Friday In House News.

Thank God it's Friday..have a great weekend everyone.In house news will be back on Monday!

PAINT Lagos SDK Fitness/Dance Program Is TOMORROW

Woow!! 

Finally, we are close to that much awaited SDK fitness/Dance /Free Medical check up moment we have all been waiting for.We are counting hours  to our much awaited SDK Fitness/Dance Training @ National Institute for Sports Basket Ball Court inside National Stadium Surulere.

 Date 18th July 2015, 

Time : 7am prompt.

DRESSCODE: put on your fitness wears and look smart

NB:For Let's paint Lagos SDK party,you can pay your 3k fee or more at the training venue.financial sponsors and those willing to bail out some BVs will also be welcomed.

for more enquiries call : 

Kingsley Scott (Fitness 08157393397 or 2BC1A12F) ,

Ivie (Dance 08033485172),

Hettywealth(HD planning committee 08035134227). 

Long Live SDK blog visitors!

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SCHOOL FEES GIVEAWAY FOR THREE KIDS ON SDK BLOG

Hello BVs I'm new to do this but not new to reading the blog, it gladdens my heart to see people helping others get by. I thought to myself God bless the rich to be a blessing to the not too rich, this is my own little way of making some people happy. School will be on break soon and I want to help 3 parents pay their wards school fees when school resumes...

What to do, send an email to plainhearted2@gmail.com the 1st three email received will be considered... The 3 winners will have to send me the kids school details to pay to direct and the amount just to be sure it is authentic and wont be in wrong hands.

Stella God bless you as you post this and keep the good work going as God is your strength.

THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.

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CAKE MIXER

Hi Stella and fellow bvs.. I am presently learning how to bake cake and I am in need of a cake mixer. Please anyone that has any to give would be appreciated. I am based in lagos and I can be contacted on 08120619495.

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MEMO TO ALL THE MARRIED WOMEN ON SDK BLOG-INCLUDING STELLA

Dear Stells,

Please kindly treat this mail as anonymous ;)

This isnt a narrative per se,but a rant calling out you and the married women on your blog that advise young girls to marry for love.

I think single-handedly that s the worse advice you can people especially young women who are ready to marry.This is the major reason for the millions of Dear Agony-Aunt letters sent worldwide;because when that love tires(as 99% of them are wont to)these girls you advised as such are left grasping.

My bestfriend(20years now) ,born-again, got married years ago to a loser.Oh but he wasnt a loser at first.Courted her really nicely and after a year they got married.Man stays in the US,so for a while they had a long distance marriage.

After the wedding,he became a different person all together.Stopped calling frequently,snapped at her when she called him sweet names,kept telling her how talking with her is a chore as she was childish and boring,eroded her self-confidence until this beautiful woman became a walking shell.

Against all advice when her papers came through she moved to the US to join him. Its been terrible since.To give you an idea of how it is,she treks miles to get to her workplace irrespective of the weather despite the fact she s pregnant as she cant afford taxi and the US bus system s crap.Her husband has a car which she isnt allowed to use though he s away on 'business' half the time.Putting herself through nursing school without a penny from him,verbally and emotionally abuses her ALL the time and cheats.And did i mention her pregnancy was from rape?Yep.You dont feel very sexy when you'v just been called a whale;but DH wasnt having none of that.

I got married two years after she did for all the 'wrong' reasons;because I just didnt buy the marry-for-love crap anymore.And believe me,it s perfect.I can most certainly tell you that if i had married some broke,dimwit idiot for love without a thought of what i actually wanted for myself,i wouldnt have been completing my nursing PHd programme.

Dear girls,PLEASE marry for yourself.Marry because the man you have chosen to be shackled with for eternity has something to offer you beside love.Be it wealth,pedigree,maybe he can further your career in some way,etc.It might sound coldblooded,but its the truth.

To all the married women on SDK going on about marrying-for-love and kini ko,can we just be honest please?Like i see all your husbands all over the place o.How many of you are truly happy?

Stop talking rubbish woman!!!...I advice from my circumstance,I married for love and ALL other things fell into place,i dont have a perfect marriage but i can boast of 99percent.I am happy and i will advice anyone out there to marry someone who loves them.....I DID!

Please read my response well and make sure you have your recommended glasses on.

