This isnt fair!...Wicked wicked wicked!!!
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Hello Stella,
I'm the blog visitor that sent you a video link about the LG chairman in Lagos that was at a shrine naked sometime ago. I need your help and advice.
I'm on the suicidal mood this morning, I just got to know my boyfriend of 3month has been living with HIV for 6yrs or more, but always test negative. I thought he was a consolation to my past relationship. He was too nice but very callous for sleeping with me knowing he has the virus.
He claimed that the reason he test negative is becos he has never missed his ARV drugs since 5yrs.
I saw the drugs and Google it and got the shocker of my life. He then confessed that his ex wife that died 5yrs ago was due to complications from the virus. He said he got it from his wife after impregnating her for their second child. He said he was diagnosed 6yrs ago but his wife was diagnosed 14yrs ago and they have a 13yrs daughter and 11yrs old son together. He said it was because his wife was dying he had to go through rigorous test and they found very little virus and placed him on ARV drugs.
I will soon be on way to the lab. I'm so scared. Please help me ask if there a way I might be negative?
The annoying part of the whole thing is that he was acting normal after he told me the truth yesterday.
I haven't slept since last night been crying, I don't know if I should tell my sister. I'm so scared. Thanks.
Isnt there some kind of Law in Nigeria that addresses people who sleep with their partners without telling them of their true status?You should report him to the appropriate authority cos he might do it with someone else.
A popular female musician was jailed for three years for exactly something like this in Germany,she was very popular but her career is ruined,i think she will get out next year.
Have you tested?
#CONDOM4SEX....If you must!
Have you tested?
#CONDOM4SEX....If you must!
Jesus fix it!
ReplyDeleteBrb!!!
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Lord,fix it
DeleteEveryone needs to calm down. Its shocking to know that in 2015, ppl are still so ignorant abt HIV and ignorance always breeds fear. If he has taken his drugs as diligently as he claims, of which from his negative or more accurately, undetectable viral load test results, then he probably has, then she has nothing to worry about and will most likely test negative. HIV itself isn't easily transmittable, and the highest rate of transmission occurs during the acute stage of the virus ie between 2-4 weeks after a person has gotten the virus.
DeleteBut all the same i feel he should've been honest with her, and for someone that has the virus, you'd think he'd use a condom to avoid increasing his viral load. Legal action has to be taken on ppl who intentionally refuse to disclose their status to their partners
Terrible!! Only a test can assure you. Get it over and done with. Good luck
DeleteOMG some people are just heartless. He should have told you and dear go and get tested since his viral load is low is very possible you might be negative. And even if positive my dear is not the end of the World. You next door neighbor might be positive and you won't even know so don't carry it about like is a load. And to everyone please take care of yourself. Protect yourself cos most people living with HIV look very normal. If you don't take care of yourself nobody will.
DeleteThere's only one solution to this problem, POISON HIM and act normal.
ReplyDeleteHaaaaa I fear you o
Delete*Larry was here*
What an advice!
DeleteSeriously.........poison him! Please ! Don't be rude and callous!
DeleteHmmnnn. Wicked world
DeletePoisoning him won't solve this
DeleteI pray you test negative poster
Sad sad!
Jesus. Dear poster be strong. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteI have dis strong feeling u r negative poster, since it's little traces hs got and hs been taking drugs for it and tests negative. Oboi let me nt give u any hope, Buh let's hope for d best. It's nt d end of d world all d same.
DeleteJesus! He should be sued. Wow people are monstrous. Medical people should help us. Please lady don't hurt yourself, reason it's good to always have protected sex unless married to someone you're sure of their status. But is his excuse even possible. That he'd test positive cos of the drugs he takes regularly.
ReplyDeleteThis is so annoying but hv not also read any thing reasonable frm blog visitors today. Let's put it this way. What if she abstained from pre marital sex nd now ended up marrying him. Would she still protect herself from him after marriage? (she said he tested negative)
Deletena wa oh... see pipo wey wicked pass me
ReplyDeleteI dont mean to sound mean, but this will not still prevent girls from running skin to skin. Girls hate condoms and i dont know why. It reduces their pleasure. Girls, take note.
HIV is not the end of the world, as a lot of HIV-free people will still die before you (thats if you will even die within the next 40years sef)
So brace up
one love!
I disagree wit u today, its guys that hate condom!!
DeleteMoney makes .......you don start Church? this days your comments dey make sense.but if not u still need Jesus.
DeleteThis is sick dou!how can someone do this to a so called love one?
DeleteWell I guess he just wants u to have it also so u two can live happily ever after together.
The good news is that u might be lucky not to have it cos since he's been consistent with his drugs,his viral load will be very low and dats why d virus was not undetectable during d tests he conducts wen u are together.
Women are always at d receiving end and it's so easy for a woman to contract this!so dats why I advise ladies to stop allowing skin diving' abeg!
God will help u poster.
Can't believe am shaking,God have mercy ohhhhhhh,ur boyfrnd is demonic.Hiannnnnnnnnnnn
ReplyDeleteAvoid pre-marital sex!!! Anyway, get tested and if you have it, not the end of the world. E-hugss...
ReplyDeleteNo Mystique, they think we hate them when we preach that!
DeleteThey laugh and jeer at the ones that decided to live a chaste life.
