It is a thing of beauty when a woman refuses to be broken and rises above the pain and decides to use her situation to bless others....
Who?
Toke Makinwa despite recently being in the news over her troubled marriage is using her situation to preach ''you'' out of yours...
She has risen above the storm and channels her challenge into purpose....A positive one
Here's what she said....
"The amount of emails I have received from women across the world going thru difficult situations is heartbreaking. (Thank you all for sharing).
In a world where the popular belief out there is that women hate eachother, women can't stand each other, etc. I have gotten emails/calls from women sharing their own personal pain and that is courageous. I can't reply everyone, (even though i honestly wish i could.)
It is Funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to bless you. I have been given a voice, a platform, (i don't even know how it's all happened) but I woke up one day and I found God and with that came purpose.
It's never about you, as hard as it seems, sometimes you go thru things not for you but for the people around you who need direction, a word of prayer or more.
May God heal every broken heart out there, may his light give you the courage to begin to love yourself.
It is tough being a woman, the preasure is real. You don't have to be a victim, you can rise above it all. Do not let society tell you otherwise. Be Bold, Be Strong. Trust God's purpose for your life and keep shinning. *And Yes, to all the people asking, there is a Vlog this week *
Good Morning
TM"
Mcheeewwww...
ReplyDeleteThis girl is beginning to irritate me...
Can't she stay away from IG for once...
Attention seeker....now I see why your husband got another woman pregnant...
You truly need Jesus if you dnt see the purpose of this writeup..... Rise above your pain madame boss of this blog,you clearly have inner bitterness.
DeleteAsin eeh....She go use dis opportunity to show herself tire....Odiegwu, no privacy at all.
DeleteIG is her life.she cnt do witout it.pretending to be happy when shes crying inside
DeleteI bet u a huge part of her is happy shed the centre of attentionn for dis week, evn if its for the wrong reason...
DeleteThank God you say she is irritating you....but not us...not me...not some people
DeleteIf you are tired of reading any post about her...then don't click
Stop taking it top personal....
High blood pressure is real
Harsh thing to say to someone that is trying to draw strength from concerned good people
@Galore
Shut up you bitter rude woman. Can't Toke express herself? Abeg park well.
DeleteEzekpaike
Na wa oh...she isa public figure. Of course she's going to have a public person.do you expect her to crawl under a rock? Toke rock on jare. Spin this matter anyway anyhow to your advantage. Milk it for every drop, naira, dollar, euro...
DeleteBeen super busy! Don't even know where to start from.
DeleteJust got to see this post today and all the follow ups on the story and all I can say is #smh#
Wow**... this is SAD!
Don't even know whose side to take based on all facts on the table...
Glad she has chosen STRENGTH! Eventhough I know @ some point reality will still stare her in the face when the whole buzz is down and her inner stomach is gonna hurt so bad from the pains, while her heart will feel like pumping out with raging hormones tearing her apart and wishing all she could do is murder maje**... she won't escape this feeling with time (else she never loved him). but this positive attitude will jolt her back to life after that. She will survive it!
Be it as it may, Maje this is all shades of wrong. Playing two innocent souls?? Not fair @ all... and u lived in ur confusion island for yearsssssss??? ur own payback is on it's way! It may not be love heartbreak. It could be financially or whichever way it comes. But something will give u a taste of the setback n pains u caused these women. Grab a coke n WAIT
I am for neither Toke or Anita. They both got played. Whoever wins will still suffer more (paranoia, insecurities, fear, anxiety, nagging etc). So, they had better chosen wisely.
For those telling Toke to fight for her marriage, I ask "which marriage?". U don't fight a baseless war. Save urself that strength for something more meaningful. If he wants to fight for u, then we have something to talk about.
All d best to dem all*
She is an irritant. She is the reason for the husbands attitude. Silly girl. Let's hear from her husband and you will see she is as guilty as charged. She comes out faking inno,cent no reach her self. It reminds me of chika ike telling the world she was beaten up by her ex,that harlot,even right under Her hubby's nose she was fucking (I don't want to mention the ibo guys name) he is a millionaire in abuja. Why didn't she tell the world about that? We only buy what we hear the women say,Men don't talk much.All the cars she is flaunting now are gotten from that dude. Stupid women all over the world.pretenders and liars.Nobody is saying you should not pursue your career while married but do it with caution as a married woman. Why can't my lovely stelladimokokorkus paint internet red since she is also a celeb and a wife and mother.these are examples we should follow,do the needful and stop being everywhere on the Internet all in the name of tv girl or AOP whatever it is called. Single attitude is different from married attitude. To me toke with your attention seeking and so called write ups you do too much,you are a married woman and should respect yourself and do only your job. Every minute you are on one social site or another,please respect yourself first. I am sure your husband couldn't take it. Your loudness brought him out, he was hidden we never heard of him. If I were you after marriage I for just cool down abit but No,you were jumping from one private jet to the other, tv girl indeed. No beef but you should be wise in your dealings. I am not supporting your husband but I believe something must have triggered his actions. Tell us the truth. Meanwhile I heard he stood you up in court, could it be that you forced this upon yourself? Lesson for ladies never ever force a man on yourself. It doesn't always end well. Check yourself woman and keep consoling yourself. Work out your fault with maturity and stop pretending like a saint.
DeleteMy dear toke it's nt a crime to grieve,grieving is d 1st step to healing,its ok to let d steam out,cry n let cattarh flow 4rm ur nose n smear ur makeup,nothing to b ashamed abt bt in d end dust urself up n move on,life goes on,enof wt d social media drama
DeleteI love d fact that Toke is risig above dis..Dis is a phase dat will pass..Her marriage will still be intact..Toke may GOd be t strength..its well!
