Yesterday Former governor of Benue state Gabriel Suswam hit the headlines for the wrong reasons...He was arrested in the UK for pummelling his wife of plenty years to a pulp.
SHIDOO |
The reason the former governor beat up his wife according to insider was because she found out his long standing Mistress Shidoo Imo is heavily pregnant for the second time for the governor.
Note that these insiders whisper that although the former governors wife had tried all the tricks in the book to break up her husbands affair with Shidoo whom he began an affair with when she was 18years old.
Let me quote the insider directly
''Suswan has been dating Shidoo since she was 18years old and a student of Benue. Shidoo had a baby for him which caused a lot of hell in his marriage with Yemisi. She did everything in her power for him to severe ties with Shidoo but he refused.
When He eloped to the UK just before he handed over Yemisi found out Shidoo was also in the UK and heavily pregnant with the former Governors second child.
Na so she begin change names on documents to her sons name and some of her family members to ensure Shidoo and her kids don't get anything just in case anything happens to the former Governor
Gabriel found out, that was what led to the pounding of Yemisi that led to his arrest.
Yemisi is crying and has allegedly sworn revenge as she has clearly lost the heart of her husband who only kept face in the marriage with her because of his position as the governor of the state. He has sworn never to leave shidoo and was already planning to Marry her as soon as his tenure ended''.
It is also alleged that what infuriated the former Governor most is that one of the so called relatives whom Yemisi Suswam transferred their properties and monies to his name was a guy the former governor had been suspecting was Yemisi's side Le boo but those who know Yemisi who is a Deaconess with RCCG central Parish know that she has spent time on her knees trying to pray Shidoo away like a bad dream but just like the goat and its body odour are inseperable,so is former governor Suswam and Shidoo Imo.
She is of mixed parentage and a native of tiv in benue state and she Attended FGGC Gboko and went studied mass communication in Benue state university before the former governor shipped her off for her Masters in the UK.
British police are reportedly pressing the former first lady to file battery charges against her husband and if found guilty, the ex-governor could be jailed for about six months in the UK under the Persons Act of 1861.
I swear, the things prick n tohtoh de cause for this world...
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha I'm telling you. Nor be small thing o.
DeleteLol i dey tell u...Na only God fit solve am.
DeleteLol i dey tell u...Na only God fit solve am.
DeleteHehehe.. no b here
DeleteHe likes them fair o. He dated a colleague during service, bought her a car and nice apartment in abuja but the babe wise sha. E be like say the man dick get charm cos she confided in me that she had to go to mfm before she fit resist the man
DeleteBut if the lady has birthed a child for him bf what difference would a 2nd one make?
DeleteSome women can worry sha.
Bf u know bp and other stress related issues would just take your life. Very useless man. heehe,he probably thought was in naija
Besides no be benue they are same thing with kogi Randy men and women very rugged people.
I really feel sorry for his poor wife if this is true
DeleteHonestly, its not a small something that P and V causes. I feel bad for the wife. Aiyah
DeleteHonestly, its not a small something that P and V causes. I feel bad for the wife. Aiyah
DeleteThank God the arrest was done in the UK where he'll not be above the law.
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Well, Most men don't stay faithful. They were brought up to believe that being faithful is abnormal. Plus they have a thousand chicks flocking around them. It takes only a man who truly fears God and loves God to stay faithful. If it's just by loving his wife: fogerrit. Women should learn not to put their trust in men, you will just have high BP and die. Thank God this one isn't a calabar girl #rolls eyes# the wife is a sharp babe for changing the names on the property they own. Very wise step. His undoing was beating her. Let him chill in prison small, maybe he will learn his lesson when he returns. As for the pretty home wrecker, no need cussing her out. She can never have a home of her own.
DeleteNa the thing wey dey hungry goat dey kill am. (Waffi forefathers 1702)
DeleteYemisi should accept her as d new wife nah! After all she don born first one. Hian.
Buts a shame sha. An ex Gov who batters his wife. Tue!
Shame on him.
ReplyDeleteSuswam and Bsu girls???? Na long gist be that,him and his deputy are on the same boat.Am not suprise though cos that woman is always looking sad
DeleteSide chick breaking homes since 1900!
DeleteMany God punish all the side chick!
@Potable viv: what about the unfaithful husbands? May God have mercy on us all.