Honey,if you sent that LG shrine story(which I remember vividly) that means you would have read things on chronicles that should make you wary of someone you just met.
You will be fine.
Whatever the outcome might be,always remember that some people are dead,God is faithful.
If it comes out positive(i pray not) go for counselling, take your drugs,eat healthy,worry less,your CD4 count should be quite low if you do all that.
I did my IT under the HIV unit,it is not a death sentence.
Please don't be scared!
*high CD4*
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DeleteSex ain't food
Please girls stop sleeping with men without condoms. If you decide to please get tested first . You may be negative because of his low viral load but please even if you are positive life doesn't end
ReplyDeleteGbese re o ha! Run to the lab now
ReplyDeleteSweet Jesus, I pray she is negative
Na wa!
ReplyDeleteEwoooo!!! God help the womenfolk!since he said his viral load is very low, almost non existent, I believe you're safe. All the best poster....chaiii this is so sad! All because of raw kpanshing chaii. ...I pity you o
ReplyDeleteMon dieu.! Wickedness.
ReplyDeleteOne Jamaican dude was jailed here for some thing like this too
ReplyDeleteTell your sister Pls
Stay strong
Hmmmm. Wickedness in high places. Nawa. God save u nne.
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Mehn this is wicked. What kind of guy is this Lord? And if you had not seen the drugs he wouldn't have told you. Na wa o. Some people are wicked. I pray you test negative.
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is truly wicked. God will punish that man, in fact do another thing to him since he is already under punishment by HIV.But ladies no dey try at all. With all these awareness about deadly diseases, people are still sleeping around, worse still unprotected. I met a lady at a salon lamenting how her guy infected her with Staph, when I asked why she didn't insist on protection, she said aaah, since the guy in question is her intended husband that there's no need for protection. Just negodu!!!
ReplyDeleteChei! Sorry poster I can't even imagine what your going through now, mhen that man is wicked so bcos his wife gave him, he wants to share it to everyone, that's cruel, he shld have stated he was positive at the onset, its left for u to agree to date him or not.
ReplyDeletePoster try and put ursef together. It will be negative In Jesus name. How re we even sure its the wife that gave it to him? Ladies pls zip up, if u can't codoms are not expensive. If possible try and run all test sef before dating.
Jesus christ. Heart of men ohhhhh
ReplyDeleteEwo! Seriously this is evil. God please help this sister.
ReplyDeleteOh Lord my God, I know most of us are guilty of sex outside marriage (fornication and adultery) that's why I'm begging you on behalf of this poster to have mercy. Father of miracles! Let her be free of this virus and arrest the evil bf to come to you. Habaa Father pardon our sins and deliver us from all evil....Amen!
Amen
DeleteOh my God.
ReplyDeletePoster I'm realyy scared for you o
Chai!
That your Bf is a bastard.
Chai!!!
Gobe!
ReplyDeleteThat guy is wicked...he shld have used condom naaa...
so sorry dear! next time insist on condom.
If he always test negative how come his living with the virus. U mean u just started dating for only three months and ur already having unprotected sex. That guy is equally evil and am sure his the one dat gave it to his late wife.
ReplyDeleteGirls be careful. There is a reason for condoms in the store. Be careful. Go for test.
Osalobua!!
ReplyDeleteOMG!!
This is heartless on all levels....
Poster,if you've been having unprotected sex with him, it's only a miracle that would make your test result negative.
Only a miracle.
But, just three months, and you've already done without?
It amazes me how some people who are not married confidently have sex without protection sha.
If miraculously, you escape being positive, needless to say you should tie your legs together till marriage, if you're allergic to condoms.
If on the other hand, you test positive, know that it's not the end of the world.
Begin taking ARV drugs, and you'll be fine.
I would have said to kill the mofo and claim self defense, but that would bring you down to the same level with him.
HIV is no longer a death sentence, though it's still a dreaded one.
I feel some kind of way right now. You can't even trust people anymore.
Chai!
#WhiteDiamondOut
Don't I just love thee?
DeleteDear poster, your boyfriend isn't wicked, he is callous. But you sef, three months and you've already slept with him. Maybe it's just me because sex has never been my priority. Well, like I said, maybe it's just me. I pray you test negative. A word of advise - zip up or use a condom next time.
ReplyDeleteJust 3mnths ke, dts y u guys become Aunty gwegz . Weda u gbensh 3mnths or afta 3yrs, what will be will be pls! So many holier dan thou here.
DeleteLord have mercy!!!!! I've got goose pimples all over me now. How callous????? Jeez!
Delete1billion likes!
Delete3 months and you were having sex without condom.. .
DeleteWow, during my single days, there was nothing any man said that allowed me sleep with them without condom... Nothing at all.. It won't just happen. And as always offer to pull out the condom to double check it didn't break
I was never scared of pregnancy but hiv
Poster, the Lord is your strength..
Since his vital load was low, your chances of escaping is 30%
Apologies to alot of people who wldnt like my comment or see me as being harsh bt some kinda chronicles can bring out d beast in one.
ReplyDeleteSo poster wv all d enlightening bout hiv aids and it not being a death sentence,u still want to commit suicide...Oya go ahead o,no1 will stop u
I get to advice most ladies if u decide to start having sex wv ur bf without a condom,always mk sure u both get tested @least every year,bt trust world people not to listen.