DeleteYou people need to tell this girl the truth, I mean, who no know say na force she force herself for the bobo neck? Mtchw!
DeleteAlso make she reduce her waka, koye kakiri bi igbona.
This issue is beginning to irritate me. And the way people are going about it is surprising. Toke is no saint. All the stories about her being an orphan and struggling for herself is just in a bid to get people to pity her. Everyone has a story, some worse than hers. We should realise that Toke has a problem. She has this need to always be noticed, attention fucking seeker. What happened to resolving issues privately? Must everything be on social media? Gosh! I don't understand ppl...this matter dey pain me nor b small. And she keeps posting nonsense words on IG so that ppl can go on and say 'awww, she's a strong woman', blah blah bullshit. Toke sorry u hia? But e don do! Stella, Post my comment oo becuz u myt not want to since it doesn't favor Toke. *drops mic*
DeleteIs nt easy to let go of some one u truly love..let God comfort u at dis time of ur grieve Toke..pls be strong and God ll bless u wit a good man dat will love u forever
DeleteToke toke toke, so u ar 2 big 2 accept that u ar goin tru Marital problem, u ar nw usin other women's mails 2 u 2 console dem,instead of u 2 console urself. I was supporting u be4 but now I tink Deirs more 2 dis story,nd u ar the one @ fault, but u ar ennjoyin the words of encouragement frm ur fans cause dey dnt knw d real u. Wat if the gist of ur damaged womb is true dats why u ar always preaching and all,we all have our past but babe stop the instagram drama nd help urself. The day I heard u got married secretly I knw u forced urself on dat boda ode.
DeleteTruth is she is not rising above it. Its normal to feel hurt when somehing like this happens because you are human. The fakeness in this girl no go gree her.
DeleteNawa dis topic don tire mi wella...toke used maja to build her profile nah.
DeleteAll she wanted was to be noticed and we have seen her and her stunt,kim k of naija just make it stop ok.
Awesome write-up....I am still standing.....
DeleteIsn't it funny how a lot of regular commenters have gone under anon to to gloat and spin it back on her? Hmmmmm, all I'm going to say is "God is watching all of you" and "nobody knows tomorrow". Just ramen those two facts.. Just Saying
DeleteBut Toke waka waka reach Omotola own? Pls her career did not make Maje a cheat.
DeleteNow that is my kind of woman. Strong emotionally. Her courage is admirable. Wish her all the best.
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Jeez I love this lady
ReplyDeleteI wish I can be soo strong
I wish am not soo emotional
I wish I can deal with shit
I wish am not broken easily.
I wish I wish I wish.
lol…….self deceit….cry in private and deceive yourself in public
DeleteI heard Toke Makinwa was an Aristo while in Unilag. Could she have made other women cry in her hustling days? I feel if she trys loving again it could still turn out worse. All dis feeling cool to display public strength is cheap deceit. Women are there own worst enemies, did Maje fxck pillow abi pxssy okay am guessing the pregnant lady is Transgender. A lonely man found companionship in an old friend and we crucify him. Pity Toke all I care am indifferent.
DeleteSaka writes in from Gbagura
Toke is just like me..I'm stronger than all my pains..Things dat ordinarily break people doesnt move me..I have a thick skin.
DeleteHahahahhahahaahhaahhaahhahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteChizoba like seriously u do
DeleteThe way bv bashed you when you released your music video, u dint even feel a thing.
Isiri ike.
I wish i have a thick skin too..dere re some pains God in heaven knws dat i.cant bear and i pray it wont come to me.ever again..#myeldersisdeath#
DeleteVery soon people will even forget the reason they are sympathising with this lady. I sincerely hope she gets to see a therapist as she kinda needs a manual reset. All these pity-party she is garnering from every corner will not solve the issue. This is almost getting to a week. She does not need to tell the public she is strong or weak or whatever. She should prove to herself first.
DeleteShe is indeed a strong lady!
ReplyDeleteMay God direct her next step.
Yawns
DeleteNa real yawns. She should quit already. Feels more like she is basking in this. Preacher follow my message and not my action. Charity they say begins at home. A word is enough for the wise.
DeleteLOL she should stop trying so hard. Toke solve your problems privately. I am honestly tired for you.
DeleteJust as you are preaching to women let it be a yardstick to you too. we hope you have learnt lessons on this. Never trust a man completely... the problem is that we ladies give men everything they wanted that is why heartbreaks are everywhere.
ReplyDeleteit is well with you. Keep your head high... and again shame to your horseband.
She hasn't acknowledged the situation yet you know...
DeleteThis is still vague as she is praying for all the broken hearted out there and encouraging them sorta makes it seem like she isn't included.
This might as well be a publicity stunt to pull people to her vlog cos i can see it exploding this week.
If the story is true, which none of the parties involved have come out to address, then i pray for inner peace and strength for Toke.
People should just quit attacking Maje because no one knows the true story except the three of them... wonder why Toke hasn't played the victim card yet?
My conspiracy theory: could be a business relationship where he can carry on with whomever he wants, only it became public which wasn't part of the deal as our dearest Stella with the baddest wifi connection and nothing flies under or abover her radar...
Well, time will reveal the rest of this season movie...
Toke I don't kn why u settled for dat black monster in d 1st place. Pls continue ur lifestyle jare. Makeup all u can, party all u can. The one that is urs wont pass u. Let him go!
