Arrrrrrgh!!..cant deal!
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BLOWING THE WHISTLE ON A SIBLING
BLOWING THE WHISTLE ON A SIBLING
Auntie Stella,
You rock o!! I have been reading your blog for a long time. here's my problem. My brother has been dating this Liberian girl for almost one year now. Shes beautiful no lie. her yansh dey big pass Kim K. Nice shape. ( No homo), He met her when he first got in the US. She is a registered nurse and is very comfortable. The thing is the girl was married before and has two children, but my brother has never met them.
Every time he asks she says its not time yet. Her ex husband is a constant presence in her life. He eats dinner at her house everyday. My brother is not allowed to come around when her children are there. He only goes to her house if they kids are with their father. The ex calls her about everything and she does the same. I feel for my brother because its like he's in the middle like a fool. She refuses to have another child although my brother dont have any. Stupid Mr. Idiot has agreed knowing very well it will kill our mother.
I have talked to this boy but its like this girl yansh has covered his face. she's 29 and he's 37. when I asked her all she says is, she's was married for 10 years so she's not in a rush. Sometimes I feel she and this ex are still in love with each other. You should see them together or see her on the phone with him. The ex is a white man with good money so I don't know if she only want my brother for the d and keep her whit man for his money because my brother is trying but he's not there yet.
My fellow BV's should I tell my mother about this and break the trust with my brother or should I find someone else for him. Help me o before this girl take my brother mind from his family. He is too into this girl.
At 37 your brother is an adult and must know what he is doing...I would also not want my kids to meet a side boo if i was the one.She respects her kids and their father,thats how i see it...Your brother is the one who doesnt have his priorities straight up....Does he have his papers?..he is probably using her for sex and trying to settle his 'papers'....Apologies if i am wrong.
I think you should mind your business....Carry your nose and stick it in your own affair....lol
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TORN BETWEEN THE EX AND THE PRESENT
I need some help getting out of a situation I used my own two feet to walk into. Let me explain , for two years I've been dating the most amazing guy he is my best friend , pal and he's the most understanding man I've ever seen, then we had some problems he became stubborn annoying , didn't even want to talk about settling down and it's not like I'm getting younger, he started fighting over the smallest things, breaking up with me over and over, till it was like we were not going to last.
During that period with pressure from my family I started dating someone from my own place , the guy was an ass , I was like ok as long as my family can see that I'm dating someone they will stop praying for me to marry and using me as topic for morning prayer, this guy kept misbehaving rarely picked calls, acted out , didn't reply messages , his friends told me he was a serial flirt and would never take me serious, I just ignored so the family doesn't talk, few months later main boo turned a new leaf got serious actually popped the question to my obvious pleasure , now letting go of the new guy he decided to be serious, I've done everything to make this guy walk away , he goes around begging my family, friends and relations to beg me to please forgive him and love him , that he wants to marry me , he calls every five mins no matter how many times you ignore his calls and has gone above and beyond to prove himself . Now I'm so confused who to choose, the best friend who is always there for me , or a guy who has proved himself that against all odds he will be there always. This situation has turned my life upside down.
I'm never happy and I don't know what to do.. Any advice ??
When it comes to telling it how it is,i say my piece of mind without chewing the words.
Seems like you are stuck between 'the devil and the deep blue sea'.
Both men dont sound serious from your explanation and please forgive me to say this but you also sound desperate and confused..
When the right man walks into your life,he comes with/in peace,YOU WILL KNOW!
Cool down and have a selah moment if you must end up with any of them...A selah moment will give you extra eyes to see what you cant see.
Good luck.
God pls help your pple...
ReplyDeleteDt guy shld be castrated! @poster1.
Poster 1: Two things that make men, some though, not all, in the USA loose their senses are nursing job wife and green cards. Big ass is secondary. I can tell you because I know. So either of the first two is what your brother is targeting.
Deleteposter 2: you really know deep down that the first guy is the one you want but how can you be sure he wouldn't act up later again. So thrash out his last act with him, then trust me, lover boy number two will find his level if he sees that you're taken. Best of luck.
Calabar chick, na poster brother u say make dem castrate so?
Delete@poster1 : what you have is brother ODE...
Delete@poster2 : recharge your brain.
I choose Smile 4G LTE
ReplyDelete*dat messed up silly girl*
Mifi or router?
DeleteWhy r u even telling us? Hehe
Jesus fix it!
