Please Brace yourself because you are about to read some scary home truth.......Brace yourself,tie your legs,fold your arms and step into this post with a functioning medulla oblongata.
Marriage is an institution ordained by GOD for man and woman to become husband and wife..
Many marriages are built on false foundations,but when the troubles begin they come out to paint this institution evil and scary for those who intend to go into it..
You can't enjoy your Marriage when you have not broken soul-ties,ancestral bondages or curses,or spirit husband and wife(succubi and incubi) Let me go deeply into these;(only spiritually)
1)some of your have this bondage where by in your lineage no matter who you are married too,you can never experience peace,they tell you that your great grand parents always gave an idol sacrifice.
if you want to enjoy your marriage,unless there is a constructive deliverance carried out to break from these vows and curses,you cannot experience peace.
2)spiritual husband and spirit wife..
You go about keeping multiple men or women and having different soul-ties with your intended partners and most of you don't understand that sexual intercourse goes beyond physical enjoyment but brings about a spiritual bond.that it is why God ordained it and made it sacred ,(when having sex,spirits are exchanged and it brings a stronger bond,if your partner possesses a spirit husband or wife,a spirit is transferred to you,consciously or unconsciously) and these beings get extremely jealous and bring dismay,hatred,irritable attitudes with such couples and you read chronicles where by a wife or a husband tell his/her partner he/she enjoys the pains or unhappiness inflicted in on their partners.
3)Adultery;
This goes out especially to the men out there,not every lady you see in skirt is a human,most of them are horse,antelope and all sort of being you think of,when you commit adultery with these kind of women,what do you expect?good home,successful businesses,inner peace?
NO!.... you can never get such as long as you have your seed deposited on evil altars,then you bring strange troubles to your innocent wives,who have been praying,cooking,tending for you kids..
By now most of us should know that the spirit world is at war with the humans (wouldn't want to elaborate much on that) please if you love your wife and intend to keep a peaceful home,although marriage has it's ups and down but with togetherness and steadfastness you can enjoy the blessed attributes GOD has designed for marriages.
4)Prayers ;if we channel the energy we use in snooping on our spouses and trying to get numbers of the people involved into prayers,trust me you have a better home,every home built on the foundation of Christ and of prayers goes a along way in battling the powers against these unseen forces who have decided to fight the blessings accompanied with marriage..
And lastly
5)surrender your all and all to Jesus christ,seek counselling from a real man of GOD and I pray to all those suffering one affliction or the other in your Marriages,that you experience peace,testimonies,happiness and all the good tidings of marriage as ordained by GOD..AMEN
BY BV
MARION
Prayer is always d key!
ReplyDelete********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******
The key is understanding and trust
DeleteI used to quarrel heavily with hubby till I discovered this secret.
When a man is carnally minded, he is spiritually myopic. He doesn't know about d spiritual side of things and how it works. They don't see beyond the physical. So when problems arise, they look for physical solutions to their situation without knowing how important it is to get God involved in the daily runnings of our lives.
DeleteWe think that by doing everything in our limited power we can keep our marriages together? No. Jesus said, "he who listens to my instructions and does what I say is like a house built on a solid rock. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won't collapse because it is built on a bedrock.."
So like this house on a bedrock of God's word, if our marriage is built on the Christ- foundation where u make God's Word alone ur principle, that marriage, despite all d challenges and troubles( which definitely will come cos no marriage is without problems) life may bring, will NEVER collapse.
I have learnt one thing, to hold up God's Word as my standard in life and I believe everything it says.
So do not ignore the spiritual aspects of ur married life. Keep ur relationship wd God aflame. He alone can guarantee a successful marriage, not u, not ur skills, not ur money, not ur beauty, not ur bedmatics...only God. Give him ur marriage and ur life. He created it. He knows how to make it beautiful.
Choose righteousness.
Sex, relationship, family, deep issues etc pls visit:
www.mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com
Let's hear from the married ones
DeletePrayer!!!
DeleteGood initiative for deep thinkers.. You have rolled into the world of darkness and light. Darkness can never overshadow LIGHT! I'm sorry if you have not found the Light, Christ is the light and hope for salvation deliverance for all..
DeleteShallom
@SHB
I also think d key is building ur character.becos even if u cast out 99 demons and ancestral spirits from someone,if he or she is not ready to work on their weaknesses and character,dat marriage must fall like a pack of cards!
DeleteMarriage has a lot to do with spirituality and both parties making an effort to understand each other and changing for the better. The problem is that women get blamed for everything. A man that is addicted to drinking and keeping late nights, watching pornography has anger issues, has no courtesy or respect for elders will still turn around and blame you that you made him bad and not doing enough to make him stay at home. You have to like what he likes...no pls, I wont join you on your route to hell.
