OVERDUE.
Good day Stella n bvs,
I've a long story to send but I will keep it until after my baby is born.
Right now , am 40weeks and 3days gone. Have gone to the clinic the midwife said its normal since I was given extra 5days.
But the truth is I can't sleep , am so worried. Don't know want to do ,and am living alone . am a single mother.
Pls if any of you had dis experience ? And what did you do ?
God bless you all.
Doctors please
ReplyDeleteIts not advisable 4 u to be alone. Even if ur partner isnt around u shld look 4 a family member or friend to stay with u and keep u company. Now ur blood pressure with be on d high side cos u will be worrried and no 1 to calm u down.
DeleteStella bera drop her number so peeps cam call her biko.
It's well. I don't know anything about this but it has happened to a friends elder sister, hers was 42weeks and she gave birth to the baby.
DeleteI'll suggest you go to other hospitals.
The good Lord will see you through
Hahaha so fast.
DeleteTuscany u r caring, I love that kisses
DeleteAbby..
My sister just gave birth,hers was 41weeks,calm down and get a friend or relative,wish you successful delivery.
DeleteGo and have a CS biko...
ReplyDeletePoster I know what you're thinking. Please don't induce labour except it is necessary or you have reached 42wks and no show yet. This is very normal, be patient you already waited for 9months dear a few days will do you no harm.
DeleteRelax!
ReplyDeleteYou are gonna pop any minute. Even now!
Safe delivery.
It's gonna happen soonest
fuck fuck and fuck..... make sure rhe sperm enter your womb well, it helps dilate the cervix
ReplyDeletegood luck to you
Hian. She just said she is a single mom to be. Who will sex her.
DeleteNwa amaka who was sexing her before she became pregnant..abi did she conceive by the holy spirit?
DeleteLatest bride you are just an idiot. Hian!
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DeleteLmao @ Nwa amaka. Are u minding aunty Latest bride. Na that kain advice she go give after evacuating 5 belee! Na to fuck she know
Delete@Nwa amaka the same holy spirit that gave her belle would sex her
Deleteyou people and insult sha... i just gave a very sincere answer see as you. people are insulting me..... na wa!
DeleteOver to the doctors
ReplyDeleteAll will be well
ReplyDeleteDid I just see "midwife" up there?
ReplyDeleteDidn't u register for an ANC?
Where is ur obstetrician?
Go and seek d opinion of an obstetrician.
Having said that...
Well in most centres like mine,u could be told to come back back in 40wks + 10days or in 41wks + 2-6days *depending*
But wait o...weren't u given d option of a membrane sweep or d likes of it?
Madam abeg go to a hospital and see an obstetrician o jare.
If ur scared of staying @home then go and be booked till d date being given
Membrane sweep..the most painful thing ever. But it sure works.
DeleteIn England we see the midwife throughout the course of the pregnancy and even delivery. The only time you see a consultant obgyn is when you're high risk or have complications etc. It is worth asking where she is first before advising.
DeleteYou shouldn't be worried.
ReplyDeleteIt happens with some women.
If it becomes long overdue, delivery will be induced.
No go give yourself hbp abeg.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Joblesshousewife I salute you.
ReplyDeleteEDD is plus or minus 40 weeks. Some women deliver between 37-40 while some 41. Please go to a proper hospital cos u are at a very high risk now.
ReplyDeleteIt's normal,d worries n everything.during my own time nightmares join but after ur edd n a week abeg go for cs to save ur life n d baby. Just relax n exercise u myt deliver b4 then
ReplyDeletePlease don't panick just keep praying.
ReplyDeleteGuess wat? you are carrying a special seed and this type of babies don't use the regular 9 months.
Go to your father in-the-Lord so he prays with you.
Congrats alredy.
Nothing is wrong with you. My baby lived in that world for 41weeks and 13days and came out healthy and bouncy . Safe your energy for the push and stop worrying yourself. All the best
ReplyDeleteOREO GRANDE
God is in control. Don't loose faith
ReplyDeleteIts normal besides this is your first baby, just chill and exercise... wishing you safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you. Say "It is well with me and my child".
ReplyDeleteJesus is Lord.
Neva been pregnant so I aint gat no idea. May the Lord see u true. #YGNL
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is ur helper
ReplyDeleteOver to the doctors
ReplyDeleteOver to the doctors
ReplyDeleteIts normal for a first timer,may God see you through,but please you need to have someone with you
DeleteJust relax, some peeps experience 5 to 10 days delay.... guess your anxiety has taken a hold on you. To quicken the Labour you can start taking a long stroll everyday, or go to the mall and admire the beautiful things there or the beach. Don't just sit in one place be a Johnny walker lolz
ReplyDeleteCongratulations in advance
U re fine. My friend carried her baby extra 4 weeks before the doctor asked her to do CS.
ReplyDeleteTo God be the glory
ReplyDelete@Galore
If the extra 5 days given by your midwife passes and you haven't delivered your baby, you will be induced. Everything will be fine maam
ReplyDeleteMay God see you through
ReplyDeleteJesus fix it
ReplyDeleteUd be fine..... EDD is normally 2wks b4 or afta. Eat well, rest well, take warm bath and take a walk in d evening just arnd ur hse ooo, no waka too far mke u no go born for road..lol.
ReplyDeleteIt is well. Just calm down the baby will come out in due time
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you, you'll deliver like the Hebrew Women in Jesus Name. Amen
ReplyDeletestop drinking cold water.
ReplyDeleteyup
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Nawa ooooh fix it jah....
