Do all Baby Daddy's Have drama and go around with their baby mama luggage?
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CANDID ADVICE NEEDED HERE
Greetings to you and your family. I am an addicted reader of your blog and in so many ways I have found solutions to various situations by been a part of this family.
My name is Grace and I need your candid advice. Last week, I received a call from my cousin who resides in another state; she said that she was in a church on Sunday when during prayers the Prophet mentioned my full names and said that I needed prayers against delay and that my face has been covered in mud and that's why things are not going the way I planned and that despite the fact that people wants to help me, they usually loose interest along the line. She further said he asked that I should come see him. She said he told her the story of her life and even described the person behind all the misfortunes that has befallen her and her family (a well known distant Aunt).
I have refused to go. My reason been that,if I were abroad,would I start running down to Nigeria? Can't prayers be made for a person in absentia? Moreover, I am not a believer of seeking out prophets and I don't want a situation whereby I will be hooked or start traveling up and down from state to state just because I want to see a prophet ...
I believe I can go on my knees and pray and fast over any situation or better still go and see my pastor in church, relate everything to him and together we can pray...but a friend I shared it with insists I should go and see him and carry out whatever am asked to do and not allow my stubbornness get the better of me. I don't know what to do as am getting seriously worried as the day goes by.
*Reading comments oly today and selling popcorn
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
DOES EVERY BABY DADDY HAS DRAMA/BAGGAGE?
Hi Stella,Good day. I absolutely love your blog and I think your Bvs are the most intelligent and mature set. I like the way they help/ advice each other especially in chronicles narrative segments. Its like a family in here and I'm the newest fam member. lol
Stelz, I need the thoughts and advice from other bvs because i've been constantly thinking about this lately and still confused as to how to go about this. Here goes :
Am a lady of 27, I have been dating this 32 yr old guy since February and though it has been mostly distant (cos we live in different cities) ,it has been wonderful . Work brings him like every 2 months to my city. I have visited him once though . A month after I met him, he revealed to me he has a 4 yr old son from an ex . infact he claimed they didn't even date, that it was a fling (but if I hear, who has unprotected sex with flings? yimu) ,He said he wants his son to come live with him once he settles down as he wont have another man father his son for him.
I haven't met the baby mama nor the son yet.
Anyways I did not think much of it then and even though we have unnecessary arguments sometimes, we've been waxing stronger. He is very hardworking,driven, easy going,sensitive to me and has a good sense of humour. We just get along really well and I like him a lot. Fast forward to last month, he is talking about marriage and meeting my family. So, I decided to let them know about him and I also mentioned his son. Na there kasala burst o. My family didn't like the idea at all, they gave me like a thousand reasons why I should reconsider. My mom said she knows me, that I might not be able to handle the pressure when it sets in, that it will overwhelm me etc(baby mama palava).
They said its too soon as i havent even spent time with him to know the real situation of things. that I should suspend marriage talks wiv him first . My cousin even offered to introduce me to someone else sharply saying its bad news I should 4get him. But honestly I don't see it that way o, I love kids and will treat the boy just like mine, and according to my bf, even though the babymama wanted to use the baby as bait to tie him down initially, she is not in the pic anymore as she has moved on and is now engaged. So I really don't get the stress, is this enough reason not to get married to whom I love? cant imagine breaking off with him over this, especially seeing as I did not raise concerns over it when he first told me.
I have not told him my family's response yet and he reminded me over the weekend again about his intended visit to my family house. what do I do? Please who has been in this situation? Does a guy with a child come with such huge drama/baggage? what do yall think. Thanks.
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ReplyDeleteDon't go to any body to pray for you,that he sees vision doesn't make him God's voice,didn't Herod see the coming of Jesus? Didn't Pharaoh see the coming of Moses?
DeleteThe best prayers are the one we say by ourselves. God hears us even better that way,if u are having issues just rmber that to everything there is an appointed time....DON'T GO!!!
This is clearly not an Igbo man...
DeleteChaaaaiiii
Delete@poster1 : give it a try and also start doing prayers on your on...
Delete@poster2 : if u can cope with baby mama drama, then go ahead but spend time with 2 know the kind of person he is.
I can only vote you out of this blog, ur face alone is irritating, pls where do I click Like???
DeleteTahhh!
DeleteGo and vote and gerrarahere!
Why re u hiding under anno self,na so fear catch u reach???
Dis story reminds me of someone..(d boy was a twin d other one die,.)d guy is tall,fair,and easygoing..hmmmmm.
DeleteLastborn
Poster 2 this man described sounds like my husband o the fool goes around saying im a baby mama just to sleep with girls even promising Marraige insist in seeing his child meeting his family and his so called baby mama why are u so desperate to jump into marriage after 6 months don't make the same mistake i did thinking it is love infact is this state he is in Delta? If yes na one chance you just enter
DeletePoster one u can go see the pastor just for posterity and to fulfill all righteousness. If after visiting him he asks u to do anything that is contrary to ur belief as a Christian, then u can desist from visiting him thereafter. Thing is prayer is never too much, rather it's never enough.. considering the life challenges we all face. Depending on the extent of ur issues, only u can tell whether a prophesy is true or false. Don't get carried away though, but I advise that u give the pastor audience to balance things. From the tone in ur writeup I can tell u are not a push over and no one can blackmail u spiritually. That's the only reason I'm encouraging u to visit him. If it were a passive person I would say don't bother. Good luck
DeletePoster 2.. so, what if u are the one with a child, would ur family like it if someone rejects u because of that? I don't see the big deal here. Even a guy with no baggage can mess u up.. if u both like each other and he treats u right, why not go ahead with it? If he wanted to be with his baby mama he wouldn't be with u. If u leave him he'll find another lady who'll accept him and they'll both enjoy their marriage without interference from the baby mama. Give it a try and don't let ur family allow u to lose a man that loves u. If there are other reasons not to go ahead, I can understand..but certainly not because he has a child. Having a child is not a disease and shouldn't be a reason to be disqualified.
Poster one and other silly posters who donate their brains to false prophets who will chop your money and scatter your family continue silly people. They can't turn ordinary water to fuel na only to scatter homes with fake vision them sabi
ReplyDeleteWe all can go on our kneels and pray but sometimes we need guidance from this MOG.
DeleteWe all can read the bible and understand but we still go to church.
Poster 1, i'll advice you to go but be very careful. No true MOG will ask you for money to pray for you. Sowing is from the heart. When they start demanding from you please flee.
Poster 2, if you love the guy make your parents see reasons why you want to marry him.
The baby mama is engaged so she too will start her own life. The only contact she'll have with you hubby is coming to see the child which can be arranged.
