Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

HUH?......EXCUSE ME?

 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE.

ENGAGED BUT IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER.

Hello Stella...great job you doing seriously..God bless you big.

My issue is kind of complex, AND YOU CAUSED IT.

I am in a relationship with a great lady, and i love her to bits. We are kind of in a long distance relationship though because she’s in school, private university with no access to phones so we don’t get to talk like that, which makes me lonely a lot of times, but i have been faithful as much as i can.

However, during one of those singles mingle posts, i decided to give anonymous online friendship a try, and i got few friends, most disappeared on hearing i just want friends except one. We became friends, and she’s also in a very serious relationship. We became friends, then subsequently became very close to the point that we became very fond of each other, a day can’t pass without us speaking or chatting in d morning and till bed..


It went on like that till the point when it was obvious we had both fallen in love... We agreed that we won’t see each other until her wedding day, sometimes next year by God’s grace. This will even deprive one of us from going to the lagos sdk party.

The weird part is that we still respect each other’s relationship and look out for ourselves in that aspect. We decided to take no.2 spot in each other’s love life, i.e. am her assistant fiancé, and she’s my assistant fiancée too. Please how safe is this new found love, especially because we don’t think we are ready to do away with each other, and we also love our partners dearly too.

NB: She’s aware of this post...Infact she perused it before i sent it to you.

Hmmmmmmm.....Do you both really know what love is?Love will burn you from a sitting position to standing up,love will embarrass your mouth from keeping mute till you shout out.
You are both doing what you are doing with clear eyes,all premeditated so please dont tell me about love.

Na to shine congo dey hungry una so make una no call my name put inside.
Proclaiming email love when you can both meet and shake hands at paint Lagos SDK....lol


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
KNOWING THE GREEN AND RED LIGHT ALERT.

Stella, long time. Thank you for this great medium for I know blog visitors will help me with reasonable answers to my confusing thought. Straight to my matter.

I met this guy recently and things have been going well,we don't stay in the same country but we are from the same town and we both know each other's family. But i noticed that anytime we have an issue and he gets angry, he will go blank on me; stop communication, won't pick my calls.

Today's incident really got me, Stella. My guy kept reading my chat but won't reply, ignored my calls or reply my SMS. All because i said i was going to another city but my plans changed because i got a call for an impromptu interview. and even removed my picture from his dp and later deleted me. Not until i showed him a munch screen of the interview message and the time and the one showing when i told him about the trip.

I'm trying to cut the story short, i know I'm not perfect and no one is too. And i don't want age to determine my life. And I can't be part of this blog and still miss it. It will be an insult to Stella and other blog visitors who shared their experience so that some of us won't miss it maritally.

Please my people, especially the married women in the house. Help a sister in need. Is this one of the little signs we talk about that's suppose to show us the door, make us put on the running shoes or just one of those issues to weather off.

He is a negatively jealous boo,this might progress further positively or negatively..it depends on if you want to hang around with someone who displays such childish tendencies.
Most men with this attitude progress later into landing heavy blows and side upper cuts when trust issues come up.
Can you deal with living with a man like this?
Are you one of those who will be able to keep it sailing when the storm comes?
if not,wear your running shoes and jump the roof.