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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
ABORTION WITHOUT CONSENT
Hello Stella,
I will go straight to the point. I just had a phone conversation that has left me shaken.
I live in the UK and some few months ago,an ex girlfriend of mine came from Nigeria, we were on good terms and we saw once and had sex.
For the rest few days of her stay she was asking to meet up again but i couldnt since i was working and you know how it is with work here, you cant be answering phone anyhow. I didnt get to talk to her and she got angry and as usual the normal you used me accusation.
She got to naija and i called her and she said i shouldnt call her again.
Today i was just going thru my phone and decided to call her to just say hello only for her to tell me she got pregnant for me and i shouldnt call her anymore.
I called her again and asked if she is still pregnant and she asked if i expect her to keep it.
I havent been myself since this call, i cant even bear to think that a baby was aborted and i had a hand in it. If this girl had told me God knows i woulda done all is required of me. Why are some girls like this. How can you get pregnant and you choose to keep or remove the baby without telling who is responsible?.
I am just confused i dont even know what to say or do anymore. The guilt is just killing me.
I dont know what to say....what if she was lying just to make you feel bad?
And you too please stop sleeping unprotected with your ex's,its a wicked thing to do to sleep with her and ''form being busy''.when you wanted to have the sex,you were not busy right?
Mscheeeew!
Leave her alone and move on!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
VISITING A TROUBLESOME MOTHER IN LAW.
Hi Stella. Hope u've been doing good. Please I'm in a fix here and I sincerely need your help and honest opinion.
Still don't know where you want to put this post under but anywhere will do as long as I get sincere responses from BVs.
I am a young married and working lady of 27yrs and married for three years and as usual it had had its ups and downs. My family stay in the east while my in laws leave far north of Nigeria.
The issue is this- my mother in law began to nag that I have never come to visit and stay with her in the north and she knows I am working and have a 10 months old baby. She has said it at least twice now that She doesn't want me to come with my husband that she wants me alone to come. The funny thing is that as Igbos especially staying in the south we travel to the village every Christmas and asides that, this year alone we had need to travel to the village twice and we stayed with her on those two occasions and spent the weekend with her.
All her children stay with her there in the North- same state. Male and female, married and unmarried. So right now I don't know what to do because I work and she is asking me to come and stay for more than a week in the north with her. I know it's not any Igbo tradition so I don't know what it actually is and hubby is saying that it's to get to know me better which doesn't make sense to me.
And my father in law has no problem ever excited,she on the other hand is trouble so I've just been relating normally with her and pretend that I don't see any troublesome part and also call her occasionally. this doesn't come up except she is angry. Please what do I do?
N. B she is also not interested in coming to visit us
Hmmm!.....I dont know your Mother in law so i dont know whether to tell you to stay or not but if you feel your visit will cause any problems then look for a plan But if not why dont you just take off a few days if you can and go and visit her....It might not be what you think.
Anyways let people with experience advise you,my mother in law is the best and minds her business,She used to be a nosey parker but that has been sorted out..LMAO!
It is well
ReplyDeleteFavour did you even read the post at all? Just rushing to be first to comment.
DeleteAnyway today's chronicles get as e be sef. I'm still recovering from yesterday's own.
@ poster 2: I won't go alone if i were you. Requesting that you come alone just doesn't add up. Continue to give her excuses as to why you can't come.
DeletePoster 2, ur narrative is lopsided, sounds like ur making excuses. You married your hubby, yes, but you married INTO his family too. Ur mum can summon you, so can his mum!
DeleteWe're not silly, we know there's such a thing as leave! Apply & go! If she dey stay Ireland or US, Na so u go dry drag leg!? Obey & visit. Don't be rude, but don't be fake either. Cheers.
Poster 1: let me say you've gotten yourself into one chance bus. the bus without destination.
DeleteTwo things are possible...she might be pregnant and she might not. but if she is really, Congratulations to you, atleast she is not saying she is tested HIV positive.
Ladies are funny these days, she may just want to get you disturbed and punish you for what you did because if she is really pregnant, she won't stop you from calling her. in fact you will always call. kindly leave her for now and never get in touch. I know is not easy but try it. A lady who is pregnant will not keep it to herself.
Poster 2: My major problem with most ladies is that they wrongly assume their mother in law is a witch or this and that. you don't need to create a problem while non is in existence. Just let your husband know about it, and your husband has the final say not STELLA OR ME.
How to be successful in a difficult situation
That mother-in-law inviting someone to the north with all the Boko Haram bombings! She don live her own life o
DeleteNarrator number 1, it takes milliseconds to transmit HIV and it has no cure.
