Today i am here to read comments....
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
GETTING MARRIED TRADITIONALLY WHILST
DIVORCE IS ON GOING...
Dear Stella,it is with a heavy heart that i bring in my story.I am so confused right now.Please kindly hide my email.I got married to a man whom i thought was the love of my life in July 2013,and October 2014 we got separated as a result of domestic violence which was life threatening.
While with him,my life was at a standstill.No job,no money,no friends.he detests my family as well.I moved on with my life,got myself a small business but i still live with my parents.
Now along the line January this year i reconnected with my old friend whom i told everything about my past and we started dating.I am so at peace with this person,i love him so much,he accepts me the way i am and we are planning on getting married immediately after my divorce.
The big problem now is that i am 7 weeks gone.i told him about it and he is fine with it and ready to marry me.i want to hear from your kind BVs if it is possible to get married traditionally while waiting for my divorce process to scale through.Would it be termed a criminal offence?
Note-i got married to my EX traditionally and white wedding(catholic).
*i cannot file for divorce now because our separation is not up to 2 years.
*i do not have any child with my EX and we have not been in contact since separating.He moved out of the city we got married and changed his number.
Dear bvs what do i do in this case?i need your advise as usual.you can cuss me out and call me names,i just want to hear the truth and Stella ma'm do not hide your red ink please.Thank you.
Wetin i wan talk?My dear,i dont know anything about this,the lawyers in house would have to say anything bout this...I wish you the best Bae!
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO.
CONFUSED AND IN LOVE (?) WITH A MARRIED MAN.
Stella God will bless you
don't just want to bore you, will rather go straight to the point .
Stella I met this man like last year, he is a military general here in Nigeria,
before i met him I was in a bad marriage which was already collapsing.
Fast-forward to just one month after this relationship with the man.
note: when we were not dating he was always there he would advice always and encourage me to try so many methods to keep my home and I applied all of it but it did not work out between me and my ex.
however no regrets right now cos we have parted ways and still on the divorce issue and we are both doing well.
my problem right now is that I feel something for this guy but I don't know what this is, after my separation with my ex I had little money so I got a place but did not have enough to finish , so we kept speaking on the fone he will ask how am doing and sometimes send me money which I use to reject then. so it was his birthday I decided to take him out for dinner . After it he refused to allow me pay and every one went home quietly .
We hardly see but we talk all day, he would call like 10 times a day and
every one around me knows that whenever he call they will just leave saying the call normally takes time.
Suddenly I started growing attached to him. I look forward to his calls and always want to hear from him, bottom line I started liking him, and one faithful day we had dinner again at drumsticks . there I asked if I can kiss him and he said yes , i am sorry but that was the best kiss of my life, I suddenly felt wet, and naturally I have not felt like having sex since my estranged husband.
So fast-forward to recently, he paid me a visit in my house and we found ourselves kissing and I gave him a hard on becos he was screaming and came, we did not have sex.
Right now my problem is that I feel like I am in love with this man, I just want him and yes he is married and has kids and all that but I find my self loving him seriously ,I honestly dont know why but I have never met anyone like this man he is so soft nice and highly disciplined, All the men I know in this world one way or the other want to sleep with you at one point or the other but this man has proved himself deferent and I cant help what I feel. please advice.
Dearest bvs please feel free to insult me, but note I now have a job its not necessarily his money i am after. anyone that is or was in my shoe should please speak...... thank you all!
LET ME READ COMMENTS PLEASE.
When chronicles gho finish???
ReplyDeleteJust negodu!
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
inukwa @ he is highly disciplined...kikiki...#rme
Delete...just as you said this is the point where he has made you fall for him so he can keep you as his mistress, what exactly made him different from "all the men in this world who will want to sleep with you at one point or another"
No sex but he came. Is he a one minute man? Even a one minute man would need to be throbbed.
DeleteLair after u Don go suck his d*ck.
Don't worry stay with him,love him, do it all.
And remain as a gwegwe
P2: It's natural for a woman to be attracted and attached to a man who gives her attention, especially if she is needy and lonely like u are right now.
DeleteLet me ask u: If u were dis man's wife, would u be happy when another woman is doing exactly wot u are doing with her husband? Put urself in d wife's shoes and u know what ur answer will be. Remember d golden rule: Do unto others what u want others do unto u.
Why shld u make urself a tool in destroying another woman's marriage just to satisfy ur selfish desire, ur lust? Why? Why? Why?
Leave him alone, not just for ur sake but for d sake of his wife and kids! U are looking for love in d wrong direction. Look up. That's where true love is.
Always choose righteousness.
...mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com..
There is so much u need to know!
Lol@poster 2...did you just say all guys want to sleep with you at first? Hehe most of these men play their cards right ...they play the perfect gentleman and you see yourself falling 'in lust' .. Madam there will be nothing wrong in this case if the man were to be single but hey ...he is married so look elsewhere for love .. You are obviously lonely... So anything goes for you at this point. Please quit whatever it is you have with him ...it is well with you.
DeleteTGW pls b on the look out. Something tells me the screamer n comer n the hard on receiver may be ur old man
DeleteAsk urself "is my boo getting a boo or is he being booed?""
Watch out for new behaviours.God remains our Cinchers
Poster 1- you cannot build something on nothing. Any form of marriage to another while the statutory Marriage is still valid is null & void. It holds no water.
DeletePoster 2- I wonder why Stella, didnt use her slap, i wont be surprised that she is tired of all this rubbish, concubine, side chic, husband snatching yet justifying talk.
If ur 1st husband was cheating, would you have been happy? If he did, it probably made u sad, yet u do it to another. Disciplined Man my yansh. Y dont know what the word means.
Jobless housewife does not comment on weekends, oga no dey let you rest weekend abi...... *shine teeth
DeletePoster 1 let me tell u what will happen when ur husband files for a divorce: he will make ur current partner, the one u r pregnant for a respondent in the divorce proceeding. He will allege adultery against the two of u. His case of adultery will be made stronger by the fact that u r already carrying the evidence of the act ( or u may have birthed same by that time). The court may likely believe him on that and will award damages against u and ur co respondent in favour of ur husband.
DeleteThe above scenario will play out if ur husband is a trouble maker and wants to stress u. Thank u
Omah Cindy
@poster2 : he is not disiplined, cause if was he won't be floricking with you!
DeleteAshawo, so you want us to break his home and become a second wife!
Heaven will judge you........he will batter your with his military techniques.
Ashawo.....you will turn 2 gwemz 4 life.
Poster1 question like this, should you be asking us or a lawyer? Even if we say marry him you might be committing a crime. So please know the right source to ask your questions
DeletePoster2 wee you kee kwayet dia! Mechionu gi. please stop forming holy. You want to date the soldier so why asking for our opinion?
