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Friday, September 18, 2015

Nigerian Women Please Step Forward!

Please take a good look at this picture because i want to ask you a question that will take you down memory lane.

LOOK WELL....

NOW GET READY FOR MY QUESTION ....





Are you guilty as charged?

Were you once an epitome of the word Sexy but now you are the opposite after Le Boo 'wifed' you?

Why?


227 comments:

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    1. Buhahahahahahahahahahahaha that's how they come here to give themselves hope. Everybody is now forming sexy mama the only married woman I believe is hot in this Blog is TGW. Y'all form sexy but who are all those oduoyoyos I'm both the Lag and Abj parties? Who? Ghosts?
      Stella Nko, I still remember the agbada she used to sow gown in one of her limited pics she posted here and her own excuse was 'she was in a hurry or something I can't be bothered to remember. Y'all claim hot but gave Stella stern warnings not to tag those party pics. Who be mumu? Deceiving yourself a continua!!!

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    2. Definitely not guilty as charged. As for me o, I hawt die even after marriage and 2 kids. I no go lie sha na serious hard work to keep looking like this. ** bye** runs out of post***

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    3. Lai lai! Oga dey beg me to step down the hotness sef to avoid wandering eyes and blokos.

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    4. Buhahahahahahahahahahahaha that's how they come here to give themselves hope. Everybody is now forming sexy mama the only married woman I believe is hot in this Blog is TGW (i have photos of her and 2 of her daughters too, she sexy and busty)and Linda Eze because contrary to what y'all think she used a pic of she and her daughter in her avatar the first time she started commenting here with the name 'Linda Eze loves Billie Jean'.
      Y'all form sexy but who are all those odumaoyoyos In both the Lag and Abj parties? Who? Ghosts?
      Stella Nko, I still remember the agbada she used to sow gown in one of her limited pics she posted here and her own excuse was 'she was in a hurry or something I can't be bothered to remember. Y'all claim hot but gave Stella stern warnings not to tag those party pics. Who be mumu? Deceiving yourself continua!!!
      Even that mama that posted her tommy here the other day asking for waist trainer will still come &write am sexy!

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    5. Be "hmmmmmmmming" dia better tell us if that's how u look now o........... LOL. well I can't be like dis in the future no matter how tight my schedule will be joor

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    6. My brothers wife does not work. She can tie wrapper on her chest from morning till night. Even if we buy her shorts and top she won't wear. That woman too bush. Na so she leave body fat full everywhere.

      My bro don complain tire but she refuse to learn. She'll only wear something when he's home.

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    7. It's a matter of time and money. When you wake up to prepare hubby food, bathe d 2 kids, prepare them for school, come back to clean, wash dish, clothes, toilets, BROWSE SDK, eat, pick kids from school, have ur bathe and cook before hubby comes back. Sometime you shop too. When do one now have time to be you. A lot of single girls will say it's the I am now a Mrs dats causing it. For one to remain sexy, u will need help and money. I use to be size 10 before marriage, now am 14. To register in a gym for a month is 6k, I will make my hair o, I use to have time for pedicure n manicure but can't do that now. I hardly sleep for 3 straight hours, my baby must wake up to eat at night. People just don't understand. But when you have the money and necessary help. I can't go for road walk on Saturdays like I use to before marriage cos no one to drop my kids with. I really don't tie wrapper around but at night I do and when once it's 7 am, I change into a short but my hair net remains. Don't judge us

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    8. ...Stells, I am not guilty of dis!cos I don't even know where d only wrapper I have is sef!....
      Ok ok!its with my maid,she uses it to back my lil kid when need be!
      My hubby can't even stand some kind of outfit talk more of tying to ur chest,like criously how can an educated enlightened woman do dis?our semi literate mothers of old can be forgiven,but not a 21st century wife!

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    9. General's wife enough with the hyping.

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    10. Yes, Sterra!
      I hav no reason. Anything for me?

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    11. Biko am so so guilty oh. It's just the stress of work and all that. Imagine getting home same time with DH, then I have to enter kitchen cook dinner at the same time cross check kids home work. DH will just lie in the room till food is ready. Meanwhile I want to be comfortable oh as in no clothe for body so I tie wrapper. But now sha I don't do the wrapper again use free dresses. And no I am still my same size but just slightly big stomach.

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    1. I try to reduce dressing sexy sef cos when DH sees me looking like that, na to wan kpansh next lol..#aintgottimeforthatsalways#

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    2. Nzu na lie. U look guilty.... I'm not impress by ur pix and u re a pretty lady

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    3. Lol. Abeg get time oo. Sex is the koko in marriage.

