An 18-year-old girl killed her mother with a plank during a disagreement that ensued after her mother asked her to prepare dinner for the family on Wednesday evening at Rumuchakara village, Choba, in Obio/Akpor Local Government Area of Rivers State.
A source said the young lady (names withheld) protested that she would not cook and this was said to have infuriated the mother, who then slapped her.
In retaliation, the girl allegedly picked up a plank and smashed her mother’s head with it. Efforts to save the woman’s life failed.
It was gathered that the whereabouts of the girl is unknown since the news of her mother’s death broke yesterday.
Leaders of the community have also passed a decree barring the young girl from ever returning to the community.
*Culled and edited from Vanguard *
*Why are they withholding her name?How will she be caught?News like this is very depressing.What is wrong with the youth of these days?
I pray she is caught and punished accordingly.
That is what marine spirit does ...poor gal !! She needs deliverance more than arrest.
ReplyDeleteNa real marine spirit. End time is upon us. God have mercy
DeletePeople don't know the value of mothers smh no be evil spirit anything she should be dealt with .
DeleteEnd time.
DeleteI feel for the girl. She didn't mean to kill her mother! We should learn how to parent hour children. In those days, our mama never finish the sentence, the food go don ready! Or else!
DeleteParents don't push your kids into provocation......
DeleteI know she didn't mean to kill her mum though,,but why would a child raise something on the mum?? (Devil just use her play candy crush) but na wao.....
I can't even talk back at my mum, highest I will form spirit nd disappear to my room, plus locking of door............later I will come out shinning my 64teeth nd calling her sweet names Lol
Parents re priceless.....even when they push us some times, just smile nd love them more. Funny enough their anger don't last.
Reason I love my parents is that I'm sorry my child isn't a big deal especially when they know they've wronged you. Same applys to us their children.
Life's too short biko. Love nd respect is ultimate!
@stellamaris,what do u mean by she didn't mean to kill her mum?
DeleteWhy on earth wil she retaliate, is slap Na too much?
So she receives slap for disobeying her mum gives her rite to hit her mum weda it's for hitting sake or otherwise.....
Eziokwu!!!
DeletePlease we don't need such human being in our society. Life in prison straight.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
What kind of news is this?its so sad,why ll someone even raise a voice on his/her mother not to talk of a plank????karma awaits you girl.RIP to her mother
DeleteSEE D NAME! OBI AKPOR??? OBI AKPOR???? IT MEANS STRONG HEART! PEOPLE DO NOT KNW HOW POWERFUL NAMES ARE BEFORE THEY BEAR IT! MIND D KIND OF NAMES U BEAR AND GIVE YOUR CHILDREN, DO NOT IGNORE ND CALL IT SUPERSTITIOUS! NAMES GOES PLACES! SEE ALU COMMUNITY, ALU MEANS ABOMINATION. SMH. RIP TO D WOMAN.
ReplyDeleteHer name isn't obi akpor, if you read it carefully, you'll notice you modified the name of the local government from obio/akpor to obi akpor in a bid to suit your unwarranted explanation
DeleteSenseless comment. You think they are Igbo?
DeleteMy friend obi akpor is the name of the local government there in rivers state not the girls name... na so people dey fail exams.. you read but cant assimilate...
DeleteU no just get sence is that the name of the girl or the name of the local government .that's a local government in ph go back and read again before u rush type .I must comment .
DeletePray tell where you saw her name as obi akpo in the write up?
DeleteSEE D NAME! OBI AKPOR??? OBI AKPOR???? IT MEANS STRONG HEART! PEOPLE DO NOT KNW HOW POWERFUL NAMES ARE BEFORE THEY BEAR IT! MIND D KIND OF NAMES U BEAR AND GIVE YOUR CHILDREN, DO NOT IGNORE ND CALL IT SUPERSTITIOUS! NAMES GOES PLACES! SEE ALU COMMUNITY, ALU MEANS ABOMINATION. SMH. RIP TO D WOMAN.
ReplyDeleteDondi the girls name was witheld
DeleteThat word dondi killed me......like it's ok to say it no its completely ok to say it BT when u wrote it out its wickedness got me rolling on the floor. Germany juice chop knuckle cos d person that typed that is a real dondi N my vocabulary just got improved 😂
Deletehawtbrowny signing out!
Lol
Deletemay she rest in peace
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
Nigeria children of nowadays ,who are you to even talk back when my mum speaks .let her run and keep running ,no need to arrest her ,the thought alone that she killed her own mother with her own hands will torment her for the rest of her miserable life ,
ReplyDeleteOMG, she allowed anger to consume her and she became the devil's tool. May the soul of the mother RIP
ReplyDeleteAnger? Anger u say? What on earth will make a child get angry over cooking dinner? She too nor go chop inside? Anger didn't consume her, it's wickedness and lack of self discipline that consumed her. Stupid child.
