This writeup should open your eyes to STOP JUDGING A BOOK BY ITS COVER!
''Dear Stella,
Good day. I would like to share a Narrative. Though, not seeking advice as most narratives portray; It's a post I wrote to enlighten BVs and friends alike on the need to steer clear of judging people based on their tribe... And of course, to also show appreciation. It's titled: The "Igbo People".
The thought of the "Igbo people" and how they scared me to because of "their pride and wickedness" was all I had in mind when I saw my posting letter and found Abia state boldly written on it. I began to shiver, whilst strategizing on how to call those "aunts" and "uncles" I hadn't called in a while to help with my instant redeployment. On a second thought however, I decided to give it a try, bearing in mind the effort of the NYSC scheme to merge the gap between disparate regions.
My name is Omosalewa Bilkiss Osomo; a Yoruba girl with limited number of Igbo friends prior to NYSC, but this is me repeating the cliche in caps lock "NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER".
After spending a year at the Umuahia LGA of Abia state as a corps member, while travelling to other states within the east to douse my inquisitons, I am boldly able to say the Igbo people that I once feared as a result of listening to stories from unexposed people, can be extremely nice, tolerating, caring and like other tribes, respectful. You shouldn't judge an entire tribe, race or religion based on individual errors.
I spent the entire NYSC period in a FREE, well furnished and comfortable house; thanks to an "Igbo person" Mr Nnamdi Ezeigbo, the CEO of SLOT systems limited, whose mother cannot imagine collecting money from corps members before giving them accommodation. Like she always said, "I no need your money, wetin I wan use am do? My family dey different states, people fit help them too".
I spent the entire NYSC year (had my POP on the 2nd of July) learning the Igbo language, thanks to the very accommodating and friendly indigenes of the state. I also spent it baking cakes, thus making more money; thanks to the support from the indigenes.
No doubt, there is always that "bad egg" in every organization. The "Igbo people" cannot and MUST NOT be characterised by those individuals. Judge an individual by their character, and spare judging the whole tribe. I just want to say, The "Igbo people" are great people too!!!
Thanks and God bless as you share. For reference purpose, please find attached a few pictures of myself and my flatmates. Will also be willing to answer any of your questions.
Thanks ma'am''.
Beautiful writeup,thank you for sending this in..thank you!
I'm sorry, too busy to read it.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you poster!
DeleteThough I love my Ibo ppl,but dem show me pepper o for enugu awgu camp cos I couldn't speak Ibo!
DeleteDey attended to all the ppl dat were speaking Ibo dat I even came before dwm o,just because I couldn't communicate in their language.....d thing vex meehn,omo I begin para!! Dey halla for every where with my 9months long bele!
Just because I wanted to redeploy o,Dem put me for line tire begin answer Ibo ppl....choi Na so me sef start to dey cuss Dem!!
I quickly called my hubby the third day,Na so my husband say make I carry phone give the tribalistic nkapi Wey dey redeploy corpers,dey now started conversing in Ibo language,and the woman was like she didn't know that my husband I Ibo dat am their wife,I trust my okija man Na,dat one threatened the woman say I anything do him wife Wey don due for labour and him pikin ehn,she go hear wehn,Na my hubby later translate for me........after their conversation,it didn't take up to 3hours before I was redeployed!!!
Poster,abeg leave Ibo ppl matter!!
Okija,every tribe behaves that way. I was at an oil company and the oga is Yoruba. We waited n we were just four o. The PA was speaking Yoruba with the lasyt guy n when the oga asked for someone to come in,he waved d guy in. I refused o. I told d lady dat we saw d man come n Lang shouldn't be d deciding point. The two ppl remaining asked me to leave d guy n I told them due process should be our watch word. I was allowed in and I got what I wanted.
DeleteOkija wife you are so right,Ibo people almost killed me at Enugu,being an Hausa girl ,choi I saw hell
DeleteProof everybody is different
DeleteI think Abia people are good people. My friend served there and didn't pay for accommodation or anything. She even got a sponsor for her personal CDS. Bad eggs are everywhere na just God.