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    4. Stella, don't forget to address the women (mostly older ones) who try to shame you once you're married by saying things like "don't you know you're now a married woman?" Or "no respectable married woman should be dressing like this" etc. and a lot of young wives fall into their box with them not realizing that even though they are older and more experienced with marriage; but their predisposition on how to dress and behave once married has contributed highly to their husbands' slutty ways and chasing of younger fresher girls around (even though there's no excuse whatsoever for the men to step out on their marriages). But the wives' complete transformation into drab, boring, wrapper tying, 'I must die in church while tying scarfs tightly round my ears just because I'm now married to show that I'm a virtous woman/marriage material attitude' is definitely not helping things at all. You can still dress fine and sexy after marriage. "Slutty" is what to avoid here. Hell, avoid "slutty" even while you're single.; you can be sexy without exposing or squeezing anything out, just don't confuse the two and add class. Especially if that's what hubby loves. Stop listening to the women whose husbands were chasing you just before you got married, history might just repeat itself with you too if you act like them. A word is enough for the wise. I'm even listening to my own advise as I type. Lol.......... Just Me

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    5. Stella wives of these days done wise up ooo. Its in those days that ladies let themselves go after marriage and kids.
      Now, we tear eye reach back.


      Order for your very affordable wedding & birthday cakes. Send surprise cakes 2ur loved ones in Abuja.We deliver 2homes and offices.Click on my name to see pics.


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  3. Working, kids and house chores.

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  4. I refused to be like this in future.


    *Larry was here*

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  5. does it matter?

    na all those men wey marry because of beauty dey think am

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  6. Dear future hubby, I promise to always look wow for you. So help me God, amen.

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  7. Most girls are guilty of this which is very bad. I always say this, look sexy in your single days then look hot when you are MRS

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  8. My hubby always compliment me @ all time... been married for years bt he hasn't for one day called me by my name.. he calls me Iko diya, honey, onye ikom, sugar, mummy etc

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    1. Is that the topic???

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    2. Im sure most blog readers would be surprised to learn that you are married,prolly because of your Blog I.D..
      But truth is no single lady would actually have the mind of answering such name here in naija;at least it would be kind of making her feel bad each time she sees the name up there as her I.D...

      I like you blog personlity tho;you and @Aunty Gwegs...una too funny!!

      XTREME NAIJA AFRO-DANCEHALL MIXTAPE;CLICK TO DOWNLOAD

      @MARTINS ABOY

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    3. Even woman wey dey tie wrapper go market hubby dey call her names.

      Are you guilty of this or not?

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    4. Hahahahahaha. See pet names. Diya, suya nko.

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    5. Martins aboy lol... are they suprised? No true identity on blog on sdk blog lol... bloglord permit me, aboy I like u tooo...

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  9. I'm HOTTER now sef.
    Plenty money 2 dress GOOD fo Hubby

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  10. Nope...not me! I'm still sexy...lol

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  11. Nooo...
    Maka why?...
    Any married woman that does that in this age and time is a fool...
    Naija married women has stepped up their game mehn...you hardly see correct married woman dressed like that...
    I don't even have a single wrapper in my house...

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    1. As an unmarried girl I don't have wrapper. I don't fail to buy shorts when I go shopping. That wrapper na wrong thing

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    2. Lousy woman, shut ya trap. U don't have a single wrapper...yimu

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    3. I don't even have a single wrapper in my house...... I like this sentence.

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    4. Hmmmm! Not even one wrapper to take cover cold when blanket dey wet? I raise nyash for una for dis blog shaa

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    5. Not married yet, but I don't see myself as the tying wrapper type.

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    6. U can lie for Africa ehhhh! U don't even hav a single wrapper in ur houz!!!! Chai

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  12. Hahahahahaha, most Nigerian women are guilty of this........Even some girlfriends sef are guilty....lol
    Na only side chicks no de guilty of this "after pix", they get hotter/sexier by the day; Lmao....


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  13. I never marry... yet.

    Married women, over to you.

    In this post now, all the married female BV's will claim to dress sexy and sleep naked at all times...

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    1. Lmao! U are very right. Bvs are predictable.

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    2. From the comments, almost all married women plead "not guilty". So, who is?

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  14. One thing I am sure of is that most of these Ladies... You meet them out ...most people date from afar ...you don't get to know what she does when she is at home...you only see her all dressed up outside.. I know some few ones still wear anything out but its not common. Moreso not only ladies alone change ...men do too.

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    1. My shakara change gear sef wen I marry! ...flowed wit d trend n sure had my A game.wrapper n buba travel 4rm my dictionary. #nothanks #sexystillworks

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    2. Wow I love that,you are beautiful.