DeleteToday is hot ,stella dropping it like is hot
ReplyDeleteWell said poster....
DeleteThe worst is the spiritual husband and wife...making some married women not to have children and even making a single girl turn to an aunty gwegz without a husband...
This life is so deep....if you are not spiritually strong in this world,nke gi ekpome go!...
There re things in life that no matter how we think we have studied and known Enough, we can't profer solution to, so @ the poster, u think when one does all these listed above u get a perfect marriage and it won't crash. Its just God that we look up to, some don't do all this but have the best.
ReplyDeleteDon't assume they have the best!!
DeleteYes, some happy marriages may not have obeyed the above rules, but they married RIGHT
Many people use greed, lust, impatience n so on to bond with the wrong person. It just cannever work!!!
There are GOOD marriages!!!
Oh yes a Lil few don't even check anything and it favours them. There are still gifted kids among average kids *u get*?
May God help us all
Only in Africa.....spiritual husbands & wives. Issokay
ReplyDeleteNo it is not only in Africa!
DeleteSpirituality is everywhere.
Why is divorce rate higher than relationship breakups in the western world?
Yes because most of our ancestors didn't believe in Christianity...some things they did in the past are destroying their generations both born and unborn...
DeleteI don't believe in spirit spouses. Marriage on the other hand requires patience and commitment which is fading away from our society today.
DeleteR u for real, it's not jst Africans, even whites. Our fore fathers might have been diabolical but they weren't more than dey wwhites. Read ur history books dey dark ages in Europe was more diabolical than you could imagine n it's not a myth. It was so dark dt it was only the coming of our lord jesus christ that restored the little light left that was about to die. Ask anyone that read crs in dey university wht the white page btw old n new testament was all abt, it's not jst there for show, it has a significance. Those dark ages was full of magic and unimaginable things. Point of correction spirit husband/wife is not an African thing. It is a human thing. Africans are more conscious of it than the whites. That's all
DeleteSeriously, soul-ties exists! I have been taught in church! Sex is sacred. God have mercy on all of us!
DeleteIf I may ask, who is a real man of God, how do u identify them, these so called men if God u run to for prayers ve their own marital issues which the world will never know, I believe in one thing, if u marry ur best friend trust me ur marriage will be sweet, I don't agree with some points u listed out, everything is all abt witches and wizards, as adults we are responsible for our actions, if a woman decides to marry a womanizer with d hope that he will change after marriage, what uf he doesn't change then u will hold witches and wizards and marine spirits responsible for that, set ur priorities right when choosing a spouse chikena.
ReplyDeleteYou are a REAL man of God.
DeleteDig deep into yourself and get closer to God. Trust me, when something is wrong, u don't need signs and wonders to know! U WILL KNOW! Even when u step into a wrong prayer house, if u are close to God, U WILL KNOW.
Marrying one's best friend is good. But who do u call ur best friend is the question? Some guys smoke weed with their babes and are happy. Is that bestfriends?
Pray to God for ur divine connection. If God connects u to ur own, trust me u will know. Take it from there and watch things fall in place!
You are still a child...
DeleteCome and tell me this when you are 40 years old with no achievement in life....
You make sense
DeleteMy dear, you don't need to run to any pastor o. God hears everyone and at any time. Most of these men are ......... (let me not judge). God help us all.
DeleteThank u. Everything is spiritual in dis 9ja. No 1 is perfect bt we agree that there r sm ppl that r naturally rude, troublesome etc...such a person can never hv a peaceful home. It has nothing to do with spirits et al but you have to work on yourself diligently. Its all this kind of talk that wld make a man or gal thats materialistic and having too much expectation be running frm church to church thinkin they have spiritual issues nt knowing its their attitude.
DeleteI know who i am in Christ and as such i cant be moved by all these spirit talk. So u mean a pastor that is divorcing his wife has spirit problem abi?
Pls can anyone mention where in the Bible Jesus preached about a demon or spirit? These days u go to church and a whole service will be dedicated the workings of demons where as we should teach people who the are in Christ and know that the devil has no power or authority over them so they can be strengthened but rather alot of people are sooo afraid of these so called demons. I don taya jor. God pass them
Get married first and you will know it's not about marrying your friend but been prayerful
DeleteInstead of questioning, why not pray?
DeleteCouldn't have said it any better.
ReplyDeleteNice!!!