DeleteReward of anger
ReplyDeleteRIP to the mother
Imagine carrying a child for 9 months and that child sends you to an early grave.
God have mercy
Table Cloth
Anger and pride two bad things
DeleteRaise ur hand against ur own mother? Pride and anger can't even make me do that.
DeleteYes I can shout on her or walk out while she is talking evenue then will go back later to apologise but 'respect to elders' is one thing bible strongly taught me.
Anyways I pity the entire family...both the dead, the living and those on the run. It won't be an easy thing to swallow
What is going on. Yesterday a mother killed her own child. Rapists here and there. Baba God I think we are ready please come.
ReplyDeleteDondi speak for urself!
DeleteMe I am not ready anything.
She a na for heaven I go go give birth to my baby? Pls I want to watch my children grow biko if life dun tire u know what to do. # joke BT seriously I am not ready biko
Hawtbrowny
Lmaooo @ Hawt
DeleteOh my God! What a tragic story.
ReplyDeleteOxygen and Magnesium!
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of kids are being raised nowadays?
During our days, you don't even need to be told. It's your responsibility to prepare meals for the family once you are old enough to cook.
Mothers pls train your kids in the ways of the Lord and they won't depart from it when they grow up. Selah!
Things we hear these days. She can only run but it's a matter of time. Her mum's blood will surely fish her out.
ReplyDeleteHian,nothing we no go hear,so your mother slapped you and you decided to pay her back by also hitting her,i don't think she expected the woman to die but God decided to punish her and now she's scared and has run away,she should be punished yes but this was clearly an accident that she didn't think would go this far,if my mum slaps me i can never think of raising back a finger at her,the only thing i would do is just look her one bad eye because she is my mother and in the end I'll still end doing that thing that dat she wants,may the mother RIP
ReplyDeleteShe has started doing things she shouldnt do....y won't she sprout wings and fly????....two captains cant man one ship.....useless girl...will her mothers' blood let her rest?
ReplyDeleteWitch
ReplyDeleteChineke bara ekwensu mba!!! Chai! She killed her mother cos she was asked to cook? When some pple are looking for what to eat.
ReplyDeleteChineke bara ekwensu mba !!!!!!!!!! Hahahahaahahahahaahhahahahaha
DeletePlank
ReplyDeleteGod forbid.
ReplyDeleteThe youths, we are tired, your parents would force you not with love to do things you don't want to do, give you 6pm curfew at 25, would lock you out of the house. If you come. Home by 7, we are tired, yes there are rebellious youths, but the only way to deal with rebellion is not by forcing, if you move out of your parents house and your not married the society labels you as disrespectful, runs girl, we are all trying to live in this world but this parents won't let you live, they want you to live for them, you can't get a life. The mother doesn't deserve what she got, but hold on do you know how many times she has been beaten over trivial issues, I've been beaten and had my hair shaved off cuz I spent my own money, I grew up to be rebellious, cuz I've been carrying so many ills in my mind, infact I've. Grown up to be scared of men cuz my dad hits me at any slightest provocation that at 25 I pee on my body if he scolds me, still living in fear, I told myself last tym that if he ever touches me again i'll threaten him with a knife, I sleep with a knife and hammer close 2 my bed, after all he has almost broken my head cuz he forgot his key at work and I wasn't home by 5 for him to enter the house, my mum on the other hand adds fire, tells him things I tell her in private and comes to me like she should be my confidant, at 22 they are already asking you to marry whoever, I come from the most comfortable home in this world, but the pushing is out of this world, now I'm more vocal and air my view, if like hit me, for me now it's like "odeshi" if you hit me I grow tougher skin, and because your the parents, the child can't do nothing, what if the mother slapped her and she fell and hit her head and died well this should serve as a lesson....with love and discipline, yes discipline cause hitting a child is animalistic, your teaching her how to beat other people and trust me that's what I do, you can discipline a child not force them, discipline!.....I remember my father would beat me if I don't make dinner for him till he asked him did you marry me or my mother, I cook the whole 365 days in a year, I remember threatening to stab my sibling and when he came home he said what if you killed him by mistake I said what if you killed me when you broke my head with a bottle one time, he was silent, he knew he had raised a demon in disguise......well this is Just me ranting!
ReplyDeleteWow!
DeleteJesus Bia.