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  16. I have a friend who was a size 12 before marriage,now she is a size 16. Whenever you talk to her about her weight to watch it she will say'abegi leave me alone, it will not stop oga from carrying girls if he wants to'. Forgetting that oga still wants better shape for im wife. Is it the house dresses? That one na overall clothes she de knack for house. When visitors show, she will run in and change clothes at times.

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  17. its sad
    like its a crime to be hot

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  18. Lmao.
    All are guilty.
    The FAT is even the most worrisome.

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    1. All are here forming sexy. So who are those that we saw their pictures in all those Abuja, Ph and Lagos parties? Abi na ghosts?

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  19. Gbam! Gbamer! Gbamest!
    90% of Nigerian women are guilty of this. And sometimes I wonder, if marriage is all they wanted, marriage is their ultimate gaol, all their reason for taking care of their body, and not because they love themselves and their body.

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    1. Lol...I used to live in Onitsha..married women there are something else. U will see someone tie wrapper on her chest and walk from one end of the street to d other to buy something with smelly hair net and around 2pm in d afternoon. U need to even see d maternity gown some wear,u will sow five agbada from it and no be say money no dey o! Some of them sef get rich hubbies but don't just bother to look sexy. That tying of wrapper on d chest all over d place frm morning to evening is worst. They don't see d need to dress neat and sexy when at home.

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  20. Dunno Y, but as a woman you just have to put in an extra effort. After taking care of everyone else you just have to create an extra time to take good care of yourself... else you will always look like crap running all the chores in the house...it is well

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  21. Lol I am a little guilty, I don't tie wrapper thou but make up na war, I feel very lazy to do make up, my hair is always tucked inside hair net, except I'm going out. Hmmmm now that u have mentioned I will adjust.

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    1. You are so real, admit you don admit your mistakes, may God help to adjust and look hotter for hubby

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    2. No, U don't av a problem if it's bout mke-up. I can't imagine myself mkin up every time. I make up once in the blue moon, yet I'm a mke-up artist. I luk beautiful naturally, mke-up is just the additional beauty for me.

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    3. Please adjust. You can watch makeup tutorials on you-tube.

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  22. Am even hotter now sef.
    I get lots of toasters even after my children.
    DH finds every opportunity to kpansh me.
    It's even hard to believe am married talkless of children. Yea, I de hawting like dt. Kikikikikikikikiki

    Now, Let me tell you the problem with some women.
    They believe that because they are now married and prolly have kids, there is no need doing 'sis' anymore.
    You lie!
    You gotta remain hot even hotter than how dh met you. Look good, drop that hair net once it's 7am. If you are a housewife, ensure you have your bath, looking fresh and sweet before dh returns from work.
    No be say bros go go work come back, as e take leave u for morning, na so u still de. Still on hair net, u never even bathe. Hian!

    Anyway lemme not talk plenty, women, up your game oh! Sidechics and gwegs ain't smiling oh!
    Look good for yourself and your man and drop those foolish talk of "who de look me? I de husband house"
    Na you sabi oh!

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    1. Buhahahahahahahahahahahaha that's how they come here to give themselves hope. Everybody is now forming sexy mama the only married woman I believe is hot in this Blog is TGW. Y'all form sexy but who are all those oduoyoyos I'm both the Lag and Abj parties? Who? Ghosts?
      Stella Nko, I still remember the agbada she used to sow gown in one of her limited pics she posted here and her own excuse was 'she was in a hurry or something I can't be bothered to remember. Y'all claim hot but gave Stella stern warnings not to tag those party pics. Who be mumu? Deceiving yourself a continua!!!

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    2. Oh shut up. Don't forget that we have seen your picture. Sexy ko even baboons are sexy to their fellow baboons....you look like a mother of all nations if you don't know.. Stella dear pls post

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    3. Nne let's forgive the hair net part, so many women are guilty of it prolly cos of the inconvenience of leaving loose their weavon.But the one I refuse to understand is why u won't take out few seconds to bath afara(rub and shine) if u won't even bath, then wear same clothes monday to friday.

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    4. Hahhhahahhaha @ 14:37.
      Tell me more about me pls.

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    5. Anony u really do wish u knew BLOGGIE!!!

      SMH....Tsk Tsk Tsk

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  23. That was before 21st century. Na our women no dey dull again oo.

    Come to Aguda, Surulere and see where married Anambra women compete with single beautiful girls.

    Na our mama dey behave like dat before and not now. Go and ask TGW and Linda Eze they will tell you whats up

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    1. I live in aguda surulere...so I've bv family that lives close to me

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  24. Once they start calling themselves 'mummy Diamond' they throw all decorum to the gutter...i think it gets into their heads. That suffix 'mummy' is the causer.

