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Wednesday, July 22, 2015

The Ex.....

There are some things which might not look right but might just not be wrong!

 Now,let me paint you a scenario.....





Your best friend is dating someone and the relationship is the talk of town..you have hung out with them a few times and their professon of love made you bashful.

 Something happens and the relationship did not work out and both of them part ways bitterly/sweetly.

 Now that EX is giving you the green light after a few months of breaking up.

 Your friend that used to date this EX has moved on and is in another relationship.
You like the EX and both of you are free to date.

 Would you date your best friend's ex?



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177 comments:

  1. Cicee22 July 2015 at 13:32

    Hell NO!

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    1. GALORE22 July 2015 at 14:12

      Seconded

      Hell No
      ..

      Don't ever date him




      @Galore

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    2. mimi j22 July 2015 at 14:17

      Hell no there are other fishes in the sea he swim deeper biko

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    3. Freya22 July 2015 at 14:19

      Lol. I will if i feel it's genuine. There are no rules to life and love! As long as y'all don't hide like teenagers. It's not bad. I will just be coivil enough to let my friend know of the development, at least prepare her mentally for it. Then me and the Ex will be civil enough not to disrespect her by flaunting ourselves in front of her. That's all. But as for dating the ex, I will

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    4. www.glowyshoe.com22 July 2015 at 14:41

      Thirded

      Hell no wont do that

      www.glowyshoe.blogspot.com

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    5. mimi j22 July 2015 at 14:50

      He should swim deeper ohh and leave me. In short hell no over and over again

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    6. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:51

      Opinion **

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    7. 80 shades of tizzy22 July 2015 at 14:51

      As for me no.... but look at it like this,Well its inappropriate to date yur friend's ex, but den again, you are going to meet yur destined partner in one way or the other, so if yur friend's ex is the one for you, are you going to not be with him because of yourfriend who may not even be with you for a long time....still as for me, its No. I dont want to have my friend's leftover, besides it will be as if i was jealous of their relationship.

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    8. MamaZ22 July 2015 at 14:55

      I would not even get attracted to my bfs ex not to talk of dating him. Kilode.

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    9. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:56

      Everyone saying 'no'. Doesn't apply in all situations. If I have strong feelings for him, I will go for it. Life is good short to care about ppls opinion #yolo. The first rule in any relationship is to always put yourself first. There are lots of guys but when one is in love... it seems like only one guy exists. Love is too strong.

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    10. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:03

      Heaven yes!!! So what if he dated my friend? That it didn't work for them both doesn't mean it won't work us. If he truly loves me and I truly love him too. YES!!!! I will date him.
      I am currently dating my friends ex and guess what??? He proposed last month. My friend supports us cos she always knew he loved me not her. He only used her to get to me!!! He dated her cos I was in a relationship then and was always telling him off so he would back off cos i knew he liked me. I hooked him up with my friend and when I was single again, he came back to his true love. It's 3years already and we will be getting married soon. You Only Live Once. Why will I withhold my happiness cos of mere sentiments???

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    11. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:17

      NO WAY. Infact, that's a rule for me. NEVER DATE MY BEST FREIND'S Ex

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    12. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:28

      Nope! Before dem go say u and d EX been dey run tinz before dem even break up

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    13. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:29

      Hell to the No! 2 of my friends r currently dating 2 of my exes. I dont mind except for one ex then i will show them. lol

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    14. SWAG LAFRESH 22 July 2015 at 18:39

      A friend asked for permission from her friend to date her ex and she agreed thinking the relationship won't last like hers. When the guy proposed to my friend she started spreading gist that she snatched her bf. They married now and she's expecting her first child

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    15. Unknown22 July 2015 at 23:45

      Guess i have to resort the Almighty formula to solve dis equation. ..
      .
      first let d Ex be Y and d lady b X....
      ...using first principle ...
      substitute d variables inside d equation and ur ans would jump out...

      okwa ighotara asisa m ?

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    16. Unknown22 July 2015 at 23:45

      Guess i have to resort the Almighty formula to solve dis equation. ..
      .
      first let d Ex be Y and d lady b X....
      ...using first principle ...
      substitute d variables inside d equation and ur ans would jump out...

      okwa ighotara asisa m ?

