Hes just 10,tall with very long legs like his mum,full very curly black hair and brown eyes..and a killer smile
Hes a Very handsome boy and will grow up to be a very HOT young man!
That's my son and he is beginning to have female attention. MO GBE!
This Morning whilst he was having breakfast,I snooped on his phone and read his whatsapp chat because of what he told me yesterday.
He told his friend had broken up with a girl he was dating..His ten year old friend oh!
I saw him chatting before he slept so i snooped and saw the chat between him and all his friends,the break up is the hottest chat on whatsapp between him and his friends and i saw the boy who broke p chat a million reasons to my son on why he broke up with her and showed her the middle finger.LOL.
The little girl chatted to my son asking him to help him beg his friend to make up with her and i saw that after she said that my son blocked her on whatsapp.LMAO!
So,i went downstairs and asked him whats going on......and asked him if he had a girlfriend or there was any girl he liked,he gave me a stern look and told me he wasn't ready to date.....yet.
I told him to face his books and he asked me what else i thought he was facing apart from his books..LOL
He just entered 5th grade,that's secondary school version of JSS1 in Nigeria and i noticed he wants to dress really cool now and is always at the mirror and bothers about certain things now...like i used to beg him to clean his shoes and he would give a million excuses on why he cant....Now he clean his shoes every Morning and now acts like he is a man....NA WAH!
I have discussed sex with my kids...Well i had to after they were taught about it in school and they came home with a million questions.Now they know all about it and how a man gets a woman pregnant.I have done my job.
I have friends whose daughters are just developing breasts and they have their hearts in their mouths with worry,I am not worried.
So i want to ask,to those who have daughters,how do you cope and what have you told them concerning this whole ish?
Do you snoop in all your child and find out what they are doing behind your back?
*Sigh*
It is when times like this arise,i just thank God that i don't have a daughter cos i really don't know how i would have coped,i cannot even imagine a ten year old girl begging to get back in a relationship that just broke up,its funny but OMG these kids are supposed to be all about school and their books right?
I guess life is a circle and they are at the point now where they start slowly to become teenagers.
Anyone snooped on their child and found something that shocked them.
As for my boy,I know him and know that if there is anything he comes first to mama and gists me all about it and i tell him what i think but he will get to a stage where he will have a girlfriend who will take his attention away from me...CHOI!
Mothers-.......and fathers,how far?Anyone got any story on this?
No matters what happens,make sure you are your child's friend,it makes it easier for them to talk to you .
Hmm stella .. I thought u arent team snoop? r
ReplyDeleteAs in
DeleteHahaha. I Taya o honi mumi
DeleteSame thing was running through my mind when I was reading the post, didn't want to comment on this before but had to comment because of the snoop thing.
DeleteSo Stella after all the shakara and bragging and noise making that you ain't team, so you're team snoop after all... hahahahaha
Now you're begin to rephrase it, if I hear that you're not team snoop... *side eyes @SDK*
Lol.
It's not easy being a parent, it's very challenging, I'm not a parent yet, but I'm a guardian to my late uncle's kids, so I know what I'm saying because being a guardian has given me the privilege to have a taste of it.
I pray God grant all parents the wisdom, strength and understanding to raise their kids.
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DeleteStella has joined team snoop o... #crying
DeleteIt's a good thing u have given them sex education tho. Am sure ur friends who av female children too would educate them early hence avoiding stories that touch
Stella didn't join the #TeamSnoop on husband/boyfriends fone.... it's more of her kids. What she has always said is that she doesn't snoop on her husband or former boyfriends fone. This is different, cos with kids u have to snoop to get information.
DeleteI be mama boys too ooo...I can't shout.
DeleteMy boy tells me about how he has to choose who to marry between two girls in his class. He mentions qualities such as friendly, brilliant etc.
DeleteI laughed within me. Couldn't picture discussing that with my dad when I was six.
The younger boy is still assistant husband for now. But I think he'll grow up to be a charmer.
Stel, even boys are being molested as well. I watched a very heart broken video on Facebook where a little boy of 3-4yrs or thereabout was being molested by a teenage househelp. Theres no style that this girl didnt use on this little boy to the extent of given her oral.
