This topic is a very sensitive one and some spouses have had their Marriages and relationships end because they refuse to bid what their other half wants....
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''Morning amiable Stellastic Stella.. HOW MUCH RIGHT DOES A SPOUSE HAVE OVER HIS PARTNER? I am asking this because of an incident I just got to know. A man, he's a doctor injected his wife with a drug to shrink and deaden her womb without her knowledge or consent. They had triplets as first issue and the man did this deed when the wife was done with malaria. After years of trying to get pregnant again without success she found out her womb is dead and the husband owned up to what he did. Stating he didn't want any more children.
Am still mad hearing it. Why didn't the man do vasectomy on himself? Isn't conception a two-way train? Why the woman and not himself? I carry this matter for head like Matthias oh.
Please, let's hear what fellow BVS have to say. Thanks''
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ReplyDeleteevil man
DeleteThe solution is so simple : He has to be castrated or she should crush his balls. But on a more serious note, some men are wicked
DeleteNot only does the man don't have a right to do what he did, he's also very wicked.
DeleteWhat if he is no more, and the woman decides to move on with her life by getting married to someone else? Or what if something happens and the kids are no more, and she decided to have another child?
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Some men are just soo evil he should av gone ahead to do vasectomy why must it always be women that av to sacrifice look at neyo too telling his babymama to tie her womb and he has gone ahead to impregnate someone else the world is filled with selfish men too much biko
DeleteThe man is a wicked person!
DeleteShikena!
To me, I'll say he shld be castrated.
This man is an evil being. He is capable of killing a person. Na wah o. He should have his Dick cut off
DeleteThis ur moniker is ga gan oh
DeleteDevil incarnate!
DeleteEvil sumbori
Please gently poison the man!
DeleteI swear with my life I'll sue him If I were his wife...wtf?
DeleteSomethings are not supposed to be heard of...I am a very logical person and it even takes hold of me than my emotions....that's first then secondly, he has no right to do that naw....I'm mad and I'll stop here.
Things have limit and people tend to ignore that fact. There's a limit to everything......
DeleteThat man deserves a little corner in JAIL!!! Why didn't he make himself sterile? What he did is wicked, evil, inhuman, selfish. He practically mutilated that woman alive.
DeleteIs he God? Chai. This thing dey pain me.
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Am not married though but from the little I know this is wrong both morally and medically you can't do such a thing on someone without getting her consent. To me in marriage nobody should have So much right over the other for crying out loud the two are now one and things should be done with so much respect and consent from eachother. The man should have told the wife before doing that because in marriage the happiness of one's partner should be their aim not just his own selfish desire. There is more to marriage than just thinking about yourself everything done should be a collective decision even if you believe your spouse is not so good in giving advice you should still seek for his or her advice inordert to make him or her feel loved and important. So many people still get married thinking is just a child's place thereby hurting their spouse. A man should love hiswife like he loves his own life and likewise the woman but above all they should learn to respect eachother but in decisions and otherwise. Even before performing any procedure on a patient it is expected that you explain to the person the consequences of whatever you as the doctor have decided to do especially if the patient is not unconscious, this man is really mean and can be sued for this if I was the wife na orchidectomy I go do for am. Nonsense!
DeleteOh my God, I will never forgive him, he is selfish and cruel. What a husband indeed!!!
DeleteImagine the nonsense,men are so selfish he thought of himself alone.
DeleteThe man should be jailed for that, it's like infecting his wife with the HIV virus. Wat nonsense
DeleteThat man did something very wrong. He should have discussed that with his wife first no matter how much he believed in his views. She is not a statue. She is a human with blood flowing through her and a brain and a mind of her own. He was wrong to have done that without her consent. That is pure manipulation.
ReplyDeleteA DAY IN THE LIFE OF A MOTHER
The man is very manipulative and controlling! What arrant nonsense! What if she wants to have more children? Or Leave him n have children with someone else? What if some thing baf happens to the children? Godforbid though. There re so many things that cpuld go wrong that d man didnt put into consideration. Apart from that, he had no right to do that to a fellpw human being without d person's consent. Wife aside that is cruelty! The man's licence should be taken! Beyond cruel. No husband or wife has this kind of right on the spouse. It should be a personal decision.
DeleteWhat kind of evil man is that?tired of all this marital issues abeg.
DeleteI believe every relationship should be a partnership, one must not take decisions without the consent of the other or else the partnership breaks.
DeleteDats wickedness of the highest order. Hian wat is dis world turning into na? Give me one reason why I shouldn't cut of his balls na? Mtcheeeeeew
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There should always be mutual consent in matters like this. A man shouldn't impose his will on his wife becos he is d 'man of d house'.
DeleteA wise husband doesn't make decisions on his own. Both of dem should always sit down together and deliberate on issues as sensitive as dis.
What d man did wz completely wrong.
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The man is a wicked man, he should @least discuss it with her first. Although, they say the 2 of you becomes 1 once you're married, but I think it still have some limits
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This is a very horrible thing to go na.
