What will you do if you found out that your wife is cheating on you?
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''Many people think that the man should kill this cheating wife, while other people think that he should prove it and have more sufficient pieces of evidence in order to help him with the later divorce.
A man suspected that his wife was cheating on him and instead of doing any common or normal reactions, he waited to collect more proof.
The man started to suspect his wife after starting to be late outside home or late at work. When he tried to call her at work, he found out that she had already left! However, she came home late and when he asked her, she told him that her friends were just kidding with him!!
Also, he says that she told him once that she’s going to buy a bottle of milk at11:30 pm and returned home at 2:00 am!! Obviously these actions will make anybody suspect this wife!! Anyway, he didn’t hire an investigator although he recommends that for other people who experience the same situation.
So what do you think he did to prove that she’s cheating on him?!
Instead of killing or abandoning her, he prepared her a gift on her birthday!! Yes, it’s very strange, but you should wait to know why and how!! This man is incredibly cool and smart!
As soon as her birthday approached, he started to ask her what she wanted to do and so on. But she told him that she had to work and didn’t want to feel like she’s getting older! And even asked him to travel outside town with his friends to have fun!! As if it was his birthday not hers!!
Our smart man, however, accepted as if he’s totally dumb.
Although he saw a bottle of champagneand two glasses hidden in his closet, he acted as if nothing is going on, just like a decent man. Then, went to his friends, but he kept calling her friends and her family in order to make her a surprise birthday party! What!
Yes, surprise birthday party! He arranged with her friends and family to meet up outside their apartment at 8:30 in the morning. Then, they entered the apartment silently as he kept advising them to do so. Finally, the huge surprise happened when they opened her room’s door to loudly tell her surprise, then found out the shocking truth!
She was naked and beside her laid her lover, who was staring at the people who entered the room abruptly. He was trying desperately to put on his clothes to move out as fast as he could, and the man’s wife was screaming and asking how he could be here!! Family and friends were totally shocked and yelling too!
Ironically, the husband says that this is the best gift he has ever given!!
So what do you think of his action?!
And if you were in his situation, would you do the same?!
Hahahaha gbese re
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Once your partner starts cheating, If you are an observant person, you will find out. There would be discrepancies in what she or he says or does. In her attempt to be extra careful, she ends up making more mistakes and leaving clues. My ex wife did same, I caught her and discharged her immediately. Life is too beautiful for one to waste his time with a cheating wife when there are plenty unmarried good women around.
DeleteIs this real or fiction? If it's real then the dude is really smart. He was able to gather friends and family to witness what he had been silently swallowing.
DeleteGOBE
DeleteSamehere
DeleteBeautiful!!!!! I looooooooooove
Delete*** mynameisSkelewu
Lol!
ReplyDeleteGobe
Original Gobe!!
DeleteI can't be this patient mayb is because am not a man sha but the woman 2 do how can you say you want to buy milk at 11:30pm you be witch?
Send her back to her father's house to continue from where she stopped.
ReplyDeleteSee ya mouth!
DeleteLike say you no dey cheat.
LOL
#Runsaway
Busted! This woman get mind sha. The man was even kind enough to oblige to her request. This will serve her a lesson am sure she will restrain from it
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Wow!!!
ReplyDeleteThis specie of men is in extinction.
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ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
when that time reach I go know wetin I go do
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Any woman that is caught is a MUGU...
ReplyDeleteEven if you catch my lover on top of me,I will deny it kpomkwem!!...
The thing is most men forgive their wives when caught especially if he dosent know the man his wife is cheating with....
They will come here screaming murder but most of them forgives...
Don't mind them o,i know so many men that knows their wives cheated and these women are still in their houses,they will just type anything online but don't have d liver to do so real life,and women are very smart,u can neva catch us cheating on U.....but d point is we all cheat,both Men and women...
DeleteMen do not forgive.
DeleteLinda Eze, it is either your husband is a poor man or he is very weak in bed.
DeleteNo man that is rich and strong in bed will tolerate cheating for his wife.
U talk trash too much please...why would a married woman cheat at all?cos men cheat doesnt make it okay for women to do same,how does two wrong make it right?ppl like u r d ones dat will b misleading oda women...queen of blog my a** mcheeeew
DeleteGush,I will send her packing
ReplyDeleteBlod of goist! ...I'll be damned. R u kidding me? Almost like am watching Africa magic. She should just eat chicken n die der! On her birthday,....surprise fire!
ReplyDeleteThe man must be a mumu. He went too far gentleness or should I say stupidity. He made a fool of himself.
ReplyDeleteOnce you confirm she is cheating, you divorce her. Even the Holy Bible support it.
