Should women downplay or downsize their potentials because they wanna get married especially as they say successful women chase potential guys away?
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Are you a very successful lady, have a couple of properties in highbrow areas, but would rather not tell your new boo that you have all these and have achieved a lot more because you dont want him running away?
What if you earn way more than him?Would you downplay your salary to make him feel as if he earns more?
Is there anyone here who has lost a boo because their take home pay was more than what Boo takes home?
Are one of those whose family discouraged from renting an apartment or buying a posh car because they feel doing these would chase away prospective suitors?
What is it about men saying that successful women are rude, have attitude problems and are intimidating ,is it school of thought correct or just made up in Men's head?
Or just maybe these men are just too damn insecure?
What is your story? has anyone here run into a guy that 'excused himself' when he learnt of your monthly take home pay,your educational qualifications and material achievement?
Step forward,lets talk about it !!!
let the comments roll in
ReplyDeleteMen these days are even looking for women that are well loaded. Meet a guy today and the first thing he will ask even before ur name is "what do u do for a living" ..everyone is looking for who to feed off. Mtchewwww
DeleteAunty gwegwegwe you said it all.
DeleteToo many questions.
DeleteIn all, I think women should be totally loyal to their man. And ofcourse not trying to leave beyond/below who they really are because they are tryna act loyal. Pretense is a bastards, avoid it.
Understanding your man, what he gives a fuck on and how he fucks about it should be a concern to you. Don't raise shoulder and act the boss even if you are one. Even though it takes two to tangle, head is always a head. That's what our Africa parents has made us understand...
True! I'm wondering why a man would be scared of a rich lady. Men these days that are lazy and looking for rich women to leech from. It is even a successful lady that should be scared, else the broke dude messes up all she's worked for.
DeleteTrue! I'm wondering why a man would be scared of a rich lady. Men these days that are lazy and looking for rich women to leech from. It is even a successful lady that should be scared, else the broke dude messes up all she's worked for.
DeleteI'll just be reading comments..
DeleteI have this problem with men. They are terrified of smart, super -successful women. It's Africa we live in, so we'll have to adapt, camouflage, survive, succeed, and stoop to conquer if need be.
DeleteI lied that my car belonged to my dad. He still left me. He was looking for a car owner. Ken,thunder will continue firing your tortoise head wherever you are.
DeleteWhat's wrong with askin someone u wanto date what she does for a living?...what r u soposed to be askin her,her bra size or d number of previous sex partners?...abeggi!
DeleteDada your English is pathetic......u want a woman who will worship ur sorry arse while u treat her like shit abi? Senseless head
DeleteMy sister was dating this guy(he's a millionaire) that wanted her to resign before they marry. She refuse. The guy was so insecure. Anytime she does not answer his call he would either say she's with a man and whenever she travels for meetings it's one complain to another. She left him and age was not really on her side.
DeleteGod did it for her. She recently met a guy that supports her in all she does. Pushes her to even do more. He won't even allow her send her 100naira when he's around. They're getting married soon.
This should be interesting. I'll be back to read the comments.
ReplyDeletePersonally. I can never marry a woman who earns more than me.
DeleteIt will be a constant reminder of how I've failed as a Man.
And some women would never keep their mouth shut about how much they contribute in the family.
Personally I think a Man should marry a woman he earns more than. Except he is a gold digger or the love nor be here.
Any guy that feels Insecure n threatened by what ur have or ur achievements doesn't deserve u...I want my lady to be as successful as anyone could be n i'l still play my role as d head of d house...so help me God
DeleteWhat is wrong with you people? How does success amount to riches. Success is relative and certainly has little to do with riches. SMH
DeleteAny man that cant handle a womans success doesnt deserve her...shikena.
DeleteBut also, a woman shouldnt rub her wealth on her mans face though.
If eg am married and my wife becomes chief justice of nigeria am sure am gonna be more proud than she is sef...i will support my woman to achieve whatever she wants...thats all
A fam friend of ours met his wife in the organisation where he works. Left the place for her when they wanted to marry.
DeleteThey company wanted the woman to leave cos the man is one of their best marketer and she is just in HR. He refused and left instead. He got another job. The woman was promoted and earns more thn him now.
They had a quarrel recently and she opened her mouth to tell him "I feed and cloth you".
He said from that day he just give her money for food and he eats once a while and never takes any gift from her.
Some women are just mean
Ok G_Pharm because you get to choose who you fall in "true love" with....
