The media has been awash with mixed reactions from Tonto Dikeh's fans and critics since Saturday, August 8, 2015 when the star actress kicked off her wedding rites in a ceremony held in Port Harcourt, the Rivers State capital.
Following that introduction ceremony, Tonto Dikeh has changed her name to Mrs Tonto Wigo Dikeh-Churchill, being that her husband the CEO of Big Churchill Haven Limited and Big Church Entertainment in Ikoyi, Lagos, bears the name Oladunni Churchill.
Tonto Dikeh who took to her Instagram in series of mind-boggling posts to explain issues relating to her pre-nuptials and also advise young people out there:
God Settled Me With Oladunni Churchill.
Pure Joy. But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you…1 Peter 5:10.. Ooooo how God has settled me, Dancing like David danced.
On The Obasanjo Link, She Said:
A big congratulations to us and thanks to everyone who wished us well and still wishing us.. Special thanks to My father-in-law, the ex-president of Nigeria Baba Obj and my lovely mother-in-law.. Exclusive Special thanks to my lovely father and best friend Chief Hon. Dikeh and also to the best Step Mom in the Whole world, who never ceases to pray for me… As you wish me may your Joy be full and mighty. I am a happy woman and nothing will ever take that away from me. I have the best mother-in-law and in-Laws any girl can wish for.
(Oladunni Churchill is said to be the nephew of former President Olusegun Obasanjo).
On Her Finding Love Again..
Catch flights don’t catch feelings? So tell me, what is your reason for being? The purpose of your existence? The same reasons why many of us are here in the first place… I don’t mean to kill the Boss attitudes, but I work with bosses all the time. The people who prioritised work over relationships aren’t happy with their Lives. You have to be able to find a balance. Yes we all have an economic reality, But No, money can’t love you. Be happy at every opportunity, never repress your love for the sake of trying to make enough money” What is enough? Can you feed your self? Do you have a bed to sleep in at night? Yet you want a bigger bed, forgetting that you could be looking for someone to share it with. Dont miss out on a family just for money…
Don’t turn into a bitter and cynical person because you were in love once and it didn’t work out… Yes, you invest emotional energy into your partner,but you will always have more energy…. You have a lot of Love to Give. Energy can’t be destroyed so you can’t say it was wasted. Your partner cheated on you… Doesn’t mean all humans are cheats. My ex was a cheat, a prolific internet whore and a fake but that didn’t stop me from loving even harder the next time… You have to be in it to win it.
Building breakable barriers will leave you lonely. Loneliness would leave you Sad. If you don’t allow people to get close to you then yes you might not hurt, but you will never Feel. Feelings are just visitors, let them come and go. So catch feelings and flights, but don’t forget love, because that is what all humans need. Don’t let modern trends change your mindset in Cynical ways… Living a life without love, is not living at all.
Dealing With Men Who Have Nothing To Offer
Some people are beautiful not in looks, not in what they say but in who they truly are. True beauty doesn’t beg for attention. It doesn’t care for likes and mentions. It cannot be quantified by aesthetics. It is a deep and purposeful truth, acknowledged by the soul. My sisters, don’t delay your marital blessings/happiness just because you want the Instagram fame.
Don’t give your self too much prayer points in the future when you can decently correct your now, now… At the end of the day, the same guys you nude for today will be the ones to marry off your juniors and rubbish your name and you might miss out on a lot of blessings (contracts/endorsements/etc). Remember we live in Africa where a wrong negative words imprinted in the hearts of others, told by others can ruin your life… Be wise today my darlings.
Hang on let me get this straight, you expect a Queen to be intelligent, sexy, sophisticated, ambitious, successful, not slept with any people you might know, honest, funny, kind, caring, aesthetically attractive to you, strong, doesn’t consider you a financial plan, self confident, loyal…
Amazing body, great with kids, witty, looks after you, cook, clean, generally sort your life out, style you, give you great massages, workout with you. Be friends with your mom when you don’t wanna be friends with your mum. Organize your schedule. Make enough money to support you both if you ever need it, but not more than you. Smile whenever you tell her to, basically not breathe… Dress up for Sex but not dress up too much when she goes out… But all you have to offer her is your manhood. Ladies Don’t let no man sap all of your energy and love when he obviously have nothing to offer you asides from good sex.
I’ve been there, done that and trust me, I ran away. Most annoying is when you as a woman have to be the bread winner and still receive nothing but the manhood.
A good dick never built a house or paid the rent, a hardworking dedicated supportive man does…” narrates Tonto Dikeh.
Source - Vanguard
Hmm I am happy for her but if she said the reason this worked out with this man was becos she kept quiet and hid it,why is she revealing all what she hid now?Tonto,please take your Marriage off the press due to your controversial nature oooo.
