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Sunday, September 13, 2015

Chronicle Of HOPE - 30

No matter what happens or what bullsh*t life throws your way,remember that God is love and his love will never let you down!.






GOD BROUGHT LOVE MY WAY FOR THE SECOND TIME
Hi Steluv,

Kudos to your good job, God bless and reward you.
Am an ardent follower of your blog(Lol) but always in an anonymous mood.
I just want to share part of my life story as to encourage other ladies out there.
I grew up in a good Christian home , then there is this church my parents were attending in PHC that has the same doctrine with Deeper life, you don't there go near the opposite sex.
I grew up with this and it actually helped I and my siblings.

Fast forward to after university graduation, I met Mr B and fell for him hoping the relationship will lead to marriage, I tried all I could even spending the little I had to make things work but things got worse. I wouldn't want to start giving details but I suffered because he is a chronic womanizer, lousy, stingy a liar.  He finally left me for one of his numerous girlfriends, I felt betrayed and disappointed because I had given enough, I cried all through , I thought I was going to die because it was my first time loving a man but I had to let go.

I started life all over again and this fool came back begging, it had always been like that, (on and off) he said so many things but this time, I refused to listen. His family members even called me secretly not to accept him back because he doesn't deserve me, I stood on my ground and lucky me, I got my call up letter and travelled to far away to Ekiti State for my NYSC. 

Activities at the orientation camp made me forget him so easily and I got committed to NCCF and its activities.
After passing out in February, I came back and heard he was married and had already sent the wife packing, he learnt I was back and started calling again, saying that he didn't marry the girl with a clear eye.

As God will have it, first week of march, I met this young , handsome man. One of Mr.B  relation told him about me, he called and we got talking. Everything went fast and by August we did our traditional marriage, October we did our white wedding.

It has been three years and still counting but it is as if we just started dating. We have a boy and a girl to add to our beautiful home. My husband is the best thing that has happened to my life, my home is Heaven on earth and am so grateful to God for this.


Dont despair when love fails the first time because God will send you a true lover that will wipe away yours tears,just remember to let go and let God!


Happy ending..happy for you!



113 comments:

  1. I'm happy for you. May your home remain heaven on earth.

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  2. Beautiful......... Am so happy for u sweetheart, but 3yrs is too small to determine if it would work out fine.....trust me, e go soon happen, not like am wishing u guys bad, but that's the world we live in
    Enjoy ur home dear

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    1. Wish others what you would wish yourself. Haba! The bible didn't say "love your neighbours as you love yourselves" for nothing.




      Jesus is Lord.

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    2. This one is still young what dose he know about life,than to take codeine with lacasera.

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    3. @German juice thank u jare,small pikin sense dey worry am. Pls Stella I take God beg u,pls money maker is enuf torment to our senses,abeg no add dis pikin join. Abeg,biko,dis boy na part of d reason oda ppl dey ignore in house,he wan come here spoil our organised setting. Pls don't enable dis children dt are migrating to dis sweet spot. Make dem no spoil here abeg.

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    4. Lmao @ codeine and lacasera. Henry shut up oh

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    5. Chikito a.k.a FinalSay14 September 2015 at 11:45

      This useless Henry boy has carried his madness here? Come, this is SDK blog and we treat fuck ups. Go and ask those who have gone before. Hahaha

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  3. nice. I bless God for your life. and I'm glad u know that it's God that did it. you found love the second time. some of us haven't found it in d eleventh time sef. They come and go. hmmn.

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  4. But now this is a really honest question.
    Why do girls stay with a stingy guy?

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    1. Maybe the girls do that to prove that they are not materialistic but it always backfires.

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  5. Nice one. Thank God for ur life. Some men are just there to break som1 while odas are dia to restore.

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  6. Thank God for ur life! This wan follow for hope story ko? Hmmmm abeg make all the bv's send in their own marital story! Just 3yrs and u dy make mouth can only tap into d blessing if the marriage is 10yrs and above!

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    1. Look at this idiot that can't even keep a stable relationship for 6 months, after sex they stop calling u.

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    2. Lol..thnk HIM 4 d lil one HE has done and HE will do much more.

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  7. Happy for you... Stella Biko post the single and mingle coz my heart is ready to receive!

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  8. Hahaha. Nice one

    You were brought up not to near the opposite sex, but u ended up opening your pussy for the opposite sex. Well, you got served with one the possible things that could go wrong.

    And you met someone and are married now without problems. That's good.

    But when u guys make marriage like a big deal, then you create a differential for the single people and make it look as if they r yet to achieve an important milestone.

    Well, enjoy your marriage and hope you will have the courage and joy to bear your cross when it becomes heavy.

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    1. I hate to agree with you on this; but you made sense.

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    2. Lol..did you notice that you are now invisible? ?

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    3. @Sassy chick lol,I Thut I was d only one dt noticed. Kai d guy don reign and pass....

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  9. And they lived happily... ever after.. beautiful story..

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  10. my dear Love has failed me countless number of times that i contemplated suicide & up until now i wonder what the problem is, heaven knows i'm a good person but i hvn't bn lucky wt love, i hv cried , fasted & prayed but it's as if God is far away from me...in my early thirties & so damn lonely... may this God that did it for you, do for me as well...& others... thank God for u & i pray ur your joy never cease, Amen!