Seriously I wonder how ur brain functions.
DeleteAre u too daft to understand d man's stance or d above write up?
Definitely he's gona divorce her bt he gave her an epic disgrace.
Money maker... Ure dumb. D man was just playin along asif he does'nt knw wat he's doin.
DeleteSo am assuming if paraventure you cheat on your beautiful wife, whom you share 2 lovely sons with she should feel free to divorce you abi?and marry another man......
DeleteI don't agree with u d man is so wise nd smart that he made fool of his wife, he can decide what he wants to do nw because has real evidence nd witnesses nobody can blame him for his actions.
DeleteIt is only if she's caught in the act that the bible approves the divorce.
DeleteDis one has been caught, she can be divorced. But remember the same bible says God hates divorce. So if he was a Christian man, he'd have talked to her about it and given her another chance. (not easy o, easier said than done. )
I must say this story is either a make believe or the man is from another planet cos 95% of our men in naija no go wait reach there o
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ReplyDeleteThe man must be a poor man or he is very weak in bed.
ReplyDeleteWomen don't cheat just for cheating sake. There is something wrong somewhere. If the husband is rich and he is a horse in bed, I don't think the wife will be cheating on him.
Mumu is what you are
DeleteI m not a man, so i will pass
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine my wife cheating on me. Where will she see the power to cheat after l go dey hammer her 5 grueling rounds every night?
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine my wife cheating on me. Where will she see the power to cheat after l go dey hammer her 5 grueling rounds every night?
ReplyDeleteMumu dry story....*yawns* not interested *yawns agn*
ReplyDeleteWho are you calling mumu? Stella?
DeleteSmh.
Children of this generation!!!
No respect for elders
Yes we are here! What happened? Oh! Teaser? Lemi go back to read it.................. hmmm, if it was me, I'd 1st of all beg my friend to help me tie her lover to a pole , and ask her why she cheated on me, if her reasons are good enof and I cn improve on it,id forgive her, but if it isn't, I'd divorce her asap, then beg u to make a single mingle post for me LOL
ReplyDeleteFor me na divorce her straight no much talking.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain nonsense woman be this? I'm not encouraging a cheating partner but you wan do this kain mess you come bring boyfriend to your matrimonial home, you be first class idiot. You were given "foolish water" as a baby.
ReplyDeleteFor me o na divorce her straight to her father's house o.
ReplyDeleteI loooove dat man!!
ReplyDeleteI love it when a woman cheats!!!....fuck men!
ReplyDeleteAbormination!
ReplyDeleteAbormination,indeed.
DeleteI just hope it's also ok if a woman does this to a cheating husband.people should start respecting their marriages Biko.dont get married if you won't stay through to your vows!!
ReplyDeleteNollywood or should I say Hollywood?
ReplyDeleteOld story ...
ReplyDeleteWhat a disgrace!
ReplyDelete@money maker,i hope women r also allowed to divorce deir hubbies immediately dey confirm dey. R cheating.
ReplyDeleteSmart actually. This way the woman would not be able to beg him privately not to tell people. Plus, no one would be able to intercede on the woman's behalf, out of shame.
ReplyDeleteThis kind would have made up his mind to divorce the wife afterwards, for him to plan this kind of public disgrace.
Might seem like the man was a mumu but na sharp guy. Opportunity to divorce the stupid woman and marry the one he's been eyeing outside, and the woman gave him on a platter of gold.
*wondering why I'm so cynical nowadays*
What if it was d man that was caught? Wouldn't she forgive? Do u knw hw many women forgive such offenses on daily basis without even letting another ear hear??? D man went too far by making sure everybody saw d sh*t though she didn't do well,he wuld hv handled it another way especially if they hv kids....,. But y shld a married woman cheat in d first place? I can never imagine myself in such a situation though
ReplyDeleteA lot of men forgive infidelity on the part of their wives on two conditions; if its not yet public knowledge that she cheated and if she didn't cheat with the man's friend or neighbour. Nothing matters more to men than their ego. They protect it like an egg. In this scenario, am certain she was sent packing cos a lot of people knew about it. The lady wasn't the only one publicly disgraced. The man also suffered disgrace and the only way to wipe his off is to send divorce her. What a shame!
ReplyDeleteThe woman must be an epitome of stupidity.
ReplyDeleteHow can be she bring her lover home?
No man can take it. If he does, he's only pretending. And one needs to be extra careful of such men.
I will fuck one last round before i send her parking!