DeleteWhat's wrong human being now?....
The man must undergo a vasectomy or I will take legal actions against him
DeleteThe man is mean, he is heartless, he deserves Rat posion in egwusi soup
ReplyDeleteWhy Egusi soup? You want to kill the man in a delicious way.... Lol.
DeleteWith periwinkle, snails, dry fish and stock fish in it
DeleteAnd a chilled bottle of beer to wash it down
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha
Delete@KingRex, Miz Attractive, Tochini, you guys dey spirit, he deserves slow and painful death period.
DeleteThat's really bad of him. Who does that!
ReplyDeleteChineke eh,dats unfair nau,some men sef
ReplyDeleteHe didn't have to do such without the wife consent, that's so heartless of him.
ReplyDeleteA man should have certain rights over his wife as a wife should also have certain rights over her husband. But, there should be limits to these rights.
ReplyDeleteWhat gives him a right to desecrate his wife's body in that way? He had none.
If I were her, I would pretend it was ok and forgive him and then one beautiful night, I would pick up a sharp knife and exercise my right over the ownership of his penis. SOB.
Exactly .
DeleteAlso isn't is criminal offense ?
For real?? Then when u r horny what do u do? My dear, two wrongs don't make a right ok!
Delete@ lizzy T can u ever get horny or wet for an animal like that anyway sha guys are not fools they know who to fuck with na ur type they can do this to because they know u reason with your horny wet pussy
DeleteHmmmm, don't mind some stupid men they think once you are married to them you become their property, they decide for you, they take decisions on your behalf, they are true definition of selfish.
ReplyDeleteThe man is a wicked and heartless man. He should av told the wife first. Nobody has absolute right over another person whether as parents or spouse. U can guide the person but not absolute right. It's not fair
ReplyDeleteWizardry in different form this one is another level. Chai....
ReplyDeleteThat is very wrong, the man is the head but his wife is not his property. Infact I believe they should have equal right.
ReplyDeleteWho has his phone number? Let me tell my native doctor to make him impotent
ReplyDeleteSelfish man
ReplyDeleteIf it's me, I will sue his ass
He should have at least sought my consent before injecting me
we are each other's property but not to the extent of injecting rubbish into my system
What if the injection had taken adveese effect on me
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Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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God that man is really crazy..... God punish am shah.....
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Two cant work together except they agree. The man took matters into his hands. What if it was the wife that did this to him how is he going to feel. Its good to do unto others what u will like them do to you. The man did a very very wrong and bad thing to the wife. That's too bad.😉
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteThis man is wicked,..
Negodu him taking such a life changing decision on his wife without comsulting her...nawa ooo
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DeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteThis man is wicked,..
Negodu him taking such a life changing decision on his wife without comsulting her...nawa ooo
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THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteThis man is wicked,..
Negodu him taking such a life changing decision on his wife without comsulting her...nawa ooo
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that man can kill! if na me na divorce straight!
ReplyDeleteSo if the man dumps her he can remarry and have more children but his wife cannot have any more children if that is what she chooses to do.
ReplyDeleteThat's being heartless, he had no right.. it would have been an open discussion and they will come to agreement, such act is only acceptable if there is perceived danger in the next pregnancy but as long as she is fit and strong. It's absolutely wrong, ahn ahn that's unfair o
ReplyDeleteI feel pity for that woman, now if they divorce and she remarries, she wil nt be able to concieve for another. If this happened in an advanced country like US, that woman would be millions of dollars richer, she would sue him big time. Here in naija, relatives wil intervene and beg her to forgive him, they wil tell her to remain with him quietly forever for the sake of the kids.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she have an uncontrollable sexual appetite like all nigerian women.
ReplyDeleteI pray you have sense. O gini du? Ngwanu make correct sentence, No way! Onye meelu gi ihe a, O gaghi adiri ya mma.
DeleteWhat has sexual appetite got to do with d womb mbok!!! And ur a fool for generalizing this with all Nigerian women
DeleteVery daft comment smh
DeleteWe should start a movement. #vasectomyformen#
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
If I were d wife, I wld sue his ass.......no one owns anyone....."Partnership" ....u both decide, not just one party..He is a controlling "fucktard" .....it's her body for pete's sake....Marrying her doesn't change that.
ReplyDeletewhat that man did is a criminal offence and can cost him his license. someone who could go to that extent can infact poison someone. he is a VERY wicked man.
ReplyDelete2 can play. I'll have him put to sleep and get a dr friend to get a vasectomy done on him. Idiotic man.
ReplyDeleteExactly, no need to shout or make noise.
DeleteThen he will wake up seeing a smiling wife.
