STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MARRIED BUT LIVING SINGLE..
Dear Stella And my fellow BV's,
I was on my way to work this fateful day and in the bus was this guy I thought I had seen somewhere before, so I just greeted him a good morning. Because the bus took quite a long time to get full we started talking and then we realized we worked for the same company but I am still new while he has worked there for a couple of years.
We alighted at the office and we exchanged contacts. two weeks later he called me, I had even forgotten we met.
From then on he called me everyday for long hours and we became so used to each other like we had met years ago. Prior to meeting him I had issues with my phone I couldn't surf the internet I was using a smaller phone which could only receive and make calls.
I always go to Facebook and check new people I meet but in this case I just couldn't, work was intense since I had just resumed. New guy asked me out months after and boy was I excited that I said yes after he had told me he was single and had broken up with his last girlfriend because she cheated.
He is 30 looks younger than his age, educated and has a good job or so I thought.
We never met after our first meeting but he kept asking that we meet and spend a weekend together but I never got around to accepting the proposal. He kept calling Monday - Sunday, first person I speak to when I wake and last before bed time. We attend same church but different chapters and he even told me he is a worker.
He gave me his English name and argued that his native name was too difficult for people to pronounce. I finally got a phone and asked him his facebook name but he said he was not social media savvy. Something in me kept screaming something is wrong but boy o boy did I tell my senses to relax.
I finally agreed to meet on a weekend and he said we would meet at a friends place, this time I demanded an explanation. How he could be earning a good salary and still be squatting,he argued it was temporary because his own office branch is located close to his friends house. After we argued I told him I can't come maybe some other time, he was upset.
I became convinced he was hiding something, so I went to Facebook typed the English name and surname he gave me nothing came up for hours. I decided to type his phone number and boom his real name which is his native name came up,he is married with pictures of wify and child all over it.
I just couldn't believe it and I kept trying to understand how he was able to do this knowing fully well that I'd eventually find out since we work for the same company. I haven't confronted him yet since I discovered and I haven't been taking his calls or responding to chats.
I have never dated a married man and I don't plan to start now that God has been good to me. Please BVs what should I do? Should I just keep ignoring him till he tires and leave me?
Wicked fool!
Send him a link to his facebook page via chat.When you see that he has read it,delete him.
Hold your head high and dont even listen to his lorry - of- lies explanations.
WALK AWAY!
Kisses to you!
Hiannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!
ReplyDelete***********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKER**********
Gbammm!
DeleteSeconded,send dis link to the bloody lair.
Same thing happened to a frnd of mine,gurls wise up,some will only call u wen they re @ work,den chat u up for d remaining hrs of d day,immediately they step out,they will call,try calling them by 10pm upward,lailai dem nor dey pick,bastard-lefool every where.
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Umu nwoke dikwa egwu! All these lies just to chop you and clean mouth. You sound like a nice person if not I'll tell you to play along, drain his pocket (dats if he isn't stingy) then set him up and make sure his wife finds out what he's doing. Then you can dump his sorry ass! Oshisco.
DeleteContact his wife!
DeleteThis is up to you. Take evidence! Take photos of u kissing him without ur face showing... And email it to his wife on fb... Some men are useless. If she is one of those that would like to know or catch him read handed, set up a lunch date, text his wife when and where, she should just surprise him there...
DeleteI don't see a chronicle here. .....u weren't even dating him . Thank God u found out. Dear, forget him. U dont even have a problem.
Delete@postet God will bless u more for having pride n respect for ur self, not all this prostitutes that r in this lekki, that would sleep with married men randomly without shame or remorse, customer of people like u I now believe and have hope that there are still good women in this country
DeleteGod saved you...you for enter two chance. But you used your brain.
Deletesee: marriage secret no one will till you
LOL!!! Women are beating men hands down in that department...
Delete@ Poster....Your mama born you well, Smart! I always tell my friends your Instincts never lie. Do what stella said and go thank God in church.
DeleteSo where's d chronicle?
DeleteThnk u Kadybia
DeleteHehehehehehehehe..... sharp guy, he knew u will eventually find out he just wanted to collect one round. Do wat Stella told you, life goes on.
DeleteChronicle of blog visitors.
ReplyDeleteJesus gbasara aka ya na obeee.×2
Si Onye choro Ndu ya bata. ifunaya juru na Ndu ya.....
Amaka u'r crazy I swear...rotfl
DeleteAfi juru idi ya no..cray gal
DeleteDo u say he is a worker in the church?
DeleteKrix via iPhone 6 gold!
will be right back
ReplyDeleteAm so sorry to say u acted very stupid at first. In life it's not every dick and harry that asked one out that you say yes to. You were just carried away, that u both worked in same company, he is well to do bla bla bla bla.even if u both still live in same compound, a guy that wants to lie to u will neatly do it because so sorry to say men thinks we ladies have got fish brain. All men are liers, it take the grace of God copying with the lies. So Ladies take ur time b4 dating so u avoid story that touches the heart later. There is no patient in my own dictionary so if I were u I will warn him so seriously never ever to call my line again or better still keep him quiet . These is a simple issue, u would ve been able to sort it out yourself why calling out ur fellow bvs to help you out
DeleteD chronicle is here.
