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Saturday, September 05, 2015

Mindset - Is This Yours?

Is this how you woke up feeling?


 Are you attending a wedding today or you decided not to go because you are tired of being asked That ''Societal pressure question''




 Instead of feeling this way,how about thinking that it is another Saturday to bless God for keeping you?
You need to renew your mindset.

 The Husband/wife will come,it may tarry but he/she will come!

 And do me a favour please....Stop Nagging yourself!



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177 comments:

  1. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 11:11

    hmmmm... thanks stella!

    i just hope a true man of God will come for me after all the sins have committed... am sorry lord!!!

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    1. SWAG LAFRESH 5 September 2015 at 11:29

      Stop letting your past weigh you down. So many people have done worst things and they don't shout it. You think most of us here don't have issues bothering us?

      Make peace with yourself, beg God for forgiveness live a better life henceforth and hope for the best.

      All will be well

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    2. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:34

      Well am not worried over Nothing coz am not even ready. I think in another 2 3 years I mayb ready.

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    3. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:44

      Madam, this post is for you.Try to love yourself more.No be you kill Jesus Christ.

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    4. Timscexy5 September 2015 at 11:50

      My dear, da God who answered my prayers by giving me a Man OF God as a husband will surely see u through. I was like u. A baby mama, God gave me my man to wipe away my tears and made my son His own priority.. And now, I'm not tagged 'baby mama' anymore..

      Now my younger sister is getting married next week.. Thank God sey I marry if not I for be topic of da house.

      So madam with long I'd. I can see its ur desire to be with a MOG. God Is already in ur case, so don't worry ur self, u hear?

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    5. mrs livy5 September 2015 at 12:11

      God sees ur heart, and just so u knw, we r all sinners. Ur man is on the way fear not, have faith and believe.

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    6. NARUTO5 September 2015 at 12:19

      My dear its not d end of d world... Calm down and keep praying.

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    7. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:23

      And its not a must u get a pastor as huband now.

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    8. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:39

      After opening your bushy toto and anus to receive saliva, penis and whatever, u are looking for man of God. Anyway , there are different gods in this world. I'm sure it's one of the others that will locate u. Pig.

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    9. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:39

      You would get,just stay true to yourself

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    10. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:49

      Abeg it have do! And don't come here and say you sorry Lord...

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    11. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:53

      Enyia mechieonu ..enough abeg

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    12. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:03

      @ longest ID, what if a man that is not a man of God comes first, will you turn him down.

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    13. KALLMI_ANGEL5 September 2015 at 13:03

      Sometimes pastors make the worst husbands. Just pray to God to give u ur own man specially made for u, a man whose ribs u are made from *wink*. Good luck

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    14. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 14:03

      Madam, you seem to be at the verge of losing hope. I sense that you are carrying a lot of guilt around.
      Let go and let God. And walk and work in faith. It's probably not my biz, but Start by changing this your profile name. use one that speaks faith already.
      Thanks and God bless.

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    15. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 14:05

      @Kallmi Angel - Abi oh? You don't know the challenges Sunbo might be facing. No two mirages are the same. Ask for your own miracle.

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    16. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 14:06

      awwww.... am so crying now... thanks you all for the encouragement...... @mrs chocolate, oh yes! my heart desire is to be with a man of God, a true one!

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    17. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 14:09

      @anon 13:03...no i won't turn him down but i really wish to be with a true man of God!

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    18. MRS CHI UDE(Baby Face)5 September 2015 at 14:15

      My darling wait on God and stop lamenting. He will bless u when u least expect it. Get busy and take ur mind off whatever bothers u esp marriage

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    19. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 14:21

      Hi lady with the long I'd...stop dwelling on your sins! Ask for forgiveness and let go.do you think you are the worst sinner?did you murder?someone else has murdered several.did you prostitute? I did for 13 yes and guess what?God has forgiven me and blessed me with a good man! Did you commit abortion? I have lost count of the number I did.it doesn't matter how heavy your sins were.FORGET THEM cos God has forgotten them! The devil tricks you by briging up ur past to make you feel unworthy. Ignore his wiles.for starters pls change your id.lemme suggest new I'd for you.how about "latest bride" favoured" apple off God's eyes" liberated woman.in the confines of your room,mention sumbo's name when praying but remove it fro here.despite all my sins of the past,I am also a single mum and met my man at 35.And I am also plus size...God ignored all of that and blessed me.E-hugs.