And as you dey see people husband na so them dey see your own....

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IN HOUSE TESTIMONY - HIV/AIDS FREE!

I was lost in my thoughts, my heart pounding 4times it's normal rate.

Are you a christian? Do you believe God can heal? Those were his words that brought me back to reality.

Yes, I answered. Visibly shaking. I saw the test strip starring right in front of me, he already read my fate but I couldn't...don't know when it's negative or positive.

Do you know even if it is positive, it isn't the end of the world. At that point, a tear dropped, I started counting the amount of unprotected sex have had in the last three months...this time, I was visibly shaking than ever, it was like I was waiting for a death sentence.

Right there, I promised God I will abstain from premarital sex with determination to 'almost curse' any guy that asks me out that day or even as much as say, 'eeesssss, fine girl'

''Go to the consultation room for your result'' he triggered me out of my thoughts.The five minutes I waited were the longest of my life. Through those minutes, I imagined the worse, I prayed for the best.

He finally came in, at that point, I couldn't stop the hot tears flowing down my face. He looked at me with no remorse. 

You are 'HIV/AIDS NEGATIVE' for now, come back in three months for another test. I jumped for joy, there and then...I assured myself I was gonna stay clean.

Please flee from pre- marital sex,If you ever want to, USE 'cover cloth'. HIV/AIDS no dey show for face ooooo!

THANKS, SDKERS KWENU!

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AMEBO GIST

MY EXPERIENCE WITH CON MEN

Hi Stellz, 

Please help post this, especially for my fellow BVs here in Nigeria. 

Growing up, I used to hear stories of how people were conned of their money and valuables, especially in public transports.

What I witnessed today was on another level. 

After a hot and  busy day, as I was trekking home, just approximately  20 paces to where I stay,one scraggy looking guy hailed me to stop. I kept going till he said he just wanted directions to a place. 

When I stopped, he asked me where Ebony Clinic was.

Me:Never heard of the place, what's the name of the street? 

Him:I don't know. I'm coming from 'Por Harcourt ' (with an accent)‎ and was told to stop at the express and ask for it. 

Mind you, we were on a bush path,and no where close to an express. As he was speaking, a bike man was passing, and he asked me to speak my language to the bike man,that maybe he'll know the place. 

Meanwhile, he was trying to make body contact, but thankfully, I shifted away.

Unsuspecting me,i spoke to the bike man who said he didn't know the place, and then asked Mr Scraggy who sent him.

Mr Scraggy: Mrs Helen (what's a name without a surname?) 

I became suspicious.

Bike man: Is she owing you? 

Mr Scraggy: Yes, 2000.

I began to wonder why someone will cross four states just for 2000 naira,till the bike man said, in Igbo, 'sister,have you seen how wicked people are? He supplied goods worth 2000 dollars to her,and she has refused to pay '.

Once I heard,'2000 dollars ',no be pesin say make I pick up pace begin jog,even as the bike man called me back.

Abeg,between me and him,who is supposed to know directions to places?

The main reason I'm sending this in,is for those who think it's only in a public transport, or the bank, that such people prowl. They can be waiting in front of one's gate sef.

They may have been rapists or worse still, ritualists,but God saved me. *wipes brows*

I shudder to think what would have happened, if my legendary curiosity was aroused. God forbid I make headlines for the wrong reasons.

We all need to be careful.

That's my experience, people.

#WhiteDiamondOut

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House for Sale 

A three Bedroom Bungalow, with 2 self room contain ( Boys Quarters), Compound Large enough to park 5 (five) cars conveniently. Asking price is 38 million (negotiable).If interested, please call this number 08061609108.Location ; Efab Estate, Lokogoma Abuja.

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GIVEAWAY/Waist Trainers, Body Shapers, Skirts and Tops for Sale

Hi ladies I have  100% Latex Waist Trainers, Body Shapers and ladies wears for Sale. All High Quality products. I also offer wholesale of these items at very good prices.

I ship and deliver nationwide. Pickup available in Lagos. Payment on Delivery available in some cities. July Sale Prices: Latex Waist Trainer- N9,000 Body Shapers- N4,000 Printed Midi Skirts- N5,000 Off-Shoulder Tops in 5 colours- N3,000

I can be contacted on BBM:24F34129 or 08089081844. I respond quickly and delivery method is fast and reliable. Within Lagos delivery charge is N500. Outside Lagos ranges from N1,000-N1,500. Waist Trainer is comparable to Ann Cherry quality and works really well to shrink the waist!!!! Size S- XXXL available. Thanks!