DeleteAnd funny life is a cycle, you might earn more than your wife in dating phases but she earns more later in life, will you divorce her?
U sound like u dnt have potentials. That she is earning more than u do doesnt mean its d status quo. U shud aspire 4 excellence. Wat u earn monthly shudnt b d basis for proving ur worth as a man. #reflect
Delete@ G_Pharm geraraheee
DeleteLol. Thank you anonymouses
DeleteThey had a quarrel, did he not also insult her? What did he say to her? She will not just tell him that without a reason...men do shit and expect you to always keep quiet
Deletehmmmm
ReplyDeleteDo guys still get intimidated? Now they even want the wealthy ones.
DeleteDownplay?So what will happen after marriage???Considering the fact that we "naija women" always pray for lasting marriage. When you marry "your friend",downplay would never be an issue because all you both want is each other's happiness andthat brings peace in the home.
DeleteA man who will appreciate{irrespective of what you earn or have} will appreciates you. When you are honest, diligent and prayerful, you only attract people of like minds.
Don't carry your jack bauer attitude enter marriage o! No matter how smart and calculatiing you think you are ,you can't outsmart a real man.
Don't enter a marriage with that kinda of mindset, e humble,loving,supportive and definately don't throw your success to your man's face o! Hian! A man accomplishment and his wife's are one!
Marriage is highly sensitive o!
I don talk my own.
Make Ina step forward o
ReplyDeleteI will just read comments!
ReplyDeleteI even know one personally .This one will sing all the counttries she has travelled to on the first day of meeting nwa bobo, all the Italian food and airlines and hotel she has stayed cos she has a good job, very good one.Na so she jam one wey wise pass am small. Abuja peeps. The guy friend this babe so tey the babe had already shopped for her wedding dress. Only to come back and juo question. The answer come be sey bobo get wife with two kids, then three other kids with babes. Wedding cancelled. Recent development .
DeleteLol...dis days is d oda way...de want u to be making money b4 saying hi
ReplyDeleteIf you are a very wealthy woman, no matter the guy you meet or aspire to meet, downplay your wealth cos men are very egoistic. They hate competition. They hate to come to the terms that a woman can hold her own 100%.
ReplyDeleteThey usually feel the woman will not be totally submissive.
So women, be wise.Everything na sense
Not all these efuluefu guys looking for a rich,working class chic to tie down...
DeleteSomeone I know married one and she is the one running the home while the only thing the hubby knows is being on the internet from morning till night...stealing the girls money to buy things from Konga...
She will soon divorce his broke ass after being a sperm donor...
Oռ քօɨռt ɮʟօɢɢɨɛ.. I ʟօst tաօ քɛօքʟɛ ɮɛċaʊsɛ օʄ ʍʏ ɛɖʊċatɨօռaʟ ɮaċҡɢʀօʊռɖ tօքքɨռɢ tɦɛɨʀs.. Mɛռ aʀɛ tɦɛ ʍօst ɨռsɛċʊʀɛ քɛօքʟɛ օռ ɛaʀtɦ ɛʐɨօҡաʊ.
DeleteBlog analyser: instead of down playing I will say act cool. Some people will be acting and showing off their wealth. I know a lady that earns 45k basic salary and other incentives totaling 65k. She got the job and a month after she got Honda baby boy. I advised her against it but she refused. Today she is running from pillar to post looking for husband. What am saying don't leave above your means and don't do things coz others are doing it. Some ladies are even looking for guy that are rich like them and those guyz are scarce.
DeleteUr right.
DeleteLE,
DeleteYou see those "efuelefu" you speak of, they are on a mission and not necessarily exactly what the woman seeks. The woman at this point is a 'fish' caught in their net. She jumps in thinking they are both in love, but in actual fact, it's one sided.
Dude be using her as atm to frolick with the kinda babes he desires.
A man who has an inner desire to marry for companionshp/love and procreation, will never be totally at ease that his wife has more than he does.
Olori, I feel you. Men are easily intimidated. Meanwhile this your typeface ehnn..
Distinctive on blog.
Anonymous you are just a pant. On top of 110k salary?? You people should be fearing God
DeleteYou mean 650k or 65k??
DeleteThis one hits home. I lost my Fiance due to the fact i would not compromise with my job and move to where he is which would have meant me quitting my good paying job to find something else where he is. When i say good paying i mean it in everyway including benefits for the family.
