Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Hmmm what would you do to a nagging spouse who is driving you crazy?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

MARRYING YOUR COUSINS BROTHER IN LAW IS WRONG?

Good day madam Stella. Am sorry to bother you this afternoon concerned this issue because I don't know what to do. I sent it to another blog and didn't get satisfactory response so I was referred here by my friend.

    My name is faith and am from Enugu State. My cousin's husband younger brother is interested and wants to marry me. I love him too but don't know how my cousin will react and again I was going through his chats and I saw where his sister was against him getting married to me.

 Her reason was that two sisters cannot be married into their family and that she don't like me as a wife and that they have not gotten themselves from the one they have (my cousin).  I told guy about the chats but he said me or never. 

Am confused do I accept his proposal or walk away?

   Note: my cousin is my daddy's sisters daughter who got married to an Anambra man.

Hmmmm,this is very dicey,let me read comments.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

THE MONSTER CALLED NAGGING

Hello Stella, may God’s blessings and favour upon you never know no limit. Indeed you are a blessing to your generation.

To go straight to the issue. In the middle of last year, 2014, I approached a girl whom I have been studying her character for years in my neighbouring street, one thing lead to another, she agreed to date me. Believe me she has a wife material characters.

I forgot to add that I am 29 and she is 28 years old of age.

It was after she accepted me that she opened up to me that she have heard much about me and have been looking for a way to get my contact but she couldn’t until the day we met in the cinema.

In my own capacity, I have showed her lot of cares and love, I took her for shopping, always met her demand and she is always appreciate whatever I do for her. According to her I am the only guy that have showed her much love.

The problem now is, she nags a lot, anytime she sees me with another girl, she’s always angry with me. I have taken much time to tell her that I have no intimacy  with those people especially one girl in our compound called Ada but she never believe me and I have it when I am sincere I still misunderstood. Anytime she’s around, she always browse  through my phone to check what I can never tell.

Her form of accusing me always makes me angry with her.

I so much love care and have always assured her that I will never disappoint her but she don’t believe such things.

Please Stella and my fellow BVs, what should I do because I don’t want to leave her, she is too good to be dumped but her constant nagging and accusation of things that I do not think of makes me mad at her some times. I have told her that I am innocent of all her accusation but she wont stop.

(NB: We have not married yet, we are just in a relationship and all this distrust is surfacing).

Nagging kills love faster than rat poison kills a rat.Please have that at the back of your mind and talk this over with her,if she refuses to change,please ''dump'' her.

I said Dump her because people who nag bring out the worst in their spouses and that is already a dangerous recipe for Marriage.