One of the off shoulder tops is for giveaway to the first caller.

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APPRECIATION TO ANGEL BLAZE

Thank you Angel Blaze. I received the sum of N20,000. You're an Angel. God bless you. Thank you Stella. 

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ANGLE BLAZE JULY GIVEAWAY RECEIVED.

Stella of life,

Dear BVs reading IHN today, please on behalf of myself, my mom and my siblings, you all should say a line of prayer for SDK, this blog, her family, loved ones, Angel blaze and to yourselves. For serving humanity and saving lives.

Have you ever been in a hole and you look around and the needful looked simple because you are willing, yet impossible because you are constrained. That was where we were squating at the mercy of those who want to play God. But we got this miracle alert that has put an end to that fear of comforming to negative pressures of hopelessness.

Thank you, we are one of the beneficiaries of July miracle. Your names shall not leave our lips, and your footprint is upon the sands of time. Remain blessed Stella. You are in our prayers daily. Thank you Angel blaze. SDK rooooccccckkkkssss!

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BABY THINGS NEEDED

Stella Bae God bless you for the good works you are doing. Please I need a baby cot even if it is a fairly used one that is still in good condition I don't mind and baby clothes for a baby boy because things are very tight for lee boo now. Anything you can help me with please.I live in Nyanya Abuja and my number is 08188103038. Thanks

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I GOT A JOB BUT.....

Dear Bvs God has chosen to have mercy on me i return all glory to Him.just got a call to start work  somewhere soon, though little but am ever grateful to God. It means a lot to i and my family.PLEASE my dear fellow bvs i need cloths,shoes,bag i dont have thats why i am asking i wear rubber slippers to church ,i am not complaining.Please someone sow a seed in my life to be able to pay my transport fare till i receive my first salary. God bless and reward you all.I reside in Portharcourt.07088257090

(shoe size 40).

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ARMY PALAVA

Stella Nwunye Korkus, i dey throw way salute to U and all SDKer, sometimes i just dey wonder why some army people dey enjoy to dey intimidate other people just bcus say they are on uniform and dey carry gun.

 This is my story, My neighbour for house wey dey sell phone and other accessories dey on his own oh!na so one army guy come buy one phone wey no even reach 5k, two weeks later the army guy carry the phone come back say the phone don spoil. Ohk my neighbour come ask him wetin do the fone make him know how he go take repair the phone, na so the army guy say him no want make him repair the phone and he no want another phone,say na him money he want back. My people abeg make una tell me where person go buy sometime and return back 2weeks later demanding for his money back. So my neighbour told him that that can not and can never be possible. So the army guy just carry the guy laptop to go and the guy say him no go fit carry him laptop over a phone and one thing leads to another and the next thing na fight oh! Right now everyone in the building is on the run and the guy never open his shop again. This is really so so bad. Ndi banyi ka-emese.

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THANK YOU ALL

Stellastic Kork,

First of all I thank you for enabling my mail on IHN, it defined your simplicity and open-mindedness.

To all the BVs that sent-in their words of encouragement for our mother (a whopping 57 sms, she was overwhelmed). I say a big thank you. She was embarrassed when her colleague drew her attention to her number on your blog, on their way from school. But appreciated our effort at telling her how grateful we are, at having her as our good mother.

To all the BVs that called (14 calls) and those missed calls(3 calls). I thank you for expressing your motherly support with some words of advice. And to you, Mrs K anonymous, you texted, called and blessed her with your little token which was more than a million to her, to us. I thank you for your love & care.

To you Stella and all the BVs that reached out in one way or the other, I say may your enemies makes mistakes that will move you forward IJN. Thank you and thank you.

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THANKS CYNTHIA-LONDON AND NUVIE-HONEY.

My appreciation goes to Cynthia-London  and Nuvie-Honey for the special gifts they sent to my baby on her birthday (it was really a surprise package), Am very grateful, may God bless you real good and reward you abundantly in Jesus name, amen.

BV Honey Pot.

