WIDE PRIVATES AFTER VAGINAL DELIVERY
Good morning Stella
I would be grateful if you could post it under doctors section so I can have wider views and contributions on this.
When I gave birth I had episotomy done on me.Now due to the circumstances of my conception and birth,the nurse didn't sew me up completely. In fact I think she must have done one or two stitches,iand this was done in between her complaining and beating me .
The person I went with had to go check on my baby.I always try as much as possible not to remember that incidence but the post of vaginal and CS delivery brought it back.
The person I went with had to go check on my baby.I always try as much as possible not to remember that incidence but the post of vaginal and CS delivery brought it back.
I am as wide as the widest thing you can imagine. No matter how big someone is he will get lost in there,I know cos I had sex once since giving birth and despite how big he was I was the one who broke up the relationship cos I felt so shamed.
Please bvs I am thinking on getting into a relationship and get married too,this is affecting me.Please is there any kind of thing I can use?After delivery I did kegel for two years which I had sex again yet it was still so wide.what again should I do?
Please don't judge me its help I need.I met a doc after delivery and he said it will need surgery. I don't even have money.please if there is any cheap natural remedy to recommend for me I will be so glad.Thank
Please don't judge me its help I need.I met a doc after delivery and he said it will need surgery. I don't even have money.please if there is any cheap natural remedy to recommend for me I will be so glad.Thank
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ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Hmmmmmmmm
DeleteFix it Jesus...Glue it Lord. Poster,I pray you find help.
ReplyDeleteROTFLMAO
DeleteLmAO
DeleteLol. Glue ke
DeleteBwahahaha.... You're high I swear!
DeleteLwkmd.... I actually fell of my bed laughing so hard
DeleteReading comments
ReplyDeletePoster i won't judge u neither would i commend u.
DeleteAnyway...ur best bet is surgery.
Go for a VAGINOPLASTY @designated VVF centre.
D surgery won't last more dan an hour and ur done.
Hia.......oriegwu oooh
DeleteBaba. Fix this.
@ Dr Elena, u didn't state the cost of the surgery, what if she can get financial assistance?
DeleteIt's really a bad thing if a woman looses her esteem. She'll never be happy. And a woman without a man is incomplete. We all want to grow old with someone.
' no matter how big some is he will get lost in ther'
ReplyDeleteThats bad news ooo
Hmmmmn
I would hv given u some fulani tips my mother told me but i m too hungry to typeaybe i ll find time to mail Stella
Selfish much?
DeletePls prove u aren't and do so.
I read sth recently about alum revirginating....just N20 alum is all you need. Google to know more about it...Goodlk dear
DeletePlease and please don't use alum. It will come back worst
DeleteLip sealed .
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ReplyDeleteOboy you worwor no be small...kia akpa njo...see the shape of your face sself.
DeleteU are not supposed to comment......just dey monitor comments, that would be better.
Stella, I know u won't post this, but nothing spoil
Henry did u read the post at all, that's insensitive of u, the wideness is as a result of birthing her child and couldn't bare the stitching and the wicked nurse let her be. Be reasonable pls
DeleteYou are sick. Must you vomit on any topic? A woman had an episiotomy and something went wrong along the line, she is here seeking for solutions and you are talking trash.
DeleteJeezz!!! Is this henry eze normal?
DeleteHenry Eze is a big fool!
DeleteNonsense guy. Not all post are worth being posted and this is not an exception
DeleteHeya. Same almost happened to my wife but the nurse advised her to endure the pain as she stitch her up cos the place is going to be wide. There is nothing you can do except surgery. Sorry ehn
ReplyDelete#no1 egba boy
You're a considerate husband, cos you empathize with us. Niiiice.
DeleteMister man, abeg which one is, "Endure the pain?" Can't they stitch such a sensitive part of the body with anaesthesia??? At least that would prevent the poor woman from resisting the nurse.
DeleteHaaaa......I've always believed the private would go back to normal after child birth...may God help us all...
ReplyDeleteIt's supposed to, if they don't cut you. These are cases were the vaginal opening is too small for the baby to come out.
DeleteAlways have sex when u're heavy and pls limit ur sugar intake. Sugar increases baby size.
Lol,if u like have sex for d 10month of pregnancy, episiotomy wud most likely b done on first time mums, nd big babies.its better to b cut Dan allow d baby cut u.
DeleteAfter decades of fcukery u are now looking for solution, I will keep praying for the man that will end up marrying...... He shld accepy sympathy in advance.....God don't let such woman come my way
ReplyDeleteHenry let thunder wey no get relation scatter your monkey head....ewu iberibe....i think u read with ur anus.....but why are u so usless ?i guess your villa oracle now occupies in ur idiotic brain....ozu nwuru anwu...gerrrarahia....ezi...
