My Son.....

Great words indeed!....show this to someone getting married today.

These are the words from a father to his son on his wedding day.

I dont know if this happened in reality or not but these are words of wisdom and i thought i should share with you.

1). My son, you are now a husband and soon you will become a

father too. God bear me witness that I taught you how to

love, care, and cherish a woman.

(2). I taught you to respect

women, and to rebuke a woman when necessary but not in

the public,if you do otherwise, I know you not as a son but

as my fellow man.

(3). My son, you see this your wife? She is a

weaker vessel but don't take advantage of that, she is not

your slave but an helper.

(4). Don't bring out the wickedness in her, you see that my

Agbada that is now use as rag? Your mother torn it,she

tolerated me every time but on that day, she came

unexpectedly, it wasn't her intention but I dared her and she

reacted back.

(5). My son, woman hate it when you don't

appreciate her little effort, I bet you she can do more she

just wants to know if you will appreciate that little one she

has done.

(6). My son whenever there is an argument or

misunderstanding never raise you hand to beat your wife,it

is an abomination to both God and our African society.

(7). My son, always remember she is your better half and I know you will

not want to beat yourself.

(8). My son now, you are very lucky to have two families, prove yourself

responsible to your in - laws as you did here.

(9). My son learn to help

your wife in the house,that will not take away your authority

as her husband.

(10). My son learn to be kind to everybody and be ready

to take responsibilities over your children.

(11). My son don't forget to

always say I LOVE YOU to your wife this will boast her

confidence in you, always show her off to family and friends

make her feel on top of the world and never allows third

party into your home.

(12). My son when you have misunderstanding

don't call me to come and settle dispute, it is your family not

mine. Sort things out and build a happy home for yourself

as I built mine.

(13). My son note this,you don't love your wife because

she is beautiful but she is beautiful because you love her,

you must understand the emotional nature of women, when

they are happy they will cry, when they are sad they will cry.

(14). My son always make your body available for your wife, provide for

her needs and never disrespect your family in the presence

of your wife.

(15). My son, God will hold you responsible for anything that

happens to your wife, therefore you must spirtually guide

and protect her from danger. There is no secret of long life

and prosperity for a man than having a happy woman as a

wife.

(16). My son,finally......stay together,play together and pray together for a family that stays together pray together.

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If the ones I taught you are not enough, learn more by going down on your kneels and asking God for more knowledge.

*These words sound so easy...I mean loving a woman should be fun right?