Decisions in marriage should be discussed thoroughly by husband and wife and an agreement reached before it carrying out. The both of them have equal rights, sadly, its not so in this part of the world. The women are expected to be under the the man's control and eat any shit thrown at her. It is in Nigeria that u wil see a man cheating on his wife or even impregnate another woman outside marriage, if she as much as raise an eyelid, people wil advise her to ignore and keep being nice as long as he is taking of her and the children. Some wil advice d wife of a cheating man to pack condoms in his luggage when he is travelling so he wont bring home STIs. Nigeria!
ReplyDeleteNone is a property of each other.
ReplyDeleteThere's a limit to where the owning ends..
How dare the man do that. It's criminal and the woman can sue for it.
That's going too far.
ReplyDeletevery bad
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Me sef go cut him "joy stick"
ReplyDeleteThat doctor is supposed to be sued not minding she is his wife. But if i were to be the wife, i would act like nothing happened, cook his favourite meal with enough sleeping tablet. Then after eating, he would sleep while i perform an operation on his penis and scrotum, then after dat we would live happily forever.
ReplyDeleteSleeping pills won't be enough. I would just make sure he gradually becomes a vegetable both down there and in his brain by feeding him with body damaging drugs through his food. The man is just selfish and wicked. Women they suffer sha
DeleteThat Man is cruel...The Bible says Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the Church.
ReplyDeleteso if they divorce now and get married to different spouses the would not be able to conceive for her new hubby while the man would,that man should be sued
ReplyDeleteThelma Enemuwe & her triplicate comments..*smh
ReplyDeleteThat man should be sued..in fact, his balls should be sliced..
Evil doctor! Why didn't you inject yourself? Evil man evil doctor evil father. Na dis kin man go inject person with slow poison. Annoying
ReplyDeleteThat man is very callous ! God forbid!
ReplyDeleteIf you ask me , this is not a topic for discussion because 100+% of us here knows that the man was by far WRONG in his act and is wickedness in the highest order!
ReplyDeleteDidn't you read about Neyo that manipulated Ex girlfriend/babymama to burn her tubes yet he dumped her and is engaged to be married to another lady who is pregnant?
ReplyDeleteHe still has the effrontery to say it is reversible.
Reversible or not, that is wickedness and manipulation of the highest order.
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My husband is telling me to go on birth control pills
DeleteHave told him my family planning is withdrawal or condom till when am done with child birthing then I can do whatsoever
Not the one you would do now then start fasting day and night when you're ready for more kids
Those things have a way of destabilizing women's body
Probably after child birthing, he will do vasectomy
That man wicked gan! Destroying a woman for life? Haba.....even with her consent. She should sue him a man/woman doesn't have such right over their partner except either agrees to it
ReplyDeleteThat is naija for u. Couples are supposed to have equal rights but here a woman is expected to be under her hubby and eat any shit he throws at her. If it were to be in an advanced country like US, that woman would be millions of dollars richer. She would sue the man. Here, families and friends wil beg her and tell her to forgive and forget, they wil tell her to live in peace with the man for the sake of the children. It is only in naija that DH wil impregnate another woman outside and if the woman as much as raise an eyelid, they wil tell her to ignore as long as he is taking good care of her and the kids. In naija, the wife of a cheating hubby is supposed to stuff his suitcase with condoms wenever he is travelling to prevent him from bringing home STDs.
ReplyDeleteWicked generation..That man is very heartless.
ReplyDeleteThat he's a doctor doesn't give him the right to do such.He can even kill her whenever he wants with whatever injection he likes.
He should have dicussed it with his wife.
ReplyDeleteIts her body for christ sake!
Thats just wrong
Haba! Wickedness on the highest level. The man shouldn't get away with this. She should take him to court or something.
ReplyDeleteVery wicked and selfish man! I'll so sue his pathetic ass and mk him lose his medical licence.
ReplyDeleteShe should sue and also on the behalf of the children and then find out what the medical board has in store for him.
ReplyDeleteThe gay woman hater @money maker. Your ugly wicked soul will soon kill you.
ReplyDeleteThis is all shades of wrong. Marriage is all about partnership. You don't own each other. That why communication is always encouraged between husband and wife. When one talks the other listens and makes an input. You disagree to agree.
ReplyDeleteThis marriage is a farce and should be dissolved. The husband is a psycho and can even commit murder.
Selfish man..
ReplyDeleteWhat a wicked man...
He needs to be punish.....
Rubbish
He dug his own grave without knowing. How dare him. It is either I sue him and be compensated with a lot of money (enough to bankrupt him) Hahahahahah or I take matters into my own hands and deal with him accordingly. I would make him sleep and operated on his two scrotum and feed the dog. Eye for an eye.
ReplyDeleteChai! How this matter pain eeeh, wetin come happen to vasectomy? What is wrong with men trying to make the woman suffer or grow through procedures once they don't want kids...imu nwa is a two way thing, they(men) alway keep their manhood safe and suffer the woman, tomorrow they (men) will say 'akwa nwa n'agu ha', b4 u know they will go and impregnate another chick. Enough of this one sided family planning, fp is for the couple not just the woman. Haba malam!!!
ReplyDeleteDat man is simply wicked
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