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    20. Queen Bee5 September 2015 at 14:52

      Aunty,what is ur intention for asking for MOG for husband? U want to be mama of the church abi wetin?_ u crack me up dou!lol
      Stella dis ur post is so funny too oo!which one is ;its another Saturday and I never marry'!is it now a do or die affair?
      If only singles knew marriage is not a bed of roses!

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    21. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 17:53

      I love you @ Anon 14:21. I'm so in that blog ID idea

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  2. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:12

    The hustle is real!

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:32

      My younger sister (23yr) met a rich dude tru the last S & M, seriously both of dem are goin well. Sis I knw say u go see my post abeg no vex.lol hahahah

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  3. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:14

    Funny enough marriage is not on my mind now..want to equip my self properly before marrying ...soo nah ..didn't wakeup with that mindset

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    1. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 11:25

      how old are you again?

      me that am already 28years old, i can't compare myself with you young girls o

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    2. SWAG LAFRESH 5 September 2015 at 11:33

      Same here. I didn't wake up with the mindset.

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    3. Etsako Pearl5 September 2015 at 13:42

      Same here.So help me God.

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    4. Mz sparkle5 September 2015 at 13:43

      Hmm, I didn't wake up wit that mindset too, all I wan now is to make money and take care of my parents and siblings!!!!!

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    5. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:54

      @ longest ID....you are so DUMB, sooooo STUPID!!! Your mentality & sense of reasoning is off this Planet!!! You are 28yrs so FUCKING WAT!!!! Are there no 28yr dat have gone to der graves? Appreciate life. Get a LIFE BITCH!!!

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    6. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 14:06

      Madam Sumbo prayer - so you are only 28? Okay! Now I'm actually sad for you.

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    7. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 14:21

      So u are just 28 n u r wailing like this?
      Do u have a disability?
      Because I don't see how a complete 28 year old ll be this desperate
      Keep chasing them away with desperation ehear?

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    8. Unknown5 September 2015 at 16:21

      Depressed at 28?? You are kidding right ??? And your blog id will chase guys away
      Don't be desperate abeg
      Hide your heart in God that way the right man will go through God to locate you
      Men hate desperation because
      And yes I'm single but not depressed . Also older than 28 n didn't wake up with this mindset smh

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    9. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 16:33

      chikito my sister, please don't be sad for me.... just a word of prayer will do!

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    10. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 16:34

      @anonymous,i dont have any disability, am a complete full woman but most men that comes want to eat and go

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    11. Nki5 September 2015 at 17:20

      Lady with the longest id why not just send in ur story to chronicles. You've referred to it enough here. May God grant you the peace u need.

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  4. Olaide Davies.5 September 2015 at 11:15

    I thank God for this beautiful day.may God bless all those that are getting married today.Jehovah please remember me too .

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:42

      Stella, wen is d next S&M? Pple dey wait Oo

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  5. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 11:24

    you talk about marriage alot!!!!! yet you make it seem irrelevant; most people do. God will grant us our heart desires.

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  6. Quiksilver5 September 2015 at 11:24

    Where is Longest ID?

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:55

      D bloody fool is here already Lamenting!!

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    2. SWAG LAFRESH 5 September 2015 at 15:00

      She don mark register since na you come late

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    3. Andromeda5 September 2015 at 16:00

      She should chill already. Being desperate will solve nothing.
      I think nothing of Saturdays; just any other day. Perhaps it's because I'm too busy thinking on how not to miss destiny and how to fulfill that will of my Father which is in heaven concerning me.
      Not to sound holy or pious but worrying never solved anything.
      Of course I wanna get married but i'll rather channel my thoughts and emotions into positive things and pray and believe that God has settled it.
      Most times, we worry over nothing. What if marrying in your 20s isn't God's plan for you? What if you get into that marriage now but live to regret it for the rest of your life?
      Omo, the God I know has promised me that His thoughts for me are thoughts of good, not of evil...to give me a hope and a future and an expected end. That's cool by me.
      Till hubby shows, imma keep doing what I love, think up ways to be prosperous and work on my character. Can't shout.