    One of my married friendS had to warn me sternly not to call her by her first name in public places. Reasons being that, they would think she is still single and think she's a small geh like me as i no get big stature. I am months older than her oh. I just replied, yes ma!

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  25. Hahahhahahaha
    The General get in here!
    Come and answer!

    Hahhahahahahahahaha
    That babe on d second pix got "nating" on me
    LMAO

    I will change! I solemnly swear!
    Hehehehehehehehe

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    1. It depends, my hubby prefarres me tieing wrapper than wearing shorts,leggins or jeans( especially while going out) but I like them n I still prefer them
      Infact its always quarrel anytime I wear them unless I wear them wt gowns. Henevr complained b4 marriage o smtcheeeew men n their wahala

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    2. But then even after two,am still very gud and dats y he's affriad lol. My profile pic shows for it

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    3. I too like this woman. Lol. Go drop your recipe.

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  26. me don't just know why it is like that woman go just dey tire wrapper for no reason e dey pain me







    #GODWIN™

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    1. I so hate that tieing wrapper on the chest ehnn.. so razz and outdated.
      I can never be caught doing that. Never!

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  27. IS VERY TRUE..GOD WIL HELP OUR WOMEN, AMEN...TOMJERRYSWIT

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  28. Me caught slacking for what? My hubby get scared when we both go out cos I dress to kill and this make him take me to every function lol.. though some of his friends wives dresses like omo odo lol,his friends always compliment my outfit, hubby and I just laff wen we see them!

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  29. I have promised myself not to be like this.
    Will go to any length to remain beautiful and Sexy even after being married and having kids.

    Sexy and beautiful I was born and so shall I remain!

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    1. Money helps o.
      You are pretty now,when a human ATM wifes you,then u will shine like onwa

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  30. you for cover her face now stella. this isn't nice

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  31. Not married yet but am sure gonna be the hottest wife ever! Already making plans of getting back in shape after having kids. So help me God

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  32. That's why their men always cheat on them.

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  33. The meme and question cracked me up
    But the truth is most Nigerian women are guilty of this.
    A lady who used to dress well before marriage all of a sudden turns her dress sense into that of a 1942 movie star because she thinks she's got the guy already...too bad.
    Dressing well is not a guarantee that your man will not stray but please play your part well.
    DON'T TIE WRAPPER if it's not aso ebi u'r wearing to an event,not even to the bathroom.
    God help us!

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    1. No wonder your name is sweetheart.... Your comment just sweetened my heart.

      The most annoying one are the ones who tie wrapper on their chests..

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  34. As for me, I'll be more sexy when I get married.

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  35. Hahaha guilty o,on some days though. But i blame it on motherhood. E no easy at all

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    1. My exact excuse too,motherhood. Hubby has never complained but the look he gives me whenever i open the door for him says it all and the funny questions too like "have u had ur bath today"?

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    2. Lol. Abeg na me guilty pass

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  36. I know some bitches will come here to blame men and tell lies on how they helped "the man" to the top. Whatever your story is, remember Jesus died for you and he didn't remind you of that NO DAY.
    Live right and pluck your manners in a clean basket.

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  37. Lemme chill and read comments

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  38. because dey have bin wifed naa so dey feel relaxed n dnt boda looking hot again since dey r now MRS

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  39. Lol,serious issue. most ladies don't have time to take care of theirslv again cos of house chores plus baby sitting. Abeg make una dey create small time to look good.

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  40. Sadly, yes I'm guilty. Even though I'm not married, before le boo asked me out I was all glam, but now I just tie wrapper on my slippers boobs and roam around the house, he doesn't like it one bit, so these days I wear his shirts and roam. Lol

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    1. This is the time to adjust and look gr. Get up and dust yourself girlfriend, you gat to look hot and sexy for Le Boo

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    2. Thanks sdk first son. Will definitely do

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    3. Hahahahaha...
      Lmao at tying wrapper on a slippers breast...
      Lwkmd...

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    4. LOL!!!
      This cracked me up seriously.

      Try change abeg. I love this anon...

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  41. If i hear!! I have aunts that are still as hot as they were before marriage,so i know i have no excuse!!! Money is a very important factor tho. That is why i will make lots and lots of it so i can go for liposuction et al when the time comes. One can't afford not to be hot please.!!

    Aeegurl...

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  42. Looool
    Not guilty, my lord.

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  43. This is exactly why I don't do wrappers coz it has a way of turning someone into aunty mimi

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  44. Waiting for all the married women to come and place their hands on their left lap and swear that they are still sexy. Fire on jare. It's not easy to be married.

