating n officially sent packing. Whatever happens, just take ur time n plan ur next line of action. U can as well start saving if u have not been doing that.
DeleteMadam leave oooo, u r so lucky dt d laddy did nt even kill u. bcoz u were so easy to be killed. If u dnt leave,they mite even kill ur child or you. So u want to stay there bcoz of ur child abi, if d kill u,ur child wil "over suffer" sef.
ReplyDeleteSerious case...
ReplyDelete.....even your boo has a boo...
Delete......when God is fighting battles that you aren't aware of. ....
.......even side chics/ side wives get jealous?....
Your husband and his family are MONSTERS!
You should start with taking some time away from him. Make sure you inform your parents because you and your baby could have been poisoned or even killed!
I'm sure they have been hooking up under your roof- I can even picture it......
Wonders shall never end!
That your husband is just as guilty as his family. I don't think I can live with such a person. He didn't even have the decency to keep her outside your matrimonial home.
So, if you had been the one who caught him cheating, and broke his windshield et al, he would have slashed you with a blade and beaten you to a pulp?
You need to re-evaluate your marriage. If you choose to return to him, make sure you send away that your brother in law and you keep your mother in law at arms length.
People are really going through hell in their marriages !
My dear,i only pray God will heal u oo,cos such a deceit from your husband is so bad.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... This is to the married men, just like what happened to this woman something similar happened to a man. His wife also brought in a young man to live with them, he lived with them for 5 good years, DH didn't know he was sharing his wife with his "BIL" that is how lover boy was sharing wifey with DH and eating free food. Dear all, please know your in-laws. Some people are wicked!
ReplyDeleteOkay o nde married women over to you.
ReplyDeleteMadam nosering and lip ring. No informed comment as usual.
DeleteMam, where u should be is your parents place not husband's house oh. This is what should involve both families. Live that home asap. Stop looking @ your 3 months old baby but think of you and baby's safety. Can u imagine what would have happened had u died? This man would have cried crocodile tears @ your funeral. Woman think of your life oh!! I bet u he will marry another igbo woman be there looking @ baby.
ReplyDelete# African Magic things !
DeleteThis is serious! I have read about different marriage woes here. But not something like this. I'm indeed short of words. One thing is certain that for you to be going through such an experience means you would surely overcome and come out stronger.
ReplyDeleteWaiting to read words of wisdom addressing this problem
Now, I'm fully convince that been single is the best!
ReplyDeleteif u r given an e vogue to drive and u r proposed to in a beach house after one week of dating...Won't u denounce singlehood?
DeleteStory!!!!!
DeleteOkwu nkasi obi..
Stop deceiving yourself, there are good marriages!
You single ladies should stop mingling with boys that will turn horseband.....sometimes,the signs are there.
Chronicles should make you prayerful, not scared.
Deleteyes oooo, singlehood rocks!
DeleteMy dear as a single lady you have peace of mind o. Shu! Wetin ppl dey go through for marraige to much.
DeleteOkwu Nkasi Obi Ndi no na afufu. Marriage is sweet if you married your own missing rib and not a stolen rib.
DeleteContinue to be d good woman u r.God has vindicated ur enemies.
ReplyDeleteSome men and their wicked ways, i wonder what they really want. Image him having a new born yet he's thinking of remarrying? I don't blame ladies who won't marry another tribe and it's all because of things like this. His bro had to lie too that the intruder is their cousin. smh
ReplyDeletePoster, please forgive your husband but guard your heart, don't be too trusting and pray for your home. It is well.
Is this a nollywood script?
ReplyDeleteThis actually happened?
Like seriously?
Madam pls be very grateful to God,
God just saved you and also exposed your enemies to you.
That your husband can kill...
Meanyl dnt be too relaxed that the woman has left your house, have it at the back of your mind that your husband will rent an apartment for her or anyoda outside your home since this one busted.
Don't even know what you can do in this case,
Maybe you shld involve both families, since his mother is a party to the plan.
It is well with you and your baby.
Hmmmm wat can I say to u poster? Women are really suffering in the hands of men o. It is well my dear.
ReplyDeleteleave that marriage....that is the only advice you need. he will do worse things to you in due course.