Utman saheed have you ever been a lady or been pregnant before. What makes you think you can ever phantom what goes on in the mind of a lady who is pregnant? Silence is better than talking pointlessly.
DeleteJane lmaoo...abi oh....
DeleteNobody reads anything again. ..all in the name of first to comment
Hiann
ReplyDeleteHian
ReplyDeleteCopy & paste*... These past SnM eh, na my last be that, its no wonder they're single & silenced, they're too many stupid and mad girls showing up, ofcus wat do I xpect wen a single gal displays her desperation on a blog visited by thounsands, a decent gal wldnt do such. Imagine one gal wit cobweb in her brain due to lack of usage, askn me all manner of questoions like say I de under trial for murder, fine sef she no fine oh, besides am not thr seaerchn for a wife/gf, just a gistn partner and I told her that frm the start, yet she's askn me personal questions like bloodgroup and numbr of kids id want, jeeezzz..... Another one will take hrs to reply nd wldnt tell u she's busy or she's sorry for the late reply.... Little courtsey counts if u gals don't knw... Another one wl analys ur pic like she's lookn for evidence to solve a FBI homicide case, do that secretly haba... I no de SnM again. I just delete the werey girld them
ReplyDeleteLmao
Deletelmao...
DeleteRotfl seriously, the hustle is real. They are forming informed and being careful. Women dey disappoint.
DeleteLol. It's well.
DeleteDon't mind them, desperately looking for Husband, yet they reply a well packaged sentences with complete mechanical accuracy with 'k' after 5hrs. Mehn, the rudeness they display all just to form 'big girl' is alarming. Kai!
Delete@Anon;thats simply the set of ladies you were able to get...
DeleteFor me i got classy friends;very classy i mean...even the married ones are so awesome!!
If i was ever ready for marriage or up to the age;then i would have gotten the best..**wink**..SnM is good nevertheless;and you shouldnt finalize that all of the single ladies out there are same both in attitude and otherwise simply because of the few you ve come in contact with..
Maybe next time you place your spec very well before you drop your pin..#cheers
Shout out to my chat buddy(she knows herself)...you rock full time and simply the best!! i cant ask for anything more..**smiles**
@MARTINS ABOY
Serioussssss?
DeleteOya add me 2225d000!
*run away.
Since u say it's gisting partner. Dnt b offended by d girl inability to be courteous. Mayb she dosent want a gisting partner nd u wasting her time
DeleteWhy won't they reply after 5hrs? When 300hundred persons will add just one girl up! How many pple I wan reply ni! No be even say wetin una dey talk dey make sense! I for say mk I dey reply! After writing a short info bout my self! Including my name, sm1 will still come and ask me my name and how old I am after adding me up! Shey u no see am b4 u quickly took my pin!? Na so dem go dey shout please send full pix! What do you do!? Irrelevant questions! Why I go answer! If I had known how stupid u guys are too I wudnt hv partaken in the s and h tingy! Mk una shift abeg! Na so one useless one dey ask me! When was the last time you had sex!? Do you expect me to answer such! Mehn u guys shud gerararahere mehn for reallllll!
Deletelmao
Deletewell! all of una don see wetin i dey talk now na abi?
Deletewhat should one expects of a crude manner'ed semi literate girl.. whose bbm friends request list is flooded with several hundreds of guys!? she definitely will feel on top if the world already.. by so, gets carried away.. into a world of fantasy.. i keep telling these girls.. reality is far different from what they see on these Korean movies..
Lol@ mechanical accuracy .....
DeleteAre u guys good on ur own?. My second time of trying SnM. Guys just be asking wht u do for a living nd send me ur pic even whn u told them dat is ur pic @dp they still wnt anorda 1 and thy don't hav any human pic on their dp o. Make una fear God o. I will not even do dat shit again
DeleteAre u guys good on ur own?. My second time of trying SnM. Guys just be asking wht u do for a living nd send me ur pic even whn u told them dat is ur pic @dp they still wnt anorda 1 and thy don't hav any human pic on their dp o. Make una fear God o. I will not even do dat shit again
DeleteLool na wa oh....
DeleteHahhahahaha
DeleteDis guy na clown.
Yea some might be messed up as u say but there wil be some really nice decent ladies in dere....
Dis blog una no well at all LMAO
Jesus fix it.
ReplyDeleteAmen.
DeleteNa to reaad comment as usual
ReplyDeleteWill come back
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Ders Notin like raw wet creamy hot sex!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYour chronicles are on the way... don't worry, we'll read it and cuss you as usual. Ode!