ReplyDeleteBlog visitors always having problems and issues! No wonder Anons are bitter souls!
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ReplyDeleteSome people can be evil sha. His wife should know about this since he wants to break his own home with his own hands.
ReplyDeleteIgnore ke? Curse him out,greedy fool.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile poster sounds low on esteem. He lied because he wants to get in your pants and then ignore you. Nothing else if you want to become a count for a married shameless man Goodluck
How does poster sound low on esteem? Pls! She isnt! She's smart! Dont cuss her out! She sharp die. U r low on esteem, ode. Bloody fool. U talk down on females, ur mama no train u well.
DeleteHow does she sound low on esteem?
DeleteCan you please expanciate?
Why is she here asking what she should do when she has her answers in front of her?
DeleteWhat does she want from him? Cuss him out delete him and move on what is the long story about?
Some ppl just reason from the hole behind. You this anon 15.13, do you know how to read and if you do can you interpret what you read? Hian
DeleteWELCOME TO CHRONS...B BRB...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteSmart girl. To the foolish he goat, he still think he is wise.
ReplyDeleteOmg! Oloriboorookoo ni most men out there mehn!
ReplyDeleteThis chronicles just made me remember when I met a guy I tot was mine! He perfected the whole stuff that he is single and was just recently transferred to my state and all... I never visited his place cuz I don't go out at night and during the day I go to the office. Fast-forward to later, he came to pick me one day for lunch and I saw his national id card. Got his address and all. Investigation started and I got every detail I wanted without him knowing. Eventually sat him down and told him about my findings, dude was shocked to the marrow, I even showed him pics of me nd his wife plus child together. Till date d guy is still apologising. I cld ve cussed him bt I tot of his innocent child and let it be.
DeleteSome days ago I bumped into him and he was obviously doing the same thing to another babe. I just shook head nd walked away.
She won't walk away, she likes the attention
ReplyDeleteExactly!
ReplyDeleteJust send him a link to his fb page.
That does it.
Yes send him the link. There are plenty of these fools roaming and looking for who to yansh.
DeleteSimple and short
DeleteNa God go punish that man o...
ReplyDeleteShuooo oo. ....married and all
I can't deal abeg
They're so many of them, married and living a single life style. Why marry when you're not ready to be a responsible married man. Please run away from him far far.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Umunwoke
ReplyDeleteIgnoring him how? Can't you just tell him your mind/discovery and move the fuck on? It's common sense except you've got something else up your sleeves.
ReplyDeleteEverything small thing una go bring am come dis blog. *Hiss*
It baffles me too.
DeleteAll my fucks know I am married sha
ReplyDeleteI no dey joke with that one
It is always good to give people robust information
Some girls cannot sleep with a married man, no matter the amount of money offered. So it is good for people to know the truth.
Men should always be open. Pussy too good to stop flogging men
*walks away*
I like when a lady acts smart and not desperaTe. Please, don't waste time, confront him asap.
ReplyDeleteThat's why its good to follow ur instinct.
Can't you look for a way to chop his money and run...
ReplyDeleteAbeg don't lose oh....act like you are interested and ask him for some money...
Once he has given you the money,flee and disgrace him...
He just wanted to have sex with you...that's why he was rushing you...
Lol. The queen has spoken
DeleteLol@Linda d crook!
DeleteAs in ehn,if na that one,i am a pro!collected 450k one time from one hopeless married boss of mine who derives joy from sleeping with all d young gals in d office.#mtceew....rounded it up with a toast to all the gals he used and dumped.
....sack me?no he couldn't!thank God I am a civil servant like him.lmao!
Useless men/boys everywhere!
@poster is a true SDK bv,shes a good learner,not like the ones here everyday and are not smarter for it.
Poster if u see road,eat his cash and run!i support.
Lol@Linda d crook!
DeleteAs in ehn,if na that one,i am a pro!collected 450k one time from one hopeless married boss of mine who derives joy from sleeping with all d young gals in d office.#mtceew....rounded it up with a toast to all the gals he used and dumped.
....sack me?no he couldn't!thank God I am a civil servant like him.lmao!
Useless men/boys everywhere!
@poster is a true SDK bv,shes a good learner,not like the ones here everyday and are not smarter for it.
Poster if u see road,eat his cash and run!i support.
Lol@Linda d crook!
DeleteAs in ehn,if na that one,i am a pro!collected 450k one time from one hopeless married boss of mine who derives joy from sleeping with all d young gals in d office.#mtceew....rounded it up with a toast to all the gals he used and dumped.
....sack me?no he couldn't!thank God I am a civil servant like him.lmao!
Useless men/boys everywhere!
@poster is a true SDK bv,shes a good learner,not like the ones here everyday and are not smarter for it.
Poster if u see road,eat his cash and run!i support.
U must think all men r mumu sha,cos uv been meeting some doesn't mean all men r.
DeleteAs for d poster,d guy no sharp...it's easier to get a babe as a married man,esp wen u don't speak ill of ur wife.I know a lot of guys dat make girls realise dias wives mean d world to dem n dey just wanto play n d girls drop panties straight up...I wonder why married men complicate dia lives by havin serious girlfriends,emotions will enter d equation n it's not good for ur marriage...if u wan gbensh by d side,make an arrangement for a chick wey u a no send eachoda,chop n go home
Meeeen!Tufiakwa!Nne, keep on ignoring him, the guy na bad market.
