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Friday, July 24, 2015
Trading Phones For A Day With Your Lover/Spouse.
What do you think?Would you dare this?
Has anyone ever tried this?exchanged phones for a day when the love is shacking you both or out of lack of trust?
Make una gist us!
153 comments:
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Have not tried it. But in my present relationship it's one man thing all them side men are there but boo is boo even tho he is extremely busy but his name tickles me
ReplyDeleteMimi j
I have done it way back in 2011... Can still do it now as I got no skeleton to hide
DeleteIf you have nothing to hide, I don't see why not. It's all about trust and sincerity between the couple.
DeleteHusby sure does leave his phone for me. I have his password and he knows mine. We have nothing to hide from each other.
Marriages differ one from another. And trust between married couples don't just come, it is built over time. Especially with d rate of infidelity going on, trust has become a scarce commodity in today's marriages.
Apart from infidelity, people may have other reasons to hide their phones from their spouses eg bank statements etc.
Trust and openness are vital ingredients to foster a strong marriage. When we come that level in our marriage where we trust and are sincere to each other, marriage becomes sweeter.
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I can do it......
DeleteHmmmmmmmm
DeleteMtcheew
So childish.
Lol. Which of the boos I wan come trade phones with na? Abeg jare keep ya property.
DeleteEhn mayb I can exchange my fone dt I no longa use, my real fone's? He'll no! Have too much skeletons hmm
Delete*dat messed up silly girl*
My hubby actually forgot his phones with me and we re still happily married.8yrs gone and still counting
DeleteI nor try am..only my facebook messages can give him heartache
DeleteMy friend did by mistake cos their phones r identical, n she rushed to work with the wrong one
DeleteThey have broken up now, the calls she recieved on his behalf were harrowing
Didi....if true. You are a Good Girl. Big ups.
DeleteNever!!! I don't want to die from what I will see on hubby's phone. He will never even agree
DeleteNahhh seriously can't be bothered. Not interested biko. But I did something mischievous whilst still dating though. I diverted the calls of my then BF to my cell phone. He wasn't technology savvy at the time so he just noticed his phone was silent without incoming calls. The girls that called nearly ran mad.. one in particular called repeatedly and was questioning me. Funny thing is I was very polite to everyone, although stylishly cocky but authoritative.
DeleteShe asked..."where is T?"...and I went..."he's not available now, can I take a message?".... she answered.."who are u? Is he dead or what?'...I said... NOP, he can't spk to u now, do u have a msg?".......
she yelled back.... "NO I'll call him back, but Who are u btw ?"...... I said...." if I'm not his PA or sister, what else could I be to him?".. and the bitch hung up. Ahahah it was fun.
Meanwhile when I finally got to my dude, he was begging me to help him ring the service provider that something was wrong with his phone. Yea, I did those kind of things for him cos he just couldn't be asked. Sha I let him know what I did o. And he didn't speak to me for a week or so. Guess the chic cussed his life for being a mumu. Whether na me or she be the side chic then sef, I no know.
Sisi eko you are bad o LOL I can imagine how the girl felt.
DeleteMen can make ladies do crazy things.
I love your style jare.
Hahahaha, whether na me be the side chic or the babe, I no know. Sisi Eko, no kill me with laugh a beg.
DeleteWhirlwind
Not ever.
ReplyDeleteMy fone is always passworded.
Has always been a bone of contention between us but I no send.
Am simply hiding my fone from him and my friends becos my blogger ID is signed in 24/7 and I no ready to change ID if they find out.
:p
One of the reasons I left my ex bf, how can a man be that complicated. His phones r always passworded, even his laptop. And the worst part is even if he opens the phone for u, the pics section has it own password, the BBm and whatsapp has password. He always tried to make me feel special above all the other girls wanting his attention and when he gives me the password, it's a mixture of letters, numbers, signs and things that u can never rmbr again in ur life. How he even manages to rmbr them I don't know. I used to pity him then cos that can of lifestyle was very strange to me. I don't even know how to close chats on my BBM sef all my conversation since last year is der open. Until I started reading blogs and understanding that it was normal for ppl to keep secrets even in relationships. But I sent him away sharp sharp. Anyways am married now and my hubby and I have never had any reason to keep our phones from each other in the Five years of dating and two years of marriage. I read his phone daily and when he is bored he goes thru my phone mayb once in two weeks or less.
