This is a strictly women post where we wanna talk some sense into each other concerning matters of the heart.
We would really appreciate if you are a man and stay out of this post....LMAO.
NO SNOOPING PLEASE!
Thanks!
If you are male and insist on seeing what this is about then welcome inside,na your type dey break hearts...simple instruction you cannot adhere to it..Mscheeew!
Now take a walk with me thru these memes ladies.
Women lets learn to appreciate ourselves. we are the neck and the husbands our head. But we are the one that turns the head anywhere we want it to be.
ReplyDeletea word enough for the wise. LOVE YOURSELF AND INDULDGE IN GOOD THINGS.
Preach!!!!!! Self love... love your self and make yourself happy first!!!
DeleteWhich one be men shud stay out of it. A man wrote it!
DeleteThumbs down
Furthermore, all these are super movies non realistic quote on nigerian soil. Trust me, be the help and a king to some naija ladies, they will still follow the Alhajis or the guy with the longest dick.
DeleteOnly ladies who are truly LOYAL desrves this and should adhere to it, the rest remains in the pay as you go section.
#myopinion
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DeleteWarefa... all the sayings are for real women. Most Nigerian women are not real to themselves. Dia love get levels. The man must get a nice job, apartments and a good ride. I am a guy, some of my friends will say bad stuff about dia girlfriends, like don't mind her, it's bcos I have a car and a good job, that's why she's following me. Many women falls into dis category. And that's very disgusting. How many nigerian women will fall for a guy cos of his honesty or bn modest? They will call such a guy small boy. At times Nigeria women gets what comes to them cos when they love, they love with conditions. Most are in self denial. They know a guy is lying about him self but they still want to go out and be seen with a big boy, self made celebrity that is well known. All they want is to be "tripped". Nigerian women needs to wise up. Yu can't eat yur cake and still have it. @dodo_36@live.com
DeleteAll these recalcitrant men, get off this page now!
DeleteStelz darling, thanks for sharing! Such profound thoughts
It's true, nigerian women live a fools live. They are very materialistic under disguise of using what is in vogue. They don't care who they go out with as long as the guy get money. That's why they go out with touts thieves etc. Most indirectly do runs stylishly. When a Nigerian women says "she can't settle for less" obviously she's talking about money. If The guy no get money, they can't go out with the guy. Most of them don't even know how to use cutlery and they talk about class. Most are so deluded and that delusion is raised to power 20. The wise and repented ones are the one married and staying humbly in their husband's house. Men are not monster, they know a good girl from bad girls. Toke's guy that was running after hairdresser like some people were saying, he has his reasons. Why that particular girl? Why not another high flying lady? Anybody can be a wife, but not everybody can be a mother to ones child or baby mama as some people call it.
DeleteTry and read, The lady Her love and Her lord by T.D jakes very inspiring book for ladies
DeleteHhhmmm I can't never settle for less, that's all I ve to say.
ReplyDeleteSame here..
Delete@Galore
No settling for less!
DeleteAnd can you work for the best? (I CAN'T never settle for less) #SMH for you!!!
DeleteI love the quote that say never allow someone who does know ur value, tell u what ur worth. We re great, we re priceless. In my next world I still wanna be a woman.
ReplyDelete#word#
DeleteWill with fish brain will always fall mugu!
All dos I must love by force or I must be with a man should learn .
Some Nigerian men likes to devalue a woman.
DeleteXOXO MYSTERY
Word!
ReplyDeleteHmm deep
ReplyDeleteLove struck
Oh men! D crazy part got me..... na den u go know say some pple are mad but choose to respect themselves..... Tales of a woman! Every woman is really good until u touch that soft spot then u know that Devil was once an Angel.... If u cannot make her happy with little things, when u r comfortable u will make her miserable..... If reincarnation is foreal, I will always be a woman. #teamstrong#
ReplyDeleteWord. Tell them
DeleteXOXO MYSTERY
Taking 4eva 2 load bad network
ReplyDeleteOK oooo
ReplyDeleteSee you tomorrow... Examz
#no time
Gift Collins
Smiled as I read the last one.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe in these quotes. They are not always applicable in real life. I'd rather learn from life experiences than base my life on a damn quote by someone seeking Reposts or retweets. No one can feel your pain till they work in your shoes. That lady whose husband impregnated calabar girl dey quote steady how has it helped her. Anyway yada yada yada boys will be boys. quotes don't do it for me sorry.
ReplyDeleteThank you jare.
DeleteMost people don't know when to draw the line between fantasy and reality.
All these quotes do is help boost your self esteem but if you apply them to everyday life then OYO is your name.
Don't judge how people get by. As long as they ain't hurting no one, do not ever judge how they get by.