We want your happiness honey!
Enough of this attention seeking drama queen please.
ReplyDeleteI have only on question....abeg why did u burn dos bags abi clothes..d tin ves me sha... lol pls be happy dear...wen a human is happy...always share in d happiness...
DeleteOnly introduction ooo, na im toto dike no go allow us hear word. Abeg start d marriage proper, stay up to 10yrs b4 u begin give advice.
DeleteSometimes we gotta tell ourselves the hard truth "I don't see this marriage" in the next five years.
DeleteTonto no fit stay husband house.
Tontolet, the earlier you gird your tongue the better. Marriage isn't by wide mouth o.
Tonto
So is she now saying her hubby has a small dick but he is hardworking n supportive? Sorry *runs away *
DeleteI don't trust this church guy
ReplyDeleteWell...I wish them all the very best
@Galore
Hehehe @trust. Well Church is a badt loaded, coded badt guy is all I will say ; )). Then as for Tonto make she just gree us hear word abeg. Nor be for club Church meet you? Abeg lets leave matter for Matthias. Tonto be provoking people to say something.
DeleteLeave the girl alone stella abeg make una let this girl rest ah ah,person no marry wahala person marry another wahala.
DeleteMost people on nigeria now hide their wedding preparation and plans bc bad bele just like lilian and ubi so there won't be issues rumours and co.
Remember when she ist brought out Mr x face all the people talking ans insulting that his a married man,those are the kind of things that make couples hide their preparations coz of talk talk and people who are ready to dig out ur past.
She's saying it now coz she Don marry the guy successfully.
This lady needs to resist all temptation and keep her new home far from the public. Anyway her life, her decisions . I can only wish her the best.
DeleteNeed a yummy Birthday/Wedding cake in Abuja? Home / office delivery. Also send a gift of cake to your loved one in Abuja.Pls click on my ID to see pics and my contact details.
@German juice smh ...
DeleteIt's good to be back.....
ReplyDeleteHmmm..
DeleteWish you the best Tonto.
Tonto the preacher or lecturer which?
DeleteWho is next?
I really want to read comments.
ReplyDeleteNephew to OBJ? Abeg e yaff do Tonto. Let us hear word. Ur ex was a cheat but u were displaying fake gold plated Iphone then? Mtchewww
ReplyDeleteTonto again?
ReplyDeleteTɦɛ օռʟʏ աօʀɖ I քɨċҡɛɖ օʊt օʄ tɦɨs ʟօռɢ stօʀʏ ɨs ɦaքքɨռɛss.... Fօʟʟօա ʍʏ աօʀɖs aռɖ ռօt ʍʏ ɖɛɛɖs
ReplyDelete... Tɦat's աɦօ Tօռtօ ɨs.
Olori isi isi
DeleteMe I really like your sense of humour
Those around yhu can never be bored.
That being said, I think Tonto dike's love for Churchill is literary platonic. She seldom speak of what attracted her to him.
And the part where she said she is happy. Lol that statement should be left for her 5the year in marriage.
Oʟօʀɨ ɨsɨ ɨsɨ ɛ ҡաa G քɦaʀʍ....
DeleteThe only ones I picked out were 'don't let a man sap your energy and love if the only thing he has to offer is his manhood'. # words to live by!
Delete# broke niggers keep off!
.....a good dick never built a house or paid the bills.....
ReplyDeleteLewd words does not suite your mother status
DeleteI'm sorry
.....But of course ! It doesn't pay the bills or put food on the table.
DeleteLmao @ fit your mother status. Please let her speak her mind jor.
DeleteI refuse to read. Too long. *yawns*
ReplyDeleteJust introduction and she has started answering Mrs churchhill.. Da hustle to be a married woman is really alarming in dis our society.
DeleteI can't read too! Dropped half way.
DeleteI can't read too! Dropped half way.
DeleteI can't read too! Dropped half way.
DeleteJust introduction and she has started answering Mrs churchhill.. Da hustle to be a married woman is really alarming in dis our society.
DeleteNo one forced you to comment.
Delete1 bottle of Coke from me to yhu. Cheers
Then u go book space and go empty as usual.
DeleteLol la fresh and German juice. U guys shld pls kiss and makeup.
Deleteyawns...
ReplyDeletewe yaff ear!...next gist please.
Eye lash ain't for you hub
DeleteThat being said. You are beautiful
Hun
DeleteHow u take see the lashes? Na sobu take.style dey snoop abi? Hahhaha anyway keep increasing the view number. See your head
DeleteThe lashes fear me.kikiki
DeleteWhatever happened to find bea,tell no one and enjoy your bea in peace?
