''I wonder if people have really thought about the implications of the American Supreme Court judgement in favour of gay marriages across the USA. Before that decision and Obama’s accent to the law, it was illegal in only 37 of the 52 states!
However this development is a “YES” that may ripple around the world because the USA is the world’s big brother. They sneeze the rest of the world catches a cold. So that’s where my concern lies. Being gay will soon become ‘fashionable’.
Gay people are humans first and I respect that, but if it were a desirable state, then God wouldn’t have “created them , male and female” as the bible teaches! So I believe.
Because God is all knowing and never makes mistakes, He also must have created gay people too, just like He created the sick and the poor that Christ says will always be with us! What do we do with people with one defect or the other? We love them and help them live better lives, not legislate that their condition is acceptable.
In other words I believe just like people with Downs Syndrome, for example, are minus one chromosome; people that exhibit gay tendencies are plus or minus one hormone either way. With more female hormones (estrogen), a guy can be effeminate, and with more male hormones (testosterone), a girl can be masculine. My layman’s theory obviously but it is simple logic.
It is also simple logic that if all men married men and women married women, where would the babies come from? Maybe petri dishes in the laboratories?
I know some will say not everyone is gay, but I wonder for how long that will be, because we all have tendencies to be adventurous and we may have many more people experimenting and going the lesbian or homosexual way. The fact that it is taboo holds quite a number of people back from even trying it. When it comes to the human desires our bodies can be traitors and take pleasure from even the most bizarre, depending how far we are willing to go. Barriers help reign our potentially wild desires in.
My summary is that anyone can be gay. Period. Though the tendency may be higher in some than in others, still it is a matter of taste and sight.
Also some might say barrier or not there are those who will try it anyway, I say yes but is that why we should make it a free way?
Please note I am not for discrimination against anyone whether I support their sexual preferences or not. They sure have rights. Since I do not understand ‘it’ forgive me if I say maybe they should seek more avenues to finding a ‘cure’ or a best way to manage ‘it’ otherwise, I fear the human specie may just go extinct like Pope Francis has rightly pointed out. But like my 19 year old son says “God created the world and He can surely fix it”, but then He needs human eyes, ears, hands and feet to do so, which is why I am sharing my opinion hoping it would change a few minds to have us all canvassing that this condemnable law doesn’t ripple anywhere near our shores!
Finito!
Adesuwa Onyenokwe
tw Magazine Publisher and Editor-In-Chief
Adesuwa we all cannot live right and that is why the slogan ''live and let live'' goes.I know how you feel about this but like your son said''God created the world and he surely knows how to fix it''.
Abeg what is wrong is wrong, this gay thing is madness. I can't deal. Yuck at the thought of it.
ReplyDelete'God created the world and He can fix this'.Its well
ReplyDeleteBible consistently tells us that homosexual activity is a sin (Genesis 19:1-13;Leviticus 18:22;20:13;Romans 1:26-27;1 Corinthians 6:9).Romans 1:26-27teaches specifically that homosexuality is a result of denying and disobeying God. When people continue in sin and unbelief, God “gives them over” to even more wicked and depraved sin in order to show them the futility and hopelessness of life apart from God.1 Corinthians 6:9proclaims that homosexual “offenders” will not inherit the kingdom of God.
DeleteGod does not create a person with homosexual desires. The Bible tells us that people become homosexuals because of sin (Romans 1:24-27) and ultimately because of their own choice. A person may be born with a greater susceptibility to homosexuality, just as some people are born with a tendency to violence and other sins. That does not excuse the person’s choosing to sin by giving in to sinful desires. If a person is born with a greater susceptibility to anger/rage, does that make it right for him to give into those desires? Of course not! The same is true with homosexuality.
However, the Bible does not describe homosexuality as a “greater” sin than any other. All sin is offensive to God.Homosexualityis just one of the many things listed in1 Corinthians 6:9-10that will keep a person from the kingdom of God. According to the Bible, God’s forgiveness is just as available to a homosexual as it is to an adulterer, idol worshipper, murderer, thief, etc. God also promises the strength for victory over sin, including homosexuality, to all those who will believe in Jesus Christ for their salvation (1 Corinthians 6:11;2 Corinthians 5:17;Philippians 4:13). God bless you!
Whatever God does is perfect. He created them male and female. God never created homosexuals, they were not ' born this way', it's not genetic, rather they were 'made this way'.
DeleteHow do I know? God's Word. He never makes mistakes.
If gays and lesbians will be sincere to themselves, somewhere in d past, maybe while growing up they may have be sexually molested, abused, harassed either in the family or somewhere else..Something went wrong somewhere.Their so called sexual orientation was simply etched in their mentality by a past experience.