DeleteLmaooo some pple be seeking for attention since 1800 and u pple be giving it to them.....issorait
DeletePoster 1, a woman has a right to do what she wants with her body. Move on and leave her alone. Stop having premarital sex too, condoms aren't expensive you have no excuse.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 the married one's would help you.
awww, i love that first poster!
ReplyDeleteMake I read comments abeg.
ReplyDelete#WhiteDiamondOut
Uh oh. I normally enjoy your comments though.
DeleteHmmmmmm.....
ReplyDeletePoster one park well irresponsible man if she had told you she was pregnant you would have accused her of trying to trap you,please be using condoms Nigerian men and women haba.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 I feel you , well your husband isn't the one it seems that stands with his wife so I suggest you take a weekend off and maybe Monday to go and see her. The annoying thing is that no father in law will expect a man to live his job and go and sit so he can nag him msteewww
Poster 1! U wud have done all d neccessary fins ke? Yea ryt.
ReplyDelete@1, is this suppose to be a chronicle cos I really don't understand what you want us to tell u, y did u ve sex without a condom, u didn't feel guilty when u were nacking skin to skin, abeg smell off.
ReplyDelete@2, ignore ue mother in law abeg, with all this crisis in d north, what are u going to do there.
@ poster 1...if its killing you, go and DIE biko!!!
DeleteJesus fix this guys mouth please
Delete@ poster one;na wa for u ooo!!
DeleteSo when you were busy swimming inside the pool without A swimming trunk you didnt find any guilt in it as it is A sin before God? Now its the aborting aspect that is bothering you??
The only problem you have now truly is that you wanna father A child;and simply disappointed that she removed it(ie if she was ever pregnant)...so why not just get married so as to enable you skydive as long as you want and probably have kids by God's grace?
Please just move on if she doesnt wanna talk to you and work on yourself...
Check the meaning of FORNICATION by yourself and know where to place your guilt just incase...#Goodluck
@MARTINS ABOY
Hundred likes fr dis comment. You're wise @martins
DeletePoster one move on biko
ReplyDeletePoster two just visit her buh be careful so u both dont av any quarell
Poster 2; biko don't visit her.there's no need. See her only when u travel with hubby. .
DeleteImagine when ur feeln guilt, when u were skin diving the guilt didn't come upon u, anyway, as stella said, she might hv planned to use that strategy to obtain pounds/euro frm u, but wen u didn't budge, she withdrew.... You can visit a motherless babies home an donate sumthg, that might ease ur guilt hehehe.. Besides u knew nutn about it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: I once felt my mil is the only person on earth I can't get along with,but one day I decided to sit and learn her.Its been great since I calmed down to understand her person.Now, my point is u might call her a nag from a distance,it's easy for us to insult someone who's not our mum.But go n see her stay the one week, if u have a help go with her.That way, u will know better.If you don't go ud keep assuming
ReplyDeletePoster 1: wickedness is ur middle name, inshort let ur conscience burn u.For Gods sake see d stupid excuse u rgiving. Yet when u were staffing her,u didn't think like that,imo she's not being sincere she just wants to fuck ur mind up so u'd be filled with guilt n its working.
Poster 1.. your girl is lying and wants you to feel quilty. what most men or boys will be happy about you are feeling guilty. you no feel guilty during sex.. double life you are living.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.. you are still working. tell her you will visit in christmas if you are given a break in the office. She just want to feel you and know if you are hiding something from her whenever you visit with your husband and children. she wants to know the real you. so behave well when you visit. pretend you love her and do her bidding. MIL are just women like you and me. It is well
Poster 1.keep gbenshing Toto up and down. until you contact HIV.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,stop playing hide and seek.Make time. Go and visit them.Weekends or public holidays.
Poster 1, What guilt is killing you? you didnt ask her to abort the pregnancy na. infact, you didnt know about it, so move on. But I hated the fact that you came here to lie about being busy, working and not being able to pick calls. liar liar, what happened to calling at nights, abi dem dey seize una phone for office der? **rolls eyes**.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, if its possible to take time off at work or even one of the weekends, just go for peace to reign...some mother-in-law and wahala sha.
Poster 1, why didn't u find time to meet up with her, u want to lie that u had no free time at all? I'm sure u just wanted a one time sex with her den started blowing her off, not knowing she had a real reason she wanted to see u(if she's being truthful). If she says she has removed it then forget about it. Serves u right. Y'all think u can toy with a girl's emotion?
ReplyDeleteThat is the trade mark of nigerian men in london, they want to sleep with you once and run off and the girl from naija thought she had made a catch meeting up with an old love. Poster 1 stop making noise as if you did not avoid her deliberately cos you did. Your narrative no gel biko.