DeleteU try, I was posted to ebonyi I didn't wait to experience anything I ran 4/40 abeg
DeleteEbonyi is a hostile community on its own @Mercy but just like every tribe, u'll see some good people and some that evil runs in their blood. I served in Ebonyi, d only annoying part is when they want to extort you because of their belief that "corpers are rich, and that u're in their state to collect what belongs to them from their govt". Thank God for INEC that year, I for hear am
DeleteYour writing prowess is captivating. Keep it up young lady.
DeleteBill bill nice write up I served in onu ibina igbere in bende LGA,amazing people who just love strangers especially corpers, igbo people are nice though they have some bad eggs,i enjoyed my stay,hope to visit soon.
Delete@hoyebe'corpers are rich is everywhere o' even when I served in PH, I was told d same thing#Omo those pple ain't nice@all
DeleteYou're saying all this shit just cos big man gree you stay for hin house.
DeleteYou have said you aren't exposed.
You will see wheeeen!
Please remember to write another story after an ibo person shows you
My dear, if that book cover has holes in it, you better judge it.
ReplyDeleteMeaning?
DeleteOde.
DeleteYou were fucking Nnamdi, don't lie. Ofemmanu Akunakuna
DeleteAnon 20.59 YOU ARE A NASTY PIECE OF WORK.
DeleteEVERYTHING NA FUCK FUCK TO YOU BA?
The fact that your vjay jay has been "keziahed*
To every man within an earshot and an arm reach dont mean YOU SHOULD ACCUSE people of being exact replicas of you.
Your stupid comment and the derogatory "Ofemmanu Akunakuna" is meant to stir up hate against the Igbo's right?
One thing is sure....IF You were IGBO you'd at least get your spellings right! Its "Ofe mmanu akwunakwuna"
Anon 20.59 You are the real "asu anwuru" Scum tufiakwa gi!
Here's my advice for EVERY MALE Who does you a favour in the future please dont FUCK THEM.
KEZIAAAAAH!
Tell em...Stop judging us jor. Hope u enjoyed ur stay and tried our delicious soups?
ReplyDeleted write up is also for u.. N every tribe's soup is delicious :)
DeleteI'm Igbo, I grew up in PH, tertiary education in Delta, served in Yoruba land and married a Yoruba lady. As you can imagine, I've seen the good and bad in several tribes and I believe that human beings are essentially the same. They may come flavoured by tribe, accent, culture, wealth, education etc, but we are the same. An arrogant bastard will remain an arrogant bastard wether he is rich, poor, educated, illiterate, Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba. However, the way he is seen by you (and what you are willing to tolerate/excuse) will vary depending on if you are biased towards rich people, Yorubas, Igbos etc. An unbiased person sees people for what they are.
DeleteOmoselawa Bilkiss is obviously an unbiased person by nature because a biased Yoruba person could have had the same experience that she had on arrival at Abia but would have perceived things differently, which in turn (plus her attitude) will have resulted in a whole different experience for her.
I agree with u. We are all the same whether we are black, white, yellow, blue or green.
DeleteI am Yoruba and married to a white person and ive lived abroad over 11 years and can categorically tell u that the people ive met haven't changed my mind that women are women everywhere and men are men everywhere
Yeaa, we r quite nice pple, I dono y people tend to spoil our image....
ReplyDeleteEspecially me stella, I can tolerate ehhhhn! Chai!
Don't judge a book by it's cover, I agree! I also agree with whoever says dating an igbo guy if you're not igbo is an absolute waste of time and resources.
DeleteGood read.
ReplyDeleteYou write well @poster and yes, 'never judge something from afar' not a tribe or religion.
Nice write up!!! We have the good and bad ones in every tribe but that ain't enough to make a conclusion about a whole!
ReplyDeleteDats life for u,wen u meet good people it definitely makes impact in ur life
ReplyDeleteSeen
ReplyDelete@Poster, thank you so much for that. God bless you!
Delete@Poster, thank you so much for that. God bless you!
DeleteNice, tribalistic people take note. One Nigeria
ReplyDeleteYou get luck u no meet the likes of Chizoba, they will advise u to visit native doctors n do charms and hw to talk without thinking.... Or brainless breeds like Em Jay.