ReplyDeleteLeave the man my dear. A man who can beat up another woman that brutally, to the point of slashing her with a razor blade, is dangerous, and could one day do same to you.
ReplyDeleteMen!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSometimes i ask myself if marriage is really worth it,buh den i remember dat the lord God created marriage 2 be a beautiful union btw a man n a woman.d tin wit our generation is dat we dnt walk in God statues n ordinances b4 saying i do....buh hey i'm not here to judge buh to let u knw dat d same God who has bin ur shield is still alive n well.....u don marry u don marry be dat o!
ReplyDeleteMy dear,plz go on ur knees,cry n call on ur God to fight ur battle.for divorce is not an option,n i'm quite sure u luv ur hubby.just trust in d power of our lord jesus christ to fight ur battle for d battle is of d lord....it's well.
Me likey
DeleteDivorce is an option in some cases abeg.
DeleteEvn the bible allows it if infidelity is involved.
This is sooo hard and painful
I belive a lady should mend her home, try to work it out in "some" cases bt to me,dz is too much.
I suggest u leave there for now tho.
Be more Prayerful, trust and listen to God,he will show u what to do.
So sad.....................e-hugssss
Igbos do that all the time. You better leave cos he will still go ahead to marry another one but this time he will be better at hiding it from you. You need to be afraid of a man who can do what your husband just did.
ReplyDeleteNo,is yorubas' that normally does that.
DeleteNo, it's hauas' kikikikiki
DeleteHold up...is this even real?did this really happen? both of u have a child together and he did this?he deceived u this way?pls did u just move in with this man?no dt can't be bcos u talked about a wedding...woman u are married to a monster,yes that's wht he is...this man has no regard for u whatsoever.have u told ur parents?discuss it with them so they'll know what's going on
ReplyDeleteNawa ooooo. Men!!!! Oriegwu ooo. My dear wipe your eyes cry no more. I know it's very painful. Your hubby did they unimaginable!!! If you are not comfortable to marry Edo woman why did he? That's my concern . See Thank God the igbo girl opened up to you. Some girls can hide this kind of thing. Yes I'm having issues with my hubby. And I had this kind of your dream last night. Where I was cooking downstairs and my hubby dragged the stranged woman out. Telling her he doesn't want again. Mehn I was even consoling the woman. But hubby doesn't want again. As I saw it in a dream so shall it be. She is out forever. And my God has answered my prayer. Babe for the fact that he has never beaten you before and this woman is out. Give room for forgiveness. Let him knw that u r hurt also. Don't move out for now. Give him the benefit of doubt again. Give him another chance. I pray it doesn't repeat it self again. Amen.
ReplyDeleteOh chinekem.
ReplyDeleteIf a man and his family can plot such evil under my nose, i would pack out of that home immediately.. This man can kill you. Please leave
ReplyDeleteYour husband brought a woman to live with you, put you in harm's way and you will very soon say the juju has cleared and he is free. It is only a matter of time that they will bring another cousin. He was cheating on both of you with another woman. Your husband will either kill you with a disease or one of his upcoming mistresses will handle the job. You are confused when you look at your new born? You are confused that they will soon kill you and your child will be motherless or what other confusion? Nigerian women like to die in marriages so I'm not sure you would even listen.
ReplyDeleteThey won't listen so why bother?
DeleteLike seriously? And that's how God fought your battle, without you raising your hand... I'll say you should give your marriage another chance but please do not give any of your in laws room in your house again, Jeeezzz... Super scary
ReplyDeleteMadam, ur head strong like badagry coconut. Forgive ur yeye husband but remember you cant trust so many people in that family any longer.
ReplyDeleteforgive wetin?
Deleteabeg she should move out fast!
How many kids do u have? My dear , I don't usually advise people to live their marriage but ur life is in serious danger. They may end up going diabolical just to get rid of you. Men are pathetic! How does ur hubby sleep knowing fully well that there are three women in his life. Because as far as am concern there is u wife, sister wife and another side chick. His younger brother is even aware of the whole thing. Nne ur in a big mess. I really pity u. Sha
ReplyDeleteLeave.