ReplyDeletePeople always say women have to compromise but I dont believe so, I want both, i dnt want to choose till date some people think i am crazy for walking away but then I say God knows best. I see successful career women in my office they dont have 2 heads.
I did not burn those mid night candles in university, exepnsive school feesa to just walk away from my dream. God is not dead my prince charming and knight in shining clothing would come. Amen
Amen for you sister. Wish you all the best. Don't give up for men not worth it.
DeleteThank God you didn't make such mistake...
DeleteBut truth be told,wealthy men don't marry succesful career women...
Oh yes!...
Na only fake,fine boy,broke ass niggas will be asking them out...
Come get a hug hun...i respect and like women such as yourself.
DeleteAmen O°˚˚˚° my dear, move ko move ni, later he will start saying that yur a liabilty to him. Don't regret it.Love will find a way to your Life. Cheers hon
Delete@Anon, I wish there was a like button for your comment.
DeleteTrue @ Linda
Its your type that am usually attracted to. Good riddance to bad rubbish @fiance.
DeleteStranger u must be a useless man
DeleteCorrect babe! Your head they dere. 1000 likes for Your comment.
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Don't I just love you?
DeleteLol...dis days is d oda way...de want u to be making money b4 saying hi
ReplyDeleteSays who? Those are gigolos/players not husband material
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Personally as Alloy, I love career women, successful women, I don't have any problem with My woman making or earning more money than I do, or being more successful than I am. Women shouldn't downsize their achievement. It's all Cool with me as a guy. Actually men who think in that direction of successful women being rude, or have attitude or have a problem with their woman being more successful have issues with themselves, they're either insecure or have poor self esteem.
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Hmmm. Alloy if truly this is how you see it then happy for your future wife. Cos men like dominating women in every possible way.
DeleteWORD!!!
DeleteBe advertising yourself Alloy. Why would u find any prob with it, when u sleep and wait up on blogs, waiting for successful ladies to date u. Go get successful so a lady can write down wat u just wrote down and come back and tell me later how it sound in ur ears. Gold digger Alloy
DeleteAh. Which one is gold digger alloy. Lol
DeleteAnon : 15:06 u are funny.
DeleteI want to read and learn,because I didn't really experience any of these before I got married.
ReplyDelete...men that also think or feel successful women or women that earns more than they do are rude or have attitude, and have a problem with their woman earning more than they do are also immature.
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Only jealous men will complain about successful women.....
ReplyDeleteYep yep
Deletewalahi as an immaculate and enigmatic aboki that i am, i will say zes is berri berri punny.. kai, butz, zat is none of my business,i will just wait and hear them ladies out.. brb #Yowahhh!!
ReplyDeleteLol!
Deletewhy should i downplay my success. That is what is shaking my dh. if you got it, flaunt it.
ReplyDeleteStella,such theories existed only way back from d 90s downwards!now unmarried ladies have to even up-play'(if there is any word like dat,lol)their achievements to get their attention....men of nowadays!ha!
ReplyDeleteThere is no need to downplay your achievements as a woman so long as you don't throw it in your partner's face all the time.
ReplyDeleteAs for me, I cut down my take home pay by 50%! It id not modesty issue but because he doesn't need to know what I earn!
I love chopping my man's money.
Exactly.
DeleteWhy would any woman downplay her achievement to please someone else? You don't have to go rubbing it in people's faces but you don't have to downplay it either. That's why every woman should ask God for a man that will uplift them and encourage them to aim for the stars not losers that will go about sulking just cause you earn more than them.
I've seen men relocate with their wives and kids for their wives job because the wives has better paying jobs. But then again, this is in the U.S, not Nigeria where some men believe the sun rises and sets at their said so.
I was shocked when I heard that in Nigeria, single successful women don't usually buy nice cars for fear of what people will say or how men would feel. Like come on.
Yeah if you smart don't buy frivolous cars
DeleteEven when married stick to Japan still your children are established
Stella,Abegi l beg to differ.
ReplyDeleteIt is only an illiterate poor lazy man that will talk like that.
Successful women are not rude.
In fact, they are more cultured than the poor lazy ones.They know what they went thru to be successful.
Lemme read comments
ReplyDeleteLemme learn today
ReplyDeleteMen always want to be at the top. So women shld try as much as possible to downplay if they want a gud man for yet to be married ones and for the already married ones, even if u earn higher dan your boo, pls don't show it. It would make him feel insure and this can affect ur marriage adversely. My thought though.