ReplyDeleteBrb!!!
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Emjay, I can swear you don't know how to cook.
DeleteWitch! Lol
DeleteAnno hikpo will kill u soon....leave emjay alone...oshi
DeleteAnony 15;46
DeleteAswear u av a prob. Lmao
Wat as food got to do wit dis post?
Hahahaha
Delete15:46, what an off topic. Lmao
1st?
ReplyDeleteLolzz,Irene B even u,d struggle is real,TGW will be first tomorrow,irene it will get to ur turn on friday,chizoba where re u?
Deleteem baby,just kidding.
DeleteEagerly waiting for Friday tho
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteTell everyone oh. Sometimes, men make silly decisions. So tell. Your mother and everyone oh. So they will be aware.
Poster 2
Well done. You don fuck two people now oh. Tomorrow, you go come here
dey form saint
I guess some people were surprised that I am married. Well, formally yes. But I live alone in Nigeria and that makes me a Bachelor, socially.
My wife and two little sons stay in the country Buhari is presently visiting. They will be there until they are done with elementary school. I wouldn’t want to take them to high school there, as that will make them too powerful and out of control. So they will do secondary school in Nigeria and I am still yet to decide on college.
My wife works as a technical analyst and I consider that as a boring desktop job. She does so in order not to have gaps in her career. I don’t like this because the children are left at the mercy of the nanny for longer periods of time. To her, I am the best husband in the world. We meet at least 6 times a year, either by me going or by she coming. I can't trade her for anything. I have walked someone out of my house simply because she said she is more endowed than my wife.
Most of my women know I am married and they don't care. The younger ones have bills to pay. Even though these bills are nothing more than human hair, i-phones, hand bags or rent. You know, the female folks like spending on things to appear flashy and make their fellow females feel inferior. Meanwhile, the older ones, especially the career women, are either greedy, lonely or just want some unusual adventure.
Women can be very brutal to anything they don't like. That's why they can be wicked to house helps, be harsh as bosses in the office and so on. So it's fun watching the lion change into the cat, by the power of sex. Forgive my passion.
And no, I don't have money. I never said I did. Having money is relative.
And no, I am not good in bed and don't care about being so. Only my wife deserves my energy.
The only difference between me and your husbands is that..... Actually, there is no difference.
We are all angels in front of our wives. It's only a man who does not respect his wife that would rub it on her face.
Now, normally, people will say "nemesis will catch you soon" or "your wife will cheat". To be frank, it will be a pleasure to see that happen. As an old school nigga in the game, I chose a woman who married God before she married me. Her love for God is too much and I will be glad to see it tested. Hehehe.
Face your own life. You sure have a lot of problems you don't even know about. There is a higher probability that your husband will cheat, than he will not.
I just dey laff the woman wey write in earlier today. She was still making the fundamental error of saying "men should not cheat", instead of addressing the reason. Who knows, her husband may be worse than me. Funny life.
I am very good at my job, I respect older people and I observe the laws of any country I find myself in. I write technical articles for my society’s website, but most of you will find it boring. Amebo gist too sweet and has no rival. So my personal life should not be anybody's problem, except my wife. And right now, she is living in bliss... and so shall it be forever.
Oh no, I have lost all the blog visitors that had crush on me. *sobs sobs*
Stella, in short, this should be the next chronicle. But ehm ....*scratches head*.... what do I need advice on?... aha... got it.... "How do I live a sincere life devoid of pussy?"
We are many oh. Most men either do not have the finance to pursue their inner desires, or are just damn dangerous pretenders.
Liar.
DeleteYou too talk oh....jeeez! I would like to know you
DeleteIt's a Super Story...
DeleteBla bla bla...
DeleteLol.....hahahahahaha
DeleteActually enjoyed hour write....
Never had a crush on you so no love lost.....
Heaven or hell most have occupants (..scratches head ain't saying hell is yours )....just saying everyone can't be the same
Lol
Why don't you send it as chronicles of hope ..hope that you would live a life devoid of cats ..lmao
Am a young lady, I don't have needs (i-phone,hair etc) as I can take care of me by myself. I just need ur D! Still crushin on u all d same. Na today?
Delete*dat messed up silly girl*
Advice for bachelors in the house, marry a woman that loves God. That's the only way out. Any woman that doesn't love God can do anything. Apart from cheating on you, she can even kill you.