ReplyDeleteBetter enter house madam
*bae
DeletePlease keep your life private, best wishes from me
ReplyDeleteTonto stop dis, laylow pls, u don't need all dis! Keep ur relationship off social media! Pls
ReplyDeleteUncle don turn father in law! Claim to fame. If he ain't d man's father how is he her "father" in law. If he was a broke nobody (obj) she for call am her fr in law? Namsense
ReplyDeleteI just tire oh. Uncle don turn to papa.
DeleteAll this publicity of the marriage is what will start one nonsense wahala now.
She should just keep quiet about it like she has been doing.
T baby, stay off the press
ReplyDeleteAll these people will never learn. Keep your marital private private. Tonto we have heard you. enjoy your marraige.
ReplyDeleteget belle quick. your friend don get belle no 3.
Love me jeje you are utterly stupid.....belle na competition? Foolish idiot...no body should ever Harris anyone for something that is not in mans capacity to do......if at all u have a child it is not by your power, but if you are yet to have I pray you look for so u know never to talk that kind of rubbish ever again.....stupid fool
DeleteGod bless her home and give her wisdom.
ReplyDeleteAmen. Oh
DeleteHappy 4 you, but make it work and drop all your anger and drama!
ReplyDeleteI pray that your pussy will be sufficient for him!
If e never slack finish
DeleteAnony this your comment can cause cross eye o
DeleteOk na
ReplyDeleteGoodluck to her. I pray her testimony be permanent. Amen
ReplyDeleteShe sounds so desperate, even before her introduction she has already changed her name to Churchill. Make she enter house and marry her husband quietly. The social media will be busy watching how long the marriage will last. May the marriage last long.
DeleteWishing her HML though.
Better said Stella, a word is enough the wise.
ReplyDeleteI love you tonto and what you to be happy, but u have to help urself by taking ur marriage off the press, try to talk less abt stuffs happening with you. Cheers! I love you crazy and I wish you a happy married life!
ReplyDeleteThank God for her. She should just keep her marriage private.
DeleteDear Tonto! I love that you are happy and I bless God for your life. Pls continue to keep your secrets oooooooo. Yansh openers plenty wey dey wait for your fuck ups.
ReplyDeleteAzin ehn
DeleteTonto should go and relax.She did just introduction,she has not done tradional,court and church wedding and has already changed her surname.Tonto,God does not recognize u yet as a married woman because u are not married to Oladuni.So,stop decieving itself.
ReplyDeleteShe did intro and he paid her bride price that is not enough,so all those you mentioned are what makes you a married woman abi
DeleteStop deceiving urself.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Wishing them the best and nothing but the best though..... #NowPlaying>> terry g: terry g....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Kkk.
ReplyDeleteStella is good she reveal little things cos she's a public figure.....
ReplyDeleteAm happy for her...
ReplyDeleteGood for you tonto!
DeleteMay you both grow old together.
I agree with you Stella. Keep your marriage and husband away from the media.
ReplyDeleteVanguard can somehow lie... All dis are wat she posted on her ig page.
ReplyDeleteWe want your happiness honey!
ReplyDeleteBiko speak for yourself @ Stella.
Okbye.
Sadist
DeleteLong epistle. What's she trying to prove?
ReplyDeleteQueen poko Lee. U really have To be in it to win it.
ReplyDeleteValid points I see here. She made a whole lot of sense to me. God bless her new home
ReplyDeleteOgologo akuko
ReplyDeleteLove is beautiful....end of story
Stella these are deep feelings of true love secured in finding in Christ Love. She's sooo happy let's appreciate the happiness in us female. She's happy she's fulfilled she's found love and above all Christ.
ReplyDeleteWhat else..,? Be it open or closed, she's built this relationship on Christ solid rock... On her pregnancy Stella, what if she miscarried?? God be with her, Amen.
@SHB
Tonto enough dear, and even if you wanna grant another interview keep your family out of it.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck!
Tonto!
ReplyDeleteEnough said ooh
If I were u, will just face my home already!!
I thought u should have learn ur lessons by now
Marriage is not bed of roses ooh
Leave publicity alone and face ur home!
U no dey tire?
U too talk!
Haba!
Mrs churchhill "D parrot"
Eternity marriage is all I wish you with happiness
ReplyDeleteMadam Dimoko, bia why the BOLD LETTERING for MALIVELIHOOD na?? kikikikikikikkkkkiiiiiiiiiikkiiii boooohhhoooooooohohooohooooo lwkmfaya
ReplyDeleteLove is blind
ReplyDeletehian ohoooooO a good dick never built a house or paid the bills.....! i rest my case!