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    4. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 16:36

      anonymous calling me a bloody full when i didn't insult you, may God pay you back!

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  7. Martins (GlossyMart Tech Gadgets 07037317400 or 08116202737)5 September 2015 at 11:30

    Marriage is never A trophy!! And can never be A platform to know the height of success/God's blessing towards an individual...
    If you are married,and you are happily in it;Good for you!! But if you arent,dont have the mindset that God has forsaken you..cos you dont know God's plan for you!
    Most people are married but wake up crying everyday and would keep wishing they can go back to the days they were single;cos they have realized marriage isnt everything that defines the happiness of every individual...
    In other words;irrespective of you being single or married,always thank God for the Gift of life you have got and always remember that his plans for us all is always the best!!

    #God bless you all as you live your lives with A positive mindset....

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  8. Mamannukusdkblogceleb ��5 September 2015 at 11:30

    Omg I forgot to invite y'all
    This Saturday is my wedding
    Am getting married to Jesus..
    Y'all should come without I.v please..

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  9. LEE705 September 2015 at 11:31

    Thank you stella, God marriage has become like oxygen for nigerian women.

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  10. Eny5 September 2015 at 11:32

    Thanks for the encouragement Stellz. God bless

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  11. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 11:32

    Stella what do you expect! 27 and unmarried! I watch as most runs girls in my area get married every Saturday! Smone even told me recently...dnt go and do the needful! dey there dey form good geh! Good man go come! ...my aunt spoke to me personally abt taking me to a man, whr i'll drop the names of guys in my life and come back after 3days, den he'll tell me the name of the most suitable 3 to live with, i'll just pick the one I like best out of the three and viola we'll be talking abt marriage the foll mnth! dat dats how most girls get married dis days! ....i told her God forbid! that my God is not dead! But each time I come back home I still get to hear that resounding voice that say! ...see ure still single and depressed and unhappy! when you go marry! I am depressed! Ve bin indoors for some days now! Cos it's as if each time I even go out the devil himself will keep people by the road i'll come across eida as friends or relatives to ask me that deadly question! 'when you go even call us?" you mean say as u fine reach no bobo!!! I don tire oooooo! God please help me! Dis year or at most nxt year shudnt pass me by! I am not into any relatnship! But I am believing God! I hope to share my success story soon! Amen.

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 14:30

      Amen to u

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    2. Unknown5 September 2015 at 14:55

      am same age with you so why dont i feel the way you feel each day?do you have up to 3million in your account?thats what should be bothering you,my younger sister just got married last saturday and am so happy for her but should that weigh me down?Never!!,please stop that rubbish mindset mtcheew

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    3. SWAG LAFRESH 5 September 2015 at 15:15

      There's no time that is ever too late. It's not how far it's how well. God will see you through

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    4. Unknown5 September 2015 at 19:16

      My dear never let others dictate your life, after marriage ceremony you would not see any of them again. Don't dwell too much on being single but appreciate the fact that you are still alive and beautiful and God will never forget you. That is what keeps me going.

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    5. Human Beans5 September 2015 at 23:56

      Marriage will not make you happy or cure your depression. It only multiples WHAT you bring in! Keep that in mind and work on your happiness and emotional health while you are waiting.

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    6. Anonymous6 September 2015 at 01:59

      So me dat I'm 37 and unmarried should do what when u r 27 n depressed? I can nvr b depressed or feel outta place. When God is ready for me he'll send me my husband. I'm a happy ez going lady wiv no stress. I've never for one day been sad cos I'm single. And no, I'm not consoling myself. I've just said d truth. Be happy n wait on God.

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  12. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 11:32

    No marriage in heaven fyi and since the goal is to make heaven no be by force but I pray whatever marriages we contract won't push us from the goal in Jesus name.