ReplyDeleteAnd to those rejoicing, may u be healed of ur sicknesses.
Let who go? He is her husband for crying out loud..He erred and she will forgive him cos its for better or worse..Maje is hers qed...Abeg mind ya business.
DeleteI am mute on this but the day Maje will come out and say his own, we will all stand akimbo with mouth wide open. This girl is just deceiving her self ,who will break up with his/her partner and get over with within a week,even boyfriend/girlfriend stuffs we know how that hurts.
DeleteMr Lyca
one thing I like to say is that,it good not to make your partner the reason why you are happy because one thing sure is that we all are human being and we all can as well betray each other. Such is life, I have a friend whose mum is happy even though the dad keeps following anything in skirt but she choose to be strong and be happy. That what we should all be.
DeleteNigerian women married to Nigerian men MUST be strong or else their men will send them to yaba left.
ReplyDeleteStella pls try investigate d exclusive gist on Linda ikeji getting married, its damn true but d secret is so secretly secret.... Oya dig up classified info....lol
DeleteIf Linda is getting married how is it our business or Stella's. Is Linda a celebrity. She can announce her own wedding on her blog or is she the first blogger to marry. Abeg allow us hear word.
DeleteLol @ Secret is so secretly secret.
DeleteShe should even goan marry, she's almost 35... At least we would hear word
We have heard.
ReplyDeleteWord
ReplyDeleteIt is well Toke..
ReplyDeleteDear God... plz continue 2 strengthen Toke n give her d strenght 2 carry n move on!
ReplyDeleteHow u religious ppl think is scary, I swear.... Which God?? The same God that watched her walk into the wrong marriage?? Wasted 10yrs plus.. And also watch her hubby humuliate her this way without givin her a child??? Same God shld now gv her sttenght??? So ur God allows tragedy happen n he provides sttenght??? I vnt be caught worshin suvh God....
Delete@Anonymous "orubebe" why are u so Pained?
DeletePls kindly tell us what's hitting you
If you have beef with @Toke...send her private message and tell her .
Stop jumping here and commenting bitterly like a Toad.
@Galore
Oh shut up Anin 12.41. Just shut up!
DeleteAnon 12:41 hmmm. I used to wonder sometimes afterall we are human. I used to think that until I had an experience which I will oneday share. I have come to understand that believing in God requires you jettison every iota of common sense. If you try to rationalise everything that happens on earth u did be godless. But you gotta believe in something or atleast a higher power.
Delete@anon 12:41 watch wah u say.... my 2cents
DeleteAmen oh!
DeleteAnon 12:41,God never promise a straight road but he promised to guide us through and keep us ,so it left to you to follow your guide or do it yourself,it a matter of choice cos he said his spirit will never strife with man, we all have choice.
Delete@annoy 12:41 I love Tokes for her bx candid and fallible like any human. She did mention on her Twitter handle that she didn't listen to the signs. And God will c her through m to be honest God warns us. It's just for us to forgive our mistakes and trust on Him. He promised even tho in the valley shadow of death I will fear no evil for thou art with me. Our mistakes are opportunity if we focus on Him. Read her Twitter and IG. He has strengthened hee
DeleteHere's where you got it wrong dear atheist, God is not a puppet master, He allows man to make his own choices and choices have consequences. However, whosoever calls upon His name shall be saved. It's pretty sim0le actually. If u acknowledge God in all your ways, He will direct your path and keep u away from damage. If you don't and get in trouble, He is willing and able to save you when you call upon Him. Is that so hard to comprehend?
DeleteObserver Nowamagbe.
Am actually very pissed about this whole situation.. Everyone keeps blaming Toke's husband,and painting Toke the saint.She is equally at fault,infact she has the most blame.She is just too busy to keep a home,you cant stay away from your home and think praising your hubby on IG is enough...pls think again.She forced the guy into marriage in the first place,through publicising her relationship and even engagement and breakup rumours.The love of his life was Anita but he had to marry Toke to gain the love of the media;Everything was just a publicity stunt.I see so many people saying Anita is ugly:that is a woman without much makeup like Toke,men admire women who go simple...and her skin glows like stars.She is so real and keep her affair less public.Toke's hubby never broke up with Anita,infact he travel many times to be with her in the states.
ReplyDeleteThe no make up thing is so true...
DeleteNow I know why men wont allow me breath...
I only wear make up occasionally...
Yes, that is your portion,the portion of ur sisters,the portion of ur daughters,for me,im grown,i dnt think any Man can break me,cos I've developed the thickest skin, love me n my kids more,#selflove.
DeleteThis was obviously written by Anita or her friends. He left her to wife Toke and suddenly, she is the love of his life.
Delete@writer: if you are not a perfect wife to your husband, may he impregnate your sisters and friends.....Amen (trust me no one is perfect, so we look forward to your misery)
A single man @ 40 is bad news......... Maje married Toke, knowing she is a pub figure.
DeleteAll I can say is the slut (Anita) and Maje deserve each other. Na here I sidown dey look, cos I know someone else the guy is knacking.
Anita would soon get served #HerOwnIsStillDowingPressUp#
Anita Solomon u are always welcome with ur anonymous comments..Why are u still deceiving urself dat Maje doesnt love Toke? Why are u deluding urself?
DeleteToke was Maje's love daz why they dated for 12yrs..U gave him ur virginity thinking it will make him marry u but he dumped u still..
U came back and lured him into ur bed and got pregnant just to destroy his marriage..Why are u so desperate u dis hairdresser?
Those pics u sent to stella were d old pic u took with Maje when d going was good..I dare u to send recent pictures of u and Maje..