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    17. Unknown23 July 2015 at 04:42

      Anonymous 15:03. As peculiar as ur situation is, or was... the person who shouldn't have dated ur guy is that ur friend. How can u agree to date a guy whom ur friend rejected, and the guy came to u just because ur friend whom he likes isn't available? She rubbished her self esteem and that scenario of urs is one kind abeg. Your friend no get shame. A man who sought to date u just because the one he likes ain't available has turned u into a contingency plan. Spare tire tinz. Huh

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    18. Lovetoloveu24 July 2015 at 15:25

      Totally agree with u sisi eko. She was used. Plain and simple. Don't think l can hang around such scenarios biko

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  2. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:33

    That x is a bad person,coz there are other people out there why me, I can't date from same circle.i can't date my frnds x.

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:55

      Code #1 rule of friendship. NEVER date the EX. Except you no longer want to remain friends.

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 16:13

      Hmmmm... So my frnd once dated my EX, she didn't even ask if it was ok,n I kinda didn't care or so I tot....then one day he was sick n she asked me to go help her check on him cos she was held up smwhere n I agreed since I was close by,while there he told me how much he's missed me n how he only asked my frnd out only to get close to me blah blah blah..... Long story short,I was stuck in his house 4 d nite cos it was raining terribly n its pretty impossible gettin into my close after dat kind of rain, so we talked over a bottle of cognac n these feelings started comin up (plus remember d cold) n we slept togeda. Didn't tell my frnd,dunno if he ever told her cos she neva asked n after a few weeks they broke up n life went on...
      Hmmmm memories

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    3. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 19:48

      Bitch you revenge
      lmao
      She didn't. Value your friendship based on selfishness.
      Anyway without an explanation your conscience and instincts tell you its wrong. Soul ties and all that shit.
      Be a friend to yourself and choose your friends wisely

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    4. Unknown23 July 2015 at 04:47

      You dated the guy and broke up. Your friend starts to date him. Then he tells u he only went to her to get close to u? How's that? But he already had u na? "Trying to get close" would mean a babe he couldn't get and has been dying to date! Anyway..

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  3. Yori Yori Princess22 July 2015 at 13:33

    Capital No. I cannot chop cander wey dem remain.

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  4. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:36

    Omo! There is no right or wrong here ooo depends on d situation. Cos I know a relationship turned happy marriage that started off like this.

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  5. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:36

    Erm erm, like sexy Asa would say, it's all about the comfort, lol.
    But nna mehn, I won't be comfortable leaving the two of them in a room alone. Different crazy thoughts will be running through my mind eeee.
    On a more serious note, of all the guys in the whole world, why my girlfriend's ex? I can't oh. Because whenever I look at him, all I will be seeing is two of them, naked!

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    1. mimi j22 July 2015 at 16:39

      Lol you having spiritual eye by seeing them naked

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 17:40

      Ashewo u sef dey talk. gerarahia

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  6. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:37

    Tricky one here.
    But with the scarcity of husbands these days, the girls wont minddd!!!

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    1. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 22 July 2015 at 14:17

      Husbands are scarce in your family?maybe the girls in your family wouldn't mind. You shoulda said some girls wouldn't mind.have some respect for the female folks! That's why you keep looking for ladies that will rape you and take you out cos in your lil mind,you think men are "scarce".you have some serious growing up to do.

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    2. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 22 July 2015 at 14:37

      Husbands are scarce in your family?maybe the girls in your family wouldn't mind. You shoulda said some girls wouldn't mind.have some respect for the female folks! That's why you keep looking for ladies that will rape you and take you out cos in your lil mind,you think men are "scarce".you have some serious growing up to do.

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    3. NWAKAEGO22 July 2015 at 14:37

      Lmaoooo. North don vex. Obinna ndo

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  7. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:38

    No I fitn't. Umunwoke Ka nku naaa.make my gf ex carry his barrier dey go elsewia biko. To avoid stories that touch and tickle the bumbum.

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    1. mimi j22 July 2015 at 17:16

      LMAO..story that touches and tickles the bum bum

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  8. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:38

    Is he the only "EX" in the world? I can NOT date my friend's Ex even if she has moved on.

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  9. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:38

    Ofcourse i will date him if i love him that much. People should get over themselves with this friends ex ish. You are someone else's ex, your bf is the other lady's ex. At the end of the day,we all are someone else's damn ex, so what?

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    1. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:12

      True say

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:06

      I just tire for ladies and sentiments.

