He is Married and......
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
ENGAGED TO A MARRIED MAN.
Dear madam Stella, kudos for the good job you are doing on your blog. I need the advice of my fellow blog visitors on an issue that is giving me concern and sleepless night.
I am a 35year Old single mother of a girl, I met her father 7years ago when he was separated from the wife he got married to in Australia, they were processing their divorce as at that time when we met.
One thing led to another and i got pregnant for this guy 3years after dating him. In 2012, he and his wife came back together after sorting out their differences and he told me he didn't want to have anything to do with me again; I was devastated and broken, Stella it was as if my whole world was crashing.
Fast forward to 2013, he came to Nigeria and proposed to me and he promised to stand by me and since then, I have been wearing the ring around like lords of the rings, he hasn't said anything close to marriage and I dont want to force him into that.
I feel guilty and unhappy knowing fully well that this guy is back with his wife and i am still dating him but my fear is being lonely since no single guy will want to end up with a baby mama. I am so confused at the moment, I don't know what to do; I don't know if its best I break up with this guy since he is back with his wife, I dont know if he's back with me because of our daughter or he simply wants to marry me; so many things is giving me concern, I feel like I have wasted 7years of my life.
Please fellow blog visitors, curse me out if you feel like; no one is above mistakes, I know I was stupid to get pregnant for him in the first place but temper justice with mercy because what happened to me can happen to anyone. Please I need your advice and Madam Stella, dont run out of red ink today. Thanks
He was about getting a divorce,then he changed his mind after making you fall pregnant,he went back to his wife and broke up with you?
And then he came to Nigeria and perhaps after you gave him more booty and cried,he put a Lord of the rings ring on your finger,got on the next flight and left and since then your finger has become a permanent abode for the ring and now you are confused on if he will marry you or not?
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
WHEN THE PROPHET SAYS THE OPPOSITE....
WHEN THE PROPHET SAYS THE OPPOSITE....
Good day, Stella. I want you to share this with my fellow BVs to get their opinions. Thank you.
Late 2014, I met this guy, cool, calm, financial ok, let me call him Anthony (not his real name). This guy loved me with everything he had, wanted to marry me but i had issues with him because he doesn't dress well. He is so bad when it comes to his looks, I tried to make him dress to my taste but it didn't work.
I changed his wardrobe but it seemed like he couldn’t change from his style or I wasn't patient enough for him to change. Though, I hurt him so many times, he was always willing to start afresh with me but one day I decided to let him go because I never made him happy and everything he did pissed me off.
Same last year, I met a guy, Stan, (not real name) he stays in Yankee, we got close talking and all. I grew to like him and him the same, we started building a relationship and spent 8 months talking. Finally, he came last month to see me and we fell in love. He is so nice, caring, loving, God fearing, respectful and everything i want in my man. We are in a great relationship but because he
wants to relocate to Nigeria, marriage is not anytime soon. He calculates next 5 years and if you add that to my present age that will be 28 years and I can never wait till then.
wants to relocate to Nigeria, marriage is not anytime soon. He calculates next 5 years and if you add that to my present age that will be 28 years and I can never wait till then.
Fast forward to this month, I called my mum and she told me a prophesy came for me, that someone is coming to marry me and all, I laughed and told her ‘of course, I will get married because am not disadvantaged’ but she insisted that I call the man of God. I have never gone to pastors to seek any help before, I always pray to God because that is what I grew up to know. I reluctantly called the pastor, to my greatest surprise, this man shocked me. He told me stuffs happening to me that only i know about.
The surprising part of it is that he gave me a breakdown of how my relationship with Anthony went, he called his name and said i don't like him because he is not my class; that I take him to buy him clothes and i don't like him because he doesn’t dress (pastor’s words)and it was exactly what happened. He said I should pray to God because I never like all the men that come to marry me.
According to him, Anthony is my husband. He never mentioned Stan as someone planning to marry me, the pastor also mentioned a couple of other guys in my life. He just said that i have a connection in Yankee and the connection will take me places, he described the guy and the guy, according to the description, is Stan. Since the prophecy, I have been crying deeply and I see myself withdrawing from Stan.
Please BVs, I am really confused because I love Stan so much. I was willing to wait but with this prophesy plus I don't love Anthony enough to get married to him. I don't want to make a lifetime mistake.
Please take it easy with the cussing out. I am just seeking for help. Thank you as you contribute.
What is all this?perhaps both men are not for you!!!
I dont understand why you think God has to send somebody to show you your husband...God will give you signs by himself.
Hiannn!
ReplyDeleteJust negodu!
Will be right back.
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
@Poster 1, you're 37 and someone engaged you and left you here, you're still walking around with that ring. You need something to change your thinking, throw away that ring and love yourself enough. Erase the thought that no single guy can fall in love with you, if you're meant to marry, you meet your own hubby. Be very prayerful.
Delete@Poster 2, with your write up, you're just 23 and your this desperate. Let me tell you something, most ladies that are desperate of marriage and do hope that before their 25th birthday, they would have gotten marry, tend to marry late in life, I've noticed it.
Start working on how to better your life more than settling down, then you will meet your husband when you least expect it.
*Larry was here*
Mrs Lord of the rings he probably lied to you about divorce and in ur desperate measure u used jazz on him yet the true love he has for wife kept winning. You thought u could probably use pregnancy and visiting spiritual women n men to hold him Slaaaaaaaaaaap.. hmmmmmmm this is the same story of Ihudiya James insisting on man whose married with 4 kids.. Babe don jazz the guy Obi die.. Na so so prayer the wife deh pray 24/7 the thing is guy love the wife die but juju no gree am leave Charity from Calabar to a pastor(native doctor) in mile2 idon warn my friend make she deh follow her go these. Lagos na wah!!!
DeleteWill bring this story here everybody in Ikeja knows Charity Obi and the wife.. and I will expose all the pastors she takes the guy to not knowing na spiritualist...
I promise you that one day you shall send a story here and all you get here from the BVs will be just NEGODU. Ewu
DeleteObviously your mum told the Pastor your life history simply because she prefers Stan! Think Abeg
DeleteI mean your mum wants you to marry Anthony . Just imagine the amount of Nigerians marrying the wrong person because of Pastor prophesy! I cringe
DeletePoster one you are his Nigerian play thing,now its up to you to make him your foreign play thing or not.But if its that ring you're thinking about my dear forget it.
DeletePoster two its your own life therefore only you can make the final decisions.
Poster 1:y did u give urself to a man whose divorce hasn't been declared absolute.av heard so many cases of couples settling Dr differences after few years.well I wouldn't like to judge u cos d deed has been done but I will advice u to take off Dat ring and leave ds man alone.forget totally about him.dnt deceive urself by saying no one would marry a baby mama.package urself well and u will testify.dont get urself into more troubles by engaging a fellow woman s husband.Poster 2:do not put Ur hope or trust in any pastor wen it comes to marriage issues,talk to God on Ur own and he will reveal Ur man to u.d right nan may not be any of dese 2 u mentioned.be sensitive.i wish u all d best
DeleteI need help!!!
DeletePls pple the way my armpit scratches is crazy,i use to shave withoit soap or water on it before,and after like 3-4days,its just inches me a little and stops,so a frnd advised me to be adding soap and water,and it worked ohhh,sometime last month,i forgot to use soap and water,since then d inching is mad ohh,if d tin start,i would forget myself and start scathing it seriously,d 2 at the same time,plss help a sister,if u ve experience it before how did u do to stop it,guys d inching is sweet and irresistible.
Forgive my my typos,ohhh,as I am scratching and typing.
Aunty Stella, how far?
DeleteP1: It was wrong from d beginning and it is wrong even now. U can't build a lasting marriage on that kind of foundation.