If u like cry from now till tomorrow,u are very ugly..Toke is more beautiful even without make up..
Carry dat ur bastard pregnancy comot here..U have joined d league of baby mamas..Enjoy d title..
Toke and Maje aint breaking up..Omego gi vaaaam na anya..Keep sending ur pictures to blogs.Na u go taya nah.
So hairdresser no be work forgetting she is a lawyer aswell keep talking with that ur black yansh wey u keep ur brain
DeleteStella Chop this comment if u like use am do jollof rice
Karma is a bitch!
DeleteOk, so you plait hair for your clients before running down to court to defend them, we've heard you. Now can we rest? #worthlessashawo #homewrecker
DeleteMy love for her has trippled
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly did she see in that ugly brokeass of a man
OlorunMAJE
His black penis maybe? Toke still won't leave him. You people should rest.
DeleteGod will continue to give her the strength to push through. sad
ReplyDeletenaijaflo.com
Hmm, deep! May God continue to strengthen you.
ReplyDeleteNice...TM?
ReplyDeleteHav she remove d guy pix from her instagram? Asap
ReplyDeleteGo and check and give us feed back.. Stop asking
Delete@Galore
Even if she has removed them,she will still put them back as soon as they reconcile..Daz marriage for u.
DeleteLife is beautiful when we live it in faith by Christ Jesus.
ReplyDeleteThe Pen dat Writes ur Life story Must be Held In ur Own Hand..Destiny is a thing to be achieved.
I love Toke's spirit, She has moved on already. Thank God4 strenght.
Toks baby
ReplyDeleteTime heals all wounds...u'll be fine with time
Toke, get off social media! Haba!
ReplyDeleteIf she no talk....una go say she no talk....now she don talk,just to acknowledge that things actually is not going well with her and husband.....still, Na blame una blame am
Delete@John 3:16 get off @SDK blog and go and read your bible
@Galore
@ Galore, thunder fire you there!
DeleteEwu gambia
Anu mmpama
Wont you mind your business? Mtcheeeeeeeeeew
Why will she do dat? Bcos of a man? Abeg she has her life to live..Let her continue doing what she knows best..Dis is just a phase..She will come out triumphant.
Delete@John ....if u don cry finish, make u use ACID wash your face and.also use HYPO brush your teeth
DeleteOgun go kill u.....bet n see.
@Galore
Very good!
ReplyDeleteEyaaah
ReplyDeleteShes tha bomb...
ReplyDeleteThe endin part that theres a vlog dis week just tripped me. Thumbs up.
But am sure shes know abt it 4 a while jor
Not Easy going out of the storm but the Lord is your strenght. God bless you Toke.
ReplyDeleteLove you Toke
ReplyDelete@Stella *winks*
Maje no try sha. Useless man.
ReplyDeleteThis toke they are all awwwwwing, I told her during d brief stint she had with my hubby, I Told her her karma always pays a visit, she was my nemesis briefly..now it's her turn...she did threesomes back then in unilag, ask her how come about maje?...na today? d pple dat hurt homes always cry louder when their turn comes, stella if u like don't post...guilty ones can bash me but d truth remains, karma surely bites..no matter how long, u won't know how your bite will be.
ReplyDeleteSo na u curse her abeg forgive and release her .
DeleteHe heen? Nawah
DeleteClick my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers
Lie lie people have come again. Can't you use your overactive imagination for something more productive?
DeleteLIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE!!!!!!
DeleteAnita Solomin d hairdresser is dat u? U are welcome..How market?
Hair dresser go to the UK and see how they making money one of the richest professions stop displaying ur ignorance abeg
DeleteI for believe you if to say na real profile you use make this comment but as you don decide go under anon to try tarnish person name. BS wah o!
DeleteNice one Toks. But don't forget it is hard being a man too. We guys don't get it easy from u lot.
ReplyDeleteIG - @carlosdop
What rubbish, cant even read to the end.
ReplyDeleteAfter snatching Anita boo and deceiving the whole world into believing you where the main chic.
My friend please go and park.
Girls like you are so wrong and stop lying to peeps telling them you date Maje for 12 year please. The truth is you have KNOWN him for 12years and have dated him on and off for 5 years.
Lie Lie.
Mr or miss Anon11:52.......Wat r u on abt?? If Maje loved Anita so much why didn't he wife her?? Pls am sick and tired of hearing Anita is the love of his life.......why do we women mistake a good fuck as love??? Yes he had sex with Anita while he was married dats becus she was cheap enuf to open her legs........If I date a guys for 8yrs and he weds anoda woman it simply means he didn't give a shit abt me or how I feel.......and point of correction Maje wasn't forced to marry toke she was the best and beta choice.......So bcuz am married my life shuld end and I shuldnt fulfill my purpose on planet earth......wat happened to gender equality? So I must be a door mat and put my own ambition on hold koz am a married woman pls u guys shuld get over yourself.......In my world a single gal who slips with a married man is an ARISTLO BABE........Toke is a strong woman a nd a go getter.
DeleteAnita Solomon why are u still pained? Is it not enough dat u want to trap a married man with pregnancy? How are we sure pregnancy actually belong to MAje? If i were Maje,i will opt for DNA test cos calabar hoes like u aint loyal..
DeleteYes Maje dated Toke for over 12yrs..Its a known fact..She did not lie..Pls deal with it..We saw their throw back pic where Toke was much younger..She should be i her teens then..So dey did not start today..
Stop deluding urself..Maje wont marry u as second wife..Just have d baby and move on.