DeleteStory story.... Gabriel met Yemisi as an errand boy to her then boyfriend Chief Terry wayas and as a young linger throat who saw potential in Yemisi bcos her family has money he married her and her family sponsored his political dreams to be house of reps member.fast forward to 2007 he met and fell head over heels in love with Shidoo and Yemisi lanched a full fledged war only to find out that the poor girl isn't even alone in this Gabriel even has two kids with benita shuluwa who resides in London too bcos Yemisi was hunting her too. She didn't just change landed properties to her boyfriends name there is raw hard cash involved too that she and the so called boyfriend hid. Gabriel Torwua suswam the prayers of benue people who you starved, enslaved and insulted has only begun to get you so you don't pay salaries for 7months and owe pensioners for 10 months only to loose the money to your wife's boyfriend now I laugh in Igede Kikikikikikikuki. Pardon my errors am so excited
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm.......i raise breast for you anonymous!!!
DeleteBenita Shuluwa too? Tory worwor o
DeleteNa wa oh.
ReplyDeleteMatters arising everyday in this thing called marriage.
Young kills and killer ambitions... A memorable wedding is out of question.
DeleteYemisi, just take all you can. Your legacy at FUTMINNA as best graduated Architect still stands.
So sorry
*Young girls
Delete*auto correct weldone oh
.maybe he thinks he was still in Nigeria where u can beat ur wife nd get away wit it.She should press charges against him .
ReplyDeleteSee the first wife face .... not looking good at all..
ReplyDeleteSee Shidoo's face very beautiful.. why will the man not go out after her. women will not keep themselves well in their marraiages. always looking unkempt when they know that single girls are not smiling at all.
Shidoo what you have done just know that it will come back to you hundred folds.
Yemisi should come to my church and the fire go burn the girl well well.
Shut up!ignorant idiot!
DeleteIdiot. She's aged n that isn't her fault. How does she look unkempt? Always blaming women for men's stupidity n greed. And you are a woman. Clearly unmarried. Nor worry. Hand go met u for front. Shave ur pussy n be slim shady all u want. A beast is a beast. Just pray u don't marry one
DeleteAbeg where b ur church
DeleteIt's not about beauty! Shidoo is not d most beautiful woman or else suswam will still leave her too. He is just a wondering prick n Shidoo is a caused girl from deranged home. Suswam is allowed to marry more than a wife but wrong to keep impregnating a girl outta wedlock. Shame on him. I just pity the kids, no way crimes would end cause some people will keep doing things that their generations will be punished for. As for Yemisi, please make sure u change all d changeable to ur kids name.
DeleteHaba. His wife looks good na.
DeleteU r very very very stupid for saying she didn't take care of herself,yeye arubbish.ish a cheat wld always b a cheat whether u take care of ursef. Imagine blaming d woman for her husband's infidelity. Chai we women are our own worst enemy
DeletePls look at the man's face as well. So she is not allowed to get old like him? Or couldn't she have gotten a younger and more virile lover to care for her emotional needs? My dear, that's men for u. The moment their wives drop a few kids, they start jumping around
DeleteWhat do I hav to say? Forbidden fruit is the sweetest. He's still crazy over the husband snatcher bc he has not married her. She should cool down and let them get married, cos am sure Shidoo wil get exactly what she bargained for. Karma wil visit her, except if the first wife isn't faithful to him
My dear @love me even if mrs suswan is miss world her husband will still leave as long as it is time gor him to, moreover age is not on her side yhe side chick is just 18 or 20 abi? Watch out for her at Yemisis age. Well don ooh Shidoo mmsugh kpishi your time is coming coming mbatsav like you.
DeleteForget this pics o. Yemisi na fine woman and an Architect for that matter
DeleteIt means u don't know Yemisi. She is very pretty
DeleteSee this ignorant fool .some of these girls Don bam up seriously.
DeleteThat's how we went to show one man one property.the lawyer with us was a female from benue in abj here.
Before we left she told us that when we get there she would be the one to do most of the talking that we should allow her handle it..we allowed her as a lawyer.only for us to get there ,the man wasn't responding well he was taking here and there she just hissed and stood up and said be like this thing no dey work well make we shift am.we now left coz the man said we should come back in 2 weeks and behold before two weeks she called us let's go and meet the man we went, life and direct the man responded wella,and she was in changed of every.
hahahah mennn I bow for the girl. Fear benue and kogi.
SMH
DeleteSee insult!!! Lol
DeleteNa wa!!!
ReplyDeleteSo he eloped to the UK to avoid Buhari's jail term and is now being faced with his wife's jail terms....karma is a constipated bitch
Case of head wey go chop konk, even if he run from Lagos to Kafanchan, he go still chop the konk.
