Chronicle Of HOPE- 28

One Man's testimony might not be clear to you until you wear the shoes they wore and feel the pain they felt.

Please do not look down on anyone's story and do not think less of anyone's thanksgiving...God is still God and all Thanksgiving and testimonies belong to him not you!

LOVE FOUND ME AFTER THE PAIN.

''Hi Stella, 

  How are you doing, good work on the blog. so straight to my point of sending in my chronicle of hope. I use to be a MRS with sadness but now am free from the bondage that comes with the MRS that i got myself into and now in a MRS that is full of joy. 

Singles please when getting married or choosing your better half, kindly look into the family, not only your guy or babe attitude because he or she might be good but the family might be devil in sheep clothing. In my own case, while dating this guy, i saw some signs but then i thought its nothing that i can handle him, not knowing he is so hooked to his mother.

It got to a stage whereby before we eat, the mother must give consent. so many things i went through, even had miscarriage and am been left alone to offset the bills and all. while i even travelled to have rest, husband went out with a friend and he was drugged, he went to the hospital, got treatment and then left my number as his number, then the hospital were calling me to come and offset his bills, i was so surprised and it got to a stage that i had to tell the hospital that i am not related to him.

 he started doing things and everyone kept calling me to report him. when i report him to his parents, all i got from them was that i am a terrible person and if it was too much for me to suffer with him. Later on, he started slapping me, it was at this stage that i myself think thrice and turn the table around. the second time he laid his hands on me, i make sure he got a scare to tell the story. when his friends were asking him what happened to his arm, he always lied that he fell. 

Soon his mother started planning how he will leave the country and dump me. i overheard their conversation one day and heard of their plans, that was when i started planning my own escape plan. he was owing people on the street, owing the landlord, even stealing from me, so his mother wanted him to run away and leave me to face all the troubles. but before he travelled, i left him, he got back home and found out that i had left him, his mother and father never called to find out where i was, he too called just a  few times. 

I am happy now, married with 2 sets of twins, i gave up on love but then LOVE FOUND ME. just like Asa's song 'How did love find me'. My Husband is the MOST CARING, HANDSOME MAN ON EARTH. i opened up on all my past with my ex with him,thinking he will leave me but then he never did. we both went for counselling and had prayer sessions together. OLOWO ORI MI is heaven sent to me and i thank God for his banner over me is love. 

PRAISE GOD.

Thank you Stella.

*I am happy you found love again after such wahala,not everyone is lucky and even some have given up hope.....I know its easy to say love will find one but sometimes the reality on ground makes it look like a lie.I have friends who have been searching for love and have given up...

I am happy for you.may God keep your union and give you more testimonies.