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APPRECIATION TO ANGEL BLAZE

Dear aunty Stella,

Words cannot express how glad and happy I am,I saw my name that I won the July giveaway and also got an alert from Mr Blaze...I just couldn't help sending a prayer to that angel in form of Angel Blaze....

Sir you shall never lack,God will continue to provide for you in excess of your requirements,You are a crown,you will never become a Footstool In Jesus Name (AMEN)

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Accessories for Retail and Wholesale for Abuja And London BV's

If you are interested in buying head turning  Unique earrings,bracelets, necklaces, clutch bags.

Please contact us @ iconscloset@gmail.com. I respond immediately. And will send you more pictures.

I have included a little Shoki as my appreciation, as the business grows my hands will Grow God willing...

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Glo- 150967406148251

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BEADING TOOLS NEEDED.

dear bvs,kindly spare me some beading tools that you're not in need of anymore,have got someone to teach me bead making but no materials to start the training process,I can be reached via 08123414231or 07062413515God bless you all.

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Free Training on Bead Making and Baking‏

There will be a free training on Bead making and Baking (cakes,meat pies,scotch egg,small chops,samosa and lots more) in Living Faith Church Ozuoba, Port Harcourt. Its being organised by the women and its strictly for ladies. So if you're a lady and are interested in learning any of these,avail yourself of this opportunity.

The Bead making training comes up on Tuesday 21st of July @ Living Faith Church Ozuoba, Port Harcourt.

While the Baking will run for 5 days, beginning from Monday 27th to Friday 31st of July. 

Remember,its absolutely free.

Please ping 2AEFA9B8 for more details and enquiries.

God Bless You

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SHOES FOR SALE.

Beautiful day to All ,

 I have some shoes for sale... .....

The All star and the blue footwear goes for 5k each(negotiable )... 2months old. Size 45...

The other three are all brand new... the red and green foot goes for 18k each... size 45,while the boot goes for 15k.... size 45. (Prices non negotiable )

Lagos. 

Tel: 0817 705 7886

Find the pics attach below.

Here is shoki ahh for my people.
Mtn.
7829135849685976
4113255786588699

 

 

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SDK BLOG WEDDING - THANKS TO BVS

Dear Stella,

Thank you for this wonderful platform.

I had the my wedding ceremony on the 4th of July. And it was a SDK Blog prepared wedding.

I got the Events decor from the blog. 

The weave I had on was sold to me by a BV (Stephanie- God Bless you dear). She cargo ed it ‎ all the way from Benin. 

My traditional bead was made by a BV (Rose darling -Thank you). It's so beautiful.

My hair stylist was from the blog. I sent a memo to IHN that I needed a hair stylist, Tessy called me and gave me Jojo, sweet, sweetest Jojo. Thank you.

To the bestest part of the day, My make up.

Sweetest Molara was doing a give away, I applied for it and she offered to do my makeup and that of my bridesmaids for free. I didn't believe it until I saw her with her crew on Saturday Morning. Molara didn't just do my makeup and that of my bridesmaid, she did for everyone in my house. They tied everyone's Gele. She even came down to the reception to do my touch. Darling, Thank YOU SO SO MUCH. God Bless You Dearie.

Finally to the woman behind the blog, the 1 who made it all possible. Madam Stella. God Bless your home.

Attached are some pictures.

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BEWARE OF THIS SCAMMER ASKING FOR USHERS
Stella,
''He or She has bin asking many of you to pay sum amount to be able to use you for ushers putting juicy money to entice you. Please do not Pay any money...

No one should ask for money from you

Please delete him/her from your contact if you have added him/her

The pin is 323A51A2.

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COMPUTER FOR SKILLS NEEDED

Stella bae, God bless you for this wonderful  platform where Rich and

kind hearted bv's reach out to bv's in need and distress. I work as a

computer teacher in a nursery school and i earn 8,000 monthly. We

close yesterday and will resume on September. I have people who are

interested to acquire computer skills but i don't have a personal

computer. I need a computer from a kind hearted bv, be it a laptop or

desktop. I want to keep myself busy throughout this 2 months  of term

break to impact knowlege and make small money. I can be reached on

08148099245

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THE CAKE FAIRY GIVE AWAY REPORT

Hello Stellakork the great. I published a giveaway sometime ago through your blog and I decided to pick a couple that couldn't afford a wedding cake as the winner. But they didn't get back to you about receiving the cake.  So I decided to do it myself.  My name is the cake fairy, I'm based in warri. I can be reached on 07033398273.