DeleteYour and not hour. ....lol. .keep it rolling
DeleteBwahahahahahaha..Werey man.
Deleteno worry, u never lost me.
DeleteWow!
But I bet ur wife wld av her doubts abt u.
Only 6times in a year?
Even ur wife self go dey cut small small coded shows outside away from ur kids.
Wateva rocks ur boat ojare.
Loool, you haven't lost all, I still have a crush on you.... hahahaha
DeleteYou too talk. *yawns*
DeleteI like and dislike you at the same time.
DeleteJeez mahn!
@ money makes you fuck a lot of women without stress, I LOVE YOU! Tell them oooo. Address issues, stop chasing shadows, I am a woman, do I trust my man yes y? Because he will rather die than let me catch him. Do I think he's cheating no why? He has chopped plenty knocks from women so he is running far from them, do I think he will cheat? I don't know but I will not swear for him!
DeleteMy wife married God before she married me,i would like her faith to be tested...you eeeehhhhhh God is watching o
DeleteMr money makes...This is really heartbreaking. You're so proud of what you're doing. It is really so sad.
DeleteIf God is not doing anything about this, what can I say?
You'll like your wife to cheat too?
I'm just imagining you as my brother or father or just significant Male in my life.
I'm so scared, it hurts so bad reading this and I don't even know you.
Good luck with the life you have chosen.
What is dis??? Who asked for Ur family history???
DeleteMen that talk as much as you are a problem lol
DeleteYour comments are always entertaining but long winded heheehhe... You're trouble!
Laughed out loud at how do I live a sincere life devoid of pussy??? Kikikikikikiki. You are mouthed, na God dey watch u ooo
DeleteEclipse of d brain.
DeleteGbam 2 ur advice 2 poster 1.
The brutal truth in this very long comment that I eventually summoned up the energy to read is EPIC!!!!
DeleteMost of our boyfriends are cheating on us as we speak, but we don't know and we are still alive right? So I'm a firm believer in the notion that what you don't know, won't cause you any harm.
But sir, try change your ways! Sex isn't the alpha and omega and your beautiful wife that loves God more than you, deserves you to keep your less than satisfactory penis in your pants (since you said you're not good in bed )
But hey, your life is not my business in the SLIGHTEST. Just thought I should add my own 50p to your comment. You are indeed entertaining.
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Dont I just love you? Couldn't help but laugh out real hard ur write up sounds funny but sincer
DeleteGuy! Guy! Guy!! Choi I too much ooo....
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha
Ohhhhh mokey makes!
DeleteMehhhhhhh u re cray!!!
Yess u need to leave em puss...
Do it for ur belove wife bikonu oga sire.
How u take knw@ "Amebo gist too sweet and has no rival".
Frm today u re my blogbro!
And I will address u as B2. Will call u dat until u change ur name.
Bianca Bruno Boo,is my (B3),shine teeth.
My dear don't be so sure she isn't cheating o, even pastors (real men of God cheat) just saying cos body no be firewood lol. And no give her sickness o
DeleteThe sad thing about it is that you actually believe that you wife isn't doing anything with men out there. Na women like your wife wey dey sweet pass because they will NEVER tell anyone they are fucking outside. With all their church and everything, they'll rather die than let anyone know. It's women like that that I like, because as a married man, I don't need any woman I'm cutting outside getting any ideas.
DeleteI knew there was something about u. U seem so smart n wise in a weird way now I get u. Won't preach to u about ur love for pussy. U reap what u sow one way or another. I still like ur comments cos they come from a very different perspective. But..... hmm wouldn't like to meet u anymore......... kay
DeleteSend me your email. I have something interesting for you lol
DeleteWhen ever I I open any chronicles with out seeing ur comment am not always satisfy, even when u are not making sense u still make sense! Ride on Blogbro!!!
DeleteLol@money makes!Dayumn, you are one smooth operator. I say that because as much as u have said what shud make girls cuss u out, see them hailing u and falling over themselves, leaving 100 comments. Atimes, I really wonder y guys lie. Lying is for small chewing gum boys who have nothing. Trust me, if a babe asks about ur wife and u tell her ur wife is the best thing that ever happened to u, u love her, bla bla bla, u will see notice, albeit very subtly, the girl fighting to divert your loyalties!!
DeleteDon't mean to diss babes, but most of y'all act confused. If you're a guy, tell the truth and trust me, if u get money, r good looking, the girls go vex for a while and then decide which one dey really worry am.