ReplyDeleteHian!!!
DeleteGood write up. I also served in the east Batch C 2010 Igbo Eze north L/G, Enugu Ezike. There are actually some nice people as well as some bad once as it is in every other tribe.
ReplyDeleteEhn,if I hear,for that awgu camp Wey be say if you no sabi speak Ibo dem no go quick answer you!
DeletePhew!
@Okija wife, stop talking nonsense here. Make we hear word, I nu go?
DeleteWelcome to abia state *hugs* that's my state tho..
ReplyDeleteAnd to all the tribalisitic mofos on this blog..well this writeup is for you guys
Thats my state too... Igbos are accomodating, thing is every tribe has both friendly, accomodating and very annoying pple. Its not exclusive to a particular tribe.. Yle some are super evil
DeleteYes ooo
ReplyDeleteWe Igbo's are very very accommodating,,respectful,, kindhearted etc..tnx corp for speakg out..
Love my Igbo bros & SIS's.
To God alone be praised..
Yes ooo
ReplyDeleteWe Igbo's are very very accommodating,,respectful,, kindhearted etc..tnx corp for speakg out..
Love my Igbo bros & SIS's.
To God alone be praised..
Yes ooo
ReplyDeleteWe Igbo's are very very accommodating,,respectful,, kindhearted etc..tnx corp for speakg out..
Love my Igbo bros & SIS's.
To God alone be praised..
onwu ihe taa? let them think whatever we don't care.
ReplyDelete*smiles*
ReplyDeleteActually I've spent all my life in the west, and it baffles me when I hear the yoruba's saying igbo are wicked and heat humans. But That's not true, the igbo are very friendly people and very accomodating. When you stay in igbo land, they don't stress you like the yoruba's does in terms of omo ni ile things, etc. That doesn't mean the yoruba's aren't Good. They're Good people also.
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Pls answer this question can a yoruba man buy a land in igbo land.
DeleteLeah, I know at least two yoruba men here in Abakaliki with landed properties. Tribalism is a mindset.
Delete@leah,what is with the question? U carry money no see land buy?
DeleteGo to Eneika,eliozu,and some other part in port harcourt we have yoruba's as landlords there
In Imo state ,nkwerre precisely I know of a yoruba man that is a landlord
Come down to ahiazu-mbaise, u will also see a yoruba landlord... so it not only in d west that we ve igbo's as landlord, my dear it is everywhere!
Now u are going to deviate the focal point of this post because of this unneeded comparisons btw tribes.
DeleteI don smooch the one on braids b4, very strong nyash wey she get, e fit bend prick, me sef fear to go further.
ReplyDeleteLmao! Una no go kill me for this blog abeg...kikikikikikikikikikikiki¡!!!!
DeleteBuhahahahahahaha, na wa o
DeleteBwahahahahahahahaha
DeleteStellz where do u pack ur bvs from?
LWTMB 😂😂😂
DeleteUr preeq for break like cucumber inside her. Hahahahahaha
DeleteNice one Bilkiss(Bilikisi? )
ReplyDeleteFor all those shallow BVs that associate
Yorubas with Dirtyness and Obesity
Ibos with shady Businesses
Edos with Prostitution
Hausas with Illiteracy
Urhobos(men) with Laziness
Calabars with promiscuity /Menial Jobs. Etc
True such traits may be there but it would be foolish to rope all in when you've not had time Judge them personally.
Every tribe has the good and the bad, we should learn to accommodate and accept all irrespective of their Tribe and what they are known for.
The Hausa's that people so fear are the most honest and truthful people you would ever deal with, I've seen yoruba's that are Bad ass Cooks! Urhobo men that are Caring and hardworking..
I only expect such statements like those above from illiterates.
Bilikisi Welcome to the Favour Market.
But you didn't av to list the traits tho
DeleteUrhobo lazy for where? We have our own resident plumbing urhobo man looking for a plumbing fair lady to be his baby mama. Very hardworking security man with a masters degree.