So lets stop saying God created homosexuals cos He didn't.
Every man has a free will to choose either life or death. God can't choose it for u. U have to make that choice. He said u should choose life and that's why He gave us Jesus as the ONLY way out of this worldly system.
Through the choices we make, we make or mar our lives. Will u still blame God for that? For d choices u have made?
God is no slave driver. Choose life that u may live or choose death for urself, it's ur decision, not His.
When u make d decision to choose life, asking for God's help, He will definitely be there to help u.
But choose death, and u have completely booted God out of ur life and refused His authority over u. Then u should also get ready to face the consequences of ur action.
Stop blaming God. We are the ones who made the world what it is today by our devious choices yet we turn and blame God for the consequences. It's all about reaping what u sow.
It's not His desire to see man perish but first man has to come to Him.
God created the universe, and only He can fix it if the world would allow Him to by inviting Him to take over...if not, He is incapacitated.
He said " My ears are not heavy to hear, nor My hands too short to save rather it is ur sins that have cut u off from God.
Because of ur sins He has turned away."Is 59:1,2
For homosexuals I have this to say:
God can heal ur past and ur present but will u allow Him by casting off ur rebellion and turning to Him?
The world is at its end. Jesus is coming soon. What will it profit a man to gain the whole world and suffer d loss of his own soul?
Choose righteousness.
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Well said Mystique .Love ur reply.
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DeleteNothing we can do about it. Once it comes in from the West, it will land here like bad breeze. Times have changed.
Do the best you can for your kids but nothing you can do to stop this from coming to our shores.
I don't care if the whole world turns to gay, all I know is dat my children will never be homosexuals coz if they turn out to be, i'll personally kill the child. Call me a murder, I don't care. It's my choice
ReplyDeleteWould you kill your teenage daughter who comes back with pregnancy? Or who you caught sleeping with a man outside marriage? Or who takes money from your purse?
DeleteBecause God is going to judge all this equally
Let's all live right. No sin is greater than the other. All sinners are headed to hell
Both those who lied, fornication, murdered, homosexuals, side chick's, mistresa and AL sort
And you'll simply go to jail or even face execution, people calling you a murderer would be the least of you worries if that should happen. Let's all be realistic here and and be careful what you pronounce for your children's future, if you don't want it to happen, don't pronounce it into existence. Words could be very powerful........ Just Saying
Delete@anon 13:42,in trying to be objective,understand dat that there is difference between sin and abomination:wrongdoing and perversive behaviour!very important.
DeleteFor u Stella whose side are u on by saying live and let live?hmmmm!remember u have a large followership here,some without a mind of their own.so be careful wat u say on this cos it's a very sensitive matter.
Queen Bee, sin is sin. You cannot twist the bible. Thank you very much!
DeleteGay is abomination.
ReplyDeleteAll the major religion is against it.
Pls tell that to sai baba. hope he hears afterall he is friend with america, london and france.
ReplyDeletewhen you are friend with homosextuals, lesbian, they will lure you into it one day.
baba dullard dullard hope you are hearing it.
Really? You will speak to your father in that manner?
DeleteYou all show your selves here. We are all faceless but the way we display our attitude here tells how we are outside
Sex is sex
ReplyDeleteGay,Bisexual,Unisexual,Heterosexual,Threesomesexual etc
Worreva
Gbam
DeleteAs long as you aren't having see with your husband. Man and wife it's a sin
So those of you puking and ducking your boyfriends and sponsors are all going to sell hell as them
Ohh GOD.. Dis is fucked up.
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Asin heh, hw person go dey enjoy this nyanch self when vagina is very much available..... Confusing i swear....
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Only those that dose not believe that the Bible is God's word can support any thing Gay or same sex!
ReplyDeleteI 100% go with Adesuwa on this... What is wrong is wrong and we should not use our hands to cover evil... YES "evil" is the word. I am not homophobic and i believe people have right to make their choices as well as their mistakes, but legalizing gay marriage in the US is a certain step in the wrong direction. God save us, our generation and the future generations to come.
ReplyDeleteFaggots
ReplyDeleteWetin concern me sef?
ReplyDeleteThis people are dead sick, common sense no dey again!
ReplyDeletePls we shouldn't allow oyibo people to deceive us indirectly. God's Kingdom accommodates both evil and bad and our ability with God's help to live righteously in it matters. We have children, have you ever thought of how they'll behave in the next 10 - 15yrs with what they're seeing now. E go dey worse if Akachukwu no dey dia o.
