Do they use their own embryos or someone else'?
Is there any body or organisation that handles surrogacy matters in Nigeria?
Is there anyone on this blog who has ever been a surrogate Mother to anyone in Nigeria?How did it go?
Do you know any Surrogacy firm that handles stuff like this?.
There are people that do it
ReplyDeleteBack then in school,a coursemate of mine told us she did and the money she got she's using for her education.
Lie-lie. Which school? liar.
DeleteYes Stella,they do.
DeleteI work in a fertility clinic in lagos
It depends on d condition of the patient's eggs,some have good eggs but just can't tk or always miscarry,in this case we use d woman's eggs
However if the patients eggs ain't good enof,we use donor eggs not that of the surrogate o,d surrogate is strictly a carrier who never gets to meet d couple, we prefer someone that has given birth before(experience)
Once the baby is born,d surrogate will not even hold d baby or babies,they just carry the child away to d original parents n d surrogate paid off. Even if the surrogate sees d couple,nothing can happen in future cos d child doesn't carry her DNA.
D issue of egg donation lol
we have unilag girls always hovering around our clinic hoping to donate eggs for a fee of abt 150k. Its like a business to dem.
Here being young,fine,intelligent,tall,halfcastish,dark plays a role,dey are the one who must not see the couple.
The girls r asked to remove every artificial thing on their body,(weaves,lashes,makeup,nails)then we take their pictures and create profiles for them in an album stated everything abt den so the couple ll be handed d album to choose n dey make their choice from there.
The girls go thru series of test n if selected treatment (drugs n injections) abt 3 months b4 d eggs r harvested. Dey collect their 150 abi 200k n waka.
We have a regular customer sha lol,fine tall dark girl with great eggs(tested and proven)
The babes eggs don't dey plenty families now,let's hope d children don't find her in future cos she don't born tire.lol
Surrogates get nothing less than a million for 1 successful delivery,n it keeps adding if u carry twins.
My hand don dey pain me.
Bye
200k just to donate egg?
DeleteYou don't say!
Anon abeg hook me up. Just drop ur clinic's address. I'll find you.
Folarin dear, *in tuface voice* You don't wanna go down there.
DeleteAunty nurse you forgot to tell us that there are people who are agent and gets. Out of the said 150k which could be around 20 to 30k. And it's no longer 150k it's 120k with the donor left with 100k or even less.
I hail Unilag girls sha
Anon 16:54 dem no need sperm? Make I bring one litre
DeleteNot only Unilag, Lily Clinic Warri buy eggs too nd it's same 120k......
DeleteAll these oyibo grammar. I have not seen anyone that has done it here. It is not in African culture at all. All importation is from the white.
ReplyDeleteI know 2 people who have done it
DeleteFirst one has a child she birthed but went thru a lot of difficulties and didn't want another experience so got a surrogate, her egg and husband's speed was implanted in their surrogate and they paid her well
The other hasn't been successful with pregnancies and she used twice
People just open their mouths and talk rubbish. Who told you it's not African culture? At least I can speak for Yoruba people who have been doing this surrogacy from time immemorial although only within families o. Example- ny mother's biological mother (who she always and forever refers to as her Aunty) gave her to her mother (who is biologically actually the Aunty) after she was weaned off the breast, to be brought up as her child; this is who she calls her mum. My biological grandparents had kids before and after my mum. It was not a secret, the whole family was in the know and it was done because my other grandmother couldnt have any kids of her own.
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DeleteSay no more about LoveMe Jeje thing.
It is really dull.
I don't think so
ReplyDeleteThey would rather buy from baby factories.
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ReplyDeleteNot too sure but with the way Nigeria is now , Nothing is impossible.
ReplyDeleteNigerians buy out rightly or steal em. A few people have embraced surrogacy sha
DeleteI don't know
ReplyDelete@Galore
Nigerians prefer to set up a baby factory instead of doing it legitimately.
ReplyDeleteAm interested in being a surrogate if I can get paid 5m naira.
DeleteAnybody interested can drop me a mail.
In Nigeria wahala go dey oh ,one the person go come say i want my child back
ReplyDeleteBootylycious diva. Want which her child. It's not her's, it's the person's egg that is used. There won't be any traces of her DNA in the baby she is carrying.
DeletePeople do it but it's not in the open. I know someone that used a surrogate. She was taken to a different city to birth the child after then she returned.
ReplyDeleteThe person I know has 3kids and they're all through surrogacy. The women don't even see the kids after birth to avoid unnecessary attachment and she does not even know the family she's doing it with but the family knows her. Before everything they go to investigate her background first.