**u. Typo error.
DeleteNumber one u are not a man number two u are not married.....u r just a dreamer....u like too dream out loud.....
DeleteWhat happened , y the biography moneymakes u duck wella
DeleteI dnt usually comment, but I gotta loan u some senses, Mr money.... ( dat is if ur super story is even true). I live in USA too. Two kids. Husband in Naija. A big boy, Money and very handsome.
DeleteI'm quiet, a Lawyer, and very pretty. ( like seriously! !!) I love God, go to Church , fast and pray, husband never caught anything on clean on me, he trust me more than anything. But guess what? I ve been ducking some hot young guys for a long while. (One at a time tho) Codedly, nobody can ever tell! So tk a chil pill before swearing dat u are d luckiest man. U might not be as lucky as u thnk.
But come to thnk of it, some Naija girls can be extremely cheap and senseless tho. Falling and shamelessly offering themselves for a made up character.
And the typos, i av already taken sleep aide. But if dats so important to some people, hey ,wateves. Ain't nobody get time to prove anything a thng.
Ladies, pls stop.
Call me .....ok, let's say, d sleepy lady. Bye.
Cheap ass bush mgbekes being taken in by a made up character. Lol
DeleteRicky Rozay, is that you?
DeleteI'm suspecting you're money makes you....
P1 aka uche, face ur work! Ur bro is an old cargo so he knows what's right n wrong, he might have his own agenda so free them.
ReplyDeleteP2....
Lmao @uche face ur work
DeleteHe is an uncle gwegwegwe.
DeletePoster one ; leave your brother alone he is an adult. Face ya front.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: You don't know what you want at your age, keep doing things to please others, shebi you will return here to lament.
Am here for popcorn today Abeg
ReplyDeleteUna two nor get wahala.
Sister poster1:yesso tell ur mom pls,tell her,dont treat this issue wt kid's gloves,his business is urs aswell,dts y he's family!it's obvious this girl has no plans 4 him,if ur mom will talk sense to him then d earlier u told her the better
DeleteSister poster 2:the tale of 2 men abi?i know this story too well heheheh dey r all struggling to win d ultimate prize n make no mistake d ultimate prize isn't u!ure just in d centre of this ego tussle,im sure both of dem r aware of themselves,u shdnt hv let dem knw dey both exist...leaving both wudnt be easy(ure too worried abt wht ur family thinks,its understandable) bt never settle 4 d one who ws never interested 4rm d start,d moment he wins u over he'll go bk to being his former self,this is d best advice I can give u,be wise
Narrative number 2. In an ideal world I'll say - none of the above. However, as we don't live in a perfect world and we humans ain't perfect, let me ask you one question. Did the new guy only become serious when he knew you were going to break up with him? If yes then dump him.
ReplyDeletePoster1: mind your business. Your brother choose to be a side boo at 37. Maybe when he get to 40 dot com, he will receive sense.
ReplyDeletePoster2: All I see up there, you want to get married by all means. My dear settle down and think properly what is best for you. Don't allow the presure from family push you into what you will end up regreting at the long run.
You just rephrased what Stella typed, na wa!
DeleteHahahahahahahahaha radiant the copy cat!
DeleteI'm just tired!
ReplyDeletePoster 1 biko dont mind Stella
DeleteTell ur mum about it real fast.
The lady has bomb pussy na
Ur brother wants to 'die' there
Someone needs to talk somw sense into his head..
Poster 2
Both of them are bad news
But if u really want to get married to any of them,then get married to d richest n least stingy...
A man shouldn't be poor and a jerk at thesame time..
Poster1,ur broda is old enough to knw wat he wants.
ReplyDeletePoster2,choose ur first boo.
********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
Narrative 1,you should have sent in yours with recharge card to compensate us after reading this rubbish! Oh I know your type,you're child-free yet still single and you're jealous a single mother has two men dotting on her! My advise?GET A LIFE! I am a single parent to an adorable baby, and when I'm ready to start dating I wouldn't let any man close to my child in the name of boyfriend. That's a woman who respect her children and has values for their future so please go get your own man. Imagine should I get another girl for my brother? Msheeeeewwww you must think yourself God! Have a baby for your brother you said, has he wifed her yet? It's obvious your brother has no papers and wants to use a baby to get his stay! Greedy people everywhere!