DeleteNice comment..you took the words right outta my mouth..thank you for saving me the stress of typing..#kisses
DeleteU dis 40yrs old Nuvi, u too talk
DeleteIrrespective of tribe, religion, or social status, they are only two kinds of persons in this world. Good people who do good deeds and BAD people who practice vile things.
ReplyDeleteThey are nice no doubt, I have good Ibo friends and met good ones as well but the ones in MADONNA UNIVERSITY are of an entirely different specie(thats a gist for another day,guess I'll send in my own narrative sometime)
ReplyDeleteMadonna university for okija abi???
DeleteSmtcheeeww!
Nice write up. I'm from the south-south but served in the west (ekiti). Some people love saying ekiti people are stubborn and argue a lot but it wasn't so where I served. They are really nice people. Its really true never to judge any book by its cover.
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteI served in ekiti too...
You see y we r sisters here?
*shinesteeth*
Cynthia,Ekiti people are stubborn o!& this is not being tribalistic..
DeleteI schooled in Unad & I can categorically tell you that Ekiti people are stubborn.They even boast about it amongst themselves when they have issues with each other or someone else.
Which one is South south ? Is there south south in a map ? South south is a division map that only exist in Nigeria. World map there is no south south. Merci.
DeleteWow@Cynthia... I actually thought you were Yoruba.
DeleteYou speak yoruba right?
I have been trying to learn Hausa and Yoruba for ages.
I know some Yoruba words,but can't spell them..
Hausa,i picked a little because I know someone that insists on speaking Hausa to me and letting me figure it out..
It is fun.
I learnt to speak yoruba from the BEST!! Eheheh
DeleteDamage control 😁
ReplyDeleteAre you damaged goods?
DeleteI have so many IGBO friends
ReplyDeleteThey are nice people
They work so hard
Biafra party every year,I don't miss it
Oh yes, we nice pple.
DeleteHehehe. Thanks jare. Igbo kwenu!!!!
ReplyDeleteOmosalewa thanks o! We igbos abuse d yorubas a lot cos of some experience and we just generalise... Me for instance had a very bad experience with yorubas in school and outa school, and I will always say I won't ever date a yoruba guy... iro nla niyen cos my boyfriend is yoruba and he is nothing like what I know of some yorubas.... And am so proud to have him... #One blood, One love, One Nigeria #
ReplyDeleteYes oooh@Olori
DeleteBut hausa dey kill una pple everyday, and una no fit abuse dem. Fear dey make una use brain or make we begin call una coward?
DeleteAwusa don kill una? The corpers tat was killed during 2011 election, are they not ur pple? The 11 pple killed by boko at maiduguri that went to buy food stuffs, are they not ur ppl? Some of you don't reason well, even kudirat and abiola was killed by awusa fulani.
DeleteThanks Bilikis for sharing. I wish you the best as you enter into the labour market. God bless the aged woman that accommodated you people for free. Little wonder her son(the slot guy) has a very good heart. God bless them both. It's good to be good. No one knows tomorrow
ReplyDeleteThats my people. No dulling moment with them.
ReplyDeletethank you Osumor for clearing this up.
Good for you - Omosalewa!!
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.....
ReplyDeleteEvery tribe has a bad egg, nice one missy
ReplyDeleteI agree, you don't judge a whole tribe because of the actions of a few. But my dear, you were lucky not to have met the bad ones and I'm happy for you. I wasn't as lucky as you are, though that's a story for another day, but I must confess that some of them are also very nice.
ReplyDeleteTell them sister.
ReplyDeleteTell the judgemental bigots on here.
Have u all heard? Tribalist people should take a cue, I'm igbo I met a caring soul, a yoruba girl and her bestie in nysc wannune camp, Benue state, b4 I redeployed. They were so wonderful to me, even better than some of my igbo peeps around, although her bestie hails from Edo state, she grew in the west, speaks and behaves like a yoruba too, she was an angel infact, ever since then I stopped judging the yorubas, not all are good, but don't classify all to be bad.. vice versa
ReplyDeleteEvery tribe is nice, only some individuals act like animals. I enjoyed my service year in Gwoza, Borno State that has now become a shadow of itself. Hausas are very homely and the most honest people you'll ever come across... and yes! I'm Igbo.