DeleteI swear down....so true about some naija guys abroad....I dunno if its the change of environment that changes their character. ..but they are always diff and forming busy..smh. its only few that still rem the village they come from. ...d rest of dem just get carried away with the oyibo world lool
DeletePoster 1: what would you have done if she kept the pregnancy?? Guilty conscience indeed.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
Poster1, just let it go.
ReplyDeletePoster2, if u feel it is more than just to get to know u, pls don't go. Na by force?
You people would be playing with future children's lives by having sex without condom
ReplyDeleteAnyways, na girls I blame sha.... they hate condoms and even when they insist u use, they are not serious about it
I always try this experiment when I meet a new girl. I pretend as if I want to go raw and see their reaction. 80 percent of the time, they don't talk, cos they don't care or they love it. Even the few that say "wear condom" just say it for saying sake.
na wa
Oya come near me without condom if I no remove dt your pr*** for you. You have no respect for womanhood at all. Always talking down in women as if you did not come out licking a woman's p***y. Jobless man hiding under sdk blog and saying rubbish about women.
DeleteI dunno the sort of girls u av been meeting but I will never....I repeat never go on a guy without condom except am married to him....like why do girls even do that...it baffles me..
DeletePls ladies if u av to go raw....be on the pills!!! I think they should start creating more awareness abt birth control pills in naija....cos it seems pple only think its condom thats the only means of control.
Poster 1.keep gbenshing Toto up and down. Skin to skin .until you contact HIV.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,.Dont be selfish . Stop playing hide and seek.Make time. Go and visit them.Weekends or public holidays.
Poster 1 - stop having unprotected sex
ReplyDeletePoster 2- make out time for a 1-week visit but please your husband should accompany you on that trip especially when you know you don't feel too comfy with your MIL.
Ask for some time -off at work and y'all get going
@bloggie;
DeleteObi mm!!
Mkpuru oma mm!!
Ugegbe mm!!
Oyoko di ya!!
Ada oma mm!!
Oyoyo mm!!
Asa mm!!
Pinopino mm!!
Olaedo mm!!
Achara ugo mm!!
**side eyes to those who cant translate**
Kedu ka idi bloggie mm??
She is supposed to be married. Aaslicker ! U go soon meet shit.
DeleteBloggie ain't no cougar, back off!
Delete@Martins.. oh boy get well soon.. as u suffer longthingsyndromism.. keep thirst on
DeleteHahhhahahahahhahaa.
DeleteMA my sweerie, my sugar,
All these titles, only me?
I choose only pinopino and ada oma from the list esp pinopino. Kikikikikikiii
Wink.
Let's leave ugegbe for flavor and sandra
Achara ugo for the one and only Ezenwanyi (my blog winsh)
Oyoyo'm and Asa for Nwuye G.
Mkpuru oma for LE
Then we dash out the rest.
What do you think?
Lol
How are you doing darl? Sure you good.
Eerrrmm;i think its owkay with the way you shared it..there is love in sharing remember! **smiles**..
DeleteIm good bydway...**wink**
@MARTINS ABOY
I am jealous!
DeleteVery Jelly!!!
*Side eyes at u Martins*
Don't u know Bloggie is Mine???
Yes Mine!!!!!
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
Just kidding.didn't know u could write Igbo dis well....dats good.
@Bloggie,howdy my love?
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteGet over it! U didnt know,u had no hand in it!
Poster 2
Im tired of these MIL stories jare
Poster 1: well, she has done it already. So move on.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: must u go? Let her keep vexing nau. Na new thing? Una go settle 4 villa
Done gini? U follow her go do am? The babe is just playing with the dude and its working for her well. Serves the wicket dude right
DeleteI'm sure ur ex was never pregnant, chill and let her be, she will contact u if she needs u. U can't take calls buh Sms wud have helped @ spare time!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, go see her nd send few days, endure whatsoever, it won't hurt it's just for some days.
#cheers
Hmmm no b here ooooh, infact no condom no seX I no fit shout abeg. How old am I to risk my fhucking life for some minutes of pleasure.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: what busy and work are you talking about? You were so occupied to visit her, how on earth would you think u can have time to do the needful if carried along. It took you eternity to visit, if she had kept the pregnancy till God knows when, you just remembered her now. Am not an abortion fan, but then, play safe next time.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Ana aluya alu. Just visit for 2days, during the visit, be a good girl that you can't imagine. Olu with Uche.
Poster1 wicked man so she should be waiting for you abi,you couldn't even call or answer her call don't you have break period @ work don't you sleep perhaps you think she is coming back to you, suck on your depression idiot
ReplyDelete@poster1 :you are very stupid
ReplyDeleteKeep gbenshing raw......the guilt wasn't killing when you where diving in without any protection.