DeleteThe evil men do, even devil will say tufiakwa
STELLA STELLA....I HAIL U OOOooo...lol i know many sites will be scared of reporting this but Stella fears no one...hahahahaha
ReplyDelete4 me d gal no fine sef, if u must eat frog go for d pregnant one.. Hmm
DeleteHome wreckers everywhere. Even if he's your first boyfriend and you knew he was married why go ahead? Somethings are not meant to happen, he started dating you when you were still young does not mean he will marry you. He already has a wife. OK, let's say the first pregnancy was a mistake, haba babe what makes you feel you would be comfortable as a second wife? Knowing fully well you are the reason a woman is being neglected and battered. The first wife should press charges so the he goat will experience jail life.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what to say but I blame every woman who allows a side chick win. Madam Yemisi I don't think you have engaged every weapon in your arsenal except your hands ain't clean.
ReplyDeleteMadame it's not by your power. It's just God's grace.
DeleteExactly...
DeleteYemisi adiro sharp...no girl born of a woman will try this shit with me...
I will fight her with every strength in me...
Btw,rumour has it that Suswam has HIV...
Sweet Mother,i beg to differ.
DeleteHi-gini?
DeleteShidoo,ntọọ gị
..all these political men & top shots be liking fresh chics especially the light-skinned ones & y'all are blaming babes for bleaching abi...market must sell..lol
ReplyDeleteWow, this is serious, hope the shidoo of a girl didn't die the governor with jazz. The governor has denied this sha, let's watch n see
ReplyDeleteAfricans and jazz mentality. You sound stupid dumb fuck.
Delete*tie* @ fuck ur opinion. Run along its my opinion not urs. Ur the stupid dumb fuck
DeleteJazz ke! It's very ordinary. The man obviously liked what he saw.
DeleteOmo this gist wear heels oh, very sweet and sexy.
ReplyDeleteHian, some side chicks though. They aren't smiling anymore. Well, what can I say?
ReplyDeleteAh na wa o why would he beat his wife for whatever reason hian, Jesus fix it.
ReplyDeleteSDK dropping it haawt as ever! But Suswan na fine boi sha.....
ReplyDeleteStella,Stella the Korkus..The number one blogger,the hot news breaker, lol...Giving like it Hot. Hmm,Side checks ain't smiling at all. It's so heartbreaking loosing your hubby to another, I quite understand her pain,I pray God's healing to heart & may God fix her marriage right.
ReplyDeleteStella,Stella the Korkus..The number one blogger,the hot news breaker, lol...Giving like it Hot. Hmm,Side checks ain't smiling at all. It's so heartbreaking loosing your hubby to another, I quite understand her pain,I pray God's healing to heart & may God fix her marriage right.
ReplyDeleteIdiot Na u go end up for coffin ! Jealous much
DeleteU plus ur family will end up in d coffin soonest, wat did Stella do to u? Evil ppl everywhere wey no want make person grow! Thank God for Jesus, ur words will not come to pass, u can do jazz but u wil fall into d put u dig urself
Deletemnn... eating popcorn and waiting for the part 2...
ReplyDeleteCongrats love @Iphie dearie, I've been away oh,Thank God for His Mercies
ReplyDeleteWho cares if you are away?
DeleteMy darlyn Sue,i saw your shout out. God bless you.
DeleteBaby is fine. We have missed you here ooh..
God has been faithful dear.. hope you and yours are doing great?
I care.
Hahahaha Somto, why don't u jump into the lagoon with your bitter life
DeleteBut that Shidoo is really beautiful.
ReplyDeleteWhen an old man falls in love with a young lady there is very little his wife can do to break them up.
Poor Yemisi leave them to God if your conscience is clear.
Side chics everywhere. Make una no near my hubby oh. I will not go down on my knees for any one who tries dat. I will just go for shooting practice. Learn my targets well. Cos I gat no tym for kneeling.
ReplyDeleteUr hubby na one poor church rat...sidechicks only go for men who are loaded. Not ndi oji amù,eji ego like ur hubby.
DeleteHmmmmmmm. After shooting the chick hope you will shoot oga too. #smiles
DeleteWho wan look ya horseband face?
DeleteEnvy at its peak.all this broke and empty side chicks talking shut. Get urs .
DeleteR.I.P to his previous marriage
ReplyDeletePray he get the solitude he seeks
Chai!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is too messy
Wetin Shidoo give fmr Gov chop,which soup be that...
I do not even know what to say again
*smh
Shidoo beht why???
ReplyDeleteYou are beautiful, y lose ur virginity to a married man in the first place?
Y not go look for a man who wld love you, and one without baggage? Y make another woman cry in her marriage?
My dear, I pray God forgives you for making another woman cry all becos of ur stingy and selfish act...
Yemisi, pls it's obvious u av lost ur husband...
My prayers are with you and ur children, let God be the judge.
It's well with you dear!
Shidoo! Shidoo! Shidoo!