ReplyDeleteSo who should be flogged and bum peppered here?what has been done here that has never been done before?... stellla your rxn to things sometimes makes me question yourr psyche., are u an imbecile or sometin
ReplyDeleteWhat did she say that warranted your closing question? Smh.
DeleteI know you are the imbecile here.. Stupid anonymous every where.
Deleteyou got answer you still dey ask question. Sometimes mumu questions full this blog.
ReplyDeleteMadam newcomer, go and give him a good kiss and fuck. That is my advice for you.
Exactly!
ReplyDeleteJust send him a link to his fb page.
That does it
The guy is stupid bastard.
You are a correct babe. Very smart.
I love you already!
Exactly!
ReplyDeleteJust send him a link to his fb page.
That does it
The guy is a stupid bastard.
You are a correct babe. Very smart.
I love you already!
Madam what do u want?
ReplyDeleteI need something to eat!
ReplyDeleteMen are wicked, human beings are too wicked infact but on Sunday we wear the best attire and sing in loud voices when behind it all our hearts are as black as charcoal. Christians keep disappointing me, we say one thing and do another. I have met so many Muslims who do not lie about their identity to get in between your legs. You either agree on your own or not and they move on to the next available babe.
ReplyDeleteUr story is too long, u should know dat some of us are too busy to read long epistles, no advice for u, next time make ur next chronicle short.
ReplyDeleteU are the reason why they say the best place to hide valuables from a Nigerian is in a book or library
DeleteLol. @ angelray, like we care to seek for ur advice. MschetwW....some pple being feeling important since 1800
DeleteYou don't need to him just keep ignoring him
ReplyDeleteWow!
ReplyDeleteHigh five, gurlll.
Good to know that not all single ladies out there are desperate.
Imagine you agreed to date the scheming cheat.
Na so you for dey form 'in a relationship, anticipating marriage ',till he's ready to move on.
E sara anya nno.
Why are you still wondering what to do?
Confront the he goat and tell him to keep off.
Thing is, people like him can be crazy when spurned.
Just stop avoiding him, and let him know, one way or another.
This thing called marriage sef.... * smh *
#WhiteDiamondOut
Wonders shall never end
ReplyDeletePoster,
ReplyDeleteIs he very rich?
If he is.
U can be gbenshing him for cash until you get a better boyfriend.
Very rich ke? Sum1 she met inside danfo
DeleteHahahahaha
DeleteLol@inside danfo
DeleteThey are everywhere.
ReplyDeleteFoolish bastard, you for track the wife from there.. Send him chats..lol
ReplyDeleteSee as I Join p2 dey beef soundcity. ..wetin concern me 4 their matter nah .. d way I just skipped 327 now..lol
ReplyDeleteAm so sorry to say u acted very stupid at first. In life it's not every dick and harry that asked one out that you say yes to. You were just carried away, that u both worked in same company, he is well to do bla bla bla bla.even if u both still live in same compound, a guy that wants to lie to u will neatly do it because so sorry to say men thinks we ladies have got fish brain. All men are liers, it take the grace of God copying with the lies. So Ladies take ur time b4 dating so u avoid story that touches the heart later. There is no patient in my own dictionary so if I were u I will warn him so seriously never ever to call my line again or better still keep him quiet . These is a simple issue, u would ve been able to sort it out yourself why calling out ur fellow bvs to help u out?
ReplyDeleteI beg 2 disagree with u ' White Berry ' nt all men re liars nd dishonest wen it cmes 2 relatnship. As 4 d advice u seek 4rm BV's family, dnt do wat SDK ask u 2 do. Rather, severe any communication wth him dat 'll mke him psychologically depressed cins he 'll nt knw d reason u severed relatnship. Sending evidence 2 mke him knw dat u knw enitin about him 'll only mke feel u wnt 2 hear his defence. U dnt nid babe, move along wth ur lyf.
DeleteSo if u take like two years before agreeing to date him, by then u will be sure he will never lie to u. Its not by how quick u guys started dating. Everybody is not the same. Someone that will deceive will even though u involve ancestors and wait till 5 to 6months before agreeing to date him.
DeleteWhite Berry re u married?. Would lyk 2 date u, if u re nt married.
DeleteHe took u to his friends house to bang!
ReplyDeleteHe has a house!
Everything is a lie....
So it's either u continue or quit all by urself...
Hope u didn't do osho free...
Read again. She didnt go. She called off the whole hanging out thing cos she felt something was fishy.
DeleteThank God 4 facebook it has really help @ lot of people mumu girls don finish 4 Naija guy want to play fast on u to come nd spend weekend.Please jst save some of his wife nd children picx on fb as many as possible nd send to him den delete him
ReplyDelete@Ibadan girl, punctuation marks. Please.
DeleteLeave him n his baggage, b4 he infest u with bad luck. U already av a job, so wait for ur own man.