Yeye boy...
@poster2 : keep posting her jare..
From visiting her,she will start looking for fault.
Don't go jare.....your job is the most important
Nobody gats time 4 long journey.
Lol
ReplyDelete1st 2 comment.... poster 1 Jesus fix it poster 2 Jesus fix it
ReplyDeletefirst to comment ba woo? try again next time.. today is not ur turn..
Delete1st 2 comment.... poster 1 Jesus fix it poster 2 Jesus fix it
ReplyDelete1. Get over it and move on. Next time be careful.
ReplyDelete2. Talk to your husband about it.
The level of carelessness among some people is devastating. Poster one , am very sure you are in a relationship right now but you decided to have unprotected sex with your ex because you were still in terms abi? You are only worried about pregnancy..what of infection you have exposed yourself to?. Someone you rarely see...you just unzipped and buried yourself inside. As for the pregnancy ish..am sure she just put that up to make you feel guilty. No girl will be pregnant and not go ballistic.
ReplyDeleteI was pregnant n wasnt ballistic. The idiot prolly would have written this chronicle if I had removed the baby. But me no send after I told him I was preggy n he asked me to abort I just blocked him n moved on had my baby n we doing fine. To me he is just a sperm donor shikina.
DeleteI was pregnant n wasnt ballistic. The idiot prolly would have written this chronicle if I had removed the baby. But me no send after I told him I was preggy n he asked me to abort I just blocked him n moved on had my baby n we doing fine. To me he is just a sperm donor shikina.
Deleteuseless women,sleeping around and thinking they are wise because they use condoms, can u also use protection on your dignity by waiting till you are married before sex that way nobody will tell your kids they had illicit sex with their mum.women be decent. illicit sex carries a curse which will affect your kids. pls pls women stop working for satan.
DeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteP1: Very few women will keep a pregnancy from a fling. It's not like you guys were in a relationship before it happened, and you didn't keep in touch after sleeping with her. She probably presumed you would think she was trying to coerce you into marrying her or she was blackmailing you for money.
ReplyDelete2. If I were in your shoes I would wait until the next public holiday so I can spend 4 days or less with her. I don't understand what she wants to figure out by having you take time of work to come see her in the north knowing fully well that Christmas is around the corner.
You need to make her understand that you're busy with work and the baby, and you'll try to visit her when you have free time. I think it's better you go to visit her than she comes to visit you.
*when it happened
DeletePoster 1 move on already, u messed up, deal with it.
ReplyDeleteAm contemplating being a celibate sef too many wahala dat comes wit sex. Pregnancy,Hiv or Stds biko I don hang boot joor
ReplyDeleteGood for you!
DeleteFocus your time and energy on developing yourself as a person all round (spiritually? Financially, psychologically etc)
DeleteGod bless u.
DeleteDNT BLIF DAT BABE WS PREGNANT...AN EX DT IS NT EAGER TO TIE U DOWN WS PREGNANT JST LYK DAT???SHE DE HOLD HER BELLY FOR HND NI????STOP FILIN BAD JOOR NXT TYM ZIP UP...POSTR TWO DNT KNW WAT TO SAY U KNW HER BETTER DAN WE DO..MST DAUGHTA INLAWS LYK TERMIN DIA MIL BAD BT HOPE U AINT......TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteWhy are you shouting? U are not even making sense.
DeleteWhat is wrong with you @Anonymous? you must be in high school....C'mon go back to your books NOW!
DeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--why the guilty conscience??you sudnt feel any guilt as far as u weren't aware of the pregnancy and the abortion she committed..since she's an EX and u don't deem her fit for marriage,stop calling her and get on with ur life...bro eh,u nor fear hiv and oda yamayama diseases sha,person wey u neva see for long and u don run dey knack her raw...odiegwu!!
Poster2---as per as the visiting is not an emergency ish,please don't go,cos i wonder why she's suddenly pressing u 4 a visit wen she's fully aware that ure a working class!!,cut the chase and simply tell her that u were denied leave from your place of work shikena!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Hmmm. I'm still bothered about the SnM babe that had sex with that guy on the first day of seeing him.
ReplyDeleteJesus is Lord.
Keep drinking Panadol for her while she gets multiple orgasm on per second bill. Your loss
DeleteThe chronicles...
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--why the guilty conscience??you sudnt feel any guilt as far as u weren't aware of the pregnancy and the abortion she committed..since she's an EX and u don't deem her fit for marriage,stop calling her and get on with ur life...bro eh,u nor fear hiv and oda yamayama diseases sha,person wey u neva see for long and u don run dey knack her raw...odiegwu!!