Infact lemme stop here...so angry mbok!
Infidelity in marriage can kill faster than any disease
ReplyDeleteStella please try and release comments ooo. Am sure the weather is doing bad things there.
ReplyDeleteSome men are just not it......
ReplyDeleteU can say that again Boo!
DeleteGbamest!!!
DeleteThis is hot....Na so D's man.be now!!!!
ReplyDelete@Omotola....u see so?
Hmmmm....make.I keep.mute.
@Siddo....u try well well
E go soon.clear for ur eye like @Caroline Danjuma
@Galore
Dis @ galore sef,
DeleteU like to join unconnected tins 2geda.
Oriegwu! Fix it Jesus.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing for Jesus to fix. D side chicks Fyn pass d Madam.
DeleteMehn
ReplyDeleteThese guys ain't loyal at all
WHAT A WASTED BEAUTY.
ReplyDeleteSo this young girl destroyed someone's home. May you experience the same. Also, where are her parent and family. So they allowed her get pregnant for a ,married man. Hos sad!!!! As for the OLOJUKOKORO MAN. May you meet ur Waterloo soon. If yoi can't stay married please be single. Mschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
This is Africa!Polygamy works here! So stop this ur rubbish prayer abeg. Some of u here,ur mothers are second wives and God has not destroyed ur mothers. So all these rubbish prayers don't work. The earlier women realize that,d beta. Mtchewwww!
DeleteDalu! @ nkwobi. Is it her fault she fell for him? At least una no call am ashawo. D wife would have just cooled down and b d senior wife. It's not by power to fight these things. Polygamy is recognized in our naija culture
DeleteUseless talk,polygamy is good,mschewwww,useless talk..
DeleteNkwobi na ishiewu.....hmm I smell sugar daddy lover.......u better repent...
Deleteolosho oshi.stupid desperate babes everywhere. dont worry you will soon become something else
ReplyDeleteThis is serious, only God can fix it.
ReplyDeleteEven if yemisi doesn't press charges, the state will do it on her hehalf; unless the man jumps bail (if he gets it).
ReplyDeleteShe needs to face her kids and hand everything over to God, her changing documents in her favour is only going to make the man more determined.
Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Not in every case. Sometimes when there aren't strong evidence to support, CPS or an ERO can make the final decision not to progress the case further. He might simply receive a caution dependant on the classification
DeleteLaw of karma ll definitely catch up with her. You break someone else's home, the bullet won't go astray; it ll go directly to the home wrecker.
ReplyDeleteDats how one is getting married to my dh and he is taking her to SA nxt month. Hubby said he wil die witout her, she is his life but I leave vengeance for God
DeleteDid you ask God before you married him?
DeleteWomen are dia own enemies!!
ReplyDeleteStory
ReplyDeleteIf it's guaranteed he will be jailed for six months, Yemisi should go ahead and press charges joor. I
ReplyDeleteBefore he comes out, she should sell off all the properties and move on with her life.
Sometimes in life, you lose some and win some.
Shikena.
Gbam
DeleteWhat nonsense she should sue him jor,all u side chicks wrecking home,karma is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteMz indomie says so.
Chai! Men and their wahala shaa. If he had stayed faithful to his wife, all this unnecessary drama won't come to play. Some single ladies should stop doing to married women what they can't take naa. Haba! Fine babe like this.
ReplyDeleteTongue out to those advising that lady on Tuesday's chronicles to allow her husband marry another wife so he can have biological offspring .Does Yemisi the ex First Lady of Benue not have kids for the ex Governor?it just shows that any man that wants to marry 20 wives will,no matter how many kids his wife gives birth to.The ability to make the right choices and not be self centred in decision making especially when you have decided to tag other people along in your life is what makes you a REAL man or woman.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for your answer. So many selfish decisions have taken people on journeys and aligned them with their enemies permanently. Shame
DeleteI don't know why a lot of mixed race girls in africa feels they are only good as side chicks..or marrying their ancestors. Parents shd help their kids with their self esteem
ReplyDeleteShe has money. Do you?
DeleteDon't be stupid please. What has money got to do with this. Money is not everything. I believe you have a brain.Exercising it once in a while would not hurt.
DeleteMoney that is already bringing her shame and disgrace. It's God that will punish her. It's normal for men to have side chicks and side chicks too should understand that the man has a wife and a home. If it's about the money why is she getting pregnant? Msheeeew.
DeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteNawa oooh
I will wait for insiders 2 bring more info
Wahalah! Who born two don enter finish ke. Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteThis shows he's been beating her before now. He needs to cool off in jail for raising his hand against a woman, his wife for that matter.