Hmmmm,!my dear poster one lemme tell.u a short story,there was dis pastor dat mentioned my friends case long long ago in delta state..infact he told her friend what she was wearing dat day,d food she ate,her parents names.colour of her paint at home etc...my friend was dumbfounded!!in her mind she said,alas!! I've seen the Messiah.. we didn't know how that is what this so called prophet does for a living..he tells you everything you want to hear and things that re true about but yet he has no solution..
DeletePoster,there's a small difference between vision and divination but careful lest you will fall prey.
Amen and God bless.pls don't Go..fast and pray and change ur approach to life
Dear poster one your cousin and that fake prophet wants to job you and collect wat ever money you have and before you know it you will be broke, penniless and a debtor. When you keep buying material for endless prayers which is all fake and lies. Don't go and see that pastor of doom. Pray yourself out there's nothing God cannot do my dear. I'm talking from experience. Pls take my advice
DeleteAnon God bless you for dis comments ooooo fake prophets with dia dis and dat will happen prophecy I keep saying dis go down ur knees and pray God answers all prayers....
DeleteShut up! Don't say what you don't know. God appoints Prophets for a reason.
DeleteAnon 18:47 not all prophets were appointed by God....
DeleteOh ignorant people Jesus destroyed the curtain of the temples so by his death we can go directly to him. Why have you chosen to stay in bondage when Christ has died to set you free?
DeleteIt is true that even the Devil sees visions. Some so called prophets give accurate accounts of ur situation, but the ability to differentiate a vision given by God and that of the Devil is key. This is when u need spiritual guidance from the Holy spirit.
DeleteI know I earlier on in my comment encouraged the poster to see the pastor, for whatever its worth. As u never can tell. God encourages us to seek His true prophets for guidance. No matter how spiritually independent u are, u can never know it all. Hence we are encouraged to fellowship with one another.
We all do not carry the same measure or level of anointing, even though u can pray on ur own, God has given certain people the insight and the authority to intercede for our case, and sometimes whom u involve in ur spiritual life can be the reason God will answer and bless u.
Moses was a prophet and the Israelites needed him to flee from captivity. Elijah was a prophet and because of him Elisha got double portion of anointing. Same with Samuel, David, and so on. My point is, prophets are a significant part of our spiritual lives. They were appointed for a reason so let's not completely ignore the calling of a TRUE man of God if we are lucky to meet with one. At any rate, u wouldn't know the fake if u have not tried him out. Life itself is a risk.. so be guided.
Sisi eko please stop being deceived, we are all prophets and high priests through Christ, yes we can be spiritually independent, before Jesus people needed prophets because they had no access to God, after Jesus all we need do is go on our knees and God is there. Stop running round like headless chickens after all Bill Gates doesn't consult any prophet yet he is the world's richest man
DeleteAnonymous 13:52. Oh for sure we can go on our knees and God would heed our supplication.. but having a pastor as a mentor is an added advantage. The fact that Jesus came does not mean that the capacity of pastors in Christiandom has been scrapped. Otherwise why do u still go to church to be preached to by a pastor? No one is asking her to run after pastors for prosperity, or be dependent on them..NO. All I'm advocating is that u can have a prophet of God as a prayer partner to encourage and pray for u when ur heart is weary. Even those who are anointed men of God still seek spiritual guidance from others like them. Forget about whether Bill gate is successful without being prayed for.... are ur destinies the same? Do u have the same challenges in life? Does Bill Gates have household enemies like we do in Africa? Hard work, we know got him there... if someone engaged in the same level of hard work as Bill Gates, and his household enemies truncate his efforts, does that make him a lazy man or wouldn't it be a spiritual warfare that should be fought on his knees??? Abeg let's be real here. Citing Bill Gate in this instance is not relative. We are not talking about financial prosperity alone, we are talking about every challenge one can possibly face in a life time... Sometimes it takes a true anointed man of God to break the yoke.. don't underestimate them... Receiving blessings from an ordained person of God is an added advantage. Though it's not by force...its a personal decision.
DeleteHmmm, I'll just read comments today. Brb!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2......
DeleteI know a lady who is married to a man who has a 6year old son.... she is like a sister to me. She kept it from us until a month to the wedding when then man insisted she tell her family the true situation of things because he does not want to marry her without them knowing who he really is.
Her parents were disappointed but then she asked them " what if I was the one saddled with a child? Would you frown at the idea of me finding happiness with someone other than the father of my baby?" they didn't have an answer and she is happpppppily married to her man today. The boy lives with them and she loves him to a fault. She's bringing him over this holiday to spend some time with her nephews and nieces....
Now, some baby mamas are drama queens, no doubt BUT do not let that cloud your judgment.
I have seen men who got married as virgins and turned out to be terrible husbands.
I have seen divorcees make perfect husbands.
I have also seen widowers who made their new wives regret meeting them
And I have seen Baby Daddys turn out to be great spouses...
The choice is yours
@ gifted aka, re you male or female? You remind me of Lady IGO
Delete@gifted hands, I give u nyansh! But only if u be woman o, #nohomo!
DeleteI am ababy mama,incidentally we got married to diff people the same year. I have never disturbed my daughters baby before nd i willnever do
DeletePoster one: I don't think you have any difficulty as you claim you have. If truly you have, you will jump on your feet and go there. You can pray on your own, that's the force holding you down.
ReplyDeletePoster two: Greetings to you.
Poster One.... remember the story of Naman the leper?
DeleteHe refused to do what Elijah the Prophet asked of him because he felt it was beneath him BUT when he obeyed, he was blessed beyond his expectations.
I dont know this prophet neither do I know how sincere his prophecies are but if you want to give it a try, do not let this dumb excuse of yours keep you from your supposed breakthrough.
It may cost you nothing going to see him, it may also cost you a lot but if your inner man is urging you to go, then GO...
Shalom
*Elisha*
DeleteThank u @Gifted hands. Same thing I said. There's nothing wrong with trying. You have nothing to lose. The important thing is to be alert.
DeleteIf it's for any other reason that u dont want to marry him, poster 2, fine but if its cos of his kid, don't think about it too much. Kids are a blessing and if u are sure, you'd love d kid like urs, pls go ahead and marry him. But make sure, he's telling d truth and nothing else.
ReplyDelete@1, if u feel praying on ur own will solve ur problem fine, dats all i ve to say cos na who wear shoe no where e dey pain.
ReplyDelete@2, i dont see any big deal here provided u are ready to love his son plz go ahead and marry him after all annie married Tu baba with him plenty children.
Wisdom is needed in all things.. Pray and seek for wisdom to make the right decisions.
ReplyDeletePoster 1,
ReplyDeleteYour life your business...
Sometimes we need this men of God for assistance...
I don't joke with my daddy in The Lord...
