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IF I HAD KNOWN.......

 Hello Stella good day. Trust you and yours are awesome.

I want to thank you for this platform through which you have touched my life. Sometimes I wish I had come across this blog like 5 years ago.

Let me go straight to the point. I am a young lady of 26 years,an only daughter and have been married for over 4yrs without issue. I have a husband who is very strong willed, excessively impulsive, hot tempered, drinks, keeps late nights and who finds it very hard to forgive. That is not all, after we got married I got to find out about his smoking habits like 2 years ago (because after we got married I went back to school, so we only spent my holidays together).

I've spoken to him, I've cried to him for him to stop those habits, but to no avail. I've fasted, visited different prayer houses, just for me to have peace in my home, but things keep getting worse.

I just feel like I'm married to myself, and even though I hate to admit it, I saw d signs after our engagement when we had a quarrel and he used insecticide on me, and on another occassion when he dashed to the kitchen for a knife, but luckily I slammed d door before he could get to the room, but I ignored it and went ahead with the marriage plans for 2 foolish reasons- what will people say? And he might change. 

At every slightest provocation, he will blame me for his financial predicament, and tell me to leave his life so that he can have peace. He shows no atom of love or respect for me. Infact I can't even vouch for him, because he does things without letting me know and would rub it in my face that he is a man of himself.

Well, last week I couldn't take the frustration any longer as I was already emotionally shattered to the extent that I always cry myself to sleep and most times when I pray.I told him that I was willing to free him for him to have peace. He told me that was the best decision I ever made, that I should get ready to go visit my parents. I said ok and spoke to my people who were happy with my decision.

The problem now is that he has been crying and begging me for forgiveness that he has changed that I should come back home(because I'm putting up with a friend of mine), but I don't know whether to buy his pleas. Besides my mum took our picture to a MOG who upon seeing the man I'm married to said he had no conscience,full of lies and that if I continue with him, my future will be bleak, that it's better I retrace my steps now before it's too late.

 The MOG equally said that if I had prayed before entering the marriage that the marriage wouldn't have taken place, as we were not meant to be. I'm torn between giving him another chance and fighting for my future and happiness, because I know I have great prospects.

Please bvs easy with the cussing as I already know my mistakes, all I want is sincere advise as I am already emotionally worn out.

After all what you typed up there you still ask questions...The situation you described in your narrative is one i NEVER want to find myself inside.

So should i advise you to keep your home together and go back or ask you to live life happy by staying away from the man you married.You seem also emotionally weak and like someone who cannot make decisions on her own.

You know the answers to the questions you seek,but becos you are not used to making decisions you want us to spell it out for you abi?.

ON YOUR MARKS...

GET SET....

GO!!!!!!!!