Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

EMOTIONALLY BATTERED AND HUGGING SEX.

Hello Aunty Stella,

I decided to bring my issue here because I don't know where else to seek advice. I think I have a problem. I am a very young girl who has had only one relationship involving sex which lasted about 3 months (first time) and A LOT of sexual partners thereafter.

The relationship really shattered me and since then I became loose. I don't date guys that ask me out. I only sleep with them and move on. And its not for money o, I just can't say no.

Now I decided to have a relationship with someone; a very nice, mature guy who really likes me. We haven't discussed sex yet but it's kinda inevitable. Now the problem is I find it hard to love any guy. I only just want the sex cause I think that's all they want and I can't afford a heart break. But now that I have a good boyfriend, how do I like him for real without sex ? Especially if the sex turns out wack.

Please no cussing, I only need good advice. Thanks in advance.

You are the true definition of NYMPHOMANIAC....get help for that before you consider getting into any serious relationship.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

ENGAGED TO AN EXTREMELY JEALOUS LOVER

Hi Mrs,

I hope my chronicle meet you well. Am one of your chronic reader. Am proud of the good work you are doing. God bless you immensely.

Am a lady of 27years engaged to a very handsome  guy of 30years. He is so caring and loving. The siblings and his mum too are so supportive of us. We are planning to get married by November this year.

My soon to be husband loves me so much obviously and isn't shy of showing it to the world at the slightest opportunity. He always makes sure to satisfy me in anyway he can. He actually can actually go out of his way just to satisfy me.

The problem am having now is that he's the extremely jealous type. He asked me not to keep male friends, no colleagues of mine from work should call me after close of work. He receives my calls, he tells every male caller that am married and they should stop calling my line. Though he says i can always do same to him.

He do tell me that he had been naughty in the past before he met me. He always blame me for that because he chased me for years before i gave him a chance. He always want me by his side. He gets very worried anytime i frown or look disturbed. He wont rest till he changes my mood. I can say he's the perfect man among the few men i have dated.

However, he has hit me on two occasions. I admit that i can be stubborn at times but that shouldn't make him slap me.

The cause of the first fight was that we had an argument so out of annoyance, i walked out on him and hissed, the next thing i heard was slap on my face but he later apologized. The second time was when i went to get food from market, he called my mobile and i dint hear it ring cos of the noisy environment, when i got home cos i spent most weekends with him, he started ranting that i was with a man that's why i dint pick his calls bla bla...as i was trying to calm him down, Stells, na hot slap i got fa...I was so furious and packed my few belongings in his house, he started begging, kneeling down and crying saying that he was all alone a home and was missing me. 

The thing now is that, he doesn't trust me with men. He's so insecure. i dare not miss his calls. I must always say "i love you" at the end of every phone call regardless of where i am. i dare not look any other guy in the face when am with him. He will always tell me that he does all that just so we make a perfect couple hmmm...He has sworn many times that he ll never cheat on me as long as we are together.

He has changed so many things about me since we started dating..I dont keep male platonic friends anymore, am now very conscious of my phone.

Dear Stells and BVs, please how do i deal with an insecure man? Am scared we may have problems in future because he always act before confronting. Am always a suspect (of cheating)  to him cos am also very very good looking (without exaggeration but i dont let it get into my head).

HIAN!...isnt this what they call ONE CHANCE?