D poster's adultery only covas husbands cheating,wives no dey cheat ni?Dat's wia u lost me dummy!
DeleteMarraige issue is highly over rated. Not everyone is given to marraige and not by force to marry.
ReplyDeletepeople marry because of names they will be called like gwegwegwe. some marry to please society. so what is why we have many difficult marraiges in the country Nigeria.
I pray people will allow the will of God into their lives before marraige because we are now in the end times as many men are now lovers of themselves.
K'anemenu...... Issorait.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much,but you are directing it all to the HUSBANDS,remember there are still faithful ones among US and unfaithful ones among women! Thank you once again!
ReplyDeletePersonally, I think the sleeping around part was directed more @ husband's because they are the HEAD. It is their home! You hardly see an unfaithful woman that doesn't get chased away in Africa(else the husband if not strong will fall finiancially).
DeleteMen are more lustful than women (forget all the big dick noise u read here. In reality, how many ladies stare @ ur dick when u are talking to them?). Men's sexual life revolves around what they see. Women is what they hear (not easy to use the right word she wants to hear). Many men act on ALL they see without caution. The body of a woman is beauty by nature. So emphasising on men here isn't out of place. Even in the bible, many Strongmen fell to the ground because of women. Go check the bible (samson n co).
In a nutshell, It is hard to see a woman blessed with substance that messes around anyhow! Any woman that sleeps about loosely except for cases of payback (to her man n so on) is shaft! Women are more cautious by nature.
However, the spirit that disturb women mostly is ancestral bonds, spiritual husband's (beauty lures this sometimes, sacrifices done on their heads as infants by parents, places they visit searching for husband that is not searching for them etc, soul ties (women are too emotional and some have bonded themselves emotionally to boyfriends, some to secondary school lesbian partners) etc
Hope this answers ur question as to why the writer mostly addressed men?
#i am not the writer# #have passion for things of God, hence the responses#
Really??? #nocomment
ReplyDeleteThere are three most important things that we all must do in life, not just for marital success but for our destinies to manifest fully, and they are prayer, righteous living and faith with works. Prayer connects you to God, living a righteous life ensures that your prayers travel up to heaven while faith crowns it all. A prayerless child of God is a powerless child of God. Suffice it to mention that you cannot call urself a child of God if you don't pray constantly. Righteous living entails keeping the 10 commandments, reading your bible for guidance and obeying ur God-given conscience. God's laws are imprinted on our hearts so the moment we defy the warning of our conscience, then we are on the high-way road to hell. When you pray and live a righteous lif, you automatically develop the type of faith that can move mountains bc u kno you're in the right standing with God. That is when you achieve feats considered impossible by others
DeleteI've realized one thing; humans are designed to be fulfilled in life ONLY when they kno and serve God in truth and in spirit.
This doesn't apply to me, because I'm going to be a priest of the Catholic church. Hehehe.
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Really! Wow,congrats.
DeleteHian!!! Your opinion tho!
ReplyDeleteIs it only bad spirits dat get married If d myth of spirit husband crap is real? well, what ever u billiv will make or mar u. Blaming d mistakes on spirit husband..hhahahahahaaa
ReplyDeleteToo many times there are things we choose not to believe to make life easier for us. Doesn't mean they don't exist.
DeleteIf life isn't spiritual, please who is that person u ask questions inside u when in doubt nobody hears? How come u dream and yet u lie still? (but have gone to Japan 4m Nigeria and returned). Yes, scientists will blame all that on metaphysics. What is metaphysics? They are saying almost thesame thing but from different perspectives!
God is real. Spiritual world is real. Ur choice to be happy in ur physical world lies in ur arms.
When things are right, u know! Not pretence or make believe*
I've already bookmarked this page. I'm getting married soon and I hope it helps - nice one!
ReplyDeleteMake sure you go for deliverance before getting married...
DeleteInfact start now...
It is well
ReplyDeleteI believe in men fucking away their luck. A couple i know is having serious problems now, when he had little cash he was a good husband but the moment he made a little money he started chasing everything in skirt, he even had what he calls his own prostitute..can you imagine? He completely ignored his family and friends, different women every day. now bvs ask me what happened to him, he has lost everything and i mean everything, he is in debt and every week he is in court. So where are all his whores? They have all left him. #FACT. His wife is seeking for divorce now. Nah wah for Naija guys o.
ReplyDeleteBefore nko...I will do the same if am his wife...
Deleteokay.... I was actually expecting more than the spiritual approach.