DeletePls talk to someone before you do something you will regret
DeleteJesus will fix you my darling...Stay strong and realise that for every WOW there is a bigger WOW!it shall all come to pass soon
DeleteHahahahaha...
DeleteAjo nwa!!,..
Your children will do same to you in my mum's voice....yinmu...
That shit no dey work!!...
Eeeeya....
DeleteIts well My Sis
Nawa, I don't believe in hitting kids or fighting , this your story really got to me, u can be strict without hitting a kid
DeleteWoow sorry luv. Try saving money up and move out to avoid anything bad happening.
DeleteAjo nwa si owerri ba niyo afoo,mum is a late yet i still love her though ,i still dey collect beating from my mum even when i was 25 ,not only beating biting join sef ,right now i wish above all things for her to come back and bite and beat me than imagine i will not see her again .young woman some of us passed through that face ,it will make or unbreak you but i tell you that too will pass away,my trick back then was always giving excuses to stay back in school ,my dear you can relocate if you are done with school .
DeleteI know how u feel...it is well dearie...
DeleteLol, @ the person that said save enough money already did, have enough, I own my own business but have to close up before 6 cuz I have curfew, the person that said for every wow there's a bigger wow I laughed so hard cuz I just watched tokes vlog where she said that, guess you got it from there, @bootylicious diva I'm done with school tried to run another program but guess what my parents made sure it would be so close to them, so I can't live, to the person that said talk to someone I already do that the last person I talked to reminded me how she was there when @ 13 my father carried a block to break my head cuz I didn't pick beans before washing it and cooking until she stopped him, he only went back to thank her that he could have killed out of ange his older now so I just remind him of all the beatings and how it affected me negatively, I ran away from home at 13 cuz I couldn't take it and trust me that run almost destroyed my life (can't go into details) now they want me to marry maybe i'll marry myself, I'm not allowed to go out and mixup n my curfew z 6pm! Just imagine! Anyway like I said ts just me ranting even if ts not a rant post! Tx 4 ur advice!
DeleteHmmm this is very deep dear anonymous. I read though your rant and I see a matured and sensible lady, who could have done irascible things for vengeance but is pulling through and making a great experience out of the awkward situation. I salute ur resilience my dear. You are rebellious at heart but I trust it would make u a better lady. Other kids would have done something silly and blamed it on their parents, but u are pulling through, in a matter of time you'll be out of it.
DeleteI think you should say more to your dad about how the things he's done to you makes u feel. Thing is as they grow older they begin to relax and prolly regret certain ways they've treated their kids. Let him know that one day you'll be the one to cater for him in old age and u do not want to do it begrudgingly but lovingly.
Let him understand that he has created the fear of men in ur heart and it can affect ur future as a wife and mother. Let him understand that u are his future, and whatever he does to u today will determine what would be said of his name. Tell him how you'lld never do to your kids what he's done and is still doing to you.
Let your mother also understand that she betrayed your trust in her as a confidant and mother hen. Let her know that the succour you found in her has been bruised by her actions and inactions when u needed her the most.
As a mom she'll understand the consequences better. After telling them all these, I am more than certain that your words will hit them in a spot that'll keep resounding in their heads until Jesus.. your words will pierce their hardened hearts more than your actions can ever do.
Stella, as I read through her comment it occurred to me that perhaps, you can dedicate a post to situations like this that transpires between parents and their kids. The physical and emotional bashing of kids and the effect on them when they become adults. As a lot of parents are raising rebels and they are obvious to it.
Please dedicate a part of your platform to this very delicate matter. Some parents have unknowingly destroyed the future of their kids by excessive beatings. Some have died while some have been scared for life.
Please let us discuss this and create the awareness. It is similar to domestic violence that happens to women in marriage. I even think that this is worse because it happens to kids and they grow into hardened emotionless adults. Like the success of your DV campaign I think this will blow up too. And you'll be amazed to see how many people will come to share their stories and the effect of what being beaten by their parents have caused them. Which is why a lot of people today have turned out inhumane. It is very important.
Nne if you run your own business ,then you are financially ok ,abeg pack the little you can and relocate .afterall at 18 oyibo children do waka
DeleteJesus!!.,
ReplyDeleteThis is me when I was growing...
I always say no whenever my mum ask me to cook...
I hate cooking then cos we use fire wood...she will chase me and I will run away leaving her to prepare the food...
She will threaten not to give me the food after cooking but will still give...
Obi nne!!,,,
Her usual words is that my children will do the same to me...
Chai mothers!!!...
I can't even exchange words with her talk less of raising my hands on her...I would rather run away...
This girl is finished for killing her mum...