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    3. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:20

      Regardless of your logical approach to this the truth is most women won't like their best friend dating their ex. It takes a very mature person to overlook it because it calls your bff's loyalty to question. She may think I've always secretly admired her ex.
      My taken on it? I don't think I'll ever date my friend's ex but if he's my soul mate I'll ask her permission .

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  10. OROBO TOH BAD22 July 2015 at 13:38

    Been there and was threatened by my friend not to even conceive the idea of dating her ex

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:07

      Why?
      Who is she to tell you who to date or not to?

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  11. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:39

    Yea, after plenty years, maybe not too plenty 1or 2 years

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  12. M-amie Hazard innit? 22 July 2015 at 13:39

    if he has money I can even betray my friend and accept his advances behind her back.
    money makes me tremble.
    money can make me date even a dog.
    thanks

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    1. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:19

      Don't I just love dis babe? Lol, blunt 2rut but nnem d dog is a no no biko!

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    2. OLORI22 July 2015 at 14:27

      Really mamie??? Even date a dog??

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    3. Tochini Beads and Bridals,Lagos22 July 2015 at 14:44

      Chineke m eh! Laff wan kill me for here.. Mamie oh Mamie.. u are something else.

      Am sorry for those that take u serious and will start freeing their madness under your comment.

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    4. Marilyn Monroe 22 July 2015 at 15:22

      Mami hahahaha gerarahiaa!!

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    5. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:31

      bitch lol!

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    6. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:21

      Lmao!

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    7. Unknown22 July 2015 at 16:52

      I think she meant someone who cheats

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    8. Unknown22 July 2015 at 18:11

      Lmao Mamie ooooo always cracking me up!

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  13. Dsquare22 July 2015 at 13:39

    Lai Lai! Iranu! Ajeku! I was trained to go after mine, no matter how hungry I am, I will and have always waited to cook mine. Don't want some one to tell my story better than I will. Such EX will always preferred my friend especially if I was there when he wooed her. But then again people. Sha

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    1. Rudegirl..22 July 2015 at 14:07

      Mba o, I wont date my friend's ex
      Actually I can relate to this topic,my friend 's ex have always liked me even whil he was with my friend altho I tot is was just normal likeness, not until he broke up with my friend and started hunting for my love...to me it is madness
      Hell no, I cant date my friend 's ex
      I cant even put my self together to tell about it cos it will break her cos she loved him, now she has move on with her life, in love with sum1 else bt I stil cant tell her about her EX

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    2. na me talk am22 July 2015 at 14:51

      Like ifeoma and Esther's case!!!
      All dis Ashewo worthless friends....
      I know ifeoma will b sad any time she comes across post like dis....
      Mtshewwww

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    3. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:23

      Only irresponsible men go after their ex - girlfriend's friend. He either has no respect for women or reckons they're birds of a feather.

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    4. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 22:06



      Like innocentia Joy Magbo -ExBiotech Dept EBSU and guilty party Linda Ogbonna -Exbiotech EBSU her bestie wey dey codedly date Joy Ex kiiiikiiiikiiiiikiiiiiii

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  14. ELENA (HER MAJESTY)22 July 2015 at 13:39

    Mba!!!
    Bt what da heck!!! Y not if not?
    Tongue would always wag and say stuff.
    So if d guy is truly in2 me as much as I'm to him,i just might gv it a try.

    Bt for d main time,my answer remains MBA!!!

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  15. A GIRL HAS NO NAME22 July 2015 at 13:40

    Nope..things are gonna be weird between us.(me,my friend and her ex)

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  16. radiant D22 July 2015 at 13:41

    Can't date my bestfriend ex.

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  17. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:41

    Never!

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  18. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:42

    Why not?

    The devil you know.......

    Tried and tested

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  19. Belle S22 July 2015 at 13:42

    First?

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  20. crownwonder22 July 2015 at 13:45

    YES......

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  21. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:45

    Yes. With her knowledge. No hiding. Life is too hard already, give someone a break today

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  22. Lizzy T22 July 2015 at 13:45

    That's a very deep one and I ve been there but trust me, I don't think I would date my friend's EX.... Guys can be very funny o

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  23. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:46

    No had d encounter twice,can't stand eating my bestie's leftover mbok.

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:10

      There's nothing like leftover jare. You are someone's else leftover too. So will your hubby-to-be.