DeleteNa wa ooooo....forgive him cos of d baby
ReplyDeleteRun for your life. That man and his family members can kill you, take away that new born baby from you. You don't have to walk away immediately. Take your time and do it codely and sharply.
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is truly wicked. Woman run with your baby.
He has two pussies at home yet he is going for another outside. Can men actually really be satisfied?
Stella, things dey happen oooo. I'm scared of life ooo, this institution called marriage ehn. It's either u have a good Mil n bad hubby or bad Mil n good hubby. I just tire. I no need post my chronicle, I dey learn here.
ReplyDeleteThere are good husbands with equally good mothers. I'm a good example of such. Just don't rush into marriage, make sure you pray about it. If you do that, when you meet the one for you, you will know. When you marry a man, you indirectly marry his family. If they don't like you that's a problem because you will have problems especially if the man is fond of them.
DeleteDear poster, you own I coming!! You had better run or report to the police incase he does the same to you!! How can he use blade to tear a woman's body!! The woman wasn't an enemy but your junior wife!! She didn't harm you or fight you.
ReplyDeleteChronicles of all Chronicles... at least this ur narrative veered off the regular mainstream and still in a way related to it.. wow.. i don't even know what to say or where to begin..
ReplyDeletewhy is ur husband's family against their son marrying edo woman? shuoh!! all these archaic minded primitive families with stereotyping syndromes.. to even think they were part of such disturbing and betraying plot.. just to oust u out of their son's home because u are not igbo like them is really stupid.. and ur husband is one of the most dangerous sly ass bastard out there.. infact just report to ur parents and see if they'll support ur moving out of that dead trap of a marriage u are in.. if they agree.. please move out.. i don't trust those people from A-B
and pls if u have edo sister that is yet to be married abeg introduce her to me.. i want to marry edo girl.. gaskiya
That is why I tell my single friends to marry a man who loves them and his family also loves and approves of their marriage, some girls no go hear. I married my Yoruba husband even though I'm from South South, his mum is like a mother to me and all his siblings don't joke with me, DH too respects me and always praises me in front of his people. What if I had married my kinsman who maltreats me or his family don't approve of me? Poster, the Lord is your strength, I'm sure all of them will be ashamed of themselves now including ur mother in law. Forgive them,They have learnt their lessons but be vigilant because people are wicked. Also make sure u save so dat u won't be stranded in case they succeed in throwing u out.
ReplyDeleteIs it the lady that is your problem or your husband ?? Your husband is a very deep and wicked fellow. Why will he be planning such things with is mother and his mistress and to think she has been living with you guys. That man is callous this is just the height of wickedness and she is not even the only one in the picture. Sorry madam you are in for a very long ride it is well take your marriage to God your inlaws don't like you and your husband is beside them, am not sure if he even have any iota of love for you. Jeez who does that to the one they claim to love na wa God will really judge case.
ReplyDeleteMy sister thank you, women can be so misguided. Here is a man who she just had a baby for plotting with his people to throw her out or even kill her yet she is looking at baby. Ngwanu continue, they will plan again maybe they will be smarter next time. Doesn't she have a family ni? Is she an orphan? Your husband carried another woman and brought home you didn't tell your family abi is he feeding your family? If you had done this to him will he hear begging?
DeleteHmmm nawa o,me sef I'm frightened already. I'm from Edo too,and I plan getting married to is from another state. And his only fear is that his parents wouldn't not agree to the union simply because I'm from Edo.
ReplyDeleteDear Ladies, when ever the family of a man u want to marry opposes the union (ESPECIALLY THE MOTHER), please do the wise thing and call off that relationship. Living in the midst of those who dont want you amongst them will forever deprive u of ur peace of mind. The bond between a son and his mother is one so strong that if that woman does not want u in her sons life, she has 101 ways of manipulating him against u in that marriage.
ReplyDeleteExactly !
DeleteY'all coming here to waste our time with movie scripts
ReplyDeleteBetter watch it
Ain't nobody got time for these lies
Okwuosa flora
Madam posterplease be careful is all I can say..
ReplyDeleteMen sef,if it is d wife that is cheating now,he woukd av sent her packing
What the ...