ReplyDeleteAre you the Libarian girl?
DeleteShut up please. She is only looking out for her brother say way u'll look at for ur child
DeleteWhat is this anon fool saying?
DeletePoster 1 if you like listen to stupid advices here and don't look out for your brother.
After all stella Don write her red pen....na so followers will mirror her comment!
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--mind your business and stop being nosey.
Poster2--let wisdom direct you..
Let the comments roll in..!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Make I read comments.
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--mind your business and stop being nosey.
Poster2--let wisdom direct you..
Let the comments roll in..!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeletePoster1--mind your business and stop being nosey.
Poster2--let wisdom direct you..
Let the comments roll in..!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Poster 1...
ReplyDeleteMy dear the girl is not the problem here, you are!!! First of all, stop Meddling!!!! It's not nice...at all!! Your brother is a matured man with a mind of his own, so why won't you let him be. He is in love, that's the only thing "wrong"with him. They understand each other...
If this girl is really cheating on your brother, then all you have to do is give it time. No secret lasts forever, on a fine beautiful day like that, the truth will pop out!! So plz i say again.... Stop Meddling and face your own life!! #no pun intended lol
Poster 2...
Nne i don't blame you for not putting all your eggs in one basket...now what to do hmmm *thinking hard*
I think you should go with your best friend, the one you know (shebi you said he has changed bah). The one who knows you and understands you!! Shikena..
My two cents...
Gbamest!!!
DeleteYou've said it all Bee!!
You all like to give advice when it's not you in the situation.
DeleteI know most girls who fight tooth and nail so their brother won't marry a girl of his choice just because of minute reasons such as she is arrogant, she feels too big, she doesn't greet , she is from this tribe and bla bla!
A divorced woman with kids who is still so in touch with her ex....that's who you say her bro shud poke head into right?
Poster,
It's either your brother is after a green card, her nursing job or her ass shikena!
Call an intervention for him b4 it's too late and by that I mean tell anyone he listens to tall brains into his diluted reasoning box!
Poster 1 : your brother is a side chick
ReplyDeleteLooooooool
DeleteHahahahah, you are a foooooool
DeleteRotfl........@ side chick
DeleteLWKMD. Epic
DeleteP1, the babe is obviously still in love with her ex husband and unfortunately/fortunately there's a strong bond which are the kids that is keeping them together.Your brother us a Please let your brother move on but dont tell your mum anything. P2, you are equally in love with two men? Then deal with it, the choice is yours.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, the first guy came back cos he realized you had moved on without him and his ego was crushed, second guy became serious after he discovered you will be happier with someone else! Except you're ready to be working hard to gain their love and attention everyday of your married life then please don't Marry either rod them as they aren't serious! The right man will come, focus on other things. UWANA
ReplyDeletePoster 2. Ur own case is that of 'u dunno d value of what you've got until u lose it'. I was in a similar situation some years back. Dated this guy for years but he was an unrepentant cheat. Well, I got with someone else and even tho he caught me, he was still d one begging me to stay. Wen I refused, he threatened both me and d new boo. He kept telling me how sorry he was for taking me for granted and how he can't leave without me and shit like dat. But d harm had been done. Men fail to realize d value of wat they've got until its gone.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, she's not serious about Ur brother, if she was she'd have introduced him to d kids and ex. Don't involve Ur mum. Very soon, the lady is bound to do something dat will clear her eyes.
*live
Delete*his* wat is it sef, eka?
Delete
ReplyDeleteP1.. She doesn't want to have more children?? So ur brother shud remain childless?? Telling ur mum might turn out disastrous cos ur brother might not appreciate that. Try ur best to make him see reason n if he refuses, let him be. He's an adult after all.
P2.. I'd say u take ur time. Don't rush to avoid rushing out. They've both repented?? Give them time!!
ReplyDeleteP1.. She doesn't want to have more children?? So ur brother shud remain childless?? Telling ur mum might turn out disastrous cos ur brother might not appreciate that. Try ur best to make him see reason n if he refuses, let him be. He's an adult after all.
P2.. I'd say u take ur time. Don't rush to avoid rushing out. They've both repented?? Give them time!!
poster 2, marry the richest....all men are same.
ReplyDeleteif u marry for love be ready to put up with what you're running from.
poster 1....allow your brother to do at he wants.he's not a baby and not everyone was created to procreate.
who knows your bro may be sterile
Oh shut up!
