Who comes first in a man's life between these four?
I know baby mama would never come first, but if you are a guy and your baby mama comes first, please tell..
Monday, September 07, 2015
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Mum
ReplyDeleteI can't marry a man that his mum comes first in his life o. #notomummy'sboy
DeleteSuppose to me.the mum but now.
DeleteDaughter,wife,mum baby mama.
Daughter first, others follow.
DeleteWife pls. Even the bible says the man shall leave his parents and cling to his wife.
DeleteIt depends on the individual.....baby mama is out of it!
DeleteMy mum
For me, its gonna be my wife ( thats if i find that woman of my dreams). I know my mum comes 1st for my dad so she should be ok with my wife coming first for me.
DeleteMy mum and daughter will be 2nd.
Btw, i just wonder why married men put their family as next of kin...its silly. If u dont trust ur wife enough to be ur next of kin then why did u marry her in the 1st place and vice versa.
lol @HRH is she jealous of her own child?
DeleteI got two-lovely kids, they Will always come first before anyone even before me-that is Our mentality-choosing our parent and our self before our family-your kids and your wife are your real family.
DeleteMy wify definitely love my mum and daughter so much, but I have the best wife and she remains my number one
DeleteFor most men is mothers but some wife and few their daughters
ReplyDeleteFor any normal responsible man, their children ALWAYS come first. Most fathers wld do anything for their kids - even sacrifice their lives. They wldnt go dt far for their parents or wives though, no matter how much they love them.
DeleteThe love ur mother/father has for u is way more dn d love u cld ever have for them. And dts d same kind of love ull also have for ur kids. Its just d fact of life. Just wait till dt new life gets in ur arms for d first time. Its a way deeper type of love.
WHY CAN'T WOMEN STAND IN A LINE. THEY ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING FOR WHO COMES FIRST.
ReplyDeleteThat's women 4 you!
DeleteI tire o....
DeleteWomen tire me abeg.
Thursday last week, a guy drove his car with his immediate younger sister at the passengers seat, they went to pick his babe . When d babe came out from her home, she insisted the sister to d guy leaves d passenger's seat for her... The sister was like , why would I leave? Na so argument start. Me way de d back all this while ( they picked me first at home), just de shocked at their show of shame, especially the gf....
Na so dem use spoil our outing that Thursday evening... And me de eye my friend sister.
lmfao @MO. The sister should ve gone to the back before they pick d gf. Me n my elder brother went to their bank's dinner(firstbank). I entered d back sit from when i was picked cos he picked me first. Cos i wouldnt want my bf's sis to sit in front with him while am there biko. But ur friend's gf fucked up. If i was her i would ve entered d back seat since she was already in front when i was picked. Then later have it out with my man. Na when we dey come back, if she sit down for front den na my trouble she dey find.
DeleteIt is pretty wrong for the guy's sis to seat in front while the babe stays @ d back.It happened to me once,bf came to take me out for dinner but came with a cousin sis who was in front while they came to pick me,they actually waited for me to close from the office but d babe no gree go back seat ooo.I felt so insulated that I didn't come down from the car when we got to d dinner venue. I asked them to go ahead while I wait for them in d car.....
DeleteAll this front seat wahala sef . I don't get it what does it matter. I vote who gets picked up first sits there . Why ask someone to move?.
DeleteThis is the problem with some Nigerian women. Your mates are becoming millionaires and billionaires in dollars and you are struggling for front car seat of a man who hasn't even married you yet. Prioritize oooo
DeleteIt happened to me when I was dating my husband, whenever we going out and d bro his coming with us, he will always take the front sit, Infact on a few occasion I felt embarrassed but I ignored the whole attitude cos one thing was sure he DARE not try it once we get married and I was right now I just put him in his place and like I said he can't even dream of trying it now. So my take is ignore whatever d sibling is doing now, some things are just automatic when the relationship becomes legal through marriage.
DeleteIgbo man:
ReplyDelete-daughter
-mom
-wife or baby mama (depending).
Liar!Mama first before any other
DeleteLol
DeleteNo wayyyyy!
Yes O!
DeleteFor your mind na
DeleteNa lie... Igbo man: Son.