Poster2---as per as the visiting is not an emergency ish,please don't go,cos i wonder why she's suddenly pressing u 4 a visit wen she's fully aware that ure a working class!!,cut the chase and simply tell her that u were denied leave from your place of work shikena!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--why the guilty conscience??you sudnt feel any guilt as far as u weren't aware of the pregnancy and the abortion she committed..since she's an EX and u don't deem her fit for marriage,stop calling her and get on with ur life...bro eh,u nor fear hiv and oda yamayama diseases sha,person wey u neva see for long and u don run dey knack her raw...odiegwu!!
Poster2---as per as the visiting is not an emergency ish,please don't go,cos i wonder why she's suddenly pressing u 4 a visit wen she's fully aware that ure a working class!!,cut the chase and simply tell her that u were denied leave from your place of work shikena!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
poster 1 just shut up,you wernt busy enough to call her when you were horny
ReplyDeleteyou are now saying you feel bad she ddnt tell you,tell you so you can deny it?
you are very foolish,you only feel bad bcs she ddnt cry to you she was pregnant
Exactly! He's upset that she isn't a needy person and she didn't ask his permission.
DeleteIf she had decided to keep the pregnancy without his knowledge I would have understood his annoyance.
Stella u get mind ooooh wat if your mother in law visits dis blog and see dis post? Be careful oooh in oda to avoid story dat touch.
ReplyDeleteCoward!
DeleteWith HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis and STDs u guys just keep having sex without protection and you keep spreading all manner of diseases and having unwanted pregnancies(baby mamas) very soon siblings might marry each other because they came from 3-only God knows how many women. Poster1, she might be lying that she was pregnant and might also be lying that she did abortion since you got too "busy" to pick her calls(you excuse just sounded like my EVER BUSY EX) u better call her and beg her and use wisdom to find out if all she told u is true.
ReplyDeletePoster2, please you can respect your mother in-law but please don't let her push you around(don't start what you can't finish) d moment u pick ur things, leave ur job and start traveling to answer MIL call she's going to expect u to do that all the time and if your mind is not at peace with the whole traveling thingy pls keep ur arse in ur husband's house, God forbid u travel and have accident or something goes wrong because you want to please MIL. Tell her u are busy and ur office has refused to give you leave and don't let ur husband know u don't want to go make him feel u want to go but work wouldn't let you, that your oga said he is no longer giving casual leave. WISDON IS PROFITATBLE TO DIRECT.
Very smart response, don't start wat u don't want to finish
DeleteExcellent response for poster two. Excellent
DeletePoster 2 read dis advice and follow it.
DeleteThose women who sees their mother in-laws as a bad person should not also forget that they too will become one day one day. Because what goes up will come nor matter how long it takes.
ReplyDeletena so and those kind of women will birth boys whose wives will call them witch,most of these women that comment here will suffer at old age because of all the attrocities of their youth.
DeleteVisit alone? There must be one ritual they need you to perform and it must be nasty that's why they don't want to tell you so don't visit her alone.
ReplyDeleteKeep going with your hubby pls.
Poster 1, you weren't too busy to fuck but afterwards your name turned to Mr. Busy bee. Now you are asking us 20 questions.why are some girls like what?
Why are men like you heartless but can still find a way to justify your actions?
LMAO @ Coco advice for Poster 2
DeleteIt seems we are just wasting money on awareness campaigns as Nigerian youths are bent on being careless with their lives via unprotected sex. If I ask you her genotype blood group or Hiv status you won’t know but you can stick your raw penis in her vagina what a shame
ReplyDeletePoster 1, if really your ex was preggy and aborted without telling you, and you are here whinning, then you're very selfish.What did you expect her to do, keep the baby and become a single mother? in this country? you no well!!! And what exactly do you mean by "You would have done all that's expected of you? What else would you have done other than send her money when you can, then carry on with your life, while she's saddled with the responsibility of raising the child alone? Be reasonable please. She did what was best for her in the situation, she chose herself first. Which is what any right thinking individual should do in such situation.
ReplyDeleteps: this is strictly my opinion, no 'holy nweje' should masturbate under this comment.
P2. I have nothing to say to you.
Wait oh I can't quite get over yesterday's Chronicles poster 2. She must be a very greedy somebody and thats going to kill her pretty soon (Yuck!!!) The beast is obviously boxed up and thats why she can put up with such evil even for a day. I guess he told you its just cravings or some trash. (LIE!!!)
ReplyDeleteThis is small compared to what some men (including women) are doing for wealth.