ReplyDeleteA real man won't mind a woman that earns more only weak men do. A man is a man no matter what, your girlfriend or wife is your baby. The problem is most women that earn more tend to be arrogant, i earn more than DH as a business woman and we are cool with it, i talk to him before buying anything, he has all my codes.
ReplyDelete*smiling* ds post gonna b interesting!!!
ReplyDeleteI have always wanted to buy an SUV, I have a good paying job, and I have a family that I kinda support. So, while saving up for my car my friends asked, Chiamy what type of car do you want and i go, Rav 4... and I hear comments like , hmmmm... remember you are not married, or why don't you want to go for a smaller car and stuff like that... I so do not mind, as soon as my cash is complete, I dey buy my car.
ReplyDeleteYou are looking for a hubby,pls don't buy. We don't want to read your chronicle pls
DeleteBuy joor. I have one. My bf drives a 2004 Honda. But him no send. Even services mine along with his. My point? Real men don't bother about such crap.
DeleteLadies if you earn more you have to be extremely humble, before you spend major money try and take permission from DH even though it is your money to avoid problems. IT WORKS.
ReplyDeleteAwwww... you are a star! I repeat, you are a star. Not only are you a star, you are wise. This is the best comment I read on this colomn. Your initial write-up before this one also blew me off! God bless the parents who raised you! And lucky is the man who married you too!!!!
DeleteWhen a woman is richer than her man, it isn't a disaster, but it sure is a dicey situation. The woman has to be humble so that a wrong signal is not transmitted. #Simple
Thank you dear.
DeleteI'm loving this... Comments pls. Stella abeg shift yansh make i join Una... I av always prayed for this kinda thing. I don't know I just have this feeling I'm gonna be more successful than my boo. I need to learn biko
ReplyDeleteA woman is allowed to earn more than me, but the problem is that shudnt affects her mentality and xter as a wife, tho it will tell on my ego as a Man, but I accept the fact that we cannot have all we want in life. Love, understanding and respect is the key -Mr Soul
ReplyDeleteWhere I wan start my story wit dis topic!..brb after this meeting. #spacebooked
ReplyDeleteA real guy shouldn't depend on his chic's money.
ReplyDeleteIts an individual thing. Av always been with guys that doesn't care abt my earnings.
ReplyDeleteI am in this kind of situation as well, i earn way more than my hubby. The good thing is that hubby saw me grow from my poor struggling diploma days (still boyfriend things) to my well paid foreign oil job. One of the reasons I agreed to marry him was bcoz in all my achievement, by the grace of God, he never displayed any iota of jealousy. I graduated before him, got a job before him, did master before him, got plenty professional qualifications, but my guy would only encourage me all the way, and even volunteer to pay for some of my exams.
ReplyDeleteNow in marriage, all I do is make sure he sees my payslip every month (note, not actual cash ooo) so he's know there's nothing to hide. We only plan with the money using our head to calculate, since we know how much we both earn. He has started his masters as well and is working. Mostly we plan for capital expenditure as he suggests, still the money is in my account ooo. Then as a sharp geh, I collect his own share of the investment(from whatever he earns, no matter how small. Cuz a man must feel the pressure to provide for his family in my opinion. My earnings not withstanding), and add to my plenty money! He is happy he has control over my money (mental, but not physical, LOL), I am happy I have my money and his money in cash. We both live happliy ever after cuz everyone is happy! .......... The end.
Hahahahaha. Madam I had a good laugh. I love you already! You're smart and loyal. Thumbs up!
DeleteHehehe....nice strategy!
DeleteI pray I can replicate your formula, the key is to find your God ordained husband
DeleteLooooool!!! Sharp woman!
DeleteNot kind...nor smart of you mrs 'sharp geh'. You don't seem to truly love your hubby and you might be up for a rude awakening after all the support you said he gave you.
DeleteHow do you expect to maintain an healthy marriage by allowing the spirit of financial competition and scheming to lead your way? sigh...
I"m a single lady but I feel like both men and women would benefit from being more caring, understanding and bumble in marriage.
PS: a very important topic that all young professionals now face all over the world, not only in Africa I think... Thanks for sharing Stella and all, I'm also learning here :-)
That's how my bf dumped me saying am too fond of workin and just imagine he didn't ve a job,am a baker I bake nice cakes and pple patronice me bt dis guy dnt like seeing me working
ReplyDeleteHe is Jealous!!! U shuld have dumped his sorry ASS
DeleteI am a lady of 29yrs, been working in the bank for 4yrs now. My father died quite early and left a lot of properties, shares and land. Presently in my acct, I have 30m in my account, all in fixed deposit and I am not bragging. This is my own share so far and there is more to come.
