She sent in a Narrative and He replied his girlfriends narrative.Click HERE to read it ''WALKING AWAY FROM A PAST THAT HAS COME BACK TO HURT YOU''
Read his Reply here
Now After careful consideration,she has written back...just before closing the Door on this...
Dear BV's,
I actually heeded to the advice of Stella and the house and believe me it's just like I've been wasting my time ...she advised me to run far from him and never go back to him and that I've done.Stella understood how much I loved him and how much it's gonna take me to walk away from my first love but needed me to take a walk.
For almost a week now I haven't spoken to him and fortunately he doesn't even have any means of reaching out to me ,at first I thought I couldn't live or even breathe without him then I realized when we first broke up I stayed without him for 3 years before finally accepting him back so now I'm gone and gone forever.
I really want to say I'm grateful to you all for your advise,even the cusses where worth it cause I never would've really realized that I had made a lot of sacrifices for one person that didn't really worth it and also know the difference between obsession and love and a little piece of advise to the women out there don't fall out of your way trying to please a man.no matter how close you are to a mans family they would never pick you over their blood.
I heeded to iphie's advice to go back to school and further my education,I was already on it before she advised and I arrived my new school(eastern Mediterranean university)in Europe very far from home and I'm already getting so much distractions that I hardly think about him ............special thanks to
Mrsb
Sassy fire
Elena
PweetyG
Jane kraine
Tayo ade
Scoffer scrib mo
Li-yon vls
Queen B
Iphie dearie
God bless you so much and i will keep yall posted on how it goes
Congrats lady, n when u meet a new boo pls keep ur mouth shut abt ur past.Let him never hear ur abortion story or ur messy breakup story.Inshort start forming team celibate if need be.goodluck,that bf of urs has smelly gutter mouth, he talks carelessly.i pray u find a better man.
ReplyDeletePlease since you are now in Europe, please please please date sensible men or better still oyinbo men. Save yourself the drama
DeleteWhy do I have the funny feeling that these narratives are made up!?
ReplyDeleteMade up by you abi
DeleteThank God you have moved on...
ReplyDeleteBtw,where is Chick Felix?....she has been mia...
The most important thing is that ur happy n have inner peace at the moment..... good luck dear n may the odds be ever in ur favour...... xoxo
ReplyDeletePoster, while u are there.
ReplyDeleteControl ur Toto. Stop gbenshing anyhow. Xes is not food.
So, why are you putting your school details here ? You are not truly shutting this door!!!
ReplyDeleteMa thoughts exactly ojare!
DeleteYou dey mind the girl
DeleteAmie Delia mind ya sef
DeleteLove,
Shinshin
HER FORWARDING ADDRESS FOR THE GUY TO FIND HER NA.
DeleteUna sef wicked since oo.lol@why she put her school address,but she never told u he doesn't know her school or where to find her in d first place,they were childhood friends for crying out loud!but when such moments come,fear no go let him near her abode cos he language is clear!
DeleteAndrianne,gud to know u heeded our mean spirited advises.lol!pls and pls don't go back to dat boy,if not for anything but d fact he's still immature!u don't need dat!
Wish u all d best in ur. Academics and relationship.
Kisses to you bae..God bless you.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you
ReplyDeleteGood one girl. please hard and finish well. God be with you.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you too.
ReplyDeleteGood to know you've moved on.
I seem to love these feedbacks.
Nice
#WhiteDiamondOut
And
ReplyDeleteIf u can not control ur something.
Always use condoms.Abortions just like every oda thing get limit.
We haff heard...
ReplyDeleteGood luck
Bv s advice saving people since 1818.Good you made the right decision .
ReplyDeleteDont know what is going on self. Too many things to do this salah.
ReplyDeleteSee you all on Monday. will be on holiday moods. no reading or going through stella's blog till Monday.
make una welcome me back ooo
Thumbs up girl. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
ReplyDeleteNow this is what I want to hear. Progress! Leave that moronic excuse of a man to wallow in his shame. He doesn't deserve even a craze woman for a girlfriend. Such men are poison biko! Tueh! Thank you for listening and don't you ever turn back. Most of us don't end up with our 'first love's. Yours will come. Stay focused babygirl.
ReplyDeleteSo this poster is JUST 20?! Like WTH ???? Hian
ReplyDeleteBe like say I go cage my children ooo! Cos I don't understand how youngins these days be doing so much adult s**t. Getting beat up, raped n doing abortions under d age of 20??? Sezly? When she shud be enjoying her youth n having d time of her life
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAnd its a wrap baby gurl
Enjoy ur stay over there
@mr man,learn to treat a lady right when next you find one...
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteAnd its a wrap baby gurl
Enjoy ur stay over there
@mr man,learn to treat a lady right when next you find one...
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
You rock gal, use dat energy to go after ur dream and not dat crazy dude. I don't no what makes most men tink the whole world revolves around dem.
ReplyDeleteCan't go back joor
ReplyDeleteRejoinders everywhere! Issorait poster, hope you stick to ur guns this time. All the best in ur studies.
ReplyDeleteMy dear there's no how it goes on this one, its over for good. I guess you'll keep us posted on your new relationship. I wish you all the best dear.
ReplyDeleteAww....that's so nice. Funny enough, my kid sister skools at EMU. If u need any help over there, just holla via Stella and I'll connect you guys. Take care and wish you the best in your academics and other endeavours.
ReplyDeleteLi-yon Vls.
aww... welcome to my school. unfortunately i just graduated and will be going back soon.