All I want to say is to point out where you said and I quote 'highly disciplined'. Now, a highly disciplined married man is calling you 10 times a day, sending you money, taking you out on dates. Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that the normal way to approach a girl, a lonely one at that, for a relationship whether legit or not. Please if you don't know what highly disciplined, don't use that phrase on that man again. And btw, you guys fucked, don't deceive bvs with your fairytale story, I'm not buying that 'he came' crap. You fucked each other and now you feel terribly guilty. Anyway, I don't blame you, you just lonely, I'm guessing for you that's enough reason to be sleeping with somebody's husband.
DeleteAll I want to say is to point out where you said and I quote 'highly disciplined'. Now, a highly disciplined married man is calling you 10 times a day, sending you money, taking you out on dates. Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that the normal way to approach a girl, a lonely one at that, for a relationship whether legit or not. Please if you don't know what highly disciplined, don't use that phrase on that man again. And btw, you guys fucked, don't deceive bvs with your fairytale story, I'm not buying that 'he came' crap. You fucked each other and now you feel terribly guilty. Anyway, I don't blame you, you just lonely, I'm guessing for you that's enough reason to be sleeping with somebody's husband.
DeleteAll I want to say is to point out where you said and I quote 'highly disciplined'. Now, a highly disciplined married man is calling you 10 times a day, sending you money, taking you out on dates. Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that the normal way to approach a girl, a lonely one at that, for a relationship whether legit or not. Please if you don't know what highly disciplined, don't use that phrase on that man again. And btw, you guys fucked, don't deceive bvs with your fairytale story, I'm not buying that 'he came' crap. You fucked each other and now you feel terribly guilty. Anyway, I don't blame you, you just lonely, I'm guessing for you that's enough reason to be sleeping with somebody's husband.
DeletePoster2: The guy knows you are lonely and vulnerable. He is not a good guy, because he is taking advantage of your situation. He just de form care. Leave him alone, and in the not too distance time, you will be glad you did.
DeletePoster 1.... Any marriage contracted while a statutory marriage is still in existence is void abinitio. If you can proof domestic violence well in court, the court will grant a divorce even of your marriage isn't 2 years yet. Brief a counsel about your matter. I pray God will help you.
DeletePoster number 2. Married man???? Really! !! The thunder that will fire you is doing jogging! Ode!
DeletePortable, it's frolicking not floricking :*
DeletePortable, it's frolicking not floricking :*
DeletePoster 1 Na wa but really why take in for a man who hasn't married you properly, I don't get women please. You knew you can't divorce now blah blah but spread your legs like an eagle and took in what If your new bobo rejected it you'd be back to square one. One wwould think you must have learnt your lesson from the first one. Anyway all the best
ReplyDeletePoster 2 leave someone's husband alone madam giving hard ons and making men come since 1900.
Rotflmao @spread your legs like eagle.
Delete#WhiteDiamondOut
Lol!
DeleteIt's cum MA.
DeleteI hope poster number 2 listens to you. By the way, did she say he is very disciplined? I guess he isn't as disciplined when it comes to being faithful to his wife.
DeleteP1 why rush into another marriage when one isn't even over yet. Please be patient.
DeleteP2 see your mouth like "we found ourselves kissing and I gave him a hard on" bla bla bla. You have broken your own marriage and you now want to break another woman's home. Anuofia. The man sef na idiot, men always thinking with their penis. Later someone will tell me his wife is to blame cos she's doing something wrong. You need advice abi? Leave that married man alone and go fix your miserable life. Gerrarrahia plsss.
Lmao @ spread your legs like an eagle
DeletePoster 2 is simply a husband snatcher. So you can't go and look for single men to talk to? You want to break someone's home? You will have kids someday and believe me, Karma is a damn crazy b*tch
DeletePoster one you need to get a divorce before being remarried it is illegal and called bigamy.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you can't be in love with a married man you are in lust and lonely simple. Leave him alone, go cold turkey stop calling him or leaning on him, move on please
Poster 2 is just a wicked sombory*
DeleteShut up jor... It happens. Sanctimonious mofos
DeletePoster 2, if it was a lady that destroyed ur narriage u would be here crying, wolf now u want yo destroy any mans home. Biko na u use ur hand scatter ur marriage dont urse ur scatter scatter spirit in another man's marriage. Mbok stay on ur lane
DeleteNope not true. She can get married traditionally. As far as her bride price been returned. She can get married traditionally. Not church sha or court.
DeletePoster 2. No the man isn't disciplined. If nt he wldnt leave hs wife nd children nd cme cutting shows with u. U sef receive slap.
Whether pride prize has been returned or not it will still be bigamy!!! immediately you have a legal white wedding it over ides the traditional marriage so in the eyes of the law until and unless you divorce in court you are still legally married and any marriage contracted after that is null and void and you will be guilty of bigamy which is a criminal offence.
DeletePoster 1,if u only got married @da Catholic Church then u re fine cos Catholic churches don't grant divorce...and if u dint ve a court marriage @ll ,then the court will ve no business dissolving ur marriage legally...let ur ppl return ur former hubby,s bride price
DeleteMake I siddon read am well with the popcorn. Wld be back
ReplyDeleteHmmmn!!! Tough chronicles!!
DeletePoster 1 : just read comments you would learn
Poster 2: u must be battling with something serious in your life. Leave someone's husband o! U are nursing feelings with another man's husband, breaking someone's home. Ordinary boyfriend I can't share talk more of sharing husband! I pray the wife catches up with u and ur wicked act then u wld be sorry for urself. Leave him alone o! Karishika sucking the poor man nd giving him hard on!
I can't deal with this. Shameless woman!!!
Poster 1,it seems u ve an itchy Toto.
ReplyDeleteIdiot
DeleteGess dat word T**o always gives u hard on dat males u scream like d 2nd poster's general..... Get a life.....will u?
DeleteThese chronicles are really strong. I'd read comments ....
ReplyDeletePoster one, congratulations on ur pregnancy and sorry u suffered DV. Not having ur husband's number is immaterial. Let ur family return his brideprice, very important. after that, let ur babydaddy assuming he wants to marry u...go and pay ur brideprice (not traditional marriage ooo...just bride priice and d statutory traditional requirements, just btw few family members). den rest and hav ur baby. Wen eva ur diivorce comes tru, u can den proceed wwit ur trad and white or anyhow u want it
DeleteToday's posters you two need serious reality slaps
DeletePoster 1. It's ok you guys are getting divorced. But couldn't you wait to be finalised with the divorce before fucking? As in doing it without protection? Hian. Don't know what to tell you. Let's just home the guy ain't playing.
Poster 2: You, why is it that girls like to dey do anyhow? Eh? Babe, forget how nice he has been. He's with you for a short time exercise. Why did you start confiding in him? Don't you have mates? Mtchew! If you like be the mumu and don't just walk away, ok?