DeleteDo u know what u are to him? The other option. The side chick. U are being used by a man who obviously has no single respect nor regard for u. Wake up and stop waiting around!
Is d Australian woman not human with feelings like u? Why would u want d devil use u to break up her home? Allow d man build his marriage. Stop being a distraction.
U have made d first mistake now u want to top it off wd another? It's stupidity. Pls repent and trust God to bring ur own husby to u who will love u despite ur status as a single mother. We all make mistakes, okay?
P2: Some prophecies are real, and some are fake. Some so called pastors work with familiar spirits and they can tell u everything abt ur past, present and future. Be careful.
In something as important as marriage, God wants to lead u of u allow Him. But first u must set ur priorities right. When a man's heart is set on pleasing God in everything, even in d choice of a life partner, God will help that one, I assure u.
I call it the 'principle of abandoning ur will to God'. It worked for me. U don't need to rely on prophecies to make a choice of a life partner. What u need is to open up ur heart to God's will and everything will fall into place.
Also, do u love Stan for 'what' he is or for 'who' he is (his deeper/inner qualities)? Go back and think deeply. Until u allow God lead u, then I guess u are on ur own either to go with ur pastor or stick with Stan. Whichever way, d ball is in ur court.
It may not even be any of them. Don't be desperate. It can push u into to making d wrong decision.
Always choose righteousness.
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There is soooo much u need to know!
It takes a very strong man of God to actually reveal who your life partner should be. From my little understanding. Most men of God see a part of the future when it comes to marriage of two individuals. According to the yorubas, if u notice they always say "oko to ma ba mi kale" which means a husband that will stay wiv me till evening.
DeleteIn marriage there is morning, afternoon and night. Morning is the present situation when u get married. Afternoon is the middle years of your marriage and evening is the later years of your marriage. Most pastors only see one part of the marriage, which might be the hard times in marriage. The next thing they say the man is not good for u. If u are so so lucky then your morning, afternoon and night will be good which means that what ever u go through will be overcome and rather than separate u, it will make both partners stronger. A lot of issues pop up at every period that if not well managed will enter the next period and the next.
It takes a very strong man of God to see the three periods of marriage accurately because once u have slept wiv a man, the man's soul follows u around. A man of God who is not to strong will keep seeing the man beside u, he would think that is your husband true true, might see very good things for u and the man only for u people to divorce In a very short while. This is because he only saw the beginning of your marriage. He did not see the afternoon or evening!
Another thing pastor sees is character. This kind of vision can be confirmed by the party involved. If his character is not at per wiv yours, the marriage cannot last. Two hot tempered people have no business together. Likewise two quiet people, etc!. A man who womanises cannot stop. A woman who lies, a woman who spends wrecklessly, a man who is hot tempered he will beat u one day, nobody is perfect but there are some vices that are not good in marriage. This are things that don't make marriage last till evening. A man of God might see this and warn u about it. Even u your self must have seen it. Bottom line is do not ever manage what u cannot cope wiv, and don't ever enter marriage thinking you can change a man or a woman. It has not been given to us out of the abundance of God's love to change any human being. Even as a psychologist, we just try to modify behaviour by allowing people know the consequences of their actions and using drugs and scientific methods. But God comes first in every little decision u have to take.!
Poster 1: yu are datin an irresponsible married man. leave him andluk for someon else.
DeletePoster 2: pray to God yurself tell God to show yu your husband.
Poster 2...u r so naive at 23...ur mother told d pastor. U think she doesn't know. Mothers kno everything n pretend not to kno...u r still young at 23. Date d guy u like n forget about age. Go with the flow. Along d line u might meet some 1 new
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DeleteI just dnt believe in all dis!!! Dats ow dey syd my ex is my husband.. He's marrying another person in 2weeks tym... Pls no need to cry abeg just wipe ur tears nd ask God for he's own sign!!!!'
DeleteLeave Em jay alone pls. Write ur own na
Delete@C'est moi,what do u guys derive frm bitter and hatred,u just come and spill ur hateful comments everywhere,if it scratches ur eyeballs and pinches ur brain,2things re involve,u will go completely blind and ran mad,so watch out!
DeleteIrene leave d idiotic c'est moi cos she d bored and jobless one,the likes of her re waiting for emjay to stop so they jump @it,remember d day quicksilver forgot to go under anno,what of moneymaker dat idiot posted loads of insult,cussing her out even befor he saw her comment,and today d two monkeys don't read bfor they comment,scroll down and check their comments,u come here and focus on emjay,wat advise ve u given to d posters now,oversabi make agbede short.
Delete*bitterness
DeleteThe only thing I read up here is Pure inspirations post! Very very true girl! I love u already with plenty homo
DeleteIf Em jay comment before, I no go chop again for the rest of this year..... Enough is enough.
ReplyDeleteGood, minus one problem on food giveaways!
DeleteLol get ready to starve because she don first u
DeleteHehehehe, hunger strike is ur portion till d end of d year
DeleteLolzzzz.
DeleteOhh yeahh,be ready to die then.
Hahahahah, ur papa or husband go dey happy, becos u no go chop for the next 4 years cos Mj will always be commenting b4 u
DeleteLolzzzz.
DeleteOhh yeahh,be ready to die then.
So you just invited starvation into your life knowingly or unkowingly. Nawa for you.
Delete*Larry was here*
Poster 1 I swear u mumu die! Stella slap u me Na shoot I go shoot to rid the world of foolish n brainless women like u, who downgrade the women folk. U are a side chick who wants a married man to divorce his wife and marry u, recieve sense. What happened to u can never ever happen to me because I hold myself in high esteem and I know my worth, a married man n a divorced man, not my type. Concentrated on bringing ur child up so she doesn't end up senseless like u, that's if u have any sense to even pass to ur child.
DeleteSee what you've used ur mouth to say, you better not eat till the rest of the year oh, if u do shame on you. Lol.
DeleteLol! Prepare to go on a hunger strike !
DeleteHope ur ready cos she is first again.
DeleteMumu, she commented b4 you ooh!
DeleteMake sure u keep 2 your word...
Lol
Em jay is Stella dimokorkus. That's why she's always d first to comment.
DeleteEm jay is Stella dimokokrkus. That's why she's always the first to comment.
DeleteSend all Ur food to me. Inugo. No food till 31st December oh.
DeleteBwahahahaha. .May the fast begin
DeleteBwahahahaha. .May the fast begin
DeletePoster 1,your first problem is low self esteem. First love yourself and don't allow being a single mum to limit you. Did I read that you collected a ring from a man that left you to go back to his wife? Please drop that key holder and move on sharply.
DeletePoster 2, them go dey use jazz for una then una go dey feel say na true man of God. Better kneel down and pray abi them get 2head before God dey speak to them?
Yes am sdk,in john domelu's voice.
DeleteI luv this blog gonn.
Characters!
So seriously, Em Jay u still commented before me? How u De do am abeg?
DeleteSeriously, Em jay u are jobless. U feeling on top of d world for dis. How I wish u can sit down nd think deep about ds. Pple are making jest of u of how jobless u are by always commenting first. Nd when you comment u don't say something reason. Is either u say just Negodu or I will just read comments. U have never said anything meaningful. Please grow up gal. Beauty without brain is just a trash bin.
Delete....
Delete@anno21:50,chill out,so u ve been blind to all her comments,its d phrase u see bah? Life is not as hard as u think darl,so take a chill pill abeg,btw wat re u doing here,miss worker.
DeleteAnno21:53,fuck out bitch,blind bat,will my long epistle wash away ur bitterness? Get an id and come bck.
