Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Someties when i read something,I am like  ''OMG,Is this for real?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

IS IT OK TO BE TOO COMFORTABLE?

Good day, Auntie Stella. I am a great fan of yours and I really appreciate the platform you have created for confused minds like me to share our stories and seek opinions. Well, my story goes like this:

I am in my early twenties and my boyfriend is in his early thirties, I am a student in my penultimate year and I also do little businesses too, now the major pain in my neck is my boyfriend. He is employed and happens to be a manager in one of these new generation banks.

We have been together for 2 years now and I love him so much, not for once have I ever got to suspect him of cheating and he has been a perfect advisor. He respects and loves me dearly, but right now I am beginning to get concerned about some of his traits. At his age, my boyfriend still stays in his father's house, he still treks to work even when he can afford to get himself a car (some of his junior workers have cars plus his pay is quite okay). Whenever we go out on a date, he prefers we jump buses than take a drop and that just spoils the whole outing for me. He doesn't just seem concerned.

Another thing is that he is the kind of guy that would never give you something unless you ask of him, even if he sees you dying of need. I am kind of independent and I am not used to asking for help because I never really have to ask before I got anything from my parents.

I feel he should not be told everything to do too and that he is taking advantage of my independence.

Whenever I bring up the issue of him moving out or getting assets and all, he just keeps on telling me it is not priority. It just sort of pisses me off and I then begin to wonder what priority is. He is in the exact spot I met him two years ago and it worries me. I believe in building and growing in relationships and for that reason, I have endured these two years, hoping he would change and grow but to him he is perfectly okay with where he is and his achievements.

This has started to put a strain in our relationship as I have now limited my visits to him because I am just never comfortable visiting, especially when his parents are around. I have also limited my date nights and outings with him too. 

I come from a more than average home and the only reason my mum hasn't gotten me a car is because I am still in school. My boyfriend knows my family background and I thought that would challenge him. I just want to be proud to introduce him formally to my family. I am so confused, am I worrying too much? Is he just a miser? Would he change? Or am I the one with the problem?

Let me read comments today.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

BLOOD OATH WAHALA

I am 33yrs old, married last year April 2014. I have been going through this problem of infertility since then and I am troubled because of one blood oath I took with a Tiv guy out of ignorance. 

It all happened when I was no longer showing interest in him any more because of his character and behaviour towards me. He then begged me and lured me into taking oath that will make us to be together despite any problem and I agreed and we used blade to cut our thumb finger and drink the blood and swear that "there will be no peace and cry of baby in anyone's home that break the oath? 

But after some time I noticed/realized that he is not the person for me so I called him and told him I was no longer interested and told him i was sorry and

that he should forgive me...

 I still went to church and prayed about it by my self but I'm not still convinced because I am married now and I have not been pregnant for once but I always feel the symptom but no pregnancy. Please what do I do?

OMG..WT-Frigging-fracking F**k