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  24. Aunty gwegwegwe 1 of SDK/ Blogosphere22 July 2015 at 13:46

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  25. Aunty gwegwegwe 1 of SDK/ Blogosphere22 July 2015 at 13:46

    Neva! I can't date a guy my female friend introduce to me talk more of dating her ex! Problem that comes with such relationship are so devastating.

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    1. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:27

      You're right my dear.chances are he has slept with your so called friend or will do so eventually. If he was so wonderful why would she pass him on to you? I don't trust women at all.

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 20:12

      Lee boo was introduced by my gf...she been no want..turns out Hez d best on earth..lol she judged him by skinny looks...he worships me oo..chai if Ur gf giv u pls collect

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    3. Nicole22 July 2015 at 22:01

      @ anony, when she realises how happy you are she'll regret it and may even try to hook up with him. Don't let your guard down. Trust no one!

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  26. Aunty gwegwegwe 1 of SDK/ Blogosphere22 July 2015 at 13:46

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  27. crownwonder22 July 2015 at 13:46

    ok.....i just scrolled up again and saw bestfriend....i cant date a best frnd ex but i can date a frnds ex

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  28. Anu Funke22 July 2015 at 13:46

    Hell no!!

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  29. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:46

    Ofcus

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  30. Belle S22 July 2015 at 13:47

    We've treated this issue before. Answer is MBA!!! He's not the only one in this world. I probably wouldn't have met him were it not through my friend! Uko enyi nwoke akoghi m. Azhi di agbaghi m. #Nwanyidikanwanyisiadi

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  31. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:49

    No.

    Even if i want to eat a "vomit" , it shouldn't be the one vomited by my bestfriend. Considering Okafors law, there is a possibility that both of them can still meet up and gbensh each other.

    That is the easiest way boosting a man's ego , he will gbensh you, gbensh your bestfriend all in the name of a relationship, the dude will be feeling the best that has ever happened to the female folk.

    Whether she has moved on or not...
    Nope.

    XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN (foot loose and fancy-free) 22 July 2015 at 14:24

      Very smart..
      For someone like me that likes to visualise,I'd keep visualising my best friend's face whenever I'm with the guy.
      Matter of fact I can't date a guy that has dated someone I remotely know.I'd like to have pure thoughts of me and my man only.and not thoughts of him and someone else.

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    2. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:30

      So true! They'll hook up again.

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    3. Unknown22 July 2015 at 17:05

      I think that this your feeling is genetic. A lot of people are like that. Lol

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  32. Bootylycious diva22 July 2015 at 13:49

    Dare not ,you where never a friend ,one day you will marry my ex husband and call your self a friend .bitches arent loyal

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  33. Drealbarbz22 July 2015 at 13:49

    NEVER! Men never finish 4 d world.

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  34. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:49

    Nay, wouldn't try that. Some desperate gitls will tho...

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  35. Cynthia Iyede22 July 2015 at 13:50

    I can't.

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  36. Ms SSS a.k.a stunning slim shady22 July 2015 at 13:50

    Is my best frend"s ex d only guy in d world? Mbanu! why wuid I go f a used product wen I can get a new one!

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    1. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:33

      new one is a day old baby kikikikikiki

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  37. ARIANNA22 July 2015 at 13:50

    I can not categorically answer this because I've never been in such situation, however, I will answer No based what I believe/wouldn't want someone else to do to me.
    Except heaven has ordained it and in such case, I must have sincerely tried all escape route from that relationship happening.

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  38. Miss Ess22 July 2015 at 13:50

    No, never.

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  39. Yemi7up22 July 2015 at 13:50

    Its going to be difficult to date him especially if the lady is still my friend then he is not for me. The fact have even gone on outing with them when they were together. I see it as a form of betrayer , no one would believe have not always have eye for him.

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 17:50

      Yoruba people and english wahala!

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  40. Monkey Face22 July 2015 at 13:51

    Hahhahahhahhahhahaha. I can marry my friend's ex but I cant date him.