ReplyDeleteHis mother hates you
The brother obviously hates you to keep this wickedness from you.
He was cheating on you with the fake cousin who is living in your house.
He cheated on the "fake cousin" with another woman.
That means you don't even count in this scenario.
The only person that loves you is God and your baby.
The decision is yours.
The man is a coldblooded human-being.
XOXO MYSTERY
When her husband doesn't respect her why should his brother respect her
DeleteMy dear hear these words ... Run run run! God has helped u by opening ur eyes and exposing them.. I dnt know hw else u want him(God) to speak to u. This man can kill u not to talk of his family. Imagine the things they could have done to u n ur baby! No matter what u do they will never c u as their own cos they have made it clear from day one and even demonstrated it by bringing in whom they want. My mother (who is Edo) suffered the same fate with my father (IBO) s people until she lost one of her children (my sister,God rest her soul) to this wickedness...! this plan has failed but reinforcement is on the way.. If your husband was not a heartless man he would not have concurred and gone ahead with their plan. He likes the “idea of u”and not u. My mom is Edo married to Ibo... I have told u!
ReplyDeleteMy dear, please don't stereotype us. My sister is married to a Benin man, 2 of my cousin married Edo men and we're Igbo. A lot of my cousins married non-igbos as well and they're happy. It has nothing to do with the tribe, but the family itself.
DeleteWonders shall never end. God really loves you by exposing their evil plans against you before it starts manifesting. for your husband to connive with his mum and brother to hatch such an evil plan against you, i don't think it's safe for you to continue living with such a man. what if the lady had poisoned you, since she has access to your kitchen?..Stay away from him, if he is truly repentant, he will come looking for you..
ReplyDeleteI am short of words.We are indeed living in a wicked world.God will heal your broken heart maam,just focus on your child and job for now.God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteDamn it!!!! when u think u have read all the strangest and worse Chronicles.......dis shows up SMH. Women women women....i still say dis "women are the biggest enemies of themselves, not men". Imagine a mother in-law doing dis to her daughter-in-law. i wonder how a full grown man will allow his mother ruin his home...Madam i pray that God will give you wisdom to handle dis and also be very very very very careful about your husband's people ooooooo cos they can poison you.
ReplyDeleteAlso be very prayerful... And dnt forget to visit the Lab for a test...seems your husband was sleeping with you and other women. Ronalda my love, ur advice is needed here oooooo.
His mother didn't " ruin" his home he ruined it by himself, he is the one fucking different women and even bringing one into his house, he is the one who swore to love honour and defend her
DeleteAbeg let men take responsibility for their actions, the mother didn't put a gun to his head
leave now woman!
ReplyDeleteGod showed you mercy and exposed the wickedness because of your good heart. Be careful and watch as things will go. At least now you know what's going on. Don't be too much in a hurry to move out of your home.
ReplyDeleteTo say am speechless is an understatement!!! Jesus and I thought my baby daddy is bad.. My dear am so scared for you... Like your husbands family is evil.. You need to pls be very prayerful!! Pray for Gods guidance. I would even pray for you. You need to sit down with your husband and pls understand what is going on in his head Biko pls. If they have gone this far they can kill you. Pls look after your baby!!! Be very very careful!!! Ha Jesus
ReplyDeleteIf I were you I won't leave...that's all I got to say
ReplyDeleteso not only did your husband bring his mistress to your house who has been living with you, he is also cheating on you with someone outside and he has the tendency to be violent and has been planning to kick you out of the house............my dear run!!! run for your life abeg
ReplyDeletePoster ur hubby is wicked ooo, I'm not sure he loves u, are u sure u didn't marry him for his money? He brought home a rival wife in arrangement with his family members, yet he was still womanizing, don't go and die in dat house ooo, they can kill u to achieve their aim, I know some desperate families like dat.
ReplyDeletePoster carry ur baby, pick a car, carry any money within ur reach and run for your dear life. U are in bed wth so many enemies ranging from ur husband to ur inlaws... God forbid bad tin. I hv seen chronicles but this one deserves an Odiegwu really...
ReplyDeleteHe has a wife, he has a proposed wife and still has another lady outside!
ReplyDeleteDevil is a liar
Hia! Nka nbe!!