Desperate hoe.
The babe is in England preparing to have her bundle of joy and the likes of Chizoba are here gulping panadol on Toke's behalf. Wow!
DeleteAnD Even If We Get Knocked Down,We Shall ARISE!
ReplyDeleteAnD Yea! This Too Shall Pass Babyyyy!
I love U Toke Boo!
I looove youuuu!
Sannu Maya Angelou. Keep arising till you rise like Ijebu garri.
DeleteThis toke they are all awwwwwing, I told her during d brief stint she had with my hubby, I Told her her karma always pays a visit, she was my nemesis briefly..now it's her turn...she did threesomes back then in unilag, ask her how come about maje?...na today? d pple dat hurt homes always cry louder when their turn comes, stella if u like don't post...guilty ones can bash me but d truth remains, karma surely bites..no matter how long, u won't know how your bite will be.
ReplyDeleteYou mean am??...
DeletePls forgive her and ask God to heal and bless her marriage. I'm sure she has learnt her lesson.
DeleteNne, nack us the full tory biko
DeleteIf I hear?
DeleteYouDontMeanIt
Abeg madam open yansh make we hear, I said it,she is not innocent ass people think. Stupid girl. Karma truely is a Bitch
DeleteLmao @linda eze u shall like gossip oh choiii
DeleteHmmm
DeleteBlog boss and queen esokwam gi eti "u mean am"..... all I know is that behind all dis stories, there is d truth which neither toke or Olorunmaje is saying.... But in all, God is d Ultimate!
DeleteLiar oshi.Who is ur husband? Ewu Ewu Ewu!
DeleteGod bless Toke for this. Just what i needed this morning.
ReplyDelete*teary*
ReplyDeleteFor Fuck Sake! I'm tired of this Tokesaga. Abeg... Toke go & rest. Be acting for all your fans you hear. Mtscheeeeew
ReplyDeleteShe can't even spell "pressure"......olodo rapata!
ReplyDeleteEng. Teacher ...lol
Delete"It is tough been a woman,the preasure is so real" this line really got me crying,you are such a beautiful strong woman,I adore your courage so much.My sincere prayers for you is that God will surely grant you all the strength you need to carry on,God will bless & keep you,(Amen) His promises in your life will manifest. I am so encouraged this morning by your words. I will never allow anyone deprive me of my happiness anymore.
ReplyDeleteHehehe u get plenty tears for eye oh
DeleteYes o the pressure is real. I married for a while before l got children. I nearly died of pressure from all quarters this people will still want you to be all smiles and beautiful. In 2004 l said enough is enough l must live , got my groove back . Reduce my acquaintances to positive people and now God has restored me. Women please be financially independent and ur frustrations will be half way gone. Halima
DeleteThe pressure on women is terrible m'dear!
DeleteHappened to speak with a male friend who has been having issues with wify n running from home that she nags.
By the time we were done with that conversation, he regretted even telling me but learnt a few lessons.
The expectations from this woman were just Damn too much!!! Yet he does nothing!!! Absolutely nothing!!! And expects her to be heaven on earth...
That day I started judging that lady less. If u hear her screaming ehnnn, u will feel sorry for this man. Without knowing this man is the problem (he didn't even know o).
Nigerian men, Infact men as a whole have a very very bad orientation while growing! May God help every woman and give them wisdom on how to deal with them LARGE children called men!
Hmmm she's good to go. I hope she moves on from this. Am just wknderj g if they are still living together. With all the brouhaha that erupted online about them how are they looking into each other's eyes.
ReplyDeleteThank goodness, toke is really a strong lady.
ReplyDeleteWay to go Toke, the Lord is your strength
ReplyDeletegood to know
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
So happy that women are standing up for each other.
ReplyDeleteThe misery we once passed through always turn out to be a ministry for us.
TOKE you are strong woman
Just as the duck shake off water on it's body.
Shake it Off my dear.........
All will be well
ReplyDeleteToke is a strong woman not to remain downcast. i pray Jesus fixes everything up for her family
ReplyDeleteMy new 'Rols Models' *in jenifa's voice*
ReplyDeleteKeep pushing it Toke. God strengthen you.
If I talk wetin de my mind now...
ReplyDeleteAbeg this matter haff do biko!
*yawn*
Move on
*yawns again*
Dem no de carry Man matter for head, na for shoulder. E do anyhow, you shake him off.
Toke! Shake Maje off biko!
Bless you, Bloggie!
DeleteIf he misbehaves "badly", sisterly, chuck the deuce.
Stop settling!
Its too late to shake Maje off..They are husband and wife.We talk about walking away as if its dat easy..Many of us have seen worse in marriage but we come to d internet and talk as if we are perfect....as if we cant tolerate it when it happen to us..Life is full of ups and down..
DeleteMarriage is not only for better..bible included 'for worse'...Dis is just d worse in Toke's marriage..They will sort themselves out and make up..Daz marriage for u.
Chizoba this Toke issue has shown your human side finally. So marriages are full of up and down never knew that o with the way you go about bashing single girls one would think it's a bed of roses. Oya chop kiss, we will all rise.
DeleteNice one toke..
ReplyDeleteNow let's give it a rest..
Say no more toke,say no more..
Ok.
ReplyDeletetoke truth be told
ReplyDeleteyour husband doesnt love you
simple and short
move on
quit takin selfies and makin d whole world believe ur happy when ur dying inside
admit it and get over it
Hahhhahha @ quit taking selfie.
DeleteHer make-up on point though...
She died but has woken up.
It's time to move on!