ReplyDeleteAnty Stella dier is this troublesome lady in my area(somewhr in lagos), she's into events(cocktails) Omo she can like to show herself aniwhr she goes n talks too much abeg, instagram, facebook etc(serious wanna be and spoilt brat)No beef of buh u dnt have to brag about material tins cuz all na vanity, bad character spoils everytin. Aniways lemmie mind my business
ReplyDeleteRe u lost? Btw, what language did u type in?
DeleteHian!
ReplyDeleteLmaooooooo! That's how I met one in Enugu some years back, this guy attends my church, even sits behind the pastors during service. He works with Glo and told me stories of how his pregnant wife was shot by armed robbers and in his words "the bullet pierced through her breast and her chest".....
ReplyDeleteMy people, na so I begin pity this man o. We were pushing the friendship to relationship level then one day, I was in an office where I worked as at that time when a female customer walked in to deposit some cash. She had this beautiful toddler with her. I recognized her as someone I ve seen in church so I stood up to help her with her transaction, something made me confirm her teller before taking it to the person at the cash point then lo and behold....... I saw the man's name as the receiver and her's with the same surname as the depositor.
Politely, I asked her who had the account and if she was sure of the account number then she laughed and said " it's my husband's account now! Why wont I be sure"
Umu nnem, na so shock catch me that day! I was in shock till I left the office and when I asked him later that day when he called, Oga couldn't say one word.
Need I say I had already checked his facebook page and there was NOTHING on his wife and baby there? Little did I know he had a 2nd account!!
Some men sha..... their judgment is set.
Shikina
My sister, is this man's name David N.?
DeleteThe foolish man gave me a similar story o but I met him in Awka and he works in a telecommunication company too
Wow! He lied that his wife was dead!? Some men are the devil himself!
DeleteImagine!
DeleteRayJay
Chai! So he had to lie with his wife's and child's life?
DeleteAll because of X?
I swear most married men will not make heaven..
The World has Ended
DeleteI have chronicle of hope to share oooo but typing is my problem
ReplyDeleteMake a video like Bustline n send.
DeleteSome people are just evil. Thank God you did not fall for his ish.
ReplyDeleteStupid man.
ReplyDeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteStella has said it all.
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When will some men start owning up 2 responsibilities? Y deny ur family just 4 10mins pleasure when a mil and one girls will gladly jump at him even with his married status?#jstwondering.
ReplyDeletePoster, I thank God that you did your homework, well-done. I agree with Stella on this. Send him the link of his Facebook page and that does the talking. You can still be hi-hi friends, if you choose to, but give him a long gap.
ReplyDeleteCheats cum deceives everywhere! I can't understand why spouses cheat, men and women alike. Pls if you cannot stay with your spouse, get divorce before moving to the next partner, or DON'T EVEN MARRY AT ALL. Useless dogs. ....Mrs. Eunice
Keep on walking no road oooo
ReplyDeleteThank God for u for ur findings..
Well well!
ReplyDeleteWhat do I say here...God just saved you from a WILD P*SSIE EATER.
They are everywhere!
Imagine after 2weeks he called you...he must have thought and thought of a way 2 'pee' on somebody and poof! The thought of u just sprang up....
Very immature guy...am so surprise cos these days they confess 2 any lady they meet that they are MARRIED but want 2 mingle a bit...I dunno y this one just chickened!
CACAFUEGO!
ABSOLUTE NONSENSE!
I agree with Stella, send him the link, just let him know u are aware
ReplyDeleteAnd where is that yeye money maker that said every relatnship must not lead to marriage,y would he want to waste her time and prevent her from seeing someone else in the course of been with him when he has his own family somewhere,if this poster had not been smart enough and she falls stupidly for him thinking she has seen her Mr right, don't u think that's another wasted years? Mtcheew.
I don't just understand while some men behave this way.
can u just imagine ,same thing happened to me a while back and I did the exactly what stells proposed.... send him the link of his fb, block him ''straaaat''hes a smooth liar he would always have something to say so don't even dare allow him ....I know how u feel dear just take hrt the best is soon coming your way. e hugs
ReplyDelete@sweetaddict, did he wash ur plate una divide?
DeleteThis chronicle reminds me of a guy that I met in May at a filling station, that handing over period that there was crazy fuel scarcity and the queues were crazier. This guy was calling, texting and chatting me up as if his life depended on mine. He will chill for me at the entrance of my estate in the morning in different cars, claiming he wants to marry me that we should do intro by July because he will be returning to the US in August despite the fact that I told him I was engaged. I asked him why he wasn't married at his age(he said he was 36 but looks like someone in his mid 40s to me), he said his white gf cheated on him so they had to go their separate ways. Also, he gave me an English name, I had to pester him for his local name cos he said he wasn't really a social network person. Only for me to do some online digging on him, I found out he was married to a white woman, they have three kids together, he has been living in the states for about 15 years. I just stop picking his calls or pick it and not say anything, one day I sent him the link to his Facebook page and pictures of when he was on vacation with his family. That was the last day he called or chatted me up or shown up at my estate. Crazy men on the loose.
ReplyDelete@miss,can you swear that he did not eat the forbidden fruit?
DeleteLol..
DeleteCrazy men everywhere..
@moneymaker...some of us are still very mature and decent.... Also, I think you have very low self esteem and find it difficult approaching ladies. Grow some balls pls!!!