DeleteWah if d richest ends up getting broke 2mao? Ya'll talk about rich men yeah? Can't u b richer Dan ur man? Can't deal .. Plenty of una go drink garri with no sugar later no b curse oo ..na fact... Get rich bae!!
DeleteLol @ marry the richest, baby!
DeleteOh my Stellastica.... I love you specially today... "when d right guy comes, he comes with/in peace" And that's it! Chai! I love dis blog...
ReplyDeletePoster 2 u r desperate simple! I look @ folks who say "my family pressure me to get married" and I laff... it's insane... If u look at it logically, getting married is not a big deal. If u want children, u can have dem even without bn married, if u need a companion, u can also have one without bn hitched with marriage.... Know ur onion plz.
Poster 1 even if u tell ur mum, what will it change? It won't stop ur brother from being with that woman.... plz allow him. Trust him enough not to make a mistake and @ d same time allow him liberty to make d mistake so he will learn from it....
Poster 1
ReplyDeleteur bro is acting immature or he has something up his sleeve that he wants to get from the girl.Advise him with hints..hes 37 . he should at least understand..if he still wants to stay, pls face ur own problems..
Poster 2
they dont look serious to me either and really u should just take ur time..take two steps back and search urself for what u want first, before just jumping into relationships and marriage proposals.
Gud advice from dimok.
ReplyDeleteStella most times your replies don't gel at all. How can you answer poster one like that? It's better if you don't say anything.
ReplyDeletePoster 2, free the both of them jor,you also sound like you don't know what you want.
Poster 1 talk to your bro first and let him know you'll tell the family
ReplyDeleteuna see the red ink write up omo e sure wella
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
well, i will tell you to be calm a lil and see who is more serious among the two of them. the first guy u v known for long, will be better than the one you just met and then it didnt tell us what actually went wrong that made the first guy change his attitude towards you?
ReplyDeletejust give it time and you can easily pick. wish you well
Poster 1...na wah o!
ReplyDeleteBuh d Truth is dis...some women wil always fall mugu and some men wil always fall Mugu as well.
The only thing i think u can do here is to tell someone hé greatly respects about dis whole thing and den dont go and sleep.go and Pray.
cos hé is sooo Deep in love dat hé isnt seeing Any of dose stuff u are seeing.
Pele.
Poster 2,d two men are "One and One pence"
hahahahhaha
A man dat u said dumped u over and over again.
And u are here thingking hé has changed.
Upe!
None of dem are serious.
Forget d pressure.drown out d whole noise and Try and concentate on urself cos u sef,u Sound soo "scattered"
Get urself together and see à dashing,Young,serious-minded dude Walk into ur life.
All d best dear!
None of them is serious! Thank me in your sleep.
Delete@ poster one;what you are about doing is total betrayal of trust which your brother shared with you...
ReplyDelete37 right?? Then definitely he knows what he wants outta life and i think instead of you blowing the whistle on him;just keep talking to him and make him see reasons with you..but if he keeps refusing to heed to your advice;then let him live his life cos sometimes experience can be the best teacher for the ignorant ones....
@poster 2;you are confused with your needs as A woman and the truth is that you are already more than desperate in answering A mrs...
An advice tho,Kindly go through your life and see if truly you need any of those men in your life..
But if you still wanna make A choice between both;then settle with the first lover ie if he would be serious with having you back in his life this time around...
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Stella...that "when d right one comes, u will know" for me is the real truth. Cos it would be effortless and from his actions u will just know this person has ur nest interest.
ReplyDeletePoster1 needs prayer and Poster2 needs Prayer and counselling.
ReplyDeleteP1, dunno
ReplyDeleteP2, follow your heart.. Ur narrative is screaming *I love the first guy*.. Look well before you leap. Don't be desperate and please pray for guidance.
How can ur brother be confused over a big ass, excuse me he's making a fool if himself, just leave him alone when d girl is done using him nobody will advice to flee.
