LMAO!
When i saw this i felt someone knows my motherhood story and wrote this because of me..
Sometimes i spend the whole day doing referee work and i know how emotionally tasking it is,especially when one child accuses you of loving the other more because you scolded one harder than the other....
Before the day is over,I would have separated more fights than posts made on this blog.
Who has a Referee story to tell either as a mum,dad,uncle,aunt or human being?
You wont believe it but i need to close this post to separate another fight..LMAO!
Hahahaha that's kind of true. Joys of parenting.
ReplyDeleteLol i seperate fight from my sister everyday one dey always thief the other one cloth. As middle child wey i be na me be the refree
DeleteEwooooo same here o. But that was when my kids were much younger though. Even now they still fight and my daughter tries to act like me when dealing with her brother. Eheheh. But since she resumed boarding school she has become more matured that when she comes home on holiday, she no dey follow anyone talk o. Always in her room doing her thing. So her brother feels like he owns the whole territory. Kids ehn, I enjoyed and still enjoy the settling of dispute. Hubby thinks I am always too harsh though. **rme*
DeleteAmongst my siblings and I, back then, I was always the one to cause the fight without them knowing it. And na me go first call my mama say fight don start o. I loved to watch my siblings fight, as long as I'm not the one involved lolll. Mehn it used to be sweet jare
Lol,
ReplyDeleteWaiting.....
Soon to be mom loading............
Delete*Udo gba koikoi *
Lol am so feeling u because as an aunt I do same here sometimes u find out you've no time for urself. Anyway those are the fun of having kids around
ReplyDeleteThe worst scenario is when you have same sex as the older and younger, then you know that you've successfully gotten Mayweather and Pacquio in your home
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
LOL
DeleteFunny
DeleteLol
ReplyDeleteWaiting for comments *in some BVs voice
SDK,you be big name.you need house help
ReplyDeleteLook at what is coming out of your congealed pap brain.
DeleteAbeg naa hw big name n househelp take relate for this particular matter?she loves her life as it is nna
DeleteI always play referee b/w my twin teen daughters, always fightn over mumu mumu thgs, jst last week one insulted the other that she looks like a lady frm Botched, that one cause wahala... Wifey don't evn mind them, I don tire.
ReplyDeleteLol.
DeleteLady from Botched? Haha.
Awwwwww, so cute..
DeleteI want twin daughters so bad!
I love tales about kids so be expecting to comment on any interesting and funny comment.
*shines teeth*
Loooool, Botched of all shows.
DeleteNo be small referee. It's always the younger one having a go at the older one.
ReplyDeleteSo true.
DeleteHaha so true, my little nephew wud never want to loose a fight, if he is not the one that hit last that fight won't be over, I will be begging the big one PP allow him win and he wud say no oh TK always like to beat. Lol imaging those my boys now is making me smile. Love u boys
ReplyDeleteMy boys are 8 and 6.. Am sure my neighbours think am a mad woman bcos it's always. Leave ur broda alone! Stop jumping on the chair!don't jump from the bunk!
DeleteThey think they are super heroes one is Ben 10 and the other is Avatar Roku or what is he called and they practice their fighting skills every minute.. after separating them each fight I will ask them to sit on different chairs but before u know it they are sitting together talking and laughing again.. Anyway these days I have selective hearing.. I don't hear them fighting whoever wins will tell the other one sorry and he will stop crying.. My 4 year old daughter is learning how to hold her ground too with her 6years old brother but they know not to beat Mummy's daughter if they don't want my wahala.. I can't wait for them to grow up so I'll send them off to boarding schools..
My 3 yr old; round 1, Fight!!! Always! Sigh! And I have 3 of them
Deletelol @ Tochini u just described my life. Me sef my selective hearing no be hear at all lol.. I now know the different cries and knows the ones that needs mummy's attention. I just let them get on with it o I cannot come and kill myself :)
DeleteIt's not easy at all. The 3 of them will call mummy at d same time. I don't want to hear who started first my own when I just heard scream or cry ure going to sit down with me for one hour na person born me too. My second son is always not at fault, he will be d first to start and first to cry, my girl of 3yrs does not take it lightly wt the boys always ready to fight. But they are very interesting to watch.