ReplyDeleteI will never tell a guy how much im worth and i have my reasons for this through experience. The only ppl that know are my 3 closest friends.
I made the mistake of telling my 1st boyfriend then in university when i received the 1st 2m. And he just started demanding, wanted me to drop 500k so he can use it to buy a car for transport business, i refused. Then he started dating one bitch and started flaunting d stuff she buys him, and she was even ready to give him the money, that i was selfish, i am not supportive of his dreams. Me sef give him the 500k and he still dumped me.
My present bf know nothing about my financial status, he thinks i earn just 180k from the bank. i still tell him im broke, he sends me credit, buys clothes, hair etc. He even sends me little money like 50k, 100k from time to time.
I believe a man shld know his responsibilities from dating, bcos in marriage a man shld provide shelter,food, clothing. I am just there to assist with the little day to day expenses for the house and kids.
Iam not saying ladies shld date only rich men o,bcos dos rich men we'r also broke in dere youth. but atlst sm1 with a job that is living comfortably.
Like 2yrs ago, my mum took me to a pastor of marriage matter, na so the man tell me to smtimes park my car for house and enter bus or treck some days. i just tell my mother, i am sorry but i am not even looking for sm1 in a bus or sm1 on the road, abeg let me enjoy my small Honda, not like im driving range rover.
I like the fact that you didn't give that your boyfriend the 500k...
DeleteWomen should learn how to collect money from their men...afterall he dey fuck your toto...
Wow! 30m at the age of 29??? I'm 29,I don't have 20k in my account. People are really lucky.
DeleteOluwa nee nu'm oo!
Hehehehe.smart gal.
DeleteHehehe.smart geh.Remove that dough from fixed deposit and invest it abeg.Buy properties and double that dough in a year.
DeleteOmo Babe is right...invest invest invest...I can't say it enough.
Delete@ queen_read well she gave him d 500k nd he still DUMPED her
Delete@ Linda read again; she eventually gave the guy the money but still got dumped.
DeleteNa wah oh...
DeleteWhat is wrong with some girls?...how can you give your precious 500k to a guy?...
Nna mehn,girls of nowadays are horrible...
During my time ehhheee,infact story for another day...
Please send me an email on Enchantedme007@gmail.com and I can assist you with investing in real estate. You can get a nice property and start taking rent on it. Becoming a real estate investor should become your goal. That's where the money is at
DeleteWhen ppl with money talk.... Later one silly blogger would be bragging about Range Rover to the extent that it came up on The Chaz B show. And people will be hailing on dp. Mscheeew!! The real money owners don't shout in Nigeria. He who has ears let him hear.
DeleteThumbs up to the single successful ladies out there... NEVER DOWNPLAY YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS FOR ANY MAN. If the man can't stand his woman being more successful, such a man is poverty personified, has no believe in his future, is simply a failure. I, for one love having such a woman as a partner, cos she'll challenge, and push me to achieving my dreams. Success is contagious...so is failure. My woman is more successful today, doesn't mean I won't be the more successful one tomorrow. It's all about self-belief, self-esteem, and self-confidence. Though it's very rare to see a successful lady without pride, and big ego. And for that reason most guys move away cos of the lady's altitude. So, successful ladies, improve in your characters, never downplay your careers, or achievements. If the man can't stand you... waka pass abeg, the REAL MAN will surely come
ReplyDeleteYes o! Yu're a REAL MAN!!!
DeleteWhy say "lost"? If he chose to walk away because he couldn't handle the fact that you are more educated or earn more, and you know you have not been arrogant about any of those things then he is no loss.Bella
ReplyDeleteLovely did post die.
ReplyDeleteWaiting to read all d comments.
Tnx Stella for did post.
Love dis post die
ReplyDeleteA man can't handle your success? Dump his ass.