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  13. Deeh5 September 2015 at 11:33

    God will surely remember me

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:57

      Amen...me too.
      Movie Time!!!! Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah

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    2. Stella Maris baby5 September 2015 at 18:50

      Amen oooooo..
      Me tooooo

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  14. Ify Tabansi5 September 2015 at 11:34

    Tell them o

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  15. Kosi 5 September 2015 at 11:37

    All shall be well!!

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  16. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:41

    I thanks God cos it's a beautiful Saturday morning...am nt. married but I v hope

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  17. Pynk360.com5 September 2015 at 11:43

    Well said Stella...God's time is absolutely the only time.

    www.pynk360.com

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  18. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:43

    Abeg marriage is on my mind!!haba!bmy neighbor is getting married for d second time and am here!! No one has asked me"wetin ur goat born sef"lets start from der

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    1. Jasmine5 September 2015 at 16:34

      Lol. Sorry. Ur time will come

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    2. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 18:35

      Hahaaahhaahahaha hahaha

      God must surely here us ooooooo

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  19. KALLMI_ANGEL5 September 2015 at 11:46

    Marital life is a wonderful experience, it has its ups and downs but the joy overwhelms the downs.
    I wish every single BVs their second half sooner or later.
    My koliqs in the office got married at 40 something years to the man of her dream who is currently processing her Visa to join him in USA.

    Everyone will eventually get married at their own appointed time. God bless all

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 14:32

      And marriage is not for everyone too

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    2. Andromeda5 September 2015 at 15:34

      Kallmi, koliqs again? Jor nau.
      It's colleagues. I corrected you once before nau.

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  20. Unknown5 September 2015 at 11:47

    Stella abeg enough of all these marriage talk....haba! What is it? Contrary to what you think, some of us don't breathe and live for only marriage.

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  21. Honesty5 September 2015 at 11:48

    Dumb post... all Stella ever wants to do is hear people's stories. Just look at what she turned into a post?!! Most of you ass lickers will come here to form voltron but its still ok..Stella it'll do you a whole lot of good to stop the pretense. You ain't even nice.

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  22. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 11:51

    My dear singles,pls don't be in a hurry to settle down.This is my second marrige and i still made another wrong choice because i was so desperate.Upon that that i was also duped and am pregnant but God has bin my strenght.As it stands now marriage is nolonger on my mind because the heart of man is desperately wicked.Please take your time and do not allow peer group or family pressure to push u.U will carry the cross alone and wallow in self pity.Marriage is not a bed of roses and it's even worse if u marry the wrong person,am just praying for safe delivery and may God use this child to clean my tears....Pls study ur partner very well and don't be in a hurry its better to be late than to cry the rest of your life.

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  23. Glorious Child5 September 2015 at 11:55

    God please provide the resources to take care of the three children you've enclosed in my care, bringing up three kids without a father isn't easy. God please remember me.

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  24. Miss Ess5 September 2015 at 11:56

    Life goes on abeg

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  25. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:06

    Sarah married at age 90, why y'all rushing to the alter cause you've got BSC. Get a life first Biko so you won't be a liability

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    1. Queen Romzy5 September 2015 at 13:10

      Sarah married at age 90??...there is nothing I won't hear oh!!!!

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    2. la effizy5 September 2015 at 13:14

      Omg... you high? is this part of your usual saturday laughs? Sarah married @ 90? Serious? Even Islam religious knowledge won't teach you that...

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    3. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:37

      Lmao! This guy na back of bible you dey read? Sarah conceived at the age of 90 she had since been married to Abraham before then.

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    4. Unknown5 September 2015 at 14:32

      Bujhahah..Stella see wetin u dey cause

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    5. Unknown5 September 2015 at 16:13

      Hahahahaha rolling on the floor hahahaha

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    6. Princess Scheherazade 5 September 2015 at 17:22

      90?

      I laugh in Farsi...

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    7. Unknown5 September 2015 at 17:32

      Which bible have u been reading? Hahahahahaahaahaahahahahaahaa u turn the bible upside-down? Chineke oghene biko

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    8. ChyAdaJesus5 September 2015 at 17:36

      Bwhahahhahahahahahaha

      Don baba D.....