I consult him first before doing anything in my life...God is truly using that man to work in my life and my family...
So I will advise you meet up with the pastor for your own good...
Whatever mehn...
Poster 2,
I won't even advise any person I know to consider a baby daddy for marriage...you know why?his baby mama will always be in his life...
Ask Annie Idibia what she is going through...
Well,since you love him,marry him cos i know you must surely consider him...
Good advice
DeleteWhat is Annie going through? Do you even have to mention her name? Is she the one woman you know who married a baby daddy? Haba!
DeleteDo you consult your Daddy in the Lord as well before insulting and cursing people and their parents out on this blog?
Deletenot always true, who ever marries my baby dad will never have me as a problem. The drama she will get will actually be from him. That man na bad market.
DeleteI'm not trying to jugde but I feel like baby daddies are just like 2nd hand husbands. I just steer clear of them because either way, the woman who married them would most likely see wen! As 2 of the commenters above have said; either the man is the one who's bad market which chased his baby mama away with his behaviour etc & led to him being a baby daddy and a fresh young girl would now take that on? Or the baby mama is the crazy one who would not allow you have peace of mind or blissful mariage because she would always be in the guy's life, even if she moves on to someone else today, she can still be a threat, have a fling or two with your man per old times sake or even decide she wants him back later. Annie idibia IS a good example of that. That Pero girl is showing her. We only know the things that spilled onto social media o, some baby mamas are cray-cray I tell you!. They would sleays use the child as leverage in your hubby and you would be accused of hating the child if you try to do anything. Baby daddies are a no-no abeg. Besides, most single men would drop a girl like a bad habit once they find out she's had a baby before. They might even deceive her just to use her for a while but will make one excuse or the other ę.g, "my parents are against us getting married" etc, only to move on to a fresh babe within a very short period and settle down with her. So why should a fresh single girl settle for baby daddies too when she most likely wouldn't have a chance with him if she were to be the one who's a baby mama? I'm not judging o and I know not all guys are like that, but majority of single guys would not give a baby mama a chance!
DeletePoster 1 nd 2....It is well
ReplyDelete2day I'm burying my great granma (my children's great great granma). You lived a good life my sisi and even tho you got to a ripe old age, it still feels sad loosing you. Od'ejuma sisi. I will forever love you
Omere do. Itsekiri women seems to live very long. My great great grand ma died 2011
DeleteOmere mi.
DeleteHere resemble Obituary??? What do u xpect readers to do with such info??? Not even ur mum sef, ur ancestor..... Abeg park well, una own too mch.
DeleteMy Iwere sisters.......andoooh
DeleteN1, Please don't believe all this fake men of God, go on your knees and pray to your God . This so called men of God go about causing problems for families with their fake professes. They are evil.
ReplyDeleteThat isn't always true. I pity Poster 1, if you really had a problem you wouldn't be asking a SECULAR blog for advice on spiritual matters.
DeleteAnonymous u are right jare. @Miss Truth, my dear sometimes it's good to pay attention o. Not all are fake.
DeleteN2, I won't advice my children to marry some1 with a baby mama or baby daddy. The ones i know came with a lot of drama .
ReplyDeletesee dis one! like say you never turn old witch for house..... tueh
DeleteWhat if ur child is the babymama or baby daddy, so u'll advice he/she not to marry. Really smh
DeleteMy only problem with u poster 2 is you don't know him well enough. Nothing wrong with marrying a baby mama or Dada. Everyone deserves to be happy in life, to love and be loved.
DeleteBased on the info you have given, marriage plans should be postponed.Do your investigation and snoop if possible, you need to be sure that all these stories he is telling you ain't lies.
If I had a brother or sister or friend or relative who has a child, will I wish the person dies single ?? Assess the situation, take your time and pray, as long as the dude is honest and a good man, marry him but the caveat is do your findings. All these he said he said is not enough.
Whirlwind
Poster 2:I'm with u on this Whirlwind.
DeleteThe distance thingy is a major factor because all u have are his words.
Truly u don't have first hand information.
U might be on a long thing!
aMazing and aWWesome
Whirlwind on point.
DeleteP1; pray over ur situation, it works best when it comes from u and from ur heart
ReplyDeleteP2; Pray about urself ,the man and ur future. Only God knows ur future spouse
Poster 1- do not go anywhere.
ReplyDeleteI repeat, do not go anywhere.
Since this so called pastor abi prophet has seen "vision" on your behalf, get on your knees and pray and fast your way to breakthrough.
The good lord, sees all, hears all and answers all who comes to him with a contrite heart.
The "pastor" is human like you. My hand no dey oh! Small time e go ask you to pull paent for deliverance.
I no follow oh!
Poster 2- patience
Do not jump into marriage. Study your partner, let the boy (his chils) visit. spend time with him.
Do your detective work with the babymama. Be sure all he(your fiance) told you corresponds with your investigative findings before you make the decision to marrying or not.
Look before you leap darling. And at the same time, do not throw the baby away with the bath water. You get?
All the best
Blog lord u have said it all!! They only see d problem but they don't see solutions
DeleteSome people are not even good at praying for themselves let alone have an insight to their predicament. This is when a higher authority comes to the rescue. Many atimes we move about without knowing that we have a negative cloud above our heads, and only one whom has been given spiritual insight can see that we are in danger, and when such a person speaks, unfortunately some of us shove them aside. Truth is we can't blame those who never believe anything a man of God says, because a lot goes around these days. But then again, we might just be in danger and God may have sent that one person to liberate us...how would u know .. if u don't give them permission to intercede on your behalf? I'm a big time critic of the so called spiritual entities.. but it doesn't mean that I discard everything. Once it's just prayers I'm asked to do and nothing more....hell yeah.. I'll do it. However, anything outside of what Christ preaches is going to the garbage
DeleteHere's what I have to add.... Alot, I mean alot of ppl have flings unprotected.
ReplyDeleteBrb
ReplyDeleteposter 1 you cnt ever imagine how much i have spend on things like tht, my mum put presure and i have to risk my life to my home town just for prayers and after spending som much what happened am still not married and no serious relationship, friends has taken me to different place and no solution, abeg lock up with all those things, call the man on phone and if he demand for money just delete him and waka. pleople are looking for money now o.
ReplyDeleteposter 2 just follow your mind and make sure you look very well o cos i once went thru that, the guy had one baby gal before we meet before plan for marriage was ready omg d guy shoot another gal down and said it was his ex o, toor now he has two gals frm different women and me cnt stand that. think and make the wise decision o. gud luck
Baby mama and fathers are not always bad, jst xpect the love shared into 2, the smallest part for u and the lion share for the child, xcept its a stubborn child, lol.... so pray its a stubborn child.