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    1. Mayb coz u are looking for love that's why it's runing away from u.
      Mayb u should relax a little and seek peace of mind happiness and fun.then love would find u.
      Stop searching let God search for u.your anxiety and search for love would scare men away coz h wouid become too nice and dedicated for their comfort.

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    2. Ladies pls chill. Why are you looking for love why? The bible say HE who finds. It did not say SHE who finds. Please focus on your career. Discover your self worth and love will surly find you when you least expect it. My husband found me in the fields with my coverall safety booths and hard hat. I was not looking neither was I searching when he found me. I was busy improving and loving myself. And we have been married for 10yrs not. And I got married in my early thirties. So please ladies love yourselves and add value to your life, then leave the rest to God. Please don't be desperate to answer MRS oh.

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  11. Happy for you. Yet I wonder some others do not appreciate the good men in their lives.

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  12. my dear Love has failed me countless number of times that i contemplated suicide & up until now i wonder what the problem is, heaven knows i'm a good person but i hvn't bn lucky wt love, i hv cried , fasted & prayed but it's as if God is far away from me...in my early thirties & so damn lonely... may this God that did it for you, do for me as well...& others... thank God for u & i pray ur your joy never cease, Amen!

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  13. my dear Love has failed me countless number of times that i contemplated suicide & up until now i wonder what the problem is, heaven knows i'm a good person but i hvn't bn lucky wt love, i hv cried , fasted & prayed but it's as if God is far away from me...in my early thirties & so damn lonely... may this God that did it for you, do for me as well...& others... thank God for u & i pray ur your joy never cease, Amen!

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  14. my dear Love has failed me countless number of times that i contemplated suicide & up until now i wonder what the problem is, heaven knows i'm a good person but i hvn't bn lucky wt love, i hv cried , fasted & prayed but it's as if God is far away from me...in my early thirties & so damn lonely... may this God that did it for you, do for me as well...& others... thank God for u & i pray ur your joy never cease, Amen!

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    1. Go read ur ist post for advice a word is enough for the wise u have posted almost 4 times now.thats the problm u over do things try and take a chill pill

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    2. Lmao @german

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    3. Lmao. This German juice is madt!

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    4. Gems juice this your reply is so funny, and probably true

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  15. So sweet, so happy for you........the Lord will for mine for me too

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  16. my dear Love has failed me countless number of times that i contemplated suicide & up until now i wonder what the problem is, heaven knows i'm a good person but i hvn't bn lucky wt love, i hv cried , fasted & prayed but it's as if God is far away from me...in my early thirties & so damn lonely... may this God that did it for you, do for me as well...& others... thank God for u & i pray ur your joy never cease, Amen!

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  17. Wow!
    Thank God for you.
    I tap from your blessing.
    Just wish God will bless me through my NACC activities too.

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  18. Wow...nice...i wish you and your family the very best in life...Continue to live the good life...

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  19. Nice story


    click on my moniker for a fascinating fascinator.

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  20. A very nice story.
    Its always wonderful when a girl from a good home and marries a man from a good home.

    The trouble with most marriages is lack of proper upbringing from their parents.

    If the man and the woman will do what is expected of them in marriage. There will be no problem.

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    1. I actually agree with you.

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    2. U always say d bitter truth I lik ur comments tho

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    3. Pleasssss, that's not true

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  21. God my wish is to connect with my missing rib. A man who will love me swithout holding back. A man who will make me forget all the horrible experiences I passed through. A man who will deserve me and vice versa. I so wish to get married next year...this unrepentant, never changing liar and a cheat doesn't worth it Afterall. So God help me and gimme a beautiful love story soonest(Amen).

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  22. Nice one

    I celebrate ur joy with u

    Good to know u knew when to take a stand and walk out from that yeye lover boy...

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  23. Good for you. The first guy has a nice family tho. All the best.

    Aeegurl...

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  24. Awwww... God Bless Ur Home..

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  25. Countdown to Sdkers saying she should wait 5-10 years b4 coming to gives Chronicles of hope. Lmao naijas and negativity

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    1. Lol..I swear..too Many frustrated bad belles on this blog

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  26. Happy 4u n may it b permanent ijn!..
    Baba God over to you!

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  27. Stella post comments o.dont allow me slap u

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  28. I thank God for giving you this second chance. Enjoy your happy home.

    beinspiredandlive.blogspot.com

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  29. Poster tnk God 4 u,some pepo were nt dt lucky.Its gud 2 let d will of God be done & always give luv a chance.

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  30. That's so sweet! May u experience more sweetness in ur home. Amen!

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  31. Wow ! Nice. Congrats . Dear Lord, send me the love of my life. Am tired of fake relationships. Any barriers blocking our meeting each other, Scatter!!!!!

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    1. Better story for all of you sending in sad and demented stories.
      at lass,good news is like a breath of fresh air.....