P's.  The two other people I gave free cakes to did not also send an ihn memo.

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PRIVATE SUMMER TEACHER

 Am a corps member currently serving in port Harcourt and I'd like to take students on home summer lessons this break. You can reach me on this number.08080224803

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LONELY HOUSEWIFE SEEKS MARRIED FRIENDS

THIS IS NOT A CHRONICLE

I am a 24 year old married woman, my marriage is 1year and 3months now and what I have seen, am not sure people who have been married for 10years have seen it.

I recently discovered I married a cheat, a chronic one. I never snooped during courtship and even when I got married. I have always respected my husbands privacy but one day unfortunately my Husband forgot one of his phone at home, I was on the phone talking to him that he forgot his phone when a blackberry message came in, the message popped so I could see what was written. What I saw was so disturbing as it had to do with sex, I opened it and read all their chats and I died and woke up again. I snooped further and found that my husband had numerous side chicks even before we married, even chats with his Ex saying that he misses her and all sort of raunchy stuff.

I confronted my husbands and he said I should not give my self a heart attack, that I should focus on the love he has for me and I should give him kudos for providing for the family and meeting all my need, that I should not bother my self with what he does outside, that all those things are inconsequential. The problem is that I can't get over the fact that I have a cheat as a husband.

I can't get over the images of the naked pictures I saw on his phone. I sleep and have nightmares, and I have been depressed since.

My biggest problem is that all my friends have all relocated out of Lagos because of marriage, my few friends here are colleagues from work and they are all single and my husband insist I must not have any single friends that a good married woman shouldn't be mixed up with desperate single ladies and they would mislead me.

All other friends are my husbands friends wife and they all seem to have their own circle of friends and are never willing to hangout. May I say I am not very good in making friends but I have kept the little I have.

It was my birthday recently and I spent it alone, my husband had to work on Saturday and I was home alone with my thoughts and my three months daughter.

I need a genuine female friend who is married with kids or no kids, anyone, as long as you are real. Someone who can gist, loves fashion like me, who can come visit me, I can do same to, we can go to the market together, pray together. Some one I can talk to, Some one who stays in Lagos.

I can be reached on this mail.

bosunoladimeji232@yahoo.com

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SOFT HANDS CRECHE AND PRESCHOOL OFFER IN BENIN

This looks like fun and will be good to occupy the kids whole you go about your day.

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Signing out shoki stylee
SDK

IN HOUSE NEWS SPECIAL

SHOCKING MAIL I RECEIVED

Hi Stella

For the purpose of this email i shall be called Amaa

I am a woman badly in need of pampering...i need a man who can me pamper me in every way a woman needs to be pampered....a romantic,sexual and intelligent man...

Are you my man?

Sure by now you are wondering;why this email....

I am a very pretty lady...tall,slim,dark with a wonderful gait....I am married,with two kids...10 and 7...a professional by training

I quit my job to be a stay at home mum by my husband's insistance,I kept the house and kept my body...trust me Stella,if i tell you I am still single,you won't doubt it

I have done everything to have a happy home,and i have succeeded at this except for one thing.I am lonely

Hubby has so taken all he has for granted ,including me...he has everything going for him so my needs does not matter....i suspect he has very low sex drive...Once in 3 months and my husband is satisfied...he is not getting it outside i can boldly tell you,cos I am the chair lady of team snoop....I am tired of begging a man to desire me...I am very good in bed oh,extremely wet and warm...had my kids by CS so that place is still very tight ooo.

Now i have decided I won't let all my hard work go to waste...if you are a man out there who desires what i can give and have all i need..then let's roll

I don't want trial and error,that's why I want to do a careful selection of the man...Please don't bother if you are not wealthy ooo...because trips and gifts are part of the deal

Discretion is key,because I am not leaving my husband,he is a good man,just can't help himself 

Thank you Stella....please post my email

Let the selection begin

Cheers

Madam oh,fear no let me include your email lest i be seen as supporting infidelity,however i posted your mail so that you would see the kind of reaction that might emanate from it.