ReplyDeleteRolanda, biko, you are needed here
WTH!!!
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man....
Madam your hubby is an animal, all i can say. He didnt even have the decency to have put her in a hotel. He has absolutely no respect for you. I have heard of hubbys bringing dere mistresses home when madam has travelled. This one has no iota of respect or love for you. And his whole family knew.
ReplyDeleteI fear for your safety in that house, that man can poison you one day. He clearly doesnt want to be in that marraige and u are forming, 'he's begging'. He's only begging bcos that other lady left and he doesnt want to leave you. Nigerian women what else does a man want to do to you after this. Its only death that is remaining. He beat up a woman like dat, madam ur own is stillcoming. That is how the pediatrician in LUTH, must have been saying his begging, she has a kid.
Please pack ur load, tell him you need like 2wks in ur parents house. Let ur parents, matured family members and pastors advice you. This wan don pass asking bvs or stella.
Stella pls talk some sense into this lady,call her or watever, she needs to leave now for her safety abeg.
Dear poster ur God is at work.
ReplyDeleteGod fought your hidden battles and destroyed the camp of your enemies by giving them confusion. Fighting another woman when you know your own evil deeds.... hmmmm... women are really their own enemies. Madam forgive and forge ahead. God won for you. Bask in the euphoria. Its well.
ReplyDeleteMy darling, if you don't leave now, the next woman may kill you and your child... Jesus! Not only is your husband the devil, his family are his minions... You don't know what their next plan is.. And bear it in mind that you haven't seen the last of the so called cousin/new wife... Carry ur baby and run without looking back...
ReplyDeleteChrist!!!!! People are wicked o
It is well with u dear
Pls your instincts is very correct, not only is this man evil, his whole family is... Pls leave for now and get your people involved... your husband and his people owe you and your family an apology. What arrant Nonsense. And if you must go back a lot of condition must be placed, first nobody stays with you guys again...it's better he keeps is "other Igbo wife" in another house away from you and your child. #ItIsWell
ReplyDeleteOh my God! Yepa! I have never heard/ seen this one before. * cleans eyes* ..whaaaaaaat?!? .please, if I were you,I will say bye to that marriage before I receive a bigger shock. Whaaaaat!? My mouth is open o.that family is not just wicked but wiiicked! You mean you have been living with your co wife and God take like that disgrace them? She can share another woman's husband but she beat another up? Wetin you go come do as you dey feed am since? Are you sure they are over? You sure say dem never move base as yaw a don gas? Stella I follow you shock! Jesus! I weak!
ReplyDeleteThis life! Thank God for u and ur baby oo. That is how she would have poisoned ur baby and the family will have reason to throw u out. Chai! To think u cook for that his kid brother, is he still in ur house? He should be out by now. Anyway, follow ur heart. Inter tribal marriage!
ReplyDelete.....even your boo has a boo...
ReplyDelete......when God is fighting battles that you aren't aware of. ....
.......even side chics/ side wives get jealous?....
Your husband and his family are MONSTERS!
You should start with taking some time away from him. Make sure you inform your parents because you and your baby could have been poisoned or even killed!
I'm sure they have been hooking up under your roof- I can even picture it......
Wonders shall never end!
That your husband is just as guilty as his family. I don't think I can live with such a person. He didn't even have the decency to keep her outside your matrimonial home.
So, if you had been the one who caught him cheating, and broke his windshield et al, he would have slashed you with a blade and beaten you to a pulp?
You need to re-evaluate your marriage. If you choose to return to him, make sure you send away that your brother in law and you keep your mother in law at arms length.
People are really going through hell in their marriages !
Goodness God!
ReplyDeleteYou married the wrong person and the wrong family. Only God knows what the whole plan was. Thank Gof you are still alive.
Please let your family know what just happened. And leave him and go be with your family.
Thats the best you can do now. I trust God will lead you in the right direction.
