Docs where una?
MEDICAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL?
Hello Stella,
I need the help of Doctors,Sex expert and all blog visitors.
Let me go straight to the issue.......
I always go dry during sex, after the first round or even during i will suddenly go dry and no amount of foreplay will get me wet.
It is always frustrating.
I have been married for 7years with 3kids to a very nice and lovely
man. I had my very first sexual intercourse 3weeks to 33rd birthday, i
dont know whether my case is medical or psychological. I need tips on
what to do to deal with my situation.
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HARD BONE INSIDE VAGINA
HARD BONE INSIDE VAGINA
Hello Stella !
I'm a 19 year old female who has been sexually active for almost 3 years. I've observed that there is a kinda hard-bone inside my vagina. I mean immediately after the entrance, on the front wall of my vagina precisely. It is hard and elevated, rough and painless.
Is it part of the normal female anatomy? Sometimes during sex the dick smacks out cause of the bump .. I'm really bothered because it's always been there but I'm just really beginning to take it seriously. Thanks.
Poster 1 .... try another man if you cannot manage with your husband.
ReplyDeletePoster 2..... all these medical issues, God will fix una ooo.
Kehinde Ake n Irene make una show face *waiting f comments*
ReplyDeleteKehinde Ake has ntwk issues.
DeleteLmao
DeletePoster one- just get yourself a good lubricant. Some people are just like that. Save yourself the discomfort and get a lube
DeletePoster 2: I think what ure feeling is your cervix. Sometimes it is very low. The cervix feels hard like the tip of your nose. Sometimes it goes upwards or lowers itself. Depends on your cycle though. But you can go do a physical exam to put ur fears aside.
19 yrs and been having sex for 3yrs. Smh. May Jesus fix you. I pity the size of your vagina 10yrs from now.
ReplyDeleteFace ya tohtoh. Leave her alone!
DeleteThis one pass me o.
ReplyDelete@ Lady with bone in your punani, see a gynecologist.
ReplyDelete@ first poster, There are foods and fruits that enhance vaginal lubrication during sex. Can't type plenty things now. I wan ice cakes.
Just google " fruits/foods/vegetables that enhances vagina lubrication during sex.
Toyin, God bless you for this write up.
Its really sad and it keeps getting worse. Some humans no longer have conscience and their humanity is gone.
Just 3 days ago opposite my shop, two hausa boys were fighting. Serious fight ooo. Me kpakpa be woman and certainly not in a good state to seperate fight. Lo and behold, the other guys around were busy enjoying the fight and never made any attempt to seperate the boys.
The one that shocked me was an elderly man old enough to birth these boys. This man was busy recording the fight and smiling irritatingly.
I jejely close my gate and yelled at him: oga you wicked o. Na until this boys kill each other you go seperate them? Wetin you dey video? You wan release movie? Tufiakwa!
Immediately, he kept his phone in his pocket and moved in the direction of the fighting boys.
That is how bad it is. Most people now find pleasure in the pain and death of their fellow humans instead of rendering help.
Well, as they say, karma is always ready to dish us our own when its time.
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DeleteHow did i copy and paste the comment i made in Toyin's post here?
Na wah ooo.
@poster 1 KEHINDE and Irene b would help u out they re good. Wink.
ReplyDelete@ poster 2 ur 19 and u have been active since 3 yes so u started at 16, jeez whats this world turning into, the rate of promiscuity is becoming alarming, bk then at ur age I was busy with books not men, pls stick to ur books. Can't deal
Serious matters!
ReplyDeleteWill read comments from ELENA and other doctors here. It's well. Its best to also go to the hospital.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 sorry in advance for the tongue lashes you'll receive from bvs. Them dey para for here gannn o!
Poster 2
ReplyDeleteYou're a transgender in the making.
Caitylin things..
Will read comments from ELENA and other doctors here. It's well. Its best to also go to the hospital.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 sorry in advance for the tongue lashes you'll receive from bvs. Them dey para for here gannn o!
Owk Na!!
ReplyDeletePoster 1... Always use lubricant wen makin love. Poster 2... If ure a slim gurl den its normal.
ReplyDelete@1, I think is psychological, use lubricant.
ReplyDelete@2, never heard of ur condition before, c a doctor.
`håª"håª"aåª my belle o.. @ the 19yrs old who have been sexually active since 3yrs ago.Bv will flog u today. But on a medical side,I think u shoul see a gynae,but since its painless,I will assume its because you are still growing as a female.but to be 100percent sure,go see a gynae.@ Poster1,try using lubricants. If you can't get hold of ky gelly,you can use homemade coconut oil. Goodluck with the decisions you both make.