ReplyDeleteI just want her marriage to work.
ReplyDeleteBad girls deserve some love too.
I am rooting for you Poko.
And you? Have you found any?
DeleteAre you still f*u*king married men?
For the records, no peace for the wicked, even if they try forcing it.
Dumb motherfucker. Now you mad at me cos you ugly and your bf gave up on your pussy already? Bye bitch.
DeleteOk seen!
ReplyDeleteAm glad for her, I be don dey fear.
ReplyDeleteWhere am i?
ReplyDeleteI need to rant!
Lord give me a hubby o, I am tired of all this pencil jeans guys, Lord give me a blazer wearing guy,with nice dentition,nice height,clean finger nails, nice complexion, nice ride, nice house and a clean boxers. I am tired o
Ask and it shall be given ,God will surely give you your total package
DeleteHahahahahahah
DeleteGod will give you your heart desire in Jesus's name, Amen
DeleteLmao @ clean boxers !
DeleteSo shall it be for uuuuu @ anon 17:05
DeleteAnon u be craze. And you shall receive your heart desire in Jesus name
DeleteI follow u dey find o. All these pencil jeans guys with sweet mouth nor be am o
DeleteAsk urself...can u attract d kinda guy u just mentioned? There's a reason why only pencil jeans guys with dirty boxers r coming..check urself
DeleteGod bless you @bitchplis
DeleteLol, @dirtyboxers
DeleteHappy for Tonto Dikeh. Just hope she isn't tryin to make her marriage a publicity stunt.
Bad Girls deserve to be happy too. I really love her person, IDGAF attitude.
#MrLohki
Bitchplis took the words from my mouth...over to you.
DeleteNice.
ReplyDeleteBut that you're now his wife, doesn't mean you should start putting your private business out there.
Some people are not smiling. It doesn't change anything for them.
Congratulations.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Exactly
DeleteStay on ur lane Poko baby.
ReplyDeleteKeep ur marriage out of d media.
Tonto spoke with a clear head and am genuinely happy for her.
ReplyDeleteTonto please don't let people's expectations and opinions change who you are.
Churchill knew what he was getting into when he chose you so keep it real gurl.
I wish you endless marital bliss darling.
Shey she has started, abeg Stells i dont want her story in IHN ooh, hiah.
ReplyDeleteNdi love, let it not be hot water love o. All the best sha.Try to have your trad/wedding fast.
ReplyDeleteTonto please keep quiet & keep your marriage out of public eyes & social media... Relationships & marriages hardly stand its test.
ReplyDeleteHappy for her...
ReplyDeleteShe sounds more intelligent..
Love /marriage is a beautiful thing...
Toto he haf do ooooo
ReplyDeleteTonto please enough of the fmr president inlaw title..Churchill's mum is just one of baba's babe so stop it we are definitely not related to him.hisssssssssss.
ReplyDeleteIntroduction is the new marriage
ReplyDeleteMarriage made easy.
Does she think writing all these long essays will make "a seasoned snatcher" not to snatch Churchill after she slept with all the married men in town? She don turn to preacher, abii.
*Running towards Churchill with my legs wide open"
Churchill, i am "cuuuuuuuummmmmmmming " for you.
Tonto darl, i am kidding biko, before you will develop high bp.
XOXO MYSTERY
Churchill has a child from a gf when he was younger, he just divorced another woman, Obasanjo is his uncle. Tonto, Hmmm no jump out oooo cos Churchill get plenty gfs oooo ehn ehn cos we know u give some women heartache too oooo. So, just siddon with ur man. All d best.
ReplyDeleteWell!! *deep sigh* ........wish you all the best.....congratulations......be happy cos that's every human seeks
ReplyDeleteTonto dike keep ur marriage private
ReplyDeleteDrama queen congrats
ReplyDeleteStelladimo obj is not churchill's uncle his mum is obj girlfriend that's all
ReplyDeleteIf u like don't posy my comment again
ReplyDeleteHian Tontoh, you go dance and get tired soon. For your info Churchill is the son of late TB Joshua's brother who died when Churchill was very young. To cut the long gist short, his late father gave him to OBJ to train hence the reason he is close to OBJ. How can OBJ true son be doing wire fraud in Ghana. We go see wetin go happen soon!!!
ReplyDeleteThat is the true gist people!!
Whatever...she is married to Churchill and that is the true gist
DeleteHello Tonto!
DeleteI dnt see any reason why u guys should hate Tonto. Its her life and she should live it however she want. No one has any right to judge her. Coz no one is perfect.
ReplyDeleteI just pray she knows DAT Churchill has a child already
ReplyDelete