DeleteOne single meme can change someone or give them motivation to improve
That's why u both keep getting what keeps coming to u, believe what you want, but some women are really living their dreams
Delete@sue you'd know won't you. Please everyone is entitled to their opinion. I won't live my life based on a quote or quotes. Which one is we both keep getting what keeps coming to us, if I give you back hand slap. Do you live with me or know what I am getting?
DeleteThat's right Sue! God's Grace is sure helping our dreams, I'm a testimony,I'm living it! Glory to God!
DeleteInteresting piece. Me likey. Tnx stella!
ReplyDeleteStella boo! I'm Sorry I couldn't stay out of this post, it was becoming too difficult to stay away, more difficult than I had though when I first saw the post. I wanted to, but I couldn't.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I'll say about this post is that I love it, love so much that I wish all women could see this and use it to talk some sense into themself. But sadly most women will see this memes, but it will not change anything. That saddens me.
I love all of them, and they're all true.
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Woman wrapper!
DeleteChoi, my Stella di koko... Thanks for all this, we need to hear our women truths
ReplyDeleteThe Konji that will hold you girls is still doing press-up. Make married stella dey deceive una. Naija girls too like Money and that is their undoing.
DeleteThose words are as true as the gospel..
ReplyDeleteMy expectations as a woman shouldn't be lowered cos of mediocres.
For every queen there is a king!
Stella! This is serious! I'm loving every bit of it. God bless u. I'm a Queen oooo.
ReplyDeleteAwwww!
ReplyDeleteI'm so looking these memes.
Yeah, we are beautiful creatures.
We are powerful.
We are sorta givers of life (through God).
We are stronger than men think.
Though emotional creatures,we are able to rise above bullshit,toss it aside and come out stronger.
We are resilient.
We fiercely protect what's ours.
So,ain't nobody telling me that they better than me cos I'm a woman or that they are stronger,cos that's fibbing.
To all my fellow women out there who have self esteem issues,and as a result, remain in an unhealthy relationship,;y'all living a lie.
Y'all better than he says you are.
Find your inner strength and break free.
You deserve more than being abused emotionally, verbally, physically or mentally.
And to the rest of us, work on yourself, be the kind of person you want in your life, the type of person you want your children to be.
We are powerful and beautiful creatures, made by an awesome God. #nokidding #noexception
#WhiteDiamondOut
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DeleteAutocorrect na wa!
Lol
Stella, mbok don't waste your breath abeg. Which of the men makes any sensible comment on this blog? Is it the one roaming in Jupiter abi the corper who is always writing poetry here??
ReplyDeleteEven if they read this post will they understand it?... be carrying carrying capsule size prick feeling like bosses mtsheeeeeeeew.
Nadine
Lmbo @the one roaming Jupiter and writing poetry.It could be what they do best na.
Delete#WhiteDiamondOut
Bwahahahahahaha.!OMG!
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahahahahaha @roaming about Jupiter and d poet... na women blog be dis as far as I am concern. Most of d men that comment here do so under anonymous and their cuss no be here....
Delete@Anony
DeleteLOLLLLLLLL
Lol.
DeleteYou are a very funny somborri.
You look for loyalty ...trust...respect ..put it in a pot pray over it and give it all you've got...The result will be Love..Deep!!
ReplyDelete@ Dicey Dee when you wake up. Let me know.
DeleteI luv dese words..so true.
ReplyDeleteCan't Trade me being a woman for anything. I fell, got up and kept trying. Wasn't easy but God kept me, his mercies kept me. Not where I want to be but hey the road is clearer now than then. Thank you lord for making me a woman. We might be the weaker vessel but we are stronger or even the strongest inside.
ReplyDeleteSo what are we discussing here? Love? Heartbreak?
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that women also 'crush candies' like men.
I prefer to discuss about career and increasing my bank account balance.
This got me. ..never underestimate the ability of a woman to fall out of love
ReplyDeleteIt time
Distance
And someone who will pick up the pieces. ...
Queens don't chase. ...don't be desperate, see yourself as a queen, carry yourself as a queen.
The right man will mumushly follow.
Lord I keep on thanking you for making me a woman and not a man,making me a virtuous woman whose price is far above rubbies
ReplyDeleteIt's so inspiring,being a woman n knowing wot u wnt."I told dis guy who kept calling me wot he wanted wen he said he doesn't even like big girls n kept looking @ my pic n describing my bod.....abeg bros park well make I see my king coming my way.
ReplyDeleteWow!! I'm encouraged..
ReplyDeleteTo be that woman I have always wanted to be..
To pursue that great job(was almost giving up) and leave this crap job..
To continue my workout and stick to my diet (goal weight 68kg/present weight 75kg)..