Deleteokay
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Lol
ReplyDeleteAm presenting stayin with my coz n his wife.. stel nor b small matersooo
ReplyDeleteEven time quarel n all, the woman became fed up n wanted to pack Bt heer parents told her to endure. My coz had to call me inside to narrate his own version n the wife only narrate her version.. I don talk tire ooo.. till I had to send personal frnd to one of their family frnd. Till sate they didn't know I was the one that told the man to interfer. They settled sha, mayb till anyone bites again.. lolzz being a ref is nt easy
"My head!!!
DeleteWhat is this???
DeleteHehehe I can relate to this
ReplyDeleteLol. ....
ReplyDeletelol @referee
ReplyDeleteThat was how myself and twin sister were fighting when we were young. My late dad tried to seperate us for where. my mum self tire for us.
ReplyDeleteIt is our late dog (that we normally call bingo bingo) that jumped on both of us.. na there fight finish ooo.
anytime i remember the jumping of that dog on us, i will laugh. Twins are really good. even self having 2 or 3 children self na war not to talk of one.
one of my neighbour made a promise to run away from home since her children when they were both young like 5 and 6 years old will not allow her to rest. she say she is going to her mama house and will leave the children with the husband to deal with.
children are loved. they make your day sweet.
Abegi......*yawns*
DeleteLol.....mystique!!!
DeleteHahahahhahahhahahahhahaahahhahaha@ You wont believe it but i need to close this post to separate another fight.Stella, its the beauty of motherhood!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI believe you aunty stella,I hv one at home as a nephew,u will jst b busy doin his issue dat at d end ,u realised d day is almost gone#smile#
ReplyDeleteI believe you aunty stella,I hv one at home as a nephew,u will jst b busy doin his issue dat at d end ,u realised d day is almost gone#smile#
ReplyDeleteLol @ separating more fights than posts made on ds blog. Mothers una dey try Jare though my kid sis n I dint turn our moim into a referee wile growing up. We were just cool.
ReplyDeleteAw, I found this totally endearing, particularly with your accompanied story, Stella.
ReplyDeleteI wanna be a referee...NOW!
Amen.
DeleteIt is well.
Lol @ separating more fights than posts made on ds blog. Parents especially Mothers una dey try jare though my kid sis n I(it was just d two us f a verrrrrry long time bfr kid bro was birthed) dint turn our mum\dad into a referee wile growing up. We were just cool.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Thats me and my sisteer ryt there....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Exactly Stella I thought I'm the only in this shoe.
ReplyDeleteOn many occasion my eldest son will tell me "Mummy I know you like my brother more than me".
That statement have been making me to feel like a failed and partial mother.
Who can't evenly SHARE love among her two sons, just like bottle of COKE.
Awwwwww, try showing that one that feels cheated that you love him please.
DeleteHow I love kids! They make me happy.
Awww don't feel like that dear am sure you are doing your best. Kids can be funny like that. Having said that I am very conscious of trying not to let either of my boys feel less loved than the other. So I scold them both with the same vigour. At the same time I try to share the cuddles and praises equally and as deserved.
DeleteAlthough my hubby tends to scold the older one harder and I have tried to get him to chill before the boy starts feeling like the little one is his favourite (though I think so too lol...).
But seriously as parents we need to be careful about that sha so as not to create resentments between our kids.
Stay blessed dear and may God continue to grant us all the wisdom we need to raise our children right.
Anonymous u are so right o. My kids used to fight about who would take the front seat in the car. My God, going out weekends was always dramatic. Cos we would spend like one hour at the car park trying to settle who got to the front first. And this happened when it's only one of us taking them out, hubby or myself.