Linda abeg i no be like u ,i love to cook ,but wakaka no dey gree me ,my nick name then is nnokite ewweey fee,mothers sha ,my mum will rant no food for you in this house. Yet yet
DeleteWhatever gave her the effrontery to raise her hand against her mum. Like this way mama. Sweet reach? Aru kwo nwa nazu.
ReplyDeleteI weep for the youths of this nation! How can your parent scold you and you retaliate? It's weird and stupid. I hope she's caught and prosecuted accordingly
ReplyDeleteIkwerre people.
ReplyDeleteREGRET will be her surname now. Don't think she can forgive herself. After carrying you for 9months in her womb, she can't slap you and go free abi? #angermanagement
ReplyDeleteI am not ignoring the main post BT the comments are killing me. BIKO peperempe which one is she can't slap u N go free is it touch N do? 😅
DeleteHawtbrowny
See dia local govt name sef, obi akpor local govt area. Mtchewwwwww ndi obi olugbo.
ReplyDeleteMay I not deliver a child that will end up killing me in Jesus Name, Amen! R.I.P poor woman, she was only correcting her own child, and I hope the child pray seriously not to suffer the same fate. God help us all.
ReplyDeleteHonestly I pray she's caught and punished. I don't joke with my parents especially now that I only have one.
ReplyDeleteCan you beat that she had to plank her mother to death?
ReplyDeletePlease they should not withold her name so she can be found useless girl.
This is all shades of wrong
May the soul of the mother Rip
Wat nonsense....gals of dis dayz wee nor want to enter kitchen...after dey wee want to kip their man....she dis little gal with fish brain now has killed her mom over cooking dinner...hissing
ReplyDeleteIs it poverty that is causing this wickedness?Wicked things are perpetrated as if they' re normal. It's sad.smh. Woman RIP. Naijaflo.com
ReplyDeleteThat girl has placed a curse on herself just because she displayed insolence, why will she not cook dinner???
ReplyDeleteHow is she going to get married when her community has branded her an outcast?
How will she ever live with herself knowing that she killed her own mother?
Hian!!!! I cant deal biko
Sign of end of time.
ReplyDeleteHow can a young girl of 18 years retaliate when the mother slap her. Hope the NPF rises to the occasion and bring the killer girl to book very soon.
She didnt want to cook dinner for her mum and family but if na for boy house the idiot no go even open mouth she would have orishirishi set on the table. Shame on her abeg lets hear her name joor so the public will be on the lookout for her. Her mumu is ripe and needs to be plucked.
ReplyDeleteAlu!
ReplyDeleteGirls of nowadays.They are very disrespectful. No wonder they don't make good wives. I don't blame men for cheating on them.
ReplyDeleteAbeg if a man has no morals he doesn't have
DeleteWhen women were more respectful adultery didn't exist abi? Abeg
So dis is wat to tell urself whenever u cheat on ur woman....or if u r a girl,,when u r cheated on......ur own "mumuism" even worse pass dis yeye girl own.....#hiss....whatever makes u sleep at nyt
DeleteDevil is seriously @ work. To steal,kill and destroy. Peeps accept JESUS!
ReplyDeleteDevil is seriously @ work. To steal,kill and destroy. Peeps accept JESUS!
ReplyDeleteEnd times..
ReplyDeleteI'm not too surprised..I stayed in rumuchakara for 5 years as a student in uniport..to be honest,the children there are something else. Very rude and disrespectful. And majority of them are born by teenage girls. In the first compound I stayed,a 14 year old girl had a child,was living with the mother who had her when she was also a teenager. This mother was also staying with her own mother,who is less than 40. This 14 year old girl once slapped her grandmother (the 40 year old),cos she didn't want to go to the market..I mean, its disheartening..ask anybody from Rivers,they will tell you that most of the children there are disrespectful..and many of them don't go to church..church for help dem small..at least If the fear of God dey,it will help..I once told a teenager in my compound to go with me to church,the next thing I hear na THUNDER FIRE YOU DIA..see me o
ReplyDeleteU re right Nora. U need to see the way my cousins speak to their parents, no respect at all n they live in PH.
DeleteI wanted to correct u that Its not only in Rumuchakara dAt dey have Disprespectful Youth Buh den i read on...
DeleteNne eh,most PH Youth eh....n'a something else!
My dear eh,Odiegwu....
D only thing dey "pass well well" na Sexual Promiscuity.
I just hope dAt dose on d right path wil Rise and Make à Big différence in deir society esp as regards d Youth.
Biko what street in okwuta
DeleteThat's ikwere people for you.
DeleteVery promiscuous.