DeleteEm jay I've neither insulted nor cussed u. But wat ever you've cussed C'est moi back to u & anonymous 7:48pm a billion folds. AMEN & AMEN
DeleteBless u
"Ran mad" English u sabi pass
DeleteI lol
Two Stupid narratives.
ReplyDeleteBRB!
Extremely stupid, fish brained women
DeleteYour being harsh these days, what happened? This is not who I met on sdk
DeleteWhy wouldn't it be when u commented 1min after its was posted,idiotic mumu,urself,lafresh,and money maker today re all dragging for who to comment first,the same mugus were busy cussing em jay out...common sense is little and fragile receive it now!!!
DeleteGod bless u dear.
DeleteI'd rather say TWO VERY STUPID NARRATIVES.....
Stupid is an understatement. They just come here to say rubbish
DeleteJbaby, lol
DeleteQuicksilver is a bitter negative soul most times, but for once I agree with 'shim'! Really silly narratives.
DeletePlease where is Jennybaby......
DeleteJust negodu
ReplyDeleteYou are a bastard money monkey. No profitable contribution just to stir up hate between tribes. If this has to do with buhari you will litter your hate comments all over the place. This country won't crumble but die you must.yes you will die prematurely.
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteSo you join one of those pipo wey dey enjoy raw sex ehn? wen pipo like me dey hide behind tasteless condom.... mtchew
Poster 2
Abeg, that prophet should help us have an insight into our economy, highlighting the major investments we can make now to free up the hidden reserves of our potentials in Nigeria and stop meddling with trial and error kind of prophesies.
Lol @ d prophet shud help wit Nig's economy
DeleteLol. I hate to admit that you are right. Your poster 2 comment especially. Reading your comments most times is like listening to a mad man talk. There is a bit of sense in some nonsense he will say.
DeleteThank you my brother. Tell them.
DeleteMmyflawws so u know d condom makes it tasteless but u still must do' abi?....i think u must be a pussy slave as I predicted.lol
Delete@ prophet,dem go just dey talk their own whether it's by using pure logic or a chess gamble,but somehow they have misled many and led them to marriages that have brought them woe!as Stella said,he might not even be amongst these two.but pray to God urself,he will show u.btw ur reason for not liking Anthony is flimsy(who knows whether dats why d pastor said so),...dats how u pple do anyhow and miss good guys!what is dressing? Afterall am sure he doesn't wear rags,but just a lil conservative,so?i assure u it's only a matter of time if u insist,and take out his clothes every morning,by the time pple start complimenting his looks,he himself will ask u to get more nice clothes.so pls work ur relationship urself,MOG aside!
As for Yankee guy,u hear Yankee all ur ear rise up shei,u wan gand...nothing do u!better be sure he isn't married.hehe!
#okbye
Poster 1,
ReplyDeleteAbeg use jazz tie him if the wife is an oyibo...
Shine your eyes...
Poster 2,
Well,the ball is in your court...
Marry the one that is super rich that's my own...
The oyinbo woman must have a stronger jazz then
DeleteHahahaha u be case
DeleteNow i know you are a Big FOOL
DeleteUse jazz tie him
#richbee#
The same way some one will use jazz to tie your husband. Mumu advice. Foolish lesbian.
DeleteExactly super rich is d word,I left one guy cos he cldnt dress well and married hubby,fine guy,posh and all,,mehn I rilli regret ,,hubby is rich but selfish and stingy ,,d oda guy is rich too but he takes good care of his family,dey travel all over d world,,while my hubby buys all d designers,so stingy to me,d kids,his siblings,his parents,, l so hate him
DeleteD oda guy still calls me and still loves me and l think am gonna give him a chance,,poverty naa bastard
Boss it's not really about money. She never even see this so called stan. Maybe his like my Malaysian ex that kept sweet talking me till he was deported and he came to perch on me for survival . When I bill am he know how far.
DeleteLinda really? Jazz? U are one very funny lady that never fails to crack me up.
Delete...usually guys dat like to dress too much are narcissist,and narcissist are vain(which should be reserved for women),and vain men are always selfish!dats how the trend goes,dats why ur hubby behaves like that!i even notice most of them turn out to be OCD_ish' and gay!dressing too much is not a positive quality for men jare.dis one is here rejecting hubby cos of dressing.hmmm
Delete@Linda dis ur advise to poster 1 na die oo!what if d jazz clears?for me I won't advise her to jazz him but he actually comes to honestly perfect d marriage,she should agree so that her child will be with d father afterall she did not get pregnant when he was still married,he said they were getting a divorce and later changed his mind.
Hmmmm poster 1, please find ur own man oo.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, marry somone who loves u more dan u love him ok?
*dat messed up silly girl*
D Yankee guy is not ur husband n he'll take u places?...wia he dey take u go?...+ u r just 23 ,stop worrying about marriage n enjoy ur life jor ,wen e no be say dem tell u say u go die young.
Delete@Dmusg,waiting for ur mail
Poster 1 stop giving out your punani to an undeserving guy, he is not just that into you.
ReplyDeleteleave him alone, focus on your child. It is obvious he is not helping you financial. He must have a big dick that you enjoy and want to die there.
Ruth abokoku it haff do pitch tent somewhere else.
Poster 2 I am sorry for you. Do you think you're perfect. Dress sense is your problem na fashion you wan chop? I don't subscribe to men of God/prophets. Get down on your knees and pray with the mouth God gave you. You can't wait for stan so what is your plan, do you want to marry anthony pending when stan is ready? don't be silly please.
Why do you women keep talking about your punani as if there's anything spectacular about it. Punani in Nigeria doesn't cost much because there are lots of women hustling out there, and very pretty ones for that matter. With 10k a man would get himself a cool punani for all night. Women should invest more on their characters and careers as Punani alone can't possible keep a man like me. I trip for intelligent and hard working women with good sense of humour. Everyday keep your punani, keep your punani ; punani this , punani that , does it even cost to get one? With the high number of hostling girls in lagos and abuja alone who collects 10k for the night , i wonder why men give themselves headache over women that have nothing else to offer a part from punani.
DeleteMy brother i tire o. I am a woman but i don't like the way women talk ad if we don't enjoy sex, me and DH enjoy sex well well.
DeleteP1 Desperado
ReplyDeleteAll na wash!
P2 sounds like real mumu
Lemme not go into details analysing rubbish.
Altho U sound like a cheat n vain gal
But Anthony love U scatter.
E be like na Anthony go arrange with pastor to tell U those bogus prophecies
Lol exactly my thoughts
DeleteSixFeeta,thats exactly my thought for poster 2.
DeleteDear poster 2,how did the pastor get in contact with your mum?Where did your mum meet him?Because from what I read up there,it seems that Anthony might have arranged with the pastor o!
Don't make any decision in a haste because the whole thing is suspicious.
I swear!
DeleteBoth poster 1 and 2 have fish brain.
DeletePoster 1- so you don't have sense to know that you are being played?
Poster 2- so you don't have sense to know that "pastor" is Anthony's henchman?
Issorai
Poster 1 receive sense! ! You made a silly mistake the first time. Leave that man alone to face his marriage and pray for your own husband.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 fell for the oldest trick in the book....The ' i don't love my wife /we are getting a divorce /my gf and I are going thru a rough time / I want to break up with my gf but I need some time...etc
DeletePoster 2: ask yourself this question, what have I achieved for myself. If you die today what would you be remembered by?
Eastwestern
P2, are u sure ur mum has not downloaded your life history to the man of God prior to your conversation with him?
ReplyDeleteP1, being single is not a disease and being single mum is nobody's business arrrrghhhh!
The mum definitely has. Let her come and be asking us mumu questions. Even poster 1, I felt like joining my own hand with Stella's for the e-slap. Mtcheew. Two mumu posters.