DeleteStel, i cried. Someone was busy filming instead of to stop this girl.
I've got only boys, though not living in Nigeria, but Stella I'm afraid. My boys ve got very nice curves like girls more especially d older one.
I don't know how to send d video across to u because we re not Facebook friends, but I would want u to view this video. U will weep for this little boy.
Older man taught her all those things. When it holds her, she uses d little boy. I think that's not d first time.
DeleteAll those while, she always pause to look out whether someone was coming or not.
Most men are evil.
SHE DIDN'T SNOOP OH!
DeleteIF YOU READ HER PART OF THE CHRONICLE PROPERLY YOU'LL SEE WHERE SHE SAID, "As for my boy,I know him and know that if there is anything he comes first to mama and gists me all about it and i tell him what i think".
Bv's read properly pls! We are all educated.
She's snooping on her son not her man. Got it?
DeleteStella Maris it's official......you are daft.....geeez go back and read Stella's post...she said it herself and hat she snooped...
DeleteI tire for some people oooo......please read before u comment so u don't confuse yourselves.... how una take dey pass exams for school sef
DeleteKeep snooping, wetin una dey find, una go see one day! Foolish girls, spawn of Delilah.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Ten yrs and he don already turn baddoo... I like ur parenting style though... #NowPlaying big shit popping: elveektor....
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Oh so now snooping isn't such a bad idea. After all the 'stop snooping, stop invading people's privacy' speech you give you dared to snoop? Who'd have thunk #foreverteamsnoop
DeleteThese are her children biko. There's nothing wrong with snooping on them to know what's going on. It's a different thing nosing out on your spouse. Stop justifying yourselves. Snooping is healthy for your kids not your spouse.
Delete#teamsnoop... thanks to truecaller that brings out the real name of people boo saved to confuse me.
DeleteSnoop anything snoopable
Tnx Jane
DeleteYou don't have to snoop on my 12 year old niece o Stella. Boys seem to be the genesis of her life, always writing love letter when she is olodo in class. I am ignoring her because if I correct her the way I do my kids I will be the wicked evil aunt I fitnt shout everyone has their life to live.
ReplyDeletePls correct her oh. To save her future. She will appreciate you more when she is older.
DeleteAlways writing love letter when she is d Olodo in class Buhahahahaha
DeleteHa she is just 12, please talk to her and make her understand atlease she will remember you once tried lead her to the right
DeleteIgnoring her mean ure d evil aunt. Ure destroying her life while u protect that of ur kids.
DeleteI feel you,I have a niece that the mother must not see u scolding her.... you have automatically entered her black book.better keep quiet and face your kids
DeleteYou are evil and am ashamed.....a 12 year old? If u really love her you won't vomit the rubbish u just did.....what people say don't matter, it's her future that matters....correct her how u would your own daughter....if u can't then u don't love her PERIOD
DeleteHmmm...madam...I Don want to be the evil aunt. ..keep at this and don't be surprised she would lure your own kids into this same act and trust me by then she would be street smart and your kids may be the ones manifesting the complications of waywardness....
DeleteAs a good person who has the interest of that girl at heart ,draw her close ,take her as your child and instill some training with the hope that she follows through with love...
See the way you used olodo. .. does your kids carry first in class all the time?.are you aware of people tagged slow learners?...yet you call yourself a parent....when your child has a down side educationally or otherwise do you come out on social media tagging your kid as olodo?
IMHO u remain the wicked aunt..
Send her to her mum
DeleteOya people with Pikin answer
ReplyDeleteStella time to read your Chronicles....yimu!
DeleteCan't type what went down in my home in the last 4 months. I didn't keep it away from close friends. Had to seek advice sharp sharp.
DeleteSummary is the 15yr old girl has entered boarding school to prepare for her SSCE and the 11 year old boy got into boarding school in another school. Yes. A better school. Let me see where they will 'make moves' from or chat'. Thank God for the new Samsung E-board DH did mount for them. Na there all of them begin type their secrets. Thank God.
The others I will face squarely now.
These Montessori Schools and their curriculum, hmmmmm, uma aka a na achokwa ina n' iyi completely. God forbid
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You can never get it 100% right, but Jehova by Eze!