ReplyDeleteThere's no law prohibiting polygamy, but the man should seek his wife's consent and also carry her along. Whatever the case may be you don't mistreat the wife of your youth, just because of a 'stranger'.
I think Yemisi should go ahead and press charges bcos the marriage has ended already, given that she called the cops on him. So is better to have him do the jail term for beating her. Make she hold the documents she has changed in her children's name well or better still sell them off before he completes his jail term. Yeye dey smell.
ReplyDeleteOloriburuku of a man..............she should press charges joor
ReplyDeleteAunty sterra of life! Senior gbeborun! To say i over gbadun you is an under statement. In the business of aproko since 1900. �� and this gist right here is the high point of my day.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o!!!!
ReplyDeleteWith the way this our Nigerian men are wired, it's only prayers that can protect one's home. First and foremost women start enforcing your shock absorbers bcos in Nigerian Marraiges of now, if u do not want to die young its better u enforce one.
ReplyDeleteI have said it that in marriage I do not pray for cheating, but the way things are going, I have prepared my heart for it. I will not come and die.
All I need is a man that loves me(atlst for my face),takes care of me and my kids very well and respects me.
I am not going to start looking for things I wasn't sent in the marriage.
It is mountain of fire prayers I will use to bind my husband and any side chick, let God fight for you.
If you have mind set of my hubby or my boyfriend will never cheat, you are on a real long thing. Just live ur life and be happy. DO NOT LET ANY MAN TURN YOU INTO A ZOMBIE, then Yaba left will start calling your name.
I will do my duties as a wife,but that will not define me. You have to have a life outside marriage,if not you will go mad.
I always admired this Yemisi Suswam women, very pretty lady. But I guess she's not enough for that Goat she calls husband.
One really needs to pray even before choosing a spouse. "LORD PLEASE GIVE ME A HUSBAND OF THY CHOICE AND NOT OF MINE CHOICE". When God chooses the right person for you, even if satan tries to enter.God will prevail.
Gbam!
DeletePls I need this mountain of fire prayers. I need to pray dh out frm this soon to b wife side chick
DeleteAny mountain of fire ministries where I can go for deliverance. I stay at ajao estate. My dh ex has taken over my hubby, he has paid her dowry witout his family concept. He says he can live without her. Someone who threatned him when he left that she wil make him go and come back that she won't carry last. Dh hubby is planing taking her to his base abroad and abandon me and my 2yrs old daura. His mum, sibling everyone refused d marriage but he said he wil kill himslef if he dnt marry dis lady. Hw can a marry abandon us after trad, church and court weddding. He is currently in enmity with his family cos dey refuse his mariage. Wht did he say I do, I give him stress too much by calls to him, I go thru his phones, his family told him is not enuf reason to divorce me and immediately marrying someone else. D lady is even demanding his divorce me or else no mariage btwn them. That no wedding no mariage. So dh is on my neck to sign divorce.
DeletePls I need this mountain of fire prayers. I need to pray dh out frm this soon to b wife side chick
DeletePleAse look for any MFM book shop or church and buy Prayer passport or prayer rain books and check through the contents for what suits you and see the God of mountain of fire and ministries answer you by fire.iJN. Amen. Thank me later . G,O pikin.
DeleteSend it as chronicle so we advice u
DeleteAnon 16:53 I speak peace to ir marriage. Whatever my father God has not ordained shall never come to pass. It's well with ur soul. You will have the last laugh. Don't worry dear just trust God this too shall pass.
DeleteAnon 16 pls go nd pay your tites and sow seeds. It does wonders
DeleteAnon 16:53 pls don't waste ur time jor. U snatched him n he's been re snatched so relax 4 d snatching continues. People jst come here wit deir half stories n bvs jst jump @it n become praayer warriors.
DeleteMtweeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww
Maybe he doesn't love u n has finally found love if he's in enemity with his family cz of her woman ure the side chick n not her check urself
DeleteGod will heal her,as for shido,what goes around comes around,and its called karma. It is well
ReplyDeleteHow dare he hits a lady&his wife for dat mata, thank God it happened in d Uk&he wud b punished severely for it. If single gurls wud stop saying yes to all these married lot it wud b better.
ReplyDeleteWhatsoever u sow now,you wud so reap. It's nt a curse,its karma&a law, What goes around cms around, u don't cultivate rice&reap bean,Never!
I'll gladly leave a bad man for a side chick . I did it and I have no regrets.
ReplyDeleteChai.
ReplyDeleteShidoo home breaker,Mr Gov randy man,yemisi pls life goes on jare press charges n allow that man suffer small.
ReplyDeleteI talk am yesterday..Hmm..
