Busted Cheater Sends Apology To Wife

This is an apology that comes from deep down....A man who thought he was too smart busted by someone who is even smarter.

The post will give some ladies ideas on how to catch their men and might make the men smarter but whatever runs through your head as you read this,PLEASE DO NOT REPLAY A SCENE AT HOME....Lol.

THIS IS NOT A NARRATIVE BUT A CONFESSIONAL APOLOGY LETTER.

Hello Stella,

Hope this mail meets you well. I have been an SDK BV for the past two years, and I must really commend you for the positive impacts,  your blog has impacted on lives, as can be seen from the numerous IHN and Chronicles so far.

I am in a very deep mess and yes! I must admit I have brought this upon myself.

I have been married for 4 years to my Lovely wife now. And The marriage is blessed with two kids ( both boys).

After the birth of the second boy, my wife and I agreed to soft pedal on making more kids for now. We decided to be using condoms, as our own method of family planning. This has made me to always have condoms in my wallet.

For this past four years, I have cheated on my wife only 3 times without being caught.

Then last week I Cheated on her again, thinking this time she won't know just like the previous times. I bought another sets of condoms to replace the ones that were in my wallet which I have now used, thinking that all have gone smoothly.

Last night my wife woke me and confronted me. And I was like how did she manage to know that I have cheated? Or could it be that she is just playing the " I suspect you" card? I denied ever cheating on her and was even playing the innocent husband that was being accused unjustly.

Then came the shocker, she brought out all the condoms from my wallet and brought out a sheet of paper with some numbers written on it.
My wife had the Lot# no. And expire dates of the previous condoms which I have now used on the lady I Cheated with. The lot# nos.  Are different from the ones I have in my wallet presently.

Stella that was how I got busted. Thank God our kids were fast asleep when all these dramas were happening.

Just this evening,  om my return from the office I found out she has moved her things to her own room which she hasn't slept ever since we got married.  I am really worried because I don't know what might be her next move.

We don't have friends I could talk to on this, as she's the quiet type who doesn't like keeping friends because of her past experiences with friends.

What should I do to let her know that i am not a serial cheat? And that I have cheated only once this year? 

The one that drained the last manly spirit in me, was when my son's were playing this evening and we're saying " mummy said shame on daddy". When I heard that, I lost my appetite and I pretended not to have heard them.

Please kindly send an apology post to her cos she is a known BV and will definitely read my confession and apology here.

Honi please I am very sorry. I will never betray your trust by cheating. .Please find a place in your heart to overlook this mess I have brought unto us.

**Stella kindly knock off my email before you publish this.

Thanks.

Wow!....even you!

Anyways who am i to Judge?Wifey if you are reading this,please forgive him and talk things over with him,he seems really sorry.

And Madam no matter what happens in your marriage,stop speaking ill of your man when the kids are listening.