I remember the day my niece told the mum she's crushing on someone. My sister nearly fainted.
ReplyDeleteMake I read comments as I never born
Eerr 10 years old and 5th grade is just primary 5 now not jss1... jss1 is 7th grade or 1st year secondary and one is usually 12 years old by then.
DeleteI was 8 in jss1
DeleteNa wa o!
ReplyDeleteStella abeg don't be too sure he will tell u everything o...
Now that he has friends who dates, he might be lured into it u know?
Please continue teaching your kids d best way you can, God will give u wisdom and also guide them for you.
Am so torched by this post, hoping to be a mother soon
ReplyDeleteTouch* you mean?
DeleteIts touched* not torchlight Ma. You're welcome
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U can't be on fire and be commenting.its touched not torched. Uwc
DeleteHahahahah...*dead at Chi's comment*
DeleteHahahhahaha... torched bawo?!
DeleteI guessed you were "touched by an angel" .... lol
DeleteNa real wah o!Torched! When you are supposed to open your mind,read wide,get exposure,equip mind intellectually and all you focus on are mundane things,that is what you get.You will soon see burnt.Olodo.You better go and buy Brighter Grammar.
DeleteBuhahahhaha.....stella u r so team snoop....I have friends who have sworn not to have daughters cos of all these.
ReplyDeleteHow do you swear not to have daughters?
DeleteI wonder oh afi swearing
DeleteIt's normal for their age...
ReplyDeleteCome to Lagos and see a 6 year old girl talking about her boyfriend...
All these children don spoil finish...
The day I stoped seeing these children as naive is the day I saw a note my eldest son wrote to a girl in his class telling her to be his girlfriend...i sat him down and had a serious talk with 3 of them...
I told them to chill biko...they should get one when they finish high school and they most introduce the girl to me...
Oriegwu oh...
Hahaha. My son turned 12 last July n just entered SS1. The boy is now Mr Spick n Span. Brushes his hair severally,uses his perfume n is feeling swaggy. I do go thru his phone but I haven't seen anything yet. As for girls,they start early to feel like divas. My daughter is 9 and she sometimes tells her bro of 12,"Stop bn childish". I gat my eyes on that girl. Her divaness too much.
DeletePikins for Lagos Don turn wetin I no know oooooooo....God give us parents strength to train them well
DeleteAm confused........ Stella na ur boy u dey talk abt or just a story.......The only time i told my mum anything abt sex, was when i feared i had HIV, I told her abt it and we both cried and she later took me to a hospital for check up.....tnkGod i was and is still negative...... Nowadays i frequent HIV test like the way i drink water daily....... Sometimes i aske myself, wetin i dey find there
ReplyDeleteOne day u'l find what u're looking for. Mr frequent HIV test.
DeleteNa aids u dey find and u might just find if u don't learn how to close ur legs
DeleteDon't worry soon you'll find what you're looking for. Keep gbenshing without protection.
DeleteAm confused........ Stella na ur boy u dey talk abt or just a story.......The only time i told my mum anything abt sex, was when i feared i had HIV, I told her abt it and we both cried and she later took me to a hospital for check up.....tnkGod i was and is still negative...... Nowadays i frequent HIV test like the way i drink water daily....... Sometimes i aske myself, wetin i dey find there
ReplyDeleteAm confused........ Stella na ur boy u dey talk abt or just a story.......The only time i told my mum anything abt sex, was when i feared i had HIV, I told her abt it and we both cried and she later took me to a hospital for check up.....tnkGod i was and is still negative...... Nowadays i frequent HIV test like the way i drink water daily....... Sometimes i aske myself, wetin i dey find there
ReplyDeleteNo wonder u r so sad
DeleteNo worry one day u will find what you're looking for
DeleteY won't u b confused wen u refused 2 grow. Btw re u Thelma's broda?
DeleteHeya.... this boy is really confused... he's like a gay guy trying to come out to tell the world the truth. The Lord is your strength
DeleteWaiting
ReplyDeleteNot there yet, just at the starting point. This is the stage to stay close to the kids. God bless them for us
ReplyDeleteOk. Our SDK no snooping is now a Snooper. Good to know. Anyway, kids will always be kids. You try to stop them this way, they find another way. First thing,you teach a child with your lifestyle. You can't be saying something and acting otherwise. Teach morals and the fear of God, make them your best friend and PRAY. The rest Na God hand e dey.