In general, babes abeg let's be careful. It's easy to fall prey with your emotions when you see the man you think is caring. Especially married men. Don't give the devil a chance to mess with your sense and don't give any man a chance to mess with your punani. Guard your emotions and privstes jealously and if u must discuss it, please be discreet who you do so with.
Hmmmmmm,don't know what to say,but am sure bv's will surely give u d best advice.
ReplyDelete@Poster 1 it is true that your marriage is less than two years but there are cases where the court will grant a divorce even where the marriage is less than 2 years. You will need to show that your marriage has broken down irretrievably. If your life was in danger while with your 'ex' all you need is prove it to the court.
ReplyDeletePoster 2-
ReplyDeleteYou are just looking for closure.
Leave another woman's husband alone.
If I call you ho now....
Mtchewww!
Why am I holding it sef? Ashawo-oshi!
Homebreaker.
Leave another woman's husband alone!
Poster 1-
I don't know if it's a crime but I understand that you do not want to have your baby outside wedlock.
I will suggest you go ahead with the trad but make it a quiet affair while you finalize your divorce with ur ex.
All the best.
I wonder what kind of advice poster 2 wants eh, what is your problem? Don't fall in love with another woman's husband eh! he won't leave her for you!!! MUMU! she doesn't even need his money! Military man for that matter, you think you are the only side chick? mtcheewww
DeleteYou know the husband is partly at fault.
Delete"Can I kiss you? Yes"
What rubbish.
These men ain't loyal.
I love ur comment mystique!
DeleteThe yeye man has been calling her 10 times a day and opening a well of emotions. Now the lonely girl is involved and she's a ho?
Poster 2- you are just like the numerous foolish women who walk the earth. I don't know if it's disgust or pity I feel for you. But ur post is dripping with so much stupidity I don't know what advice to give you. Mscheeew! Both you and that disgraceful shameless man are a pair of irritants.
Gbamest!! Chikito iji ya. Why would you fall in love with a married man? It's sheer stupidity and goes far to show how foolish you are. I can understand you need help and you're having an affair with him but falling in love is wickedness. What is your real reason for sending in this narrative? You can keep giving him hardons and keep collecting his money but when a faithful wife goes down on her knees for your sake HEAVEN will open and LEGION OF ANGELS will fight her battle. Amen!
DeleteChikito do you have a PhD in cursing? You seem to be very good at it. Lol
DeleteAm surprised you cannot see and reason beyond u @ Poster 2 .
DeleteFor one the man just wants to use you to ease tension , and stupidity you think he is for real , he is a General in the Nigerian army with all the pecks that Na wetin hmmmmm am sure he has like 2 of you side chick hanging somewhere .
Why are u deluding your self that there is a relationship cause he has a hard on and gives you money hmmm dat Na wetin let his wife show up now and you'd see how he will deny you .
Don't think you have anything going on there ole oloriburuku somebody you too wan belong in your dreams .
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteThank God you have moved on...
Tell your people to return the bride price he paid on your head and you are good to go...
Enjoy jare...
Poster 2,
I will insult your foolish self...
As crazy as I am,I can't keep a married man as my side bobo...
So you want to break someone's home abi? No wonder why your ex left you because you are a terrible woman...
You even reject his money...meaning you want to completely snatch him from his wife...
May thunder fire you there...
Idiot!...
Poster 2 is a very heartless mammal!
DeleteForget the story she narrated. The bottom line is you lost your husband and now want what belongs to another!
That's greed! Go anf fix ur home, get all the kisses you crave for and give your husband the hand job he néeds!
Rapu di onye ozo tu pu kitipa ga rachapu gi ike
Swear u av never dated a married man. Ode oshi
DeleteThe Anon that keeps saying rubbish like pple r forming sanctimonious n shit. Not every1 is like u. That u sleep with married men doesnt make it right.
DeleteMany i repeat Many Ladies have not slept with a married man before. Many pple have principles that guide their life, its not just religion but what is bad is bad.
Ask God for 4giveness n stop trying to make it seem normal to sleep with married men. It is very bad.
@giftedhands...so funny
Delete@ poster2 May God have mercy on your dirty soul... Stella wuye Korkus dog ohhh
ReplyDelete@sHB
Kaii.. *dog* should read douhhhh na wah for autocorrect.
DeletePoster, it seems u ve no control over ur Toto.
ReplyDeleteU didn't mention how many he had gbensh ur something.Are u sure ur marriage did not collapse bcos of dis soja man?
Ok.
Tell him to make u his second wife.
Another stupid comment as usual. I guess ur brain is full of spermatozoa.
DeleteShut up!
DeleteHe didn't say anything wrong.
Potable viv the Fuckgirl. If you like menstruate under my comment
DeleteChai!
ReplyDeleteAm wet!
I love d naratives today,not boring at all.
Poster 1,u shld marry d current guy already,divorce can come later,remember,opportunity comes but once,where will u see dat first useless man to do d divorce with?
Poster 2,both of u shld fuck and forget him,he has a home,forget love oh! U will find ur own man.
You're wet.Olosho, drop your number under my comment
DeletePEOPLE REALLY GET WAHALA FOR THIS WORLD
DeleteMr anonymous, had it been that the lady (poster 1) is ur sister, will give her that kind of advice? Answer me sharperly.
DeleteDid someone poor water on you?@you are wet.
DeleteAt anon 080 GOTOHELL
Delete08028318815 dats my numb
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteSo you couldn't wait until your divorce has been finalized before you decided to indulge your itching tohtoh?
Why did you decide to get pregnant sef? What happened to condoms?
You happened to escape from a case of DV, ayet still, you hurriedly took in for the next guy that whistled at you. Tomorrow, you will send in another chronicle. What's the hurry for? Why the desperation? I must marry by force syndrome.
Better be truthful about what dissolved your 1st marriage, cos I'm beginning to suspect you.
Poster 2
Nawah.
"He screamed and came".
Any need for the details?
I was wet, I have never been kissed, bla bla bla. Mscheeeeeew!!
I'm sure he's a 1-minute man. Lol
TGW, coman collect ur horseband from poster2
DeleteUr comments r sometimes annoying. Take it easy abeg
DeleteYa'll motherfuckers need to get a life, okay? Nonsense!
DeleteWhat's d meaning of that @oliviasilk
DeleteNdi married women,
Even d one begging for jobs for her mechanic hubby(,calling it heavy duty servicing) will come out n talk too
I pity d single people around u, u ll push them into what dey don't know.
Idiot
I just hope TGW you refering to is not Titi o. Because if it is, then I have stories to tell. Hmmm. These soja men no get heart at allllllll
DeletePoster 2 please leve anoda woman's husband alone abeg! Poster 1 has ur ex huby returned ur brideprice yet???
ReplyDeletePoster one...clearly ur ex husband doesn't care if u file for divorce or not, he changed cities n phone numbers means he's moved on...so don't wait for any two fucking yes, just file it.