Just few, I mean very few good ones
Asnn ehh.those children from rivers tear eye foolishly.no respect atall.
DeleteNot Okwuta o..Rumuchakara in Choba,the tarred road by the right, before you get to Uniport Choba campus gate..I dey go there now sef to see weda I fit gather small aproko from my hairdresser
DeleteWhen i was growing up i travelled to port -harcourt with my mum from lagos to spend my vacation with my cousins ,omo the few weeks i spent in ph i know we lagos children over get respect ,abi was it when i went to owerri and warri ,you see an 11 years old talking back at their mother or father or older ones ,omo i fear fear ,lagos kids we rock jareeh
DeleteYou just nailed it. Most Choba children/teenagers are very rude and disrespectful, their parents can't even discipline them very well. In as much as I love children I don't mingle with them because I hate the way they relate with their parents. I believe this wasn't the first time the teenager exchanged blows with her mum. May God deliver us from evil.
DeleteChaai! children of nowadays their matter tire person.... parents should ensure they instill discipline in their children from childhood, this girl has always been insolent, i'm sure this isn't the first time she's hitting her mother. I remeber my mom, you dare not look at her face when she's scolding you talk more of talking back...
ReplyDeleteEvery day sad news
ReplyDeleteShe will regret this for the rest of her life
The world is coming to an end.
ReplyDeleteShe'll carry the curse forever. Killing your mum just like that. Fiaaa
ReplyDeleteNa wah oh!
ReplyDeleteRIP to the dead but seriously does it mean that parents can't caution their kids? what is this world turning to? Though the harm has been done but i believe that d girl's parents did not start on time to discipline their children because if they did, the girl won't have had the gut to raise her hands on her MOTHER talk more of using a weapon.
ReplyDeleteNawa o for all these children from rivers,akwaibom, warri,delta,una eye too dey tear.just negodu.r we sure say the girl never kpai herself too??
ReplyDeleteAnd gals from your stupid swagless hairy nna mehn igbo clans are better right. All these hairy uncultured animals are talking too.... okponu of Africa
DeleteChaii,law of karma dey na.her own children go scatter her too.
ReplyDeleteShe never expected that her actions will lead to d death of her mother. She has a curse on herself. May God forgive her n RIP to the dead.
ReplyDelete@anon 10:3, what are u saying with your mouth, you think say na only you dey flog when growing up, our uncle then, that is my mom brother, uses teargas on us, when punishing us( police man) my mom will be watching us,most teenagers went through your situation, if not even worst, why I no kill my mom. At old age parents get to realise there mistakes or try to repeat of there sins, so you have to let go of something and move on, or else the more you keep it In heart, the more it becos a load for you.. right now that I am married, I now know what my mom was passing thru as a widow, it is not easy to rise children alone, atimes it is very frustrating, don't worry you will get married and understand. Pls anon 10:3 don't turn your self to a demon, it will affect years to come. Least I forget, My uncle now has turn born again, we still talk alot, he is coming to my house dis Christmas with his children from Indonesia, well that is life for you, learn how to forgive and forget and move on from the past, it is not easy, but you need to try. Thanks
ReplyDeleteMurderer, English don die for your hand.
DeleteBTW did you say teargas and your mama go dey watch
hehehehe.
DeleteTeargas?.
hehehererrrere
Sooooo sad, Foundation is very important to in the life of every child, May her so rest in perfect peace.just short of words, this our generation.SMH
ReplyDeleteI am not sure what the dynamics of this household was, seems like there was ongoing power struggles. I am almost certain when the daughter hit the mom she did not expect her to die, hitting anyone with an object to the head is never a wise decision. This family is shattered and the guilt of knowing you killed your mother will live with that daughter forever. This is an extremely sad and depressing situation.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteTeargas and your mother was watching? What manner of wickedness is that? That's child abuse and not normal.....there are so many children who turned out right without that kind of wickedness in the name of discipline.....hitting your parents is a no no
ReplyDeleteEvery mother is not great. Just that u know. And I don't support any murder.
ReplyDeleteMay the mother RIP. On the other hand, what is the solution to the tremendous hurt, anger and violence in Naija society, starting from the homes? It's probable this was not the first time the young woman was hit/assaulted by an adult figure meant to protect her and show love. Perhaps, this was the proverbial last straw that broke the camels back. So, parents and guardians need to role model peaceful and successful r/ships both in words and actions within the homefront. To do otherwise, means continually reading sad news like this from the homes, schools, workplaces and even on the roads between a rogue policeman and unfortunate citizens. Charity begins at home. Naijas need to demonstrate this starting with oneself if the larger culture is ever expected to be kinder and humane. Just saying.
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