DeleteI support the thunder, thunder that would leave stretch marks on your face and wide mouth.
DeleteLol @ aunty otuocha
DeleteSee his ugly face, na I'm mke Ur front hair chop off finish... young boy wt bald head..
DeleteHenry omo ale jati jati.
DeletePickin wey ashawo born na so dem dey be...forgive him na victim of circumstance
DeleteOver to the doctors. Sorry about this nne.
ReplyDeletemadam no natural remedy except surgery to fix it.
ReplyDeleteIt is well,this is serious.
ReplyDeleteWomen with self esteem problems everywhere. Lol!
ReplyDeleteElvis you're daft.
DeleteOver to the Dr,
ReplyDeleteBrb to read comments.
Eyaaaa!!! I wish I know. But stop feeling ashamed if the man is not complaining
ReplyDeletego back to where u gave birth, let them sew ur totoh back.
ReplyDeleteLMAO
DeleteI was gone ask too... Won't dey be able to stitch it back?
DeleteNo, it can't be stitched back after the injury has healed.
DeleteThis is sad! Can imagine how u feel...
ReplyDeleteI pray u find the help u need.
Kai,mayb u shld save mony to do d surgery,it's well
ReplyDeleteNeed to learn, where are all the doctors?
ReplyDeleteSo you are not married,the baby is for who?and who is having sex with you. Very complicated,I don't want to judge you but just curious
ReplyDeleteI will advise you to do surgery,that is the only remedy
Judgmental slime.like you need the info for anything. Ashawo oshi please get married to Mr.Xes is food so he can buttress and plough your anus
DeleteWhether she is married or not is not your biz tayan.offer a suggestion to help her or get lost.I can't deal abeg.stupid
DeleteNa your type dey fail exam. Is that the main issue? Or you forget that this is not a CBVN post. Abeg shift your sanctimonious self to one side.
Delete*mouths agape* d things women go thru shaaAaaaaa. Dear poster I pray u find respite here.
ReplyDeleteI think surgery will be better.
ReplyDeleteO dear! I hope you find a remedy soon.
ReplyDeleteYour comment will be visible after approval.
It is well
ReplyDeleteHmm. That nurse needs serious flogging, which kind quack hospital be that.
ReplyDeleteMy dear this your case na serious gbege. The only thing I know is kegels but since you said it hasn't worked for you. . . Over to the docs in the house.
This is why I opted for cs cos I can't bear the thot of losing my tight as a glove vjay.
ReplyDeletestoorrrrrry
DeleteKayanmata...
DeleteStory story
DeleteMadam, relax, manage it till u get pregnant again, before delivery leave instructions that the nurse or midwife should stitch u up after delivery. It worked for some1 i know. I had my daughter thru CS, if i had a choice i would av had vaginal delivery and get stitched up if i had tears.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm, this one get as e bi.Women give birth everyday through the normal way but I hardly hear them say such things.Even a woman that has 5 children and all of them were born the normal way, will never complain of such thing.abeg don't give people the impression that giving birth the normal way makes that part of ur body wide because that is the best way except there are complications and the only way to save mother and child is for the woman to go through CS.
ReplyDeleteShe had an episiotomy wch was not properly sutured if it was even sutured at all hence d muscles and other structures were not brought bk together,rather it was left to heal and this explains the wideness,poster it's better u save up some money n hv a vaginoplasty. an episiotomy wen sutured well can even leave u tighter than b4
DeleteLilian fc Barcelona..it will interest you to know that we are not all the same.a woman can give birth to one child naturally and becomes wide ,very wide but another woman can give birth to 5 kids and be tighter than the one who has 1 kid.don't judge others based on your experience.Moreover it is IMPOSSIBLE for the vagina to return to its original size after child birth.e must open small pass as e dey before
DeletePoster,the only option is surgery...
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't you use CS?...
If you are pregnant without a husband,opt for CS and don't breast feed!..
Meanwhile,that kegel exercise no dey work!...
Don't breastfeed?
DeleteLinda abikwa ozo...y not advice her not to take in at all?
Don't breastfeed????????
DeleteIlliterate rat.......only in your village kergel doesn't work...cos hers did not work u come here to vomit trash
DeleteMadam Poster: I will advice you go the local way, I know of a black soap if you wash your vjayjay continuously with it,it will close up. I claimed having sex just 3 times when I met my hubby cos some things are better left unsaid, I was so tight after using the soap he didn't doubt it I was as good as a virgin except that there was no blood, go to any iya alagbo and explain to her.
ReplyDeleteEleyi ga o
DeleteHer case is different......she had a tear and healing will take place along that tear....can't close up cept through surgery...
DeleteSurgery! And nothing else!
ReplyDeleteThe doctor needs to sew u up cuz d midwife obviously didn't.
They sew up d inside then d outside. Seems she sew just d outside part.