ReplyDeleteSo true. The spiritual realm determines what we see/get in the physical realm. Forget all these packaging and civilization. That was how back then in Warri, a lady confessed that all the men sleeping with her were actually not fucking her but fucking different animals, and that in the process of doing that, she takes what is most important in their lives. By strength shall no man prevail, may God help us all. Amen!
ReplyDeleteSo u are Rex biose? That used to work with first bank abi access bank. Foolish fool. Rex d slave
DeleteI pray we hear and listen. This post will be brushed off as usual talks
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with this post, makes a lot of sense.
ReplyDeletenothing on sex?, cause that's the reigning cause of marriage breakups
ReplyDeleteThis is so true. May God help us all.
ReplyDeleteMarriage crashes when a man or woman marries the wrong person.
ReplyDeleteYep
DeleteHmmmm.
ReplyDeleteGod pls have mercy on me
As I step into this institution called "Marriage"....Let it be well with me.....Amen.
It scares d shit outta me....Sincerely
@Galore
Marriage is not compulsory for every one!
ReplyDeleteVery true..
ReplyDeleteI witnessed a mermaid at play @ alpha beach in lekki 3yrs back.
I used to live close to the beach,and on that fateful day, I decided to go sit @ one of those shacks and watch the water roll by.
It was 2pm in the afternoon, I got to the beach and it was very lonely and quiet..
I sat down, and started watching the water rumble and roll..
All of a sudden I got this eerie feeling, I said to myself, this place is lonely, probably cos the sun was out and it was very hot..I better head home.
Just before I stood up to leave,here comes this very fair and tall and slender lady..
She passed by where I was and I greeted her, and she replied with the sweetest smile ever..and did I mention that she was pretty too?
Well she walked towards the water,removed her sandals,held it in her hands, and dipped her foot in it..I started watching her, finally some amusement I said to myself..
She kept on going in the water, I became somewhat alarmed,I thought she wanted to commit suicide, I stood up and called out to the lady that had the shack, just within a
Nanosecond the lady vanished completely.
I thought It was all a mirage,an illusion, I couldn't believe what I had witnessed.
Then the owner of the shack told me that they always see stuffs like that at the beach of mammy water going and coming.
Boy! Was I scared? I ran home..needless to say that was the last time I went to the beach on a hot afternoon..
I kept on imagining the men that will sleep with her,not knowning she is mammy water,Abiuku.
I believe this story...
DeleteI have heard tons of them in my church during deliverance and testimony...
Lol
DeleteWow, so these stories of mermaid re really true. This got me speechless
DeleteIs this real? Or you are pulling our legs. You saw a real live mammy water!
DeleteThe world is more spiritual than physical dear. People will never believe what you just said but is the truth. Many men and even women have been tied spiritually; you might be rich n satisfied but you wouldn't have peace of mind. My sister inlaw was coming back from visiting the fiance in the North and had a horrible encounter in the bus. This girl, was brought by someone to the park to bundle her to Enugu. On the way, she started behaving funny and all of sudden something flee out of the window before the driver stopped n went back she have been killed by a moving vehicle and turned to a snake. She said all the passenger including driver went dumb till they reached east. They couldn't believe it. Chi Austin
DeleteHmmmm
DeleteMen.una don suffer
Just be sleeping around.. Una hear?
@Galore
Story for the gods
DeleteI have Always known dere are ghosts,spirits,Mermaids and d likes...
DeleteBuh i dont say it out loud.I dont Even "believe it out" sef Lolz....
Simply for Two Reasons:
My Daughters Who wanna know where to see Mermaids after watching Ariel d Mermaid.I tell dem No,dey arent real!
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And secondly,for the fear of bn "visited"
Northie,u have succedded in scaring me for d rest of d night! And at least Two nights in a row!
It's not story for the gods. I come from a riverine area. in my village, we have been warned not to go to the river around 12-3pm. If u do,then be ready to bear the consequences. I and my neibor in the village defiled this order and went to a house not too far from the river to see if the myth was true, we saw more than what our eyes could take. I now have a phobia for any flowing water because of that experience.
DeleteI think they actually exist. I have a friend that a mermaids visited the little daughter. This one no be sey na story. The girl ran out of the room and shouted that she saw something that had legs of fish there. She now had a phobia of going to that section of the house for sometime before she kinda forgot about it. Well, we advised the mum to take the girl for deliverance, but you know all dem lukewarm mommas. Mostly people that come from riverine areas have such spirits in them.