ReplyDeleteExactly, a child will copy more of what you do than say. *fear of God is the koko
DeleteTrue
DeleteNo story
ReplyDeleteMy daughter is only 9 months old
Burst belle tins.
ReplyDeleteIf ur son was In Nigerian, na crayon e suppose dey play with.
10yr old talking not just about gals but break up too.
Omo to ye ko te egba si idi e.
I no dey fault una oo, na comfort cause am, too much comfort plus too much pizza n icecream.
Which crayon pinkie?...
DeleteNaija children wey don spoil...dey there...
Naija kids Don over spoil oooo... even one was singing "even your boo get a boo" I no fit faint for road
DeleteCrayon pikin or MTV base pikin
DeleteHmmm.....nawa o
DeleteLinda you are right, imagine my niece of 4 years and 10month understand what dating is. Yesterday I was shocked when we were both looking through their end of session pictures together and I saw her elder brother of 10 years old picture with his classmate and their mum too in their graduating gown, the next thing she told me is that the girl and her brother are not dating just classmate, my mouth was left open because she understood what she said. We to start talking to them early, all this movie they are watching too need to be monitored.
DeleteIt is well.
My 6yo asked my hubby:
DeleteDaddy,did you date mummy before you married her here?(pointing to a wedding pic). The father started laughing but I asked my son what he understood by dating. He said ,girlfriend
Chai i just love this blog! Yeah been advising my darling daughter ever since she started smiling. She's 2 months old
ReplyDeleteLol...This cracked me up😃😃
DeleteAnon, your comment is verrrrry funnnny.
DeleteHahahahaha
RayJay
Lol...
DeleteLmao
DeletePoster #1 you honestly need new breeze or fresh air. you need some time to forgive yourself and reconcile with your past. you also need time to nuture a brand new relationship with yourself. All these should be done without past baggage.
ReplyDeletePoster #2 i find it funny, nature called and you answered. Must you pick all calls? bia move on with your life
You are in the wrong page,go back to chronicle page,u miss road
DeleteHahahahaha you Don miss road to Damascus. Wrooooong post. Lol
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wrong post
DeleteLol u don miss road o
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Wrong post
DeleteThis post miss road o.
Delete@veechu,are u ok?
DeleteAre you alright? ...jst asking
DeleteHahahahah....man, the comments are killing me...lol
DeletePlease who can direct her to the nearest chronicles..... na really money miss road be this oooo.lol
DeleteNice one,is good to be friends with your kids,so they can tell you everything instead of you hearing it from outsiders.
ReplyDeleteStella what happened to #teamnosnoop?
ReplyDeleteLmao
ReplyDeleteMeine Freundin hat zwei Söhne, zwolfjähriger und zehnjähriger. Der Zehnjährige hat ein Mädchen und sie sind immer zusammen. Das Mädchen bleibt bei uns am Wochenende und der Sohn kann auch bei dem Mädchen bleiben. Zum Ersten habe ich es unglaublich und unannehmbar gefunden aber Sie sind Deutsche, ich bin Nigerianer. Wir haben verschiedene Mentalität.
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Chinese mandarine.
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Oh puleeeaaase gerrarahere.over sabi
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DeleteMy girlfriend has two sons , zwolfjähriger and ten years . The ten-year has a girl and she are always together. The girl stays with us at the weekend and the son can stay with the girl . First, I found it unbelievable and unacceptable but they are German , I'm Nigerian. We have different mentality .
Pls next time write in English.
@Der, mumu
DeleteIch spreche Bisschen Deutsche.Können wir Freunde sein?
DeleteNa Stella German blog reader
Delete.....okay, you can write fluent Deutsche, noted!
DeleteNot a parent. Waiting for comments
ReplyDeleteOver to them mothers.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Stella, sex discussion with children is an on going discussion until they leave your nest. How can you say you have done your job with. A 10 year old boy? Have you taught him consent, boundaries, oral sex, anal sex, group sex, rape? Stay there and be doing I am glad I have a son. Boys still get crabs, STIs, STDs, today. You think because he cannot get pregnant you are ok? If he impregnates a girl from a messed up background , that will affect his life for years.