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  45. This is sooo bloody true.and some can tie that one wrapper for 1week.every mum will claim to wear bumshort now.i go read comments.

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  46. No am not guilty.....
    My husband will even give you this wicked side eye if u dress like that.......he buys skimpy clothes 4 me and I must were it with big smile or else na war.
    And besides am still very young 2 be dressing like iyabo.

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    1. Hmmm bia, you, when did u get married? Cos when u showed up on this blog sometime last year, u were complaining about just coming out of a bad relationship. Remember Internet never forgets :).

      On another note, please chill on the extreme bitterness you have been exhibiting lately on a lot of posts. I hope it is well in your world. My 2 cents o.

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  47. Over Guilty sef.... except there isan occassion

    It may not be an excuse to others but every1 is diff... when last have u slept all night cos my kid stil wakes up for tea at night, she refuses to eat enough for dinner n ends up hungry at night? Its bn a while 4 me, yet i stil av to go to work, n do this, do that, get this, get that.
    Pls remind me again asides passing my exams, what else did i worry abou the. Absolutely nothing. Tho in d bedroom i take extra e4ts wt lingeries n costumes but around d house cleaning up, mhen!
    My super woman get limit

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  48. Sexy is an attitude. You dress like or even be a barrel on two legs and still be sexy and attractive.

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  49. Am not guilty at all.am still and will remain sexy for Lee boo.

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  50. That is it for most of the "Married" women....
    They feel they ve achieved their life goals,which is getting married;and hence anything can now go for them...
    Talk about when they give birth to A child;thats just the life achievement for them as well..you now see all the "Grand-mama" attitude in them..

    They now start tying "wrappper" only on their body and walking about;carrying their hair for months without at least "Washing" it, some wont even bother taking A shower after entering the kitchen and hence "the onion smell" as i call it would start taking over the whole house...their respective husband cant even see the "sexy" lady he was dying to have years ago in them(wife) anymore..and hence some men would prefer going out for most of the young girls out there again(thats quite awkward/foolish as well)...

    Yes i know being A wife/mother comes with A lot of duties but there is definitely nothing wrong in looking sweet and sexy for yourself and for your DH...at least i know most men out there aint even proud to take their wife out there in the public,talkmore more of going to event etc and presenting them as "their Wife"...cos they think her sense of dressing/fashion is all dead after they ve gotten married...

    With all said;its left for every woman out there to still have A little sense of fashion after being married..there is nothing wrong in going for shopping like once in A while and get something sexy to wear at home and while going to bed;at least
    that would keep the man "always in the mood" for you..**wink**

    Finally;A man that would look outside for other women would surely do that..but do all these for your own sake and happiness..not necessarily for your Man...

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. Why must you always write long epistles plus post the comment multiple times join am. You still end up saying the same thing everyone has said. Nawa o.

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    2. Leave Aboy alone 'pris', even if he says what everyone has said , he is saying it in his own voice and we are not tired of his voice

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  51. Was too young wen I was wived, dint even know wat sexy meant

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  52. Nigerian women do EVERYTHING to get married...life goal. So once that is achieved it's a "who am I tryna impress" thing. Work don finish

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  53. Stella,

    I know there are a lot of women who still do this but trust me, a lot of married women have stepped up their game.
    There is nothing sexy about tying wrapper on the chest, it doesn't look good at all. It hides all the things your hubby sees for free on the streets.
    Ladies, walk around your homes in the sexiest things ever. Blind your husband's eyes with your body, wear bum short,spags, thongs, the g with a string, or go nude.
    I'm sure he wouldn't mind. Bwahahaaaaaaaaaa

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  54. Most women believe after marriage they no longer have any point to prove to anyone hence the self neglect.
    In as much as I believe in maintaining one's sexiness after marriage and child birth, i also think a real man looks beyond his wife's physical appearance in building a home.

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  55. I'm still an epitome of sexy even after 4 kids...no dulling at all.

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  56. Hahahahahahahahahaha
    I will forever be sexy when I get married, no be mouth.

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  57. Le boo has nt wifed me and I'm battling with this fat

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  58. Question for the married women..

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  59. Lmao


    I'm supposing this is a post for the married women, but hey,i can comment lah.

    Yeah, some women are guilty of this.
    There's one I know. Ever since she got married, she took on the name, dishevelled, along with her new surname.

    Chopped off her hair, puts on anything, so long as it's a cloth,dirty or not.
    Her excuse is that she has three little children.

    But then,she always was that way,so I guess most women that are guilty of letting themselves go when married, had always had the tendencies.