ReplyDeleteBae jisike, you'll reap exactly what u have sown
ReplyDeleteMany times, women are their own worst enemies.
ReplyDeleteTo a very large extent, women can help each other curb infidelity by returning to old values.
Imagine if women decide not to sleep with whoever is not their husband, not even a boyfriend or fiance sef.
Imagine if women ever decide not to be prostitute.
Then to cap it up, imagine if perpetrators of rape cases are adequately dealt with.
No, just imagine.
Men will scramble to marry earlier with whatever means available and carry their wives like eggs cos their will be nowhere else to get love from.
But that can only exist in imagination, not so?
Sad indeed.
But Yemisi checks too and Suswam knows. He doesn't always go for light skinned girls. is the famous actress who is married light skinned? He also dated one Ibo single mother who's dark and has a massive ikebe.
ReplyDeleteThis Blog... My vocabulary is flawed to the maximum.
ReplyDeletechoi
Before you can say Jack Robinson
Dick and Tohtoh
Mumuism
like a bad dream but just like the goat and its body odour are inseperable
The last one got me rolling on the floor.
Shido my dear ehm face God oh Face God oh..
In short eh.. why God di waste time for answer now. This kina one di vex me about God oh. Hurry up oh. Shido when God di waste time for answer. Ehm your end is not going to be funny. History tells it. He given you grace to REPENT.. ok oh
make shido e friend advice am.
Madame Governor pele oh. Face Jesus Christ continuously before you come die for matter of marriage.
God bless you all.
Ok, so here we are with another issue of man wife and side chic. hmmmm, my comment may aggravate some people, but truth be told, men are polygamous in nature... it takes the fear of God and some serious grounding not to have your man stray. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Most women are married to men who don't truly love them, but can accommodate them ... the situation usually spans from one who thinks its time for him and he looks for the seemingly available good girl. when he gets mature and balanced out as a male, he seeks succor in the arms of a damsel, be it young or mature, he falls in love with her and cant let her go. which brings us to diverse love language situation and chemistry between 2 people.If there's no chemistry between 2 people, am sorry, there's nothing that can happen to earn love except a level of tolerance.
ReplyDeleteI do sympathize with his wife. Must be a crazy/depressing/frustrating situation for her. She may be to blame, she may not either way we cant take away the years she labored with him, seemingly in vain except for her kids and acquisition.
Those blaming the mistress can call her out from today till tomorrow. The guy has declared his affection for her and in all honesty may not leave her for his legally married wife.
Omo, make women de shine their eyes, heads and hearts well. sometimes we short-change ourselves emotionally thinking a guy will come around and he may not till many many years after when he is old, gray and lonely.
my epistle long, but these are my thots on the matter.... sad.
So sad, but d rate at which side chick's are taking over now, wives should be very careful now o.
ReplyDeleteMadam yemisi na you allow mosquito born 1st one now she dey release 2nd.the time she preg with the 1st child you for arrange boys to beat the baby out,if possible blind her or acid her face.suswam the he goat for don forget her long ago.i know wetin I take Ifeoma C.eyes see.dat one just wake up say na my stupid husband she wan thief.if I release details here my husband fit catch me. Ifebeke...na history.i take her eyes see her back...na she take her legs run.i learnt the mofo dey Cotonu the sell okrika...I can't laugh.This na chic when the form effizy,the work for bank...dem shine her Congo wella!! I ve since asked for forgiveness sha.Any other iffy Arise in future I go backslide finish am ,rubbish am,then repent again!!!
ReplyDeleteMadam yemisi na you allow mosquito born 1st one now she dey release 2nd.the time she preg with the 1st child you for arrange boys to beat the baby out,if possible blind her or acid her face.suswam the he goat for don forget her long ago.i know wetin I take Ifeoma C.eyes see.dat one just wake up say na my stupid husband she wan thief.if I release details here my husband fit catch me. Ifebeke...na history.i take her eyes see her back...na she take her legs run.i learnt the mofo dey Cotonu the sell okrika...I can't laugh.This na chic when the form effizy,the work for bank...dem shine her Congo wella!! I ve since asked for forgiveness sha.Any other iffy Arise in future I go backslide finish am ,rubbish am,then repent again!!!
ReplyDeleteCorrect.....my kind of woman. Me too don't mind back sliding to finish any side chic o. After suffering all these years with my hubby one yeye girl go wan chop wetin she nor cook.
DeleteAnd what if your husband lied to her. You want to go to jail because of a man that does not care that you exist. Wish you try that shit with a chic like me. For every attack, I will take out one child. Let us see who will cry the most. Desperate wives with no shame. Hanging on to marriage where the man does not care that you exist.