To be truly happy(Joy unspeakable)..
To be patient/believe that very soon I will meet my true Love..
Thanks sis for this!
Amen,sisturrr!
Delete#WhiteDiamondOut
I'm also encouraged..but it's difficult u know you are in a toxic relationship and still remain there..
DeleteI'm going back to the drawing board it's time I take a flight from it
LOVE THE QUOTES.....NICE ONE
ReplyDeleteThese quotes just make me love me more
ReplyDeleteWord.
ReplyDeleteDear Lord please provide me with my own king,let me find ur grace and mercy . I love all of this quote.Team strong woman.
ReplyDeleteYea God will provide us with our own king...Let's shout it #teamstrong woman#
DeleteAwwwwwww.. They are all so true
ReplyDeleteI love the one about 'Queens don't chase. That's when your crown falls off'. That is the exact problm with today's women; they go around chasing men. You may say he approached you first, but as long as he doesn't keep working for your attention, be strong enough to let him go. You don't have to say anything. Never call, when he calls, be very polite, don't complain, don't be too available whenever he wants to see him, let him get the vibe that you can live without him. Ceteris paribus..., i. e after you ve met the criteria and qualities that an available man desires in a woman, the major thing that'll make him stick around is when you're not desperate, and when he realizes you can live without him
ReplyDeleteBless u lyndy mk, bless u again and again. I only wish ladies will listen to ur advice. Women make themselves so available for men, that some church rat men begin to see themselves as king David. Pls women, let's stop making ourselves too ready and available for the men folk. Stop putting urselves in desperate positions, stop doing wifely duties when ur still a gf. Stop being baby mama's, stop opening ur legs, stop, stop, so that u can stop sending in chronicles every day to sdk blog. Pls learn.
DeleteMehn.....I love dis ur msg n it really changed my thinking....Thank u Thank u thank u
DeleteA million likes to ur comment
DeleteI'M A PROUD BLACK WOMAN.
ReplyDeleteI KNOW MY WORTH
I AM A QUEEN,
ONLY THE KING IS ALLOWED IN MY CASTLE
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Lord knws if i was dangote no woman will be bothered about this.... The fact is love dont fucking exist in this new age....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Anuohia! Keep roaming around in Jupiter u hear!
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DeleteStella I am Nadine 14:54. Please read my comment again. What did I say? I tink you are seeing your Jupiter man? All of them, ndi aru from the same cage. Not one intelligent comment to offer...mtsheeeew
Beautiful
ReplyDeleteIt's high time Nigerian Women should sit up!!!
ReplyDeleteU guys are cheap, as in very cheap!!... who are we deceiving??....
U guys have been lied to and it's vtime U start hearing Unadulterated truth.
The fact is that these son of bitches are promiscuous and they are competing against themselves as the baddest.... no rrepentance in sight o....
All these crown and loyalty and so on and so forth is all a lie!!
Look for a man that has potentials, or a ready made rich man, tie him up, it's not a sin.... that's only ehen he will worship and do all those things that Stella pasted up there....
I am tired of saying d same thing over and over again!!!
Look at Flavour's Babymamas, these girls are beautiful but look at the path they ve chosen for themselves. ... they know that women outnumber men and there are no husbands out there but management men... see I'm tired jhor.
Wait for crown e dey come for front.
Okbye.
That is to say we should all become baby mamas okwaya. I am hearing you. I do not subscribe to quotes but I won't seize someone elses bae. Man no be foodfoodhat is what we should all understand. Whether you're miss or mrs dead body no dey hide from person wey go bury am.
DeleteSarcastic comment.
DeleteEven in five million years to come I will still wana be a woman
ReplyDeleteStella, thanks for sharing, I am a regular visitor here, but I rarely comment. Plz help a sister in need. I need a husband, I am single mum to a lovely daughter ,and I will b forty soon. Thank u.
ReplyDeletelovely. I'm gon save all of them and remind myself everyday.
ReplyDeleteOyibo
Awesome
ReplyDeleteAnother one of them.
DeleteThank you so much! This was just what I needed at this time.God bless you!
ReplyDeleteAnd some of the women in here are working but collecting money from boyfriends for tampons and panties but are quick to recite quotes and raise their hands. Some are quick to send senators and governors and ministers a picture of their coochie and titties just to get free travels or designer bags but want to say something profound about being a woman and the uniqueness of femininity. Some of you in here after reading this quote will still call another woman's husband for w quickie in exchange for cash, and dub it being smart and witty. Now of course, response that I get will be from those who are hypocritically offended, but we know I'm only speaking the truth. These quotes aren't there because we women are doing any of these, they are there because some women aren't doing any of these. So keep deceiving yourself. I'm not denigrating women, I'm just keeping it 100.