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ReplyDeleteTo do what with now?
DeleteRubbish! !!
e-diot!
Deletei so agree with stella, he is a good for nothing, and I thank God you did not just rush, u took ur time to search well.
ReplyDeleteThankGod u dint fall for his mumu love! Guys mk una fear God.
ReplyDeleteI thought I was the only one that investigate people's history on Fb,once I have your number,straight to truecaller straight to FB,i support Stella no time to waste some guys are sick in the brain I swear.....
ReplyDeleteYou have to totally ignore him, he's a very wicked person!
ReplyDeleteGod will punish you, you married goat,may d God your wife serve judge you and my dear poster do as Stella said and don't let him give you more lies.
ReplyDeleteWhy is this one angry?
DeleteWho beat u?
DeleteStella, you are clement with your reply sef. That man needs the embarrassment of a life time. How dare he. Some Men tho, his wife would be elsewhere praying for his well being and he's about misbehaving.
ReplyDeleteHe needs several rounds of incessant dirty slaps for trying to make you sin, imagine you weren't tech savvy/social media active?
Whatever you do, make sure to invoke the rot of God on his head. If he has been going about deceiving others, he'll be forced to put an end with you.
NONSENSE!!!!!!
chai! "The heart of man is desperately wicked"....
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
There might be a genuine explanation to that pic though......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
They are so many like this roaming around,useless guys
ReplyDeleteMen eh!!!can you imagine????send him his fb full name then blast him for trying to lure u and delete him out of ur life.foolish wicked man.
ReplyDeleteThe way married men cheat these days ehhh, only God knows what is it they lack in their marriage. It takes only a principled man not to cheat on you. Ladies will be praying for men who has the fear of God, sorry na your name. All this men wey carry church matter for their head like gala na dem they cheat pass. Hmmmmmn. Wetin pesin never see.
ReplyDeleteIf only ladies can be this smart and say no to some desperate married men this world will be a better place.... it takes courage, integrity, discipline and good morals. My lady I pray you meet you Mr right, a man that's deserving according to 2face. Lemme take a stroll
ReplyDelete2face???????
DeletePoster, you have your head high because you did what I always advocate and that is to give the condition to the man and set a standard then keep to it irrespective of material gains you may get. That makes you think with your head rather that your groin. That man is evil, sinister, a deceit and worse. But you already know what to do so your question should be how to do it. Also it is beside the point whether you have or will ever date a married man but to flee from this particular evil man. So for me, you should not confront him but simply block him from all the avenues you used to interact. Greet him and pass if you jam and you are sure he saw you but never give him audience of any sort. That will make him so wonder what is wrong that he would become afraid of you and your presence anywhere he is.
ReplyDeleteWicked guy. Thank God for his wisdom in you to detect his true identity. He wants to eat and run. God will give you your own man.
ReplyDeleteheyya
ReplyDeleteKisses to you.
ReplyDeleteGod save u sha,Na so u 4 don collect one mouth.....lol, yeye men.
ReplyDeleteSharp babe, thankGod you ddn't allow the bastard to fool you. Omo ale jatijati.
ReplyDeleteDon't Tel him anything just ignore him that's why I like men they would never tel ladies their fault.most ladies meet men and for no reason they just start avoiding them u think they just being wicked no,some of them have found out your fuck up and stay quiet.
ReplyDeleteI also do it I won't even tel u what u did or what ur doing wrong I wouid just begin to ignore u like a local breed.
Abeg just ignore him move on don't even tel him nothing no be only men sabi break heart let it be like u broke his heart.
I'm proud of you
ReplyDeleteHappy you didn't give him booty, cos obviously that's all he wanted.
And maybe your money too.
What should you do? Sister girl ignore the fool. And he keeps disturbing you , abuse his life and disgrace him very very well.
My sister I will advice you to do just as Stella has said. Something similar happened to me and I continued to talk to the guy and before I knew it I got involved with him which led to so many things happening to me including rape. Please walk away. He lacks integrity and he will forever be a liar, don't talk to him.
ReplyDeleteyaaay Poster this is exactly what happened to me just 2 months agoHave known this guy for about a year now but we were just friends. His colleague in the office was my neigbbour so he came around once in a while. I moved out of that place to a bigger place and coded area, Boom!the guy became serious. I was skeptical initially because for a Yoruba guy not to be married in his late 30s and with a good job doesn't just add up. He was talking marriage from day 1.But I didn't give in till am beyond reasonable doubt and he is single with no baby mama brohahah.And offcourse I checked his fb page and discovered he is very married flaunting his wify in all his pictures.Well I had nothing to loose so I just deleted him from my momory asap.He called several times after that, I stopped him from coming to my place and confronted him,you know guys naa,he started forming stories how he is about to leave the wife because she is yet to have a kids for him. Imagine that kind of lie. Arrant nonsense.Poster abeg drop dat guy, don't even confront him because it makes no difference, he will still form lies.
ReplyDeleteGbam. stella u don talk am finish. Nothing to add. Some people are just evil. Tuffffiiiiaaaa
ReplyDeleteMen and their lies. Is it that he his not proud of his wife and kids ni or probably not worthy to be called a married man? I am married simple and its then left to the girl to either remain friends with him or otherwise...