ReplyDeleteHappy 4 u. U deserve so better. A real Man not someone that thinks beating ladies is normal.
ReplyDeleteFace ur studies, it will make u better jare
so happy you walked away. may God bless you with the one that will not only love you but support you. all the best dear
ReplyDeleteGood for you.
ReplyDeleteThe chronicles are here!
ReplyDeleteNice one babe.
ReplyDeleteIts good u have moved on. Don't look bk
ReplyDeleteGood to know you followed your heart. Study and give it your best shot bearing in mind that in the journey of life, what will be will surely be.
ReplyDeleteAll the best dear.
Ok o
ReplyDeleteGood for you
ReplyDeleteGood for you
ReplyDeleteThank God you took that walk,I know you won't regret it.
ReplyDeleteSomeday,you goan look back and ask yourself" Did I really date that guy."
Better. Wishing you all the best in your studies.
ReplyDeleteOoh! You are now in Europe, no wonder he wants to die there, saying he can't continue without. Mtcheeeew. God bless you jare.
Congratulations on your new life. Pls pls pls, you need space from men for now. Give yourself like a year before going into a relationship. It would be good if you stay away from sex in your next relationship so you can be with a man that really luvs you. You have your whole life ahead of you. So happy for you.
ReplyDeleteGo Girl!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteGood decision
ReplyDeleteAww dear. Happy for you. Face ur studies and with time you will sincerely forget him. Wish you all d best that you deserve.
ReplyDeleteGood luck sweetheart, itz well
ReplyDeleteGood job girl. Proud of you for saying goodbye to that fuckboy. I only wish other girls can heed to advice like you. Goodluck in your academic pursuit.
ReplyDeleteAll d best gal
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear
ReplyDeleteThis actually brightened up my day...
ReplyDeleteNne you strike me as a very wayward person. MANY DISTRACTIONS bawo??? Settle down to study and practice decency if not another guy will mess you up like this guy and the chronicles will never end.
ReplyDeleteSo settling down in a new country nd registering in a new school is not distraction enough. Mtcheww
DeleteShut up..europe ain't Nigeria.
DeleteNd you are??? . Shuuu ! run along
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ReplyDeleteOk o.. All d best as u pursue ur dreams.
ReplyDeleteAnd no Ghanaman? Kai! For all the curse I curse that ya yeye olodo bf. Hmmn!
ReplyDeleteOk na, i'll just take solace in the fact that u heeded our advice to decided to cut the fool loose & count ur loses!
Ghanaman signing out!!!
Sorry oooo... Your comment was the best...
DeleteNow u'r talking. Happy 4 u darl.Start afresh n use ur head ds time around,u hear?#hugs
ReplyDeleteHmmm!may God vindicate u,all is well.
ReplyDeleteGood for u dear
ReplyDeleteAndriana dear, God bless U too...when the right guy shows up, u ll be surprised at how sweet and loving a real man is, he ll make u 4get whateva u ve gone thru in d past and ur story will be 'happy ever after' with him
ReplyDeleteYes. Yes. Yes.
DeleteSeason 4 loading
ReplyDeleteU shld b d poster for season 4
DeleteFor taking this wise decision after reading from this honourable home God bless you as you walk away into your destiny. You are right most men will always take a stand with there families no matter the love they profess for a woman and please take a break from his sister too so that he won't be able to reach you through her.
ReplyDeleteMay God guide u
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for finding the strength to do this. Glad to hear that you're super busy. you'd be over him before you know it.
ReplyDeleteYou'd get that man who is meant for you. would worship you and never dream of laying a finger on you.
Keeping working on yourself, put God first and watch lines fall into pleasant places for you.
I'm so happy to read this. God bless you again.
Good for you!! Find a new meaning to life dear.
ReplyDeleteChop kiss.
ReplyDeleteGlad to know you've moved on from that abuser. I wish you success in your academics . A woman's life shouldn't revolve around a man. That your bf would have derailed you and your ambition. Go on and be happy dear, life is too short.
ReplyDeleteSoo true. She needs to face her studies and forget man matter for now. Don't misuse this opportunity you have. Love is not the purpose if life. Make your life purpose driven.
DeleteWow...congrats girl! Only those who have been in abusive relationship will truly understand this. No abuse is good but the emotional one...the worst.
ReplyDeletewelldone... next time at sixteen.. stay a virgin and face ur books.. 16yrs old child have no business having sex let all aborting on replay.. go and sin no more
ReplyDeletelet alone*
DeleteTo whom brain is given....sense is expected. Thank God you have moved on. Well done ma
ReplyDeleteHappy for you...best wishes
ReplyDeleteMay God give u d strenght to carry on
ReplyDeleteHappy for u darling.
ReplyDeleteThank God for moving on, wish you success in your pursuit stay focus and God bless.
ReplyDeleteYou just indirectly told him where u are n hw he can reach u. Well done!
ReplyDeleteHuggs darlyn
ReplyDeleteKeep living dear and forget about the past. God is your strength.
ReplyDeleteGood girl...
ReplyDeleteKeep busy..
Education,business,craft..etc.
Don't be idle...
We so taking over the world!
Girls be winning.
God bless you
ReplyDeleteThank God you moved on,someone better would definitely come your way
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ReplyDeleteAnd money maker is as stupid as ever. Money maker receive sense. Good job dear, good riddance to rubbish
DeleteAnd this whole drama cracked me up.
ReplyDeleteAnd money maker is as stupid as ever. Money maker receive sense. Good job dear, good riddance to rubbish
ReplyDeleteGood
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you dear. Please be wiser next time
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