DeleteI think there are people who do it here in Nigeria afterall someone showed interest to be a surrogate mum on IHN. I wonder how such women are able to detach their emotions from the child after delivery, won't be an easy one o.
ReplyDeleteThe one I know of they didn't even allow her see the child. As soon as the child came out the took him away
DeleteWhen the egg and sperm isn't yours I'm sure it will be easy because you don't have claims to the child. Even if the egg is yours, you have no claim to it.
DeleteSurrogacy motherhood Nigeria is a website,also some fertility centres do it.eg Omni Medical Center at Obalende
ReplyDeleteLufizz
Some people will do anything to have just one child while some that have children don't even know the value of they have.
ReplyDeleteAll the answer your questions is capital NO from ME oooo!
ReplyDeleteNo idea
ReplyDeleteNone that I know of here in nigeria.
ReplyDeleteOh lord, please dont let me pass through all these when i get married oo....chai!...give me my own child the normal way
ReplyDeleteThis blog session is not for prayers but for people who have reasonable contributions.
DeleteOlive Branch Clinic in Lekki - 08032011536. Many fertility hospitals do these days no big deal any more. it depends could be egg donor or in endometriosis cases could be surrogacy using the parents embryo...
ReplyDeleteHmm!! That's cool, hoping to help someday
DeletePeople still do it and yes, it happens in Nigeria. Either with their own embryo or another person's own. I want to be a surrogate mum o...interested people should contact me
ReplyDeleteHow much is ur Charge?
DeleteI have 4 Kids already but I will give you my Eggs and Hubbyz sperm so it will be implanted inside of you ooo. We don't mind 5 Children more
I'll carry the 5 at once, one child is 10million so multiply by 5. Hehehehe. U won born full Nigeria? Na wa 4 u o
DeleteI think anyone considering getting the services of a surrogate mother should go to organisations that handle it.
ReplyDeleteDo not deal directly with individuals because most of them are highly fraudulent,behind that "innocent" girl telling you she can do it for free or for a little token is a badass cartel waiting to blackmail you and hold you to ransom for life!
If you must do it,do it legally..sign documents and involve a lawyer.. Don't be fooled.
Why would you use an individual without a lawyer, that would be shooting yourself in the leg. But then what really can she do???
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DeleteDon't know jack about anyone or anywhere about. I just know its a situation where someone else is paid to carry another couple's pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteYes oo Stella. It is done in Nigeria but codedly. I knw a hospital in ABJ where it is done but won't mention it. Even married women offer to be surrogate mothers but wit d consent of their husbands. Dey stay in d hospital for 10 months. D hospital take care of u frm d onset of d pregnancy to d end. D women ar paid 45k everymonth for d 10months. Den after everything, tthey ar paid abv 1mil for settlement.
ReplyDeleteHave no idea on this
ReplyDeleteYes I knoww a surrogacy firm that handle such thing here in Lagos..... I'm still thinking of going over there self for donor of egg self.... gat school fee to pay mehn.... Bt I dey fear sha
ReplyDeleteStories of surrogacy is rare in Nigeria. Left to me i prefer surrogacy to adoption.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's done in Nigeria
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wife couldn't carry her own kids sadly. So she used a surrogate. The surrogate was her immediate younger sister. They used the surrogate eggs and my uncle's sperm. Sadly when she died ( uncle's wife) , her sister tried unsuccessfully to take the girl. This happened in the early nineties. They all disappeared for a year or so to do it.
ReplyDeleteSure very well. I had a friend who came from Sierra Leone 2 do it here in nigeria. It's a story Stella. A big one but then the pay is good plus you get feeding and accommodation. I can't o.
ReplyDeleteI don't Know anybody who has done surrogacy, but I know a clinic that does it in Nigeria .
ReplyDeletePeople do it. I know this
ReplyDeleteI doubt it happens. I haven't heard any though. And I can't do it no matter how broke I am. I don't even have the strength to carry a second pregnancy talk more of for someone else.
ReplyDeleteYes Stelz. I wrk in a fertility clinic on d Island (Lagos). We hv young gals above 18yrs of course. Dey carry d douple's embryo if d couple is capable of getting theirs. Buh wen it's impossible 2 get eggs 4rm d woman, we can use d surrogate gal's eggs. D gals usually neva get 2 meet d couple face 2 face. Dis is 2 avoid future legal complications. D gals r paid off by d clinic afta delivery. Most of our clients r high end, d charges r usually in millions. D gals r mostly 4rm below average homes. Dey r sourced by staff of d clinic, designated 2 such duties, n dey r properly screened 4 diff diseases b4 dey can b used.