DeleteWow wow wow
DeleteI remember my dad gisting us his encounter when he was in secondary school. I still find it hard to believe they are real live mermaids. What I know for sure, for the part of the spiritual husband,dt one na real. Fighting that spirit to leave the person for life isnt easy at all
Do you cater to people who do not believe in Jesus? Nawa o
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteSmh. So u are boldly saying u do not biliv in Jesus??! D way pple brush off Christianity and d bible nowadays has become very alarming. Signs of d last days. I pray God does not let u see me wat u will not be able to say.....wat am I even saying....let Him let u see it, then u will that there are forces of both good and evil. Nd that Jesus is even more real than d air u breath. May God help us all. Stella biko post my comment ooo.....u knw I dnt complain alot but of recent uve uses my comments to cook German food....i dnt like it ooo. Post my comment oo. Thank u love....youre blessed.
DeleteToh we are all spirits.
ReplyDeleteIt will always be well by God's grace.
ReplyDeleteAlrighty. The most important thing one has to know about marriage is that Jesus is the ONLY solid foundation.. If u marriage isn't based on Christ, u will hv no peace. Ladies go for a man who KNOWS God... Else, he'd surely get carried away with the ways of this world. To the poster, ONCE ANYONE HAS GIVEN HIS/HER LIFE TO CHRIST GENUINELY, THEY ARE NO MORE UNDER A CURSE.. ALL THEM SPIRIT HUSBAND /WIFE ETC.. The bible says who the Lord has set free is free indeed.. Are u born again, that's all u need. Go and walk in the reality of what Christ has done for you on the cross!
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Ranting... I can't accept d car cos I'm not sure I'll marry him. Buh I reallyyyyyyy need a car, it's not luxury @ all. End of rant
ReplyDeleteNna mehn too many rules, too many dos n donts yet too many breakups n divorces. Phew!
ReplyDelete@ Alloy Chikezie, biko don't becom a priest of d catholic church ooo. Is it bcos Stella nwunye Korkus isn't faithful n blog "booing" oda dick heads on d blog...lol. Give her anoda chance inugo.
About the adultery part, why does the writer have to emphasise on men doing the cheating. From what I hear, women do as much cheating as men. My friend was recently infected with a STD from his wife, the cheating hoe! Everyone warned him but he didn't want to believe it. Unfortunately he had to learn the hard way. Like the whole old saying goes" you can't turn a hoe into a housewife"
ReplyDeleteAm holding on to that No 4,
ReplyDeleteAm tired of snooping,am tired of cry,am so tired of fighting...am looking up to Jesus to Change and help my husband that believes it's only when you sleep with a girl that you are a cheat but no be from "clap e dey take enter dance"?
He will keep sending love messages and calls and he said he is not cheating.
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteThis is nothing but the TRUTH..
The spiritual realm controls the physical..
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said...
ReplyDeleteThis is nothing but the TRUTH..
The spiritual realm controls the physical..
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Am scared of this institution.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Hmmmmmm..words of wisdom!!!
ReplyDeleteI agree totally buh dias a clause....Marriage is not a perfect institution even tho it was ordained by a perfect God.Infact according to my mum,its an institution no one ever graduates from.
Choose ur spouse carefully to avoid regrets.#shikena
Menh i beg to disagree wit ds above points especially spiritual husband n all dat. Alot of people are in bad marriages because dey either got pregnant or married out of self pity, some desperation n a whole lot of unknown reasons and truth. The truth is if someone is destined for you, u will have peace in ur home. My brethren in the Lord who like to say what God has joined together let no one put asunder. True oh no doubt but IT IS NOT IN ALL CASES THAT THE LORD JOINED TOGETHER. SOMETIMES, IT IS THE DEVIL THAT JOINED TOGETHER. i believe in fighting for a relationship oh buh i dnt blv in fighting for it alone. Sorry to say, sometimes seperation is better sef for the sake n good of ur child or children. Live ur life to impress the creation n not pple. Alot of marriages will lead pple to hell sincerely so instead of dieing in pains, separate in a matured manner cuz obviously u guys r not meant to be, fuck what society, the church or friends will say, we are talking about ur happiness here pipo.
ReplyDeletemake everybody carry him cross.
Menh i disagree wit ds above points especially spiritual husband n all dat. Alot of people are in bad marriages because dey either got pregnant or married out of self pity, some desperation n a whole lot of unknown reasons and truth. The truth is if someone is destined for you, u will have peace in ur home. My brethren in the Lord who like to say what God has joined together let no one put asunder. True oh no doubt but IT IS NOT IN ALL CASES THAT THE LORD JOINED TOGETHER. SOMETIMES, IT IS THE DEVIL THAT JOINED TOGETHER. i believe in fighting for a relationship oh buh i dnt blv in fighting for it alone. Sorry to say, sometimes seperation is better sef for the sake n good of ur child or children. Live ur life to impress the creation n not pple. Alot of marriages will lead pple to hell sincerely so instead of dieing in pains, separate in a matured manner cuz obviously u guys r not meant to be, fuck what society, the church or friends will say, we are talking about ur happiness here pipo.