DeleteAnon 17:08 it's good u left him. I can trade fones ofcourse. I go thru my hubby's fone anytime I like. He does too if he likes.
DeleteWhat won't I do just to trade phone with my hubby for a day?
DeleteLol...I go die oooom.se una no go beg me#anyway..I can trade my phone not even for a day but a year..am a free man..I ave a legacy..one man one woman..though for now am single and searching for a lady who is ready for marriage..trading of phone makes me single cuz d idiot was busy sending her nudes to other guyz#mitchew#iranu
DeleteOooops sorry Adeniji, love will find you.
DeleteWhirlwind
I'll just trade d phones when I have no BIS. Lol. Besides, I don't have much people calling/texting me. So I'm safe. *winks*
ReplyDeleteJesus is Lord.
really! I wouldnt dare, not coz im cheating but coz ma hubby feels insecured. A simple "hello running late, please inform oga" from a male colleague will cause serious gbege. He is a good man and he loves the children and I but his jealousy is deep. Ive decided to live with it and embrace the sweet side of him. The annoying part is my mother calls it love. 7 years of marriage, e no gree change but im grateful for the fact that he has never hit me. So till i get a slap someday, he is my love, my friend and my Darling Husband
DeleteMotherOfBoys
Lmao husband would die of hbp o.. He'd just pass out
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha...
Delete
DeleteOoooh dear!
Ordinary to walk into d room while hubby's phones are there and he's in d sitting room, I give am 10 seconds max,d guy don show with style...hbp tinz hehehehe
DeleteSherry's Daughter
Lol na my hubby be that. If he's not with the phone and it rings he will pass usain bolt to get it. Trade with him ke?ne me go die of HBP.
DeleteI'll trade my phone so he can see how many toasters I ward off on a daily basis n know that I'm hot cake. lol. on the other hand,I can't collect his phone because I'll just die of hypertension. I did this once with an ex Le boo tho. He forgot to delete his messages. my eyes popped out that day. It's all good tho
ReplyDeleteYes I can .
DeleteOnly those who have things to hide would not .
It's that simple
Haha see better Gist...
ReplyDeleteHaven't tried it before and am not about to try it.... Ever!!!!
Let the comments roll
Well I don't use passwords and have no reason to. Anyone is free to check my phone anytime, I've got no skeletons in my cupboard.
ReplyDeleteI would, lol, seriously I've got nothing to hide and if your partner won't then you are in a situationship
ReplyDeleteMy hubby and I swap phones all the time and it's no big deal.
ReplyDeleteMy dear same thing here.
DeleteI dnt see anything wrong there jare.
You swap phones??
DeleteAren't your hubby's busy?
Don't they have jobs to do??
Won't clients be needing their attention? ?
What happens to his job or business because I believe it's tired to the phone.
We do exchange.
DeleteBut he comes home at night wit a message "all these your texts, mmadu emetu kwana ifem aka oo". Cos
I got crazy admirers. #Idiroko toh badt.
I have been looking for a comment like yours@Qutie
DeleteWhy would I want to drop my phone and take hubby's with his SIM and all..
What will I do with his calls?
Dude is not even a phone hoarding kind of person,am the one always typing away or surfing the internet.
The phone is always available when I need it.
I don't wanna swap. Lol
Stella, abeg no dey give these males idea oh. If that happens, my boyfriend might leave me oh... cos he won't understand that the rest are just chykers that I'm keeping just in case... You know, you never know when you may need them. #smartgirl
ReplyDeleteAsnn ehh.wetin u yan na correct oo.they no go gree understand.
DeleteHehehehe.. Abi oh, its necessary. U go gal. *shines teeth
DeleteLol.... Shey u go gree understand when him Sef keep chykers too ... just incase he go need am... as u go need urs... Oh plssss!