    Something similar happened to me back then in the university. A guy asked a friend out( she was my roommate then), she didn't want to date him ( according to her) and introduced him to me.
    I happy, begin date the dude o!
    She begin get problem with her own BF.
    Small time, the story became a remixed version that she introduced me to her Boyfriend-to-be and I snatched him.
    The scandal or whatever you may call it was not a minor one since I was known as a church girl then. People began seeing me as a pretentious bitch and that's where my problem in school began.
    Eventually she got something poisonous for me, was to mix it in my tin of milk that night ( according to her confession) but somehow-somehow, God intervened and she said she couldn't go through with her evil plan.
    She moved out of the room we both shared the next morning, I didn't even know what led to her moving but I was glad she was gone.
    2months later, I and the dude broke up, koz of her matter. Eventually she came to me asking for forgiveness and confessing. To say I was shocked is an understatement BUT I learnt my lesson.

    #storyOfMyLife

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    1. Marilyn Monroe 22 July 2015 at 15:30

      Lawd... one of the reasons I never have roommates, ever!

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:49

      Hia!!!!!! Watin person no go hear?
      By the way, I heard this same story while in Enugu! Poster, you sure say I no know you?

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    3. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:51

      ........ one of the reasons why I never had a roommate......
      Thank God for your life. A friend of mine didn't live to tell her story
      R.I.P Kemi

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    4. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:53

      ........ one of the reasons why I never had a roommate......
      Thank God for your life. A friend of mine didn't live to tell her story
      R.I.P Kemi

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    5. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 17:40

      Poison you? What a wicked girl!

      Whirlwind

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  41. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:51

    4 me, CAPITAL NO.
    Your friend might even think that you were part of the reason they broke up, but who cares.
    Won't try it though!

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  42. SILIFA22 July 2015 at 13:52

    I wouldn't dare. its going to be so awkward. The only reason I can date a guy who was interested in my friend is if she is happily married and doesn't live in the same state. jealousy can spring up from places u can't imagine. to avoid stories that touch,I'd rather not.

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  43. Ekanem22 July 2015 at 13:52

    Personally, i would not do that. For global peace and unity. lol.

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  44. Phrizzles22 July 2015 at 13:53

    Y not... I will date him. Bt I will tell my friend first. If she gives me a go ahead and am madly in love with d guy. I will gladly date him.

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    1. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:16

      Real talk there

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    2. Marilyn Monroe 22 July 2015 at 15:33

      I can never take permission from anyone to date anybody. Don't need no go ahead from no one.

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    3. Unknown22 July 2015 at 15:46

      yea one of my friends asked for my consent but d other one did it behind my back. And now d guy is disturbing me on fbk like kilode. Oriegwu... D one dat asked for my consent is still with d dude n they r both happy. I care less. Only about my friend's happiness. D guy can "kee imsef"...

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    4. Monkey Face22 July 2015 at 15:56

      My dear, some girls will smile and give you a go-ahead. Sometimes it's best u leave the ex but whose fault is it if truly you two were destined to be together?
      For me, if I am sure it will lead to marriage ( but who is even sure these days) I will go ahead but if it's to play pin-pom pin-pom, I wont date the dude. Just to avoid stories that touch

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  45. IVORY 22 July 2015 at 13:53

    Never!

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  46. orela22 July 2015 at 13:53

    I don't do best friends ...
    Secondly I have never had a thing for any guy in any of my girlfriends life. I see such guys as friends no more
    So its really going to be hard to even be in that imagination or that scene
    ..
    But if that were the case why not if not?. After all my best friend has moved on...but there is this unwritten girl code that says one should date their gfs ex. But who really cares ...

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  47. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:54

    I don't know o.

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  48. Nkeey22 July 2015 at 13:54

    I won't because i can never feel comfortable knowing that i am being intimate with my friends leftover.

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  49. danny fisiye22 July 2015 at 13:54

    yes I will o with permission from him sha







    #GODWIN™

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  50. Unknown22 July 2015 at 13:55

    No I won't. It's a G-code (girl code), unwriten one that should not be broken. Though some shameless girls break this code all the time because of long throat. This kind of act is enough to make any sane person uncomfortable, but some girls are crazy. Hmmmm

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    1. Monkey Face22 July 2015 at 15:59

      Which kin G-Code? Be true to yourself! If the dude is Dangote's son or some rich, tall dark and handsome dude with a very fat bank account, you will remember one invisible G-code abi?
      Ibegi!! it's a dicey situation but if you feel the dude is meant for you, my dear, jump in but also be ready for the drama that follows

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    2. Nicole22 July 2015 at 16:35

      You're right about the girl - code.

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  51. Angel Eyes22 July 2015 at 13:56

    I can't date my friend's ex. To me it doesn't seem right.