    They give their husbands the see finish attitude, and then some randy men will use it as an excuse to cheat.

    Funny enough, it doesn't cost much to look good o.
    Even with okrika clothes and the right carriage, you can still make your husband's heart race, each time he sees you.

    Abeg,make I read comments.


    #WhiteDiamondOut

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  60. Stella you self answer!!

    Whirlwind

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  61. I really hope this isn't me in d nearest future or even d farthest one. Cos wen unmarried, we all tend to say we'd never be those women and then the stress of parenthood takes over

    Just hope to God that I'm able to maintain my seines not just for my hubby but for myself and so that my kids will proudly say it anywhere that 'that's my mum'

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  62. Spot on! Na so dem dey jonez after marriage until the nigga gets fed up & starts eating pussy outside.

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    1. A lot are guilty. After the man go hook up with babe wey dey wear Bum short them go dey cry.

      I trust my nowadays women, they're not dulling at all

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  64. Blame it on the men that leave all the chores for the wives! That's still no excuse for a lady to look old tho, everyone looks different after child birth. Ladies, keep ur game on a 100 steady!

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  65. Loool.My hubby hates wrapper,we had to drag before he allowed me buy for my hospital list requirement.He said why must they use wrapper,that i should look for sexy one..loool.So i cant even be caught tying wrapper around the house.

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    1. Forget that Naija hospital list...buy different types of babies blankets...
      I hate when people use wrapper for their baby...the look is so local...

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  66. Before, she had only herself to look after

    After, she has added responsibilities of wife and mother.

    I don't blame them jare. Its not easy

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  67. The first picture indicates "I dey find husband". The second one indicates "I don see husband, make I rest". Instead of upping our games so "awon aba ti enikan je, awon omo elese jumping chicken o ni ba ti wa je.

    Women, love yourselves, make yourselves sexy, be the wife, mother, stripper, bitch, baby, hoe, whatever your husband may want to look outside for.

    If he still looks outside after all you've been and given to him, "hapuya na aka Chukwu".

    Men, whatever you see outside that pleases you or tickles your fancy, please bring it home. If you see a woman in a mini skirt and it pleases you to wanna have that woman. Kindly tell your wife to be putting it on for you.





    Jesus is Lord.

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    1. My dear you can be all these things... a man that will cheat will still cheat sometimes with someone who isn't even trying as hard as you...

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  68. not guilty.
    i still dress sexy even after four kids.

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  69. The other way around for me. I used to be so not well put together b4 marriage.
    Tables turned after marriage and people now take their inspiration from me, lol.
    Always had good carriage though. True story.

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  70. Ah... She's looking for trouble be that.
    It's so wrong to look shabby,, these days?

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  71. I wasn't guilty immediately after marriage o. Even after my first child. It was after the second one came that I completely forgot about myself. Before you go run around taking care of them,cleaning,washing,cooking,time don go. And since oga no dey too dey around,you go just relax.when time reach for am to come back,na to sharp sharp freshen up. I'm slightly guilty o jare. I no dey tie wrapper sha. Just hair net for head. Lol

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  72. Nt married yet.. bt I know soon it wl b.. bt I have promised my self to look skimpy for my spouse

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  73. A woman shld look hotter n sexier after marriage...
    No matter hw difficult it is,look sexy for ur DH.

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  74. Stella, how many married Nigerian men would like their wives to go out wearing leggings and other body hugging, sexy little pieces? You know how the Nigerian public think of women who dress "sexy"? They say she dresses like a prostitute or club girl. A typical Nigerian man seeing a woman dressed like that will automatically feel that she is "up for it" and would proposition her for sex.

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  75. Stella the lady in the picture still looks good after marriage. You'll see some women with shuku hairstyle, agbada, jalabia, the list goes on.

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  76. They will come here and form perfection now. Oga madams make una come here.
    Some will even tie wrapper around the house. To even make hair na hard work. They will carry braid for 6mths and if u ask them, they will say "my sister u will not understand " understand what? That ur dirty and lazy! Before u know it they will explain how they have to take care of the kids, cook and even gossip. The ones that are more guilty is the jobless house wives. SMH for them. To top matters they will be envying a single lady that looks good. They will even accuse her of trying to seduce their pot bellied husband that they stocked packs of carbohydrates in their system.

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    1. These married bvs are so funny. All of a sudden 3/4 of them aren't guilty. So who are d guilty ones. You guys can stop lying abeg. Just learn from d post and go make amends.

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    2. You sound ignorant.

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  77. I am not married yet but I just lost over 20kg and there is this my colleague that we were of the same size before I lost weight, she's married with two kids though. While everyone in the office seems to go "Wow, good job", "You look fab", she goes "I am waiting till you marry and start having kids, thats when i will say you have really tried".