ReplyDeletemake everybody carry him cross.
Menh i disagree wit ds above points especially spiritual husband n all dat. Alot of people are in bad marriages because dey either got pregnant or married out of self pity, some desperation n a whole lot of unknown reasons and truth. The truth is if someone is destined for you, u will have peace in ur home. My brethren in the Lord who like to say what God has joined together let no one put asunder. True oh no doubt but IT IS NOT IN ALL CASES THAT THE LORD JOINED TOGETHER. SOMETIMES, IT IS THE DEVIL THAT JOINED TOGETHER. i believe in fighting for a relationship oh buh i dnt blv in fighting for it alone. Sorry to say, sometimes seperation is better sef for the sake n good of ur child or children. Live ur life to impress the creator n not pple. Alot of marriages will lead pple to hell sincerely so instead of dieing in pains, separate in a matured manner cuz obviously u guys r not meant to be, fuck what society, the church or friends will say, we are talking about ur happiness here pipo.
ReplyDeletemake everybody carry him cross.
This post is true.. My bf made money last year, when I say money, I mean good MONEY, I was happy for him hoping we would start marriage plans, behold he started changing girls "ASABA GIRLS" I hail them. When my bf started sleeping with ths particular Asaba girl, things started depreciating. He started by paying debts for the girl, from paying for undies and paying rents. My dear, it's was God's intervention ooo. We are still on the process of delivering him from what dat girl put him into. So it's not every girl u see on the street you sleep with. Promiscious girls are everywhere
ReplyDeletePromiscuous girls? What about your Promiscuous bf. See the way you painted him like a saint when he was the one who cheated on u now u are running around with him for deliverance. Better shine your eyes and stop trying to form good gf cos from your story, is only when things are bad that u get to have a faithful bf
DeleteI am not saying hez a saint, but just trying to tell a story about how one loses his blessings cuz of sleeping with random girls.
DeleteWhy sound pained??? Are u one of the Promiscuous girls? Lmao
Actually Rapunzel is not pained. Rather you need to give yourself brain.random girls were sleeping with your boyfriend which in turn makes him a random guy also. Your so-called boyfriend cheated on you and instead of you to leave him and salvage your self worth for a man who will treat you like a queen , you are choosing to die there. Do not blame any girl outside for his misfortune blame him. God might have chosen to slow down his blessing as a punishment for sleeping around and cheating on you!!
DeleteI would advise you to be careful with that boy (cuz that is not a man in my book) because he has shown you his true colors. When you get married he will do worse. He got some cash and changed towards you instead of appreciating you and loving you more. You dey here dey support am.
Low self-esteem is reeking through your post. If you were my sister I would advise you the same.Smh.
Pick up your esteem from the gutter, idiot! And you are there opening your mouth to abuse rapunzel?
DeleteYou won't face your dog of a boyfriend. Dunce!
Girls! Girls!! Girls!!! When una go change?? Oh so its now promiscuous girls?? How about the bf who was sleeping around ni??
DeleteLike my bloggers said, honey u havent realized your worth else u won't post this and you're busy insulting someone trying to make u 'see'.
Pls while ure at the deliverance also castigate him cos his problem is obviously not spiritual but physical.
I'm sure ure one of these desperadoes everywhere that take all manner of sh** from guys all in the name of marriage.
Girls! Girls!! Girls!!! My Dear ur post actually defines u. Your esteem is running on empty. Ure the reason why guys treat women shabilly. Here u are insulting Rapunzel when ure the walking insult yourself! I know ur type! ,Aunty gwegs who must marry by fire by force even if it means convincing yourself that your bf's obvious carnality is spiritual.
DeleteWhile at the deliverance, I hope u also castrated him ni?? Get a life honey!!
angelray4sdk chop knuckle jarey
ReplyDeleteLooking unto God alone
ReplyDeleteNawa o...marriage is far beyond what this poster has said. Nevertheless, prayer is d key and prematial sex is wrong and dis is d cause of spirt hubby n wife
ReplyDeleteTrue talk ,Jesus is the way
ReplyDeleteI strongly believe its not just spiritually dt u prepare, physical factors also play dia role. Well said thou we shouldn't spiritualize everything and forget those nonspiritual things that we r sopoz to do
ReplyDeleteMarriage talk? *big sigh*
ReplyDeleteI don't know why but anytime i hear marriage,my heart beats faster than it should. Guess i am just overreacting.
