Baby Mama's And The Kangaroo Syndrome

Single Mothers are hot property or "Marriage material", but most times

they are their problems. They complain bitterly why Men can't marry

them,but they caused it.

PLEASE TAKE A SEAT,WE ARE ABOUT TO DISAGREE!

That against all odds, you bravely and strongly didn't abort that

baby.....You are a Hero. 

Believe Me, many decent girls you see around have had dozens of abortions, even when their boyfriends and family assured them of their full support. They are hypocrites, they mocksingle mothers....but they fail to realized they are Murderers.

In our Society, it is very difficult for a man to convince his Mum or

Family that he wants to marry a single mum. The Society doesn't wanna

know if a Lady has destroyed her womb or not, the Society just want

you to marry a "Fresh Lady"......a Lady without a child.

But the Society fails to understand that being a "Fresh Lady" won't

determine if a marriage is successful or not.

Most single mothers regret ever having a child, they wished they had

opted for an abortion when the opportunity presented itself. Due to this

they unleash their anger or "vexing things" on their Children. A man

who wants to marry you, would love to see you treat your kid with

utmost love and care. He wants you to be happy that you have a baby

who is so dear to you.

Michael is a contractor and would love to settle down.....you guys

hooked up and you told him you have a daughter. Michael told you he's

okay with that and would love to marry you. You invited Michael to

your house to meet your Parents, Meanwhile you wanted to prepare

Spaghetti for Michael and told your daughter to bring the groundnut

oil.....your daughter was bringing the oil and stumbled, the plastic

bottle fell down and its content spilled over to the floor.

Immediately, you started flogging your daughter and screaming,

"Foolish girl, go and look for your father.....your father didn't give

me any money to train you"

Michael will go home that day and have a rethink.

That you decided to keep the pregnancy and deliver the baby is a BIG

Plus. You should never worry, the happiness of a man or a women comes

from within.

As a single Mother, you are very different form the rest.....your

stakes are high and you need to be at your best in an attempt to get a

good husband.

Self-pity and regret will steal your beauty away, you should at all

times be happy and look beautiful.

You should at all times dress well(decently). You should be humble and

kind. You should be wise and clever.

Single Mothers are easy targets for Men who whisper marriages into

their ears, have sex with them and disappear. You have to be alert.

Finally, let me introduce you to the "Kangaroo Syndrome". A kangaroo

syndrome is a syndrome that makes children to reject men coming to

seek their mothers hands in marriage. Some of us had this syndrome

while growing up, we hate to see boys coming around to befriend our

sisters.

If your child exhibits high levels of Kangaroo syndrome, it will drive

Suitors away. A man wants to see your child as his, he wants to be

assured that your child will also see him as his/her father.

As a Single Mother, you have to train your child to love and show

love.....you have to treat his Kangaroo Syndrome, by loving and

assuring your child that you will never trade your love for

him/her.....that you will be there for him/her at all times.

If you don't treat the Kangaroo Syndrome, and you get married.....your

husband may maltreat the child you had before marrying him.

some men prefer to marry a single mother that will bring Joy and

Success to thier home, than marrying a "fresh lady" that will nag for

the rest of their lives.

Your Child is your Joy, guard his/her future jealously. 

BV white berry

*After reading this,the only thing that comes to mind is that it was written by a Single Mother trying to Justify her current status albeit that she hit the nail on the head with some of her points.

Now let me tell you this BV White Berry.Nagging is innate in us all,Yes both men and women so please do not pin the nag tag on 'fresh ladies'

Your writeup I fear may become a hot debate because you are calling out 'fresh ladies' and exonerating baby mamas!