DeleteIn the end I make both seat at the back, but my hubby will ensure my daughter seats in front cos she's older. And my son would feel daddy likes her more. So me I'll start consoling the boy...while hubby will say "men don't cry, be a tough boy".. for where?
Then when it's my turn to take them out, my son would quickly come and tell me to play a revenge by allowing him seat in front instead of his sister. Lmao. Jeeezzz...this was my life every Sunday when we go to church o. So teyyy my son will not eat breakfast because he wants to get to the car first. See rushing. Chai. Well parents need to balance it for real. It's so easy to upset a child because of perceived favoritism.
Lmao, my toddler and my 7 months old fight as if they are both toddlers when I carry the baby and smack the toddler, u will see how she will use crying noise to bring down my roof, she will want me to scold the baby as well, is fun doh, I love been around them all the time.
ReplyDeleteHahahahah, cool
DeleteI am referee extraordinaire.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are 8(girl) and 6(boy).
The boy is very playful while my lil girl is the proper type,you know no farting,pronouncing words right,pink bedsheet straightened always and shoes placed well. But the boy will have none of that. Her bed is for demonstrations and her pencils are for drawing on the wall. Of course,she will have none of that.
I am the referee.
2. She knows how to retaliate. My son acted as a king in school. The Queen was Genevieve,so my daughter calls him GENEVIEVE and the end result......
I am the referee.
They are in the same school,same school bus and they are so close. They will fight ,I'll referee n mete put punishment,next minute they are tight friends again.
The worst part is that even one reports to you and you want to discipline the wrong doer,the reporter will say,mummy please forgive him/her.
WRITTEN BY
IRENE B
(THE EPISTLE APPRENTICE)
Lolzzz@mummy forgive him/her
DeleteSee me smiung all through!
DeleteIf person wan do me bad thing, use pikin set trap, I go fall yakata
This your Signature is one in town.
DeleteNa Really apprentice.
Kids are adorable.
It Seems i am always Refereeing!
ReplyDelete*Rolls ma Eyes*
I Called dem for breekie dis morning,normally i say "Girls brekkie is ready" buh dis morning i only Called my younger daughter....Z,come n Eat...
AnD next thing i heard from my younger daughter was "Where are u going? Did she call u?
'Na her elder nearly 7 year old sister she was addressing o
Apparently my peaceful older daughger heard d "come n eat and was heading out and Dats wen Z,disrespected her,in her own words. Hahahaha
My older one,L now Turned and asked her "How dare u talk to me in that tone?
Hahahhabahahaha she can like to use dat phrase eh "How dare u.....
Na so fight start o....
Djring deir Night prayers dey take it Turn by Turn to Sing Praises...
My first goes first.den her younger sister...
I was feeding d baby in d Sitting room and was watching dem on d Baby Monitor...
My first went "Children of God,can u Sing Alleluia....dey sang dAt one
D second went "Lift Him Up Higher
AnD dat was how dey were singing for close to 5 mins....d songs flowing...
Next thing i heard was "Children of God,can u Sing Alleluia? Sing Alleluia for d Lord 100 times...
AnD dat was from my mischievious 4 year old!
Hahahhaahhaahhahahahahaahhaha
I come dey laugh come dey shock...how can dey Sing dat 100 times??
Next thing i heard over d monitor "Mummyyyyy!
I Need help here.dere is no way we can Sing dis 100 times hahahabhahaha
N'a so i hurried to deir room o and by den See argument...
how can u Sing dat 100 times?u are never serious for prayers!
AnD her sister retorting "Calm down L.....its just 100 times!we wil count it on our Fingers!
Hahahahabhahahahaha
Buhahahahaha!!!
Delete100 gini?
Kids ehn!
Just reminds me of my childhood.. Our stories are so much and hilarious..
My dad had our melicine though.
Hahahahahahahahaha
DeleteShout hallelujah 100 times keh
LMAO
aaaww haha ha..lol@its just100 times kids are amazing
DeleteOMG too funny. got me laughing so hard. 100 times. we can count it on our fingers. lol d prayer wan turn maths class
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Hahahahahahaha GW my ribs oh.... Hahahahaha chei ur angels re something else. Give them lots of kisses for me.