Madam ur bf only went undected cos he used d kit,there are various methods to test for hiv and it detects even d minute of dem virus.*doubt some hospitals have it sef*
The good news is that since he has been taking his HAART judiciously,he is unlikely to infect u cos d virus in his blood wld be very low
Go get tested like ur bout doing and whatever be d result shouldn't make u think of suicide,since ur bf is coping fine,so wld u
Goodluck
Poster you will test negative. I feel your pain. Just do midnight prayer this night. God will help you.
ReplyDeletewhen you test negative.. run away from him and tell the authority what you know about him. anyway what do i know.
am sure the LG chairman news you brought to the world to know is karma. karma is doing you yoriyori.
it is very well.
Midnight prayer will not do anything. If she's positive, she's positive.
DeleteLol... nah serous karma
DeleteThe midnight Prayer point would be on what?
DeleteMercy?
Miracles?
Forgiveness?
Which
Yes my dear u can be negative cos his viral load has reduced to poinnt dat it is not detectable. In HIV couple we hav discordant couples and concordant couples. Concordant means dat both couple ar infected while discordant means dat one of dem is infected. And for dem to continue being discordant, d one dat is infected must maintain 100percent compliance wit d ARV drug. So for ur guy to hav non detectable virus(dats why he kip testin negative) dat means he is maintainin d 100percent compliance. Just pray darlin, do d test and it wil com out negativ IJN. Make sure u com bk to giv ur testimony. E-hugs. Note: HIV mothers giv birth to negativ babies and stil breastfeed dem wen dey maintain their 100 percent compliance.
ReplyDeleteBut come to think of it.
ReplyDeleteSince his viral load has reduced so much that he tests negative,there's a strong possibility that you're negative.
For your sake, I hope so.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Wicked! The test result is the only thing that can say if you are negative or positive. I think it takes 3-6 months after being infected to get a reliable reading and you have dated him for jut 3 months. This is really scary, gave me goose pimples- so someone can be positive and test negative
ReplyDeleteI pray you test come out negative Inshallahu. The man is very wicked and capable of murder.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
My dear sorry I feel your pain. There is really not much you can do except go to the lab for testing. If you do come out negative then congratulations.
ReplyDeleteFor that your boyfriend I think you need to take drastic actions with him irrespective of your hiv status. Its a crime to knowingly infect someone with hiv.
I suggest you go to human rights commission and lay a complaint against him or you go to NGOs that are into hiv issues and report from there they can help you make him pay.
Every country need to make knowingly infecting someone with hiv a crime. Attempted murder to be specific.
One word - wickedness!
ReplyDeleteAnother word--Heartless
One insult - thunder fire him.
Namsense
Be strong poster. Not d end of d world
Please I need your help it's urgent.how can I contact you.
DeleteWickedness of man!
DeleteAnd he even felt unperturbed,like nothing happened!
Chai!!!!
The heart of human beings oooh!!!!
The guy na very wicked somborri o.
DeletePoster it's well wth u dear.
Pure and simple, knowing your status and failing to disclose in such a life threatening situation is criminal negligence. Spare no emotions, brace your self, report him, in fact write a written petition to the office of the commissioner of police for threatening life, conduct likely to cause breach of the peace, attempted murder and criminal negligence. Follow it up. Look he deliberately put your life in danger without sympathy. Have none. He did it because he believes you will be too ashamed to do anything becos of public perception. Prove him wrong and save other ppl from such carlous murderers. Anything short of that your personal doom. Get a good lawyer ready. Jail him and recover your life
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDelete*shocker!!!
Your bf z a monster for real,for him to have kept sux a secret from you..hmmmmmmm..pls go for hiv text o
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDelete*shocker!!!
Your bf z a monster for real,for him to have kept sux a secret from you..hmmmmmmm..pls go for hiv text o
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
My dear, it's not hard to type 'is' or 'such'. Type it out and see if it will bite you.
DeletePoster: I'm sorry.. I can't even imagine what you are going through or what's atleast going through your mind, but I'll tell you to hold on tight, you see that prayer, don't cease! And please get tested. Your bf on the other hand is a wicked! How can you be dating someone and not even tell the person your status: smh!
For him to always test negative it means the viral load in him is low. So it's possible you may be negative but you will need to re-check in 3months. Sorry dear
ReplyDeleteI beseech you therefore brethren that you present your body holy and acceptable unto the Lord which is your reasonable service.God is perfect and he loves us that is why he commanded us to flee fornication.If you search the scripture,you'll discover that the word that is common is abtain from sin,abstain from all appearance of evil but the Scripture says flee fornication.That is run just like Joseph did when portifer's wife wanted him to misbehave with her.Fornication is deadly oooooh.
ReplyDeleteBless you bro. But will they listen?
DeleteA lot of the problems you read about in chronicles just come out of the fact that people have thrown fear of God to the wind.
You reap what you sow. Shikena!
DAMN!
ReplyDeleteSay no to sex before marriage, just three month and your legs her open. God's standard is the safest. Hope you test negative, see it sa second chance.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteSome judgemental bvs will come here&say'why did you do it raw or without protection'like they don't sleep with their boyfrnds too.poser,may God help you o.this is more than any advice anybody can give to you.