DeletePoster 1 move on u just a rebound to d man
ReplyDeleteU wan wait 5yrs? Ewu!!!
ReplyDeletePoster one you are just a booty call marriage ko engagement ni
ReplyDeletePoster 2, ever since God intervened in Adam and Eves marriage and Adam blamed him for giving him a bad wife God has not intervened in any marriage again keep letting prophets deceive you
Where you read this adam and eve story from?
Delete#richbee#
In the same bible you obviously refuse to read. When God asked Adam why he ate the apple what did Adam say!? Adam replied that it was the wife God gave him that caused it. Since that time please tell me when God intervened in any marriage in the Bible again I mean select a husband or wife for anyone else
DeleteI know you were trying to feel clever with your joke. But God intervened in helping so many marriages. Go and read tobit's story, the lady he ended up marrying had serious demon possession that used to kill her husbands on wedding night. She cried to God because she had already buried 7husbands and he gave her Tobit. And an angel helped Tobit chase away the demon from his new wife. Isaacs wife too was gotten from God's intervention, Ruths husband too. Esthers husband the king tooo. So your joke doesn't stand.
DeletePoster 1: stella nwunye Kork can u please double dt reality slap f poster 1..mschew! Madam Lord of d rings so ur hand is a ring holder now? Odiegwu! Kip dreaming till d hediot impregnates u a 2nd time. Nonsense!
ReplyDeletePoster1: I wonder what u re still waiting for.
DeletePoster2: see your mouth like you love Stan. Na cos him dey stay for Yankee akwaya? Mtcheww. O ga eme gi voom n'anya. If u like don't go back to Anthony, keep looking for love and marriage wia it dosnt exist.
Poster one: Please remove the ring and wait on God for your husband to locate you
ReplyDeletePoster two: What if it was your mom that give the Pastor all your details and info on the guys in ur life. To be honest with u, marriage is a personal decision. U MUST make the decision by yourself coz no mama, no papa or pastor will be living with you in ur husbands house!
Poster 1, I hope Stella's reality slap resets your brain. You have to purge your head of demonic myopic thinking. I've seen a woman remarry after 3 children to a rich man who absolutely adores her. I've seen more than one so after one na small thing. But you should draw closer to God and watch Him takeover and turn your life around. Dump that Lord of the rings like a bad habit. You are an impostor there and you cannot prosper, the consequences are horrible
ReplyDeletePoster 2, know God for thyself, instead of wailing. Confused fellow, you said you can never wait till 5 years and now you said you love him so much you are willing to wait. 5 years na long time oh, he would meet plenty better girls and dump you. You better pimp the Anthony to your taste and stop fumbling
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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One: yu ruin urself....
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Two:sorry....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteAdvise yourself!
Poster 2
Listen to your heart!
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
One: yu ruin urself....
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Two:sorry....
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P1, why not try and talk to him about the whole issue. You can't wait forever. P2, I don't know what to tell you o honestly.
ReplyDeletePoster 2...Be your own prophet God will direct you and you will know cos it comes with peace ...Pray for yourself..
ReplyDeletePoster 1... That man is using you...He just made you Lord of the rings like that..biko move on you will find a good man that will accept you and your daughter...keep an open mind..
Poster 2! U better run!leave all this prophets! Na so my mum carry me go see one prophet 10yrs ago cos of one man that I refused to marry. The guy was loaded and even lives abroad then,my dear na so this hungry prophet wey dey 4 ketu talk say d guy is my husband that if I miss him I will regret my life! That my BF that whom had noin will impregnate me and dump me nd so on! That this man whom was 15yrs older than me will make me a queen nd happy 4 d rest of my days! Na so this prophet confuse me nd I married this man! That was the greatest mistake I ever made in my life! With him I experienced the worst domestic violence ever! He would beat me infront of any1! My maid,sisters,my friends,his friends!hit me wit Guns and anytyn @ his reach!he leaves me battered nd @ d hospital bed most times.he would seize my car keys,fones etc nd sometimes instruct d gateman to lock me out wen I return home after 9pm.i even lost an important organ 2 his violence need to ve a surgery to fix it! He z d biggest cheat ve ever knwn! Sleeps wit married women!brings his white girlfriend to my home in nigeria bak in da dayz!nd she wud be my co-wife pendn her stay!he wud tak her everywer nd tell ppl she z his business partner!on one of her visits he even impregnated her.(she never had d baby).nd he was a single parent b4 I married him! Nd he wud always go bak 2dsame lady whom he claims dumped her 1yr old child 4him nd left wen he had a set back! He sleeps with her nd even promises her she wud return as she neva remarried! I cud go on nd on! That man was the greatest mistake I ever made! Not even a single day of joy wit him @ home! He abuses me @ every lil instance!
DeleteHope you aren't still there? Run Baby Run. Visit www.jeromeistalking.org for inspiration.
Delete@ anonymous, why are you still in that marriage ? Do you want to die there ?
DeleteAnon 17:10,
DeleteAre you for real or is this a nollywood movie...
How can one person be suffering like this in the name of marriage?...
Biko steal his money and flee...
Hian!!...
Domestic violence. Please meditate on Sara and Abimelech. Ps 23 daily. Fast and pray. May God personally warn your husband in Jesus Name. Change is yours.
DeleteThanks for sharing. As for me I thank God for my life.
Yes thee are indeed false prophets. Hear God for yourself before emotions come in
When money is involved see how the lying spirit is @ most peak. Deception false prophets
Now you learned to follow your instincts. Sorry oh the Lord restore you.
God bless
Shuooo waiting person never see for stella blog? Narr1) shame shame shame on u.... U quickly got pregnant because he was having problems in his marriage? Who told u dat single guys don't marry baby mama? Abeg go find baby papa like u marry jare....... Some baby mama think dey can hook up a guy with pregnancy,,,,,, leave another woman husband oooo let her enjoy her husband.
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Delete#richbee#
Poster 1, move on already except you are willing to be in a troubled relationship. If you don't want to move on, get pregnant again for him and let all your kids take on the same last name. If you want your happiness let go biko.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, my advice is that you should be careful before you fall into the hands of a scam. Wait though the only problem you have with the first guy is cause he does not dress well! Girls of this days though. You are falling for some American guy that might eventually dumb you. Babe, wise up. Am not saying you should settle for anyone but if it's just dressing biko register him in some etiquette class.
Dumb = Moron
DeleteDump = discard (throw-away)
Pls, There's nothin like "Am coming, Am this,Am that.
U either use ( I'm ) or write it in full (I am coming, etc )
One vivi or viva somt wrote SAMCOPHANT the other day instead of PSYCHOPATH
Pls, Almost y'all use a smartphone,
make una download dictionary abeg.
Poster 1 so u need sumone 2 tell u b4 u move on Receive sense..poster 2 odikwa serious dis pastor tingy works 4 sum pple , o u see where luv u dey wait till nxt 5yrs wat if he breaks up wit u along d line,.u nid slap 2 reset ur brain
ReplyDeletePosters I have no advice for you all cos I have my own problem. I'm sorry
ReplyDeletePoster 1: *slap* Walk away!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: you seem confused. And what's late about marrying at 28? I used to feel like u when I was 23 but trust me if you keep this rate you are going 28 will meet you. Anthony, you don't like his swaglessness. Stan you like but you can't wait 5 yrs. Later - "but you I was willing to wait". Why don't you live your life and let things fall into place. God's will will always prevail even when we don't put any effort trying to hold the steering. It will come to pass. Pray to God and let him have his way.
NOTE: God's will for your life will never irritate you. Instead, you will find yourself loving that thing in the person that looks stupid to everyone else.
She's 28 already oh. Comprehendé?