ReplyDeleteIf he's so mch in love with the child, I mean that crazy bond, id advise u to flee..... You will be the maid in that house.
DeleteNarrative 1) anything prophecy count me out biko.
ReplyDeleteBaby mama and fathers are not always bad, jst xpect the love shared into 2, the smallest part for u and the lion share for the child, xcept its a stubborn child, lol.... so pray its a stubborn child.
ReplyDeleteDis ur dog ehh.. Lolz.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I think you should be openminded and see the prophet,hear what he has to say and if your spirit doesn't agree with what he tells you then please discard and move on.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you met this guy Febuary this year and you're already talking about marrying him. You don't know this guy at all at all forget all he tells you oo. You people don't stay in the same city so its easy for him to make up stories. From what you wrote I think you guys have seen each other like 3 or 4 times, why not go and visit him every other weekend for like 2months, this way you get to know a little more about him, you meet his son and babymama, meet his family members, interact with his neighbours. Marriage is not a child's play so please shine your eyes.
U mean 6ix months ain't enough time to understand each other s?
Delete6months isn't enough o.... even a lifetime isn't. the truth is you can never know enough of someone before marriage, but an ample good enough time will make some difference (maybe a year)
DeleteP1
ReplyDeletePls check the meaning of the expression 'devil dodger'. That's what the majority of our ppl are. Dibia and babalawo era terms that are no more fashionable and hence ppl are no more comfortable answering (for those who operate) and claiming to visit(_for those who patronise them) hence they are now baptised as pastors. Ppl have the erroneous belief that living a godly life is one without hardship, suffering, disappointment, trials etec. Mmmm.we should be able to achnowlege our roles in causing oo exacerbating our problems in order to free ourselves from the bondage of these sharmans calling themselves visioners. Pls read what God has to say about going to see a seer.
P2
As in all cases this your suitor is someone's brother and could be the brother of one of us you are seeking advice from
Now your problem will be solved if you and all your ppl assume that this young man (not youngman) is your relation. Now be truthful to yourself what you ppl would wish a woman he now wants to marry should do in the circumstance. Let's say he is your younger or elder broad. Take what you woulsh to happen as your basis of decision making. You see they say that when some sees a corpse being carried he sees it as bundle of firewood. Good luck(not Good luck) to you
i go follo u look commentz today.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.... I think u guys need to spend some quality time together..... U need to in d mystery behind d guy nd d babymama.... cos some guys can lie for Africa. ..... get to know him very well
ReplyDeleteSit and talk with the baby mama nd make sure there is no drama. If everything goes well, please don't forget to treat the boy like your own.
ReplyDeletePoster two: the truth is that what you believe is what works for you, if you truly believe you can deliever yourself, it will work for you. Good. Luck
Poster 1. Never joke with spiritual matters. The man doesn't know you. You don't know him. Your name was mentioned. Some times we need someone more spiritual in our life to fight out battles.. The world is not how we see it. I have seen a lot of things to come to this conclusion.
ReplyDeleteFab Mum,what if the "prophet" is conniving with poster to rip her off?
DeleteVery possible!
I can bet 100k that this so called pastor is a sham.
DeleteAnd yes iphie, it's either he is conniving, or he has seen the poster through his "pot"
These are perilous times.
*poster's cousin
DeletePoster one, you can get down on ur knees and pray
ReplyDeletePoster two, your story sounds familiar, exactly what Joey told me... Joey wherever u are, God will repay u wot u did to me, 1million times
Nigerian families especially d igbos will always react negatively to it, do ur wish
ReplyDeleteWetin concern tribe inside this matter?
DeleteTribal perspectives differs
DeleteJamine help me ask o.
Delete@poster1.. let the prophet pray on ur behalf and lets see how things turns out
ReplyDelete@poster2.. hmmmm i will brb
Poster 1. You sound like someone with a good sense of reasoning, you don't have to travel like you said. Fast, pray and confide in your pastor. God has already used the other man to reach you his work is done so there's no point in travelling.
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Poster 2, for me,I can't deal bcx dat feelings b/w dem might still be there
ReplyDeleteU dnt knw him well enough y d rush? U r still young take ur time n watch first pls
Poster 1 pls forget it if they can't pray in ur absence dnt b surprise wen u go now is something else u will hear/find
Seen
ReplyDeleteMy dear I av been in a similar issue too, u will have to accept the fact that his ex will always be a part of ur family as a child its not a small issue. She will always be part of dat boys life and if she is a part of that boys life she is a part of ur hubby's life too. Plus he is even a boy if it were a gal it would av been better coz she might get married someday and leave u guys for good, but a boy? He aint going no where. I understand ur intentions are good but wen d pressure of who is to be ur hubby's next of kin after u have given birth set in that wen the anger and frustration begin to crip in. So make sure u av a clear pix of possible scenarios before going ahead. I wish u good luck
ReplyDeleteGood advise
DeleteIt depends on how the family bonds. I know of a similar case, today the man is the one training his younger step-siblings.
DeletePoster1Dont know what to say but pray ok nd poster2 put it in prayers before u emback on visiting ask God to favor u as u guys go to c ur parents
ReplyDeleteP1, you can go just for curiosity sake. P2, love conquers akl
ReplyDeleteStella giv me one popcorn make I chop read coment
ReplyDeletePoster1 there is a reason God make some prophet, pastor, evangelist, deacon etc. Look at story of Naaman d captain of host of d king of Syria (2king5:1-15). He was advice by a little maid of his wife and when he went to meet Elisha, Elisha told him to go deep himself seven times inside river Jordan which happen to b d dirtiest river around. After much complain he eventually heeded d prophet advice and he was later deliver of his leprosy.
ReplyDeleteGo read that story and try to digest it spiritually, u will know that d story can be liken unto urs. Go see d prophet, period
*****EVERYWHERE IS GOOD*****
That was in the old testament. We are of the new testament. The veil has been removed, so we can all approach God directly. You don't need any pastor or prophet to pray for you. We all have equal rights now..
DeleteI agree with you dat d veil has been removed and we can approach d holy of holies but remember every king has a priest so d priest gets to the gods faster than the king cos dats his calling
DeletePoster 1: if they had said u will die in the next 3 days if u don't go, shey u will run and go? Mtchewww
ReplyDeletePoster 2: the thing is that u might say u can handle the child but when he starts misbehaving, u'll just want to kill him since he's not ur son. Well, what can I say? Pray about it
My dear jasmine a prophet once told me dat my enemy will die now till 3 days, dat I should send him money for some spiritual cleansing which I didn't send but today thank God dat I am still alive! Only God has d final say not man.
DeleteChickie,
DeleteSerious?
Wetin person no go hear?
Buahahhhahahaha
Shege-jagwa!