May God help us all.
This sounds too shallow for me to bother commenting on.
ReplyDeleteBut u jst commented...kikukuki
DeleteIt's well IJN
ReplyDeleteYes I believe that... the spirit world is at war with humans esp our men. Have told so many people about, heard so many messages about it.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is sweet but one has to do away his/her selfishness and allow God take the charge.
Even they're at war with our emotions, reasoning, etc. Where we see red, we call it black all in the name of civilisation.
Nice one @Poster
The one I am suffering from now is not a small thing. I believe my hubby's family is cursed or have a very bad ancestory lineage or something somewhere is after them. I wonder what they did to deserve this nd he hide certain things until we were about to tie the knot thus I couldn't back out from it after five years of courtship. Note he is a good man with a good heart infact a great husband. I love him dearly. We have bin married for years but no children yet. I have taken fertility drugs no effect. I am abt to convince him to follow me to a hospital for proper evaluation. Back to the main story why I believe that there are spiritual things invisible to the human eye. All his brothers were married only one managed to produce a daughter the elderst one. He died mysterious they said it was poison. His father slumped nd died. His oda brother spent 20years in a brazilian prison for carrying drugs. He too died 5years after he was released. Another one is in a mental institution critically mad. My hubby keeps going from one business to another he will attain success in one the next thing he will lose interest nd start another one instead of pushing the one forward. We fight some times nd the causes of these quarels are little things, Things u wouldn't believe would led to a quarrel. Did I mention that all his sisters have children out of wed luck nd some can't maintain their marriage. My brothers nd sisters in SDK we have buried ourselves in prayers including my husband it is by God's grace that we are still alive today nd I believe God will disconnect us from ancestoral foundation. They all know some thing is wrong but they don't what the problem is. My hope lies in God we will keep fighting untill the day I have had enough I will just quite.
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh...
DeleteSomething is definitely wrong!...
ABSOLUTE RUBBISH !!!!
ReplyDeleteGod is always e alpha and omega of every marriage and we shall all experince a pleasant marriage amen
ReplyDeleteMarriage work wen d two involved are good Christian... prayer is d key
ReplyDeleteThis article is a junk, most of ur points are just useless, u called God in almost all the points where in marriage, God has little or nothing to do.
ReplyDeleteAll am saying is people who don't believe in God can have a very successful marriage coz at the end of the day, all what you need to succeed in everything we do is within us and on earth.
First of all, most things in life is luck,or favour, some people are just lucky with relationship, marriage and even wealth while some are not, some will follow all the rules online but won't still get it right while some people get things right without much trying, but I will still enumerate few recipe for a happy marriage or relationship.
1. Self love - If you love yourself, no one will treat u like crap, self confidence comands respect from everybody, self love will make u know when to quit a relationship or marriage.
If you don't love yourself no one will love or respect u, people will take you for granted, u will be insulted, in fact people will only use and dump u easily coz they knw u ain't confident about yourself.
2. Patience - Patience is one of the qualities a person can possess that can make a relationship or marriage work.
We all come from different backgrounds with different ideologies, so tolerating your spouse will go a long way in keeping a union.
3. Dos and Donts clearly spelt out - Make sure you have a list of what you want in ur dream partner, (realistic qualities), so that when you see one u will know, some people are just falling in and out of relationship because they don't really know what they want, if you have someone who possesses your qualities u earlier planned, loving the person and making sacrifices wouldn't be a problem.
4. Luck - Marriage is not for everybody, the earlier we know this fact the better for us all, not everybody will get married, Even though most people would want to.
Just like everybody wanna be rich, but actually, everybody can't.
It's better to be happy single, than relationship with pain.
The price of happiness is so expensive that marriage can pay!
Seek happiness first then other things will come to place.
5.go into relationship with like minded fellow - This is the most important part, just like falling in love with someone with ur qualities, its necessary we love those who has are like minded with ourselve, the relationship will likely be fruitful since u two will love and hate same thing (not all but to a reasonable extent)
6. Know when to quit - You don't need God to tell you if a relationship is bad,when you are no longer happy or no longer yourself in a union then its time to quit,when the disadvantages is now more than the advantages, den u have to call it quit, u dnt have to die loving someone, remember your happiness comes first, if you pray for 40yrs it won't solve the problem of been beaten by ur spouse, u dnt need someone to tell you to quit when ur life is always at risk.
There is no law to a happy marriage coz there are different tales for different folks, but this points above will go a long way though!!!