ReplyDeletelucky u dear. doh married men r d biggest spenders
ReplyDeleteI 'll be d last person 2 tell a lady a lie b'cos I wnt 2 win her heart. God 4bid. I lay d cards on d table, if she 'll lyk me fine, if nt I move on.
ReplyDeletePoster: thank God you didn't fall for his prik, and God gave you sense to go after him on facebook. If am the one I will save those pic of his and the family, send it to him including the link to his facebook acc. After that, I will dust my shoe and walk away, never to look back. Men and their silly life.
ReplyDeleteThank God you found out on time. Why will a man deny his family because of punani? What is different from the one he has at home and the one he just found. I think my dear that you need to tell him face to face your findings.
ReplyDeleteMay God punish him immensely. Useless fool
I wonder wat d difference is too!but they claim is adventure,but I think it's just mischief and covetousness!
DeleteAnd men dat lie abt their status are terrible ones cos they are stingy,:bcos they know if the gal knows if he's married,she will be in it for money,so in avoiding dat,he claims single and looking for a wife!infact if the gal is desperate,she will be d one spending on him.
I wonder wat d difference is too!but they claim is adventure,but I think it's just mischief and covetousness!
DeleteAnd men dat lie abt their status are terrible ones cos they are stingy,:bcos they know if the gal knows if he's married,she will be in it for money,so in avoiding dat,he claims single and looking for a wife!infact if the gal is desperate,she will be d one spending on him.
Some men are wicked...that was how one removes his wedding ring before coming to talk to me but the mark was just too obvious. I simply told him straight "oga abeg put on ur wedding ring and stop who to decieve". The fool never showed his face again.
ReplyDeleteLmaooooo..
DeleteThe Chronicles...
ReplyDeleteAm weak!!!
ReplyDeleteMen. Must you be stupid because you are a man? Must you be useless because you have a dick? Well madam poster walk and don't look back. That guy has a degree in telling lies. Who raised these men? Mothers sure have alot of training and prayers to do for male children. Tufia.
ReplyDeleteWhat should you do?
ReplyDeleteI think what you should do is tell us the complete story!
You know the truth and you're asking. I think you should be asking us how to deal with the void you feel now since you've gotten attached and are prolly missing the long hours of conversation. Tsk Tsk
Sme of d tins Sme men do just b'cos dey wnt 2 lay wth a lady at tyms mke me feel ashame as a man. Can u imagine a friend of mine had 2 tell a lady he ws toasting dat he doesn't ve a wife dat d wife is dead. Just b'cos he wnts 2 gt btw her legs. It's sickening. Guys, if u must tell a lady a lie, tell dose liars dat wen she finds out she might nt b too upset wth.
ReplyDeletePoster, this guy is going to give you all types of explanations, all lies. He'll say he only married her because she got pregnant, he doesn't love her, she trapped him. That's their most common lie. Pls delete the ass-hole, thank God nothing happened btw you both. If he keeps calling,block him.
ReplyDeleteI once dated a liar like that when I was in school, that was his lie. That a girl got pregnant mistakenly for him, so he was forced to marry her. 10yrs later, they are still together with one additional child. The guy just wants to chop you abeg.
I almost went thru same experience. I checked d guy on facebook. I saw him but cuz of privacy on his page I couldn't access it then I typed his name on google search . My gosh I saw he was married to the daughter of an ambassador . The wedding was on an island . I downloaded the pictures . And the next time he started talking bout me visiting him I sent his wedding pictures (which I downloaded online) to him.
ReplyDeleteBaddo
ReplyDeleteNice 1! Thank God you were patient enough to dicover him. You wouldn't have if you were desperate. Do as Stella said so that the idiot will know you know he's a crook.
ReplyDeleteMY DEAR SISTER DONT SAY ANYTHING TO IM PICK HISCALLS BUT DONT EVER GO ON A DATE WITH HIM
ReplyDeletePRETEND LIKE YOU HAVE NOT KNOW PLAY ALONG PLEASE
DONT GO ANY WHERE WITH HIM PICK HIS CALLS AND CHAT NORMAL
Use ur tongue and count ur teeth abeg.
ReplyDeletestelaa ooooooo
ReplyDeletehav u seen soundcitys response to JUDE
OMG
I agree with stella let him be aware u know what he is hiding then ignore him
ReplyDeleteSumthg similar happened to me years back but in my own case, I checked his name out on facebook right in his presence, then I showed it to him. He was speechless for several minutes. What actually amused me most was when I showed him his wife pic in nysc uniform, and I said how come ur wife is serving here in Nigeria and u said she absconded to UK with ur money. He said hummm...she's doing her nysc in UK. Sebi me I be mumu, I won't know d difference...it was funny n disgusting.
ReplyDeleteTill today I still make jest of it. It was d second date and I did not lose anythg.
LMAOOO hahahahaha nysc in uk
DeleteKikikikikikiki @ she is doing her Youth Service in UK.
DeleteWhich kind lie be that?
MAMA KORKO NA YOU BIKO STRIAGHT UP.....................AHAHAHAHAHAH ITS HAPPEN TO ME DEAR, MEN ARE BAD. I EVEN HAVE A CHILD FOR THE FOOL. RUN FROM THAT IDIOT BEFORE HE DESTROY YOUR LIFE.