DeleteLmao@ white prints...true tho. D igbo man does not understand all dese things you ppl r saying. Give him his son(s) and he's fine
DeleteGuys over to you. Lol
ReplyDeleteWife....when God decides to bring her. But she'll be jealous of my daughter 'N' (i have her name already n no wife can argue dat with me cos God gave me d name)
DeleteMum,dat doesn't mean I don't love u.I seriously do
Baby mama,dats not in d dictionary in my family
Good answer @bitchplis
DeleteI am the first in my boys life...
ReplyDeleteNo woman will take that away...their wives must lick my ass oh...
Hmmm...
My daughters inlaw will enjoy sha...
LOL
DeleteHehehe.
DeleteDis woman ehn...(u forget ur husband side, na son u dey tlk)
Anyways Linda u go meet me dia, since I be wan apply for ur son.
Lol. Abeg take am easy ooo.
DeleteStellakork u for no add baby mama join cos Dem no get level. Some girlfriend get level pass baby sef
By licking your ass.....lol
Deletebcoz her halitosis husby is following ashawo
DeleteKaiii im sure linda will google up halitosis,.lmao anon u are wicked
DeleteI doubt.
DeleteI pray!!! When that time reach we go know!
DeleteMy hubby loves his mum but doesn't joke with me!
When our daughter arrives, that's the REAL competition.
My hubby is the first son n loves his mum very much. I don't begrude him that love cos my 1st son has already promised me a private jet n Ferrari.
DeleteSo,my hubby loves his mum but he doesn't joke with me o. As for his kids ,he can move a mountain for them n that is a quintessential family man.
Men, oya you guys should answer oo. loll. #I sitBack&readCommets#
ReplyDeleteMy wife first.
DeleteDaughter comes next
As for my mum, she has special love that no one will take away from me.
Baby mama.... OYO is your case.
For my hubby it's definitely his daughter first. His mom and I can take several seats for all he cares
DeleteAnd a man will leave his mother and father and be with a woman (wife) and they will become one.
ReplyDeleteI wonder why some men have their mum as next of kin? You have a wife, a friend was complaining to me about I told her to relax that it's nothing but coming to think of it, I think it's something oo.
Haa! Babe it is something ooh
DeleteHian married man has his mom as NOk? Hian. Wonders!!!
DeleteMrs fine face I love this ur make up oo. Really lovely and not OTT. Chaiii can't remember the last time I wore make up.
DeleteBaby mama ko.. sister shlda been written dere.
ReplyDeleteThe wife better come first, or else....
ReplyDeleteJust saying.
Hullo Lisa Spencer.
DeleteMummy Mummy Mummy. My wife after my mum is gone.
Hey boo boo.
DeleteMost guys love their mum like Kilode. So I guess for such people it might be his mom first, wife n daughter.
ReplyDeleteFor my dh, my daughter and me. Which one be baby mama own for there now? Dem no get space at all.
DeleteWe need Sincere answers too
ReplyDeleteOver to the men
Zum Ersten ist meine Tochter.
ReplyDeleteDaughter!!!
ReplyDeleteI will just read the comments..
ReplyDeleteAll the men get in here..
I used to be first o,lately i noticed our unborn baby has chanced me already..kosi wahala.
ReplyDeleteawwww
DeleteDaughter wife mom
ReplyDeleteIn correct order. I concur.
DeleteFor my DH:
1...daughter
2...daughter
3...daughter.
Then
4...me(wifey)
5...mum.
Hahaha. Oriegwu.
Hehehe.
DeleteMy DH and his Ada eh,he does not believe that that girl is ever wrong.
Anything she wants,she gets,but now the rule is: Anything you want,tell me,I'll tell dad. The guy still fulfils all. As she grows,I am seriously cutting down on some unnecessary demands.
Men and their daughters sef.
It should be wife!
ReplyDeleteThen for both of them as a couple...their kids will come first.
Mothers IMO, shouldnt be in any sorta competition with wives....their place is such that is so special it can't be equated.
Mothers occupy a special place in our hearts, they give more love than they receive and shouldn't be made to feel like they need to work for our love.
It is only insecure mothers or those who their children haven't shown enough love that will feel the need to be in a competition.
thumbs up!
DeleteCocoz u ve wisdom!!
DeleteOya men over to you oooo.
ReplyDeleteThink deeply before you answer , cos anything you say will be used against you in the court of law ( home).