ReplyDeleteShut it miss tiana!!
DeleteThis is serious!
No one feels happy when a sister goes astray!
Do you think is about casting stones on her?
A lot of people here are not kids,they are adults that have gone through life,seen it all and are trying to save other women.
If people come on this blog and can't learn,that means the aim is defeated.
Do you think it is easy to come on here,type words,use your mb just to reach out to a stranger?
Yes,we must preach abstinence,use of condoms,it doesn't make us perfect,it makes us human,sympathetic...
miss tiana,because everybody does it,doesn't make it right,and because someone is or was guilty of dirty shit,does not disqualify the person as an adviser!!
Thank you!
Please let's focus on the poster and praying she comes out negative.
To every young person reading this,the right way might be narrow,filled with thorns,not attractive,not glittery,but stick to it!!!!!
Shut up you slut!
DeleteSome got married the right way AS VIRGINS!! And yes they've got every right to air their view! Not everyone is as spoilt as the girls/boys in your lineage.. stop glorifying sin. Stop giving satan an excuse to plague mankind and stop making it look like God's word is not the only foundation for a peaceful and healthy life. If you sleep around with everyone you meet, do remember that some of us have vowed to do it the right way and we are NOT ASHAMED to stand up and speak where necessary
He is evil for not telling you before having sex with you! Did you use protection ? I guess not...... I hope you test negative.
ReplyDeleteThis narrative just sent a chill down my spine.
Dude is lying about his wife infecting him pls.
ReplyDeleteMaybe getting tested before sleeping with a new partner is d best...even before marriage!
God! There HIV home testing kits around. Get one n pray it doesn't give u false reading.
Stella there are loads of Nigerian men out there dat still like having sex without condom. They will say condom doesn't feel rite on them. A colleague of myself said I couple of weeks ago, he doesn't really believe deres HIV out there, we still have educated men out dere with dat mind set.
ReplyDeleteMadam poster I don't even know what advice to give u, I hope ur test reads negative.
Chai! Sorry. Go and get tested. It is well.
ReplyDeleteSweet heart I swear on my life(GOD FORGIVE ME THOUGH) that you would test negative! This is not a case of faith or prayer or God. Now let me educate you, when a carrier's viral load is undetectable, it is rare that they can transmit the virus. I cant discuss scientific and lab jargon here because you would not understand. Why your boyfriend tests negative is because the ARV drugs has basically wiped out the HIV in his functioning and active cells. The only thing still making him HIV positive is because of the dormant HIV that are still in his cells that spring up once in a while. They are called reservoir virus. Those reservoir virus are called dormant for a reason. Meaning that they are harmless until they sort of reawaken, so he it is highly unlikely that he would have transmitted that to you. Sister, you wont understand but just take it that you don't have HIV because you don't! He was calm telling you because he knows it is almost impossible for you to get it from him. Once viral load becomes undetectable, chances of transmission are very rare! if you used protection of any sort, it makes transmission almost impossible. So there, calm down and go for testing.Besides its just three months, If in the rare case you happen to have it, then this is the best time to start ARV. HIV is not the end of the world, some people are born with it and live their lives happily. Be calm.
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteLet it be so.
Oh God, I did my test few weeks back, now am so scared ouch! Why are people wicked? I'm so sorry poster, I can only imagine how you're feeling now, dooh take heart. Chai, me can snoop around oo, if I go to a guy's house I always check around for drugs then I will Google it and knw wat its use for, even my ex's place. I suggest to tell ur sis atleast you av someone to talk to abt it. Now its 100% no condom no sex! May God help You.
ReplyDeleteIt's a criminal offence even in Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteChai...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry! Go for a test right away and it's possible u are negative right now but u have to do another test in 6 months.
ReplyDeleteThis is sad......
ReplyDeleteEven those that use condoms and still practice oral sex are still in the same ship
ReplyDeleteI pray God works a miracle for you
But I heard if you take your ARV drugs for a long time, you won't be able to infect someone else. At least that's what Kenny badmus is trying to make me believe.
Go for the test now and do another in 3 months time for you to be certain.
Lastly, flee from fornication
**lululiscious**
Haba!What kind of wickedness is this?
ReplyDeleteThat boyfriend of yours is extremely wicked.I hope there's a law that can handle idiots like him.Just make up your mind to be strong no matter what the outcome of the test is.
He was acting normal after telling you? Hian!
ReplyDeleteI'm starting to think that guy deliberately wanted to infect you so you'd have no choice but to be his companion and a mother for his kids.
I don't believe his story.
People need to run comprehensive tests with their bfs/gfs at the beginning and during the course of their relationships.
This is wickedness I pray u test negative
ReplyDeletePlease please please don't think about what ppl will say and ruin your life while letting the criminal go free. Act as I sad above. This will stop both men and women who do this( yes some women do it also) from causing further danger because no one knows whose brother or sister would be the next victim. Again remember that a test you do now is not for the sex you had with him but a baseline from which the next tests you do in three and six or even nine months from now would free you.