ReplyDeletePoster two, is d man ready to marry u as second wife? Or since ur marriage packed up, u wanna pack his up too?...sha una fit unaselves....lets see who makes it out unscathed.
Even if he is ready to wife her as wife NO 54, she is still a Hoooooooooo
DeleteHelooo narrators
ReplyDelete1:thatks what happens when u don't get sense alongside money. When u have money,u begin 2 think right. U r not yet thru wif d divorce process let alone having time for emotional healing,u've jumped 2 d next guy all cos u dnt want 2 suffer alone as a single...u needed a man dat will help u foot all necessary bills while u stay at home and grow fat. My dear get sense o!
2:I was enjoying ur narrative till I got 2 d part where u said d guy is a married man. See let me tell ya all married men that chase anytin in skirt are always sweet,give money(free),spoil u silly,climax ten times in 2mins...romantic too but they can neva leave their wife for u home breaker! Oh did I hear u say he is an ARMY GENERAL???hope is not our very own general's nwunye....kikikikiki!!!!
He is an army guy sef...they are very promiscuous....eat him while he lasts!
I will read comments.
ReplyDeleteStella pls serve me N200 popcorn.....eemmm,what can I use to wash it down ooooo....no kunu or Zobo??
ReplyDeleteI get my own issues,make I think ofmy own life,ive been eating indomie for the past 7days,cos I no get money.thats enough to think about.
God will fix you posters,temi tomi leru
Be thankful. Others are drinking garri.
DeleteWhy don't you thank God instead of complaining and see if he Wudnt do wonders.
DeleteI actually laughed Out loud
DeletePoster 1, make use of the free legal services advertised here sometimes back. Poster 2, put yourself in his wife's shoes and look for your answer there. Your marriage crashed, don't crash another woman's.
ReplyDeletePoster one:
ReplyDeleteBigamy is a crime.
You can't be married to one man and still go ahead with a marriage to another.
Be patient and be officially divorced first ,to avoid problems arising from somewhere.
I'm guessing it's because you're pregnant.
Well, you would have tied your legs and waited, but oh well.
Poster two:
I was never in your shoes,i'm not in your shoes nor will ever be,cos you obviously wore those shoes with your eyes open, but I want to understand something.
What's the use of justifying your actions by saying that you're not after his money?
So,you didn't see any single or divorced man to 'fall in love' with?
You of all people, coming out of a broken marriage, is supposed to know how painful and traumatic it is.
And here you are, wanting to wreck another woman 's home.
May God have mercy on your soul.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Whitey..... lemme rest here jor
DeletePoster 2's case is very annoying. The man probably has a good mind but she has succeeded in throwing her looooooosed self on him. Imagine her saying " I asked if I could kiss him".
Who does that?
Dignity.........Zero
Self control....... Zero
Self discipline......Zero
Fear of God.......Zero
Common sense.......None in sight.
These Soldiers that can pursue women for Africa?
You think you are the only one in his book?
Better give yourself sense and go and make up with your husband.
If you like Keep pursuing Oga General till his wife gets you and gives you the acid bath you deserve.
You go pay for perching o.
DeleteLol @acid bath you deserve.
Many clowns on SDK
#WhiteDiamondOut
White diamonds you are very correct , which Army man does not chase women , she must have lured him but he too is used to them throwing themselves @ him . No bi Solidier man with green uniform well starched and he has a driver and orderly aaa beg
DeleteI am just imagining my friends husbands based in Abuja all lonely and one babe is dying for him chai Na easy one bi that .
But never will he leave his wife for u stop dreaming aaa beg he is been doing this since he was a Captain .
Please enough with these 'I'm-in-love-with-a-married-man' sob stories. Sorry but I can't ever have sympathy for anyone who decides to disrupt another's home. Even if the man has proven himself to be irresponsible you don't have to join him in his irresponsibility and encourage his foolishness.
ReplyDeleteYeah right its not about his money, can you fall for a married bricklayer, driver or mechanic?
"And yes, he is married with kids and has kids all that..."
Therein lies your answer.
Gbam!
DeleteSpot on.
DeleteSeriously, and they expect us to enclose them o.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Poster1: I don't know
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you are in lust not in love. My 2 cents quote me anywhere.
Poster one, no idea, infact I hv a sister in same boat. I go follow read comment. Poster 2, u Bette remove ur hand there, husband snatcher, d wife of dt man wud fight u & draw blood.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Please leave another woman's husband alone!! I dont care what you think or feel, just cut all communication with him and let him face his family.
ReplyDeletePsoter 1, I think your family should return the bride price your ex paid, that way, you guys are seperated traditionally atleast while you wait for the divorce. Good luck
Poster1--- i dnt understand what u meant whilst asking if ts a criminal offence.
ReplyDeletePoster2--- habaaaa,leave some1 elses husband alone na.
Cos urs crashed,u wana help in crashing another huh?
Don't be deceived though,if u like fall in luv a hundredth time,DUDE won't leave his wife 4u.
He might just be using u to seek solace.
U kissed him,he had a hard one and came just by kissing Hahaha seems 2me like a one minute man.
Elena, Oga General neither asked her out nor said he was leaving his wife for her. Na our akunna madam carry her mouth go offer the oga "kisses"
DeleteLmao chai u funny no be small
DeleteP1, I think you can since your ex moved on. P2, Love is a beautiful thing and I understand what you feel but don't you think once he sleeps with you that feeling might just fly away, he might feel same for you but doesn't want commitment because he is a happily married man. Why not move on, there are one thousand and one divorced, single, widowed men out there looking for us.
ReplyDeleteShare pop corn give me ooo Frau Kork!! I wan read comments too.. lol
ReplyDelete7weeks gone meaning belle right? You have not officially separated, you are already pregnant and considering traditional marriage to another? Your baggage is already full. Better seek your husband and do the needful first before entering another kaya. One step at a time.
ReplyDeletespace booked.... brb
ReplyDeleteok..@ poster2 i am pretty sure no one has ever been in ur greedy position before.. u stink of immorality.. i am pretty sure this same attitude of always aiming for the forbidden fruits that crashed ur first marriage.. oloshi ni é, especially the part where u reiterated that u are not on the man's case because of his money, plus where u also said u have not met a man like him before, because every other men that came for u always wants sex at one point or the other.. if this is not about the money, what are you doing with a happily married army general? and no2 if he doesn't want sex with u like the other men, how come u were able to give him a hard-on and made him even ejaculate.. just by kissing him?
Deleteplease and please again, just because u failed and could not keep ur marriage does not give u d audacity to prey on other people's marriage.. u can decieve urself as much as u want.. but remember u can only fool some people sometimes but not everybody all the time.. just go fuck yourself..