If u get sewn well, u'll feel like a virgin again. Though its painful but u gotta endure.
And after my 2nd child I felt quite loose because she was so big I had to re visit her and it's better again.
ReplyDeletei remembered when the dad to my ex came immediately i gave birth to my son and was shouting, nurse nurse! make una sew that place ooo abeg make una sew am oh.... laff wan finish me that day,..... anyway the nurse didn't sew anything she said am fine no problem! and truly have been fine!
ReplyDeleteso madam poster, i dont think it's given birth that made your vaginal wide!
Your supposed to be FIL came to the hospital to shout that your vjayjay be sewn and you are laughing?
DeleteWtf is funny in that? How is it his business?
Or were you doing father and son?
Odiegwu!!! The things I read on blogs!
No the fil didn't want his son to complain afterwards (he was talking oUT of experience ).
DeleteGbogbo bigs girls are you ok?
Deletewhat kind of smelling talk is that if i do father and son?
maybe that's what is obtainable in your family not mine.....
he was saying is cos of his son!
thank you @lovely heart!
DeleteSo where is the son he was protecting his interest now?
DeleteYou need to sit down and have a brain reset. Oshisco.
i remembered when the dad to my ex came immediately i gave birth to my son and was shouting, nurse nurse! make una sew that place ooo abeg make una sew am oh.... laff wan finish me that day,..... anyway the nurse didn't sew anything she said am fine no problem! and truly have been fine!
ReplyDeleteso madam poster, i dont think it's given birth that made your vaginal wide!
You are so stupid! In fact I think you are just here to misbehave
DeleteNa wa oh. My dear, since you've tried kegel and it didn't work then you better start saving for the surgery oh, any home remedy you use would only shrink the surface of your private part and make it look like its tight but once any d..k enters inside it would get wide immediately.
ReplyDeleteSome nurses are from hell, I once witnessed how they treat women in labour which is very bad.
ReplyDeleteOmg. . Poster, a nurse who stitched you was beating and abusing you while sewing you up? That is quite inhumane.And you kept mute after everything? How old are you by the way? .
ReplyDeleteFrom your mail, you are a single mother, I honestly don't have an idea but I heard kegels helps a lot or could it be your mind playing tricks ? I don't think it's that bad but you can still continue doing your kegels even after bvs give you other ideas.
Hmmm, u shuld av allowed dem to sew u up na, well d deed is done already, i heard dere re some herbal products that tightens the veejay. Pay a visit to agbo(roots and herbs) sellers.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how possible this ur story is cause I knw the vagina heals it's self with or without stitching and I speak from both personal experience and experiences of others. I have four kids of my own. When I had my 2nd child it was in the village in a maternity cos I want visiting and went into premature labour. I had very terribly tear and the nurse didn't stitch me up. I always used to feel something dangling from my vagina. Wen I got back to my base 2 days later I went straight to my doc and upon inspection told me I wasn't stitched but not to worry it woul heal but just leave a little scar and it did. Infact I have a little lumpy scar there that drives my hubby nuts with pleasure wen we make love. N I've had 2 more kids since then. 2ndly a friend of mine had a tear that reached right up to her anus! Yep! Her anus. Was really nasty but she healed nicely and has no complaints about a wide vagina so I wonder hw possible ur story is. If is shaa. Jesus heal you.
ReplyDeletethank you oooooo well said!!!
Deleteas big as my son is,with the big tear... my viginal is still normal abeg
Maybe your friend just decided not to tell you that her vagina is loose.who no dey shame?
DeleteIt's stupid for u to think her story is fake cos u had a diff experience.....in your retarded minds all vijay are the same?
DeleteI can imagine d pains of being sewn up immediately without painkiller, i dont blame u, i blame d Nigerian medical system dat put women thru so much pains during childbirth. May u find help here.
ReplyDeleteToo bad,i think d only option is surgery
ReplyDeleteAre nurses taught a course called 'wickedness' in school??? They don't show pity @ all...mtscheew!
My mom ain't wicked
DeleteShut up.,,,,like u follow your mum to all her rounds....go n sit down joo
DeleteI really do not have an idea on this issue poster. May you find help.
ReplyDeleteStella permit me to digress a little, 4 those that ve used CYNTOTEC tablet. How was it administered cos am 5wks gone n wat are d possible side effects if any.
Drink 2 then insert 2 as deeply as possible.be ready for real pain.do this twice until you start bleeding but seriously why don't you go for an abortion?its safer.think about your future
DeleteU wan do abortion???
DeleteAfter abortion please don't disturb us with your chronicles and begging God for forgiveness when trying to convince. ... We do anyway expect Your future chronicles
DeletePls don't go for any local way,bfor u complicate tinx further...jux manage n hustle for d surgery!!!