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  52. nnukwunwanyi22 July 2015 at 13:56

    I wouldn't even consider him,after my best friend don such all the ingredients,...Never,i will look at him as an expired product,...it's better I don't know whom he dated before than know,it will hunt me,and I wouldn't be proud to introduce him publicly.

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  53. Motola22 July 2015 at 13:57

    I once dated my BFF's EX but I wouldn't call him EX per-say,his name is D***,he was in love with her but she was in a relationship with another guy and was so in love hence she doesn't love this guy but gives him attention because he buys her stuffs and cooks for her...

    The guy D*** who is now my Ex saw me with her then,later got my number with the intention of reporting my friend but we fell for each other and started dating,my friend being who she is was angry but overlooked it and we still hangout but she was always hinting how my bf do dote over her to get at me....

    After some months she and her bf had a bitter breakup then some months after D*** and i broke up because he was a cheat...

    So now my Bff and I are still going strong but I wouldn't date my friend's EX ever again,I won't feel bad if any of my friends dates my EX,its a free world you know...

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    1. na me talk am22 July 2015 at 14:55

      Ashewo friends everywhere!!!!!!
      Anita and ifeoma in d making
      Oshisko!!!!!
      Mtschewwww

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  54. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:57

    I don't know about others but as a matter of principle I wouldn't. I have been in such situation over and over again but I won't compromise. I can give details even one proposed marriage to me I turned him down. I might send in a chronicle.
    Omah

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  55. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:57

    No i will not biko

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  56. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:58

    THELMA ENEMUWE said..
    As far he is her EX and she had long moved on to the extent of being in another rship,then YES!!!,there's no big deal in it,she dated him before me means nada as far as i did not snatch him from her and am not the cause of their brkup!!
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  57. ANGELRAY4SDK22 July 2015 at 13:58

    I can never date my friends ex reason been that with time they may reconcile, I ve seen cases where 2 people who separated for yrs reconciled and got married.

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  58. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:58

    THELMA ENEMUWE said..
    As far he is her EX and she had long moved on to the extent of being in another rship,then YES!!!,there's no big deal in it,she dated him before me means nada as far as i did not snatch him from her and am not the cause of their brkup!!
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  59. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 13:58

    Absolutely NOT. If I date him, I should be prepared to lose my best friend.

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  60. Blackberry22 July 2015 at 13:58

    Naaaa..
    But IMO,i normally think it is only when u crushing on ur friend's guy or girl,that is when u jump at any opportunity to date them...else if u weren't crushing on him or her, u won't date them.

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  61. Cocoz22 July 2015 at 13:59

    No...
    I don't have a best friend *I don't do that shit*
    But dating your friends ex is like reusing her used pad!

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  62. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:00

    Left to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....

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  63. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:01

    Left to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....

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  64. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:01

    Left to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....

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  65. Nora Nelson22 July 2015 at 14:02

    Nah nah nah..

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  66. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:02

    THELMA ENEMUWE said..
    SterraKORK,i put it to you that some BVSsss are comfortably dating the surpose EX of their friends but they'd enter this post and lie about it,they'd start acting all weirdo and saying lailai they cant.....all na wash!!
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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  67. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:02

    THELMA ENEMUWE said..
    SterraKORK,i put it to you that some BVSsss are comfortably dating the surpose EX of their friends but they'd enter this post and lie about it,they'd start acting all weirdo and saying lailai they cant.....all na wash!!
    *faithful BV enemuwe thelma*

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:40

      because you dey reuse your friend used pad no mean say every girl be like you.so STFU

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  68. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:02

    I'll ve to ask my frend if she's kk abt it and whatever happens depend on what she wants bcos I know girls it's goin to be oh so u ve bin liking him all dis yl and secondly ve a knowledge what caused d break up bcos he might jst do d same to u its a dicey situation

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  69. June22 July 2015 at 14:06

    just friends

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  70. Kosi 22 July 2015 at 14:06

    Well I married my friend's ex.. We weren't friends while they dated. Wen she became my friend, she was dating someone else. She introduced him to me as her ex. She was even the one that told me about his interest in me, told me to go ahead if I liked him. Well I went ahead cos I liked him. She later started acting up wen we became serious. We got married and we stopped being friends. She got married last year. I miss her but life goes on. And yes, He's worth it!!

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    1. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:18

      Torrrr!