Chick felix, Some prophets are fake while some are called. My former neighbor was told by a pastor not to travel to his home town to partake in some oath swearing concerning land dispute, that he won't come back alive but he traveled after much praying and fasting. He never returned alive. His wife's screaming at midnight woke everybody up. Shit happens u know. Real men of God actually exist. But because there is no one to differentiate fake and real ones, it's better to pray ur way out and ask God for divine direction.
DeleteKallmi Angel. This case is very simple. Your former neighbour cussed his own death sorry to say. How can you go annswear an oath as a Christian??? Even a child can tell you this. There is nothing special about the pastor.
DeleteWeasel.
Anonymous actually I don't know ur experience or ur deals with fake pastors but don't use it to crowd ur judgment. There maybe something special about this pastor in question cos he maybe working with divine directives. It's true that with the coming of Christ, our salvation is secured and anyone who is determined in prayer can break and move mountains. But that does not mean we will stop going to church which are headed by pastors or prayer sessions. After crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus Christ, the apostles carried on the good works healing and releasing those in demonic captivity. This work was handed over to our pastors of today who are genuinely called by God. Don't underestimate these anointed men of God cos of some encounter with fake business men impersonating pastors. The sin against the holy spirit is speaking against a man of God working under the influence of the great spirit of God. Take heed and caution urself before u go about condemning every pastor u see. Touch not my anointed and do my prophets no harm is not all about physical abuse but verbal abuse inclusive. Take note.
DeleteUntil I see and experience true God's anointing from a so called pastor will I believe. Before that I will not validate anyone that comes to me saying he is a MOG. Sorry but have had harsh experiences with so called Men OG and I do not trust ANY! I know I have direct access to my God. Wisdom comes only from God and from my Bible (under the guidance of the Holy Spirit).
DeleteDid you say it is a sin against the Holy Spirit to speak against a MOG. My dear are not fooled. Same dubious Men of God will use this phrase to instill fear in you such that even when you see the wrong that they do, you will keep mute.
Weasel
Story 4 d God's. I know this story. The guy is a liar. Flee. He will use and dump u
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ReplyDeletePoster 2, I don't see anything wrong with marrying a guy with a child. If the guy is telling u everything and u feel he's the one for u,then why not. In my opinion it's not every guy that will accept responsibility of a pregnancy outside marriage, for acknowledging the boy and can't bear the thought of another man fathering him shows he's a good man. Except if there is another thing ur family members are seeing that u are not seeing cos of love.
ReplyDeleteInbtw I always believed in parents advice concerning life partners, most people that defied their parents and marry always have regrets in some cases. Decide well.
Poster 1. The best prayer is the one u prayed by urself. But in some cases God send people to help out through dreams, visions etc. If things are going well for u forget the prophet.
Concerning praying with ur pastor, Prayer is prayer but gifts are not the same. The gift God gave ur pastor may not be same with that of the prophet. My point is there is no harm in trying this prophet if life is dealing with u. ( if u decide to go, cover urself with strong prayers and faith in God. Cos some of these prophets are something else). Good luck.
Hmmm! Stellz I follow u dey look wiv this ur dog eye ooh. These baby mama things Hmmm. Wiv wht av read and seen in movies....mk I read comments frm pple dt hv bin in d situation.
ReplyDeleteParable number one, the idea of praying in our rooms and seeking the face of God in our own ain't a bad one; but if the man is a genuine minister of God, I don't see any harm in going to seek for counsel so...
Poster 1. Talk to your own church pastor about what your cousin told you.
ReplyDeleteI've never liked that idea of going to one church or another in search of miracles.
Even the bible talked about signs and wonders following the children of God and not the other way round so, please seek the face of God in your closet and he will answer you.
At poster no 2, #yes o it comes with a big package o! Ha! I had an exact situation like yours, his son was 6yrs old when we got married,my dear, I saw hell o.i treated him like my own child(he went to the best school in d neighbourhood) but yet! His dad would snoop in on everything;he would look @ the meals I serve him and tell me how I dint put a lot of meat for him,how the food might not be enough 4him,most times his son even dictates the meals I have to cook for lunch/dinner @ my own home.i must take him everywhere I go else my car keys might be seized!he wants a preferential treatment for his son than I do 2my nieces nd nephews when they visit(i finally stopped them from visitn as he wud always bring up comparisons which ensues in a fight nd he ll beat me up).he would always remind me before his son,s face ;how I ve a little or no rights in his house and how much right his son has over me nd how it is him dat owns our entire property! When my inlaws visits the boy would pretend nd be sober while they re around as dey ask him pitiful questions lik have u eaten,did any1 beat u and all;then they ll leave a side comment for me nd of cos complain 2 thier brother!the minute they leave the boy starts jumping around.and then the babymama drama is another tale itself!she went as far as kidnapping him one time...and his father,s family accused I and my family on d boy,s dis -appearance...only to later find out d mum did! Out of annoyance on the affair they(herself nd my husband) started all over again whilst I was in d picture! And his son,s greatest joy is when we fight and his father beats me up to a stupor! You would hear him laughing and rejoicing in his bedroom! I could go on and on! And what tribe is your fiancee from? Cos igbo traditions(first son palava #di-okpara) don't help a great deal in such cases!cos you will suffer and struggle with this man to build all has or get to wer he is 2day! Meanwhile you,ll constantly be reminded the first son owns half of his father,s wealth! Whilst you and ur kids are left wit half, even if u have 6kids!
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DeleteHope you have left...
Poster don't take advice from BVs such as these- it is obvious that she was or still is in an abusive relationship; the presence of her husband's son from a previous relationship is not what precipitated the abuse she experienced in the hands of her husband. Her husband was/is simply a wife beater, and would have beat her regardless, whether his son lived with them or not!
DeletePoster 2, think carefully about it. If you marry him, there WILL be drama. You must weigh up how much you want to marry him and compare with how much you want peace of mind. Because, even if the son eventually doesn't live with you, he will come visit, and during those visits, your so called loving husband will metamorphose into a stranger before your very eyes.
My husband has a son from a previous marriage who lives with his mother. The ex has since remarried, and has had other children. We live in different cities, and I've never met her. But despite the distance, despite having never met her, my dear, there is still drama! The boy comes to visit, there's drama. My husband goes to visit him, there's drama. There will always be drama. And once there's drama, I have to hear about it, discuss it (no matter how unpleasant), come up with possible solutions, and sometimes console my husband (who becomes an emotional wreck once the drama starts), with extra nice meals, good sex :) etc just to get him him on the path of recovery quicker! Which all invariably tires me out! And then the next visit rolls by, and we repeat the cycle all over again!
If you are ready to deal with drama, go ahead. If not, you're only 27, find someone without baggage.