ReplyDeleteJesus ,wickedness raise to power infinity .I pray you test negative! That guy is a devil flee fornication flee flee flee forget ur shoe fleeeeeee
ReplyDeleteSay NO to pre-marital SEX.....it saves you from Stories that touch the Heart.Just 3months and uve given him your 'Inner self' Unprotected???
ReplyDeleteShorup, u wanna tell me u haven't had an unprotected sex b4? She doesn't need judging right now, she needs serious prayers.
DeletePlease please please don't think about what ppl will say and ruin your life while letting the criminal go free. Act as I sad above. This will stop both men and women who do this( yes some women do it also) from causing further danger because no one knows whose brother or sister would be the next victim. Again remember that a test you do now is not for the sex you had with him but a baseline from which the next tests you do in three and six or even nine months from now would free you.
ReplyDeleteChaii its a pity, how could he? Yet he claims he loves u.my dear sorry take heart
ReplyDeleteU just meet three months ago and u are having sex already, unprotected sex for that matter. This man can murder and he sounds too old. I shudder at this, such a pity.
DeleteJust calm down first. The probability of u getting infected is low if ur immune system is strong and he's on drugs too. Go for test and repeat the test after three months. It's hard to accept but even if u are infected it's not the end of the world. People living with hiv live a normal life these days and live till old age sef. It's well. Take heart.
There is a high probability dt u might test -Ve. This is bcos dude has been adherent to his ARVs which has made his Viral load very low,hence d test will appear -ve eventho he's +ve. Risk of infecting someone else Is low,though not impossible. U'll be fine dear.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart I am so sorry about this. Chai ndo nne I know u must be so hurt.Pls, just go and run the test.Hiv has long stopped being a death sentence if not d idiotic wizard would be dead too.First off don't be scared, just run the test or else the fear would set u on fire.Be strong.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh! My mouth hung open!!!! Totally wicker of him and such person can surely kill. I pray u test negative and u learnt ur lesson too.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh! My mouth hung open!!!! Totally wicker of him and such person can surely kill. I pray u test negative and u learnt ur lesson too.
ReplyDeleteNa wao
ReplyDeleteIf you were not raped I don't pity you. With the way its spreading , I don't think one should feign ignorance of condom or abstinence.
ReplyDeleteCan u just shut up Amy, ur comment is too insensitive for this case.
DeleteShut the bigger up u local zibra. Gfoh
DeleteIt's the height of wickedness when someone is positive, knows it and still goes on to have unprotected sex with the partner who isn't aware of the said status. This should be looked into a jail term set for such people. My dear iwo Pele tie. See why it's safe to act like a mermaid with one's legs tied before marriage. By God's grace it will come out negative.
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is desperately wicked. There should be a law that punishes people like this.
ReplyDeleteI had sex three weeks ago with a guy i hv known for 5 years,no condom. A week later,i fucked an ex,still no condoms. Am scared by this write up. I hope my husband will not find out
ReplyDeleteHuh?
DeleteIdiot u will soon meet your waterloo.keep sleeping around with different men for the peanut they give u.you don't do it cos u love sex ,u want ,their money ,cheap popularity ,opening that shop in disguise for what u do .breaking marriage here and there,I repeat Karma will visit u for all the pain u caused in most homes.I pity that dark fine guy u married. and your children.
DeleteBv Sidra
Married and fucking around. May God have mercy on u.
DeleteBorehole!!!!!!
DeleteSo you are married and straffing around, may he find out and discharge you m
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DeleteThis story is exactly like that of someone I know. The guy was such a player. When he was ready to get married, he wanted to leave his long time girlfriend for one of his side chics and so there were quarrels over him, unknown to all of them the guy was hiv positive, who knows if he had it since or got it from one of his side chics. Anyhow the main babe and d side chic he wanted to get married to started fighting for him and the side chic went as far as pretending to be preggers, main chic forcefully got pregnant for him too. In the end they found out that the side chic was lyingg and he got married to the main chic who was really preggers, 5mnths after which was 1mnth after their wedding babe was having issues with her pregnancy and got the shocker at the hospital that she was hiv positive she died barely a week or 2 after.
ReplyDeleteBros player, a few months later went back to anoda of his previous side chics, that one mumu accepted him back, the HIV that they are sharing Diaris God ooooo!!!
We don't know whether she knew, or she had it before too and was the one that infected him. In conclusion sha, she's also preggers for him now and she has gone ahead to marry him. We wish them best of luck. Hopefully they would stop sharing it as they now have each other to nack..
Things are happening. HIV is more out there now than it has ever been, loads of people even teenagers and young adults have it. Well as they say it's not a life sentence, and I'm grateful for my own because I no be saint, I also dated people and trusted foolishly and did the do without protection. I thank God for grace and that era is totally over.. please guys be careful, abstain till you get married and in marriage stay faithful..
Omg, am so sad. Was he worth it? See how she die like fowl. O God have mercy on ur children. Thank God for dis chronicles its a message down my spin.
DeleteChai...
DeleteFinally two seconds to myself.
ReplyDeletePhew!!!?
Dude is wicked oh. Do we have demons on earth posing as human beings? Babe I think you may be negative since he has been testing negative as well.
After this zip up. That is the best alternative.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Go for test and be strong ok....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
My dear,if u are afraid of the stigma of testing in a lab,you can try buying this hiv test kit(gregs) or so...its in any good pharmacy,that way you can test at the comfort of your home but please even after testing still find a way to go to a certified lab no matter the outcome.