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    9. BLOGLORD (MVBM)5 September 2015 at 18:02

      Lmaoooooooo
      Don Baba D!
      Abeg na which version of bible you de read?
      I need to get acquainted.
      Kikikiiikikikikiikki

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    10. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 18:38

      Sarah?
      90???
      Hahaaahhaahahahahahaaaaa
      Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha Hahahahahahahahahahha

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    11. Besmeraldboutique bbm 5906753C5 September 2015 at 20:09

      Shit men

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  26. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:06

    It is well

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  27. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:08

    My own mindset this morning.....About to mark my 5th wedding anniversary, yet no child to call my own. Lord for how long? This cross is heavy o.

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    1. Ivyjess5 September 2015 at 12:58

      It is but God will visit you. Celebrate with joy

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    2. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:24

      Aaaaaw,come take a beer hug darling. Don't worry,God has not forgotten. Your miracle is on the way. Just keep holding on, and never stop believing in Him.

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    3. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 14:12

      the God that forgave my numerous abortions and still gave me a child will visit your womb this minute

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    4. original glow,maintenance,lightening,whitening and correcting cream from Switzerland.081203748075 September 2015 at 15:12

      *bear hug

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    5. cutemum315 September 2015 at 16:05

      Don't worry,God will do it when you least expect.he is still on the throne

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    6. ChyAdaJesus5 September 2015 at 17:38

      God of miracle is ur God dear. Receive ur children love.

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  28. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:09

    See all of them pretending marriage is not a priority; when they spend night after night wetting their pillows begging God for half a man to put them out of their misery.
    Amen to your prayers my brethren.

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:54

      Huh..repete ???? See them shallow minded peeps...U are the one in misery

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    2. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:27

      Shut up you idiot. How can Africa move forward, when people with your mentality abound? While marriage is important, it's not mandatory. You are the reason most 9Ja girls keep feeling incomplete without a man.

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    3. Unknown5 September 2015 at 14:58

      can you imagine?anony even your boo(husband) get a boo so relax

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  29. Miss independent5 September 2015 at 12:09

    Marriage is d last thing on my own mind sef

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  30. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:17

    Abeggi I woke up thinking of what to bake....i have been thinking lately of getting books and writing material to distribute it to the schools in the interior part of my state, don't knw if it is a calling but the thought won't just leave my head but sadly I'm unemployed at the moment

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:29

      That's the spirit Jare. Please, make sure you stop at nothing to achieve that.It may not be easy, but it'll definitely be worth it. When marriage comes, you'll go into it a fulfilled woman.

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    2. Andromeda5 September 2015 at 15:38

      Anon, I read somewhere that when you get ideas like this, you follow them up no matter what.
      Back in school, I had an idea that wouldn't just go. Had no money but I told God, if you gave me this idea, then you should provide the cash. My dear, it came and I prospered in the business. So don't give up.
      Pursue this with all you've got.
      Cheers!

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  31. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:19

    Ooooooooh my...!
    Got dis interesting even though I'm an ingrate
    God of mercy remember me

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  32. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:19

    Nigeria really needs to be fixed. Our problems are cyclic and inter-related. Lots of eligible bachelors are available but cannot take dt step towards marriage cos of lack of adequate finance(not necessarily for the wedding but for life afterwards).This can be linked to unemployment and meagre paying jobs, which also has its way of affecting the morals of the dudes making them less husband materials, and the cycle continues just like in thermodynamics, where heat is transformed to different energy states....With an increase in the unemployment rate, there remains a possibility for an increase in this trend of unavailable suitors.

    At the same time, we need to fix our mindsets and avoid the societal pressure getting to us, lots of people have lost their self esteem and values all in a bid to fit the societal description of perfection.

    Stay strong, believe in God, be smart, flexible and savvy. God's grace propels us and keeps us to enjoy the manifestation of His words. We need to play our part and stay alive to witness God's glory.



    Li-yon Vls.