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ReplyDeleteDon't mind the idiot. I'm sure she is permanently on pampers and also has AIDS since she is so stupid to think U cant get HIV through anal sex.
DeleteI'm not surprised, demons visit blogs too.
DeletePoster did u gve birth in general hospital? Cos d nurses nd midwives r principalities nd powers.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.... choi!!!
DeleteModupe Ozolua is all you need
ReplyDeleteNot with the mexican guy with a 19-Inches penis. I can link you up with him before he goes for surgery. Maybe your P***Y will change his mind.
ReplyDeleteLOL.... please is he a pastor?
Deletelink a sister abeg ejor biko
Not with the mexican guy with a 19-Inches penis. I can link you up with him before he goes for surgery. Maybe your P***Y will change his mind.
ReplyDeleteGo to a good pharmacy and explain your problem there, they have some good virgina tightening products like "Ladies Secret"
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you my dear.
U don't have money and instead of thinking of how to take care of ur child u r thinking of how to continue ur fuckery and using style 2 beg people 2 contribute 4 ur surgery. Go n meet ur pastor to pray 4 u.
ReplyDeleteMy dear mine was sewn twice. D first broke down. But d second Ws perfect lik am a virgin. Jst save for d surgery.
ReplyDeleteYour story scares me even though I have a son nd had Vaginal delivery. Pls pls nd pls go for surgery cos you shouldn't be so wide even if ur baby was 4.5kg. Go and see a gynaecologist. May God see you through.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, my baby is 4mnth old and I had tear too, but after leaving the hospital my the sticted got loose o and I went yo hospital and doc told me it will heal, Yes dear it heals and the place is all cover up now... Urs might be something else dat why d place is like dat, pele dear, the Lord will heal you...
ReplyDeleteI didn't include ds in d mail cos I know many might judge me. I had d baby when I was younger.Truth is I actually put go birth in a govt hospital. Now ds fair nurse even brought out something dts supposed to be inside out.2weeks after I went for check up in d hospital, I showed my v to d doc n he said dt I wasn't sewed up well as a tissue dts supposed to be in is out.Said I'll hv to come back to be operated on or wait till when I gv birth again for it to be tucked back in.
ReplyDeleteLong story short I dnt hv money to pay for such.I want to know if there's a kind of local stuff dt I can use for it.
I'll really appreciate if anyone who knows of such could mail it to Stella or put it down here for me.
Grateful much
This one ur complaining of money. But let me just tell u of Dr Sandra. She is into vagina tightening business as well. When my sis gave birth she use her. And she told me she is very tight now. I believe she will have solution for ur problem. Its 100% herbal.
DeleteIgnore all insults dear.I feel you.I have been there.kegel works,just be sure you are doing it right.also make sure you don't have an infection.cos if you do,you will be very wet and that will.make you feel very loose.go for a teat,rule out infection or get treated if there is any then continue your kegel.if you are in Lagos visit Dr sandra at 55 Allen avenue opp first bank and buy shrink a powder and tightening rod.or simply Google Dr sandra ekwunife and get her contact.I know she has branches in Onitsha,pH,Lagos,Benin etc.Better still you can find a way to contact module ozolua or the owner of oasis spa and bate your heart to them,am sure they will help you out.they have drs who perform these surgeries.all the best
DeleteJeeeeeez!!!!
DeleteUse Alum.
DeleteDon't go to Dr. Sandra, she's an expensive quack, read up on her on nairaland. Just save up for the operation at a reputable hospital with a good doctor (a real one, not herbalist Sandra) good luck.
DeleteI am a doctor and I know that episiotomy is the work of doctors (though a few trained midwives are sometimes allowed in private settings but not in standard practice). Congrats too for not aborting that baby; he/she will indeed bring joy to you in this life. Well, what you described looks like what medically; only corrective surgery can help you achieve (or faith if you have faith in Christ).
ReplyDeleteWell you did not tell the circumstances of your birth but it seems you've not learnt from whatever mistakes you made; seeing that you are "collecting dicks anyhow" ( please permit my language) without being married (no judgment intended). Talking from a man's perspective, no man with marry you because you can provide sex with tight vagina. Otherwise, a lot of girls can do that. Consider your character and make effort to build a sound character through the salvation that only Christ gives and work it out by reading your scriptures and fasting.
Kindly provide your details for those that would like to help you access medical care via surgery.
Anon 14:08,well said.
DeleteThanks I know u mean well
DeleteSave up and go for surgery... better option! Best option... sue the stupid nurse let her pay for the surgery. Why was she beating and stitching you up at the same time without any pain killer? You are not an animal for crying out loud!!!
ReplyDeleteEveryone n her wahala!!! My boo is so scared to hv sex with me since I told him I was sutured to an extent of being a virgin...4months is gone of post partum.
ReplyDeleteDear poster try lavet it's works perfectly well
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