Jesuuuu!!! What sort of wickedness is this Oghene! I had goose bumps reading this. Before I go on to give my advice, I want to you to know that this situation will not break you, it will make you stronger. I know this might not make sense now but it will in future. That being said, your husband is a wicked man that deserves punishment both from heaven and hell. I will advise that you separate yourself and your child from him for now. Go to your parents or a trusted friend's house. Do not give in to his pleas just yet. Don't let your child be the only factor you consider in making your decision. Every good and perfect gift comes from God and He sure knows how to take care of His own. And remember u also have your life to live. Thank God that he made it possible for all these to be revealed now. The same God will give you directions on what to do. Go on and cry honey, but don't waste your tears, direct them to God and ask Him for help. He will answer you.
ReplyDeleteYou see why some women wish death on their mother in laws, both future and present?
I'll say a prayer for you Honey, this too shall pass.
Lady, I am so sorry to read your story. However, I must tell you this- LEAVE THAT HOME! You are alone in that marriage your husband is not even with you. Besides a man that has that level of aggression towards his "supposed" wife to be, when do you think it will be your turn? You want to end up in the grave first? A man that has a heart so deep, brought in another woman into your matrimonial home- how wicked and daring is that? I don't know what your financial status is but if you have a source of income..LEAVE NOW..do not think this is an advice from a bitter housewife.Nope. I am happily married with kids for 9 years now so before people will start to think I am bitter and want to form a single mothers' club. You story is too close to home- a dear friend of mine was in your exact same state. To cut story short, she left too late and paid with her life. So please, sit down and map out your exit strategy. If you do not have anything to fend for yourself, take some months and build on it. Keep evidence of this should he want to keep your kids (if any). Do not deny him access to the kids should you decide to leave but,leave!
ReplyDeleteMadam poster i cant believe u are still in dat house asking us stupid questions..Dis is a humiliation of d highest order.Dont u have self worth? Dat u have a child is not a reason to stay in dat house anymore..
ReplyDeleteThat family is dangerous especially ur MIL..They will kill u if u dont walk away..Ur husband is a breast for bringing in another woman in ur matrimonial home..He is poisonous..Thank ur God for what happened..It could've been worse..
Igbos my flat ass..What does a man need from his wife if not kids..Have u not given him a child? Its not like u are barren..Dat u are from Edo is not a reason for then to treat u day except u have unfinished business with ur MIL..Did u quarrel with her when ur horseband was about marrying u? If yes,why did u not mend fences with her afterwards? U dey show her say u be Edo and u hold her son gidigbam? If dat woman is from my Anambra state then u are OYO..U dont mess with an anambra MIL..Nobody challenges dem..Not even their sons talkmore of a DIL..
Pack ur things and leave before they bring in another woman.
Shame on dat woman that came to share ur husband with u..Shame on all side chick dat are itching to depose a married woman from her home..Shame on u all desperate hoes on d loose..U will end up like d side wife in dis story..She got served..Let her come and marry nau..She dey fight her husband's girlfriend but doesnt have a conscience and pity for d main wife whom she came to snatch her husband..Wicked daughters of eve on d loose.
I choose to go anon on this......
ReplyDeletePoster, I so relate with you on Igbo mother in-laws palava. I have one too.The only difference in your case and mine is that my husband didnt bring any woman home but my MIL once told me(in her words):"na u push my son make he go marry, no be you I want make he marry". Seriously, the way they treat their wife is 'hellish'(if there's any word as such) especially if the wife is not from the Igbo tribe.
I wont tell you to leave your marriage or not, that's for you to decide......but in my case, I actually put my MIL where she belongs.....as in I stood my grounds and shut her off completely from my home not until three weeks ago when she stirred up trouble again......but trust me, IT WAS AN EYE FOR AN EYE BETWEEN US. The matter still dey ground sef,,,now hubby is begging me like there's no tomorrow, his sisters too join dey beg because nobody knows what my next line of action is.....I am like that,,no one can predict my actions in my anger and NO, I DIDNT LEAVE MY HOME/MARRIAGE cos there's no reason to do that, at least for now,, but I am fighting seriously at the moment not minding whose ox is gored.........
Back to ur case, ur hubby's attitude in all of this puts me in a tight corner on how to advise cos that man is a MURDERER. Beware of him!!! If you think you need time to stay away to think of your next line of action, pls take some day off. You need it abeg.