DeleteAs in,can you just imagine that mindset?that she cant wait till 28..its people like her that end up single and dry.
DeleteYou claim a man is all shades of good but you cant be with him because he dosnt know how to dress...really?
Does he walk about naked?
You still sound young and havnt really seen life.
Your narrative irritates me
Poster1..Nigga was never getting a divorce..At that age you still believe all this divorce bullshit from men? Nawao, madam go and sell that Ring I fits worth something, buy yourself some nice shoes, go out and have some fun! You're not too old, neither is your condition bad! You should see that man as your enemy instead you're still asking if u should break up with him..smh
ReplyDeletePoster 2..pleasw whenever you hear, prophet said, God said biko run! All this prophets are all fake and they operate with marine spirit..fine they will.see few stuffs about you just to lure you and make you believe they are real,they nxt thing they strt giving you testimonies ndi agboro.in the end o nne they want to perform some.sort of deliverance tht wil make ur real husband come to u..u know the rest..Run Run and don't look back. Pray to God, he answers!
She was waiting for his to pack and go so she can come in. Women women fear dem.
DeleteI like u already
DeletePoster one: leave the man joor
ReplyDeleteTwo: talk to your GOD.
And to think u accepted d ring chai.....Y some babe dey desperate? Ur daughter is looking up to u ooooo better watch ur move.
ReplyDeleteMadam, he was in the middle of a divorce but later reconciled with his wife? Why are some women so gullible? What proof do u have that he was telling the truth. In most cases, there's nothing like a divorce going on. I'm sure his wife thought of his visit as just another trip. Leave taken men alone, una no go gree. What guy falls in "love" so easily in the middle of a divorce process? With all the stress that comes with it? Carry your cross. At least you have a daughter, so your 7 years wasn't fully wasted.
ReplyDeleteLol @lord of d rings and stella dnt run out if red ink. Hahahah, poster 1: ur story is fucking annoying and u lack integrity. Poster 2: go and pray hard.
ReplyDeletePoster 1; this your story really pissed me off, the man went back to his wife,came back again to engage you and you accept, wonder shall never end. what are you doing with the ring,please look for a river around you and throw the riing inside biko, your the one limiting yourself, sometimes we seems to forget our value and we some of us settle for the less. Without apology receive sense in the name of Jesus"
ReplyDeletePoster 2: When your ready for Marriage, your eyes will be open to know the right person.Then you don't have to seek for the prophet's vision.Na only you go dey see the vision.
So u be ready to settle as second wife, not minding how d other woman will feel.????..... MADAM POSTER THEM GO DO YOU?
ReplyDeleteChick felix calm down now. Lol
Delete#richbee#
Attention seeking chick felix. Can't you just say something and leave. Must u keep doing "Notice me" abeg shift mk better people comment
DeleteMy dear when it come 2 marriage use ur head,which one is prophecy again.I hope u knw that marriage is a delicate issue and its Only u and ur hubby dat will live 2gether nOt ur pastOr Or ur mum.be logical abeg.the bible says he that findeth a wife,the bible didn't say and a pastor will prOphecy and give u a wife.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I am not going to insult you for getting pregnant, we all make mistakes but I am calling you a first grade idiot for still wearing the ring of a married man. You better help yourself by throwing that ring into a soak-away", count your loses and move on.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: flee from anything called Prophet and prophesy. Prophets have rings and inner demons that work with familiar spirits moving around that whisper things to them. "All na for show".I am sure the pastor held your hands for prayer/ handshake before starting his evil counsel. Marriage has to do with personal conviction and not what other people are saying. If it doesn't give you peace then it's not marriage.
Waiting for abroad boyfriend most times end in heart break. Let ur Stanley go and when it's God' s perfect time, a good man that is yours would come along. It's hard but it's for the best.
Ah! You said it. Rings and familiar hand shakes... Ni body touches me now. And they send things through your eyes.... God help us.
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ReplyDeletePoster 2: na long throat go kill u. So bcos Stan is abroad u feel u love him. Do u know wot he even does over dere n u r putting all ur hope on him. The love of money has eroded ur sense of reasoning.
But wait a minute, u seem t b contradicting ursef:
Frm ur narrative: paragraph 3, last sentence, u said: "He calculates next 5 years and if you add that to my present age that will be 28 years and I can never wait till then."
Then paragraph 7, u went ahed to say "Please BVs, I am really confused because I love Stan so much. I was willing to wait but with this prophesy plus I don't love Anthony enough to get married to him. I don't want to make a lifetime mistake."
Mschew!
Umu wanyi:
Hw can u say u can neva wait n in anoda line u said u r willing t wait. Hmmmm Why won't confusion set in when u don't know wot u even want. Wot happens t talking to God directly so dt he can guide u? In a space of 1year u already met n forked two guys.
Tell us: Stan forks beta bahhh n dresses well n has more money to throw arnd. Isiokay keep fooling arnd till u make dt lifetime mistake u r trying t avoid.
Hahahahaha
DeletePoster 1** Point of correction madam, what happened to you can never happen to me because am not stupid and desperate. OYA RECEIVE SENSE!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLmao 😂 Amen ooo
DeleteAs in ehnnnn the stupidity no be here. I can never be that dull biko
DeleteLmfao!
DeletePoster 1. Move on jare, this guy they use you big time, remove that ring and throw it into the sea.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Forget all this prophet ooo, na joblessness cause am, na so them tell my parents that year, them don dey reach 30years now and still counting.
You know your man, follow your heart!
Poster 1; Abegi where @LADY IGO dey. Lady IGO be like "you meet a man and open legs; when a man wants to have sex, he puts a ring to it". BOOTY BOOKED FOR SEX. Chai, I laugh in spannish.
ReplyDeleteMadam, no be say I wan cuss but e bi like say your brain na fish. On a more serious note, please throw that ring away, seek God and hand your life to Christ make im repay am. God loves you and can give you "a single" or no single man who loves you for the woman you are and loves your daughter as his. Chikina.
Mtchewww @ poster 2. God cannot reveal something about you to someone else when he has not done same to you. You're simply confused. A guy loves you and you're doing sme sme cos of dressing. Na dressing we go chop? No worry, u go marry GQ model wey fit turn u to bitter housewife then u go know how far.
ReplyDeleteBetter to marry a bush man who loves and provides for u, cos in the days of trouble, na that love go keep the marriage.
I've be married for 10 yrs and counting all glory to God. Apart from God, it is my husbands love for me that has kept the marriage not me o. I can be crazy sometimes it's not all men that can stand it infact my husband said sometimes I'm like a trailer that has failed break I can jam anything and anybody in my path but cos of love, he understands me. So, my dear make decisions with ur head.
Poster two
ReplyDeleteStan the guy that lives abroad is not your husband but your Yankee connection will take you places? How will the connection take you "places" if your prophet said he is not your husband? Ochim!! Ndi amuma
Please I don't have anything to tell you,i can't relate!
Poster one
This is what you get for sleeping with a married man and even expecting something out of it!
He wasted your 7years(thank God you even have a beautiful child) and now he is about to waste 10 more years of your life if you don't flee from him!
Poster 1, break up wit him and look for a guy who will love and accept u and ur baby!
ReplyDeletePoster 2! I'm confused here, my own is that don't use ur husband to do bf and don't use ur bf for hudband! Got help you
NO 1 plz move on if the guy hasn't defined ur relationship with hiM no waste ur time.n who told u,u can't find a man of ya own kwani!get off dat mentality n dat man will com ok.