ReplyDeleteOnly jesus can fix it
ReplyDeleteBone inside vaginal?omo dis is serious o,
ReplyDeletePoster one, start using Vaseline whenever you want to make love, God will see you through,
ReplyDeletePoster 2 at 19 you are already having sex, I don't have any advice for you.
Poster 2 visit a gynaecologist.
ReplyDeleteyou mean u're 40years old????
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong with being 40yrs??
DeleteAshewo girl, they have been fucking you since age 16, why won't be a bone blocking you
ReplyDeleteFace ur own toh toh
DeleteI'm not sexually attracted to my husband , he's big down there but I don't come I only pretend to come whenever I am high or tipsy, but when sober it's frustrating cos he really tries but I get nothing and he comes .
ReplyDeleteGive me his number.
Delete@ Anonymous 12.38pm, put your mind back into where you put your back to avoid being shortchanged in the bedroom. Xes is a lot more than amazing when a couple is in sync.
DeleteDear anonymous, try to lubricate urself properly b4 penetration also engage in foreplay b4 love making.
DeleteTeenager 19 yrs old I have no advice for u. Focus on ur studies!!
He he he....quicksilver wants to confirm if u're not exaggerating
DeleteAnonymous 12.38.....u better start getting sexually attractive to your hubby.cos If u don't side chicks will get attractive to him and will be to late to win him back ,becareful wat u wish for.
DeleteQuicksilver Maka why?....
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha....
Hahahahahahahahahahaah
NAwa o just 19 and over 3 years again. Ok na
ReplyDeletePoster 1: it happens to some people. Ur husband should always lubricate down there and u too, put ur mind to the sex(at times, it might not work).
ReplyDeletePoster 2: sexually active for 3yrs and u r 19? Bv's will finish you today. Lol. As for ur problem, i'll check myself and see if Urs is normal. Lol
Yeye pikin! U started having sex at 15. You no try. Madam sometimes you get dry when you are stressed or when love is no more there. But I think douching contributes to dryness
ReplyDelete19 - 3 = 15.
DeleteArithmetic hard gaaaaaan..
@Poster 1...Intense foreplay before any thrusting at all, that's all you need. Be so wet that it could fill a cup then ask oga to put it in.
ReplyDelete@poster 2. Let me get this, you put your finger in that much? How do people do that? Let my superiors help you. 19 and active for 3 years?? Omo..I be learner where you dey niyen.
Btw...
My reply to that "finding cooked food in your boyfriends house" post was swallowed up somewhere.
I will eat that food with better rice or swallow as the case may be, then when le boo comes back I will ask why he is cheating on me with someone who can't cook better than me or commend him for getting someone better.
Trust me! Before the end of that week, I will find someone to cook me up down there, spicy and peppery with oils and cuffs!
This thing is not hard o. You cheat! I cheat! No need shouting, weeping or causing a scene, I no even get strength.
That's how boify cheated on me with a certain girl on an online forum, I found out and before I brought it to his attention, I picked a guy on that same forum too and strafed him, after which I simply asked le boo to tell me who was the main or side chic between me and the girl so I could assume my role perfectly. He denied first, then begged, of course I forgave...who am I not to?
Now he says he wants to marry me because I am so understanding and tolerating. Who go marry person wey go comot house and you go kom dey reason whether na him dey on top or below or if he his sticking it down a big or small hole? Hian!
Poster 2, I think u have a gift, but u r in d wrong country. Go to Russian, u can be used as a high class detective and paid millions, any man wey shook him thing, u hook am with the bone , e go confess any crime
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh!! Hahahahahha that's harsh though.
DeleteSilly immature comment
DeletePoster 1, it takes an average woman 20 to 30 mins to get aroused. U need to concentrate on d foreplay more than the main action. Some women feel very dry after the first round but with foreplay u can get wet again. It happens to me so I know what am saying.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Go see a gyno. He or she should perform pelvimetry to determine the shape of ur pelvic via vaginal exam to see if that is d shape of ur pelvis.
Another possibility is something called Vaginismus. Women vaginal muscles are quite strong and clamp down before and during intercourse often unconsciously.
Just go see a gyno. Am a marriage doctor not gyno.
@ Claris David, you are right about the foreplay. Most men lack the patience to engage in excessive foreplay before diving in with their fishing tools. What some of us don't know is that a good number of women cannot have Orgasm from dick-penetrative xes. This will where the fingers, nostrils and tongue come in to compensate and give her that sheet-grabbing Orgasm. Women can stand for themselves by telling their partners what works for them rather than faking orgasms to massage the male fragile ego.
DeleteLet's just work with some tips on staying juicy thru d xesexercise.