ReplyDeleteSame thing happened 2 a while back. Met this goodlooking guy, told me he was single and searching cos his last relationship didn't work out, as his girlfriends parents refused 2 let him marry their daughter cos of tribal differences.
ReplyDeleteHe told me alotta stories which didn't add up at all.
Plus he was almost in his forties, so i did sum digging & found out he's been married twice with 5 kids ( still married 2 d second wife), what did I do?
I pretended not 2 have any idea whatsoever and started making monetary demands, but I never gave in to his sexual demands( told him 2 give me sum time, just 2 be sure he was 4 real).
After I had drained dis guy 2 my satisfaction, I den revealed 2 him dat I'm aware he's married & can neva date a married man. I played d victim so well d guy was still dropping cash, all 2 appease me. Mtcheeewww
Poster, my advise 2 u is for u 2 play d fool, pretend like u have no idea wat he's up and make sure u milk him dry (dats if u're smart enough). And den wen u're satisfied, u can let him know u're aware he's married.
Play d victim and never feel sorry 4 him cos he just wanted 2 play a fast one on u.
Karna they wait for u....lols
DeleteCorrect advise...
DeleteAnon,what's Karna?...
Wow!!!
ReplyDeleteSend him a picture of his wife and child and threaten to destroy his home if he dares to call you ever again.
Lov dis chronicle. Tank God say he no eat u first
ReplyDeleteI agree with stella on this one. I love catching thieves this way. Destabilizer is what its called. pls don't give a room for explanations except u want to be lured, u had be a fool then.
ReplyDeleteWhat are u waiting for? U better shut him out of ur life sharply.
ReplyDeleteSharp Girl, this is my kind of person. Stella! that a good one, do exactly as Stella said. What an asshole! He has seen a mumu to use.
ReplyDeletekisses poster.. i love babes who have good sense of detection... that was how this stupid fool told my sis he was a graduate, how he lives in Ibadan cos he needed a place where fresh fruits were always available (imagine okpo), so many lies! how he imports goods..akuko.. my sis would be on phone with him and would be hearing noise from what we know as public "yard".. and he would claim its his neighbours kids... so many lies that came back glaringly. the story he now gave was that if she loved him, she would stay with him and ofcourse share toilet with co tenants.... anuofia!! forward ever!!
ReplyDeleteLmaooooo..
DeleteMschew ds one sef follow for chronicles....! Oriegwu.
ReplyDelete#Smiles @ i just cldnt understand how he was able to do this knowing fully well that I'd eventually find out since we work for the same company.
ReplyDeleteD guy wanted sex n sex only.
N since u r a newbie, u are a perfect candidate for dat as u av no background knowledge of him.
Na waah...
ReplyDeleteHe does not even have a car?
You met him were you guys was waiting for bus?
How can you be entering bus and also think of dating someone that jumps bus with you?
You want to remain in poverty?
Sorry I don't have advice for you
I hate babes dating broke ass Niggas
Pls upgrade...
Lol..
DeleteFunny you.
What kind of stupid question is this?
ReplyDeleteIs there any other we need to know?
Free him biko n stop asking stupid question!
Like Stella said send him the facebook link then delete him. You are a classy babe poster, classy babes don't date married men.
ReplyDeleteMen& deir lies
ReplyDeleteyou are damn lucky
ReplyDeleteInvestigative snooping, it works afterall
ReplyDeleteDts how one fool told me he wanted to divorce his wife and marry me bc the wife is a lesbian and they are still living together and having kids till today. Good riddance
ReplyDeleteUkbliss,did he eat the forbidden fruit b4 u parted ways?
DeleteIdiot
DeleteJust negodu
ReplyDelete@Sugarswt, you hate babes that date broke ass niggas rite?
ReplyDeleteBut you love the niggas that those babes actually helped to become the big boys they are. Am I right?
See let me advise you, this life is so funny that you and I can't even defined it. Ecclesiastic couldn't defined this life even as wise as he was and as much days he spent studying. @ the end, he concluded by saying; Everytin in this life is "vanity upon vanity".
You better change your mentality and how you see life. Let me ask, what if the rich guy goes broke 2mrw what happens next? what if he doesn't respect you bec he feels his money is all what u r after. What if, What if?? I really want to speak some sense into you but my work wouldn't let me bec there's so much on my desk to do.
I'm a married woman. A PROUD ONE AT THAT. I met my hubby as a broke ass. I was scared as well.but I took the bold step to date him....which lead into marriage. My hubby is still working and doing his best to keep his family going. As strong woman wey I be, I asked him to spilt bills. I take care of some, while he takes care of the remaining. I'm not doing these because am stupid. I am doing it bec I want my hubby to last for me (avoid heart attack). His my better half, and we are team. Am never afraid to lose him to another woman bec I have strong self esteem. In fact he loves me more than I love him. I don't depend on him to do anything for me bec am not crippled. I can fight and defend myself in all areas of life.
My hubby talks about me any day any tym and to who cares to listen. Not for once has he side lined me in his decision making. Women should try to build themselves not wait for one man out there to build them.