DeleteThanks for the other day.
Lmao 100 times kwa
DeleteLmao! I like your 4years old baby! #mischief
DeleteLoooool,she try well well
DeleteHahaha
DeleteHahahaha.
DeleteYour second has inherited some traits. Wide grin.
Oyili Nnea. Hohoho.
I can imagine
DeleteLmao.....
DeleteWe will count it with our fingers"
Hahahahahahahahahahaha!
DeleteHahahaha joke of the year. Please start sending us Amebo gist wey go make us laugh forget our wahala. 100 times ke. Dat child is ........lmao
DeleteHahahahaha mischief! 100 times! Chai, kids!
DeleteHahahahaha......I love this one I swear down. Nor be only 100 times.lol...
DeleteBwahahahahahahaha....
DeleteKids can make u shout eheee....
Hahaaaaaa. ...!
Deletelmaooooo
Delete"Just 100 times"
Am sure they will doze off before they even get to 30. Kikikikikikikiki
This children will not kill somborri.
I can't even count how many fights I.go referee at mine
It's either they are fighting over whose turn it is to sit in front beside me while driving
Or
the "I took it first" -fighting over a toy
Or they are fighting over which cartoon channel to watch.
Phew!
Motherhood roocks mehnnn!
Hahahahaha Zizzy u wil like her na.u and Quicksilver reminds me of her.....Lolz
Delete@jaby,tight Hugs to u Love.
@ Folarin,X baby,Pinkyyy,Precious,Warri babe,Ivy,Mide,Hussy,Ivy,Mrs Cbn,Joy n I blessé gal....hahahahhH
@ Bloggie n Iphie Dearieee,Kisses!
Wet sloppy Ones!
Lmao!!!!
DeleteLOL. but even then, i cant wait to join ooooooooo
ReplyDeletebaba God be a boo provider
Amen, he will do it for you, dinner than you expect.
DeleteTears! Tears!! Tears!!!
ReplyDeleteWails uncontrollably
This is the story of my life
I separate more fights than I kiss hubs a day
These boys can fight for Africa
And when theu want to be mischievous, they do it together
It's always this and that
Some times I lock up myself in the room so they will tear themselves to shreds but when I come out, they are all fine in good conditions
It's even more when I'm trying to separate them, that's when they try to over do it
With my present status I can't go and die for them so I just lock them up until they make up
I can't deal at all
The weekends are the longest for me as I'm whole all day separating fights and talking and screaming like a mad woman where I'm trying to stop them from destroying things and the next thing they tell me is MUM PLEASE CHILL. WE DON NOTHING WRONG, really? Nothing wrong and I'm screaming? So am I craaay? Boys are a handful. I will run away if these ones comes as boys too. I have been telling them to pray hard so this set will not be boys or they won't see me again as I will flee
Their dad doesn't know how to scold kids, he does the pampering and even when they are wrong and he is trying to correct them, he does it in a way that I don't understand. Who buys games for kids after spoiling previous one just to tell them he loves it bit makes them apologise before he gives them? Left to me the game room will be locked for long.
I'm tired jor
Motherhood isnt easy
I'm the bad guy
And daddy is the heaven
I'm tired of ranting jor
How's everyone?
I miss you all everyday
By the way someone explain to me why hubby was singing "I'll hold you down, I'll hold you down blah blah blah "this morning to me like he hasn't held me down with this bump I'm pushing around
Issh.. . Hormones running wild jor
I'm in a fighting mood today
Yesterday I was in a cuddling mood
Ask your hubby the last paragraph na
DeleteLol
All this set you are sharing!
DeleteContinuuu.
Lol@flee.. flee to where? Hian.
Ohh hubbies can like to play the good cop ehn...#Annoying
We good hun..missed you too!