ReplyDeleteThis life sha!!! How can one test negative to hiv and be hiv positive,no one is safe even with this hiv testing of patners...
Oh, my dear! Let's just hope for good. How then can a man do this great wickedness!
ReplyDeleteThis is not about crying, go to the police this way you will be helping other sisters. Go to the police even if you test negative. So many People are knowingly infecting others in that country.
ReplyDeleteMy dear He's lying to you bottom line is he slept with you deliberately to infect you with the virus.........Sue him
ReplyDeleteBy the way there's no such thing as little virus,It gets to your bloodstream within seconds and spreads its a virus remember.
HE SHOULD BE KILLED
Babe, calm down n go for the test. Whateva may b d result. Its nt d end of d world. Remember, some ppl r sufferin from worse diseases.
ReplyDeleteDeep shit!
ReplyDeleteI'm at a loss for words here.
Oh Lawd
Too bad. He should be properly dealt with and exposed.
ReplyDelete**vianson**
Mtchewwwww. If his viral load is down and depending on how intercourse has been between both of you, you might be free. Just be hopeful.
ReplyDeleteKai! That guy is wicked. I fit poison this type.
OMG!!!
ReplyDeletePoster, jide obi gi na aka!
That's all I can say for now.
Dunno if you can be positive or negative but I know it's HIV is NOT a death sentence
Poster, I know the feeling. I was diagnosed in 99 and I was still a virgin then, I remember I had gotten a blood transfusion at a hospital in Lagos. Oh my world crumbled, I didn't know where to go, but thanks to my parents and the support the rendered plus resuming my meds on time has helped me tremendously. My cd4 is high and the virus is not detected. Get tested asap! Condom people!
ReplyDeleteWhen they tell y'all to keep ur legs closed and stay off premarital sex, una go refuse....
ReplyDeleteSex before marriage is a sin
Sin is a sinker of destiny!!
How many times will they tell you people this simple truth?
Now u ve seen d repercussion abi?
Clap for urself!!!
After skin diving for years, u expect us to tell you you are negative. That "UMPOSSIBLE"!!
OOmg!!!!! So Pathetic.I pray yOu test negative..
DeleteAnon 16:06 please don't be an idiot! Pharisees like you make me sick. They have nothing positive to say, instead they castigate. This person is suicidal and you bring your hypocritical, judgemental and self righteous self here to type rubbish? Re-evaluate your life and see if you're any better.
DeleteOmo mehnnn... this further confirms my theory about this HIV. If your wife do not infect you, you husband will. And this doesnt matter whether you practice premarital sex or not. If they dont find solution to this disease it will become household common flu. Dont come here preaching about you trusting your spouse. We all know trust died the day judas betrayed jesus
ReplyDeleteWhat rubbish! He needs to be reported. Just imagine. Ekwensu. You too, always insist on protection. Fuck test results. Praying for you....
ReplyDeleteEhyaa, kpele. Pray steadfastly then ask him to take u for test. Whatever the outcome is, be strong, life goes on. If u r negative, pls RUN cos u dont need these unpleasant surprises, if u r not, stick with him cos he has 2 buy ur ARV drugs o.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteThis is scary! I pray u test negative
ReplyDeleteEje Jesu................ I pray d result will be Negative o...... choi......
ReplyDeleteOoooooooh my...!
ReplyDeleteThis is seriously serious o
I can't just deal.
Your boyfriend is evil and wasn't too nice to you because if he was he would have safe sex with you . I hope you are negative and if you are not, HIV is not a death sentence and please forget about suicide joor.
ReplyDeleteEven if u test positive,it is not the end of the world. Just take care of urself,ok. God is in control.
ReplyDeleteAeegurl...
This is the hight of wickedness, she should report him to the proper authorities because even if she leaves him, he will do the same to some other person.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wicked act!!
ReplyDeleteEya. Sorry o. God go punish the idiot
ReplyDeleteWat a wicked world we live in. All s well go for d test. u walked into DAT relationship with ur to eyes wide open............
ReplyDeleteOh my God!!! This is wickedness. Jesus please fix it...
ReplyDeleteThis is wicked,
ReplyDeleteBlood of Jesus.. he should be charged for attempted murder!!!
ReplyDeleteDo the test
DeleteIn 3 months run another one
By six months run a comprehensive medical test (to rule out other STI /STDs)
Be strong grab the bull by the horn
Ask GOD for forgiveness genuinely repent and stop such lifestyle and live healthy)
That man is a sick bastard! Wtf do you wanna destroy someone's life for?? May God punish you in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteDstv has started again oo...why the hell did they remove telemundo like they did channel O. Abeg I take God beg una,thats what keeps me company at home as job no gree come. I still have to watch husband for hire,i still need to see the end of "part of me" and "cruel love" na beg I dey unless you want drastic actions taken against you guys.
Lalolo.....this is serious ooo.....hian...
ReplyDeleteLalolo keh?is it. Lorena odiase?
DeleteHmmm, scary
ReplyDeleteHhhhmmmm! This very wicked of him. What!!?