@poster1 u don carry belle.. and e never reach 2yrs wey u and ur ex separate? mind u u're not officially divorced o! any.. thats none of my business.. just have ur baby quietly.. and wait till u officially get ur divorce certificate before u attempt any other wedding.. just lay low for now.. bye
Hmmm!i await comments...dis is serious.
ReplyDelete@ Poster1, I don't Have Anything 2 Tel U, na ur Body do anything U Like, 7weeks gone right?
ReplyDeletePoster2, The Simple Truth Is That U Know What U Feel, U R A woman and U No who Ur Heart Beats For, nice guys are hard 2 get but Believe Me they Are Everywhere, For The Fact That Ur General Is Married With Kids Please And Please Kill that Spirit Of Feelns U Have For Him, Just Let go, A Single Nice Guy Will Come Knockin... My2Cent
Helooo narrators
ReplyDelete1:thatks what happens when u don't get sense alongside money. When u have money,u begin 2 think right. U r not yet thru wif d divorce process let alone having time for emotional healing,u've jumped 2 d next guy all cos u dnt want 2 suffer alone as a single...u needed a man dat will help u foot all necessary bills while u stay at home and grow fat. My dear get sense o!
2:I was enjoying ur narrative till I got 2 d part where u said d guy is a married man. See let me tell ya all married men that chase anytin in skirt are always sweet,give money(free),spoil u silly,climax ten times in 2mins...romantic too but they can neva leave their wife for u home breaker! Oh did I hear u say he is an ARMY GENERAL???hope is not our very own general's nwunye....kikikikiki!!!!
He is an army guy sef...they are very promiscuous....eat him while he lasts!
Helooo narrators
ReplyDelete1:thatks what happens when u don't get sense alongside money. When u have money,u begin 2 think right. U r not yet thru wif d divorce process let alone having time for emotional healing,u've jumped 2 d next guy all cos u dnt want 2 suffer alone as a single...u needed a man dat will help u foot all necessary bills while u stay at home and grow fat. My dear get sense o!
2:I was enjoying ur narrative till I got 2 d part where u said d guy is a married man. See let me tell ya all married men that chase anytin in skirt are always sweet,give money(free),spoil u silly,climax ten times in 2mins...romantic too but they can neva leave their wife for u home breaker! Oh did I hear u say he is an ARMY GENERAL???hope is not our very own general's nwunye....kikikikiki!!!!
He is an army guy sef...they are very promiscuous....eat him while he lasts!
@ P2: Stella Kork...pls borrow me ur slap lemme reset this silly girl's brain. As u big reach, u can't differentiate between love & infatuation? Damn! U can kip fuckin him just to kip body & soul together...anyhow, man must work. No P. But don't insult our sensibilities by telling us u're in luv.
ReplyDelete@ P2: Barristers take over!
@ P2: Stella Kork...pls borrow me ur slap lemme reset this silly girl's brain. As u big reach, u can't differentiate between love & infatuation? Damn! U can kip fuckin him just to kip body & soul together...anyhow, man must work. No P. But don't insult our sensibilities by telling us u're in luv.
ReplyDelete@ P2: Barristers take over!
Sorry guys...I forgot my signature move...
Ghanaman signing out!
Pst1. If your ex hubby is cool with d divorce then I don't see why u can't go ahead with the trad. Pst2 Goan find your own hubby. akwuna oku
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....@ Poster one! I honestly feel u should be done with ur first marriage. Maybe it's me, but I sometimes imagine how people who have seen the really down sides of marriage manage to 'yearn' for another marriage so soon? #phew! I'm yet to understand!
ReplyDelete@Poster two,,,, did u say the married man is 'disciplined'??? *smiles* get a grip of urself, cos as it is, that man wouldn't get married to u. By now, u should be guarding ur heart jealously!
Poster 2, stolen meat is often the sweetest. If roles were reversed how would you feel?
DeleteWhen women like you are bathed in acid, I don't blink an eye.
Poster 1. What's the rush? You are not divorced from the 1st and pregnant for the other. Lolllll I know nothing of the law. My Conscience is my only referee. As you lay your bed, lie very well on it.
How can a man cheating on his wife be disciplined?@p2. LMAO@U.😊
ReplyDeletelmao...stewpeed poster
DeleteI "wander" oh
DeleteNo mind am.
DeleteMe want some pop corn
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you're on the rebound! You don't love the man, you're just trying to validate your womanhood after a bad marriage, it's a psychological defencce the sunconciuos uses,. Leave the man alone let him face his family, dont add home wrecksr to your name please.
ReplyDeleteALL I SEE HERE IS ADULTERY AND I AM NOT THE JUDGE OF ADULTERY; SEE THE JUDGE HERE;
ReplyDeleteMarriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Heb. 13:12
Ladies be wise!
Poster 1, please go to the court and. Seek legal advice,u don't have issue ur man is ur man. Poster 2. He is disciplined and u kissed and gave him hard on,and he even came (hope he is not a one munite man),na wa for highly disciplined man. Please leave him alone,he is married,if he was such a nice and disciplined person he won't be cheating,and if u stay with him it's just a matter of time before he starts liking anoda girl. Take stella's slap *poah*,to reset ur brain.
ReplyDeletePoster two,
ReplyDeleteA highly disciplined man who is married with kids , won't kiss you. Or think of having erection .
Anyway, I ammgkad that some ladies still de naija way de ask man if dem fit kiss am...
Thank You my dear. Very stupid randy man
DeletePoster two,
ReplyDeleteA highly disciplined man who is married with kids , won't kiss you. Or think of having erection .
Anyway, I am glad that some ladies still de naija way de ask man if dem fit kiss am...
Mmmmh, with the desperation of these ladies to get married especially Poster 2 . . . Madam, you want to scarrer another woman's marriage? Anyway sha, ibi like say your pant is on fire and water self. This one wey you dey get wet as you dey kiss another madam soldier husband, the he goat wey go knack horn, make im head strong oooo . You look like person wey go go medium (babalawo, dibia or warever you like call am) to "package this man". Madam, know that Satan does not give any good gift, only God fit gif you husbandi. But before you decide, make I tell you one tori wey my friend tell me;
ReplyDeleteEU*** WENT TO A MEDIUM (WITCH DOCTOR, "babalawo etc.) with two requests; give Jide (not real name) who dumped her for another lady after 5 years of courtship a shameful death. 2. Prepare a charm for her to "tie down" any rich man of her choice ... EU was given the conditions to get her request; she must stay in the temple overnight and sleep with "the man of the temple". She thought to see the haggard-looking priest of the medium but no, the man that came to EU in the cool of the evening was a charming, tall, study young man whom EU began to lust after even before he touched her. She undressed and spread her legs immediately and wished that the man will be her catch. It was a passionate xx the type she hadn't had all her entire life; she had orgasm every quarter of an hour for whole night. It was in the morning that the "man of the medium" dressed to go and while EU cried that she would be missing him, he turned into a huge hissing serpent and crawled out of the temple.