Says who? H e loves her..He dated her for 12yrs and married her..U cant force a man into marriage is he doesnt love u truly..Maje loves Toke..Anita was a distraction daz why it was as if he was dragging his feet before their court wedding..
DeleteSo deal with it girl and dont talk as if u know who Maje truly love.
Dat he doesnt gush about his wife openly on IG doesnt mean he loves her d less..Some men are not good at showing love openly..
U people dont even know what love truly means..So STFU and face ur work!
Chizy nnem, it is well.....Ihe ke afugbuola gi....hugs
DeleteChizoba Ibebuike, you will soon rupture a nerve. Calm down!!
DeleteToke isn't innocent and is only reaping what she sowed- get your head out of your arse woman!
Na wah for this chizoba. She dey carry this mattaer for head. I de fear ooooo
DeleteBe strong and everything will be alright
ReplyDeleteOhhh toke... I can't help bt love u more nd more.. U are indeed a strong woman.
ReplyDeleteGood one,you really a strong woman.
ReplyDeleteStrong woman
ReplyDeleteA strong woman indeed
ReplyDeleteI just keep loving this babe
ReplyDeletePeople, you don't understand her story....you don't know her....so,please stop judging her by saying..."she should sit at home bla bla bla"...
She should stop attending parties bla bla bla
This is a Lady that stood tall....against all odds.....She became a better person by the help of God and by being optimistic about life
This lady is an often....She was an orphan right from her tender age when her parents died from Fire mishap.... What can be so emotional for a small girl of her age at that time.....But she choose to Rise above her everything, just to be the Vessel God has made her to be.
Can u visualise if u loose a loved ones by fire..... House Burnt down.......you will keep seeing the image.....Then imagine a young @Toke ,who went through all that.....That is why she is always afraid to stay at home.......but since u don't know her story, so u say she is "ajala waka waka"
@Toke....Be strong in the Lord....because GOD will never put note on you,than u can bear.
Peace!!!!!
As for @Anita..... You have done your worst,you and @Maje........But remember,You both can't go without being punished by GOD who created the heaven and earth.
@Anita.....don't worry... By December ,I will come to your shop at Marian road in Calabar.....and just take time and study you....I have been to your salon with my aunt daughter before...I never knew u are the @Anita that will later be in the news for the wrong reason
Unam ikot..
@Galore
Hahahaha.....Now i know why she wont stay home with her hubby. #firesaga#
DeleteEwu Ewu Ewu
DeleteUpon all the school you dey claim say you go, you can gbagaun for Africa.
Na even person you escort go the salon sef and famzin.
If you like go to the salon go chop slap, na your toroh kobo
Ewu Ewu Ewu!
Why u carry d matter for head like gala seller...the same hand u used to type that we should not judge her because we don't know her story is d same one u r using to type ur judgement on Anita and maje... Pls can u shut ur stinking mouth already??? Are u God? U r judging and yet preaching that we shouldn't judge. World people and their double standards. Pls shush it already!
DeleteShut up
DeleteStay strong Toke
ReplyDeletelol…….self deceit….cry in private and deceive yourself in public
ReplyDeleteGo and die!
Deletetoke if ur husband truly loves he might cheat but not impregnate someone but this time he cheats,impregnates her then flew her abroad ti have his baby,madam cnt u see d signs?quit deceivin the public
ReplyDeletewe all know ur cryin everyday but deceivin d public
Anita e still dey pain u? So if a man dat lobes his wife can cheat but cannot impregnate abi? No be d ame fuck dat resulted in pregnancy? Anita ur pregnancy was a mistake..I'm sure Maje must be regreting fucking u again..
DeleteWho said he flew u to London..Maje is living ofd Toke's money..He doesnt have any money to fly u abroad..U used ur own money to travel .We know all these things..I'm sure Maje asked u to abort and stopped taking ur calls daz why u leaked a pregnancy to d press to get back at him..
Hahahahahaha..Ur have failed woefully..Maje wont leave Toke..He loves her and not u.
Chizoba, defender of the universe 😂
DeleteFighting wars that you do not know the details of. You are so funny
I tell you she is soooo funny! Lol
Deletecould she at leaste take a break or somfin like go off social media or a vacay?...tired of all dez toke dis n dat..
ReplyDeletepretend in public
ReplyDeletecry in private
@Anita d hairdresser for MARIAN road Calabar just dey waka dey comment like ghost
DeleteShame no even catch u
U wan repeat the same story when ur @Mama do for her youth
U too don dey go that lane.....u want to destroy @Tokes home....e no go work.....
Keep commenting under @Anon or even change names if u wish...we know u
Just pray mame u born safely first
@Galore
toke makinwa is artifiicial
ReplyDeletewhile anita is natural
men love dem natural
Ainta d hairdresss srop deceiving urself.Toke fine pass u oh! Ntoorrr gi!
DeleteOh please , this story has been over flogged. I feel sorry for her but all the same she put her business out there , now she wants a pity party. There are lots of married women out there that are career oriented, hard working women, but they don't seek for too much attention. This woman is an attention seeker,so she should be able to handle the good and bad. You are strong but you wrestled yourself into marriage. You acted like a relationship guru, i know it all.At least this should tell people that no one knows it all. When you are not married, its because you haven't done this and that.If you haven't gotten your job yet, its because you haven't done this or that. Forgetting that everything is by Gods grace.Just because you got it before some other person, you are better and smarter. This is the case of most Nigerian women, because you dated a man for 13years you felt you have turned to expert. If this hadn't happened, she would have done a vlog on why husbands cheat on them and how it is their fault.I have seen how single women are taunted in Nigeria because they are not married.I watched one of her vlog where she said if you wear hair net it is your fault your husband cheats on you and i was like really? When it comes to Nigerian women and marriage, i will only learn from women that are real and not all these instagram i have the best man fake women. Nobody be Rambo when it comes to relationship.All the same take time to heal Toke, life goes on.