Let me read comments
1. Daughter - She'll need/depend on me for sooo much; love, protection, direction, finances etc.
ReplyDelete2. Wife - My bestie n companion for life, atleast the whole of my adult life.
3. Mum - she'll understand that she was my number 1 for a good while before life n reality kicked in.
Time is an independent variable in life and thats one thing everyone needs to appreciate, especially the older generations and in all spheres. Succession n sustainable development
ought to be properly preached n understood.
Li-yon Vls.
great answer!
DeleteYes.
DeleteShud b wifey but dis days. .. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteMy wife comes first in my life follows by my daughter then my mother. My mother has enjoyed all the attention from her husband. my wife should also enjoy her own love life
ReplyDeleteYou are a good man.
DeleteChop kiss Akinola!
DeleteMy daughter, my mom, wife...baby mama
ReplyDeleteMother
ReplyDeleteDaughter, MGbam! The most precious thing in a man's life. Don't you remember the King who cut off John's the Baptist's head because the daughter requested for it. Or King Pharaoh who adopted Moses as his son even though his daughter violated his law on killing of all Hebrew boys at birth by bringing babe Moses to the palace?
ReplyDeleteOya men over to you.
ReplyDeleteMajority of men would choose their mum.
ReplyDeleteMy iyawo first!!!!!
ReplyDeleteTo me my baby mama comes first. I hate my mother because she introduced me to this devish wife I have now that cannot bear me children. I will soon send her parking. My baby mama and my daughter by her is the no.one.
ReplyDeleteLike you can take care of children. Nonsense. I blame the woman that is calling herself your wife. She should know better.
DeleteBig fool .......you need deliverance from the evil spirit living in you .
DeleteYou are a fool! That your baby mama might be your end. Wicked man. U hate ur mother cos she introduced u to a devilish wife that cant bear children. Really? She is devilish cos she cant bear children? wow!
DeleteU're a bastard son of a good woman. For making dat statement, God punish u a million times and may greater misery be added 2 ur already miserable life. EWU GAMBIA.
DeleteThis guy gave an honest answer and all this criticism....naijerians sha
DeleteThat baby from your baby mama is not yours. I am very sure, pls go and verify.
Delete1. Daughter(Our future)
ReplyDelete2. Wife(Present)
3. Mother(Thank you for bringing me into this world)
4. Baby mama(She will be someone else's wife soon)
Even the bible says a man will leave his house ( his mother and father) and be cleaved together with a woman. If the mother is the 1st i suggest they f their mums and have baby by them. This things shouldn't be compared, a real man knows where to draw the line and does not compare or show favoritism, he sets his priorities right.
ReplyDeleteIt's always the wife for some but for some it's their mums.
ReplyDeleteAll jokes aside Mum, Wifey and Daughter come first together..side chick is in a comfortable 2nd place tho
ReplyDeleteYou already started with mum first. U have a stand even though u try to paint it like u will treat every equal.
Delete*comment reading moment activated*
ReplyDeletehmm,this is a tough one.Well,a reasonable man should know how to handle all,but if you must choose.The wife should take priority I think.
ReplyDeleteIt's mom daughter wife then baby mama
ReplyDeleteNoooo.
Deletewhich one is baby mama, thought that's the wife's role as well...?
ReplyDeleteMe first before my children
ReplyDeleteMum
ReplyDeleteSterra siterra steriaa !!!how marin timings i calling you,what type of Ogbanje question risdis? oya ask ladies n u women which MAN comes first in dia life??
ReplyDelete1 dia ARISTO
2 '' FUCKMATE
3 '' Husband
4 '' Son
5 '' Baby daddies
6 '' Area fucker.
7 ''pesin wey disfagin you
8 ''Lecturer
9 ''Boss at work
10 '' your domestic worker (man)
11 '' VULCANIZER
OFA TU YOU LADIES n WOMENS..
Crazy! LOL!
DeleteSterra siterra steriaa !!!how marin timings i calling you,what type of Ogbanje question risdis? oya ask ladies n u women which MAN comes first in dia life??
ReplyDelete1 dia ARISTO
2 '' FUCKMATE
3 '' Husband
4 '' Son
5 '' Baby daddies
6 '' Area fucker.