You should come around here more..but is like your body dey hot these days...I understand.#Hormones
Kisses.
Lol.
DeleteLol sorry dearie
DeleteHow did u do it oh, first one twin, second another set, biko give me tips oh, cos I want twin
Your writeup is so sweet.
DeleteStella plz post my comment.
The lord is your strength lol
DeleteMtchewww! @qutie
DeleteAwwwwww, #hugs
DeleteSounds like you married your friend. Cool that.
Hahahaa.
DeleteFighting mood activated by you.
I trust your Hubby to quickly activate dodging mood.
When my own starts eeh, my DH will be singing 'Nwanyi, life nyili anyi' all over the house. So painful.
Welcome back Qutie.
Chai Qutie, so we r many? Ehya many more boys to ur lifespan inugo.It is well with u, we shall all push it and arrive our destination in due time.I want boys, boys, boys.I have just started shouting for my son, God gimmie the voice for this one.
DeleteAwww!!
Delete. Just ike nne .
I will love to be like you when I grow up###my love for twins ee
Dude has got better plans for u, he intends to keep holding u down till u have birthed 12.Hard luck nne.
DeleteHahaha sometimes I feel like running away too. Wishing you a safe delivery, dear. I'm kinda jealous... I love twins!
DeleteWrote an article on my blog on the fun facts of parenting: www.preciouscore. com
Jisike Darling....
DeleteNnem jisike dear. ...
DeleteBoys sef bwahahaha
Qutie!!
DeleteDon't worry you will soon drop
And get your groove back.
Winks
Hhahahahhhaha a@ their dad being the nice guy and you the bad guy. That's how my kiddos see me too.
Daddy is their bestie, mummy is the meanie.
Na them sabi jor.
Discipline is discipline.
Motherhood rocks abeg. Am a parent and even at that its multitasking.
ReplyDeleteIndeed being a parent of more than one child make one a REFEREE for life.
ReplyDeleteI think more is better, in fact 6 no go bad, less fighting.....
Let me sit down n read comment on dis one.
ReplyDeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteIt's a normal thing Na .........especially my Chiboy always wanting to come first in everything.....if Dem first am do anything Na wahala throughout dat day o.
ReplyDeleteHi fam! Help me celebrate me :D i wrote my last exam as a university student! To God be the glory!
ReplyDeleteCongrats dear
DeleteCong...
Delete...and you shall come out in flying colors. Say amen.
DeleteHmmm, my kids are on mid-term break. And I had to put on the gen now just to avoid fight or quarrel.
ReplyDeleteHahhhahhahahahaa
DeleteU must device strategy o
If u no wan begin shout like craze person.
Children ehn?
I have learnt to be more of an observer than been a referee, because I have been accused of given more praise to one person and not the other. The child who accuses me changes depending on who is not happy at that point in time.
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Lol@observer!
DeleteShey u no know wetin u go do to avoid being partial? Just shout at the two of them both right and wrong just shout before u become a partial momma.When u finish goan pet d party that was right in secret ni oo
DeleteSalt E.. it doesn't work.. the one u petted will go and tell the other one 'Mummy said am a good boy' and fight will Start again..
Delete@ salt
DeleteAh! If u do that to my kids, the one you pet in secret will use it to spite the other.
"Mummy came to pet me, nmeeeh"
The other will now come to me, mummy you love ....... you don't love me.
Double Wahala!
Gbammm! @ tochi
U got the scenario
Lol... I sometimes ignore them before dey go kill me. I separate fight more than 20 times a day.
ReplyDeleteYou must be a Ghanaian, they are the only ones that eat jellof rice.
DeleteNigerians eat jollof rice. * SideEyes
Stella dear. .where's the s&m post na. .
ReplyDeleteSeek and ye shall find. Use the search button on the blog....
DeleteJoys of motherhood
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha about having an oda boy. I no certainly I will b a referee
ReplyDeleteAmma wait for comments to read
ReplyDeleteThis should be interesting.