ReplyDeleteNO 2 same happened to me but wen d pastor started telling me to send card 4 him knowing well that I was broke then,me I borrow leg,not saying all r bad but just b careful.God can speak to u too,seek his face sincerly n watch him do wonders 4 u..Good luck
When will women learn to make use of condom or use postinol in the case of accident. Now ur stock to a man dat doesn't even want you, he just needs a warm bed when he visits Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to say you shld have aborted dat pregnancy. If u had nothn connecting u with dis guy u shld have moved on since d 7yrs and perhaps be married to a man dat appreciates u instead of dis crap ur experiencing.
His enjoying family bliss in Australia while you're here struggln and takn care of a child alone.
Women we gots to watch d way we'r breeding kids for dis irresponsible men dat don't know wat they want.
You better stop wearing dat ring and don't chase away suitors when single girls neva get husband. Nigerian women just give dem ring and dey wld open pussy wide for d man. Dat ring is to cage u madam.
Poster 2, when u start clocking 35-40. Nobody will teach you to follow ur heart. So you cant wait till 28 to get married ba? do you even have a career,all u ppl think abt is marriage. Den dey will say domestic violence when dey are jobless and d husband is gettn fraustrated with dere demands.
Why don't you cool down,pray abt it.
Lol @ open pussy wide for man!!!
DeleteStella, some pastors r right sometimes jor. And it's not a crime to seek the help of a pastor when u want to marry.
P 1: let the man go!
ReplyDeleteP 2: y'all are too choosy & picky. Setting unrealistic standards. In no distant time, na the same una go still go Shiloh dey arrange seats when push comes to shove. Receive sense IJN!
Ghanaman signing out!
Lol@ arranging seats at shiloh.
DeleteUr comments always makes me laugh. When push comes to shove.
DeleteP1- U had better break up with him, can't u see he doesn't care about u...do u also want to be a home wrecker? Who told u no one will get married to a baby mama,even if no one does and so freaking what?
ReplyDeleteWho told u u've wasted 7 years of your life ehn? A precious gem was carved out of the relationship...ur daughter.
My advice is 4 u to beak up with him; HE'S MARRIED FOR PETE'S SAKE. Focus on yourself and your daughter and let God take the wheel. To be Mrs. Nor be criteria yo enter heaven b4 o
men of God!!!!hmmmm! thats how one told my cousin to stay off men for 7 years if not she will get pregnant, have an abortion and die!!! hmmmm. Some serious sunthing! Madame Poster2! cant you talk to God yursef?
ReplyDeletePoster believe it wen people say some times love isn't jst enough....I think if u give dis Anthony guy a chance u might actually grow to like him alot
ReplyDeletePoster 2) since wen prophet tell me say my enemy (not me in jesus name) will die now till 3days, dat I should send him about 40k or something like that (wish I didn't send) to do some spiritual work for me so I won't die, dt is wen I stop believing any prophecy...... Sorry to say I don't believe dis shit! Follow ur heart.. Thank am still alive and healthy.
ReplyDeleteNARRATOR ONE, I JOIN STELLA TO GIVE U A DIRTY AND REALITY SLAP.WAIT TIL U R 50YRS DEN U WIL REMOVE DE RING AND LUK FOR JEHOVAH SHARP SHARP TO GIV U UR MAN..U TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HIM HAVIN ISSUES WIT DE WIFE AND WAS PRYIN FOR DEM TO SEPERATE SO U CUD MARRY A YANKEE MAN DEN AT UR 28 UR SENSE CUDNT ADVISE U WEL OR U CUDNT TRY TO C HW U CN HLP A SIS TO SAVE HER HOME INSTEAD U WANTED DEM TO SEPERATE..U VEX ME OVER.HE EVN CAME BCK TO DECEIVE UR SENSELESS HEAD WIT RING U ACPTED N STIL WAIT..MAYB HE THNKS D WIFE WIL DIE SO HE CUD COME MARI U OR WANT GO B 2ND WIFE FOR ABROAD..KIP PACKIN UR CLOTHES WEL.MOST MEN LUV THEIR WIFE AND WUDNT WANT WANA LIV DEM NO MATTER WAT..CN ONLY HAVE DIFERNCES WCH EVRY COUPLE DO N WITHIN SMETYMS IS OFF..I DNT KNW HW SME WOMEN THNK,.IN ALL MY ADVISE TO U IS WEAR DE RING AND WATCH/CAL HIM LYK TELEVISION PROGRAM TIL U R 50.#LONG HISS#..NARRATOR TWO. U CAN HAVE UR PRYER ANSAD BY GOD AND VE PROVE IF U TRULLY ASK,AVOID BEING BIAS AND SXUAL WIT ANY OF DEM,MOST MEN OF GOD WIL TEL U DES KNDA STORIES U WIL B SUPRISE TO HEAR LYK DIGGIN UP UR LYF'S STORY..IF ITS ANTHNY, TRY HARDER NOW U AINT MARRIED HE WIL CHNGE I TEL U MOST LUKIN GUD HUSBNDS DT U C TODAY ITS D WRK OF DIA WIFE, IF U C DEM BEFORE U WUDNT LYK DEM, DTS HW SOM OF DEM ARE,IF ITS STAN, AT 28 PPLE STIL MARRY U WNT B TOO OLD DTS IF U CN WAIT AND IFITS NONE OF DEM, PRY AND SEEK GOD 'S FACE U WIL HAVE ANS SO U WNT MIS IT.BT SME PPLE ITS MAY NT B DE PERSN U LYK DT END UP BEIN WHRE GOD KNWS UR APINES AND PEACE WIL BE...DS MY OPINION...GOD HLP U NOT TO MIS IT...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeletePoster one,i really fell ur pain pls dear single girls, never be in a hurry to become a single parent, cos apparently, the lady is always left with the baggage, I noticed a lot of single mother in s"n"m post, but no guy says he's a baby daddy, cos they don't go about with the title, the babe does
ReplyDeletePoster 1 its really hard not to curse you, because I don't understand how u can be engaged to a married man first and then he doesn't even care about u and u r still waiting and Hoping he breaks up with his wife and come to u or what do want. You can never gain happiness by inflicting pain on another. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. And I don't think you met when he divorced his wife, it was while he was with her and u were probably why they divorced ( if at all they did). Madame your own kind of mumu get PhD. Please run to God for help, give ur life to Christ.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 don't be a lazy Christian please, get down on ur knees God wil show u himself, pray and fast. You wil find peace with whoever God has designed for u.
1st post u don't know what you want. How can u go back to him when he is settled with his wife. Remove the ring and move on. Some guys like single mother 2nd post I don't know what to tell you than pray your way out.
ReplyDelete@poster1 : you caused everything happening 2 you!
ReplyDeleteYou are scared of being lonely, that's y u have to turn yourself 2 lord of the rings.
You were even scaring prospective husband away by wearing dat ring m
PLEASE, MARRIAGE IS NOT 4 EVERYONE.
@poster2 : y did the prophet confusing by saying you have connection abroad and that connection will take u places!
Please you people should stop going to all this prophets!
Y can't you seek the face of God and pray!
Do u have boil in your mouth......
Mtcheew.
Poster 1:just move with your life, believe in God ur rightful husband will come at the right time
ReplyDeletePoster 2:for me oo I will advice u to exercise patience with Anthony, and see wot happens
My head is full with my own wahala abeg, 2 guys are fighting over me and i dont know which one to choose, so u c i don't ve any advice for u guys today.
ReplyDeleteN1, u need a resetting slap to reset ur brain, can u imagine? Keep wearing ring till Jesus come. N2, u are on ur own. Ur parents must av told d prophet ur life history n u are here crying wolf.
ReplyDeletePeople when dey stay relationship up to a year without seeinng signs, I no fit abeg
ReplyDeleteIf a man loves you I mean really loves you, you don't need a prophet to
tell you he's serious bout u.