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  32. I'm happy for u poster. .This is for all those girls that send in sob stories or chronicles about not knowing how to move on cos one e-diot broke ur heart. ...There is always a SECOND chance. .
    I never went thru heartbreak so I can't say I know how it feels but let's learn to give ourselves respect and integrity as ladies. .don't let any nyamanyama guy treat u anyhow and u take it like that and feel like he's d only guy in d world. .my sisters there r many fishes in d river ooo. .just be careful not to catch a shark. .hehehehe. .
    Poster, may ur marriage continue to blossom. .God bless u...

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  33. Am in love with a Mr A now


    God is really speaking through him


    Am hearing what I have not heard from anyone before.

    Saying good things to me


    Is a great testimony


    My God have started a new thing in my life
    May his name be highly be glorified


    Praise master JESUS
    Hallelujah

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  34. Am in love with a Mr A now


    God is really speaking through him


    Am hearing what I have not heard from anyone before.

    Saying good things to me


    Is a great testimony


    My God have started a new thing in my life
    May his name be highly be glorified


    Praise master JESUS
    Hallelujah

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  35. Nice, happy for you. Enjoy your marriage dear.

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  36. Am in love with a Mr A now


    God is really speaking through him


    Am hearing what I have not heard from anyone before.

    Saying good things to me

    Speed my marriage please God
    Is a great testimony


    My God have started a new thing in my life
    May his name be highly be glorified


    Praise master JESUS
    Hallelujah

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  37. Wow! God is indeed faithful. Giving him praise for He deserves it.

    Pamscrib.blogspot.com

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  38. Lovely!! May God continue to guid ur home.

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  39. I am happy for you. But did you say you married Mr B's relation.. ?

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  40. Wow!thank God u let go!i pray dis joy shall last till d end of time IJN.congrats

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  41. Awesome! I love d ending of ur message. "... just remember to let go n Let God. May ur testimony b permanent in Jesus name.

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  42. Awesome! I love d ending of ur message. "... just remember to let go n Let God. May ur testimony b permanent in Jesus name.

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  43. Okay your own is just one disappointment let me wait for the real chronicles narrators

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  44. I'm so happy for you dearie. Your Mr B is exactly like my current ex boyfriend, have been praying to God for the strength to move on and not listen to any word he says when he comes back begging this time .

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    1. U r not ready to move on. If u r, u would av.

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  45. Glory to God.
    Its always gud to take decision nd stand by it though it is not easy.Your home will forever be sweet IJN

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  46. Been dating this dude for a Lil over 3 yrs, was with him through thick and thin. All of a sudden he wanted to be alone to think about his life. Well I learnt he got a job cos we both didn't have jobs. After supporting him from the profits I made with the little business I started (I don't have sense I agree). I blame myself sometimes cos I might have seen the signs cos I usually had mixed feelings but I ignored and felt like my love was enough and that me standing by him will make me appreciated. And to him, may he truly find happiness and peace in his life. I won't pray for evil to befall him but he will surely regret it and come back to beg me but by then, it would have been too late.

    I have accepted my fate and have decided to move on, it's not easy though, it hurts like fire. But I know that my God will not forsake me. I will be back to give my testimony about getting a man who truly loves me without me stressing to keep the relationship going.
    sorry for the long write up but believe me, I feel a sense of relieve talking about my pain.

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  47. I know love will find me Someday.

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  48. Awwn...this is so sweet and touching. Congrats to the poster, more strength to ur marriage sweedie.

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  49. Wow! Happy ending indeed.. I wish you both 70th year anniversary together.



    *Best in fingerlicking Chops, BBQ & Fries *

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  50. Sooo happy for you! Heaven on earth unions all the way!

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  51. Happy for u dear. My own testimony is near Ijn

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  52. Yes, my true love will find me soon. I must also add that my man will enjoy me,not like I'm perfect or flaw free but I'm one of a kind. I'm beautiful physically and from within...tho my relationship rite now can be likened to Mr A's ish,but the good thing is my courage to move on keeps increasing every day Moreso, my instincts keeps telling me my soul mate will come my way soonest...I 've got enough things to tell u my anticipated prince charming, come quick.

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    1. I help you say a big Amen to that you reallly sound like a really nice and honest person this is my first time of commenting here something just told me to reply you.chers

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    2. Thanks and God bless.

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  53. Wow!M happy for u dear..May God continue to bless ur home and shame all the bad belles..Amen

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  55. Happy for u. I pray for God to bless me with a nice guy cos I feel heartbroken from my past relationship.

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  56. I love the happy ending part. May God continue to bless your union

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  57. SDK READERS ARE SAD SAD SAD. WHY CANT U JUST BE HAPPY FOR SOMEONE AND KEEP IT MOVING. FACT IS SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGES THAT WILL FOREVER REMAIN BEAUTIFUL SO DEAL WITH IT. MARRIAGES BEEAK UNDER 1 MONTH SO YES 3 YEARS MAY NOT BE 10 BUT IT IS A BRILLIANT MILESTONE TOO. STOP GOING AROUND THINKING MARRIAGES CAN ONLY EVER BE SAD JUST BECAUSE YOUR'S IS. GOD BLESS YOU POSTER. MAY YOUR HOME ALWAYS BE PEACEFUL.

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