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    1. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 14:13

      I agree with you!! My dad married as an undergraduate in his final year. He used his saved bursary money to wed. By the time he graduated and served her had three jobs waiting for him, with cars added to it.
      Whenever he wants to remind me how young he was when he got married, I remind him how difficult it was for me as a fine sharp babe to get a good job, not to talk or struggling bachelors.

      Nigeria's economy doesn't help matters. Male graduates can't get jobs 5 years after service, the business they will be doing will be crawling self. As much as single girls don't want to suffer, the way the economy is, it's difficult to have hope that a young man will find his fortune soon. You may end up sentencing yourself to a life time of hardship. I've seen it happen to some of my aunties nau.....
      May God direct our paths oh! That's all I can say.

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  33. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:21

    I thank God for d gift of life, God bless those getting married today, I know mine is coming soon, coz i trust God will never forget me

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  34. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:22

    Ooooooooh my...!
    Got dis interesting even though I'm an ingrate
    God 4giv me, av mercy on me & remember me.

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:03

      Oh I wish u will be positive and celebrate ur singleNess with a different

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  35. World People5 September 2015 at 12:22

    This blog pressures us

    Every time marriage this , marriage That!

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:52

      Thankkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk You.stella pls take note

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    2. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:08

      Thank you,this was the last thing on my mind.
      I woke up happy only to see this reminder staring me in the face.
      Not fair

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    3. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:12

      True, stella should control this particular aspect, some people get really despondent whenever this issue of marriage comes up, I pray that God grant those who are due to marry their soul mates, especially the ladies. And thanks stella for clipping the wings of those BVs that curse others to go and marry. Marriage no be achievement o, am talking from experience.

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    4. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:33

      Thank you Jare,there's hardly a day that goes by without Stella blogging about marriage or something related to it.

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    5. Unknown5 September 2015 at 15:16

      Like seriously it has got to stop.

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    6. original glow,maintenance,lightening,whitening and correcting cream from Switzerland.081203748075 September 2015 at 15:18

      Stella please enough of the marriage issue. No need to lay emphasis on it because contrary to what you think,though you are using reverse psychology,marriage isn't the ultimate for women. Life's too short and sweet to dwell on such backward mentality. If it happens fine...if it doesn't...life goes on with alternatives to having kids. Let it rest biko.

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    7. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 16:00

      Stella biko. Some of us the aunty gwens as ur blog like 2 call us come here 2 relax nd laff off. Enuff of d marriage issh now. Pls there shld b oda things 2 talk about now

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  36. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:22

    Lol... Why not advise your married (female) BV's to stop calling the single ones Aunty gwegwegwe

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  37. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:24

    Stella this marriage thing no easy o. You can imagine again being 33 and single. It's usually sats I don't go to work that the thing hits me, other days I have work to occupy my mind. I'm rushing in d morning so no time to think. But sat I begin to think of my life. That I'm supposed to be in my own home with my husband and kids, making them breakfast and enjoying the wkend together. And family members looking at someone with pity, as if I'm a leper or smthn. I've had veryyyy bad relationships, d last ended 2yrs ago and wretched my life. I know I'm a very beautiful woman with good morals but I have bad luck with men. I just leave it in Gods hands. I keep praying, I know one day he'll answer. I will never give up.

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:01

      It's not bad luck .........All tins work for good sist

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    2. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 13:16

      Don't give up. He sees and listens.

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    3. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:36

      Please don't say that, you don't have bad luck with men.You've just been meeting the wrong people. The one meant for you will come, and when he does, you'll realise God had a reason for making you wait that long for him.Keep the faith alive.

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  38. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:26

    Stella wen is d next S & M cumin up,

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  39. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:29

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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    Thank God i be man shah..... #NowPlaying>> what do yu mean: justin bieber.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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    1. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:38

      You sef follow for man? O di egwu.

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    2. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 18:45

      Sassy fire
      You don kill me with laugh here ooooooo



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    3. Stella Maris baby5 September 2015 at 18:55

      @ Sassy Fire u are funny..