ReplyDeleteHave you taught him sexting and not to ask for or send nudes, not to forward nudes if he does receive them, the consequences of forwarding nudes of minors such as himself? You still have a full plate of guiding your son sexually, so do not boast about you have done your job, you never even start.
The best thing is to keep an open door and on going HONEST dialogue with your son. You still have a couple of years .
Best comment so far.
DeleteAnon 16:22,
DeleteWhy the painment?
Truer words have not been spoken darl'n . So true, sex education never stops. As old as we are, me mother still tells us how abstinence is the best form of protection.
DeleteYou are right though...children that age are not suppose to be using a smartphone...
DeleteI bought a small Nokia phone for my children that I use in calling them when I am out...
Amen to that sister
DeleteLmbo!
ReplyDeleteStellz, what were you doing snooping your son's phone?
Kikikikiki
'Is there anything he's facing apart from his books?'.... lmbo
It's normal with his age abeg.
You've done your part.
And if he's a good boy,your worries are unfounded.
But having boyfriends at 10?
Hian!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Cnt wait to experience motherhood with this my unborn baby. God bless all mothers and fathers who actually take time out of their busy schedule to look in on their son or daughter. Being their friends comes first cos it makes it easier for them to talk to you. Then we need God's help and his wisdom to train them well.
ReplyDeletelemme read comments
ReplyDeleteMy daughter told me he has a crush on her brother's bestie, lol!
ReplyDeleteOmg! Are you for real?
DeleteOfcourse her brother will not even agree. Kikikiki. See drama. These kids grow so fast.
Really????
DeleteDiva o...no dey scare me Like dat oo.lolz
Wot did u say to her?
Umu azi!
So last week or so, I tot I saw "some raised bobby" on ma eldest.daughter.hmmmmm
Can't really explain d reaction. A part of me was excited and thrilled.a part was scared too.I pictured maself going for omugwo and smiled.
I pictured my Inlaw buying me an Island and my smile widened. LMAO
Den I came back to reality and I realised she was stil only but a baby and has some more growing up to do.and d challenges of raising a girl-child in dis crazy modern world hit me hard.i tot of Sec.school.
I tot of University. I tot of her falling in love and saw myself almost.wincing.but I whispered up to God "Pls Give her a good man just like her Dad"
But stil i found maself kinda wishing she would remain d innocent baby she is.blissfully ignorant to d ills of d world.but i knew its not possible.my baby wil grow and make her own mark in d world.I just signed and crossed maself.
Later in evening,d General got back and d frst thing I blurted out was " L has started growing breasts"
Ever d practical one he just looked at me and said "Baby relax.she is stil a child.u are not seeing any breast!
He would later tell me dat i looked sad as I told him dat.
Haahhaha hahaahahhaha
God biko help us.Parenthood ain't easy.Give us Wisdom, Patience and Love.Amen.
Pls dear God may our children continually walk in Your Ways.And never depart from You,Amen.
Our Mother Mary,pls envelope them in ur loving arms.
I hope this goes down well for some mothers
ReplyDeleteHian...@10.no now.that's rather too young.stop the friendship btw him and the boy.plz
ReplyDeleteif his friend has a babe, stella you son get boo.He be sharp coded guy so you cant know!nice job alsame@team snoop.
ReplyDeleteLol amebo is not good o. But mehn I will snoop on my kids. I will even bug their phones and give them car so I can monitor their movements with tracker. Help me Jesus!!!
ReplyDelete----Pesticide
You are a real pest hahaha
DeleteHahahhahahaha
DeleteLol,kids of nowadays are something else.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are still very young. So let just read comments and have experience how to handle my own when they are of age.
ReplyDeleteI have a daughter dt is 7, she is sooo pretty. My neighbour's younger son came to tell her dt his elder brother liked her & she laughed & called him a clown. I now watch like a hawk. D shit is getting real & I'm scared.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahaha this is the time to be a monitoring spirit....make sure u don't blink
DeleteHahahahaha
DeleteDon't be scared
This is how my hubby is "policing" our little princess.
