Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

Oh Friday,I love you and the Chronicles you bring my way!...Hmm so one lady is juggling three men and is asking which one might be her husband......

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

CONFUSED OVER LOVE'S BROUHAHA

hi Stella, 

I am confused and I don't know what to do.My story goes like this.

I didn't get the chance to date the first guy(Mr a) I fell in love with because we lost contact after high school. The second guy I fell in love with broke up with me because he felt that I was a distraction to him.(if truth be told,he was even the distraction itself because am a medical student). I was totally heartbroken because I never cheated on this guy.Since then I decided not to put all my eggs in one basket to avoid story that touches.I started double dating (sex excluded,just kissing and fondling).

In my first year in school,I met Mr B.He is so nice(not that cute.he lived a rugged lifestyle in the past).he practically worships the ground I walk on.but I don't feel anything for him. He is always there whenever I need him. so I decided to learn how to love him.

Along the line,I reconnected with Mr A and all the love I felt for B faded away. we talked and we found out that the love was still there.he introduced me to his family and the mum and I are now close.the twin sister too.

last month,I went to visit him and he treated me well.he demanded sex and I refused. he understood my reasons but he stopped talking to me. when I felt I have overstayed my welcome,I left. last week,he called and broke up with me.he said that I couldn't give him what am practically giving other guys. that he heard bad stuff about me.but I really love this guy.

Am ready to start on a clean slate. I don't know if to start all over with him but I don't wanna have sex now or should I move on and how?

NB: Mr B can be suicidal.

Should you move on?YES!

How?...Pick up your two legs and run or walk and if you ever think of stopping,please think of Johnny walker (Keep walking)

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

THE EVIL THAT MEN DO LIVES AFTER THEM?

Good day Stella,

I'm an ardent reader though I comment under anon most times. I have an issue (don't we all?). There's this guy I've been seeing for about 7 months and he's crazy about me. He's a good listener, a good friend and a strong Christian. I actually met him in church. He wants me to marry him and keeps making me know how important I am to him and how special I am.

The only issue is that he confessed that he used to be a dreaded cultist when he was in school, and even though he never murdered, he had been involved in gang wars and that scares the crap out of me. 

Now he's born again and has denounced all that and I know that if God has forgiven him. Who am I not to? But I need to know, do people ever get away Scott free from cultism? Are there generational curses attached?

Advice please, I'm drowning

I would love to read what anyone has to say about this as well but wait oh...If he is a new creature in Christ,doesnt that mean that God has forgiven him?You just said he didnt kill anyone.Pease stop making a mountain out of a mole hill and enjoy your relationship.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE

CONFUSED BETWEEN THREE MEN

Aunt Stella well done with this our family blog o

Annonymous l'o nsoro o,

I know somebody that know somebody that know somebody that knows one geh that want to marry. The geh is about 28 years old and she has three guys for now. 

The first one is Muslim cool guy Yoruba but not too tall but really handsome and has his shit together, in terms of character. 

The second one na US navy boo we dey call am. He is Yoruba and she say that one don beat am before like twice, even stingy and the guy like sex like kilode? sote him go dey masturbate for her front if she no gree with am. Sometimes gaan he go wan rape am say na him right....toooooor. The guy can call her like 10 times a day or give up to 50 to 80 missed calls until she para for him ni o. Me talk say na obsession. 


The third one na Delta man but him get 6year old pikin. Him mama na him God and na christian but him get skon skon for head in terms of girls and is really romantic and friendly. Infact, we the friend, friend, friend of the girl know say the guy make sense. Him too na internet surfer and workaholic.  

Now, she no know who to choose but after her mama and aunties go pray for different places, them say na the US boo sure pass, but me i tell her say her husband NEVER WAKA COME enter her life yet. She has a good job and is especially scared of relocating for uncertainty, parents don't want Muslim ish, dem dey encourage her to marry the US guy but she doesnt love him anymore since the beating that took place twice after introduction and baby daddy ain't it cos she can spell polygamy on replay from family experience.

Kindly advise...

Thanks.

Hmmm only her rotating three men and shes looking for a perfect man?hmmm
Anyway from what you said if she wants to pray 'try ya luck' na she sabi,The Muslim guy would have been okay but since her parents are against,tell you friend (abi na you sef) say she never see husband yet.