ReplyDeleteJesus is Lord.
Osomo bilikis. ...
ReplyDeleteFgc. Idoani alumni rocks..
Good write up dear....
Smart Dockter *winks* sup girly?
DeleteYea never judge a book from its cover
ReplyDeleteOne bad egg should not be used to describe others..
Proud Igbo with so many beautiful friends from different tribes
I have always said that there are both good and bad people, wherever you go be it home or abroad it's the same story.
ReplyDeleteMy best friend from school till now, is from Anambra her family are very well to do but you will never see or hear any of her family member being rude, very humble and reserved family.
Thanks for this Salewa. I love your name.
ReplyDeleteI have always loved the Yoruba language and their artistry, especially in terms of drama and the flowery flow of eulogy especially in worship to God.
I believe there's good and bad in every people, tribe and race. Let's all learn to live and let live. Long live Nigeria!
LUCKY YOU THEN!...
ReplyDeleteClara, Na real lucky her!
DeleteI told my landlord here who charges high rent yet harasses the tenants that it's not fair to treat corpers like this. I told him if everybody fit carry house for head I will simply pick up my father's house to come and serve. I told him that there are two corpers living free of charge in my father's house in the village. This story is not strange to me, u know why? Most igbo men have big houses they built in their various villages that are empty till Christmas and other festivities. Who do you think end up occupying some rooms in these houses? Strangers, corpers, passerby, people in transit.
ReplyDeleteI can't remember the last time we didn't have a corper living in our villa house.
It's a pity when I hear people claim igbos are heartless. I simply read, laugh and continue stirring the food on fire I am cooking to feed my friendly neighbours from other ethnic groups.
Trust me, this "Slot" as he is popularly called is a special man. The accommodation he provided for corpers isn't cuz his house is vacant. This man is known to provide job opportunities for graduates as well, and award various scholarships to students. There are still good people in this world. My younger sister is one of the beneficiaries of his scholarship and he doesn't even know us.
DeleteU can say dt again..... Hes house in omole is alawys full
DeleteMy Granny(May her soul rest in peace) left her rooms for Corpers too....God bless her.
DeleteIs it the same SLOT Phones? He is indeed a good man.
U suppose don sabi all dis one for Fgc-Idoani now, igbos are nice, loving, caring n fun to be with
ReplyDeleteThats a good one dear and Thanks for the commendation, its never good to judge a book by its cover.
ReplyDeleteAm from Abia and the same L G A you mentioned is my LGA as well.
If only we can do away with generalization and sentiments,Nigeria would be a better place.
I served in Akwa ibom state,Edeine Abak to be precise. I must confess,they are wonderful and accomodating people.
God bless Nigeria
The best person I've ever worked for is a Yoruba man, he's so nice I wish d contract never ended. I've worked for it Igbos too but none of them beats my Yoruba boss. BTW I'm Igbo.
ReplyDeleteIgbo people are very accommodating when it comes to housing, they see it as nothing
ReplyDeleteSo happy you experienced the magnanimity of the Igbo people.I told you when you were leaving for Abia that igbos are good to strangers.Its Mummy Alex .Sister stella Bilkisses is one of the most beautiful Muslim lady I have met in the university always ready to baby sit my Alex in Futa while I had one or two things to do.Very intelligent at that.So hope one sharp Igbo guy has asked ?
ReplyDeleteSis Stella I am so grateful .I sent in my sisters profile earlier.
Bless you Osomo for this write-up...
ReplyDeleteNice write-up Biliki, and so true...
ReplyDeleteI also served in Abia state batch B 2003 and I enjoyed every bit of my stay there. I was a platoon leader and ended up with an NYSC state award and subsequently, the Presidential National Honours award which earned me my current employment automatically.
Umuahia is a beautiful city with friendly people. I also found love there though it didnt last. He broke my heart...(sob)but thats all in the past now.lol
Kudos once more on your write up and hope you have plans of settling in Umuahia. lol
Thanks for this beautiful write-up.