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    2. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:43

      Now this is a different scenario..you never knew him while they were dating..infact he was already an ex when you met, it is a manageable scenario.unlike the one hu wentvon outings with dem.i still cant.

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    3. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:49

      Na real torrrrrr....i fear u sha!

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    4. na me talk am22 July 2015 at 14:57

      Ifeoma....
      Come back and give dis same gist in 3yrs time

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    5. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:18

      Yes o. Live and. Let's Live!!!

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    6. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 16:57

      Life goes on my dear.... Me I didn't even ask anyone for permission Na gini mee?. In my case She was my very close buddy in secondary school but we lost touch and hadn't seen or communicated since secondary school. Met him on my own once, then bumped into him again before the stories about past relationships started flowing out during courtship, that was how I got to know my friend was an ex. When my friend got to know about it she stopped taking my calls and didn't attend our wedding. Reconnected with her recently, He is an amazing man... So worth it, we r Still happily married but I sense an awkwardness around her....na so life be

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  71. NWAKAEGO22 July 2015 at 14:06

    Hmmm. Deep ish

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  72. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:07

    there's nothing bad about dat since my frnd is already in another relationship and I love the ex so what's holding me back

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  73. David Iyke22 July 2015 at 14:08

    Don't think i will stand the sight of seeing the person that was there before me constantly in our life! No i won't, but i don't mind if my friend dates my ex.

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  74. Unknown22 July 2015 at 14:09

    ofcoz I will

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  75. youngman22 July 2015 at 14:18

    Relationship and dating are man's design to enjoy sex and affection and of course the fallouts before you see who marries you. It is said that friends of your friend are your friends. Women are simply jealous hence they don't want a woman they know to take over the meat that is no longer Thiers. That shows that irrespective of what they display, women feel a sense of loss each time a man leaves them even when they claim they left the man. If a man leaves a woman he actually looks forward to see who takes the leftover. He doesn't care if it is his best friend as long as the man had first left the girl before his friend took over. Once the relationship ends anybody is fee to go for anybody. Women should stop petty jealousy. By the way there is nothing wrong in your friend snatching your bf/ gf if he/ she wants and can because is only gullible bf/gf that would fall to such and who needs gullible people. Certainly not me. In fact any one that success in snatching my wife/gf has shown that she doesn't belong to me and so I will move on

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  76. youngman22 July 2015 at 14:18

    Relationship and dating are man's design to enjoy sex and affection and of course the fallouts before you see who marries you. It is said that friends of your friend are your friends. Women are simply jealous hence they don't want a woman they know to take over the meat that is no longer Thiers. That shows that irrespective of what they display, women feel a sense of loss each time a man leaves them even when they claim they left the man. If a man leaves a woman he actually looks forward to see who takes the leftover. He doesn't care if it is his best friend as long as the man had first left the girl before his friend took over. Once the relationship ends anybody is fee to go for anybody. Women should stop petty jealousy. By the way there is nothing wrong in your friend snatching your bf/ gf if he/ she wants and can because is only gullible bf/gf that would fall to such and who needs gullible people. Certainly not me. In fact any one that success in snatching my wife/gf has shown that she doesn't belong to me and so I will move on

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    1. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 14:45

      always writing epistles that are void of common sense.you talk to much abeg.

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    2. Unknown22 July 2015 at 17:40

      I think he made a lot of sense

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  77. Jasmine22 July 2015 at 14:39

    What if the EX is my supposed husband ordained by God for me? Mtchewww. I can date him. Ex kor, Ex ni. After all, all na second hand

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  78. Rich girl22 July 2015 at 15:03

    Yes il date a friend's ex. Not immediately tho, I d see anything wrong with it. If she is my best friend il let her know, to get her opinion, not that it will particularly affect my decision. If she is a normal friend, she will find out when she finds out.

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  79. Ms.Nicey22 July 2015 at 15:23

    My dear people, if friends don show u shege u go know say ur happiness is all that matters oo.. I'll ask some questions, know where we're going, it won't be playing as usual, & do some research before jumping into that, but am not ruling off the possibility. These days, I keep my circle very very small smtyms I find myself being my own friend o. Av done things for friends & at the end of d day I wonder if this was actually the person I called "friend". Don't trade ur happiness for anybody. Just let it be worth it sha! Don't go & destroy a lifetime friendship over some idiotic unserious boy.