ReplyDelete1. Exercise. I usually don't make a list here without including the old faithful exercise. Jogging, pelvic exercises, planking and squats help to tone up the xes muscles for increase blood flow to the vjay. If you can do Yoga, start now, it will help to direct your mind n energy. This control is useful during xes to retain your interest n not lose it midway into the act.
2. If you are in the habit of binging on caffeine and other stimulants, you should cut back or totally stop. They v a tendency to inhibit arousal of the genitalia during xes
3. Drink plenty of water, eat watermelon(seeds too) carrots n fresh vegetables.
4. If you have access to nono (fresh cow milk) like Habib Yoghurt. It revs up the hormones responsible for intimacy n induces libido in xes. A higher libido translates to wetness.
5. Bitchplis did mention putting a cube of Maggi into a glass of malt drink to make the vjay rain during xes. Many of us laughed it off without giving it a shot. Madam, it works. I am not saying I drank Maggi in malt.
@ Poster 2, go for physical examination with a Gynae. Your condition is not a common anatomical feature. The pubic bone is not that prominent in the vagina.
Gbam. Xesologist has spoken.
DeleteMaybe God decided to construct a wall of Jericho in there so that u'll learn how to close ur legs. U've been sexually active since u were 16?!!!!! C'mon!
ReplyDelete@poster1: I think your libido is low,eating cucumber will enhance it. This may not be good if you are not through with child birth.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,i laugh in spanish...19yrs old nd u hav been sexual active fr almost 3yrs ago,smh 4 u..u betr face ur studies 4 nw nd frgt abt mr dickson.
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ReplyDeleteP1, it's psychological, get ky jelly.
ReplyDeleteP2, Na abortion wey no comot finish *lmao*
Poster 2 you have been sexually active for almost 3 years now? And you are just 19? Such Impetus!!! I guess the cause is early knacking @ such an early stage when your pussy never ripe
ReplyDeleteBoth of you need to see a gynecologist ASAP.
ReplyDeleteBoth of you need to see a gynecologist ASAP.
ReplyDeleteLOL@'I am nineteen years'. I sincerly think ure quite young for sex.
ReplyDeleteVaginal dryness can be caused by an alteration in the pH of the vagina which can be caused by certain factors like having multiple sex partners, irritants caused by chemicals in soaps and body wash, inadequate foreplay before intercourse, diet, candidiasis, bacterial vaginosis, STIs, etc. From your post, I guess we can rule out multiple sex partners and inadequate foreplay. So, I advise you to change your body wash for now, esp if you're bleaching. Most bleaching creams and soaps aim to effect general body dryness which can also affect the vaginal pH. Soak all your panties in hot water and dettol or better still, purchase new ones. Ensure that you eat a balanced diet always, lots of vegetables, fruits and yoghurt. Most importantly, pls get to a nearby hospital and get tested for Vaginitis and STIs. We don't pray for that but you never can tell wat darling DH has been up to. Also work on your psych. Relieve urself of every tension and stress when you want to do the do. Focus on beautiful imaginations, lush green gardens, while imagining you're the Queen of England and your DH, a noble prince
ReplyDeleteP2, I pray you receive sense, Amen
@ Lyndy, you did raise some candid points. Foods and a adoption of certain lifestyles will help with the physiological while the daydream during xes though a contrast to focus is a remedy for the psychological. The key to aweome xes is trapped in the mind.
DeleteHa ha ha@queen of England
DeleteSilly 19 year old child. So you've been sexually active since 16. I pity you and in your stupidity you do not realize that what u described is your cervix. It's normal in the female anatomy
ReplyDeleteLmao @ Kehinde Ake has ntwk issues.
ReplyDeleteKeHinde Ake: u b case.. Lol.
Poster 1 and 2
ReplyDeleteCall Ake on phone
Sex has to do with d mind,if ur mind is there u can even get wet b4 any fore play, if ur mind is not there,getting aroused will be hard. Saying it takes an average woman 20 to 30 mins to get aroused is wrong.
ReplyDeleteThe anterior vaginal wall is overlied by soft tissues like the bladder and the urethra, meaning you are not likely to have a bony prominence there. From your description, I assume what you feel superiorly at the 'entrance' of your vagina is likely to be your pubic arch. This is the inferior border of the point where your pelvic bones meet anteriorly (your pubic symphysis). It may appear more prominent in skinny women. Being a part of the anterior boundary of the pelvic outlet, we assess for it while carrying out clinical pelvimetry on pregnant women. If my assumption is right, you have no worries, it is part of your anatomy. It only becomes worrisome in pregnancy if you have a subpubic angle of less than 90 degrees. It connotes inadequate pelvic outlet meaning difficulty with vaginal delivery. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteYou just drowned me in medical jargons.
DeleteGoing back to cuddle teddy.