Madam maybe you aren't spiritually in tune but let me tell you if you know what is good for you ehn, you will race to the nearest MFM church with ur man for deliverance and total cleansing.
Now let me go back to read today's Chronicles
oga poster no1.. u nor try at all, you really messed up big time and coming out here with this lousy excuse of we know how work is over there in UK is even adding salt to the injury already created. u had all the time to meet up and have sex with her at first.. when she landed? and afterwards u automatically become too busy to even answer her phone calls or return her calls? are u kidding us here? do u really think we are all stupid around here?
ReplyDeleteu are not a very responsible person.. to even think she was ur ex.. and u hurriedly went to have unprotected sex with her.. and then after ejaculating that Konji that's been killing u.. u realised the girl messed up before and she wasn't worth it.. so u decided to form busy..m u are a bipolar ingrate and indecision dey worry u join.. leave the poor lady alone.. she has more sense than u do.. hence the reason u couldn't fool her with ur cheap excuse..hollup nigga.. just gerrarahia mehn shiiit..
@poster1.. madam nor mind ur mother in law.. just dey do ur thing dey go!
what does she need u to come alone without ur husband for? pls becareful of that woman
Poster 1: I want to believe ahe was pulling your trouser, sorry your legs. U might want to call her again and ask in a calm manner. Poster 2: Some times I wish I have one even with all dez stories. Make out some time and visit heram at least this once if it didn't turn out well, ka udo chia.
ReplyDeleteHmmm @poster 1 Zip up enugo!...@poster 2 just make out time to visit your MIL
ReplyDeleteNo comment. Today's chronicles r boring.
ReplyDeleteP1, eeyah, such a nice man you are. I guess she felt you werent interested in her hence the evacuation. May the Lord forgive her and I pray you find it in your heart to forgive her too. Please heal yourself of the guilt. Pray and fast for forgiveness about it. Be strong. P2, take a sick leave and go first then youay know what to do afterwards
ReplyDeleteNice,really? Smh
Delete"Nosy barger"
ReplyDeletePoster 1 let it go,be careful & always play safe....
ReplyDeletePoster 2 make out time & visit her..
Stelladimoko your advice to first poster was on point.
ReplyDeleteI just felt like coming out of anony mood.
Okija wife can you pls come back for my sake.
Poster 1 pls stop giving flimsy excuses joor,busy my ass but when u were knacking her raw u weren't busy abi,stop d pretense of feeling guity pls,jst maintain ur lane n leave her alone cos I know ur type,two faced bingo,wot r u calling her for?When she was calling u u formed busy cos u hv knacked her mtcheeeew, poster 2 I dnt know wot to tell u,but do it @ur own convenient if u must go see her,nn when u get there try as much as possible to maintain peace wit her,
ReplyDeletewhat if my MIL reads what i wrote?SMH.
ReplyDeletemy MIL can read what i wrote and gimme a kiss sef,these people dont carry gala on their head and sell in go-slow like you people back home okay?
hope you understand?
Poster 1,hear yoursef oooo,shame on u.All dis Uk guys forming unnecessary busy.U hav tasted it & started forming busy baa?Look at how u painted d story to ur own favour,u wanted 2 do d necessary tins my foot cus U don hear baby.Abeg go sidon 4 dirty mehhn.Onye uwa ojo like u.Don't just bother disturbing dt chic again.A big shame on u.O turu o narie.
DeletePoster one. Pls stop d pretence.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Do not go anywhere. Those pple hv got plans, Shebi u said dy all live together over there? These Bv's telling her to make out time frm work, she has a baby, any free time she has, she ll use to rest. No jst stress yasef, meet them 4 village during Xmas, Dts enuf, "see finish syndrome" dey bring plenty wahala.
Stella can like to reply,heh!
ReplyDeletePoster 1: The guilt you should have is not about your ex aborting a baby without your consent; you should feel guilty about your lifestyle. Really, you are the weird one here; just browsing any skirt you see including that of an ex. Who dumped who and why. If she did, why come back? If you did; why go back; sex? Why not get married and enjoy peace of mind having sex with your wife without bothering about STI, abortions without your consent or not? When you have daughters; will you like other men to just "pound their vaginas" and walk away not bothering to ever pick their calls? How about your sisters; they tell you that a man did what you did to this girl and . . you'd congratulate her? You'd like it? Common, I am a man like you living in a western country and I don't think you are being sincere to yourself in the first place the way you live. If that girl were to be living in the UK and with the "phone call blockade evidence" insisted that you raped her and with clear DNA evidence, you'd be in jail. If you do not repent, not long, you will walk your pe*is into real trouble! Suffice it to say that you need the savior for perfect freedom.