ReplyDeleteChai
ReplyDeleteBe strong dear
Honestly I'm scared for u
HIV scares the shii outta me
I pray u test negative
If only you were playing safe I'm sure you wouldn't be this scared.
ReplyDeleteEven though protection is not 100 percent effective,but it still remains a sure way of protection from diseases.
I really do hope your test results turn out negative..
Goodluck, I'll say a prayer for you..don't despair pls.
The heart of man is desperately wicked.
And shakespeare rightly said "there is no art to show the mind's construction on the face"
The best is ABSTINENCE not condom
DeleteJust go for the test and repeat in 6 months and then every six months to be double sure, but if it comes out positive, seek counselling and start treatment.
ReplyDeleteVery wicked somebody!! Bastard!!
ReplyDeleteGod punish him wherever he is Kai.. Too bad
Kweke...I pray u test negative but if it's positive,get a gun and shoot him or u cut off his kpekus...
ReplyDeleteWickedness at its peak. If u don't know Le boos status use condom. But sister, una no dey fear pregnancy? 3 months relationship, and u dey nack raw...
ReplyDelete---Pesticide
The heart of man is heartless and unpredictable. I feel so sorry for her. she should not give up on life. There is hope when you have Christ in your life. Forgive him and leave the rest for God's judgment. it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteWow, this one is just sick, argh!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is just the height of wickedness. So sorry dear. I pray u don't test positive. I wish u all the best.
ReplyDeletepele dear.i am so angry right now.all my learned friends in d house,it is time to sit up abeg. d lawlessness is too much in dis our naija. but then,i will blame most victims becuz of dat "it won't change anything and what wud people say mentality". its time to be d change agent as a victim.lets not cover evil becuz of what people will say.(sorry for my ranting,i don provoke)
ReplyDeletepele dear.i am so angry right now.all my learned friends in d house,it is time to sit up abeg. d lawlessness is too much in dis our naija. but then,i will blame most victims becuz of dat "it won't change anything and what wud people say mentality". its time to be d change agent as a victim.lets not cover evil becuz of what people will say.(sorry for my ranting,i don provoke)
ReplyDeletepele dear.i am so angry right now.all my learned friends in d house,it is time to sit up abeg. d lawlessness is too much in dis our naija. but then,i will blame most victims becuz of dat "it won't change anything and what wud people say mentality". its time to be d change agent as a victim.lets not cover evil becuz of what people will say.(sorry for my ranting,i don provoke)
ReplyDeleteOMFg....jus negodi poster nka!...are you kidding me?...he was acting normal unto...dorrr!..a female like you gave me the disease so deal wiv it...ah heavens...and u didnt break his neck or puncture his eyes?..
ReplyDeleteI feel very very sad for you, I know how you feel cos I've been in your shoes before. Let me explain it to you, it is way more easier for women to contact the virus than it is for men because firstly our vaginas have no covering whatsoever, unlike men who have penis and a tiny hole, when a HiV positive man has sex with a hiv negative lady, his semen already carries the virus, making it very possible for you to contact the disease, but if a hiv negative man has sex with a hiv positive woman, the probability is very slim that he will be infected because she is not cuming in his body, only on his penis and all the juice will only stick to the penis having no entry into the bloodstream, however if he gives head, or has an injury on his dick or any slight cut on it then he would contact the disease. If you find out you do have it, please visit Lagoon hospital, they are very discreet and they counsel well. It's not the end of the road for you.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious.
ReplyDeleteJesus please fix and be with her.
Didn't know that someone on ARV can test negative oh.....Oh Lord, help your single daughters not to fall into such traps.
ReplyDeleteJeez. That man is d devil himself. I pray u are negative dear. Pls come back and tell us d outcome. If u Re neGative, pls run very far from him. Takia
ReplyDeleteThe only law in Nigeria concerning that is the law of God; shun premarital sex, get tested before marriage and remain faithful to your partner. Sorry poster. Are you even a young girl? How can you be dating a man that old?
ReplyDeleteVigorously shaking my head as I catwalk out
Willie so GI ndo
ReplyDeleteWillie siri GI ndo
ReplyDeleteSuch a wicked man..Therz a chance that the lady might NOT be positive. I can't type long story Bt maybe Google is your friend.. otherwise, he should sued and made to suffer. My pple forget trust oo and always protect yourselves. Ladies, it's not a crime to buy condom incase Oga gives excuse that he doesn't have any. If u see condom in a lady's bag, u should applaud such a prsn cos na dat kind prsn open eye pass u ooo.. okporlor no be open eye ooo..
ReplyDeleteMy dear why did you fuck the man skin2skin when you knew he as been married b4 I guess he is rich so you felt he was safe anyway the deed as been done ..the man is very wicked and a liar becos he might have hatred 4 women that is why he doesn't feel ur pain or show any remorse.I just pray God will have mercy on U nd ur test comes out negative nd if it doesn't come out negative don't think of commiting suicide just pray he marries you.#shikena
ReplyDeleteOMG! Speechless and scary
ReplyDeleteThat is soo callous of him.. he is a wicked man that is meant to be jailed.. Go to the lab Dear to check your status. The Lord is your strenght
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ReplyDeleteWhat a wicked heart... You better sue that man because I'm double sure he has infected you with the HIV virus... But please seek counsel and testing in order to commence treatment at once. No matter the outcome, be prayerful and erase that suicidal thoughts from your mind. HIV/AIDS is not a death sentence, you can live with it and look healthier than some people who do not have the virus. It is well with you...