EU got more than her request, Jide got mad by the time she reached home and died after 3 weeks; killed by a speeding vehicle. Jide's new lady was bitten by a snake and she died and EU tied down a politician that doles out money like a dollar ATM. But then the sorrows began. Her vag**a was hissing just like the snake man that had sex with her . . . sleep vanished during the nights . . .she was no longer seeing her menses as usual . . . it could be once in 6 months and with intense pain that usually landed her in the hospital. Every man that sees her wants to have x with her . . . including close relatives etc. etc.
In the hospitals the doctors were confused and dumbfounded
. It took 7 days fasting within the mission to deliver EU (of which she joined the fast on the 3rd day and did four days). She was asked the question from knowledge, the one she hid . . . "and the snake man" comes for sex every night . . .?" She answered in the affirmative; the reason for the sleepless nights. And the second question; "are you ready to receive the crucified and resurrected one who have paid the price for your freedom"; Again she agreed and that was actually when the prayers began.
When folks (ladies especially) hurt, Satan is beckoning with the "solution" . . . forgiveness and security in Christ is the only guarantee of healing.
"The sorrows of them will multiply who seek after other gods . . ."
Lady Igo?
DeleteHmmmmmm....
DeleteAnd the moral of the story is......
DeleteWhich nollywood movie is this?...
DeleteHmmmnnn!!!!
DeletePls can you direct me to where eu went. I need to deal with my ex. I don't want the one dt will make the man to like me o. Just to deal with the stupid cow who murdered love in my heart.
DeleteWhat's the title of the movie please I need to watch the concluding part..... Hope my fav actors played those roles
DeleteLmaooo @ "can you direct me to where EU went. I need to deal with my ex"
DeleteDidn't you read the repercussion?
Lmaooooo. Wahala de oh!
BTW this is so Lady Igo's style of writing.
How I miss Lady Igo.
DeleteLol at deal with the stupid cow....
DeleteWonder y women jump into new relationships immediately after a divorce u guys must knw dat at dat stag,u r very vulnerable and as such,can mk mistakes again pls learn to tk time to heal b4 considering another.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,how will ur parents collect another bride price wen d 1st one is still wt them,I tink they shld return d previous 1st mayb tradition can b done 1st
Poster2, dnt knw knw u want to wreck another woman's home? Ur own didn't wrk doesn't mean another person 's own shouldn't. D guy is sweet so also his wife n kids sees it but u In d pic,he might bcm bitter to them. Dnt get me wrong but pls keep ur feelings n stay away frm him. Let him share his affectn wt his wife n kids alone pls
Narrative one, in my place what they call alekwu will kill you instantly when the man's money is still on ur head. Marriage of nowadays sha, father Lord give us our own rightful husband and what doesn't belong to us should stay far from us Amen
ReplyDeleteYou are on point oyinem. Na wa o, falling in and out of love as if it's a swimming lesson
DeletePls alekwu is not wat u Otukpa pole shud be proud to showoff in public ! Pls
DeletePoster2:u jst "kissed him,gave him a hard-on and he came".....oh wow!..*in Usher's voice,she is such a good kisseeeer!....liar leave somebody's husband alone!...home wrecker!...
ReplyDeleteLmao
DeleteHaaaa I read narrative 2 with my mouth wide open!!!! What are you doing with a married man. Please end things with him and set the record straight. Be diplomatic about it. Don't be a home breaker. The guy is probably just using you to pass time, u can't steal him from the wife and kids. Fear God o Hian!!!!!
ReplyDelete---Pesticide
Poster2 you don't want his money but you want his love in other words you want to brake his home because that thing you want is what is holding his family together. In plain words you are simply demonic and wicked. As for him being disciplined he is not, he is just as bad as the rest. No disciplined man would do what he is doing.
ReplyDeleteEverybody choping life, no lele keep the good work Stella.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 be ready for insult from this frustrated wives oo.
ReplyDeleteMust someone be frustrated b4 they say d truth? Oh I see, u are obviously frustrated
DeleteAnother Ho giving moral support to her colleague. If u have sense, u will know that even single ladies wishing for a happy home in future will rebuke the stupid act. U will soon be a frustrated wife.
DeleteA married man is a married man shikena!
ReplyDeleteIf he wants to be with you, let him divorce his wife.
If not, you can not justify your actions with whatever excuse and tales of affection you are spinning here.
You marriage wasn't successful and now you want to break up someone else's own.
Stella why didn't you SLAP poster 2 to reset her fish brain to leave married man alone. Smh!
ReplyDeleteYetinde says LMAO,stella yii o daa o,chai,see dilemaa,N1-i'm nt a lawyer,dem go soon come give u their opinion,N2-my dear,na wahala u wan dey drag soo,if oga madam find out say u dey chop her food,na gobe be dat and pls dnt assume for a man & moreover he's jst taking his time b4 him go shag u proper cos he wants u to fall for him wella so u won't be able to back out and pray to God too,Yaa Allahu,Yaa Iyasee na lagos slang be dat,wait a minute why are the 2 narratives divorced ladies,quite scary cos I'm nt married,
ReplyDeleteForgive me but I'm always curious about BVs who send in their stories, don't they have relatives, friends, pastors, imams, mentors, etc they can go to for help. Relying on advice from a bunch of anonymous strangers who don't really know you or the full story, does it really help. Just wondering
ReplyDeleteMost people are too embarrassed to share their stories with friends and family. The anonymity of the Internet makes it easy to share your pain. There are some things I'd never share with my family, if I wanted counselling, I'll see a shrink. The problem with bringing issues to blogs is that you will receive all sorts of advice, from the ridiculous to the sublime. But your dignity is probably left intact, because you remain unknown.
DeleteMy 2 cents.
Dr S.
poster 2: you mean your marraige crumbled and you wana ruin anothers'? i salute you! you said he is highly disciplined? that is just an insult to disciplined men because no disciplined man will hang in the flanks waiting to take over from where your hubby stopped.
ReplyDeletelet me just tell you this.if you do not leave someones husband alone,you will encounter a major disgrace in your life that you will wish death on yourself..girls like you disgust me,you give single girls bad names..fool! you are asking if you can kiss him,to lure him in right? how wont you love him even if he stinks,e get money na.lazy gold digging hoe!
he is the best you met,yet you forget that his wife made an enviable man out of him,somewhere which you failed! yes you failed and wana come eat from anothers' sweat..liar! thief! hoe!
As for that man,may God help him see who you are before he looses himself.he was just a friend but from ur write up,u kept giving him signals and luring him in innocently..whore!
WOMEN THE BANE OF WOMEN!