Buchi emecheta could not have explained it any better. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteJoys of motherhood!
DeleteThe best book I read in secondary sch
Lmao,not yet married,but I know how my mum separated fights between I and my immediate elder brother.We really gave that woman trouble o.Twas so bad that one day,she decided to just let us fight and kill eachother,she locked herself in her room and we kept fighting until we both started crying for her to come and separate the fight.Choi!! I can't forget that day,we fight sotey we no dey see road again.Parents dey try sha.
ReplyDeleteLOL
DeleteLOL!! I want to be a referee someday :o)
ReplyDeleteYou wil, dinner than you expect
DeleteMy 2yr old is so attached to me and is constantly looking for her sisters trouble.and most times she is always at fault,its exausting hearing dem screaming over every little tin.i dont evem boder asking who took it first,i just collect it and keep it.dey will soon be back from school nw and this house will turn into a shouting match.
ReplyDeleteHahaha.....reminds me of my youngest brother and his immediate elder(a girl), mehn dis two can fight none wants to agree dat d other is older or younger. The good thing is dat immediately they are done fighting before u say jack Robinson, they are laughing, playing chasing each other again
ReplyDeleteMaybe as a human being. Lmao my landlord's children can distrub for the universe. I go settle settle so tey I go Taya. Their matter no bi here ooo.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha,Lol! Stella abeg no be u i dey laff oooo.
ReplyDeleteNow i see d reason why my hubby keep asking how he will take cope when they ar two in d house. #Daddy's pet. Can never stop crying unless daddy shows face and say sorry.
Thanks for dis post,let me start now they pack whistles for d job.Lol!
I think am done,this post made my day.
2morrow will be better,i pray.
Parents should work hard at being good referee's cos a lot of bitter sibling rivalries we have today is as a result of bad refereeing.
ReplyDeleteHonestly.
DeleteMothers especially have a favorite child they scold less. And that leads to unhealthy sibling rivalries.
You are very correct. @ baddest
DeleteEvery mother has a child that is more closer to her heart than the others.
Handling all kids same way must be adhered to otherwise, you appear as partial, practising favoritism thus causing sibling rivalry.
And I think another thing mothers shouldn't do at all is comparison. Comparing one child to the other.
"Look At your brother, he sweeps better than you bla bla...
very unhealthy
My own experience is from my childhood.
ReplyDeleteKai I and my sister would have driven my momma crazy!!
Omg! We fought over everything! The age difference was not so much. So it was just WAR!!
We fought while bathing,playing..peace reigned only during meals cos we liked different foods.
My mom devised a plan that was not really nice to make peace reign..She would buy two items..same thing but different colours.
Pink and blue..lolz.. she would persuade me to take the not so "sharp" colour and I was too smart for my age..iphie,take the brown one.
Once I feel her start to preach.."nne,take this black,omaka(it is fine)... Very beautiful,everyone wanted it in the market.. hahahaha!! I will just burst out crying... and ofcourse the fight will continue..
My mom would later tell me years after that my sister was sort of the weaker one,so as the Ada,i was strong. Spoilt child!
#Memories
I showed my older sis pepper. She is just a year n half older and I worry her eh.Shr loved food n I was picky. Her best was jollof rice. I will put sugar in the salt shaker n she will put in her rice.
DeleteHer fave complain ringtone was.
Muuuuuuuuuuuummy,N Na achom okwu o. Nga eti ya Ife o.
Any time I heard that,I will disappear cos she was plumby then n I was ogwu azu,alanga bekee.
Chai,I worry her. I was the quiet but mischievous n fearless child. God,abeg,may my daughters no do as I do oooo
Hahahahahahahah @take the black one, nne omaka....... I will just burst out crying. Lmao!
DeleteHahaha. I can relate to this. As the younger one I got extra pancake or akara balls in d morning sometimes.Then at night, my elder sis Adaeze will remove the ladder off the bunk we shared and ask me to climb. "Climb let me see, Prof in the making my foot". Whilst flaring her nose. She never came first her entire childhood, e dey pain am.