ReplyDeleteGbam! Ur head dey there...why d pity party? When its obvious she stole d guy from Anita in d first place by pulling that stunt....now d original owner of the man has taken him back. She should deal with it abeg and stop gathering pity followers.. Mtchewwww!
DeleteVery said! She needs to take a break from social media, I think she is trying so hard to appear not fazed but instead letting it carry on.
DeleteHaters full this life sha
DeleteI still think private matters should be left PRIVATE. Marriage is between THE TWO and every one putting asunder will be held accountable by God. So will the partner or partners that allow them in.
ReplyDeleteIt is all admirable to be strong and to act strong. But the reality is, in the secret place of your bedroom, in the closet of your heart, when you are alone in the bathtub, are you indeed strong?
I am getting more and more disgusted on how much 'private' marital issues are made public because 'they' think they are celebrities.
Please, there are celebrities we don't hear nada about.
While I am sorry about what she is going through, I wish she'd keep it more private.
That's my take and I own it with no apologies to anyone.
Get behind the curtain, lady!
STORIES @ ALIFEDIARY
I hope her marriage lasts.
ReplyDeleteBut the handwriting was boldly written in red on the wall that Maje did not want to marry her.
A guy that needed 10 years to decide that you are the one for him?
And then you fixed a wedding date and he left you stranded in the registry?
It is so clear that he didn't want to marry Toke, but she wanted to marry him at all cost otherwise the shame and heart break that came with that abandonment at the registry should have been more than enough to warn her off.
Well the deed has been done now, and I guess every one deserves what they really want.
I hope it works out for them, and I really hope Maje does not play up again but I won't be surprised if he does because if your heart is not in something, it's not in it. And if you're a dog that will be your perfect excuse.
Good luck to them both.
Oh,he stood her up at d registry once? Oturugbeke! Surely this man never wanted to marry this lady, how can u even marry d man who stood u up before? Is it not clear that he is not into u? Toke was just so desperate to bear Mrs..haba! Tufia!
DeleteIf I hear,ur hurtin,n yet ur smiliNg,get off d social media n heal,Ahhhhhhhh e no easy bt at least get some privacy
ReplyDeletelinda eze you are and will always be a stupid idiot.....stupid fool.....did she say stella should share her post here? its her page and will say what she likes...whether you like it or not she is a media personality and talking is what has brought her this far....so deal with it you half baked illiterate piece of shit
ReplyDeleteWelldone Toks!......... Then I ask, must we wait for hard lessons like this before we do the right thing???!!! I ve not commented on dis ish bf now my judgement is gonna be likeable to the God's judgement on Adam, Eve n satan. Evry1 is guilty, find where U re wrong, appologise n move on.
ReplyDeletestupid idiots here blaming toke....why not insult Stella for posting it here.....are u here friend on instagram? if u are not her friend then you wont see it. stop insulting toke and insult Stella who posted it here...next time if you see a post on toke please don't click......bloody hypocrites, you make noise yet you come here and leave comments....fools
ReplyDeleteShut up!!...
DeleteYou fool...
All this sounds to me like a hook and bait story. Just shows how gullible a whole bunch can be.no matter how much they decieve u guys u guys keep asking for more. Your whole world stops for gossip and people"s downfall. And Stella continues to lead an army of bad people that spew vile to innocent people. Must people face the public with their problems? It's not your right to decide that
ReplyDeleteOh how I wish it.is me her husband impregnated
ReplyDeleteGod will fix it for her IJN Amen
ReplyDeleteShe is just pretending to the whole world. For once get real pls Toke. Always pretending nd forming what she is not. You are too uptight. Free yourself. I wonder who you re trying to impress. Next time get ur own man and be a real wife. Not looking for fame everywhere. Vain life
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note, e be like say Maje dick go sweet well well….kikikikikikiki..i think his dick is a BOMB dick..kikikikiki..The type of dick wey dey confuse women brain..kikikiki….
ReplyDeleteNever under estimate d power of a black fat dick...and as i dey see d guy so,his rod stick go make sense.
DeleteStella shebi Toke is your person , can you not advice her to keep quiet for once , must she want to prove that she has risen above it , what is she doing to herself , no right thinking woman after this social ish would start flaunting herself like , I don't want any one to know am feeling bad , I don't want Anita and Maje's family to laugh @ me .
ReplyDeleteLady Toke give yourself some rest , everyone is with you on this one but common go on a vacation and stop parading yourself . Oooooto ma teee si oooooo.
If you decide after this to go back ask yourself if you'd enjoy Anita's face and baby constantly in your lives , considering you are yet to have one I pray you do , how long will you stay happy with Maje , even with his begging you, would he stop . Think am well ooo it's not like one girl he hit on just get belle , it's a relationship of 8 years , you cannot wish away feelings like that ooooo.
Finally you see all those your friend advising you , they sure do not wish you well , them for tell say sometimes silence is golden .
The Queen and the boss of this blog : i hail o. if she stays away, you will say she has run away from instagram. human beings can not be pleased finally.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Congrats on her unborn step kid though..