7 ''pesin wey disfagin you
8 ''Lecturer
9 ''Boss at work
10 '' your domestic worker (man)
11 '' VULCANIZER
OFA TU YOU LADIES n WOMENS..
Sterra siterra steriaa !!!how marin timings i calling you,what type of Ogbanje question risdis? oya ask ladies n u women which MAN comes first in dia life??
ReplyDelete1 dia ARISTO
2 '' FUCKMATE
3 '' Husband
4 '' Son
5 '' Baby daddies
6 '' Area fucker.
7 ''pesin wey disfagin you
8 ''Lecturer
9 ''Boss at work
10 '' your domestic worker (man)
11 '' VULCANIZER
OFA TU YOU LADIES n WOMENS..
Sterra siterra steriaa !!!how marin timings i calling you,what type of Ogbanje question risdis? oya ask ladies n u women which MAN comes first in dia life??
ReplyDelete1 dia ARISTO
2 '' FUCKMATE
3 '' Husband
4 '' Son
5 '' Baby daddies
6 '' Area fucker.
7 ''pesin wey disfagin you
8 ''Lecturer
9 ''Boss at work
10 '' your domestic worker (man)
11 '' VULCANIZER
OFA TU YOU LADIES n WOMENS..
na wa o
DeleteIt af do you jor! !
DeleteAnd he posted that comment 4times. Chai
DeleteIt haff do eh
DeleteIts gotta be ma daughter mehn....Momma....wifey...in that order...🙌🙌
ReplyDeleteYou are still young. When u grow up, answer again.
DeleteDaughter..
ReplyDeleteMother..
Wife..
Mama baby
In my Hubby's life its Me first, our child/ren, then his mama
ReplyDeleteNa wetin he tell you be dat? Babe no let pant wear you.
DeleteFor most men it's mum,daughter& wife
ReplyDeleteFor others it's wife, daughter & mum
For some it's daughter, mum & wife.
For most men it's mum,daughter& wife
ReplyDeleteFor others it's wife, daughter & mum
For some it's daughter, mum & wife.
D wife should b d one cos she is d mother of ur generation
ReplyDeleteLafsssss.....
ReplyDeleteDaughter
Wife
Mum....
Correct.
DeleteLemme read comments
ReplyDeleteOfcourse it's the wife.
ReplyDeleteOfcourse it's the wife
ReplyDeleteWife
ReplyDeleteDaughter in any man's life.
ReplyDeleteFor me it's definitely going to be my daughter, at least that one is my own completely
ReplyDeleteU seem so sure. #sideeyes lol
DeleteLolz.
ReplyDeleteAll of the above
They all deserve equal love from the man.
For my husband........me,then my daughter...m..he is an orphan.
ReplyDeleteSince my hubby mom is dead. Guess I come first. Dancing.
ReplyDeleteAre u dancing that ur hubby's mum is dead, or that u come 1st in his life, which one?
DeleteLmao, nikky y are u like dat naa?
Deletewife . mama has her own husband daughter is additional blessing of marriage. baby mama is a lady that decided to be a waste product and a disgrace to his family.
ReplyDeleteMother
ReplyDeleteFor my own Igbo papa oo, I COME BEYOND FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!! Then my grandma! the same thing for all of my uncles, their daughters come first! My daddy can be sick if I am sick. He would be sad if I am sad and that applies to all my Igbo uncles and their daughters too, followed by my grandma and then my aunties before their wives. Anybody that says wife here is either lying to themselves or doesn't have kids yet. Even for my brothers, I come number 1 and some have married oo but none have kid/kids, so maybe their daughters would take the love when they are born. Fine by me, I am chocked with it sef. It is only Nigerian women if given such list would put their husbands before their father, lol, "Gadfarbid", they would carry husbands on top their head like alagbaru, mistcheeww. As for me, my father and son(don't have yet, if I have) share equal places in my heart, then some of my brothers, before any husband.
ReplyDeleteYou can have an ex husband, 2nd husband or even third husband but you can never have an ex father, ex brother or ex child. They are constant fixtures in your life and they would be there when shit hit the fan with the so called hubby. He paid to marry you, so his payment can be returned when he is tired of the services, such a person can never ever come first before my blood or family members.