ReplyDeleteFor my woman to cheat on me,that means am not good in bed
If we both have kids together then she is free to see them when ever she is free
Lmaoooo
I want to be on the side of men for once:) ( guys don't get used to it:) ) It is more difficult for men to forgive their cheating wives or girlfriends because 90 % of the time when women cheat it is because they have left the man they are cheating on emotionally unlike men ( my opinion ) And it also means they are enjoying the outside dick more and it will be difficult for them to come back to where they were with the men they are cheating on ( emotionally ) Again the way the pussy is built make's it more difficult for men to forgive ( my opinion ) Who wants a pussy that all sorts of men pours into when she is not a prostitute??. GUYS I GET Y'ALL..:) I have seen some men die slowly because their wives cheated, it kills them.
ReplyDeleteLol dis is called gobe!
ReplyDeleteHe should just divorce her already, most cheats are repeat offenders more so now that all her friends and family know...to cheat again would be even easier as he can't threaten to report her...poor guy! Cheating sucks!!!
ReplyDeleteThe man should check himself it maybe he had added weight , does not dress the way he did b4 marriage or does not do the things that tickled her fancy b4 marriage
ReplyDelete*Sarcastic smile* is that not what our society tells women when their husbands cheat
Abi oooo. When is d man caught cheating d woman is to forgive n pretend like nothing happened but when is the reverse the woman is to be sent packing. Long sigh ***
DeleteGbam, you forgot to add that he should pray for his marriage and have a heart to heart talk with his wife.
DeleteDivorce is not an option and God loves a praying husband, he should work on his marriage.
Akuko.
ReplyDeleteSome men can forgive. I know a man whose wife was cheating seriously but the man kept forgiving her. There was a time we had water scarcity in our area, this woman and other housewives went to fetch water that evening, other women came back home dat night but madam no come back until after 3days reeking of alcohol claiming she was kidnapped. Some other time we went for her in laws burial, na so madam miss again, when she was found, na musician and his boy dey sleep with am. This woman committed so much atrocities but the husband kept forgiving her. Last last she felt the husband's house no contain am again, she left her 5 children go Ibadan go continue full scale prostitution. But na her Aids infected body her friends sent back to Edo State and she died after so much suffering and pain. If she didn't leave the house the husband was ready to be condoning her infidelity.
ReplyDeleteThe woman has been a fool since the days of Abraham. So she thought the husband never knew she was cheating with all that? Anyways the husband is a genius, for all the patience and calm, i give it up to him. Not all men would bear such for along time
ReplyDeleteOmo this woman is mumu as in mumu ,if the story is real ,bring a lover home ,your own birthday you ask your husband to travel with friends ,you went to buy milk at 11pm and came back 2am ,bought champgne and two glasses hidden in your home ,abeg this is fiction. ,idontbelieveit made up story
ReplyDeleteOtukwaegwu
ReplyDeleteSmart move, the man try oo
ReplyDeleteThe man get mind ooo and he's also very patient
ReplyDeleteAnyway I can never cheat on my hubby with another man what am I looking for?(except for omalicha of course) My hubby is a handful on his own.
One bad cheat deserves another bad cheat biko. Every mallam to his own kettle. Kyla
ReplyDeleteDivorce!
ReplyDeleteI don't know about the men in Nigeria but you will be shocked at the amount of Nigerian men in the U.S that know their wives are blatantly cheating on them and still live with them...I know this for a fact at least in the state I used to live in before we moved.
ReplyDeleteEven those that went about being nosy about other people's marriage and encouraging divorce did not divorce their wives that everyone knew were cheating. One was seriously asking for reconciliation because the wife wants a divorce. Of course some of these men ain't no Saints themselves.
My dear, divorce in us destroys men. They know what they are dong .
DeleteProbably because of the divorce laws in the U.S . With the law 97% on the side of the women by granting them child support and the ex- husbands having to pay alimony , it's a risk they can't take. Most Nigerian men abroad are not rich, they are at best middle-class with their wives having to support financially and quite a bit of their wives are the primary breadwinner.
DeleteAlso they do not want to lose their standard of living.
So hope that answer your question to a certain degree.
Anon 01:18, I appreciate your explanation but I'm aware of the divorce laws in the U.S.
DeleteMy point is that a lot of Nigerian men in the U.S go about acting like they'd NEVER EVER condone a cheating wife yet when it happens to them, even those with kids over 18, and those with nothing to loose, they fail to put their money where their mouth is.
These are usually the ones that go about advising other men how to run their homes
Maybe they cheat too.
DeleteSome men would just divorce the woman without telling people about the adultery inorder to protect their children and his ego.
ReplyDeleteDisastrous hehe if I were d guy I wee just continue since we've been caught
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