ReplyDeleteGod created everything and made us wonderfully and fearfully but we recreated ourselves all in the name of fashion/civilisation/modernisation, etc
Who knows what'd be coming out next after GAY?
People read your Bible. In the book of Romans 1. God talks about homosexuality and it's repercussions. Don't twist anything about them beign humans so this and that. God cannot be mocked! Whatsoever you sow,that will you reap! Simple!!!
ReplyDeleteThe Pope nailed it for me and Adesuwa made it even better.
ReplyDeleteWhen humans want to engage in what is wrong they look for means and ways to justify themselves. However, it still doesn't change the fact that Gen:1:27 "so God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; Male and female He created them". Anything other than this is a distortion of what should be and A LIE.
Rev.22:15 "But outside are dogs and sorceress and Sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices A LIE".
Lmaooo...I wish I cuf like dis comment I swear.hahaha
ReplyDeleteLGBT Community is so big here
ReplyDeleteGay are nice people
Who am i to judge them
Don't partake in it
DeleteDon't encourage it
Don't support it
Don't justify it
GOD will judge all
It's so wrong and God didn't make any mistake when he made us male and female. People keep saying live and let's live but I'm sure no one will ever feel cool if his/her own child/sibling claims or wants to be gay or trans. God forbid bad thing.
ReplyDeleteCrazy world.
ReplyDeleteMay God help us all.
Evil is evil no matter how anyone tries to paint it. My greatest fear is what the next generation will be...I'm seeing a world where about 50% of the youths will be bisexual.
ReplyDeleteThere is no recent Hollywood movie that doesn't have a gay character, and its not portrayed to be bad in anyway. They make it seem so normal with those gay partners kissing and making out, talking about heartbreak, adopting kids, and so on. What they're aiming at is to depict and instill it as acceptable in the minds of innocent kids. Hence I urge all the mothers here to beware of what they let their kids watch. If you must watch American movies, pls do so when they're not around. Censor every little thing they see with their eyes. Now is the time to also talk about homosexuality while educating your kids on sex education. Enlighten them so that they don't get misled outside. Of utmost importance is the type of friends your kids keep and the type of families they visit. We all have to be vigilant every minute of the day to avoid this abomination in our homes.
My heart used to bleed at the mere mention of gayism in the past, but these days, I've become indifferent to it, not bc I've accepted it to be normal but bc I kno we re at the end times. Worse is to be expected
No justification for this rubbish. Whar is wrong is wrong
ReplyDeleteLoveme Jeje go through what you wrote very slowly and tell us again who is the dullard. "Friend with homosextual and lesbian"??? Your written english is apalling. Please stay away from the blogosphere for a few minutes each day, pick up a primary school english textbook and get some basic education.
ReplyDeleteTo the post, Adesuwa is lucky her kids grew up before this madness that is currently going on in the West. Those of us with young kids of impressionable minds nko? How will we teach our children that this is taboo? May God help us o. Hmmmmm.
Most times I wish I wasn't born in this generation where all forms of sexual pervations are the order of the day & people see nothing wrong with it. Before people do evil things and hide but now its in the open for all to see...hmmmm may God give us the grace to live through all these(Amen)
ReplyDeleteblaque or blanket, the 3 countries made him win the election. am sure you are one of the gay. dont worry hell fire go welcome your prick there. ewu gambia
ReplyDeleteWrong is wrong & Sin is sin and no form of whitewashing will make it right. God is love but we also fail to remember that He is also a consuming fire. Let them kpansh themselves to death if they want ...am more interested in improving my relationship with God & making heaven.
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ReplyDeleteOur level of Education is different. I hate when people mock others simply because they think their English is wrong or they speak better. Take the message and leave the construction biko, before you match line,,,
Now Mr or Madam "Blague" insulted "Loveme jeje" over bad English but she spoke "How will we teach our children that this is taboo"
Please ohh, "will and We" which should come first in this sentence ? even the sentence is technically wrong.... lmao..
Lindy Says "watch your back as you fire others.. wink."
The sentence is grammatically correct. The only omission is an article 'a'.
DeleteWhy are they all crying wolf, thought they all said they couldnt judge. God seriously has to help our christian race.
ReplyDeleteBut Catholic fathers are not entitled to have a child anyways so what difference???
ReplyDeleteLindy Nards dont mind the stupid blaque with his name that looks like gay. useless man that allows another man to ynansh him. He will enter hell fire for supporting gay. foolish and good for nothing man.
ReplyDeletei don pass my message. go and tell ur baba, his friend has signed the gay law, he should do his own.