Please my dear sister pack ur load and move from dat eve husband house that u call ur husband before dey will poison ur baby.
ReplyDeleteDV waiting to be unleashed on you anytime soon. My sister, to run would be a slow process, please fly out of that matrimony, NOW.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, ibos prefer their own people...
ReplyDeleteWell you have entered and there is always a way out, tell ur family about it.
Stay with ur family for the now to avoid story that tickles
So try n be prayerful pls
...hohohohoho
God have mercy. Am speechless
ReplyDeleteok . let me assume this is real........r u saying that throughout the babe was in house u didnt notice anything off abt her.. woman please train ur intuition well and i think u r not a cautious type.... ok that being said, for ur hubby's family to do that kinda conspiracy on u, u are on ur own and u even asking what u should is appalling.. if ur child is in this situation , will u tell her to stay put.... stay there buh make sure u know that u r each close to ur grave..u wanna continue sleeping with enemy...ur horseband is evil and wicked so if God didnt expose it , u will still be living in fantasy .God is giving u a direct sign and u asking silly question.. nonsense .....
ReplyDeleteeveryone is saying leave leave...its not as easy as it looks....Poster,Just take it to the Lord in prayer...Get mature pastors involved and try an figure this whole thing out...Even I ordinarily reading, is in a state of shock...talk more of you who is in the situation. May God help you to make the best decision. Marriage is for better for worse....
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy abi? When she leaves in a casket it will be easy abi? Desperadoes
DeleteGod loves you. Dont Leave. Deal with your husband. He is very stupid
ReplyDeleterelax the Lord already fought ur battle fr u, just rejoice nd b glad cs the heaven nd earth is with u.
ReplyDeletethey didnt poison u nor ur new born, wateva u decide to do shouldnt b done in anger or bitterness, wateva ur choice will, God is wit u sister...
stay blessed.
God loves u,he exposed ur enemies cos ur hands re clean..let God lead u in any decisions u have taken.Bless u.
ReplyDeleteMadam if you that desperate .... I hv just one word for u... Stay? U know the rest,... I shock
ReplyDeleteHian!! Wicked family. U v got Jesus by Ur side o. May God direct you on what to do
ReplyDeleteHian!! Wicked family. U v got Jesus by Ur side o. May God direct you on what to do
ReplyDeleteMadam, continue that your prayer. Continue to serve that God.you may never know what God just help you overcome. I wish i can help you pack your bags from that marriage. BE WISE
ReplyDeleteAm shocked. And your husband agreed with their plan. How are we sure that he won't repeat same.
ReplyDeleteThe next time, your husband will be plotting to kill you. What are you still doing there? Pls pack your load and leave. Marriage is not a do or die affair. Imagine effrontery and guts to bring in, another woman into your home. Apart from the obvious, that your hubby neither lives nor respect you, he is an bayside and wicked man. Pls leave.
ReplyDeleteWahala dey for this thing called marriage.
ReplyDeleteWow I am disgusted at the fact that people are suggesting she stay and work it out. Madam your mother inlaw is not the problem. Your husband used razor blade to cut someone before your very eyes and you're talking mother in law. Just move. You cause you'll be next. He even has another mistress 😂😂😂. Please boo flee flee,this is not something you can work out. This man is abusive.
ReplyDeleteBesides I don't think it'll be healthy environment for for your child.
Madam I want you to know this today. Whether you want to believe it or not, I will tell you that, there are people out there praying for married couples especially My hubby and I. Daily we pray for homes that God should keep and strengthen their union. You don't know whose prayer worked for you. Please take it as a duty to be praying for other married couples too. Someone might be in a worse mess than yours.
ReplyDeleteYou have found favour in God's eyes, let him perfect his will in your life. I strongly advise that, you shouldn't leave your marriage. Stay there and prove them wrong. Now, na them go dey fear you because they don't know your next move. Just tell him all is well that you've forgotten about it. Don't talk about it. I swear them go dey panic every second wey dem see you because they don't know your next move and you've refused to talk about it.
Now let me ask you this question... If you leave what happens to your daughter? what will you tell her is your excuse for separating her and her father? Do you know the psychologically effective it will have on her? She might grow up not wanting anything to do with a man or have natural hatred for Igbo men just because of your own experience.