ReplyDeletei also did my NYSC in Abia 10 yrs ago. precisely Abiriba. am deltan and have heard so many stories about them too, eating people and all but i served peacefully. its not as bad as we think.there are always bad eggs amongst good people.they are very accomodating in Abia i must say
ReplyDeleteBabes, your head dey there!!
ReplyDeleteYAaay!!thats my homegirl right there..my bestie of life (don't let her knw that) did I mention she's a bad ass baker?..Omg!! If u've nt tasted #cakesbykisses then u re dulling..go check her out on IG @cakesbykisses and @bilkisses u shall see wonders..am glad stella published this narrative, didn't regret introducing SDK to u boo..u shld all book a cake or two..and also ask for smallchops..mum Alex I sight u ooo..its debby, bilkisses frnd
ReplyDeleteAre u d friend with d strong yansh that one anon complained above? Lmao!!!
DeleteEvery tribe has both the good and bad people.. so it's never good to judge people by a single individual's behavior especially when they're of a different tribe.. That has been the problem of Nigerians. .
ReplyDeleteI hail thee sis,nice writ up.#thumbup#
ReplyDeleteAwwwww...
ReplyDelete@Okija wife yes all na bracket though I was at elele campus with father ede himself...........omo if u can't speak Ibo sorry for u,sometimes they address us in Ibo can u imagine. Anyways as a sharp babe I ran away from that glorified secondary school just didn't see myself graduating and holding their certificate.
ReplyDeleteHhahahahahahaahaahhahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahhhahaa
DeleteNa real glorified secondary school!
Smtcheeeww!
Funny you. @ CC
ReplyDeleteIts just everywhere nne
ReplyDeleteMy served my country also in Umuahia , Abia State in 1992 and I also had a wonderful time. I do not know about other IBO people but Umuahia people are nice.
ReplyDeleteOld school. Lol
DeleteQuicksilver self respect pays
DeleteThank you writer, it is not good to judge the book by the cover. We Igbos are very accommodating, just that our brothers are greedy when it comes to Money but I tell you there are both bad and good people in every tribe, and na bad egg they smell pass and people only spread bad news about others. One love Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteWow I pray find such favor as free accommodation during service o am not even concerned about tribe I just need peace and comfort.
ReplyDeleteOkija wife, Igbos are dat mad n u married 1 of dem? Funny u,
ReplyDeleteLol
DeletePls u guys shld spare!! Most igbo pple re nt so nice mbok. I served in owerri. Righ from. Camp those igbo smellos re. Mean. Even d women re nt motherly. Then we came out of camp another diffrent story. Can u imagin u will b insulted cos u don't understand igbo. And d annoying thing is everybody speaks igbo everywhere u go. My corper friend answers them in yoruba wen they start speaking ibo to her. D only nice igbos re d one who lived in d north oh. Always trying to cheat cos they see u as a stranger. Tufia abeg spare me story JOr. Iquo says so.
ReplyDeleteStop saying rubbish plz. I attended a government school with yorubas as my teachers. They always speak yoruba in class and you dare not complain else...even in the north, it's like that
DeleteYou are a fool! Yoruba people speaks their language anywhere even in corporate offices. You will be in a crowd with 10 people and just 3 yoruba yet they will use their language to intimidate the rest of the 7. Hausas do same too so why is it a crime if igbos do it?
DeleteFYI, I have never seen a tribe that likes their language more than yorubas
Some posts here are borne out of sheer hatred and ignorance of the Igbo. I served in Ibadan. Nobody spoke English for me even when they knew i was Igbo. Even here in Lagos, no matter the level of education, Yoruba and Hausa people speak their languages in their offices. It is only the Igbo man that will speak English to another igbo man even when he knows he is igbo. However whenever two Igbo people speak igbo, other tribes get jittery. Why?
DeleteMy landlord, a yoruba went to secondary school yet anytime i want to see him, he insists i come with an interpreter. i was surprised the day i saw him in the bank speaking good English. I do not bear any grudges against him. May be he likes and is proud of his language. It is the same with an Hausa man. You hardly hear them speak English when they are together and they dont care whether you understand them or not. In fact they are more at home with you when you speak Hausa.
