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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BOOBS AS PACIFIER

Dear Stella,

I believe you are good. Thanks very much for the amazing job you are doing with your blog. You have helped me before when I had bf issue (remember)? I guess you won't because of the number of cases you treat. You are a rare gem *kisses*

Well,i'm writing this on behalf of my cousin. She visits this blog too but asked me to help her write in. 

She's married with 4 kids; aged 5, 3 and a 1 year old set of twin. The issue is, her first son who is 5 years old has refused to leave her boobs alone. She stopped breast feeding him when he was 1 and half years old. But, since then, this boy won't sleep at night except she carries him and he rubs her boobs; he sometimes brings out her nipples to suck as a pacifier to sleep.

 Her DH has ranted and raved but there's nothing she can do because without this, the boy won't sleep, he'll continue to be restless and even cry sometimes till he gets her boobs to rub before he can sleep and be taken to his room. He has been doing this all through the birth and breast feeding of the other children.

She's taken him to several hospitals here in the UK and the docs keep saying he's fine and will outgrow it. 

But, she's very concerned and worried. Please, has any BV experienced such? What can she do because this is becoming a big embarrassment for her because ‎even when they have a guest sleeping over, she must do this for the boy to sleep. 

Regards

She should stop giving him breast and let him cry to sleep.If she continues like this she might be breeding a sex monster...Sorry but that is my opinion.A five year old boy should be shy to suck boobs and not grab it.TELL YOUR COUSIN TO STOP!!!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

IN LOVE WITH A MAN WITH SERIAL CHEAT POTENTIALS.

Dear Stella, hope you are doing great, thanks for what you have been doing so far with this blog. May God continually bless you. Amen. Please be patient with me because this maybe a bit long.
Few years back, I met a guy, I saw him only as a fling cos I just got out of a bad breakup, yes he wanted to date me but I didn't want that, he wasn't my type either(I like tall guys). So I cut communications with him. 

Fast forward to last year, something brought us together again and my intention wasn't to fall for him but I did. I really saw his good side and then fell for his good heart so we started dating. 

The problem now is that he flirts like fire, he can chat for Africa, the girls are so much. He swears that there is nothing between them that they are just friends and blablabla. He goes sexual in the course of the chat and I've caught him sex chatting his ex once, he begged and begged and I forgave. I've even gone as far as blocking some cos of the unusual closeness, but he somehow gets new ones.

 I'm tired. 

He sneaks to make night calls and I've told him that I hate that, he promises not to do it again but I somehow catch him whenever I come around. I've told him to stop flirting with these girls, but he calls it innocent that he doesn't feel anything for them, but the question is, what about them and their feelings? He can chat a whole day with them. 

Last night, I caught him again making night calls and when I confronted him, he said he couldn't sleep and didn't want to put on the television cos it may disturb me. Stella, there is always a girl, I've talked.

I'm tired. 

We are planning on getting married soonest and he swears he will stop all these, but will he?
He doesn't work, hardworking though, does little businesses here and there while seeking for something better, and I've really invested in this relationship. Both money wise and asset wise cos I see myself doing it for us, but this guy doesn't want to stop all these awkward ways. I've cried enough, I'm tired. I don't know if I still love him or even trust him anymore. 

My dad cheated on my mum with various women, serial flirt and all, and I hated him for that, still hate him though. My mum endured it all cos of us, but I don't think I can do that. I'm tired and confused, and need help. Been thinking about walking out of this whatever-ship I'm in. 

Please Stella, may your red ink never run dry, kindly bring it out today and talk sense into me, what should I do? Bvs cuss me out all you can, what should I do? I need to receive sense abeg. 

Apart from all these, the guy is good. But him loving me or being good is not enough, cos thanks to my dad, I hate flirts and cheats, and wouldn't want it to happen to me. I'll divorce without looking back. Can't a girl get something better these days? Please help. Thanks.

After all what you just said,you are still planning on getting married to him ''Soonest''?