Chronicle Of HOPE - 27

Well well well......She was saved and this should inspire those of you that think it all begins and ends with one person!

SINGLE AND HAPPY.

I'm thinking this is more of a Chronicle of hope but heck it is a Chronicle. So I was analyzing my previous broken relationship to see what went wrong and stuff and decided to share it with y'all. Enjoy.

The relationship I had with *Fidi was a funny one. I'm not sure  if I ever loved him but I'm darn sure I was madly attracted to him and I almost gave it my 50% which I don't entirely regret. We dated for just a year but it was a long one. I don't believe in flings so when I date a guy it's because I believe I could marry you.

I really liked Fidi but my spider sense kept on tingling throughout the relationship.

Listed below are some alarming sirens I couldn't ignore:

One. There was a time he cried because we had a little quarrel. I can almost swear those tears weren't genuine and I kept on thinking 'why would these guy shed fake tears? '

Two. He once flippantly asked me how much I had in my bank account. Well, I didn't answer him, even though I barely had up to 50k as at that time.

Three. He was way too eager to get introduced to my mum.

Four. There was a time he kept on whining he was broke. As a good and prayerful girlfriend *adjusts halo*, I prayed for him and encouraged him it would be fine. Some days later, he complained about me not doing anything about his broke status and said 'I'm not used to that'. In all my years of dating no guy had ever asked me for money. In fact, the one I tried helping literally shoved my money into my throat and that was my fellow year mate in college oh, how much more a grown ass adult.

Five. Once in the heat of passion(just making out *re adjusts halo*), he asked if he could pierce the hole in between my cheeks and no, not the ones on my face!

Six. Just within a year of dating his calls and messages dropped drastically. That made me wonder what then would happen after five years.

Seven. He cheated.

Well, irrespective of all these tomato pepper red flags I stayed put in the relationship, until he took a walk himself. I felt it was just my 'if I were an American I would have been a detective' in me being extra paranoid and then sdk bv chronicles were not exactly watering the fire. 

However, if Fidi didn't leave I might still have been in the relationship. And probably married him.

So this is me saying you might not be as lucky as I was for the bf to leave himself, grow some balls take a walk. I'm happy I avoided a future depressing BV Chronicle from me. 

I'm happily single and facing more pressing matters, Job hunting!

Regards