ReplyDelete@2, am not surprised dat u are confused cos, for u to date a guy who does not respect u just bcos u want to please ur family shows u must be ugly, and u ve a very low self-esteem.
abeg go and sit down turn his mind against which family? I don't know why u Africans like to think men who love have been jazzed......oyibo man go love and take care of girl with another mans pregnancy and nothing happens......do u know the connection of a man and woman with kids? 10 years of marriage na beans? they were once a family and it wont be easy to break that tie...how are we sure your brother is not also with her for papers too or just the sex or something...he is your brother tell him if u like but what if he refuses to listen what next? why should the lady introduce your brother to her kids when she is not even sure of the relationship? for your information it is not healthy for her kids too....do u know what she endured in the first marriage that makes her not want to rush into another one? so in your silly mind only black men can fuck and have big dicks abi? please face your life with your typical African mentality and stop hounding your brother cos u have not said any big extraordinary act of love he has shown this woman...mschweeeeeeew
ReplyDeleteAnony send me ur house adress lemme come deliver ur hug... U r just so realistic with ur comment...
DeleteSpot on!
DeleteTruest talk, if ever there was one. Chop kiss, o jare. No mind the pretender sister and brother, who knows exactly the game he is running.
DeletePoster 1 tell your mother, your brother is acting very foolishly.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 just be pick the one u love.
Poster 1: I wish you would mind your business. How can you even be thinking about interfering in a 37yr old man's love life? If he doesn't know what he wants in a woman by now then it's too late for you to help him.
ReplyDeleteBTW, I think it's very wise of this Liberian woman to shield her children from the man/men in her life until she is 1000% sure it's is a serious relationship heading somewhere. Her children do not need to be exposed to all manner of "daddies" just because their mother is single. Kudos to her.
She seems honest and straight forward. She has told your brother ho-ha what to expect from her- she is not rushing to re-marry and she will NOT be having anymore children. If he can deal, fine; if not he can take a walk. But that decision is your brothers to make. *omojeje*
fucking women without stress I pity your sorry heading for hell arse....your wife is fucking another man and the idiot that you are is rejoicing.....arrogant goat, u think u are Gods gift to her? she loves jesus and she married an unbeliever like you? keep fooling yourself, no woman who is genuinely born again will marry an unbeliever except if you pretended you were one......
ReplyDeletePoster 1.. tell your brother and see what he can make out of it. the woman ynash is dusturbing him that is why he is not thinking straight.
ReplyDeletePoster 2... must you please your parents.... take the one you want.
Surprised I agree with Stella today.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, when you went on about your brother, your brother I thought he was a 25 or 26 year old till I saw 37. If you're uncomfortable about his relationship, talk to him about it without being over bearing. You can also tell your Mom but y'all gotta be careful with the approach cause your brother is a full blown adult. Don't approach it with some Nigerian Sisters mentality of "she will finish your money, she will make you forget the family, since you married her you no longer send money to the family " e.t.c.
Poster 2, both men are shady in my opinion. What made boyfriend #1 to change before coming back to his senses? Boyfriend #2 is out of the question...that's in my opinion.
Poster 2. Go for the one your are reading his comment right nau hehehe
ReplyDeletePoster 1. Pls your brother should be able to take responsibilities for his actions at 37yrs,however for the benefit of doubt you can go ahead to inform your mum but you must be present it in a matured way.
ReplyDeletePoster 2.From your post it is obvious that you seems confused by the uncertainty of your EX and present Bf,Both of them appears to be emotionally imbalanced and they seems to have infected you with the traits. You must not go into a relationship because of what pple will say,You own ur life and u mst be responsible for your decision. Prayerfully seat your self down and refocus +++
1. Its like he knows what he wants. Men dey like nyash abi u no no.
ReplyDelete2. ... what do u actually want in marriage.
Poster 1 Thank God the lady is not Nigerian else they'd say she used jazz. Either you're not telling the truth or don't know it I am sure your brother is gaining something from her or hopes to.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what he is looking for from a divorcee mother of two and a woman who isn't willing to have any from him when he plans to have kids of his own.
Your brother is old enough, let him use his tongue to count his teeth or vice versa whichever floats his boat.
Poster 2 no comment. Goodluck
I will just be reading comments today..
ReplyDeletePoster 1: I pray to God my bf's siblings aren't like you lol poke nosing in what doesn't concern you as if your brother isn't a grown man.. Like Stella said... MIND YOUR DAAAAAAM BUSINESS *Kevin Hart voice*
ReplyDeletePoster 2: like Johnny Depp one said (I think)... "If you find yourself in love with two people at the same time, choose the second one because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one in the first place"
so my honest opinion is, you are just as confused as the second guy so the two of you will be happy together. And I'm sorry to say this but if you actually think he will be there for you 'against all odds' you may get a shocker of your life when he starts reverting to his old ways as soon as you marry him!