My 2 cents.
Dr S.
Hmmmm, the Lord is your strength and I have a babymama suitor oh.......*pensive*
DeletePoster2) please read dis comment like 3× den decide on wat to do.
DeleteThank you anonymous 17:49. Poster above you married an abusive man, period!!!!! It has nothing to do with his illegitimate son.
DeleteNow to the original poster let me give you another side of this situation. I know a gal that is married to a man that had a 6yr old son. The man had initially planned to marry the baby mama even before she got pregnant but after she had the baby the man fell on hard times and the baby mama left with another man. 6yrs after the son was born, the man met my friend and decided to marry her amidst rejections from both parents.
This is what the man ensured.
He and his wife spent the first year of their married life by themselves (his son was with grandma). Luckily they had a child within the one year
2. The baby mama was forbidden from visiting the house and communications btwn mother and son monitored.
3,There was no preferential treatment between the children
They are living happily together today. The son even calls his step mother mum.
So ask pertinent questions. What's the relationship between your fiance and his baby mama? Is the boy living with him now? Has the son being living with his mom all this while? What's the man's stance with his family? Is he the mommas boy or a man of his own? Most importantly, how do you think you would treat the boy, would you love him the way you love your own son?
The final decision rests with you.
Poster 1, you know the answer to your question. You don't need your mai-guard to help you talk to your father when you can do it yourself.
Eastwestern
Anon, ur husband is a beast. A coward, wife beater. Childish, wicked and immature. He still love his baby mama only God knows why he married u. It's a pity u fall into his life. Hope u find ur way out.
DeleteEhm girl.... God restore you. I think your husband has issues of maltreatment from his past. Was he the last or step child.
DeleteAnyway your a doormat and you attract what you got.
Love yourself fast and pray. You ignored all the signs and questions.
Please Google on this blog there are tips given to those who don't believe in their self worth.
Your man is dubious
Poster1: We get into trouble when we allow fear to control us. God did not give us the spirit of fear. Are u sure ur cousin has not talked to the pastor b4 that day about you? There are good men of God out there, no doubt but we all must be careful. Yes we all have different spiritual gifts but God loves us equally. Go down on ur knees and pray to ur God who made you and never go around with fear hanging around ur neck. Our worst fears always come to pass. Pray and work towards ur salvation. You can ask good hearted people to agree with you in prayers. Everything you need to survive is in ur bible. Read and apply it.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. First we all make mistake. We can never be condemned forever. As long as we atoned for our wrongdoings and resolve not to repeat them. That someone failed does not man you will fail. Get to know ur man first. Find out the true position of things. We all have the ability to find out the truth. Use this ability and follow ur heart. Don't be lazy with ur thoughts. Nobody will make this decision for you. If you know you can't love another person's child don't go in and start maltreating the boy when you have urs. It takes a brave heart to love freely. But furst find out the truth urself.
post 2 If you love him and you know u can love the child as your own do go ahead and marry him but before u do that do ur own investigation to be sure he has nothing with his baby mama except the child between them.
ReplyDeletePost 1.... You can pray and fast on your own and be sure its really true afterall God says if we call on him he will definitely answer.....
post 2 If you love him and you know u can love the child as your own do go ahead and marry him but before u do that do ur own investigation to be sure he has nothing with his baby mama except the child between them.
ReplyDeletePost 1.... You can pray and fast on your own and be sure its really true afterall God says if we call on him he will definitely answer.....
post 2 If you love him and you know u can love the child as your own do go ahead and marry him but before u do that do ur own investigation to be sure he has nothing with his baby mama except the child between them.
ReplyDeletePost 1.... You can pray and fast on your own and be sure its really true afterall God says if we call on him he will definitely answer.....
no comment from me
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ReplyDeleteAlles gute zum Geburtstag Mrs Korks. I wish you more good health, happiness God's abundant grace and blessings for all your good works. And may he give you the wisdom on how to cook nice and tasty jollof rice
Poster 1. Fast and Pray about it seriously before you go. Tell God to give you a sign to know if the prophet is genuine.
ReplyDeleteWhile at it, be very careful and smart. I wish you all the best.
Poster 2. The sound of the kolanut is quite different from the taste. May God direct you to make the right descisions
P1,dnt go to c any prophet,most of them share familiar spirits.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,ask God to direct u.
Poster1,if u can't trust d MOG in ur instincts, dont go anywhere.pray for urself cos some of these pple are not genuine!they use familiar spirits so why won't they see wat they see#rme#and by the way,why be say na only u him choose to see vision for in the entirety of ur family? Lmao!maybe he saw thru his visions say money dey ur hand..all na market'!#tongue click
ReplyDeleteAll Na market. Familiar spirits indeed. Until I prayed for myself I started seeing all false and dubious people. No pastors be see this
DeleteP1, you should consider yourself lucky that such a revelation was received about you. There are millions of people under demonic bondages but they're not even aware of it not to talk of being delivered from it. I think what you should be concerned about is the genuineness of the prayer minister, as we all know there are lots of fake ones who can as well see beyond the physical through familiar spirits.
ReplyDeleteAs a child of God, your prayers and fasting cannot break potent charms done by powerful witches and wizards. Some may contest this but that is the undiluted truth. If your pastor is not an anointed man of God called to the deliverance ministry, he cannot deliver you as well. Your prayers, holy living and fasting as a child of God will protect you from death till the holy spirit leads you to the right deliverance ministry/minister where you will be set free. I'm saying what I've witnessed severally. These household enemies and occultic powers holding people captive are very mean-spirited and determined to frustrate the children of God. They rekindle the potency of their charms at fixed intervals by certain sacrifices in order to continue exercising control over their captives. That is why aside from deliverance and intense spiritual warfare, a captive can also be set free when the person responsible for their misfortunes dies due to the destruction of those charms over time. This is why you have lots of brethren in the church who remain stagnant for years.
Christians are quite ignorant of the extent of power possessed by the devil, and his wish is that we remain under that ignorance, so that his activities in our lives can remain concealed. But let ye not be deceived! Satan, our adversary has great power. He was second in command in heaven after God. We christians have to sit up because we have been called to a spiritual warfare. Resist sin and pray! There is so much to life than meets the eyes.
Poster, pray to God, then journey to see that evangelist. The holy spirit will give you the ability to discern whether he is real or not when you pray.
P2, do you want carnal-minded advice or spiritual-minded advice? Lol... ok, as a carnal man, I'll say marry him if you love him. People marry baby daddies so you won't be the first nor last to do so. But as a christian, I'll advise you to pray and seek God's consent. If He says yes, nothing will go wrong in your marriage that He can't fix.
Peace out!