From her writeup..we know the kind of person you are. That is why guys should stay away from runz girls..imagine u want to break another woman's home after destroying yours with infedility. God will punish you and you will never find peace. You were communicating with a married man when you were still in your husband house. Cheap hoe!..on behalf of the man's wife, i decree that you will have no peace in your life till you leave her husband for her..prostitute
DeleteThe best comment so far, spot on gal. After the wife must have groomed him into a man of her dream, u now find him attractive n loving, wat u failed to do in ur own marriage! May heaven send bitterness to ur soul aKwuna!
DeleteKai they are all complicated, stella please I need popcorn for 10 naira, biko put plenty jara for me oooooh, I will sit cross my leg and read comments.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, bomb dey ur head.
ReplyDeleteSee her mouth like E is highly disciplined.
He is disciplined, and he is married Man, calling a woman dat isn't his wife n hanging out with her, kissing her n visiting her at home.
Poster 2, may u not find rest in any rltionshp u find ursef in.
And with d way u are going I pray u land ursef an irresponsible man.
A man with whom ur shoulders wld not only bear ur own burden but wld also be weary from his own burden.
What's wrong with u? UV bin tru troubles in ur first marriage, n yet av no sympathy for a fellow woman like u, u com dey ask us, say u dey in love with a taken man, so wat shld u do? Idiot !
Plus d stupid irresponsible men wey full nigeria, aeon oniranu gbogbo.
Please does anyone know a good and classy salon in Warri? Pls help a sister out.
ReplyDeleteYetinde says LMAO,stella yii o daa o,chai,see dilemaa,N1-i'm nt a lawyer,dem go soon come give u their opinion,N2-my dear,na wahala u wan dey drag soo,if oga madam find out say u dey chop her food,na gobe be dat and pls dnt assume for a man & moreover he's jst taking his time b4 him go shag u proper cos he wants u to fall for him wella so u won't be able to back out and pray to God too,Yaa Allahu,Yaa Iyasee na lagos slang be dat,wait a minute why are the 2 narratives divorced ladies,quite scary cos I'm nt married,
ReplyDeleteP2
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note, when I was younger(teenager), I felt life as an adult was soo complex and adults were super natural beings who needed extra skills to solve their own problems.
Now, as an adult I have only gotten to realise that life is just life.....the major difference is our interpretations and capability to take decisions while owning up to face the truth and acknowledge reality.
Dear, this isn't rocket science.....Humans are social beings and if uv been in constant communication with a man for over this period coupled with his caring nature.....its only natural for you to feel the way you feel.....If u repeat this same scenario with a different man....you'll still feel this same way or even more depending on the perks attached to his persona. Afterall you loved your ex-husband enough to get married to him only that it ddnt work out.
So please stop this silly act and let that family man be.....He hasn't pushed for any relationship and probably is going through mid-life plus career related emotions cos some military men suffer emotional swings as they advance in age which induces spells of softness. I repeat, let that man be.....'some' women need to understand that you don't always get emotional when a man decides to help.....If it were a female would you do same n start generating emotions ???
A man can help you go through a phase in life, that doesn't mean you must make a relationship out of every of such. Uv gotten a new life after your divorce; a new house, job etc.....face your new life and pray for God who is already turning your story around to bless you with a man who you would call yours.....Donot put asunder in the home of a man who helped you at your time of need....see him as the helper who was sent your way by God.
Li-yon Vls.
Poster 1: u are not in immediate danger of committing a criminal offence because u didn't do a court wedding but if your useless ex paid your brideprice, then it should be returned to his family ASAP while u immediately file for a divorce. Enjoy your new man and your preggie. U gat nothing to be afraid of.
ReplyDelete@poster 2 you are a very wicked woman . He's disciplined indeed yet he's frolicking with you behind his wife. You are a thief and an adulterous woman. God will judge you
ReplyDeleteMilitary men can luv for Africa. Sha be careful cos once another woman takes their attention they will give her the same attention u were given. But they do know how to make a woman head over heels in luv
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Your family needs to return the Bride price ASAP!! The child you are carrying belongs to your ex Husband so long as that dowry is not returned. Secondly, once dowry is returned, go to Court. Only then, can you begin your new marriage prep. You better ask your family questions because where l come from, the in coming family cannot pay dowry when a woman is pregnant. Good luck!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2. I have a strong feeling you are talking about my Uncle in Abuja. Just wait till his wife catches you. I will join her in beating you up. You are a big fool. You think because you smooched him and he came means he loves you? While, he is kind, quiet, etc. He will never leave his wife for YOU. He calls you because he is retired and has time on his hands. Wait till you get caught.
Hahaha I love this comment. P2. All I can say is "FEAR GOD"or whatever you serve,if u like continue with your side chicism,after reading all these advise.na you sabi. P1: dnt worry urself, do the needful.
DeleteBvs advise Liz Gavy to leave my husband alone. Am not like the one she got pregnant for her husband and got away with it. I will go to the ends of the earth to destroy you because I can see your mission in life is to wreck marriages, well this time you have met your match. You will regret the day you laid eyes on my husband. You are on instagram lamenting about someone else's husband. in my case, when am done with you, youwill not be alive to lament on instragram.
DeletePoster 1...you don't need to file for divorce, simply file for annulment of marriage. Annulment of marriage is different from divorce, it means the marriage never happened.
ReplyDeleteYou can file for annulment on the basis that the marriage was never consummated.
You can also file for annulment on the grounds that you are pregnant for another man and not your husband.
You can file for annulment on the grounds that your husband has a termimal disease and did not let you know.
You can file for annulment of marriage just find a suitable ground and move on. Also return the mans bride price. Face your new husband.
Poster2. ..why will your marriage work out when an outsider is blowing sweet words into your ears. He was actually telling you to make your marriage work, isn't he such a darling.
Also, he is disciplined and he is cheating on his wife with you?
Enough of the bashing, it is so easy to tell single ladies to leave married men alone but what about married men who won't leave single ladies alone. Why can't your husbands leave single ladies and your fellow married women alone? The way they beg for pussy is amazing. You tell them you are in a relationship and that does not even bother them one bit. Begging like kids that are deprived of candy ready to offer their kids school fees. Its appalling.
It seems their wives have given up and their battle is now single girls. How many single girls will say no? Your husbands are your problem.
Do you expect this lonely woman to say no to this married man. My dear, this man will not leave his wife for you. Save for the rainy day.
Don't fall in love with him, he is taken.
XOXO MYSTERY
N1, you can go ahead with traditional rite after returning his bride price. You will have to wait for court or church until after the divorce.
ReplyDeleteN2, you are simply an Ashana. You kissed the man first, odiegwu!
Ashawo akunakuna. Leave the man alone and don't scatter his marriage. Olosho oshi.
I'm really tired about this issue of ' I like this, I drop this, I take that". Seriously I don't understand y you ladies hop from one married man or guy to another. Poster 1: before you went into marriage with the first man, didnt you have enough time for courtship or you didnt study the signs as they came? I think you have a problem you needed God's intervention, cos it's as if you are blindfolded.