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Lmao. This guy sef. She tell u say she need congrats
DeleteMy own is that I'm ashamed. See how women are struggling for men and its all over the media. Why won't men misbehave? Why won't they feel too important? Its a man's world finally. Toke, e don do. Keep quiet and let this die down naturally. Don't grant any interviews. Don't talk to anyone abt it, and try to be more real. Honestly, you're too fake and that's putting it mildly. I repeat, if you decide to up and leave your husband, make sure its wat you really want to do and not bc ppl re telling u to. So many women have seen worse and they're stil in their husband's houses. This is bc life is difficult for a female divorcee in this country. Be wise. Be strong
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Congrats on her unborn step kid though..
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Her case is not new to us and more of such cases will surface. While we talk/discuss her ish as normal don't be surprised her husband might even settled Anita's dowry. There's something about that Anita most people don't know incl me. Toke you saw it and went ahead, bear it because its part of the things that makes this world. God will always fight for His own if your ways are pure.
ReplyDeleteGod bless us all. I need prayers BVs.
It's hard to feel sorry for this girl....for someone who loves to be married, this Instagram impulsive nature of hers is going to only attract stupid men. For real. Minot saying marriage is be all end all for women, but I don't think Toke likes being single. Therefore for someone who loves being married, she needs to position herself in a desirable manner to attract the correct guy. She is too public and for frivolities.
ReplyDeleteANITA SOLOMON
ReplyDeleteWELCOME TO THIS POST OOO!
ASHAWO 10 KOBO!
IDIOTIC HAIRDRESSER CLAIMING "THE BOY IS MINE"!
ODE!
OPONU JATI JATI!
ANOFIA!
ONYIOSHI!
EWU TOGO!
UNATTRACTIVE MOFO!
FUCK OUTTA HERE JOOR!
WE SEE YOU, WE DON HIA! COMMOT FOR HERE BEFORE WE ATTACK YOU NOW
Another side to this story:
ReplyDeleteBoy met girl 12 years ago,subsequent break ups along the story line; while searching for his "own' meets another girl 8 years along the way and truly falls in love with her. Fast forward to the present, Girl A becomes a national socialite by virtue of her work and lifestyle and muscles man to commit in a relationship that truly wasn't his heart desire( we might ask,why didn't the man stand his ground and say no, story for another day and let's not forget influence of societal pressure that girl a has and employed in meeting her demand).Man marries girl a but still keeps in touch with girl b that he is truly drawn too and now another chapter comes in- a baby.
Who is the so- called victim in all this love triangle??? The drama/manipulative queen herself? or Spineless loverboy or Default second fiddle by choice?
Chizoba - Anita is a lawyer! Hairdressing is a side hussle. Sofly sofly dey abuse am abeg. We all know Toke was the side chick once upon a time. She stole Maje from Anita. Anita has stolen him back again. Let the tiangle continue. The saga going on is "U steal my man, I steal him back". Tit for Tat! Shikena!
ReplyDeleteChizoba has your hubby given another lady belle before. Why you carry this matter for your head like gala na.
ReplyDeleteI swear. She s talking like someone that has passed through that pain before. Easy nne.
DeleteCan someone tell toke the truth for once? A wise woman builds her home. Maje this, Maje that, anita this, anita that. When you see the signs and think marriage will change the person, R u the holy spirit?
ReplyDeleteIsit just me! Because I don't feel sorry for her, party today, she's there. Instagram seeker, instead of her 2 face her hubby. I don't want to judge o but, some women are holding there hubby tight but they are still cheating. @least party and attachment would reduce small for her
ReplyDeleteSo you are happy such a thing happened to her ? is her being on IG a re son for what Maje did. A man will chat for no reason
DeleteToke you are strong I like that .. These men sha always misbehaving
ReplyDeleteCan she go lick her wounds in private already???
ReplyDeleteNone of us knows what went on or what carries on in these people's relationships.
Why people are hauling vitriol on the guy and his ex are beyond me.
I for one, detest it when people live their lives on social media. It's absolutely disgusting to me and I see it as nothing more than show off..."hey look at me...I'm rich...i'm hot...i'm better than you".
They can all go to blazes for all I care.
:Note to all the women who have been cheated on (and yes I have been cheated on too) ranting vicariously through Toke's experience,
Get over it!
Awwwwwww Toke....hugssssssss
ReplyDeleteIt's funny...for the first time since this story broke, I actually feel a deep sadness for Toke...
She really needs to see someone, a psychologist, therapist, whatever...
She really does have a problem that's deep....maybe if it's the fact that she list her parents early cos she doesn't know how to grieve, she feels she has to be strong so people don't laugh at her, she feels she has something to prove...
Showing up at work right on the Monday after the story broke, her IG presence etc all show that she needs a semblance of order so she doesn't break down, she needs things to go on as they should though her inner self knows all is not well but she feels if she goes through the motions perhaps things will keep being normal....
Pls someone should get her to see someone!!!!! Bottling things up causes serious health issues and you can only pretend for so long before you break down
There's a reason women make up the highest number of psychiatric patients cos compartmentalism his not an innate quality in most women and their coping mechanism might not work for so long.....
Whatever you decide to do, Toke, it's ok...but first please get help...this behaviour looks like it might get as far back as your childhood
No comment. I just can't feign interest.
ReplyDeleteI just want to say to Stella Dimoko-korkus...KUDOS TO YOU and to this blog. You're really giving Linda Ikeji a run for her money these days! You stay hot. You stay blogging and you stay breaking the hottest gossip. ALL THE DAMN WAY FROM GERMANY!!!
ReplyDeleteTo Toke's issue, I have no words. Only her, Maje and Anita know what the real deal is.