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    4. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 19:05

      Every woman needs a man
      Sure

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    5. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 19:05

      Every woman needs a man
      Sure

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  40. chi5 September 2015 at 12:38

    This only goes to show how unique this blog is and stella herself. Excellent topic that could only come from someone with a good personality. Kudos to you stella.
    I never ready to marry. Wondering whether I should take him back or not after the stunt he pulled yesterday.
    Happy weekend my fellow bv's

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  41. Olayemi5 September 2015 at 12:41

    Hmmm!it's well

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  42. Cookie Lyon5 September 2015 at 12:49

    The Sumbo Adeoye Blog visitor please calm down. God has forgiven you now you need to forgive yourself.
    The bible says none shall want her mate and I believe in Speaking God's word.
    Why don't you take out time to get scriptures on marriage and speak them into your life?
    Even while speaking them work on making yourself a wife 'cause its "he who finds a wife" not he who finds a woman. You have to be a wife first.
    God is a business man and he will not give his tested and trusted sons to women who will destroy them or turn them away from him.

    Please look for messages by Pastor David Ogbueli(Dominion City) especially the one titled "The Rules of Engagement ".
    You are a beautyfull woman. You are yet to find out how beautyfull you are.

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    1. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 14:24

      Dang!
      Rules of engage mentioned changed the game for me lol....

      I sha tel ma tory one day one day

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    2. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 19:32

      please help me, how do i get it? . thanks

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  43. Unknown5 September 2015 at 12:50

    I think is only on dis blog some people nag and cry about not being married most expecially women, I don't know if it's because I am still very young cos I don't see it as a big deal, I don't even imagine How it's going to be like..... U people should take it easy oooo God is still in control....

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    1. Olaide Davies.5 September 2015 at 18:29

      When you are 40 and still single u will understand. But I pray you don't experience any delay in your life.A friend of mine once said she will marry any man as long as he carry penis.Lol

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  44. Darajah5 September 2015 at 12:56

    So here goes another rant.
    I'm in my mid 20's but still in sch at ds age.ds wasn't how I had planned my life but then man proposes n God sometimes disposes.I want to marry but at d same time I'm imagining how I will shuffle d two. I want to finish sch wt a very good grade,get about 1 or two professional certification, enjoy d single working class life but at d same time I am lonely.I know dt once I marry I CNT achieve all of d above wt ease but then d need for companionship keeps pressing down on me.How do I get both at d same time?

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    1. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay5 September 2015 at 14:16

      Simple.... Choose one and stick to it without complain :)

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    2. original glow,maintenance,lightening,whitening and correcting cream from Switzerland.081203748075 September 2015 at 15:21

      Scale of preference....stop confusing yourself. Between,you can juggle the two together if you can

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    3. Quiksilver5 September 2015 at 19:29

      So make we do wetin now?

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  45. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 12:58

    Hian!
    What kind of post is this Stella?
    Biko not helpful
    This blog is gradually turning to depression blog...
    People come here to have fun n laugh not to be given reasons to worry
    All these regret n sad post are getting too much, source for sat laugh mbok
    Nb: am not married and am 22
    Just my opinion tho

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  46. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:12

    Unnecessary pressure.... for those who want to be pressurized.

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  47. Miss Ferragamo5 September 2015 at 13:15

    Na true oh. When is the next SnM?

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  48. mzmaris5 September 2015 at 13:22

    I woke up thinking how my today will be......don't really remember people get married on saturdays.....well, not until I come out and see cars and ribbons

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  49. Unknown5 September 2015 at 13:25

    do i even remember its saturday sef mtchew

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  50. Cookie Lyon5 September 2015 at 13:29

    Don Davido.. Sarah married at 90????
    Are you reading your bible upside down?