    This scares me a lot because i really put a lot into this weightloss ( stopped eating my loads of junk and exercising everyday), I start to think so i am going to gain all the weight back if i marry and have kids?

    But then i tell myself since i know what works for me now, I would do it again when If I gain weight when I have kids.

    Ohk..this is beginning to sound like a weightloss tale from a single "formerly fat" girl. I would not mind maintenance tips from people who have done this before sha.

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    1. Never stop hitting the gym. Make it a lifestyle.

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    2. No fear dear. When you marry and get pregnant, you might add weight. Just make sure you eat sensibly while pregnant. You will then eat even more sensibly when you deliver. It all takes discipline. Signed, married woman with kids and slimmer than when I got married! Stay healthy for you and not a man. Be sexy for you and not your husband. When he annoys you, you will give off the he doesn't care attitude. So stay hot and healthy for you and you will not gain weight back.

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    3. Don't stop even after you get married. When you get to a plateau, change exercise type and diet .looking good is 100 percent possible even after 5 kids

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    4. Please how did you lose 20kg? I need to lose that and more

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  78. My dad was a guy man in his hey days. One of his advice to me when I was getting married was, "Never let urself go". I did let myself go the first few years, now it's sexiness overload.

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  79. This patter is old school na.Married women of this days no dey gree again.They've stepped up their game.
    As for moi,sexy will be my motto when the time comes.

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  80. Buhahaha! A Lot of ladies re guilty of these,even if not up to this level of using wrapper on d chest while @home,but they ve toned it down on few things like heavy makeup,dressing&fashion sense&a few others.

    Pregnancies cn be so sickening4 sm dt dey tend to careless abt make-up,hair-do&fashion, interms of what2wear. Soon afta childbirth4 sm ladies d push&zeal of going back to dt fashionista lifestyle of theirs isn't dere anymore.

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  81. My own na abinibi ooo. Right from when I was a kid I love to dress. Especially now that am married, infact I can use all my money on clothes oo.my husband is always proud of me.

    Bolateethole.blogspot.com

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  82. Lol, Stella this thing na true oooo

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  83. Not guilty *wink

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  84. I can remember being 60kg - 65kg steady in uni. I was 75kg when I got married and this week, I weighed 95kg and still counting. No, scratch that - not still counting. I have stopped the clock. That weight clock must now start ticking backwards all the way back and down to 75kg. Ha! This xmas must not pass me by.... I must be a lepa shandy by fire by force.

    On a lighter note, I do not tie wrapper around d house oh!! I have gained weight yes but we never reach tying wrapper around house mata.....

    P.S: Is being married for 10 years a reasonable excuse to add 20 kg? LOL!!

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  85. my mum will be 60 yrs in 3 months.. and she still dresses to impress my dad with her nice figure.Jeans, smart dresses and tops etc ( she packs herself well). She pulled my ears one day and warned me never to joke with my dressing as i will be a married woman in 2 months. The truth is that single women out there are not smiling as they know how to dress to distract a man from his family. I pray never to be guilty of bad dressing and now start blaming it on chores and children. If my mother could still look hot for my dad after over 35 years of marriage i see no reason why i cant.

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  86. my mum will be 60 yrs in 3 months.. and she still dresses to impress my dad with her nice figure.Jeans, smart dresses and tops etc ( she packs herself well). She pulled my ears one day and warned me never to joke with my dressing as i will be a married woman in 2 months. The truth is that single women out there are not smiling as they know how to dress to distract a man from his family. I pray never to be guilty of bad dressing and now start blaming it on chores and children. If my mother could still look hot for my dad after over 35 years of marriage i see no reason why i cant.

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  87. As for me it was the opposite, was writing professional exam before i got married. Now am married n nursing but still in shape n look fabulous. Everybody is using me as point of contact. lol. the only reason i will look like dat is when DH's brother is around but under dat shirt no cloth oooo.

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  88. Guilty oo. Somewhat.
    I remember when I was single and I see some married women looking bleh I always tell myself I'd never be like that lol.
    I got married a size 8, a lot of hardwork went into that...by the time I got pregnant and bled a bit during pregnancy, the dr stopped me from exercising. I started craving all sorts. Even eba that I hate choi. Ice cream n chocolate that I loathe became a staple.
    I had the baby, I was determined to lose the weight. By the time baby blues, exhaustion, postnatal anxiety plus a very challenging baby slap slap me, all thoughts of losing weight flew out the window.
    Baby is bigger now and I'm better now so I've started running again and the weight is dropping.
    My mom forced a couple wrappers on me to back my baby cos I don't own any, so I back my baby which those. I don't tie them cos..,yuck. I don't own nets. I hate that contraption. I have a couple silk scarves I use.
    Doing hair and nails is a challenge I undertake every month. I make up when going out, sometimes. My bum shorts don't fit yet cos I refuse to buy fat clothes. Shout out to all sahm. Not easy but we are pushing.