ReplyDeleteIn fact, all the young ladies sending in chronicles should go run test even some BVs that do not like condom. Pls do the needful.
ReplyDeleteThat man is wicked.
Someone here said that sex is not for married couples... that chic should better join this lady to lab. #asap
Tie legs una no go hear.
Sweetie. ..it is very much unlikely that your boyfriend has infected you since he has been living on the drugs for a while and is still testing negative. its probably because his viral load is little .
ReplyDeleteYou can only be afraid if he is not taking his drugs.
What he did is still dangerous. Just go to any discreet private hospital and get tested. Also pray before going.
And for those people saying get tested before you marry, does that prevent it?...it is possible for a Positive person to test Negative. It happens.
Going to court to prosecute him is possible but will they protect your name and face to avoid you being exposed and stigmatised at the same time with him. We should encourage privacy for those that report cases like this. There should be an arm of Govt that fight something like this.
It is well dear. Don't be scared, trust God and you will be fine.
XOXO MYSTERY
Sweetie, you may turn out to be negative when u go for the testing, it's been proven that individuals who adhere to their treatment regimen are less likely to infect their partners.... Pray for forgiveness and rededicate your life to God... This should serve as a warning to u!!! Next time u see bare prick, RUN.....
ReplyDeleteBTW get d bastard arrested for attempted murder.... Stupid man.... #ewucongo
Dear Poster,Ur bf is vry callous,but on a second note, he might want to discharge you by using this strategy anyway. Get tested and say no to skin diving.
ReplyDeleteEnough of these rants. Malaria kills faster than HIV. You can still live your life to the max.
ReplyDeleteI am positive and living my life, happily married, good job, cars and houses. so what is all these hues and cries, someone just died today of ordinary malaria. Infected people should follow the regimen and you are sure of living a good life. For the poser, if his viral load is low or undetectable, you sure have no cause to worry. Live your life.
Dear poster,
ReplyDeleteBeing HIV +ve is not the end of life. Whether/not you can test -ve is not the issue. The issue here is for you to brace-up urself incase u're +ve - start the ARV drugs imm. If you are -ve, then it's a LESSON for life, even for all of us. Single ladies please fear God, if you must indulge in premarital sex, PROTECT urself - the danger is MORE than d pleasure.
Then poster, about telling your sister/another relative,pls it's not necessary esp if she/they cannot handle it. Some peeps still stigmatize their relations when they are in this state - which kills some faster than d sickness itself.
Stay blessed poster.......Mrs. Eunice
Spread his name and picture across the social media for your own revenge.
ReplyDeleteif you are test positive, you better stay with him and let him start paying for your own drugs too.
Poster ur BF is worst than EBOLa,Take heart
ReplyDeleteE yaa. But how do u sleep wit a man dats not ur hubby witout protection. Una get liver.
ReplyDeleteEya! Your boyfriend is so mean. Anyways, it's not the end of the world. Go and get tested. Whatever the outcome of the result is, take it in good faith and take care of yourself. Most importantly, you need to ask God for forgiveness and give your life to Jesus. It is well with you.
ReplyDeleteLet me tell you one big truth, almost all the HIV positive people in Nigeria spread the virus without thinking twice..............My friend works in one place like that. She says------From time to time, you see a woman who has known for a long time that she is positive, telling you that the man who came with her is her boyfriend and she wants to have a child for him ( her husband died of the virus). At other times, you see a guyman who is positive, telling you that that is his new babe that came with him. In both scenarios, the partner doesn't know of the status. They'll beg that the partner shouldn't be told. A recently diagnosed man who was severely ill just a few months ago, is now hale and hearty and continues his philandering ways. Who to report to for action to be taken without them knowing she did the reporting. My friend says she plans to go and find out from the right place how to tell the partners (at least, those who come with them to her office) of such wicked people.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria, 90% of the HIV positive people who contracted it through sex are wicked. They knowingly go on to date other people as usual, hiding their status from them. No limitations. So all of you shouting, just know that this sort of behaviour is more common than you think.
ReplyDeleteThis is pure wickedness .. God I can someone be this wicked ?. please poster don't be scared . God knows u don't deserve this.. and he will surely see u through. . Just be strong and go for the test.
ReplyDeleteEwoooo,na to poison d guy sure pass,if tested positive.
ReplyDeleteStella, what's your problem na? why are you swallowing my comments. ..o ginikwanu
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteI don't believe a thing he said about the wife and all that. Dead man tell no tales so of course it's the wife's fault. If he had truly been infected the way he said, he would have told you because it would have been important. I understand your anger and fear, but in this day and age where HIV is treatable and many infected persons can live for many many years, look at Magic Johnson. Do not kill yourself over this. Just take care of every aspect of your health. Do not put your health in the hands of any man, if a married woman cannot even be sure her own husband will not bring home something, how are you going to trust your health to a man you barely know? There are even female condoms you can use. You mental and physical healthy are YOUR responsibility.
ReplyDeleteThat ur man is very wicked
ReplyDeletePlease what email address should i send IHN to please
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