DeleteLol... I love side chicks :-D
Delete@ Anonymous 15:42, walahi you are the most wicked of women. Did you hear yourself? That a man put you under his roof as a wife is a huge travesty for starters. Or perhaps, he is a cursed man too who has lost favor with his Maker and, hence, both of you ended up together. Gosh!
DeleteBia ni my fellow country men and women this man matter no start today oh ,even solomon and david wey be the men after Gods heart shebi una know them history.If you like be prayer warrior or if you like be the head of osun river when side chic come for your man nothing you can do oh ,so just be yourself and live your life ,always make sure as a woman you have something doing that gives you income ,and side chics is always associated with rich guys ,show me one poor man that has side chick
ReplyDeleteDem plenty everywhere. Poor men get side chicks, don't 4get every category of man get e grade of woman.
DeleteThe mistress broke up the marriage though he had the ring on his finger and broke his vows? He pummeled his wife and ruined his family life. I'm trying to shift my brain to the altered reality that's written here, where the mistress makes a man hurt his spouse because of special powers ordained to her by God?
ReplyDeleteMrs. Suswam made herself to look bitter. She would have upped her game and not allow side chick to win. I have seen 50 years old woman that kept herself well and the husband keeps falling in love with her. when you see your husband is after some chicks, check what is attracting him to her and then fight for what is yours.
ReplyDeleteall those cussing me, una dey craze for head. make una stay there side chicks go collect una husband. be feeling funky. dont try and do something that will keep your mind at rest.
any that wants my church address should mail me.
Smart move on the wife's part, changing the names on all property documents to her son's.
ReplyDeleteIf not for money, what will she be doing with him, when there are younger men to appreciate her beauty.Let her press charges o jare, to teach him a little lesson, when siddo don't see him or money for 6 months, she will know how far!
What i believe is that a man that will stray will mo matter how cutie his wife is or not. A manager that impregnanted his maid confessed that his wife is pretty,can cook, is adventurous in bed n dresses well so hes proud to be seen in the public with her but his maids to square (toto) has this peculiar odour that he cannot resist. In this case should the wife go make her T.O square smell like the maids? This things are natural n theres nothing that can be done. My philosophy as regards this men disloyalty is to be prepared at all times for the worst if it happens fair if not good. I just look a friend in the uk to bp bcause of her hussy of 13yrs. So sad now he gave a wonderful burial with the side chick very busy serving guests, even our shu shu shu did mot deter the bade.
ReplyDeleteAll this die, die, die, die no they work oooo. stop praying for die die die.
ReplyDeleteGo to a better bible believing church and you will see how wonders will work for you.
U dey fear...u better leave ppl horsebands....
DeleteThe wife should file the battery charge and use the six months or however long he gets to sort out her affairs, meaning getting her money together out of the union. How she going to think she can compete with a young woman in her prime especially when her husband heart is set on this girl. Let them have each other and she move on in peace. This man wasn't thinking of preserving his marriage when he was hooking up with the young girl, and after impregnating her twice isn't that enough humiliation for the wife? No need to fight and bend yourself into a pretzel to be dehumanized by a mortal man, know your worth and let him see that you can move on with dignity. Even if your heart is tearing apart you don't have to show him, he has put another woman above you so why would you fight for someone who is not fighting for you. Women and forever tying up their worth and value into men.
ReplyDeleteThat's if she doesn't intend to step Nigeria again. Biko they'll just waste her o. Politicians are ruthless and have no blood running thru their veins. Imagine all his loots that he's been saving for rainy days, she should now take everything plus send him to jail? He'll come out one day and go after her o. Or even while he's inside he can arrange for her. All she's struggling to keep will end up in someone else's hands if they clear her off the way.. God forbid. I'm just thinking the worst that can happen. Perhaps because I have seen similar cases before. She should just leave if she cannot stay married to him anymore. If she files for a divorce the court can grant her alimony. That should do, she shouldn't attempt to take every every just to punish him. She'll regret it.
DeleteIt is well.God pls fix it
ReplyDeleteIf she press charges,she's ruined for life cos her kids will call her wicked for sending their father to jail.
ReplyDeleteI will always say it that all men cheat...It is left for us women to be smart and go with the flow.
Yemisi,please press the charges.
ReplyDeleteAs far as Yemi is concerned,the marriage is dead. Changing the names to her kids' names is anoda form of serving Gabriel Zuzubenu divorce letter.
Let him be jailed n by the time Shin looks for him for six months,she go hear am.