You don't need to worry joor just teach her right.
A decent,brainy Beauty she shall turn into.
Iphie, tell ur husband to relax jor. Hehehehe
DeleteMy dear,I watch my 9yo girl like hawk o. Her posing Na die.
Delete@iphie. Amen.
DeleteNot a parent yet, but God give me wisdom wen that time comes.
ReplyDeletepamscrib.blogspot.com
ST, u snooppppeeed? Ahhhhh!
ReplyDeleteHehehehe Hehehehe Hehehehe Hehehehe
I bought my kids those diaries that have keys.
ReplyDeleteTold 'em no-one can unlock it except them ( story) and that the purpose of the diary is to write out all their secrets.
Everything they are thinking,
Everything that's happening to them, Everything they wish for,
Everything in their mind.
They've started writing and I have secretly been reading. Nothing 'off ' so far...except for some funny thoughts." I wish I can start driving a car" "I rubbed mummy's lipstick and wiped off before she sees it because I know she will me mad" "I want to get married" "NAME got me angry in school yesterday, I won't talk to him when I get to class tomorrow" etc etc
Been teaching them sex education and all of that though..
Rendering advice here and there and teaching them to be smart, never too trusting bla bla.
We doing good so far.
#proudmum.
I like your style oo.. I will sure try that diary method with my kids when they arrive and are grown.
DeleteCunny woman #badass
DeleteLmao... u r a crooked sombori 😆
DeleteHmmmm!
DeleteI don learn. Nice one@the diaries.
The one I got them,we just fill it with stuff about their childhood and milestone.
When they are of age, I will love to know what they write in after we hand it over. Lol
#TeamUpdatingSelf#
That's a nice idea!
DeleteSo buying my eldest one.
My second daughter told me.two days ago or so that she wants to be a Mummy.
I laughed it off.
Na God hand we dey so.
Yea! Team Proud Mom Via God!
Bloggy you just taught me one now. Thanks for this wonderful idea.
Delete#GettingReadyBcosMyDuaghterIsSmart#
Hahahahaha...
DeleteThis is another snooping style:.
DeleteI will enter my daughter's room n lie down on the bed with her. Her first question always is:. Ooooh mummy,what do you want?. I will reply that I came to see her n hv a girl to girl talk. As I dey dia,my eyes dey roam o. I look for things I didn't put there.
Again,she has this diary I bought. Chei. That girl can write o. I read abt when a guy wrote her a note telling her he wants to exchange novels with her n she said it was not hers bt her mum's (me) n that I guard my novels like "precious artworks". I read her thots,her fears,how I treat her like a toddler n above all how she loves me n at times feel like not talking to me forever. Teenagers Na case o
Blog lord you be sharp babe....I carry chair for u ooo....lol
DeleteI love your style.
DeleteChoi! I pity the small girl oh, see young love.
ReplyDelete@Honi-mumi, this snoop is very legal jare.star babe dont mind her .This is the time u can snoop cos in a few years time u no fit again oo.That time it will be illegal.hehehehe
ReplyDeleteGod should give us wisdom in dealing with all this children. But what every parents Should do, is to be their child best friend. So they can confined in you to tell you anything, especially if you have daughters.
ReplyDeleteCan someone interpret what Der palmwinetapper is saying?
ReplyDeleteIch bin Nigerien did what again?
XOXO MYSTERY
Parenting isn't beans. May God continue to give every parent to deal with their kids because what worked for A might not work for Z
ReplyDeleteGood you snooped dear! Parenting is not an easy task. Keep on the communication with your son(s), this will help settle what ever thoughts that goes through their minds .
ReplyDeleteI have also started to talk to my 5 years old daughter who's in kindergarten . We have our moments where she tells me what happened in school. And I counsel her as the needs arises . Most importantly I tell her whatever your mom doesn't do so you shouldn't , and whatever I do , you do . I round up with a book we read during her study time *are you a cow ** that book explains how great it is to be you !!
God help us oo because peer association is a major influence on kids .
Stella has become a monitoring spirit, keep watching them closely it very important God will continue to give u wisdom
ReplyDeleteI bought a Diary for my 11 years old daughter who just got into Jss1,i secretly read the Diary and I have been Heartbroken and Upset.