DeleteThou shall not put all thy eggs in one basket
Deleteyes o I have done it and she saw messages I sent to my then gf omo you need to see danny dropping lies like die,cos she loved me she believed me
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Even u 2. Wonders
Deletelmfao! Hell to the No! I no dey exchange...! Each mallam to en suya!
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteSherry's Daughter
Lol been there done that, didn't end up single m now his wify. But we quarrelled shah hehehe because of messages sent to me by some agents of relationship destruction called toasters (all those toasters u hang around for some BENEFITS) who just wouldn't give up. And funny it was just that day that the fowls decided to send some incriminating messages as if the devil himself sent them.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha!
DeleteNo need for dis jare yangan dey sleep monkey wan go wake am.,,,,,,,,no need to doubt wen I don't have d need too... I love my peace of mind....... heartbreak is too painful dat I don't even wish my enemy to experience it.
ReplyDeleteMy Oga wan suggest that thing one time... I just change am for him. I said 'baby, it's okay... I trust you'...
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahabanahabahahahahahahahhahahahaha
DeleteHohohohohoho.. Fast babes
DeleteOnye orun. Loool
DeleteWTF!!! i won't do that shit even at Gun point
ReplyDeleteNope.
ReplyDeleteMy husband's phone is too boring biko.
He would enjoy my own, and I doubt the enjoyment would go round. I definitely won't feel same...
Same here. He would enjoy mine...his?totally boring
DeleteNo biggy. I've left my phone with him almost all through the day cos he was surfing the web with it. He returns it anytime I have calls, pings or messages, calls especially. Nothing to hide jare. *Ko si were*
ReplyDeleteChim oo....Aunty, so u dey collect the D...and you dey form innocenti for this place. Chai....small small you go crawl out of this ya shell one day o....and e go be big D wey u dey collect.....gba Kondo ni yen. Lol
DeleteHmmmmm,so u even have a boyfriend??
DeleteErrrhm,gist me. Do u guys have sex?
Hahahahhahaa
You have a bf? Wow!!! Thot u said...never mind sha
DeleteCos u be juu babe nah. Likes of TGW, Boss of d blog, Chizoba, Ireneb, Iphie dearie, Exhir... Can't rem d spelling jare no go fit swap for a second. Hahahaha! Me sef no fit. Not like we ain't faithful buh mehnnnn! We geh platonic friends wey oga no sabi knw nah. Anaemenu.
DeletePassport woman even u too follow gt bf? Hian, just when I thought nothing can surprise me again & this pops out.. Bwahahahaha.. Wait ewwwwwww.. Bwahahaha
DeleteHahahaha Anons1 &2, Jasmine una be serious monitoring spirits
Delete@Anony 17:59....hahahs. I see u. It's Exhilarated P(xhlrtred p).
DeleteYeye sombori like u. Hahahaha.
I dey swap o, but DH comes home frowning.
I am faithful bikokwa.
Deaconess in waiting.
Anonymouus 17:44 & 17:54 make una leave my innocent Cynthia alone o . she dey cool with D and even gentle wirr it
DeleteSue, no be my fault o. She once said she doesn't av a bf...
DeleteDeaconess indeed,abeg don't start what u can not finish ooooooo
DeleteNaaaaaaaaaaaa
ReplyDeleteI have noting to hide though
But i can't trade my phone all day
Hehehehehehe...I trust you for that one.
DeleteWhat's up ?
DeleteGuys no fit do am.
ReplyDeleteFor some people its difficult. I can do it, After all we go through each others phone
ReplyDeleteDis one na yansh opening.d post na true
ReplyDeleteI am aunty team snoop and clearing of chats......so no big deal. ....long live SDK...
ReplyDeleteI have not tried it but will love to do it. i dont have anything to hide but i will delete my bank alert. I no fit shout
ReplyDeleteI've not but I can try it with the le boo in waiting
ReplyDeleteWhy not? I trust myself wella. Besides, I have just few phone/bbm contacts.
ReplyDeleteI've never done this but not afraid to do it.
ReplyDeleteGot nothing to hide.
