Chronicle Of HOPE 31

Let this story of how Messy it was become a message to you that GOD CAN DO ALL THINGS!

DEAD MARRIAGE RESTORED TO LIFE

Mrs korkus, permit me not to mention my name but am an ardent reader of your blog, most especially. 'Chronicle of. Blog visitors. I am a young woman in her early 30s and had the advantage of getting married before 25. I met my husband in a very amusing environment, I was to attend a wedding in Ile-Ife and I needed to get back to Lagos same day so I opted to enter "soole bus at toll-gate" as it popularly called. 

I was standing with a young man who disturb a hell out of my life all in the name of wanting my number.

MY now husband was driving to Ibadan and he stopped and picked 3 of us, just bcause he didn't want to be alone.. On getting to Ibadan, he asked for my number and 1 thing led to another and we were in a relationship. 

Not to bore you with my long story, 2years into my marriage, I lost my job as a banker and the reality of life dawned on me. I felt like committing suicide as my husband did not help matters at all. My pay-off was borrowed by him which he never paid back. I looked up and down and I was left in the middle of the ocean. 

The only support I got was my mum. If I needed to go for interview, I would have to beg for money as my husband became very stingy. I work in a market branch (mile 12) which gave me access to buy things cheaper than what I would buy at home, and for 2years of my marriage I took care of feeding the family as I didn't ask my husband for soup or food money.

God blessed me with 3children in a space of 4years and my kids were never a problem. I am an example of an hebrew woman when it comes to child birth. My husband became something else, different women, condoms, sex on phone and all sorts.

In 2014, we had a big fight concerning money that lasted over 1 year, I was tired,I was opting out, No sex, No communication, I wanted a divorce. My in laws were not helping matters as all they wanted was for me to be a full house wife and continue to beg their son for every penny.

My mum cried, prayed and gave series of advise and reasons why I should not leave. I also prayed but at the back of my mind,I wanted more in my marriage, I wanted my husband, d same man I married and I was determined to get that love and happiness even if it meant me divorcing and marrying another person. I kept on praying,sometimes my faith would go up and sometimes it would go down. 

I applied for a Visa to Australia, in which I was ready to run away, all hope on my marriage was lost. 

As God will have it,june 2015, God spoke to my husband, restored my marriage, remoulded him to whom I want him to be, these past 3months look like a dream and I don't want to wake up. 

All glory to God.

 I celebrated my 7years wedding anniversary in August amidst glitz and glamour. 

God alone can take all the glory 

Wow,thank God for you and yours!