You are sorely and sadly mistaken! What do you mean that your prayers cannot break the doings of powerful witches and wizards? Have you not read the passage 'Greater is He that is in me than he who is in the world'? Have you not heard of self - deliverance? O ye of twisted Faith Pastors have used your brain to build skyscraper. Please act like a child of Christ (if truly you are) not a child of your pastor or Daddy GO.
DeleteMay God save you! You have compromised your faith with fear. You cannot serve God and mammon.
DeleteYou guys give the devil more power out of fear. If God does not sanction it, it will never happen. So plus concentrate on God
DeleteAmen. Compromised with fear. Greater is He in you than in the world .
DeleteAs a Christian, focus on God and not the devil. Don't go and heap upon yourself and your mind imaginary things which you have no absolute control over. Serving God in spirit and in truth is the ultimate. Any other way is a distraction.
DeleteIf God then chooses to give you the gifts to see into the spiritual realm then so be it. Do not create problems for your self where there is none.
It is amazing how much power you will have when you truly know God.
Weasel.
Am surprised that someone who claims to be a child of God will say that his prayers cannot break charms done by witches. He even qualified witches as powerful. So what Does d bible say about the regenerated man? He says he is the vine and we are the branches, wat this means is that we have the same root with Christ. The bible also says this sign shall follow them that believe. In my name you will cast out demons. It clearly shows that u don't believe the word of God but the doctrines of your church. Please study the word cos you have derailed. I wish we can rob minds.
DeletePoster 2. I keep thinking if u were the one with the baby, will u like to be judged by people that don't even know u cos u have a baby outside marriage. What I will advice is take it slow and see where this relationship goes. Spend time with his son too and bond with him before considering anything called marriage. You are the one in the relationship and in a better position to judge. Don't listen to others and do what feels right by u and what you can live with.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Seems you like stuff being repeated a thousand times, before you pay heed.
ReplyDeleteOya,run along!
Go on your knees, open your mouth and let forth words to heaven.
Which kin yama yama prophecy be that?
Funny enough, these prophets never see anything good about someone.
It's always doom and damnation.
Good question you asked?
If you were abroad nko?
Don't allow yourself be turned into an 'ashewo church'.
All those people that run from one church to another, undergoing 'deliverance' of sorts and unknowingly having legions of demons cast into them.
Compounding their problems, and making them run around more for solutions.
Pray your way to breakthrough, abeg.
Poster 2: Forget all these, 'I love children ' talk for now.
His ex remains the child's mother, and mother is supreme. Whether she's engaged to another or not.
Expect her to be a part of her child's life, as long as she's alive.
Don't overlook the fact that interests will clash sometimes in the course of his growing up.
It won't help matters if she's a naturally troublesome person.
Just bear it in mind, that what you're going into, is not for the fickle minded.
Best of luck.
#WhiteDiamondOut
A baby daddy?poster 2,na wahala u wan enter so,might not b 2day,2moro or d next 2yrs sef but trust me,wen d wind starts 2 blow,hmmm....y put urself in such palava?dere is noting like being in a marriage and having his first and all his kids,lesser wahala...my dear,shine ya eyes!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2,my candid advice 4 u is dat u liisten 2 ur parents,my sis married a man wit a son,2day it's HELL,as in HELL...b wise my dear
ReplyDeletePoster 1, It's either you do or you don't. Fast and pray for yourself.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Listen to your family. I was once in a long time relationship where my then BF got a crazy woman pregnant. He denied he was not responsible but his family went and took the child, a boy when he was three years old and brought him to his Father's ( BF ) house. I sat down and analyzed the whole situation. After a careful soul searching l decided to leave that relationship because a FIRST SON is unlike every other child of a man. In my case the woman later died but the fact remains that he already had a first son. It meant my own will be second and third. Listen to your family.
Poster 2, Please kindly go back and read the comments from a BV @ 1642. That should open your eyes. Do not be deceived by the likes of Annie and Tuface. I bet you Annie has Nannies taking care of the home front. It's not that easy.
Anonymous @1642, Just hang in there. A child that age should accept you as his Mom and not rejoice when you get beaten. Truth is, he is being instigated by someone and God will expose that person soon. Continue to do your best. Call your Horseband and talk to him about beating you in front of his son. That boy will grow up doing the same thing because his Father is his role model. Abeg, anytime you cook, give him half of the meat in the pot and make sure his Father sees it. Just make sure you collect extra money for meat since the Boy has to have a lot of it. It's a good thing you stopped your Niece and Nephew from visiting because they will begin to detest your step son. Anyway, hang in there. I pray your Horseband has a second look at the way he has treated you. God Bless you and continue to give you the strength to endure but THERE is a limit to human endurance.
Hmm. It's true that many men with kids hv lots of baggage sha. I'm dating one with 3 children. I don't know where our relationship is headed but I pray if we eventually end up together he will love my own kids as much as he loves the other three
ReplyDeletePoster 1: don't bring out the beast in me, cos I could slap you more than once if you consider these prophet ish.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: Kini big deal!! There's no harm in getting married to him. If he has a child, how does it alter your future. Ok! Let's assume the tables were turned, u have a child and ur bf wan marry u. will you be happy if your intended suitor dumped you cos his family advised him to?
You wear the shoes and know where it pinches *wink*
NB: husband scarce for market o
Poster2 how many ears do you have? Am sure you got 2ears,listen good,from your write it clearly shows you're very much in love with this baby daddy,but please for your own future peace of mind,listen to your family and reconsider marrying this guy,you said the baby mama has moved on and now engaged to someone else, I pity your ignorance,even if she's married she'll still find ways to always create problem in your marriage once she sees that the guy has settled down with another woman,she will always bring trouble to your door step and use the son she has with your guy as a weapon to destroy both of you eventually,I tell you,your happiness is at stake, don't venture into it,I have seen lots of ladies going through such drama,baby drama drama is not a child's play,its constant war.the worst part of it is you'll end up finding out some things your guy even told you about the baby mama ain't true,different stories will come up eventually.please start your marital life beautiful,don't start on a bad foundation,let go of that guy******Oj
ReplyDeleteAs for me I'm dating a guy with kids. Tho I don't know where our relationship will lead cos it's still new. Try nd find out somethings from his ex. Den date him for a while longer nd also get to know his son nd see if u two can connect. If u can't, end it bcos if he eventually marries u nd d son hates u, ur marriage can never be a happy one
ReplyDeleteHmm. It's true that many men with kids hv lots of baggage sha. I'm dating one with 3 children. I don't know where our relationship is headed but I pray if we eventually end up together he will love my own kids as much as he loves the other three
ReplyDeleteWhat are u doing with a man with three kids. One is enough wahala, talk of three am out. Shine ur eyes wella o.