If I stay relationship one year i would know if its alter bound or not.....no need for long thing.
Poster1........you don't feel right bout the ring and deep down you know say NA WASH
Poster2........You also know yankee guy is not that into you right?which one be 5years.
Poster 1 why are you underating yourself? YOU ARE 35 and a single mum so what..why wre you allowing the man to use you? He is never going to marry you that's the sad truth. He will only use you to pass time anytime he is in nigeria. My dear girl move on. Try to take care of yourself to look attractive again God will surely smile on you. But you need to obey his rules leave somebody's husband alone. I know a woman that got married as a new bride to another man after 5 kids. Stay well and stay blessed
ReplyDeletePeople when dey stay relationship up to a year without seeinng signs, I no fit abeg
ReplyDeleteIf a man loves you I mean really loves you, you don't need a prophet to
tell you he's serious bout u.
If I stay relationship one year i would know if its alter bound or not.....no need for long thing.
Poster1........you don't feel right bout the ring and deep down you know say NA WASH
Poster2........You also know yankee guy is not that into you right?which one be 5years.
1. You better chanel all your energy to your child and remove that iron you called ring from your hand. At your age, you are still wearing iron. If na joke stop'am o. What makes you think that you can't get married?Have you ever reminded God His promises before? Be true to yourself and pray to God.
ReplyDelete2. When your husband comes, its only God that'd reveal it. Calm down and take a break. If husband/marriage has taken over your mind, my dear you might reach 30 without it, focus on God and He will perfect it for you.
P2
ReplyDeleteIt's funny the type of ppl that inhabit this space. Ppl who are worldly but claim godly. First you can be sleeping with guys with the hope of them marring you at the same time ask god to give you a husband. If you want God to give u a husband, you desist from having a boyfriend and then as god to show you amongst the men coming your way. But you must decide a sign by your self and then take the sign to make agreent with god and the wait. If you have people in mind then remove god from it and make your own random pick. People who read the bible deliberately refuse to see precedents and prototype cases. Nowhere in the bible was a wife/husband secured through a vision of r prophecy coming from another person.People keep allowing themselves to be deceived by charlatans who operate as pastors,visioners and all what not. God charged s MSN to find a wife. He didn't charge a wan to find a husband. If you want from god, tell him the type you want and agree with him the sign you chose to confirm and sit back and wait without defiling yourself. If not go on a merry go round until it hooks chikena. But a resort to a seer is condemned by god believe it or not.
P1
Again when ppl take relationship as highway to marriage that's what they get. But when people take relationship as what it actually is, they escape everything because decide if they will have sex, the possibilities therefrom and avoid the side effects. Being a second wife is not an eyesore to god (jacob who later became israel,david,solomon, even father abrsham) but fucking a person you are not married to is. Take it or leave it a man only needs to find a womans craving to succeed in playing ayo with her. A man you know all this about still does not strike as someone who has going a willing prey only goes to show that survival rather than marriage is all you want. Truly a man any man who tells you that he wants to marry you is deceiving you so that for the moment he would continue to have a steady supply of sex or other gratification.for the moment. Does anyone know what tomorrow would offer to promise marriage tomorrow. A man who is ready to marry you will ask you to confirm if its okay to come and see your ppl so and so day. For me if you can wait for seven years for him to settle with his wife, their is no harm waiting another seven years for him to settle with himself and then marry you
P1: Receive sense IJN!
ReplyDeleteP2: Please pray by urself oh Mk God open ur eyes, some of dis pple dat claim to be men of God dis days Na all manner of vision Dem dey see; no let Dem brainwash u.
P2
ReplyDeleteIt's funny the type of ppl that inhabit this space. Ppl who are worldly but claim godly. First you can be sleeping with guys with the hope of them marring you at the same time ask god to give you a husband. If you want God to give u a husband, you desist from having a boyfriend and then as god to show you amongst the men coming your way. But you must decide a sign by your self and then take the sign to make agreent with god and the wait. If you have people in mind then remove god from it and make your own random pick. People who read the bible deliberately refuse to see precedents and prototype cases. Nowhere in the bible was a wife/husband secured through a vision of r prophecy coming from another person.People keep allowing themselves to be deceived by charlatans who operate as pastors,visioners and all what not. God charged s MSN to find a wife. He didn't charge a wan to find a husband. If you want from god, tell him the type you want and agree with him the sign you chose to confirm and sit back and wait without defiling yourself. If not go on a merry go round until it hooks chikena. But a resort to a seer is condemned by god believe it or not.
P1
Again when ppl take relationship as highway to marriage that's what they get. But when people take relationship as what it actually is, they escape everything because decide if they will have sex, the possibilities therefrom and avoid the side effects. Being a second wife is not an eyesore to god (jacob who later became israel,david,solomon, even father abrsham) but fucking a person you are not married to is. Take it or leave it a man only needs to find a womans craving to succeed in playing ayo with her. A man you know all this about still does not strike as someone who has going a willing prey only goes to show that survival rather than marriage is all you want. Truly a man any man who tells you that he wants to marry you is deceiving you so that for the moment he would continue to have a steady supply of sex or other gratification.for the moment. Does anyone know what tomorrow would offer to promise marriage tomorrow. A man who is ready to marry you will ask you to confirm if its okay to come and see your ppl so and so day. For me if you can wait for seven years for him to settle with his wife, their is no harm waiting another seven years for him to settle with himself and then marry you
Ah now this is sad, poster 2, how on earth did u believe the prophet? U really need d grace of God in u if not u would make a big mess outta ur life. Pray and pray until something happens, don't go or believe any prophet biko. Poster 1, forget about that guy pls and sell that ring already. Use the money to do something meaningful biko. U just have to depend on the word of God and nothing else.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for both posters una well so?p1,don't get entangled with a married man and run away from men that tell u they are having issues with their spouse all is just to f**k u.p2 one word u can never wait,d nxt thing u said u were willing to wait,hmmm wait for a man for 5yrs?and what's this with going to meet someone to tell u who ur husband is?just follow ur heart,but I think Anthony ll be better for u.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, for d fact that your baby daddy has reconciled with his wife and told you he doesn't want to have anything to do with you is enough proof for you to know that you are wasting your time waiting for him after he came for second missionary journey. Please move on with your life and stop waiting for him, i believe that the earlier you let him go, the better for you. Wishing you all the best dear
ReplyDeletePoster 2, pray your way out. The earlier you disassociate yourself from that prophet, the better and end of your worries.
Poster1.tell him what you want,you are not geting any younger.
ReplyDeleteIf he can't wife you move on
Poster2.dude is nice but you don't like is dressing
Look for a fashion icon and marry
Poster 1: you're not the only single woman in the world for Godness sake! Must you continue to punish yourself for a mistake you made 7 years ago? (Unprotected sex, not your daughter). This man will NEVER marry you, and do you know why?? He knows you don't respect or value yourself... You are defined by him and his existences because you are ashamed of yourself and the fact that your daughter was a product of an affair, though you didn't know. I can guarantee you this man was never in the middle of a divorce. He just used you. Respect yourself and MOVE ON!! You daughter deserves a mother that's strong and knows her worth, not a weak human who's living in the past. Wake up and smell the coffee!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2: let me tell you something I always tell my girlfriends, There is no biblical scripture where God reveals a woman's future hubby to her. (BV's correct me if I'm wrong please) A man is meant to find YOU, not the other way around. What God did was give us the freedom to choose our OWN spouses according to his rules and law.. I.e your husband must be a God fearing man that puts God first so nobody but you, him and God will know who is best for you. Take your relationship with Stan or anyone else to God in prayer so he can bless your Union. Stop going to prophets, neither of them could be "the one" as Stella mentioned.