ReplyDeleteMadam what is youir EDD? Has 2 weekds passed since your EDD? Are you using a private hospital , teaching or general hospital? If a teaching or general hospital ask to see your consultant. About livibg alone, please get someone to be with you or go stay with a friend. What if labour starts how will you cope alone? It shall be well. Safe delivery
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine. Stay.conned to your doctors. And most importantly Pray and not worry.
ReplyDeleteI PRY FOR SAFE DELIVERY FOR YA, NO MATA WAT OR HW DELAYD IT IS, GOD GONA MEK U SMILE SOON, AMEN...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteAmen to that.
DeleteMy dear poster why dont u visit a general hospital.
ReplyDeleteIts well
ReplyDeleteLol@you can't sleep.
ReplyDeletePlease you don't even need your BP to be high at this time.
Mine was 41weeks I think,or heading there.
My doctors booked me for induction,i went to the clinic that fateful day and didn't even know I had dilated to 4cm already without knowing....
So I was not induced after all.
Your doctors know what to do.
Drink lots of water while you wait,your baby will come out with the froshest skin ever!
My first was at 39weeks,5days.
U are playing with ur life and dat midwife is not professional, so u hv not heard of induction of labour b4? Pls go to hospital so dat dey can induce d labor for u although 40wks nd 3 days is still within d range shaa since u are a primi (pregnant for d ist tym) but if u are dat worried pls go for induction
ReplyDeleteRelax and pray... worry won't do anything good to u, you and your ll be fine in Jesus name
ReplyDeleteDid u not get good pre natal advise. If the baby comes 2 weeks before or two weeks after, it's fine. Except there are other external factors like high blood pressure, drastic decrease in fetal movement, excess protein in the urine, etc. Then they can decide to induce to perform a CS as the case may b. But otherwise try and relax and enjoy all the Sleep that u can get now.
ReplyDeleteMine came 3 weeks before amd he's in perfect health. He's lying on ma chest as um typing this. .
DeleteIt is well with you my dear,my heart really broke when you said ur alone and a single mother. It cant be easy going through pregnancy alone without the comfort of a partner. I know women ard dis time find it difficult and uncomfortable to sleep at that stage of pregnancy. Someone comforting you or rubbing ur feet would have helped because u cant take drugs at this stage of pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteMaybe a change of environment might help you. Can you go and spend a few days smwe'r else maybe it will help you relax. Then take a cold bath at night and drink hot milo.
You can also go to this women that sell agbo, they can give u some herbs you can put in ur bath water to soothe you. That's all you can do o, bcos no drugs/or drinking of herbs at dis point.
My kids never stay a day past 38wks, i go don dey tired n frustrated. But i cnt tel u wt i use bcos what wrks 4 peter may affect paul negatively. Its dem old mummies that told me then.
ReplyDeleteJst chill, u r alrdy over 40 wks so dnt stress d baby. Congrats in advance
Who is responsible for the pregnancy?
ReplyDeleteAnd where is your mum?
Don't u ve a family, no man is an Ireland, where is d father of ur child, just asking.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to panic. It wouldn't help. Am no doctor but I do know in everything the first rule is don't panic. You will have your precious joy in ease. Remember we are all unique, that's just You being YOU. Now breath easily, hope and pray
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,40 weeks.am praying for mine to come at 38 weeks cos am already tired.The discomfort is something else,women are trying o..
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ReplyDeleteI gave birth to my first daughter at exactly 40 weeks and 2 days. I was even given a week more sef. Keep calm and stay healthy since the medical officers said there was nothing to worry about
ReplyDeleteAverage gestation period is 38-42 weeks. You have nothing to worry about as only about 4% of babies arrive on EDD. Chill. Take a long walk. Your bundle of joy is a big man/woman. Them no dey rush things... lol
ReplyDeleteyes is normal and plssss don't panic u must surely put to bed sound n ok, just kip on praying .it normally hapined to som pple
ReplyDeleteUr Dr should be able to induce labor, some people never go into labor naturally. All the best.
ReplyDeleteStella abeg give JHW an award.
ReplyDeletePoster, try to walk around (that does help). It is after the 5 days that induction of labor can start if your water doesn't break or normal contraction doesn't start. The anxiety sef fit kill someone. If BVs get other suggestions make una help this woman.
Am not a doctor but a proud mother of four. Wat u r going is normal as long as the doctor hv said u r doing well. A friend of mine was given 9th of August as her EDD but she delivered last week Saturday which was on 12th of September. All I can advice u is prayerfully follow it up. Delay is not denial,u will soon carry ur bundle of joy I wish you safe delivery
ReplyDeleteI had my first at 41 weeks. I hear most first babies tend to overstay. No need to worry. Try walking,it helps. You dey ginger to see ur baby,when the labour start now,you go know say calabar town big. Safe delivery
ReplyDeleteI pray u deliver like the Hebrew women. There will be no complications. Belle I never get so I can only pray for u.
ReplyDeleteI pray u deliver like the Hebrew women. There will be no complications. Belle I never get so I can only pray for u.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you ma.
ReplyDeleteMy baby came a day before my dd so I'm in no position to advice.
ReplyDeleteI'd suggest you just pray and monitor the baby's heartbeat if you have an infant doppler. If not keep monitoring the movements, if you notice any decrease, get yourself to the hospital pronto. You can take walks around your house. It's not a good idea to be alone though.
You probably weren't given a membrane sweep cos the cervix isn't 'ripe' yet. Hopefully your labour would start naturally cos the membrane sweep is hella painful...I totally screamed when my ob/gyn gave me one. Safe delivery btw.
Pls don't panic.... Wish u a safe delivery
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you dear I wish you safe delivery #congats to u already #
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 17:59 may God forgive u Mr/Mrs perfect
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