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  89. m hot and i knw it. cute,fine face, flat tummy and tight ass even after one.. except for the ring, u might think i just finished high school due to my small statue...and i dress gud.but despite looking best..he sometimes cheat. even there was a chat i saw on his fone when snooping that his friend was telling him that he doesnt knw y he wants to date one particular gal like who is not even hot as his wife (me).so i dress gud for myself and i like it when people compliment me .u r approached the way u are dressed most times.not for any man. wen u dress gud u will v gud self esteem.

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  90. m hot and i knw it. cute,fine face, flat tummy and tight ass even after one.. except for the ring, u might think i just finished high school due to my small statue...and i dress gud.but despite looking best..he sometimes cheat. even there was a chat i saw on his fone when snooping that his friend was telling him that he doesnt knw y he wants to date one particular gal like who is not even hot as his wife (me).so i dress gud for myself and i like it when people compliment me .u r approached the way u are dressed most times.not for any man. wen u dress gud u will v gud self esteem.

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  91. I don't even have a wrapper. I work out 1hr every day 5 days a week. Spa at least twice a months. Looking good make's me feel good and i really do it for myself and DH is happy.

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  92. So, everyone on the blog is not guilty. Who are the guilty ones?..Lol...When there is a post on domestic violence, every married woman's husband is fantastic. When there is a post on family, marriage, every married woman's home is just beautiful. Now, it's a post on getting too comfortable after marriage and no one has let themselves go and are all looking "saixyy" for dear husband....Lol.. I LOVE this blog!

    By the way, I don't tie wrappers but when I'm home after a busy day or got some time off work/busy schedule, girllll, I wear the loosest and most comfortable shift dress, let the boobies and down below breathe from all that bra and "paent", wrap my relaxed hair with a wrap cloth and just chill but if I have extensions done, then fine, no hair wrap but still loooooose dress!

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  93. Every married lady now claiming sexy mama status, huh? Kontinu!

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  94. Ogienagbon Gboyega.18 September 2015 at 16:05

    It's nt easy wen a lady gts married. B'cus she' no longer responsible 2 herself alone. B4 she takes care of herslf, play d role of a wife 2 her husband ( morning, aftanun nd most importantly night duty) nd taking care aof d children is nt easy jare.
    The challenges of child bearing nd taking care of d children is tasking.

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  95. Being fat is not the issue here, after all most women's body can never be/remain thin after one/three pregnancies. The issue is how we (married women) dress/present ourselves. Me self grew a bit fatter yet my hubby was apprehensive bc I dress very smart NOT hot oooo (to work esp.).....PARANOID HUBBIES EVERYWHERE....LOL.......Mrs. E.

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  96. Guilty not because I want to look like that But because it's the situation I have found myself..before I think of buying anything for myself I remember how I have to cook soup, buy things for the home..I feel so bad cos I was never like that before I got married, I noticed everything was changing the moment I started planning to settle. I was carrying a lot of responsibilities from relationship to marriage.. my wedding anniversary is just two days away, been searching thru all I have to even look different that day but for where... well I have decided to thank God for the ones I still have. #gratefulheart#

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  97. Dear future husband, I promise to always look HAWT for u... Now reveal yourself, tired of waiting

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  98. i am not going to come here and lie, i've been married for less than a year, used to look super hot! the first few months but right now i am in my first trimester and i am constantly nauseous and tired, make up never touch my face for more than a month now except the occasional compact powder, perfume nko? that one na no go area cos even something as mild as airfreshner triggers vomiting for me making me weaker, thank God my skin looks better in pregnancy and my hubby seems to find me a lot more attractive cos the sex is more frequent these days, its d 'no lipgloss' and 'no fragrance' thing that pisses him off. He knows i am constantly feeling cold so to bath for night na war, what he does is to boil water for me to encourage me, and i was one girl that really cared about my looks, i am just 24 years old oh! May God help me get my groove back cos i dey shame for myself.

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  99. I could be guilty, i dont tie wrapper but ive gained some weight recently and i know i wear clothes that hide my tummy but working on it

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  100. Most of you commenting are forming super sexy. God will deliver you all from the spirit of lying.

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  101. Most of you commenting are forming super sexy. God will deliver you all from the spirit of lying.

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