Note women, Men are not 'ATM Machine" and there are not Poverty Alleviators". Men are not your destiny changers. Dust ur butt and hit the street to hustle 24/7.
My 1kobo to Sugar whatever you are.
Thanks.....
Note, I'm equal to your come back.
lol ..... Bla bla bla bla
DeleteNonsense ......
I date big guys and not broke niggas......
Your hubby might even be the one sponsoring me to Burj Arab
He told me that his wife met him poor
You fit his description.....
@Sugarswt, you hate babes that date broke ass niggas rite?
ReplyDeleteBut you love the niggas that those babes actually helped to become the big boys they are. Am I right?
See let me advise you, this life is so funny that you and I can't even defined it. Ecclesiastic couldn't defined this life even as wise as he was and as much days he spent studying. @ the end, he concluded by saying; Everytin in this life is "vanity upon vanity".
You better change your mentality and how you see life. Let me ask, what if the rich guy goes broke 2mrw what happens next? what if he doesn't respect you bec he feels his money is all what u r after. What if, What if?? I really want to speak some sense into you but my work wouldn't let me bec there's so much on my desk to do.
I'm a married woman. A PROUD ONE AT THAT. I met my hubby as a broke ass. I was scared as well.but I took the bold step to date him....which lead into marriage. My hubby is still working and doing his best to keep his family going. As strong woman wey I be, I asked him to spilt bills. I take care of some, while he takes care of the remaining. I'm not doing these because am stupid. I am doing it bec I want my hubby to last for me (avoid heart attack). His my better half, and we are team. Am never afraid to lose him to another woman bec I have strong self esteem. In fact he loves me more than I love him. I don't depend on him to do anything for me bec am not crippled. I can fight and defend myself in all areas of life.
My hubby talks about me any day any tym and to who cares to listen. Not for once has he side lined me in his decision making. Women should try to build themselves not wait for one man out there to build them.
Note women, Men are not 'ATM Machine" and there are not Poverty Alleviators". Men are not your destiny changers. Dust ur butt and hit the street to hustle 24/7.
My 1kobo to Sugar whatever you are.
Thanks.....
Note, I'm equal to your come back.
lol ..... Bla bla bla bla
DeleteNonsense ......
I date big guys and not broke niggas......
Your hubby might even be the one sponsoring me to Burj Arab
He told me that his wife met him poor
You fit his description.....
Madam, abegi. Deal with it.U married a poor man. No one force you. If another girl bind the spirit of poverty in her life. Dats ok.
DeleteAnon 18:00, story that touches the heart, they deceive urself
DeleteAnon 18:00...
DeleteWhy won't he tell people about you when you are the bread winner....you said you guys split the bill so we won't yab you...I know your type...
Continue forming miss independent..am sure he spends his money on a side chick..+yinmu...
Lol why the long epistle madam? Face your work. Everyone has a different journey, you've chosen yours, let Sugar choose hers too.
DeletePlus you sound very naïve and immature
That was how one guy called temitope odeyemi AKA temitope copeland in PH deceived me and had his way before I finally realized he was married with a heavily pregnant wife staying with his parents coz of her condition. But the deed has been done before I knew, he even made me talk to her sister and that one wanted to ATM me, thank God I found out before then. Tope, whereever you are, it shall neva be well with you, no mata how long, karma will take itz toll on U someday. Ur kind sufferness still dey gym coz u ll definitely suffer beyond what you can take
ReplyDeleteAnon 18;16,which deed has been done? Are you Virgin when he gbenshed u?
DeleteDear poster, why are you asking questions that you already know the answer to? Just cut him off totally, it doesn't really matter how you do it, just do it and move on.
ReplyDeleteOhhh chim ohhh....i no fit shout, Stella Abeg borrow me that ur sit ad 500 popcorn plz
ReplyDeleteSmart lady! I wish many were like you.
ReplyDeleteConfront the he-diot, via chatting, as Stella said.
Thank GOD for technology!
Gone are the days of men deceiving ladies with their well-cooked lies!
I am always surprised in this era, when some ladies will use the excuse of not knowing that a man is lying about his status. Google is always your friend!
Olosious fellow!! For a moment i thought i was the person typing. Sounds like one idiot i met in this Atl. He gave me English last name,i was convinced something was off. Told me he was once engaged but his babe cheated on him but he wanted to give love a chance again with me. We went to dinner, he mistakenly ordered Wine, i said to myself, God don catch u today because waiter go like see say he dey legal to drink by checking his drivers license. When waiter came and took his license, my neck wasnt long enough to see his last name so i snatched his license stylishly and saw his long ass yoruba last name. Put that shit on google when i got home and bam! Everything came out. He was married!! He called me after dinner when i got home and i warned him never to call me again as i dont do married men. Dude still tried to lie that he wasnt married ooo say where did i get that kain info. I just told him look here ogbeni,the next time u call this phone again, ur wife; Mrs so so so will help us settle this matter. Fiam! He ran off the phone ooo. Yeye man.
ReplyDeleteThat's how a young married man (we had sth while he was single) wanted to sleep with me ehen we saw recently after almost a year or two, imagine the nerve. I made him perform cunnilingus on me on the 5th day of my period (tiny drops were still coming our) and made sure I held his mouth to my vagina as I climaxed....idiot!
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