Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

*Side eyes*

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
USED AND DUMPED

Hello Stella,my story goes like this, met this girl while at the University, then I was a fine boy living life on the fast lane,and all i wanted to do was to hit, we got chatting and then I found out she had a lovely personality.. 

Years went by and we had issues becos of one boy or the other,i was always forgiving, because I thought she was young and they were taking advantage of her..she was cool even stopped me from the fast life..we were like twins... fast forward five years she was done with NYSC and I advised her to go for her masters. Even got a friend to help with the process,boom our visa came(states). 

Between that time i got a very good job, made sure I took her to every where she wished she had gone before she traveled, even missed a foreign course cos I had to be with her...any ways wanted to get her a ring but felt people would think I wanted to tie her down. my friends were like get her pregnant but I was not going to have any of that she is not running away.. went to balogun market to shop for her,no big deal we were lovers...

Well she went and the war started.. according to her i was calling too much, when I called in the morning, busy,afternoon, busy,evening busy,same everyday...when I almost lost my job called and told her we need to talk for an hour, she said she can't give me that time,that she would get back to me,well she did only to tell me she wanted to go watch movies with her friends.lol.

She never chatted me up, always saying that's not her thing, but when she was here and always needed something she would text,chat with Me,i feel very stupid, because I tried to love for the first time and failed.

How do i get over this?what do i do?Have i lost her?Did she use me?

Hmmm.....All i have to say is that she was a wasted investment.pick up your shoes,put them on,dust your shoulders and walk away.Love always happens the second time..This is how a woman feels when guys like you mess up with her heart #GoFigure

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

ADVICE NEEDED ASAP

Hello Stella, 

I love your blog and I have never stopped checking it ever since I was introduced to it.

Well, this is my story. 

My friend came to me, complaining about her younger brother. This boy has a girl friend who already has a child and is staying with her Aunty . Mind you the boy is just 18 years old. He was enrolled for WAEC but he ran away from the house to go live with this girl. 

The boy lost his father early this year, his mum has been taking care of the family. This boy steals money and food in the house to take care of this girl, her child and the Aunty. He goes to stay over at the girls house for up to a month,the mum and siblings will practically have to beg him before he returns home. 

The family have seen that the girl is a big distraction to him and in other to keep him focused, they are sending the boy to stay with my friend who lives in Abuja so he will be far from his girlfriend in Bayelsa and who knows they might probably break up. Also while in Abuja he can register for WAEC. 

To everybody's  surprise, the boy agreed but with conditions, he said he will move to Abuja if the family agrees to take responsibility of the girl, her baby and the Aunty ( you can imagine the silly boy). 

At this point everyone is confused because this is a family that is struggling to pick up after the death of their family. My friend said she will never agree to such terms. I strongly feel she should rethink it and see how she can come to a compromise. 

My fellow BVs please what do you advice her to do in this situation. I know it's not my chronicle but it affects me in a way. She is a close friend and I want the best for her and her family. Thank you . 

Na wah!....Well i guess he is at a very rebellious age and has 'tasted' the forbidden fruit with her,let her agree and get him to Abuja,and create an atmosphere for him to meet and mix with teens his age,when he meets makes other friendships,he will dump her and her manipulative aunt..lol