Have never tried this. Love never intoxicate me to the extent I will try this.
ReplyDeleteI don't know all these things about snooping or not snooping o, I go thru my husbands phone every single day, I read all his conversation (wt male and female) friends everyday. I get all his emails on my phone, I have all the passwords to his social media accounts and vice versa. It's not even about trust issues, it's about security. And it also makes life easier, sometimes he is in a busy place and he will just ask me to either send or reply to emails for him. Obviously am in the know of all his conversations. His company and personal accounts, my company and personal accounts all mean same to us and anyone can operate any. His family and mine are at same level of importance so whatever decision he makes or I make is very likely representative of us as a family.
ReplyDeleteTruth is we have been like this even as friends, I rmbr always having his ATM card with me during school days and the last 12 years there has been no reason to doubt each other. So I always marvel at all these team snoop or no snoop cos I don't even know which one I belong to as I only do it as part of my day to keep myself updated about him and also spy on all those friends who ask him for ridiculous monies so I know how much I will agree to when he brings it up *winks .
Am happy for una.
DeleteGood for you dear
DeleteU sure hav a lovely relationship
DeleteBabes u lucky oh, choi
DeleteExactly thesame thing here, right from school days, he gives me his ATM and I give him mine. I have the password to everything he has, I don't even bother goin through his phone in the name of looking for something, he sometimes forgets his phone at home and his phone doesn't even have password. I was my hubby's next of kin right from our dating days, so when I see this snooping ish I just wonder why a husband wil hide password from his wife, bf /gf relationship maybe but in marriage, that's weird.
DeleteExactly thesame thing here, right from school days we exchange ATM cards, I was his next of kin right from our dating days, he sometimes forgets his phone at home and if I don't pick some calls he complains that what if it was an important call, I have the password to everything that is password protected, I wonder why a husband should hide his password from his wife, in a bf / gf relationship maybe but in marriage it seems weird to me.
DeleteNo need for me to talk again u have just spoke my mind
DeleteCongrats gate keepers.
DeleteNever ever in my wildest dreams will I try it.
ReplyDeleteMy phone is fingerprinted and the password would take profect Elijah 40/days fasting to tell just an alphabet.
I'm coded for life.
The blow life and marriage has dealt me can never be forgotten In a hurry and trust me of youre so carefully coded like me,you won't be bothered the least about getting in anyone's space cos I don't even curr if DH's phone is passworded.
But I remember the day my screen got smashed....
I gave DH to fix my LCD....
Omg!!!
I almost fainted....I was so worried about the mags that could Pop up on screen or even my mumu calls that I coded.
Through out I kept ringing DH to know what's up till the phone was fixed and yes he picked couple of my calls and callers were forming customers .
My life is interesting cos I'm wiser than solomon.
Thanks
Buahahahaha
DeleteWerey is back oh
Na u nau. Hehehhehe wiser than Solomon. Ok o
DeleteMamie d wisest,!wiser dan Solomon abi?one day one day.......will go market and......lol!be careful.
DeleteFor me,i can trade my pone,d problem is my DH might have to throw the phone away himself cos the business related calls coming in will piss him off,esp if it's weekday!nb;real bizness pls not Mamie d wisest type.#eyelashes lol
I can't cheat I rather walk away honourably.dats where some of us are cheated in life#sobs##sobs#
I love u mamie
DeleteShe's back, mamie welucom.
DeleteYou're spoilt like that. Hahaha.
DeleteGreat sense of humor though.
Wise Solomon.
M-amieeeeeee
DeleteAnd u cant spell prophet. Epic!
DeleteI give up on you Mamie, lol.
DeleteWhirlwind
I can trade phones with him for more than a day sef and nothing will happen. He already has free access to my phone anyways. I've got nothing to hide.
ReplyDeleteI don't know sha *scratches head* lol
ReplyDeleteI actually can leave my phone my man for 2days sef cos I got nothing to hide...
ReplyDeleteOnly messages from my toasters /friendzoned male friends would he see...
My ex used to snoop on my phone and he found nothing...
Didn't know until he confused himself...