ReplyDeleteSo I spent kkkk to go to nigeria to meet a guy from S&M.I hid everything about myself from him apart from a few things I told him.That trip was an eye opener.Am glad I didnt say more than I did.in the country I live in,i own the house I live in,I own 2 other properties that I rented out.i drive a nice car and have 2 others in nigeria and have a flourishing biz ,I have a fat bank account and own more properties in nigeria.It intimidated a guy I wanted to date in the past so I decided to behave like I had nothing this time around.Am glad I did otherwise this s&m guy would have behaved nicely to me when he knew my true worth. I pretended to be struggling and boy did he give it to me!!! In all it wasn't a bad experience .I learnt how to prepare a new meal,I climbed okada and I swept...lol..I can't remember the last time I did any of that.I have decided that am only going to be with a guy who knows my worth and is worth more!!!..I no fit shout abeg.am back to my ex...and friends with the s$m guy.na so life be.
ReplyDeleteI married a gigolo . Stupid me . He ended up stealing my money,now he wants to see his kids !!! How ??!!! I believe the money he stole should compensate him for the sperm donor work ??!! Abi ,u can't steal my money and still ask to see ur kids !!! U drink blood ??!! As long as u don't pay back my money it'll Neva be well with u. Ull die a very slow painful death !!! Bastard thief !!! Shameless gold digger ,lazy fool with a four inch cock that lasts only 2mins . My only consolation are my beautiful kids . Baaaaaaaastaaarrrrdddd !!!!.
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain. You must be so angry. It's well. Make sure he pays you back to the last dime! Stupid men everywhere
DeleteHahhahaha....una no go kill me o! Did u say 4inch? #rotflmao#
Delete4 inch cock, yet you almost died when i left you. Stupid arrogant bitct! Fucking rich old men for money, claiming 'my money'. Taaaa
DeleteHahahahahaha...
DeleteSee drama!..anony,how do you know she is referring to you ?...
Lmao...
Yeah most men feel intimidated and some of dem r gold diggers I respect women who work hard 4 wat dey ve and they deserve the best men I'm aspiring to be one so I know dh would be very supportive
ReplyDeleteHmmmm...learning
ReplyDeleteThe truth of the matter is a lot of our men are very small minded. They can not handle a woman being successful. They can not handle a woman not begging them every two seconds. If you are silly enough to downplay your success then you are not married to your God ordained spouse. Your God ordained spouse will encourage you to shine brighter and brighter because he knows your success is his success. This will not happen because too many women are too desperate to be married and you ladies jump on any wagon just to be a Mrs. I am a successful man and I do not want to marry a woman who is not striving. If she is bigger than me, then good. The people benefiting from the success will be my Children so why would I want her to downplay her success. My children will look to their mother for inspiration in the future.
ReplyDeleteAbi o! @ anon 17:31_yur a REAL MAN
DeleteYou have a beautiful mindset. Beautiful. H single?
DeleteSame thing I posed myself as a lady. You want to down play my worth and it will affect your kids
DeleteThe ONLY reason I will advise well-to-do single ladies to downplay their wealth is because of gold-diggers! Just as some women are not 'smiling', so are some men!
ReplyDeleteHmm that's how ma cousin left agip to stay with her husband that does business. Now the babe that used to dash me 100k just like that when I ask is the same person begging me for 1500 credit someday 750. Then when she wanted to quit I said how can a staff in agip quit. She said when I marry I'd understand she is putting family before career and wd stay home to take care of the kids. Hmm when I see her these days it makes me Cry. She looks soo unkept. Nawa
ReplyDeleteI don't believe it. Career women get snapped up in marriage faster than a bullet especially with the current state of Nigeria economy. Actually, it is the jobless and broke women that are living in the prayer house in search of an economic saviour in the name of a husband. Any single, educated woman with good career that cannot find a good husband needs to move back to the village and reconcile with her uncle because the thing wey dey do am MFM no fit bind and cast.
ReplyDeleteKeep quiet anonymous18:24 stop saying rubbish.most of d unmarried women have great careers so wat d hell are u saying.well thank GOD for MFM d prayers are working for them and they are getting married so ur talk is bullshit.
DeleteMe i no even know as i never hammer but any guy wen no fi date me coz i get passam, make he go lay egg.
ReplyDeleteDownplay your achievement to get married..... .??
ReplyDeleteDid I read that right???
You guys are on a long thing!!!
As if the same said marriage is not enough suffering and smiling by itself.
Downplay your achievement to get married..... .??
ReplyDeleteDid I read that right???
You guys are on a long thing!!!
As if the same said marriage is not enough suffering and smiling by itself.
Discernment you will not live in fear
Deletelanre banjo see your life
ReplyDeletecmmmmmmmmm please don't
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