ReplyDeleteBless you Anon 16:09
DeleteAm a proud woman!
ReplyDeleteI know my worth
Am a queen nd I have found a king
I just pray to get a job and be financially independent
I just bookmarked this.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this timely words.
Is important to know our worth as women.
ReplyDeleteSpot on!! Thanks for this Stella. REAL WOMEN AREN'T PERFECT & PERFECT WOMEN AREN'T REAL
ReplyDeleteshe women are our problems................say all this from now till tomorow, you see some women go after men that beat them.
ReplyDeletewhew! quite a lot, can't read alllllllllllll
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella for this post.. Needed this to reset my brain jare
ReplyDeleteWOMANHOOD - a kingdom that has been lost it's crown in today's world.
ReplyDeleteSTORIES @ ALIFEDIARY
If only women can learn to respect themselves, and keep their feminine pride, we won't be hearing stories that touch! Women of these days are so greedy and money hungry, they are ready to be side chics, baby mama's, 10th wife and so on to have a taste of the good life. I won't mince words here, I'll rather be with a God fearing, average young man, who has a bright future and treats me right, than be with a disrespectful sonofabitch that would make mockery of me. And that's y I said God fearing, cos a man who has d fear of God in him will never do rubbish, even when he becomes a billionaire. Some women will tell u "marry a rich bobo oh, or cry in a Bentley, cos when d average once get d cash, dey won't be loyal anymore". That's a lie from d pit of hell. A lie told by greedy women who sold themselves for d cash. While I support marrying a billionaire, if u have a good man who's on d average, who loves and respects u, and can take very good care of u, Pls ladies carry go. Support him in prayers, and d love will remain forever. Never settle for less, especially when it has to do with being with a man who thinks d world of u, it's heaven on earth when ur man worships d ground u step on. *talking from experience *
ReplyDeleteNikky, spot on!
Deletewe need to tell these Nigerian babes the truth. Some of the things I have seen some Nigerian women do? My mouth opens and refuses to close. I begin to wonder, when did the devil enter Nigeria to have corroded the mindset of our young women to such debased point? I'm still in shock trying to understand what happened? The women of the 1970's and early 80's are not what we have in Nigeria anymore, some of these girls will even make the devil quiver and cover face in shame.
Bless you Nikky
DeleteAwesome memes..
ReplyDeleteHome truth ...thanks stella
True words
ReplyDeleteBt in all, love and respect yourself as a woman 1st.
Even after all these Quotes, some lady somewhere is comfortably warming up to be a babymama,side chick, gold-digger and punching bag to one BAE. To each her own, as long as you remember that as you lay your bed, so you lie on it!
ReplyDeleteWomen, love will not pay your bills. If you miss road and say love instead of a way to feed yourself and your children, you will see the back of your neck.
ReplyDeleteYes!! That got to me. In fact I just removed that waist trainer that wants to choke me to death. I don't have to be perfect, real women aren't.
ReplyDeleteRightly said...
ReplyDeleteI am so encouraged.
Stella gerarahia mehn and post my comment. Lol
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.......deep truth. Thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteWow. You have said it all. Running to add justmike on IG. God bless our women
ReplyDeleteOnye agwara anugo
ReplyDeleteThank you Stella for this post! A lot of women I believe this past few days have been shocked n I guess had to do some soul-searching with the news of Toke's marriage - which I believe is still fixable by the way, nothing is impossible for God. May we continue to value ourselves as women and know our worth n how special God made us! And I pray that God touch the heart of our men so that they start to fear God again, amen!
ReplyDeleteIts funny most gals wanna be treated like queens but dont know how to treat a king.
ReplyDeleteYou think u deserve the Queen treatment cos u r beautiful? Bleh.
Alot of gals have nothing 2 offer than being hot or fine and good bj skills and they think thats all it takes? Think again.
Thats why most of u wonder why he left a fine gal 4 1 normal gal nt knowin it take alot more to treat a man right and be treated like a queen in return.
I for 1, am more attracted 2 what a woman has 2 offer wen all d beauty fades, thats d only way u can remain happy after a very long time. Sm gals cant even give wise advise or hold high level communications.
Am reserving my royal treatment 4 a deserving woman.
Picture 8 nonsense quote. What manner of rubbish was that smh
ReplyDeleteIts total bullshit. Some Nigerian ladies are worthless they reject the ones who do all the:
ReplyDeleteTrust her,
Respect her,
Loyal and love them with all, but theY say love is not enough. Honey loads of them ain't shit, them low lifes. I hate my Ex. I wish her all sorts of evil. She's evil and will live to regrets the pains she's cost me.