ReplyDeletePoster2: you had better not try it, leave the man alone and let him have a fulfilled home. If I may ask do you really want a fulfilled home? Can you tolerate such if you were in the shoes of the army's wife? Some ladies on this blog need counsel and spiritual intervention. revivedolugbenga.blogspot.com. For relationship advice and God's leading............ both of you with all you have done and about to do, what's you standing with Jesus?
Poster 2: all I'm gonna say us enjoy it while it lasts cos on the long run you will end up hurt. I totally understand what you are goin through. No married man will leave his home for you. As much as u wanna get attached, still manage and use part of ur brain to think and be focused ok?
ReplyDeleteMadam stella,in as much I don't support domestic violence but some of the ladies that come to ur blog with an accusations of domestic violence are loose. Some ladies have lost the dignity of womanhood. Imagine asking for a kiss frm a supposed married man in an eatry even when he has not make the move. You need to question this ladies the reason behind there divorce case,i Tink some of there are just unfaithful and infidelity run in there blood.
ReplyDeleteN1: Calm down na. You are not even completely out of that marriage at least legally...you started another one. Since you're already preggers, over to the lawyers.
ReplyDeleteN2: Haba na! That man is married. He can't love you and his wife equally...And since you're his latest tease, you get all the attention. Don't you care that he calls you AND NOT HIS WIFE more than 10 times in a day. Or dyu think that woman too isn't hurting? dyu want to be the reason why another woman's marriage collapsed? Put yourself in that woman's shoes.. even the kids. Trust me, this isn't love. Not when it would cost another woman and kids their home. Your man is still out there...go find him or be patient and let him find you. I mean it's just 1 month after your separation. Chill, dearie
Honestly some people this days sha
DeletePoster 2 receive sense..
ReplyDeleteD man will not live his family bcos of u, once he gets what he is looking for he will flee...
Look for single or divorced man & fall in love..
Poster 1 bigamy is ur answer.. Go & pay his bride price back bf anything..
Poster 2 is a WHORE, her adultery life style caused her her marriage. Her DH left her because she was committing adultery with the army now she think's the army will leave his wife and marry her? I laugh in Indian language . Poster 2, it can't work! The army man won't marry you, you know why? Because he know's that you are a whore. FOOLISH WOMAN! BITCH!
ReplyDeleteAll these married women falling out of love and marriage with their husbands make marriage so scary. Everyday it's one marital problem or the other. From tmrw no married women or ex married woman shld post. In fact no woman shld post. Lets hear from the men. Women drama din tire me thus week.
ReplyDeleteP1 let your paternal relative return the bride price to ex family if dem no gree collect am make una use una traditional rulers settle am. That's how my cuz ex wife did to him when he began to form James bond she sharply gave her king the bride price to return to my cuz king. Mata end!
ReplyDeleteP1 let your paternal relative return the bride price to ex family if dem no gree collect am make una use una traditional rulers settle am. That's how my cuz ex wife did to him when he began to form James bond she sharply gave her king the bride price to return to my cuz king. Mata end!
ReplyDeletePoster 2.Oyaa kneel down lemme pray for you...Kneeel downorsisoo and raise up your hands lemme pray for you,husbandsnatcherr andsidechickk to beshediott!Destroy another womans home okwaya Karma is a day dream dressed like a nightmare...Ishi steewpid!
ReplyDeletePoster one,Poster one...The lord is your strength Nne I can't deal mehn I advice you to go for deliverance now before you pass your mumuness to that small child.
Two things synonymous with the chronicles - divorce and adultery. Posters, I do not think you learnt your lessons from your first marriages.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, my advice? Both of you need Jesus. I say this with utmost seriousness. Seek Him while He can still be found. May God have mercy on you both.
Madam Poster2, you feel comfortable to break another woman's home? Where's your conscience? Don't you fear God? Why have you allowed the devil to deceive dis much. Go and look for your own and stop being the "asunder" God talked about plus stop heaping curses on your head. I guess you caused your mariage to pack up since u have d liver to want to take someone else husband. Oya go and repent and ask for genuine forgiveness and beg God to send urs to u.
ReplyDeleteSingle parenting especially on the side of ladies is like using style to do runs cos someone will still have to clean ur honey pot
ReplyDeleteposter 1 For ex to relocate and change his number which shows he does not have any thing to do with u again, so I think u should get ur family to return his pride price and start process with the divorce and go a head with d traditional married. poster 2 gboko gboko please leave another woman'husband alone, go get urself single or divorce guy out there. oloshi jati jati
ReplyDelete@poster 2-no vex but they say common sense no common...admit it,u are lonely joor.which kind kiss dey mk you think dust? You better think twice before you wreck urself..
ReplyDelete@poster 2-no vex but they say common sense no common...admit it,u are lonely joor.which kind kiss dey mk you think dust? You better think twice before you wreck urself..
ReplyDeletePoster two..u say u love him and he is married
ReplyDeleteGeez that could be somebody's father and husband for God's sake,u want to ruin some one's marriage.
His wife is Wondering why her husband is acting so different these days, and ure d cause..
Please do not ruin someone else's marriage and remember what goes around comes around .
What you feel is lust,its being a long time u ave been sexually involved..Later on when you leave this phase you might feel guilt and regret.Don't go down that lane, somebody else would love you..
Quit the relationship
Poster two..u say u love him and he is married
ReplyDeleteGeez that could be somebody's father and husband for God's sake,u want to ruin some one's marriage.
His wife is Wondering why her husband is acting so different these days, and ure d cause..
Please do not ruin someone else's marriage and remember what goes around comes around .
What you feel is lust,its being a long time u ave been sexually involved..Later on when you leave this phase you might feel guilt and regret.Don't go down that lane, somebody else would love you..
Quit the relationship
poster 1, you are a married woman until the court dissolves ur marriage. any other form of marriage is invalid. take note.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, get a life.
Poster two na ashawo..stupid runz girl dat didnt leave her trade even when she was married. Now that it has backfired..u want to perch on another woman's own. You are the one making all the moves which shows the height of your desperation. God will so punish you if you dont leave that man alone. I pray she catches you and give you the disgrace of your life. Hoe
ReplyDeleteSome people know the right thing to do and yet they do not do it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: what advice do you really want when you know the right thing to do. Give yourself brain
Poster 1: completely end one marriage before going into another. You need time to heal. You don't want to make the same mistakes again. Calm down..if the new guy loves you that much he would wait. With regards to the child ..he/she has a father who would be with you every step of the way. Stop complicating your life
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u r an ashawo....idiot
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ReplyDeleteStop naa
DeletePoster 2, He is playing along and you worked into his profile and followed up with his pattern. Please dont be stupid, he groomed you this way so he could get you without hesitation.
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