My Bae nd i do it always......No big deal , only those double dating are scared of this .
ReplyDeletenot considering it.
ReplyDeleteI asked my ex for his phone outta the blues one day, and he gave it to me without any hassles.I tell ya, that guy was as clean as a whistle.or he was a smooth operator.
ReplyDeleteThe thing with smooth operators is that they are smart,they have an incredible eye for details,they have a very good memory.
If I'm to exchange phones with my man,right here,right now, he won't find nada on me.I never get caught with anything.call me a smooth operator and you wouldn't be farther from the truth..and its not cos I cheat,oh no.but its cos I flirt on phone a lot..and its something I wouldn't want another eye to see.
Most of ladies will be found guilty of flirting on phone especially chat on social media. And my man will be so jealous as if it's reality. Am not smart @ all because I get caught everyday.
DeleteAm not ready to lie on hospital bed.... he can gallivante as much as he wants as long as I don't see.... aunty Stella.. ignorance is bliss in this matter
ReplyDeleteI can...
ReplyDeleteHe can too...
There's nothing to hide.
I hear no argument. I totally agree with u.Mtcheeew.
DeleteU dey chop my comment oh..... aunty
ReplyDeleteNaaaaaah.. would never happen....
ReplyDeleteU dey chop my comment oh..... aunty
ReplyDeleteStella only if you give me a hospital contact and I won't have to foot the bill....chai! Seriously you wan make I die for young??
ReplyDeleteTruth is I wouldn't dare to give nor receive. Chronicles for many o....lol chei!
Lol....I have a feeling that the results would differ among the sexes, especially with regards to the relationship status.
ReplyDeleteFor the married.....The men would be a lot more guilty compared to the women cos quite a lot of ladies dnt keep unnecessary communication with folks from the opposite sex after marriage, unlike the men.
For the unmarried(Regular naija rshps)......The guilt level wld be quite close but d females would top the males cos our ladies have grown with the adage -- Never keep all your eggs in one basket...so different stages of back-up plans are available. Lol...#pun intended#
Li-yon Vls.
Very true
DeleteLol.u are so right my dear
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Cant....
.
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
When real men on earth talk, children from Jupiter will talk 2. Biko remain in Jupiter, earth is already 2 full with nuisance
DeleteMamie, don't worry , you are wise like Solomon abii? you'll will soon send your chronicle to Stella very soon. Nobody forced you to get married when you know you still want to be messing around.
ReplyDeleteif I try that when I was single of course my man will break up with me but now that I am married, he can even have it for a whole year
ReplyDeleteI can't try it. Am I his P. A. or is he mine?,Biko onye obula should mind his business
ReplyDeleteMy wife has access to all my devices. In-fact, I sometimes login to my social media apps on her devices and forget to logout. She is always reading my sms and chat on other messaging apps because she complains I don't talk enough and that's the fastest way to catch up with whats happening in my life.
ReplyDeleteIts been that way for years since we've been married. It caused issues only once when she started interpreting a certain conversation tread wrongly - a lady that kept referring to me as "dear" in chat. I tried to explain that it was nothing, just the lady's way of talking (like some people call everyone "love"). But na lie o! She no one gree, said the lady liked me and I am not seeing it! OK, even if the lady liked me, don't I have a say in how matters turn out?!
Anyway, I had to instruct her keep her hands off my devices, but some habits die hard. She still goes through my phone now and then but I am not concerned. I live so above board, I have no reason to be concerned. Besides, attempting to prevent her will only make her start to think I have something to hide!
I love your type, keep it up
Deleteam guilty of dis,ve backups nd would not want to trade my fone for a day. i dnt password i can allow u to look nd read cos me i go done delete d ones nd a particular chat dat might cause wahala sharply cos d truth is dat u mite be guilty of wat am doing also .
ReplyDeleteSLIM CUTIE
Naaaah,Neveeeer!!!
ReplyDeleteToo many toasters.
He will just die of hypertension..lmao
Not cos i'm cheating oo buh because he won't understand dt they r just toasters and nuffin more is attached.