Woman I say to you this day, kindly stay back in your hubby's house. So you want to give his mother victory right? what if that is their plan B? I also put it to you that before you married this guy, you saw signs and still went ahead. Igbo peole don't like marrying outside their tribe like that. Imagine I'm igbo from Imo state and I married from Enugu. Yet my hubby's village people and aunties they say why must he marry outside their town. Of all places, Owerri. Same with other tribes. I knew the kind of fight my Mom and elder sister fought because she wants to marry an Akwa Ibom guy. Is everywhere my dear all you need is serious prayers.
Another question for you... What is the guarantee that the next man you will meet will be much better? We all have our individual difference you know. Just sitdon dey look dem drama okay.
All the best in whatever decision you make.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.....
Madam I want you to know this today. Whether you want to believe it or not, I will tell you that, there are people out there praying for married couples especially My hubby and I. Daily we pray for homes that God should keep and strengthen their union. You don't know whose prayer worked for you. Please take it as a duty to be praying for other married couples too. Someone might be in a worse mess than yours.
ReplyDeleteYou have found favour in God's eyes, let him perfect his will in your life. I strongly advise that, you shouldn't leave your marriage. Stay there and prove them wrong. Now, na them go dey fear you because they don't know your next move. Just tell him all is well that you've forgotten about it. Don't talk about it. I swear them go dey panic every second wey dem see you because they don't know your next move and you've refused to talk about it.
Now let me ask you this question... If you leave what happens to your daughter? what will you tell her is your excuse for separating her and her father? Do you know the psychologically effective it will have on her? She might grow up not wanting anything to do with a man or have natural hatred for Igbo men just because of your own experience.
Woman I say to you this day, kindly stay back in your hubby's house. So you want to give his mother victory right? what if that is their plan B? I also put it to you that before you married this guy, you saw signs and still went ahead. Igbo peole don't like marrying outside their tribe like that. Imagine I'm igbo from Imo state and I married from Enugu. Yet my hubby's village people and aunties they say why must he marry outside their town. Of all places, Owerri. Same with other tribes. I knew the kind of fight my Mom and elder sister fought because she wants to marry an Akwa Ibom guy. Is everywhere my dear all you need is serious prayers.
Another question for you... What is the guarantee that the next man you will meet will be much better? We all have our individual difference you know. Just sitdon dey look dem drama okay.
All the best in whatever decision you make.
PEACEFUL AND ENCOURAGING WIFE.....
Madam LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE.......that man will kill you one day, he doesnt love you or respect you in d least. Everyday you read of husbands killing wives, husbands drowning whole family.
ReplyDeleteI wonder for those telling you to stay. A man hates you, he's plotting wit his family for ur removal, hes plotting for a supposed new wife, he has a side-chick. Imagine him banging another woman under ur roof, when you sleep and some women dey sleep like log. Hes probably sneaking to fuck her every night, right under ur nose. This man is gonna impregnante another woman rite in ur presence and he will plot with her to kill you and ur baby.
Lets say he even has a family with brain, they are all even planning against you. And you still dey there.
Are you scared of being a single mother? single mother is better than dead mother o. Titilayo that the husband killed, is the baby not without a mother now.
Your husband brought his new wife into your home then he cheated on you and his 'new wife'. In addition to that, he is a woman-beater. He beat a woman until used a razor blade on her? What ruthlessness! All I will say is use your tongue to count your teeth.
ReplyDeleteDo this to goat meat and enjoy it every time.
If this story is true, poster, you are wasting time, by now you should be in your parents house thanking God for sparing your life! The whole family can plan your death and who will look after your precious baby? My sil married an igbo man, he still married wife #2 from his own clan.
ReplyDeleteHmm, wen I tot I've heard It all
ReplyDeleteI don't even know what to say or how to start. If your hubby truly loves you, he wouldn't have brought another woman into your home no matter the pressure from his mother. This is a very sensitive matter and seriously the final decision lies in your hands. Ensure you call your parents up now (immediately) and explain everything to them. I would not tell you to leave but i will say to you that your life is not safe in that house. The God that you serve will continually protect you. Amen.
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