Good luck
Your writeup is soo true sha @money makes.... I laff @ all these married women who insinuate dat their husbands are no cheats. Gerrarahia biko! You should say "my husband respects me and doesn't give me any reason to doubt him" so long u don't catch him...shikena! Give urself peace of mind ladies!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDon't go and die or kee ursef ontop man matter, u snoop na hypertension u go give ursef, if u no snoop na mugu you be...lmao
Imagine a married man trying to justify his late nights and absence from home saying "I have given my wife children to keep her busy, wetin again she want, I never try? like seriously??
Well, let those that have ears hear. M out!!!!
Poster 1; Yes is your brother's life and he is an also adult who knows what he wants, if his not confused he wouldn't have discussed this with you. If telling eveybody will make him get out of his confusion my dear do it .
ReplyDeletePoster 2;My dear snap out of that confused and desperate state of yours, Can you turn your love to Jesus and see how he sort you out, get yourself so lost in God and he will bring a man of peace to you, don't be in a hurry to settle with any of them because you have the pressure from your parents to settle down. The blessings of God maketh rich and adds know sorrow, so rela and wait for that blessing.
Thank you very much. I will put not only my nose in anything that has to do with my family but my whole body. Haba!!! Blood is thicker than 'he's an adult'
DeletePoster 1,its possible ur brother has plans,I don't think he is a fool.
ReplyDeletePoster 2,hmmm! U are sitting on a long thing,make a wise choice since ur folks nid u to get married. Goodluck.
Poster1...That lady is straightforward, do you want her to introduce the children to anybody she is dating. Is she supposed to quarrel with her ex-husband just because they are divorced, what about her kids. She is mature and responsible.
ReplyDeletePoster2...All of them are the same, marry the second one.
Money makes... i thought you mentioned on IHN sometime ago, that you are a first time commenter, that your heart was broken and you will be bashing women , how come you are suddenly married with kids?
Continue with the "front". People like you are actually weak hearted.
Dear Ladies, no be every man wey say "please will you" and you will say "i do". Some of them are emotionally screwed up and want to carry out the pains of being dumped while they were in university on you.
If what you said is true, do you think she is not dashing out and pretending to be an angel same as you are doing?
XOXO MYSTERY
@poster 1 abeggi,she is still married and your bro na side boo
ReplyDelete@poster 2 leave matter in both cases na situationship you dey
You hear me so??
Lufizz
Poster 1 pls am very single and ready to mingle incase ur brother is interested pls contact me tru Stella let's talk, pls when is the next single and mingle @stella
ReplyDeleteBoth are not serious type, you must be careful before you ruin your future
ReplyDeleteGod's time is the best
WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN LOOKING AND IT SEEMS THAT THERE IS NO HOPE... CLICK
Ok counting d pple replying Mmyflawws post(i will call it post cos e pass comment),we much more than those talking abt d chronicles.Chai!Mmyflawws,my advice to u is that pussy kills too.some pple died on top of it.if I lie ask Aba##a family.btw hope u still remember ur wife is first human,a woman at dat before she's a child of God!never be too sure my dear,she might as well be playing monkey game' with u..
ReplyDeletePoster1,ur bros might as well be using the gal and as sees him as a golddigger, she develops cold feet.i mean if she had any regard for him,he would have met her kids and know them!its not a big deal...imagine to see ordinary lil kids is a problem for ur bros date and he thinks he's in a relationship?smh.she don see am finish.my advice to him is to go and make his money,am sure when he comes back,she will be shaking her big ass singing him a new song.
Poster2,i don't even know what to say to u,but all I will manage to advise u to do is STOP being desperate,its not a gud behaviour #eyelashes#and u also seem like a clingy gf,well maybe it's part of d desperation.stop it!!
Hahaha don't mind them.They always agrees to what Stella says
ReplyDeleteWahala dey!!!! Poster 1, I kno exactly who you are. You are very wicked. Na so you dey repay this girl who bend her back over for you?? I don laff tired at your fake concern for your bros. Mitchewwwwww
ReplyDeletei cant believe a lot of females r falling over themselves for this money makes u fuck...character. And y'all later begin to wonder y u attract the wrong kinda men. smh.. i just had to leave a comment on this cos i'm a bit repulsed at all the flirting and ass licking he/she/it is receiving. hmmm!
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