ReplyDeleteLet me educate you about abortion as I learnt it in this blog (taught by lady Igo):
There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.
all this gospel? hmmmm
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ReplyDeleteYou didn't meet up with her again before she returned to Nigeria either by your design or circumstances. She is an adult I guess and so should want you as you should want her. Both of you ought to sacrifice to get what you want. So if your not seeing her after the sex is enough to commit abortion, let her be after all she and the man that would inherit her eventually are the ones to suffer the negative effect of the abortion if any
P2
Find time to visit your mil and stop the premeditated milphobia if you don't want to suffer the same premeditated mil phobia when your own time comes
BG the say regarding pussy sucking post of yesterday...
So many things I read on this blog appear to me as fictional stories meant to keep the conversation going on but this particular one is out of this world so much so that I was lost for words. A two year old marriage where the couple is not concerned with sex to increase and multiply and fill the surface of the earth but obsessed with man sucking pussy to sleep including menses ravaged pussy and wife preoccupied with paying for arranging and watching as a guard dog while husband suck sundry pussie when ever her own is unavailable, hmmmm. I was so confused I had to take to the spirit. It was not until the early hours of today that the spirit revealed to me that the couple in question are a bunch of thaumaturge's,occults and sorcerers. The spirit says the advice is not for the couple but for you, yes you out there....RUN AWAY FROM THE COUPLE BEFORE THEY CONTAMINATE ANT INITIATE YOU!!!
Youngman!!!! Wake up!
DeleteLmao @ Anon 15:00.
ReplyDeletePoster2 don't see anything wrong in going to spend some time with her, give it a try and see how it goes there is no harm in trying all the best
ReplyDeletePoster2 don't see anything wrong with going to see her just give it a try there is no harm in trying all the best.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 don't u dare form busy for a girl afta u ave Slept with her! Everyone knows wat dat means.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, What's done is done, can you move on already?
ReplyDeleteposter 2, From what you have said, i don't see a problem with ur mother-in-law. We just heard your own side of the story, saying she's troublesome. Who knows if you are one of those difficult daughter-in-laws that wish to have nothing to do with your mother-in-law? Please let those who have real mother-in-law problems write us, cos you obviously have none.
When you wanted to fuck, you were never busy! You can call her whenever you went to the restroom or on your lunch break or chat with her before going to sleep! Stop these holy pretense! Have you jot paid for an evacuation before in your life? I don't blame her, your attitude was enough warning to her, that you will have nothing to do with her pregnancy!
ReplyDeleteContinue to use work as an excuse and plan your trip during Christmas. What more does she want to know about you, after 2 years of marriage and you and her son visited her few times together. She has something up her sleeves. She is not a busy woman that is why she has time on her hands to be counting the number of times you have not visited her. And when you go, be a good actress but don't take any oath or perform family rite.
Poster one!!!! Your type is not to be trusted. That your work is it round the clock and you don't have any other life? You don't come back from work at all and you sleep there too. If no is the answer , then you are a selfish person. If it is just work and no other thing is occupying your time,then you are mean. You knack the babe finish, come dey form busy. She tried to reach out and you ignored her, only for you to turn around and start forming the victim. I detest your type who blame others for what they did.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind the idiot. Na guilty conscience dey disturb am. I blame the foolish girl more who allowed herself to be used. What did she expect? That the sex will rekindle the relationship? I don't know when women will stop being foolish.
ReplyDeleteExactly @poster 1, poster 2 don't see your mother in law as evil simple because she wants you to visit her, my mother in law stays in North to, each time I put to bed she will ask me to bring baby for her I most creat time to visit her,getting there we pray together I go to mkt cook, wash for her then we sit down and gist together, after 2 or 3 days she will start preparing for my returned, infact I love her even more than my own mother.
ReplyDeletePoster two.
ReplyDeleteIf it was me, I would not leave work to go and visit. I see it that she has the attitude when things go not so well. I will run. Why does she want me around? To see more of my faults and non faults or what? Does she want to finish me there? Plus, you have a baby. So you will take time from work to go to a "vacation" that you do not want to go to, with a baby, going that distance? I do not see the urgency. Me, I will dodge that request until she is tired.
Have you told your husband?
Weasel.
P1. You are selfish and irresponsible. So go fown on your knees and beg for forgiveness.
DeleteP2. If you don't feel comfortable going alone go with hubby. I don't believe in forcing oneself to do things . This one that MIL is asking you to come alone, hope her plans for you are good.
If at all up go alone, take a day off work. Go on Fri morning. Come back Sun afternoon.
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