Chai....hahahahhaa
Wetin be the big deal. We look thru each other's phone if and when we want which is not frequent or even necessary sef.
ReplyDeleteIf ya hand clean, you no need to hide anything from ya partiner. Na wetin concern agbero with overload.
My own be say no flatten by battery with game after you don flatten ya own.
"The man and his wife were both naked and they were not ashamed." Marriage should be so transparent so I don't even see why trading phones should be an issue.
ReplyDeletewww.preciouscore.com
coughs in hebrew!
DeleteLmao. Una go kill person for this blog
DeleteI won't even dare!!!!!!... Got so much skeleton in my cupboard...hold ur own make I hold my own...to avoid stories that touches..
ReplyDeleteis not possible
ReplyDeleteYes I have tried it with my ex,the guy do pa work dat day it was really fun for me. He had to take the calls of the guys asking me out and them really am questions wey e no fit answer.No be person tell am to return the phone.It was just fun for me.
ReplyDeletesure i can cos i got nothing to hide from boo
ReplyDeleteWhy not....
ReplyDeleteI've got no skeleton in my cupboard..
I have once blocked my ex' phone cos I was trying to snoop. My present bf? I don't even want to go near his phone, I only pick calls he authorises me to pick aside that I no do ooo cos the guy is into a business that involves him discussing with babes regularly.
ReplyDeleteI tried it once. For few min when I found out that the Almighty boo who traveled al de way to see doesn't have a single pics of me in his phone. My number was saved not name.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
Run for your dear life after how many years???
Side chic things !
DeleteHi
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ReplyDeleteI can give my phone but I know my husband will never give his cos he is a bastard cheater. His phone is always locked. The things I have found by snooping are unforgivable, I just live with him and focus on my work and child. This guy paid a girls trip to London and I found out by snooping and they went together imagine. Since then I just do what's best for me, no pity. I will stay in the marriage but I can never ever trust him so omo I have become extremely selfish. I can never tell him if I make any money or how much never, keep it all.
ReplyDeletenever lolz
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm stories Dat touches d heart.my husband used my sim recently for a month and I wasn't bodad cos iv got no skeleton in my cupboard but on ds faithful day an ex toaster called from d UK cos he needed my help for something nd my Hubby picked nd gave me d phone lik av Ur fone someone wants to talk to u.i was so scared cos he's d last person I was expected to call.but thank God hubby trysts me.no matter how faithful u are it's better u Dnt try all ds bullshit phone swap cos dats wen d devil wil intervene.all d best guys
ReplyDelete*i expected to call*typo error guys
DeleteI will dash him the phone.
ReplyDeleteAs for me I can but my husband will rather die than do same cos he is a dog......sadly the marriage is almost hitting the rocks as he is currently in a relationship with an Efik bitch.....I became team snoop when I found out about an affair and since then he passworded phone, iPad, laptop and every device......this was not my idea of marriage and sadly where I found myself......in all I believe in second chances and I believe love will find me again....good riddance to a cheating husband....in case u are reading this, your moving out has made me free and contrary to what you think I will survive...am waiting for karma to give u a slice of how u have treated me
ReplyDeleteHugz
DeleteAwwwwh! Be strong love. I'm sure you'll persevere.
DeleteHmmmm... Now I can trade my phone for a whole year sef, though it has password and he doesn't know it, but I can open for him. My password is his native name sef, buh hez not aware. And I secretly have his password, so I just act like I don't care and I snoop when he is asleep or not around, but I don't react cuz name dey find wetin I wan see
ReplyDeleteI can.. After i have put my phone on flightmode.. Even if devil wan do mistake enter any boy to send me nonsense message..... Miss call!
ReplyDeleteNo i dont cheat.. Clean as a dove!
Na that day my hubby go die, asin heaven straight. He never see my phone sef he dey die already. Biko ooooo, I can't fit to give him my phone cos I don't want to be tagged a murderer.
ReplyDeleteI'll give her my phone. No biggie. But without the SIM sha
ReplyDeletetricky question
ReplyDeleteMaybe in another lifetime, not this one
ReplyDelete