Therefore it sad when somebody goes to Igbo land to serve and he is complaining that they speak igbo to him when they know he is not Igbo. The french do it, the Germans do it too. So what's the hell about the igbo man speaking Igbo in his own land. Sad, very sad.
I'm Igbo and proud.
In my opinion all the three major tribes in Naija are as bigoted as each other. As far as I am concerned the most accommodating people in Naija are the minorities. They are the glue that hold us together.
ReplyDeleteAnd who are these "minorities"?? Na question I ask o, cos I don't know.
DeleteOh God bless u dear I hate it so much when ppl are tribalistic.D Igbos are one part of d greatest tribes on earth believe me.
ReplyDeleteChukwu gozie ghi SLOT n MUM
ReplyDeleteWhere is that bastard ismail? He-goat u see your life? Dushbag
ReplyDeleteokija wife ur husband will be fighting alots of people cos of u
ReplyDeleteAm telling you!!! How you take know sef???
DeleteIgbo pple three words selfish, tribalistic and sunny esp anambra pple d ones from one village uga tufia I knw of different experiences of anambra pple and how they treat pple. I dunno of u but me hell no
ReplyDeleteMechipu onu gi there!
DeleteIgbos are actually very nice people. Just respect them, and they will reciprocate such. I have had great experiences with Igbo people.
ReplyDeleteI served in Nkanu east LG, Enugu state. The Igbos I met were 9ce and accommodating. The students always brg palm oil and yam 4 us corpers.
ReplyDeleteSome posts here are borne out of sheer hatred and ignorance of the Igbo. I served in Ibadan. Nobody spoke English for me even when they knew i was Igbo. Even here in Lagos, no matter the level of education, Yoruba and Hausa people speak their languages in their offices. It is only the Igbo man that will speak English to another igbo man even when he knows he is igbo. However whenever two Igbo people speak igbo, other tribes get jittery. Why?
ReplyDeleteMy landlord, a yoruba went to secondary school yet anytime i want to see him, he insists i come with an interpreter. i was surprised the day i saw him in the bank speaking good English. I do not bear any grudges against him. May be he likes and is proud of his language. It is the same with an Hausa man. You hardly hear them speak English when they are together and they dont care whether you understand them or not. In fact they are more at home with you when you speak Hausa.
Therefore it sad when somebody goes to Igbo land to serve and he is complaining that they speak igbo to him when they know he is not Igbo. The french do it, the Germans do it too. So what's the hell about the igbo man speaking Igbo in his own land. Sad, very sad.
I'm Igbo and proud.
I love you !!! You just said what I didn't have the patience to type up.
DeleteKisses
She really does write well .all the marks are in place . Ur parents no waste their money on your education unlike some itibolibo here.
ReplyDeleteThis was an uplifting, refreshing and unifying read. We need more of these types of stories and experiences if Naija is to really remain one, united nation particularly among the youths.
ReplyDeletewe associate tribes with certain things because they are in the majority who practice or allow those things....
ReplyDelete-yorubas are truly dirty...most of them still use poos in their houses.. baby mama syndrome is more encouraged...not because they are more promiscuous but cos they tolerate it more. adultery is more rampant with them and they do it more openly. they do more rituals for money.
- igbos are very money conscious and borderline greedy....drug traffickers, fake products, cultist...Igbo girls are very money conscious and do more runs...baby mamas are not common cos their society accepts it less and most Igbo men will not marry you.. they always feel they are wiser than any other tribe.
-hausas/muslims pretenders, hypocrites who drink, womanise etc but make others believe they are holier....all they do is pursue contracts. they love to build systems where the poor will continue to be poor and subservient to the rich....
-calabar people are very promiscuous....men and women, fetish too...marine spirit drives their promiscuity...if the women take care of their men and its all natural like they make the world believe how come their men are also promiscuous?
-edo and prostitution....they are a majority....go to Italy and Europe they make up most of the prostitutes and runs girls....go to Benin and confirm...they are also fetish..i have no apologies to anyone cos I lived in London for years and know this fact....that said I have Benin friends who are not prostitutes or fetish....
in all the above am talking of percentage and not saying its 100% but when something is common amongst a group of people who can you blame...
curse me and die.......bye