Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

PUTTING YOUR NOSE IN YOUR BFF'S BUSINESS.

hello Stella Bae, I'm addicted to your blog and have made most of my friends glued to it. 

I introduced my closest friend to your blog. I made her tried the SNM sometime ago, she met wonderful and crazy people there but cut off everyone because of one guy (or man). He's in his early 40's, a widower with 2 kids and my friend will be 31 before the year ends.

Let me tell you a bit about my friend. She's the most humble and understanding girl I've ever met. When you say someone is pretty, it's an under statement. Truth is, I don't think she knows how pretty she is. Rich men approach her daily but she never gave in even when she's in need. I trust this girl so much because she's just amazing. 

They struggled growing up but very comfortable now. It's 1 year and 6 months she moved back to Nigeria having lived and studied in the U.S. And UK. Her humility amazes me, she will drink garri with the lowest people, fetch firewood or cook with firewood, very accommodating, smart, industrious. Shes a homemaker, what can she not do, name it. She's gives financial helps to younger girls facing difficulties and she doesn't blow it. Initially, I wanted my brother to marry her but on a second thought, my brother doesn't deserve her. At some point I thought she was lesbian because as pretty as she is, she has no boyfriend or talks about marriage. She's been deeply hurt once and she moved on from that. 

Back to now, she's in love with this dude but I don't think he care that much. If he proposes, she will say yes. It confuses me how a young, smart and intelligent girl will leave all the well to do guys coming her way to this guy with 2 kids. I don't want to be the one to tell her I told you so. I don't like that fact that she's putting this guy in her plans because he's not making any move to show he truly wants her. She loves his kids and I know she will treat them wonderful. 

I want her to be happy but this guy isn't responding. I don't want her to get hurt again. If this guy shows all seriousness, I'll support her but I just want my friend to have an open mind. You can say I've a crush on her big time because she's the best. If I'm a guy, I'll marry her asap lol. 

I asked her what she wants in marriage- she said a peaceful home where everyone will be cared for. She'll always tell me that money will come once you're not lazy. Shes focused and achieves anything she sets her mind to do. 

My fellow BV advice my friend, maybe she will understand. Before she sleeps with him and he dumps her. I love my friend so much and I don't want to lose her. 

My friend will be reading the comment section.

Thanks Stella.

*in waffy voice* ''Net me also nead comments''*

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

VIRGIN WITH A PHOBIA FOR S*X.

Dear Stella,I am new to this blog and was recently introduced. please don't publish my name or email I'd prefer to stay anonymous.

I'm 22years old and I'm a virgin I have serious fear or phobia for sex. Whenever I try to attempt it I get real scared and change my mind during the foreplay before anything happens, my heart starts beating really fast, I start panicking and I get the thought of pregnancy (i believe anything including foreplay can get me pregnant) and I don't want to be a single mum 22 even tho I graduated from uni 2yrs ago. 

Am so scared of sex that I find it hard to visit guys even my boyfriend and I'm scared cuddling and head or even undressing fully when making out or even body contact from guys. I lost my first boyfriend to this issue because I won't visit him and let him touch me because of my fear of sex and pregnancy and he got tired . Now I feel am about to loose my second boyfriend whom i like a lot to this same issue. He has begged me to come visit him (its a long distance relationship) and the fear or phobia won't let me. 

And he's too mature so condones my fear because he wants to get married.

I'm ready to have sex but the fear still remains and grows stronger each day. I fear I won't get married or be able to keep a home because of this issue.

Am sorry for the long tale please bvs advice me,has anyone experienced this? or is this a medical condition? (no insults please only matured advice)

Thank you

Awwww......I think i went thru this as well but honey after a while it gets better,just make sure the stress is with someone worth it,someone who will understand your fears and help you with it.

Make sure you do it right.

Dont go and visit him,marry him before you give him booty!