Good luck
Poster 2
ReplyDeleteYour mum is trying to set you up with Anthony. She thinks Anthony is best for you and your reason for dashing his hopes is flimsy. She is the one that gave the prophet all the info he used. Maybe she doesn't really know Stan that is why she didn't mention him in details.
Better flee from all these prophets and face your life. What if Anthony has married someone else? What if he is bitter with the way you treated him and is waiting to take his revenge? You obviously don't love him and can barely tolerate him that is why you are hampered by this idea of shabby dressing. He irritates you so don't make his life hell.
First you said you cannot wait 5 years, now you love him and want to wait for Stan but the prohet is saying Anthony. Mtsheew.
Spot on!
ReplyDeleteFear naija guys abroad.. Their way no deh pure
ReplyDeleteThis blog and thier nonsense goody too shoes just pisses me off!
ReplyDeleteWe shag all the time. We have alot of aborsionists in the house so spare me.
Poster one: Im not happy ur wearing his ring. hes not just that into you. if its the money you like i can understand. But ull always be the other woman. Please be strong and i know ull find love. That man will keep holding u down. Plus you dint 'waste' 7 yrs. it was a mutually beneficial rship and u enjoyed it or u wont be there.
Poster two: Your just fucking 23! biko get a job and improve ur career and leave man wahala! haba.
Badass chick
Poster 2: you don't need to be sad just tell your mum to take you to a neutral pastor then y will you wait for a guy for 5yrs who you aren't even sure he will marry you at the end? Pray and listen to God too
ReplyDeletePoster 1, get over it the man is happy with his wife now. Ur just there as spare. It either ur satisfied with ur position as side baba mama wearing ring and expecting to be a landlady or u leave the relationship.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Get a life ur too vain. Someones dress sense is ur problem.
My hubby is the best thing that ever happened to me he adores me. When we Started dating my friends used to yab me that my oldies boyfriend is looking for me. I started arranging what he should wear for the week for him. And when he wears them I praise him. I told him not to ever come looking for me dressed like an old man. There was a day he came to my office and my colleagues were like who is dis? I told them day he is my love. To cut the long story short my hubby is always looking super cute today cos I buy him clothes that I like and I make him wear them the way I want.
You don't even know dis stan guy. You might not even like him when you finally get to know him. You know say Yankee relationship dey sweet cos e far.
Poster 2: you don't need to be sad just tell your mum to take you to a neutral pastor then y will you wait for a guy for 5yrs who you aren't even sure he will marry you at the end? Pray and listen to God too
ReplyDeletePrayer is d key
ReplyDeletePoster 1: receive sense ijn.. He is dir enjoying the life of his head and you are here crying and turning to lord of the ring. Keep waiting now.....
ReplyDeleteMake I sidon read comments.
ReplyDelete1st poster,you are very funny o.Is your joy dependent on a man?how do you know a sensible man won't come into your life and wife you cos that Ya babyDaddy/fiancé/married man is a very confused and wicked man.you better let another person's husband go.pray,look good,smell good,have great manners and you'll attract men.
ReplyDelete2nd poster,you are too young for this drama abeg.have you started making money??asin shitload of cash...you better think of ways to make money and bless your family and people around you...Ya looking for husband now.When the right man comes,you'll know.
Gbam!
DeletePOSTER 1, You were waiting for another woman's home to break for you ? you couldnt advise, well Jesus fixed it for her. Didnt the lord say what he joined you shouldnt put asunder ? Please remove that bangle from your hand, give him his baby. Take your bath, clean yourself up and get a life..... Your man will come.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, What your pastor narrated to you is too physical for my liking, you ex boy friend may have gone to tell him about you, there is really nothing only you know. Just be wise.. Marry who makes you happy, but that Jando that will make you wait for five years na fake ohhh.
POSTER 1, You were waiting for another woman's home to break for you ? you couldnt advise, well Jesus fixed it for her. Didnt the lord say what he joined you shouldnt put asunder ? Please remove that bangle from your hand, give him his baby. Take your bath, clean yourself up and get a life..... Your man will come.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, What your pastor narrated to you is too physical for my liking, you ex boy friend may have gone to tell him about you, there is really nothing only you know. Just be wise.. Marry who makes you happy, but that Jando that will make you wait for five years na fake ohhh.
Poster 1 haha you di craze indeed.
ReplyDeletewell your problem is you don't love yourself and don't know your worth.
Pray to God that His love overtakes your mind soul and body.
Break every soul tie with that guy. In fact fast and pray
And speak words of affirmation to yourself. you love yourself and so on...
No abuse or cursing or slap will reset your brain. it's the love of Christ. Amen
7 years is not beans.
God bless
Poster 2
please seek God on your own. God is not a God of confusion.
Me I have had warnings from Pastors they didn't give me their names though neither did they describe the persons.
I wasn't the least bothered or paying attention. I was like Mtcheww abeg it's not me. I even forgot about it.
I discovered for my self when they approached me and I asked God he said No.
Months later when I had deleted both guys from my mind. I remembered years ago what these pastors said. Thank God I didn't listen or pay attention to the pastors. I discovered for my self that people wear mask.
See you are the Leader of your life by the Grace of God. So you need to hear from God for confirmation. Don't let your emotions rule your judgement. In short the last one I had to bind and cast and destroy. It's not funny when the mind doesn't align to the word of God.
Beside the Pastor talked of Anthony then said Stan will open doors for you. So am not even clear from your narration if Anthony is your husband and Stan should be your friend.
Please search on this blog lots of BV's have seeked the face of God in regarding spouse.
God bless
Seek God for yourself.
Sipping my coffee in my office chair. Poster 2 - follow your heart, for that is d God in you. Back to my coffee.
ReplyDeleteAny 35 year old who knows how to fuck, should also have sense. Dont you know that nowadays, guys will tell any lie to get in between your legs?! Are you a learner? You were so desperate that you quickly opened your legs for him and he has been chopping you and cleaning mouth. I am 200% sure that he never had any problem with his wife. It's just format. And you stupidly fell and carry belle. I dont pity you at all. Now you want to break another woman's home. You better remove that ring and ask God for forgiveness. You are 35 yet you are allowing a useless man to use your dumb brain. If you like, meet another married man again and open your leg without condom then come and tell us a HIV chronicle ................mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
ReplyDeletePoster one, u re a despirado OYO is ur case. poster 2 go and face ur studies or get busy or learn handwork. dont come here to disturb my peace.
DeleteAs if..
ReplyDeleteThat prophesying pastor got the whole gist from your mama. Your mama got the gist from you, your siblings and friends. Meet me, I am a pastor. I will prophesy Stan to be your hubby.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t settle for less because you already had a girl, haba children are not ailments now? The man knows you are desperate, he is playing with your emotions!!! Please be patient and let God give you your own man...Now read this. Run as far as your legs can carry u... A married man that cajoled you because he wanted to sleep with u... Abeg wakeup joor!
ReplyDelete@Poster 2:
It’s good to have taste, since the 1st person does not fits in... and the second man is not ready for marriage.. please don't deceive yourself… wait till u meet the person u want, I just pray you find your taste soon or else na another tori u go dey say in the next 7 - 10 years oh!
Poster 1, was shagging the man knowing he was STILL married! She wanted him to divorce his wife for her, which he tried to, but they worked things out! He stays abroad and comes to Nigeria, like how many times in a year, and you agreed to be a second wife! Say the truth! Be doing lord of the rings until you old! Better find a man in Nigeria, who will marry you, and don't snatch another woman's husband!
ReplyDeletePoster 2,you like Stan because he came from abroad and has swag. And don't be cajoled to marry anybody out of pity!Leave Anthony alone, let another woman love him for who he is. There are fake prophets everywhere!