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  80. Omeogo 122 July 2015 at 15:24

    But bia..all of you just running your mouth saying leftovertjos..leftover that...you boyfriend wasnt someone's left over too..biko mechionu! Eheen back to the marra..as for me ...i cant date my friends ex and if i have to we cnt simply be friends again..thats jerz it..nd i cnt say ill be ok with my friend dating my ex...na when that time reach..u go noe whether you dey ok..ehen..i have spoken.

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  81. Ms.Nicey22 July 2015 at 15:25

    Just stay true to yourself..*no games*

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  82. SixFeeta22 July 2015 at 15:33

    All I cud say is that somt is wrong somewhere.

    Secret crush while datin from eida party.

    The frd is most cases is always more beautiful n prolly with a bigger ass or boobs.

    The relshp doesn't lead anywhere most times

    They jus help the guy feel superfly about himself.

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  83. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:46

    God forbid! I can't even date someone who previously showed interest in a friend what more a best friend's ex, haba!!!

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  84. Princess Scheherazade 22 July 2015 at 15:55

    I would like to say I can but... The 'ick' factor no go let me.

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  85. Anita Nma22 July 2015 at 15:59

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  86. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 15:59

    I will never.. Fine, everyone is someone's ex but the beauty in it is that you do not know everyone, hence, you treat each person as new. Now dating a friends ex or a friend dating my ex is like a slap to my face or my friends face. Where's the loyalty? Someone wrote 'yolo.. Life is too short'.. The irony. Yes my dear, life is too short to cause someone you call a friend misery. So I ask again, where is the loyalty? Why are we friends or lovers? Even if the relationship should end, respect what once was and move on.

    I don't blame people for not wanting to have friends as we humans are our own worst enemy caring more about ourselves and leaving the other to suffer at our own detriment.. I don't care if my friend and I don't talk no more, that won't justify me dating her ex... I once dated a guy, became really good friends with his brother and after we broke up, he started hitting on me. I had to end that friendship because I wasn't going do his brother grimy like that.. Anyway, to each his own..

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  87. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 16:16

    Friend, best friend's ex is a NO for me. But if you feel comfortable leaving them in a room and the guy is your 'ultimate joy' then go for it.

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  88. Unknown22 July 2015 at 16:46

    For me is a NO

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  89. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 16:55

    One of my closest friends went ahead to date or rather slept with my ex. Apparently the relationship spoilt a lot of things between myself and my friend, and my ex with some of his friends.

    I guess my Ex wanted to hurt me but they both made a fool out of each other,..... Believe me when they say Silence is Golden.

    My friend called me a few years later apologising but girl I told I moved on a long time ago, I don't care who she sleeps with it's your life.

    The whole story is you should wise enough and not let yourself be used in a game of two Ex's....

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  90. Mao Akuh (Oriflame)22 July 2015 at 17:37

    Hmmm
    You won't date him but to be a side chic, you'll hold flag.

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  91. Enchanted22 July 2015 at 17:42

    Everybody is someone's ex.

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  92. Unknown22 July 2015 at 18:31

    Everyone is someone's ex. That is the more reason you should date another person not your friend's ex.

    Keziah's law state that if you date your friends ex, no matter how long it takes, that relationship must end.



    XOXO MYSTERY

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  93. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 19:52

    Anyway without an explanation your conscience and instincts tell you its wrong. Soul ties and all that shit.

    This act has broken homes. Children are in the mix don't know y they are suffering
    I know endless kids who gone through this... Not worth..it it might look rosy now check few years later.
    Stay clear permission or not

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  94. Favour22 July 2015 at 21:18

    i have and it doesn't last so hell no again

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  95. Anonymous22 July 2015 at 23:53

    Dating my best friend's ex for me is a no no. No one can change that for me.

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  96. Anonymous23 July 2015 at 03:08

    N-O = NO!!!!!!!

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  97. Vickie berries24 July 2015 at 02:52

    What if your friends ex did not sleep with your friend? Cause everyone is looking at it from the sex bit. If they did not have sex, would it be better?

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  98. Lovetoloveu24 July 2015 at 15:29

    My sis in law told me about her friend whose elder sister's ex wanted to marry. The wahala come be who will bell the cat. My in law told her ' tell him to inform your sister that he wants to marry you. Once that is out of the way the rest can be handled'. Whosai. My guy had the liver not. That was the end of that relationship.

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