ReplyDeleteUse my eggs? Lol. Story for the gods. Goodluck with any babe dat can do dat.
Delete@Anon do you still work there? I'm really interested in being a Surrogate mom
DeleteI think they use their own embryo but I doubt if there is any org that handles that in nigeria
ReplyDeleteIt happens in abuja but in a coded way. It is also very expensive to do so right now the average nigerian in that kinda situation prefers to buy black mkt babies for lower prices.
ReplyDeleteIt is a welcome development tho. At least women will know there are other options for them
They do it in abuja,some years ago a friend asked me if am interested and would be paid some amount of money but I can't o
ReplyDeleteNOT SEE ANY
ReplyDeleteYes. It is available as a service in nigeria and almost all the fertility clinics are into it. However, a lawyer is involved and a go between btw the commissioning couple and the surrogate. Its rewarding and haS HELPED SET UP A LOT OF YOUNG LADIES WHO WOULD OTHERWISE NOT HAVE BEEN ABLE TO CONTINUE THEIR EDUCATION OR SET UP THEIR BUSINESS
ReplyDeleteThe Bridge Clinic does I think through one of their sister companies called ASPIRE. They used to be on Tiamiyu Savage in V/I but now I'm GRA on Oduduwa street or crescent. They will educate the auto gate mother and Lawyers are involved. You are informed of your rights, the do's and don't involved in the whole process. They've had successful births recorded.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend dat did it, d woman dat carried d baby for her is a married woman. And it's an agreement btw her n her husband. I was even d one dat was with d woman when she was delivering. After cleaning d baby up and dress him, the woman handed d baby over to me Becos d money has been transfered to her account. She's so heartless cos she didn't look at d baby twice.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart if you've had a baby you will understand why she didn't look at the baby twice...she most likely did it to avoid any sort of attachment to the baby which can easily happen.
DeleteI know of a christian organization in abj dat you can get a surrogate mum,but dey will tell not to expect any monetary compensation but if d couple decide to compensate you fine,i heard abt them on radio,they were even talking to pple to vounloteer
ReplyDeleteStella it is done in Nigeria. My aunty and uncle have been married for almost 20yrs no child. Her womb couldn't hold a pregnancy. They used her eggs and my uncle's sperm. They paid the surrogate 100k monthly and after d birth of the child they gave her 1m. Everything was arranged by a fertility clinic. They never met the surrogate. Another friend of mine did it too....but private arrangie....between herself, her husband, her mum and the surrogate. Everything went well till delivery but after 4 days d baby died. E be like say the surrogate no take care of herself well during pregnancy. My friend was devastated.
ReplyDeleteMaybe not because she didn't take care of herself, but just a reaction between the husband and wife a viable baby can't formed.
DeleteThey do in Naija and I think there's nothing wrong in doing it.
ReplyDeleteYes surrogacy sure exists in Nigeria. Know of a hospital on the island where a colleague of mine is the consultant obstetrician. It's expensive though. I also know a number of people who have had babies via surrogacy.
ReplyDeleteReferring to my mum being a "surrogate" child as posted above :
ReplyDeleteobviously though, both egg and sperm were donated in this case.
kai SDK everything is done in Nigeria at a price. stop sounding daft e jor
ReplyDeleteSurrogacy exists in Naija wella... i know 2 couples that did it on the island. Evry1 keeps it a secret though
ReplyDeleteI dont know
ReplyDeleteAren't the baby factories in the east some sort of surrogacy?
ReplyDeleteIt is done in naija. We re a little more advanced than pple outside of naija would like to think fa. Naija don step up big tym.
ReplyDeleteWow I wish I knew a couple in need that I can help it will give me satisfaction but I wouldn't mind being compensated cos 9months journey no be joke o
ReplyDeleteWe offer surrogaxy services in Nigeria.Click to visit our website
ReplyDelete@Neffy,
ReplyDeleteI am looking for a surrogate mum, are you really serious
I'd love to be a surrogate mother,still looking for good agencies or intended parents to work with.
DeleteI am an intending Surrogate mum, looking for agencies or intending parents to work with please reach me if you need my service, thanks
ReplyDeleteam an intending surrogate mother... willing, available and ready.. contact me on 08146040114
ReplyDeleteI am very available to be a surrogate mother.and willing to relocate. .. Please contact me...
ReplyDeleteCan anyone refer clinics in Lagos that offer surrogacy services? Would also like to inquire on the cost of surrogacy?
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