I seriously don't even care if I am first or last in his(husband) life either. I just ask and want to be treated with respect as an individual, kpere! My family members give me too much love already for me to be hounding an outsider for more. The way which the list order comes also depends on upbringing sha, If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, some baby mamas can even come first, but in a normal, loving family setting, blood family members that raised and took care of you first, before outsiders.
how do you people write long epistles?
DeleteSame way you "write" long ID. lol kpele. Am in d mood for trouble
DeleteChai, anon 14:45 God bless u. U just described it well. It's same in my family too. Not to say my dad doesn't live my mum, he's crazy about her, but adores me, same goes for my brother too. Sometimes just wonder y dey protect me like I'm going to disappear. And God knows my dad is my number one boo, then my brother and then hubby. Those 2 have unconditional love mehn.
DeleteAh is my mom oh first second and third o.before my wife 4th then daughter my mom that have suffered sacrificed everything for me ahhh..for why na no one can love me ever like my mother mehn so i have to love her more than anybody else ahh no one can even compete that position with her....i am engaged to be married and am sure my fiance understands cos she too would want our son to love her soo i dont see why my mom shouldnt be number one in my life
ReplyDeleteThe wife should come first for a man that is wise. If a man choose his mother and daughter, He should remember that his mother will not come and nurse him when he's on a sick bed or do some essential things,and the mother will die before you, also his daughter will eventual move out and be with another man, meaning He is left with this woman we call a wife.
ReplyDelete👉🏾daughter, wife, mom, no baby mama
ReplyDeleteMum, Wife, daughter, House girl hehehe
ReplyDeleteHouse girl kwa? hahahahahaha
DeleteOoooooooh my...!
ReplyDeleteStop asking us unnecessary qstn stella
Baby mama ko grandma mama ni
Should be the wife
ReplyDeleteAll i know is that Baby Mama comes last.
ReplyDeleteSAD!!! New Born Babies Hooked on Heroin
It can be painful sha but it should be ur wife
ReplyDeleteWife, Daughter and Mum...Hehehehe
ReplyDeleteI will just read comments. Men over to you ooh
ReplyDeleteFor any normal responsible, their children ALWAYS come first. Most fathers wld do anything for their kids - even sacrifice their lives. They wldnt go dt far for their parents or wives though, no matter how much they love them.
ReplyDeleteThe love ur mother/father has for u is way more dn d love u cld ever have for them. And dts d same kind of love ull also have for ur kids. Its just d fact of life. Just wait till dt new life gets in ur arms for d first time. Its a way deeper type of love.
1st Mother
ReplyDeleteThen comes wife
Then daughter.
For a reasonable thinking man his children are his legacy and that should be the most impt thing.
No 1 has to come 1st in a Man's life. its not a race or competition.
Questions like these.... are the problems we have 2day
I don't get it.. I'm my husband's wife and baby mama.. So what are you saying Stella?? Which other baby mama??
ReplyDeleteThis right here is the reason why we have the number of dysfunctional marriages that we do. when things are in the wrong order, nothing can fall into place. your wife should come before even your daughter. your mother has her own husband, your daughter will have hers, your wife is all you have. until we get that right, we will still have the stories of woe that we have. it should be wife, daughter and then mum. there shall be no baby mama options around me, can I get an Amen?
ReplyDeleteNo no no way...I won't joke with my daughterhow to detect face importation websites
ReplyDeleteJust asked my hubby he said, wife, daughter, mum... I now asked him baby mama nko and he said "for what? Dats not even an option common!" Love my boo! But sha I for wonder if he had included baby mama lol!
ReplyDeleteThis was what my hubby said when I showed him this post;
ReplyDeleteEach women have their own position and role to play in a man's life, so no one comes first or last. This question can never be justified with an accurate answer, because a mother cannot play the role of a wife, nor a daughter that of a wife.
None of them
ReplyDeleteIn case of emergency...circumstances of the event shall prevail
definitely his wife and then his daughter except he is a useless man. my husband calls me " the number one woman in his life" we dont have a child yet, he says i am the most important woman in his life and then his mum .... i am his motivation, this i know because i know what he has gone through for 3/4 years to keep me in his life...his love for me is unconditional. i hope this is the same with most married women put there
ReplyDeleteAppreciate the recommendation. Will try it out.
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