May God forgive us for the way we spew out words that may condemn us for life, take away ignorance from us and give us the wisdom and the brain to think, reason and comment like human beings and not like animals Amen!
DeleteThis article is a junk, most of ur points are just useless, u called God in almost all the points where in marriage, God has little or nothing to do.
ReplyDeleteAll am saying is people who don't believe in God can have a very successful marriage coz at the end of the day, all what you need to succeed in everything we do is within us and on earth.
First of all, most things in life is luck,or favour, some people are just lucky with relationship, marriage and even wealth while some are not, some will follow all the rules online but won't still get it right while some people get things right without much trying, but I will still enumerate few recipe for a happy marriage or relationship.
1. Self love - If you love yourself, no one will treat u like crap, self confidence comands respect from everybody, self love will make u know when to quit a relationship or marriage.
If you don't love yourself no one will love or respect u, people will take you for granted, u will be insulted, in fact people will only use and dump u easily coz they knw u ain't confident about yourself.
2. Patience - Patience is one of the qualities a person can possess that can make a relationship or marriage work.
We all come from different backgrounds with different ideologies, so tolerating your spouse will go a long way in keeping a union.
3. Dos and Donts clearly spelt out - Make sure you have a list of what you want in ur dream partner, (realistic qualities), so that when you see one u will know, some people are just falling in and out of relationship because they don't really know what they want, if you have someone who possesses your qualities u earlier planned, loving the person and making sacrifices wouldn't be a problem.
4. Luck - Marriage is not for everybody, the earlier we know this fact the better for us all, not everybody will get married, Even though most people would want to.
Just like everybody wanna be rich, but actually, everybody can't.
It's better to be happy single, than relationship with pain.
The price of happiness is so expensive that marriage can pay!
Seek happiness first then other things will come to place.
5.go into relationship with like minded fellow - This is the most important part, just like falling in love with someone with ur qualities, its necessary we love those who has are like minded with ourselve, the relationship will likely be fruitful since u two will love and hate same thing (not all but to a reasonable extent)
6. Know when to quit - You don't need God to tell you if a relationship is bad,when you are no longer happy or no longer yourself in a union then its time to quit,when the disadvantages is now more than the advantages, den u have to call it quit, u dnt have to die loving someone, remember your happiness comes first, if you pray for 40yrs it won't solve the problem of been beaten by ur spouse, u dnt need someone to tell you to quit when ur life is always at risk.
There is no law to a happy marriage coz there are different tales for different folks, but this points above will go a long way though!!!
My soul do th magnify the Lord, and my spirit praise his name, for death could not hold him captive, even in the grave Jesus is Lord, even in the grave Jesus is Lord.
ReplyDeleteI have a spirit husband and that is the reason i have been in relationships every six months. Still battling my foundation using MFM deliverance programs. The spirit husband and ancestral spirits must all die in Jesus name. Amen.
Jesus is Lord over my situation. To all who know there is a problem, MFM is the place to be they have 31 delieverance covenant with God. God help us all.
Did I hear u say "u have a spirit husband" that is a possessive word madam.. sometimes we use our mouth to incur thgs to our selves. And when you are least bothered about these things the better for you.
DeleteFood for thoughts
ReplyDeleteCRAPPPPP?
ReplyDeletePeace of God to you all. Stand and meditate on the truth and all wrong alliance and word will overtake. The old will try to establish but let God's love reign and His truth. Talk more about HIS Truth rather than focus on the past.
ReplyDeleteSome enemies r trembling trying to reconnect.. Sex and soul ties stealing of destiny. Initiation etc.. They complain you pray alot, mind you I never invite them for my prayers oh or tell them. How they do know. Oh you r a woman strong.. Some even do this mind reading shit. Its witchcraft
I have been disgraced by false prophets bc of my naivety..Thank you Jesus CHRIST
I KNOW you can see this as you like to monitor my life. Jesus Christ is Lord.
So how come our ancestors who dedicated their families as sacrifice to idols had long lasting marriages? And don't say its because it started with them because their own ancestors also weren't christian. The truth is there is an increase in broken marriages because wives are now earning more and are better informed. In the past women were told that they were nothing without a man. when a girl was young and single she belonged to her father or brothers and when married she belonged her husband and his brothers,even if she had a farm or was a trader all she had belonged to her husband so she was bound to him for life.
ReplyDeleteNow with education and awareness women are less willing to stay and take nonsense from any 'lord and master' which is what husband essentially were in our ancestors era. However whether this is a good or bad thing depends on each individual marriage and from which partner's perspective you look at it.