ReplyDeleteMy Daughter said" Mummy is Annoying,Hurting and care for only herself, Daddy is Rude,Disturbing,never st home,cares for nobody but himself, EF is a Goat,a naughty girl,Annoying,i will deal with her, ES is also a goat,Lazy,Annoying, it is only El that I like.
To think that I do anything to please this my Daughter .
We eat what she wants,nobody shouts on her,i appeal to her Teachers when she was in primary school,i have Quarrelled with strangers simply because she said "they said" to her.
Hubby said"She's just a child,children acts up when parents try to advice them,or correct them"
Hmmmm BVs,i just tire jare.
I was so upset this morning when I read it and it's more upsetting because I can't ask her,so she doesn't stop writing her feelings.
It's just not easy jare,to think that,she's a very Loving child,hard working,a Touchy touchy child,that wants to please people.
I feel like I have done done my best as a Mother.
I was like that, leave her. She is growing her personality, please don't take it to heart, I'm sure she is a Pisces child. She will grow to become a very kind girl because she has recognized flaws in human behavior early.
DeleteShe'll change. She's just acting her age. I had a diary like that when I was still in secondary school
DeleteHahahahaha...
DeleteYour husband is right...
Chai...
Awww...I understand how u feel. Don't feel too bad.. U can call her n stylishly ask her if dere r some ways u v bin hurting her and how u can improve on that..let her know dat u really do love her and wants d best for her....peace
DeleteI don't wanna break your heart but by the time she is a teenager,that attitude will get worse. Teenagers,hmmmm.
DeleteMy daughter writes her thots down n once after reading,I commented. She wrote that mummy(humble me) makes her very angry n wonders why I hate her so much not to allow live her life. I commented on her diary n told her that I love her n that I was once a teenager n i was the best girl blablabla. She read it n rewarded me by hiding her diary.
When my son was 10 he was still a suckling so to say. Once he gains admission I know he will change
ReplyDeleteMadam Stella,
ReplyDeleteVery nice.
U are doing a wonderful job.
This is the time u can mould your children the way they should be.ie at a young age.
And not when they don old finish. Come sabi the things pass u sef.
Then it will be useless.
Biko,don't teach your kids that t-word.
DeleteSo Stella snoops afterall.
ReplyDeleteNot a parent yet but I snoop on my younger ones.It helps me know how to advice them,because this children of nowadays need to always be checked.
LOL Stella I thought u are against SNOOP...oversabbi!!
ReplyDeleteI am yet to educate my kids about sex,but will do that pretty soon.All I keep telling my 10 year old daughter who looks like a teenager is that she shouldn't allow anyone touch her b**bs or VJ...that anyone that does is a bad person....but she keeps wondering why I say that to her every time.And she already knows that she musnt hide anything from mummy.My 7 year old son is still Mr Smallie,smart though....
ReplyDeleteI ensure both of them don't watch adult movies and most importantly,we take our bedtime bible stories serious where I teach them and they give feedbacks on what they ve learnt...God help me.At least they know about God and they know they must live right.
I guess I ll add BlogLord's diary method so that I can know what's on their minds...lol.
U better tell her why no one must touch her and what may eventually happen if somebody does.Dont let her go and seek answers from outsiders o!What are you hiding in this day and age?You probably have not heard of the young girl who eventually had to ask their driver where babies come from and what happened.I tell my children everything now,in a tactical manner.It's fatal,leaving unanswered questions and pushing them to seek knowledge outside
DeleteMy sister taught her girl ,she grow follow man run away. Hmm am team ancient parenting, I will kill you before you disgrace me afterall my parents didn't tell us during our time.
ReplyDeleteLol. Ur comment cracked me up mahn!!!
DeleteLoooooool. Me too. Just don't be too harsh. " I'm your parent not your friend"
DeleteThis cracked me up wella
DeleteHahhaahahahahahhaaha
Laff don scatter me here...
DeleteMhh, Stella that is against team snoope have suddenly join. All join. Buy why would you give 10years old boy Interney enable phone?
ReplyDeleteGuess this is would boot some brains after reading. Thanks maam
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