DeleteI jst get suprised at girls sha,u hate urself so much dat in dis 1 life u hv 2 live u want 2 live it drama full??baby daddy my ass!!!may God 4bid!!!llife is too sweet 2 live it in foeva pain biko
ReplyDeleteposter 1,consult your pastor and tell him or her what you told us and see what he will say me for dont bliv in seeing all these so called prophets o and that is why them dey run for me wella even if I mistakingly attend them church.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,there is a lot of wisdom in the words of the elders but more importantly you are the one that will live with your husband so your feeling and decision is more important
That prophet was given your name by somebody. Maybe your cousin inadvertently wrote your name down and hers too alongside prayer requests on one of those small papers they circulate once in a while and submit at the altar. These pastors are just too sharp for us. For me, sit down your own.
ReplyDeleteJesus is near enough for Christians to turn to.
ReplyDeletehello BVs and thanks Stella and Bvs for sharing your experience especially those who have been in the hands of dubious people. God bless you all.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 permit me to write in Capital letters.
POSTER 1 YOU ARE A WOMAN OF FAITH. AND LIFE IS A JOURNEY. YOU HAVE TO LEARN ON HOW TO KNOW WHICH DIRECTIONS YOU TAKE IN LIFE.
TAKE A RAIN CHECK ON THE TIMES WHEN YOU MADE A GOOD DECISION VS TIMES WHEN YOU MADE A BAD DECISION. ANALYSE YOURSELF DID YOU GET WARNING SIGNS, DID YOU FEEL SOMETHING, DID YOU HEAR SOMETHING. GOD ALWAYS SPEAKS FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER PERSON CONFIRMS.
FROM THE STORY WRITTEN YOU ARE A WOMAN OF FAITH. INDEED YES, A PROPHET IS MEANT TO PRAY FOR YOU AT ANY POINT ON THIS EARTH AND WHATEVER ALIMENT WILL GO AWAY.
ANOTHER POINT I NOTED IS THAT YOU ARE QUESTIONING WHY YOU SHOULD GO. IS THAT NOT ANOTHER JUNCTURE INDICATING THAT DON'T GO ANY WHERE.
ANOTHER POINT YOU ARE ASKING US NOW BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF TAKING A WRONG DECISION.YOUR FRIEND INSTILLED FEAR IN YOU AND NOW YOU ARE ASKING US. GOD IS NOT THE AUTHOR OF FEAR HE HAS GIVEN US SOUND MIND.
MY DEAR WHATEVER YOU DOUBT OR DON'T HAVE PEACE TELL GOD THAT YOU DON'T HAVE PEACE.
PLEASE NOTE WHO YOUR FRIENDS ARE. SOMEONE WAS BEGGING ME THAT OH THEY NEED HELP MEANWHILE THEY WERE MOCKING ME BEHIND. THAT I SHOULD DIRECT THEM TO A CHARISMATIC PASTOR. I HAD AN INKLING THAT THIS PERSON ON HONEST. BUT I WAS LIKE THEY WAY THE PERSON IS BEGGING FOR HELP TO SEE A PASTOR MAKE I HELP SMALL. DO YOU KNOW THIS PERSON LATER LAUGHED AT ME THAT SHE KNEW THAT I WILL BE DUBED BY PASTOR SHE SAW ME GOING SHE WAS LAUGHING. THAT'S HOW GOD KNOCKED TWO STONES AT ONCE. CONFIRMED MY INCLINATION AND SHE BLURTED OUT CONFESSION. LOTS OF PEOPLE I CALLED AND THOUGHT WERE MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY GOD EXPOSED THEM THESE FEW YEARS. THEY ENCOURAGE YOU AND SEE YOU GOING INTO A PIT ALLOW YOU BUT THE LORD HAS DELIVERED ME!
I HAVE GATHER LOTS OF EXPERIENCE AND WILL ADVICE YOU TO FACE JESUS CHRIST AND TELL HIM ALL YOUR FEARS AND WORRIES. KEEP IN MIND THAT YOU ARE FREE AND NO DIVINATION SHALL COME AGAINST YOU. DON'T ACCEPT ANYTHING WORD WISE. PRAY AND FAST GOD BLESS. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND GREATER THINGS ARE FOR YOU START TAKING DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND NOT DEPEND ON PEOPLE. JESUS CHRIST IS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOR AND NO ONE ON THIS EARTH IS TO CONDEMN YOU.
THERE ARE LOTS OF INTERCESSORS WHO PRAY AND KEEP QUIET DON'T BRAG (PRIDE) OR WANT TO BE ACKNOWLEDGED.
DON'T OPEN YOUR SPIRIT. THAT'S HOW THEY TAP INTO YOUR LIFE. AH THAT'S ANOTHER LESSON ONLY GOD CAN TEACH YOU.
THE ABOVE ARE POINTERS THIS IS BECAUSE THE MOMENT YOUR FRIEND SOWED FEAR YOU ACCEPTED AND BECAME CONFUSED.
THERE'S NO PERFECT CHURCH BUT A PERFECT JESUS CHRIST.
TRUST ME I INITIALLY ASKED THE SAME QUESTION YOU ASKED WHEN I STARTED THIS CHARISMATIC PENTECOSTAL JOURNEY.
Poster 2 tread very carefully. It seems to me that this man is look for someone who will help him take care of his child. I don't think it's true love.
ReplyDeleteWhat is it with Nigerian men and 'collecting thier' children. What ever happened to to joint custody. It is just so unfair. Obviously the child is with his mum and he wants to get married so that he will have someone to look after the child. He has a problem with another man bringing up his child but it's ok for another woman to bring up the child even th the childs mother is alive?. Abeg reason it would you like it if that was done to you. If I were you I wou flee. If God forbid you guys break up he would do the same thing to you too.
Poster one. Is the prophet a Jesus Christ? How did he know your name? If were you, I will not trust that your cousin and the prophet. They must be up to something. Better stay put and stand on what you believe. Don't make a trip that you regret.
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my dear , the story has holes ooo. first get to meet ur bobo family and the babymama before u can make any decision. i v a cousin who is a babymama,and engaged to a guy. but the guy goes ard wit diff gals in the story of marrying dem, however he kept my cuz n d baby abroad coded,treating dem gud.. he really makes sure he appears single in every way. if u go to his house , u can neva see any trace of a female,and he always cruising and balling... it is only pple closest to him that knws... so, u see that kind of guy can pick girl and tell dem he has a baby if he chooses to and say he is not with the momma or he can even form single... open ur eyes...
ReplyDeletePoster 1, not all prophets are fake but any one demanding money is already going wrong. Poster 2 pls listen to yr mum. There's too much baggages in marrying a second class man. Wait on God, yr man will soon appear. Shalom.
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