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  51. Sultry Onyx5 September 2015 at 13:47

    Don Davido which version of the bible recorded dat Sarah got married at 90?
    Weekend call, work on my mind (for now)

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  52. MRS CHI UDE(Baby Face)5 September 2015 at 13:52

    Why wake up with such thoughts??? The fact that we wake up hale and healthy,its worth appreciating God for abeg. God has a set plan for everyone o, he will bring the right man at the right time. The worst thing that can happen to any woman is getting married to the wrong person. Occupy ur mind and get busy. It will happen wen God says it will

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  53. Darajah5 September 2015 at 13:58

    Honesty I feel for u.I think u should calm down,life's not that serious

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  54. Unknown5 September 2015 at 15:14

    Some women are damn too emotional and sensitive to this marriage ish. Lol

    Get over yourselves women! Have fun,live life.
    I am in my mid 20s and in no hurry to get married.

    If husband comes now,fine. If not, ama keep ballin.

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  55. Evita O. Enwefah5 September 2015 at 15:24

    Marriage will come in God's appointed time. Its not an achievement. Doesn't make u a better person. Work more on urself, achieve ur goals before merging ur life with someone else's. Not in a hurry. I know when its time the man will come. Life is too short for all this kind of stress abeg.

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  56. Ndidiamaka5 September 2015 at 15:31

    Enjoy ur singlehood,have ur self-esteem intact,have fun. Ur own patner will come.

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  57. AppleofGod'seye5 September 2015 at 16:03

    My people ow ona dey?

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  58. KING Nwa AMAKA5 September 2015 at 16:13

    Stop already! Which marry? Am nacking hard today abeg.Lee boo better be ready.

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  59. Jasmine5 September 2015 at 16:37

    Sorry to say, but many of u chased ur future hubby away when u were still young and fresh. But it's all good tho. Everything will end in praise. God is still in the business of doing miracles

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  61. Christina typearls5 September 2015 at 16:55

    And all those who wont stop googling Bellanaija or Nigerian wedding happenings. Just be there for the inspiration only and not to get headache

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    1. Jasmine6 September 2015 at 00:09

      Hahahaha, I so love Bella Naija. Going thru the pix to find my perfect wedding vendor, decorator, MUA, photography and all...almost done

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  62. chi5 September 2015 at 17:14

    Sassy fire,sassy chicken or whatever. If you so hate this post why are you replying every comment#justsaying

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  63. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 17:47

    Thanks for this post but really we as women should be firm in our mindset do not let envy peer pressure or society be d deciding factor for ur life when it's God's time marriage will definitely come shikena

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  64. Anonymous5 September 2015 at 17:54

    I think Stella derives joy from reading sob stories. Hian, it hav do. First it was I wish from part 1 till it lost its touch in part 5 nd now this.
    People dey try sef. Coming here to remind urself if ur mistakes nd failures like it will change anything. Mistakes nd regrets are an inevitable part of life. But der is absolutely no need dwelling on dem. Yesterday is in d past for a reason. Dust urself up nd keep living. If it's not bright today, just pray for life u never know wat tomorrow will bring.
    And for those wailing cos dey are not married, how I laugh at u. I am married nd I don't wish to be unmarried but if I'm to go back in time, honey, I would do things differently. I will take my time. Yes. Get a good paying job, save, invest, take better care of my siblings nd parents, build my own house, buy my cars, live my single life to d fullest. I can have my kids without pressuring any man to marry me cos I ll be in a position to carter for dem. Infact, If I were unmarried by now, God knows, it wouldn't have been my priority. Making money nd living well would have taken d front burner. Because u are dead without money if u like marry d richest man in d world, if u don't have ur own money or a means of making ur own money, oyo is ur case.

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  65. MISS TRUTH.5 September 2015 at 18:15

    Nah wah! So many depesrate singles looking for husbands. Stella the thing with most of them this days is, if they manage get husband tomorrow they will still go to their exes for love and sex claiming they married the wrong person, they can get exes for Africa. And they are not ready to start small. MAKE UNA NO VEX O. GOOD LUCK.

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    1. Ayoyinka Odeyemi5 September 2015 at 19:35

      miss truth don't say what you don't know, if you hear my story... you will cry for me,

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    2. Jasmine6 September 2015 at 00:12

      Longest name, plz shut up

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    3. Anonymous6 September 2015 at 01:46

      Please tell me ur story

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  66. yourstrulyblogposts.blogspot.com5 September 2015 at 18:41

    Amen

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