DeleteOh dear, and I wore glasses at very young age. Sometimes I just pull some clothes off the wardrobe and make a bed. Then early mormor, before morning devotion, she will be begging me to wake and climb up, lailai I will roll myself up in d clothes and ignore her.
The knocks on her head from Mummy eeh, na designer knocks because Koboko is forbidden in our house, if not eeh.
But then we had SECRETS. Wide grin. Too many secrets because we were close like that.
Babies rock.
I apply my Mummy's principles now knowing that in the end, my kids will form the FORMIDABLE team. And get everyone screening, "these bunch are a family".
Lol, don't have any sha
ReplyDeletelolzz
ReplyDeletelooking forward to being a referee
the fight i separate now is between chubbychoo and i
Married women ova to u!
ReplyDeleteHahaha...thanks for making me laugh. I've got a 7yr old daughter and a 3& half year old son. They give me the greatest joy on earth those two. And they get along very well. The problem is when it comes to using my iPad. They damaged theirs a while ago, so I've downloaded lots of kids apps on mine. But they just never agree on who gets to use it first. To calm them down, I tell them that I will use a saw to divide the iPad for both of them. It works for all of 8 seconds, but after that, it's back to fighting over the darned iPad....lol.
ReplyDeleteTheir sibling rivalry is child's play compared to my elder sis and I when we were kids. We practically hated each other in our pre-teen and adolescent years. She was the beautiful, extrovert and loved by all child. I was the intelligent, introvert and misunderstood by all child. Lol. So I think we were jealous of each other, at least I was jealous of her. It's only when we started having kids of our own in our late 20's that we realised the folly of all of that and we are now the best of friends. Love each other soooo much. And of course I've blossomed into a head-turning swan.....lol. no more jealousy
Hope my kids won't stress me the way I and my younger sister stressed my mom ooh!
DeleteEven though I was quiet and reserved... and it was mostly her fault,Will karma visit?
Kikikikikikikikikik
This is the story of my life.
DeleteI hated my brother so much then, because it seems like he was my mother's favorite.
I was you, he was your sister.
There was a day I wanted to stab him during one of our numerous fights.
Perfect description.
i have 2 younger sisters. they can so fight and quarrel for africa. my immediate younger sister always feel that i like our last born more cause am always taking sides with her. but the truth is she is younger n i feel like d older one is intimidating her, so am always caught in the middle. and sometimes after putting me in the middle they will settle
ReplyDeleteHahahaha
ReplyDeleteI Love this post,reminds me of my childhood days,I and my lil bro were always fighting,mumsy talk tire, we no hear,one day she waited for us to finish fighting,then she flog us sote when we wan fight we go rem d floging lmao
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This is very true. My first Son and Second fights themselves all the time and the next moment they are back on together. We are truly their Referees ooo
ReplyDeleteI just Ignore my battalions and be an observer oooooo.
ReplyDeleteI was grinning widely as I read all comments ... Humph! Where will I start from sef? I have shouted and separated so much that when they are quiet, I am worried!
ReplyDeleteMy 2 sons are the fighters in the house. 10 and 7. No matter, how I separate them, they always end up together to play, then fight! My youngest son at 17 months, have joined in the rough play sef! He will climb on top of them when they are wrestling. He will be holding their legs and trying to pull them off the bed or on the floor.
I have no problem with my girls. 13 and 12. Even as toddlers they were quiet. Once in a while, when they argue, a shout from me; THAT IS ENOUGH!!! They settle. But not for my boys, until I get a belt.
Kids will always be kids...
Nitty.
5kids?!!!!!!!
DeleteI fact, I tot I was going crazy. I am just holding myself not to unleash some heavy spanking on them. My girls can argue about who blinked the most. Thank God it's not just me, Stella this post really made my nite cos I was just wondering where I went wrong with raising them.
ReplyDeleteLol@who blinked the most...
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