Again,girlfriend,if he goes to jail there,he will be an ex-convict in the future and that will affect him .Yeaaah#inWendyWilliamsvoice
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You forgive and accept Shi as your co-wife
Again,if you press charges,money laundering issues must come up and as a former 1st lady,you follow chop o
All these First Ladies dey see ooo. Na so Fashola go born twins outside. Now Suswan too. This is sad.
ReplyDeleteAnon 16:53, and you're still calling him DH. Na wa o
ReplyDelete@ anon 21:19 he is still my dh. I wil stand in for this mariage, till d jazz clear frm his eye. Heaven wil hear my case
DeleteAmen and Amen..... keep holding on buy be wise in ur decisions.....you deserve to be happy too.
DeleteWhat I know about suswam, when I served in benue state, he can sleep with a dog,he slept with my friend lilian and her sister.she was a hungry girl.shidoo has always been his babe, he has attempted to marry her but due to societal pressure he couldn't. Yemisi suswam only has a child. I think she should do what's best for her. She tried for him, his life,career.if he was a nobody shidoo won't stick around.good luck to shidoo she would cry and suffer the same fate.
ReplyDeleteEdidiong didi ukpo leave married men alone
ReplyDeleteI don't feel sorry for Yemisi when she used to sleep with peoples husband as a student in FUT Minna she didn't think it would ever happen to her abi? She likes to form holy and good girl from a rich background but its all crap. She was dating military big boys when we were in university. She later moved to Abuja and upped her game to include the famous 'Jerry Boy' and became an Abuja big girl, she was living in a BQ on Aso drive which was a big deal then. It was in that period that she met Suswam who was a young lawyer then who used hustle in Abuja but really hadn't found his purpose in life and just hung around the big boys running errands for them. He didn't have a place of his own so he quickly moved into Yemisi's little apartment and living off her.
ReplyDeleteI believe one of her older friends must have advised her then to make sure he married her legally so he would not chop and run. Then came the death of Abatcha and subsequent hand over of military to civilian rule and Suswam was elected into the House of Reps, The sky became his limit. He had always been a guy man who dated several women at a time sha, prior to marrying Yemisi he had a son with his girlfriend who was a manager in a bank. I guess a leopard never changes its spots? I doubt that this will end their marriage as this isn't the first time he's dated a girl so publicly. As for Yemisi, her karma isn't perfect either so what goes around comes around.
Hmmm see story. So she must be the lady that was fighting over Terry with Eno Olafisoye? By the way, has anyone seen Eno lately? Saw her recently and she looked so bleh bleh... Haggard and out of place. I won't forget that lady in a hurry. Had enough encounters with her, though indirectly. She fought hard to remain with Terry, so much that she became a nuisance. I think it's all gone sour now even as they have a child together? Dayummm babes ain't smiling.
DeleteDo you know God at a All, Y wish your fellow woman all these. My dear old things are past away. God forgive her sins long ago. I wonder how your love is vid you sound so bitter
DeleteGbam!!! All these married women will be screaming "Bitches leave my husband", meanwhile, they were once Bitches destroying other people's homes. I don't feel sorry for any single one of them...
DeleteThank u jare. When dem don do bad finish bad tin happen 2 dem dey will b crying wolf. Women like one sided stories a lot n it pisses me off. One is up there tlking nonsense. 2mr all dis ashawos in nollywood will get married n still ve d guts 2 fight side chicks. It's so fucking annoying.
DeletePrick n money. God help us.
ReplyDeleteIf you have never been a side chick, slept with someone else's husband or dated a married man, put your hand up and register here... My thought is that there are plenty liars here.
ReplyDeleteAbeg!!! I no send side chicks, I take care of myself and kids, travel and make us have a good time. No Man will send me to an early grave or have me sleeping in church over his randy ways and sexual escapades. If a Man is not having sleepless nights over you, why are you killing yourself over him?
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDelete"God will punish side chicks, God will punish side chicks" that's what lots of people are saying on this blog but the same God has forgiven Yemisi for her past sins long ago abi? Hahaha very funny.
ReplyDelete1. Benita dated Suswam but didn't have any kids for him.
2. Eno Olafisoye wasn't in the picture when Yemisi was around Terry.
3. Suswam was by no means Shidoo's first married lover just her most prominent.
4. Suswam isn't going to marry anyone of his side chicks, he's just being a regular Naija 'bigman' - when you have money you chase plenty young girls and if your wife finds out she goes to church to pray or if body too hot her, she leaves the marriage.
@sis eko they are still friends oh. he doesn't fight his baby mamas (I think it's all gone sour now even as they have a child together?) Eno is like that. today she looks good tomorrow she looks dirty.
ReplyDeleteAbegi,why yemisi dey cry?after all her younger sister has a child for a married man,the child is 2yrs old
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